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@rajveer_ahir

Жыл бұрын

Though I'm not much convinced but there is some amount of truth in what you are saying.

@noblecause7367

Жыл бұрын

Sir aap bilkul sahi keh rhe hai mai bhi bahut achhe se smjh chuka hu ki Marriage, Family, Children ki insan ko kitni jyada zaroorat h....West walon ne toh BF, GF k culture se khud ko brbaad kr lia.....

@007_Sun_Tzu

Жыл бұрын

Sir love jihad aur religious conversion wale jo jabardasti Hinduo ko fasa rahe h wo point bhi touch karna tha ..

@richamehrotra2762

Жыл бұрын

Very well explained sir

@pandorasbox1802

11 ай бұрын

Tujhe shadi karna Hai to Kar.. Ek se nahin mann bharta hai to ek aur kar le.. Doosaron ki zindagi kyon kharab karna chahta hai...

I'm 42 got married when I was 25.....i married because everyone was doing it and then my career is ruined, my freedom is gone, no bank balance, i tried to make everyone happy but I am the one who didn't make her happy......life is looking like a punishment now.

@Im-not-alone-Im-full-of-myself

7 ай бұрын

i am the one who did not made her happy 🤣

@PreetiSri

7 ай бұрын

@@Im-not-alone-Im-full-of-myself it means lack of self-love.... hope you understand what I meant to say.

@Im-not-alone-Im-full-of-myself

7 ай бұрын

@@PreetiSri okay, how to self love?

@justathinker8669

6 ай бұрын

In India everyone pushes for "Shaadi Kar lo, shaadi kar lo" but no one teaches how to manage relationship

@Im-not-alone-Im-full-of-myself

6 ай бұрын

@@justathinker8669 in pak, no one really pushes they just do their own business but they pushes for job to survive as middle-class

Guruji.. I agree with u.. I got married at 32.i have seen below as well.Aapne isme ye points nhi btaye.. 1. Siblings aapke paise pe nazar rakhte h. 2. Aapke rishte taar aapko characterless declare kat dete h. 3. Aap dusare ke bache pe paisa karchte h.. 4. None of the relative let their kids be with u.. Be of child abuse doubt 5. Single people think their parents will live forever. When the parents are in actual need only married people can help.. As in case of hospitalization , we need support.

@vikasahlawat01

Жыл бұрын

So accurate you are...me too got married at age of 33 thankfully

@publictesting8771

Жыл бұрын

If you get mentally sick wife then you cannot leave her, but however if you are mentally sick then your wife will leave you and get married to a better person. . . She will also take your alimony money. . . The chances of this happening to you is NEVER ZERO. . . This can happen to rich people or poor people. . . For real life experience kindly visit near by civil court. . .

@dericksoans7138

Жыл бұрын

Couldn't understand point 3. Can u pls enlighten me ?

@happygolucky9595

Жыл бұрын

All points are 💯.

@sonikadhiman3805

Жыл бұрын

@@dericksoans7138 .. Because u dont have ur own kids.. U end up spending on other kids.. Which became a habit late

What he missed : Peace : sometimes marriage can be very disturbing Astrology and karma : few people are not destined to be married, even if they marry, it is not successful due to prarapdha. Cheating : extra martial affairs are at all time high Society : if you are rich, no one will point fingers at u. Friends : yes, friends will not identify with you after 35, he is right. Looser : depends upon your life situations, sometimes situation is so tough that people choose not to marry, so no one is looser Higher goal : mukti, moksha Uncertainty : what if spouse dies at the age of 50 Kids : kids don't care these days, they just give outside support Death : everyone has to die alone. After 42 : he is right, if you are not engaged in some activity and not mentally strong, things can be v bad. Conclusion, many people don't marry coz of reasons and not coz they want to live a easy life. So saying looser to someone who is not married is not right. All points he mentioned are correct though. PS : be married to life, have goals, be happy, be strong, don't care how society judge you and most importantly be highly spiritual If you are not getting married, don't indulge in one night stands and hookups.

@anjalipatwal4900

Жыл бұрын

Agree with everything you said. I don't understand why humans have to live a life they don't want just so that society will accept them!

@anujbhandari1221

Жыл бұрын

@@sanskritiverma8010 Yes death, coz the biggest fear singles will have is to die alone. I never interpreted it wrong, it takes lot of wisdom to understand this point. Situations : eg : financial crunch, no high paying job, family burden, family in loan, no one to guide, sisters marriage, disease in family, some disease to your own self where you can think it is better to be single than to burden your partner. Higher goal : that is why I mentioned in post conclusion section not to indulge in hookups and drinking. It is easy to make funny faces in your reply but difficult to understand others.

@sonalishewale5087

Жыл бұрын

Very true 😊🧘🙏👍

@varunmittal3617

Жыл бұрын

@@sanskritiverma8010 Things will change as society changes there is reason US Europe folks are filled in rishi kash india has become 1st in spritual tourism. China Japan underestimate Magic of buddh or indian philosophy due to prejudice otherwise they would land here as well. India ke liye ye time new nhi hai sone ki chidiya tha us time khujaro temple vala kam bhi hota and Adi Shankaracharyaji bhi the.

@diauser3327

Жыл бұрын

so nice

Remember guys - society will take care of itself, you should take care of yourself first.

