Welcome to Friendly Exmuslim. I create content on Islam from the lens of a former believer. I was a Sunni Muslim for over 15 years who created large websites such as Lightuponlight and Versebyversequran. I am now an atheist who believes in freedom of religion, secularism, and humanism.
Check out my video responses to popular sheikhs such as Dr. Yasir Qadhi, Zakir Naik and more. I frequently collaborate with my partner in crime Abdullah Gondal and we run the weekly call-in show "The Two Abdullahs" together.
If you're interested in knowing more about why Islam is false, watching interviews with ex-Muslims and the journey of other former believers, this is the place to be!
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Ur telling the truth brother fairuz...
Now we know storms and floods can really happen in Mecca ( Saturday June 1st, 2024 ).
It is quite convincing for what she has shared here because not only she keeps her original name, but she also shows her face. Thanks for this interview. 🙏
As a Christian non bumi in Malaysia, just want to say, our God is with you my brothers
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crazy is an understatement
Islam goes against many immoral behaviours. Same with most religions.
Step-fathers are more prone to abuse step-children ! The religion that discriminates against women/ wives' right!
Well explained, brother. People need to open their eye's to hear and see what is truth and what is nonsense.
I dont understand why this guy thinks that women should always have primary custody over men, and giving men primary custody is some sort of grave error
Shared parenting should be the default
@@FriendlyExmuslim I agree
The issue is, islam has a degenerate family structure; theres no concept of a nuclear family. Its a clown show of 4 wives+concubines. Mothers are seen as dispensable. Swap them around, mom A feeds baby B, next day she feeds baby C from mother X. This ideology that devalues a woman creates societies like this.
I appreciate your creative explanation of Islamic nonsense 😂
Muslim: no
Does the father lose custody if he remarries? Doubt it.
Islam: Death for thought crimes.
Without threat! Islam is dead!!!
it is a cult...
No woman will agree to a second, third or any other.wife. Not in any religion. It is as good as cheating on your wife.
islam is a beautiful and only way of life. if you are sincere and honest you will come to realise as i have that only islam has the solution. all other paths are divergent and in time