One major reason for not getting married is responsibilities and fear of partner's cheating

@amirahkaiser6199

Жыл бұрын

Most of such people carry some unhealed trauma of abandonment and betrayal from the past

@sreyanshuchaterjee3962

Жыл бұрын

@@amirahkaiser6199 this channel has enough leverage to create manage marriage or dating match as a service. I am sure many young souls may find a common ground to hear this man and build a future.

@amirahkaiser6199

Жыл бұрын

@@sreyanshuchaterjee3962 I’m a clinical psychologist working in a fairly big organisation with new adults. I find a lot of what he says very relevant.

@sreyanshuchaterjee3962

Жыл бұрын

@@amirahkaiser6199 yes I hear you, but my point was, there are plenty of single broken or arrogant or confused/lost folks willing to hear this man out. There is no match making service that caters ro such people. Matrimonial is about a trade and barter. Tinder is about casual fiddling. Other apps are mere lack of effort. Most men feel uneasy approaching a woman as a stranger. Eventually women take the pick and rejection to men is a way of life. Men aren't stepping up off late.

@amirahkaiser6199

Жыл бұрын

@@sreyanshuchaterjee3962 It’s not that simple as you think. Indian Men aren’t single Coz they have trouble asking women out. Men want to be single because they find the hookup culture more convenient. Marriage (Monogamy) ans financial responsibility is not appealing anymore.

We men are always treated like an ATM 🏧 machine we won't loose anything if we don't marry.

@rakhisaini5561

Жыл бұрын

Bro...marry a girl who is financially independent. Don't fall ONLY for beauty...then .u will be never feel like what you have said

@harkamalsingh6499

9 ай бұрын

People will start treating you like looser once you cross 30. It's happening with me. Sangos ji is right. I'm earning 5x more than a guy who is married. But people gives him more respect.

@rohanchauhan7855

8 ай бұрын

Bullishit comment. Your inability to find a good girl is your problem First be secure mentally then only you will be able to find a good secure girl Yeh he sochta rahega toh kaise milege? Tu matlb yeh bolna chahta hai ke teri life mei jitni ladkiya hai sab apne husband ya boyfriend ke paise ke peechey he hai? Ask this question to your mom sister and friends Then come back to me

@wowser2153

6 ай бұрын

Marry working woman

@wowser2153

6 ай бұрын

@@harkamalsingh6499 people respect married man because he has the spine to take responsibility of wife and children

Exactly Marriage is a trap. Girls want money from husband always rather than anything. I have gone tough times by marrying. My mother and wife always fought bitterly and with my low salary and stress in Mumbai I had gone mad.

@dr.ankita4336

10 ай бұрын

gori biwi ka chakkar😂

@ninasharma1356

6 ай бұрын

Exactly! Free ka khana sabko khana hai job karna is very hard

@divyanshdwivedi9751

4 ай бұрын

Now you are single or what

@vanshikakaushik6497

Ай бұрын

​@@ninasharma1356Not hard than what a homemaker does working since last 2.5 years

Sir, I am 40+ single woman and worked hard to be where I am now professionally. I agree with you when you say parents should not be troubled, therefore the moment I became independent at 28 started staying on my own.

@manikyum

Жыл бұрын

Stop deceiving yourself. Get married you still have time, though late.

@sudeshnaatarot

Жыл бұрын

I am totally agree with u....if u don't earn money.... earn money important

@ayuship2022

Жыл бұрын

Mam very nice I respect women who didn’t get married

@manabendra62

Жыл бұрын

@@ayuship2022 what will happen to her at 85

@shivamagrawal521

Жыл бұрын

@@manabendra62 forget 85 every human being need emotional support at every age of life . That support comes from your partner , children , grand children . Human is on earth from millions of years and we can't change the law of Nature

Life is not fair to anyone be it single or married , people change and they do in any phase of life , its hard to believe anyone blindly, the only thing which i feel being married gives you is children . Else life is tough till end for anyone in the world

@sonalishewale5087

Жыл бұрын

True that 🙏👍🧘

@mr.phantom6969

Жыл бұрын

If you think like this It's better to not marry Marriage is far beyond just children Hope you get to know that after a few years

I am 20 college student 😂but your lecture so interesting rather than college lecture 🙏😂

@naruti3992

Жыл бұрын

Me 19 stilll taking knowledge 👌👌👌🦍

@gn6037

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@mr.phantom6969

Жыл бұрын

I am 19 But I will keep this knowledge for future

@godman6591

11 ай бұрын

same bro

36 and unmarried and really proud of it. When I see my friends hiring lawyers for divorce cases and go to prison in false cases. Paying alimony every month for few months of marriage and no other benefit... I follow my hobbies, ride, travel and living my best life. When I show my travel pics to my married friends, reaction on their face is just priceless... 😊

@moonislam8634

4 ай бұрын

Bro can I connect to you and be friends

@InMTrader

3 ай бұрын

Answer this in 10yrs

@bollywoodmusicnetwork2501

2 ай бұрын

❤

@nishitoshthakur7130

2 ай бұрын

@@InMTrader someone said the same 10 years ago.... I don't see anything changing..

@Swarajya123

2 ай бұрын

@@nishitoshthakur7130 tum InMtrader se shaadi kar lo😀

Sir I am single women 41 Yr old professional decent, want to get married but did not get partner. So accepted and is inclined more spiritual, goals n purpose of life.

@Sindabadthesailor

7 ай бұрын

Same here... I have also decided that I will focus only on improving myself and stay away from marriage.

@11BitterSweet11

4 ай бұрын

Tum dono hi karlo na connect hogye ho

@divyanshdwivedi9751

4 ай бұрын

​@@11BitterSweet11😂😂

@riteshsahu1981

3 ай бұрын

​@@11BitterSweet11 😂😂

@pratikpatil6342

Ай бұрын

Bramhacharya is the way!

Sir, family(siblings) bhi misuse krti h unmarried logo ka. Siblings do not want the working man or woman to get married because of their greed of money and property

@nv2224

Жыл бұрын

Sirf siblings hi nahi, parents bhi aise hote hai...

@yachanamasih7912

Жыл бұрын

​@@nv2224 true..... I have come to know of such parents recently

@satishchauhan15

11 ай бұрын

Yes

@MukeshKumar-yx9xc

11 ай бұрын

Yes

Sir aapne karli bahut achi baat hai ...aap "bahubali" ho...hum " looser" hi ache😂.

@AyushiChand01

Жыл бұрын

ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs☝️ғᴏʀ ᴡᴀᴛᴄʜɪɴɢ☝️ ғᴏʀ ᴍᴇɴᴛᴏʀsʜɪᴘ, ɪɴғᴏʀᴍᴀᴛɪᴏɴ ᴀɴᴅ ɢᴜɪᴅᴀɴᴄᴇs ᴡʜᴀsᴀᴘ ᴍᴇ ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ..

@voyager1108

Жыл бұрын

Sai bola

@Nareshb_97

3 ай бұрын

Right

I am 49 and not married. This is the best decision of my life.

@biswajitsahoo4699

9 ай бұрын

Are you Boy or girl

@cannibalronny7314

9 ай бұрын

Same here best decision of my life

@vikasz2

9 ай бұрын

@@cannibalronny7314 how do you know it is best ? Have you ever been married?

@cannibalronny7314

9 ай бұрын

@@vikasz2 why should I do something which I know for a fact will be an horrible idea, you don't want to jump in to fire beforehand to know how much will it pain, will you?

@shayanpanjwani4364

9 ай бұрын

angur khatte......tell me your insta ID.....

When a person (a boy or a girl) gets married, it opens a different world for them. You have to listen to your spouse's opinion which can be different from yours. Many habits get changed. You see your parents/ siblings from a different point of view. You taste different foods ( even from the same cast) you develop a lot of patience. No other institution can teach this. Marriage whether it is happy or sad, it gives you growth.

@sreenathatirunarayanapura9296

8 ай бұрын

Growth means either spiritually or socially If you get good understanding and adjusting wife you will see heaven else you see hell and become spiritual or Sanyasi..

@kattarshwetabhbhakt6785

6 ай бұрын

And where are you going to put that growth? In your resume? Why do we see everything in terms of quantity? My father has to tolerate a bad marriage.

@ninanani4085

6 ай бұрын

​@@sreenathatirunarayanapura9296girls also feel same. You too have to walk half way.

@surojeetchatterji9966

4 ай бұрын

​​@@ninanani4085 girls needs to leave their manipulative & demanding nature if they want to make happy families. A man is not ur toy that u will demand whether he will keep beard or clean shave or wear which color underwear on which day. Whether he will play tennis or golf or table tennis or badminton or go to gym or yoga its completely his wish, girls shouldn't dictate.

@surojeetchatterji9966

2 ай бұрын

@@Anisha66666 typical papa ki pari & chapri angel priya mentality.

I’m 40 years old and it was a conscious decision of mine to never marry .My parents had constant fights in their marriage which resulted in me feel bitter about such a relationship for myself so I banned the idea a long time ago . They were also unreasonably strict and controlling with me which made me get into depression in my teenage years which stayed for a very long time . I promised myself that I would focus on living a fulfilling life alone. I do sometimes feel lonely and out of place because none of my friends are unmarried and don’t hangout with me because they can’t relate with me anymore but even then , that doesn’t motivate me to marry someone because if it turns out to be bad , I’d be heart broken to a point where I’d not even want to live anymore . I focus on indulging in simple and fun activities with a lot of freedom and am not answerable to anyone . I do think sometimes that I could have become a great husband and father and an overall a good family man but I simply don’t want to risk getting into a wrong relationship. But all said , your video has somehow motivated me to not ditch the idea of marriage completely . I thank you for your perspective and it felt like you were talking directly to me .

@sukhpreetgrewal5884

8 ай бұрын

Understandable

@khushik9862

8 ай бұрын

same here...👍

@rohanchauhan7855

8 ай бұрын

You are not getting married because of someone's wrong decision So that means you are influenced by others You haven't tried on you own I know the damage ut have done to you while growing up But being afraid of not getting married is not a good decision in my opinion

@rohanchauhan7855

8 ай бұрын

​@@khushik9862you must not be compatible or the guys you must have dated were toxic There are good people out there Change your group or friends

@k1ansh307

7 ай бұрын

You are not alone in this. Millions are in the same boat, today even in a super traditional country like India, etc. I would just wish and pray with my all heart that anyone, married or unmarried anyhow put some effort and time towards being curious and studying, educating and understanding the well established and grounding, fulfilling and liberating spiritual wisdom traditions, especially of the East. After some honest years in this endeavor mostly most of them are so much more enlightened and stabilized inwardly then to make further more mature and fruitful life decisions and moves and many times encounter the greatest Gifts, unimagible..... And, for the vlog, well, sir I am really pleased and appreciative of the pretty as unusual a social topic as a normal vlogger would even ever get the wisps of such thoughts of, let alone the pressing concerns to personally take the trouble to present to the public.. though I am for myself shall not condone or condemn any of your views, here. Thankyou 💐💐🙏👏👏👏

I got married. Lived with husband for 21 years. Bittersweet relation. We used to fought too a lot but he passed away a month ago.. to avoid getting attached to people. I was thinking I will not marry in my next birth if I am born as a human. Too hard to cope up after losing a loved one

@zeeshan.khan1993

6 ай бұрын

Last line gave me sharp headache

@explorer7913

6 ай бұрын

apart from bad marriage i am also afraid of this

@budhrajarahul3

2 ай бұрын

Is, budhe ko b ye bat smjao koi.. Phle to rltnshp ya shadi halwa nhi hoti.. Fir agr nhi work kia to bht pain hta h. .. Shuru me sb cool lgta h bas bad me l lag jate hain

What about people who got married to the wrong person and the marriage didn't work out? You talk about people feeling scared of getting caught up in legal cases after marriage, what if those fears were actually true? Would love to hear some thoughts on those.

@radhathakur4697

11 ай бұрын

Correctly said.......there are men also being tortured .......I know a family their son is a child specialist....girls rejecting him bcoz be is a veg and teetotaller......

@VikramjitSingh924

8 ай бұрын

Ye budhao kabhi ye accept nahi karega, men are in denial mode whereas all women came together and worked practically and because of which we have biased anti men marriage laws, hum mard aise iss budhao ke jaise sirf denial mode pe hee rahenge islye ajh hum weaker legal position mei hai.

@nsd860

7 ай бұрын

@@VikramjitSingh924 listen kid , he mentioned about everything. point is he said what a man or woman is today they will change there is nothing called right. and percentage of false case is too less compared to succeful marriage consider your family .

@VikramjitSingh924

7 ай бұрын

@@nsd860 abbhe mand buddhi andhe vivah bhakt pehle jaake data dekh last 10 years mei India mei divorce rate kitne percent barhi hai. Aur gaddhe ye hamare parents ke generation ki ladkiya nahi hai gen Z ki ladkiya hai. Itna dimag khali hai kya hamare parents ko gen Z ke couples ke saat compare kar raha hai tu🤣🤣🤣. Tereko special treatment chahiye.

@tushar4820

5 ай бұрын

​@@nsd860 apni aisi taise kara

Sir enjoyment ke definition aur perception alag ho sakte hai... samaj ki mansikta badalni jaruri hai instead of advising people to adjust and fit their decisions as per society norms ... if something is going on for years it doesn't mean it is right ...

@parimalanarayankeri3374

Жыл бұрын

Mam, If you refer to the content he always says that his advice is applicable for 99% people, who generally abide by societal norms. Naturally, the path of extraordinary people will differ. But that doesn't mean that his advice is not relevant...

@doncorleone3901

Жыл бұрын

Maam if you are so happy, why justify it with so many comments? We are all products of our choices. You made yours, and so you will enjoy the fruits of that. Same with me or anyone else. Somehow people who make less common choices tend to think the whole world is out to get them and is thinking about them and judging them non-stop. Relax, nobody gives a flying fk. Nobody is even giving a fleeting thought because people are busy living their lives

@piyushnarayan9342

Жыл бұрын

Agar aapko itni hi acchi lagti aapki zindagi toh app nahi karte itne saree comments on the video XD and you are offended because of the truth in this video don't deny it

@nishitsingh846

Жыл бұрын

Shivpuran me Raja Daksh ka brahmaji se samwad padho, samajh me aa jayega vivah kyu jaruri hai, "jo chalta aa raha hai use karna jaruri nahi hai" - ye baat bolne wale manmarji karte hai or manmarji karne walo ka haal bahut bura hota hai

@missionknowledgepur4010

Жыл бұрын

U seems frustrated with ur life u r commented multiple times with conflicting points 😂😂😂😤😤

People always give you importance when you are financially secured and successful, irrespective of marital status.

Sir ji, you're a reformer indeed! 🙂🙏We wish you get awards and more than that sooner. 😊

Commenting to make this up on algorithm. Hard hitting reality...and beautifully explained...🔥💯 Near ones are aware of this...bt sometimes cant articulate without hurting the person... and others dont care...so some 3rd party had to do break this...i glad u did this...BRAVE...👌👌

I am 55 and unmarried but i am happy

Joh ladki hum mein chahiye usse hum nahi chahiye; aur jisse hum chahiye woh kisko chahiye Akshay Kumar ( Movie: Garam Masala ) 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@chingariapkaapnaraju

2 ай бұрын

Real truth best dialogue for single person 😂😂😂😂

@MusicalVats23

2 ай бұрын

Yhich to saala masla h 😆

I'm not married and this has been the best decision in my life. I'm 7 years old.

Im an Indian woman, got married at 37 (1st marriage). It is very difficult socially to live in India with dignity if a woman is not married by a certain age. Your family members will take you for granted, use you for all their personal/medical/social/financial reasons. The later the marriage, more the chances that you will have to deal with the partner's problems. Don't try to reinvent the wheel.

@InMTrader

3 ай бұрын

Agreed. My suggestion conceive baby fast

good advice. Each and every boy or girl getting married to see your other videos to overcome the other problems that they anticipate will come up. Remember marriage is good as long as you as a young person take the responsibility of being an adult and look after each other.

Be a Brahmachari.

@RandomGuy-hv7tb

Жыл бұрын

❤️

@Sarika428

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

@surajmishra5226

Жыл бұрын

@@Sarika428 What's there to laugh in it

@Sarika428

Жыл бұрын

@@surajmishra5226 sir ne itni der tk gyan diya uske baad bhi apka conclusion sunkr. 😂

@Deb_deCoder

Жыл бұрын

@@surajmishra5226 don't be a brahmachari.. earn money and be open for casual or short-term relationships.. in this way you won't feel you missed something in life.. also you will keep your peace and sanity

I’m a doctor and I want to share from my studies that when you live alone there is a significant increase in psychological issues as compared to when you have a partner baki apko jaisa theek lage kro

@rahulmore4584

11 ай бұрын

No but many Indian monks from sanatan, Buddhism, Jainism live there life alone.. Kitne ko depression hua aur suicide ki.. Aur kitne criminal activity me evolve hue.. To aapki study to yaha fail ho jaati hai..

@rahulmore4584

10 ай бұрын

@@2.0JUSTDOIT hmm.. Wo bhi barabar hai.. Yeh data normal logo ka hai..

@fortuner1122

7 ай бұрын

You mean to say that Sadhus are hatela 😂

@_dyson

6 ай бұрын

Jo log by choice horhe hai woh utna nhi hote i guess

@ninanani4085

6 ай бұрын

​@@rahulmore4584they have diff purpose in life. They do dhyam, pooja. They dont keep worldly expectations. So depression is not for them.

The institution of marriage is not natural and it can never be a happy feeling when your freedom is sacrificed sometimes 100% so i believe living in relationship is the best way to live your life since both the partners are under constant feeling that nobody gains from a fallen out relationship and life will go on without the courts and the police involved ! Hit like if you agree with me !

Very nicely explained Sir…so true n an eye opener 👍..thank u so much for sharing 🙏🙏

AISA KUCHH NAHI SAHIB MAIN 52 HOON OR AAM AADMI SE YANI K SHADI SHUDA AAPKI ZUBANI MAIN KAHEEN ZIYADA ENJOY KARTA HOON, LEKIN AISA BHI NAHI K KARNA NAHI CHAHTA LEKIN ENJOYMENT K LIYE SHADI SHUDA HONA COMPULSION NAHI.

@wolfwarrior2558

Жыл бұрын

Bhai aap khush ho I can understand. But how you can say u r more happier than others (married people) it depends on from which you r comparing.

i m 25 guruji and ur talk is very full of wisdom.🙌🙏

Post modern society ka ek result hai logoka shaadi se biswas uth jana.. iska koi kuch nhi karsakte. Developed economies me toh majority hi shaadi nhi karna chahte. even in asian countries like Japan, S Korea, China. Aaj ki duniya mein Shaadi ka practical utility bhot kam hochuka hai pehle ke comparison se yeh toh accept karna hi hoga. Societal status ke liye shaadi krna makes no sense at all. As a society we should be more accepting towards bachelors, aap toh bilkul ulta leke jaa rahe ho.😂😂😂

@Deb_deCoder

Жыл бұрын

Insaan hi ulta h kya kare

@abcxyz3122

11 ай бұрын

Arey old school kuch nhi , ye race m age chalra hai , to isko lgta hai sab hojata hai !!! Shadi karke kya karna hai . Puri life vahi nikal jayegi..Lower middle household m..

I am 92 and not married. Best decision of my life. 👨🏼‍🦳

@biswajitsahoo4699

7 ай бұрын

Jhut kyon bol rahe ho

@varshajogriya

7 ай бұрын

​@@biswajitsahoo4699😂😂😂

@Swarajya123

3 ай бұрын

​@@biswajitsahoo4699sach bol rahe he Jake dekh le😂

@bollywoodmusicnetwork2501

2 ай бұрын

Very good 👍

@hellraiser3448

2 ай бұрын

​@@biswajitsahoo4699 😂😂

This video is totally on practical reality based. Sir you gave us very eye opening advice, some bitter truths and tore the pieces of cloths. Ultimate advices beyond that no one can say anything practical too that extent.

I am 45....single.....By Gods grace life is meaningful

So much of truth and reality revealed in a single video. These kind of facts are usually only said by parents , or close family friend's parents. Thank you sir for sharing .

Mera bhi abhi tak yahi Manna tha k jab right partner milegi tabhi shadi karenge aj ye video dekhne k baad mera ye myth khatam ho gaya, thank you for this eye opening video🙏

जी हां में 50साल का हूं और चार साल पहले तलाक हुआ हे और में बहुत सुखी जीवन जी रहा हूं। और सोचता हु कि अगर में शादी के चक्र में ना फसा होता तो अच्छा होता। हर चीज के फायदे और नुकसान हे इसी प्रकार शादी करने और न करने के भी फायदे और नुकसान हे। ये आप पर निर्भर करता है कि आप कोन सा फायदा और नुकसान पसंद करते हो। जैसे कुछ लोग तलक होने पर टूट जाते हैं और कुछ लोग नया जीवन मेहसूस करते हैं

@divyanshdwivedi9751

4 ай бұрын

46 pe talak bhai shab puri jawani barbad hogayi

@Swarajya123

3 ай бұрын

​@divyanshdwivedi9751😂😂😂

@Ridebmxindia

Ай бұрын

Yesssssssss LETS GOOOO हरी ॐ

Great insight 🙏🏼 thank you Sir!

I can relate to most of your comments and examples, like your videos related to life, real estate, middle class. Following you since 5-6 months and have become a fan. Please keep going.

Good analysis and nicely explained.... Got answers to many dilemmas, thanks.

@Slade69

Ай бұрын

Isko analysis nh bolte .. ese balcony wala uncle advice ghar ghar me mil jayega

It's completely ur choice to enter the institution of marriage or not,just for social validity & security. In india it's outrated. Happiness doesn't at all depends upon marriage but only if u r spiritual.

Marriage is a trap, don't fall in this trap, I realized this hard way. After marriage all my relationship changed, my parents are no longer the same parents and my wife treats me like a ATM. Everyone wants a part in my salary like a group of vultures wants a dead animal flesh. My wife side and my parents continuously fight with each other over management of kitchen, cleanliness, food and spits poison in my ears against each other and advise me not to spend my salary on the other side and stay vigilant. For sometime I tried to bridge the gap but soon to realize that this gap can't be bridged and things gotten worse. I don't understand the usefulness of such a relationship that brings so much bitterness. It is better to stay single rather than living with misery throughout your life.

@freedom4813

Жыл бұрын

I think you feel like " my soul just frustrated now 🥵 😡 😑 😤 my soul exhausted now 😒. Ab shadi ho gayi toh jindgi bhar bhagte raho or Ghar walon alag circus chal raha hai.i feel you brother 💗 I wish you become fucking richi rich🧲. Khud se keh Sako ki yes i feel better now or ab Sukoon hai jindgi mein. God bless you brother 🛐🙏🏻

@priyankachoudhary628

Жыл бұрын

@Navneet Gupta I don't know if you have heard his other videos . He clearly says not to stay in the same house with your parents. Why don't you try living in nearby house everyone will be happy . Pp

@sonalishewale5087

Жыл бұрын

🙏👍🧘🤗💯

@shreyashkotwad2501

Жыл бұрын

We men are always treated like an atm 🏧machine

@ntube5000

Жыл бұрын

@@priyankachoudhary628 I own a house close to my parents house but my wife refuse to stay close to my parents instead she moved to live with her brother and subsequently that house is put on sales. I took loan on that house and paid instalments but after marriage my parents claim that they had made equal contributions and have 50% right on that house and if I argue my parents tells me that I was very sick and weak when I was born and they have made huge sacrifices for my life and I can’t pay their debt. I also proposed my wife to pool our income and buy a new house but instead she bought a house in her own name without telling me. She don’t want to live in her house because there is no public transport available. Now I give 1/5 of my salary to my parents and 1/3 to my wife to buy peace and live few days with my parents and few days with my wife but still they didn’t stop spitting poison against each other. Maybe they are happy now but I am not. I know cooking and can stay stay independently so I think that I would be much happier if I wouldn’t have married.

Jo kaha ekdum sahi kaha aapne sir....ek ek bat sahi hai...absolutely raw reality...

Sir, basically you are pushing the young gen to again go the beaten path without exercising their own thought. Aisa nahi hai k log shaadi hi nahi kar rahe, some people are just trying to make their choices. What's wrong in it? Why are you painting a negative picture about people who are trying to take an independent and informed choice... ? I am sorry but thoughts in this videos are not convincing....

Hats off to your Sir, this kind of scolding we all need, lot of wisdom in your words keep it up for the betterment of society

In every session you make new dimensions of life more clear. Thank you Sir 🙏🙏🙏

I am kind of insecure about getting married because i have seen my mother become a widow at a very young age and all the struggles related to that,and i have this strange insecurity/fear thinking what if my husband dies before me,this has always been my fear😐

@rakeshghosh9591

Жыл бұрын

Accident is part of life.. But that doesn't mean life should be stopped.

@chandlerbing3632

Жыл бұрын

I can understand how difficult it is for you .. start worshipping devi she will instil courage to mind

@meshaz123

Жыл бұрын

What if you die before your husband? We can't be sure of anything in life, still we make choices and live..

content in this video was so valuable and well-researched.

Sir aapki ye shaadi wali topic chodke saare topic wajib lagte .Shaadi me aapke logic ki court case se Darke ladke shaadi nhi kar rhe May be delhi ncr janta ke liye bada reason ho but pure country me koi Aisa nhi dochta

@alenstrange

Жыл бұрын

you'r right, this topic should be in 'clarity to youth'

@gauravsinghrajawat9939

9 ай бұрын

Mai to delhi me nhi rehta but thinking same this video. Aaj log sab samaghte hai.

I am unmarried right now. I agree that a woman will marry someone at her level or above. It is because she has to adapt to the boy's family instead of the opposite. Just as a man will do a job where he gets more money, a woman will marry somebody where fewer sacrifices are required.

@sreyanshuchaterjee3962

Жыл бұрын

Hypergamy justified. In that case skin deep beauty is also justified.

@nishitsingh846

Жыл бұрын

If that logic is correct, then I need beautiful girl to marry so that I will feel calm and romantic.

@missionknowledgepur4010

Жыл бұрын

U r literally a nerd 💥

@loser3357

Жыл бұрын

@@nishitsingh846 😉😁😎

@spankomaster

Жыл бұрын

@@mathconcepts4u159 of course looks are justifiable

Marriage is good if you want to give something to family and society without expecting rewards

@skalrask8097

Жыл бұрын

Basically ..JUST.give up on yourself

Sir, isn't the fact right - happiness is the only religion to be followed and whatever we do, being happy is important ...

@alenstrange

Жыл бұрын

I am between 45-50. Not married, never envolved. Living alone in my own house, earning well, have good savings, learned cooking during lockdown, my cost of living is not more then 5000. Living Happily and peacefully. Best wishes to you too.

@sonalishewale5087

Жыл бұрын

😊👍🙏🧘

@namratagandhi3381

Жыл бұрын

@@alenstrange be a light to us too🙏

@alenstrange

Жыл бұрын

This is nothing else but minimalist lifestyle which I learnt during pendamic.

@namratagandhi3381

Жыл бұрын

@@alenstrange Me too

Completely agreed with you sir 👍👍👍

I got asked once if " i was ok " physically by a small minded relative !!!!

@AbhishekKumar-pi9wv

7 ай бұрын

Same here.

The population of India has surpassed that of China. There is stress on the limited resources of the Earth. Climate Change is directly effecting the capacity of the Earth to produce food. Aur aap safed baal le kar jansankhya barane ka formula de rahe ho? Gajab.

@naveensodem

Жыл бұрын

India is going towards a serious population decline crisis by the year 2050. We will not have enough people being born to replace the existing population.

Also Sir I respect you that you want society to not get disturbed and go peacefully..in short you tend to protect the structure of society handed by your generation to us.. but Sir..its very late now. People especially Men knows the repurcussions and pressure that comes with marriage.

Very Useful Talk Sir. Thanks

Nice topic and excellent narrative!

I guess the best approach to explain these situations is the trigunatmak way of thinking : saatvik, rajasic and tamasic gunas of humans.. every life decision is taken according to these three gunas only.. that would be a better way to elevate the masses into spiritual lifestyle/higher order thinking.. Of course people will also judge the 'responses' according to their gunas only.

Great this is absolutely true about society. 😀

Very Sensible advice sir. Thanks for touching upon such topics.

I am just 19 But this video is a real gem I will follow this in my life as I have seen many beautiful marriages which are successful Very beautiful presentation

@MOKSH_J_K

Ай бұрын

❤❤ marriage life is great for me

Full form of wife- worry invited for ever.

I am single and when I talk to guys, the first thing they want to know if what is your net worth - by this they mean ke mere mummy papa ki Tarafdar se Kitna aayega ...? Jab ki I myself is working as an IT manager in a company earning a handsome salary

@arth_chart5280

Жыл бұрын

Will you be ok with a guy who is earning less than a lakh and whose parents are lower middle class who never had a house of their own?

@wolfwarrior2558

Жыл бұрын

Find a guy of salary in the same amount. He will not demand. But if u earn 4lakh per year in think u will get a guy of 15 lakh with good family property then you will get same situation again and again until you r very beautiful

@moin6077

Жыл бұрын

Net worth har koi poochta hai. Ladke wale aur ladki wale bhi. Apne se kam salary wale ladke se shadi karo, net worth nahi poochega.

@chandrabhushan8597

Жыл бұрын

Hindu society is a baniya society. They measure everything in money.

@gauravrai7176

Жыл бұрын

Baat itni si hai dono parties greedy hai.

Sir, what message you have shared is absolutely true. Can't agree more 💯

Excellent guidance ☺️👍 sir

I immensely enjoy your videos 👍👍

Very nice. Keep it up. Present society needs this type of videos.

You changed my mind thank you sir 🙏🙏🙏

आप की बातें जँचती हैं पर किसी के समझाने या कहने से कोई भी कुछ नहीं करता। स्वय़ं अपने दिल की गहराई से जो प्रेरणा जिसे मिलनी होती है, मिलती है। और वही वो करेगा। बाकी सारी बातें, चाहे वे कितनी ही अच्छी हों, कितनी ही सच्ची लगें, लोग उसकाे जीवन में नहीं उतारते। स्वयं भगवान कृष्ण हार गये थे पर कौरवों को सन्मार्ग पर चलने की प्रेरणा नहीं होनी थी, नहीं हुई। महाभारत आखिर होकर ही रहा।

@kavita9249

Жыл бұрын

प्रारब्ध

Clearly explained sir

I was here with an open mind but he was all over the place. I have no idea finally what he's trying to say. Just a bunch of random points and random advice with no factual basis.

Eye opener vedio love u sir kitni deep soch hai sab kuch clear kar dete ho aap

Shaadi-shuda is a legal status, its not a relationship status. Many people are married but are they genuinely in a positive healthy relationship with each other?

Many Indian marriages sustained due to fear and compromise. Many men feared about who would take care of their meals and other needs. Women worried for financial support and respect in the society. Post having kids many parents did not want their children to experience a broken home. Of late individuality outranks togetherness. No one wants to adjust and d cases of remaining unmarried or getting divorced have skyrockted. Men can do home chores and many women are financially independent. Incompatibility is leading to more divorces than infidelity. Duniya ka dastoor hai ki parivaar ki shuruaat hi mard aurat k milan se hoti hai shaadi ek legal aur social stamp hai...social isolation due to singl status can be traumatizing but life after marriage can gt lifeles or a paradise or can b a nightmare..dpnds a lot on the maturity of d couple and the circumstances..shaadi ka ladooo khaye tho pachtaye..na khaye tho bhi pachtaye...😅

I agree with most of your views in this video, but cheating by partner is also a dissuading factor in negating marriages

@mr.phantom6969

Жыл бұрын

You can also cheat So it's just trust Have that That's enough

Thanks sir, now definitely i will marry for sure in this year only.. this video's a game changer. I have shared it with my friends , who are single... As well .

Nicely said❤❤🤗🙏

Shut up , for marriage one needs money . One does not have money , then what’s the point of getting married and living a life with struggles and unwanted hardships .

@spankomaster

Жыл бұрын

Let the wife earn. Be a house-husbans

Arre sir. Biwi aur bachhon ko dene ke liye na time aur na energy hai mere paas. Aur koi biwi akeli nahi aati hai. Poora khandan, dost bhai sab leke aati hai. Mujhe nahi lagta ki mai un sabko sambhal paunga. Ab bataiye shadi karni chahiye ya nahi.

@SangoLifeSutras

Жыл бұрын

Energy badha lo

@moin6077

Жыл бұрын

@@SangoLifeSutras Time aur kam ho jayega.

@naruti3992

Жыл бұрын

@@SangoLifeSutras 🤣🤣🤣😂

@A_Roasted_Chocolate

Жыл бұрын

Aap biwi si shadi karke kahi door chalejayiye. Mommy promise! Ladkiyon ko shadhi ke baad uthni friends nahi rahethe. Wife’s focus will turn towards you & your family.😆

@moin6077

Жыл бұрын

@@A_Roasted_Chocolate Aisa agar hota toh duniya me sab khush hote shadi karke. Sir ki baaki videos bhi dekh lo. Aapka ye mindset badal jayega.

Thanks for all u do.

Why being single is considered as outcast

It's true that they don't gain anything by false case,so does rapists gain by doing it. Those who do it is not do for gain. It's just hate and anger. Even though there is a judiciary Its process is long and painful. Its something that should be discussed

Thank you 🙏

Great sir

Unmarried ppl continue to stay with their parents so less kharcha

Ahahahaaa i love how straightforward and blunt you are😀

@PankajKumar-ij4qj

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

Sir you are doing a great job.

U spoke about the reality of life that leads to realisation

Ek dum sahi baat keh rahe ho sir.... Mughe apki baat bahut logic lagta hai.... Sir aap 5 number par numerology kab aaega... I m eagerly waiting

I completely agree with you ... me and my bestie (we are friends from school) .. now ppl tease us asking if we are lesbians just cos we are single since a long time... moral of the story, they are just not happy with your lives hence they keep on gossiping about us

@Scan_6777

Жыл бұрын

Don't be affected by people!People just project their own insecurities,failures and unhappiness onto others~

@vanishasingh20

Жыл бұрын

They are unhappy in their marriage cuz now they are stuck with their partner and baby can't enjoy can't go anywhere can't do anything... So they are jealous of you.. Be happy and make them more jealous.. If I were you i would say yes im lesbian go f off and go clean the shit off ur baby's butt first

@manikyum

Жыл бұрын

Wait till all of you hit late forties and early to late fifties and beyond, you will be very unhappy and depressed. Your current age and state of health is what is making you say all this but all that is temporary. God has given you the most powerful gift of making another human being, being a mother is a feeling like no other and yet we have another user here making horrific remarks about motherhood which is very unfortunate. I mean no disrespect.

@vanishasingh20

Жыл бұрын

@@priyankasingh-fr8gg its funny how.. If you are 25 they say wait till ur 30s.. If u are 30 they say wait till ur 40s if u are 40 they wait till ur 50s if ur 50 they say wait till ur 60s and women be like im waiting with my money and independence where is depression 😂😂

@venkateshtabjula9934

Жыл бұрын

@@manikyum you are wrong After 50+ also can live happily. If any person help required after 60+ society is rapidly changing and facilities are available.

Bhai sahab aap bahut suljhe hue insaan ho, Eshwar aapka bhala karey aur karta rahega Amen. Bahut achchey topic laatey hain aap. May God bless you.

Good video. Thanks.

If you don't marry as per your parent's wishes, they become "They" and are very happy if your marriage has problems. Because then they can say, "I told you so".

Your thoughts and guidance are genuine and true sir.. Now I seen many boys are searching for girls and girls are saying No ....boys are ready for marriage..but girls demand is more...what to do in this situation?

@rakeshe6979

Жыл бұрын

I suggest those boys to work on them self as much as possible,and try for girls,some or the other girl will say yes to that boy..

@chandlerbing3632

Жыл бұрын

Be what girls want!!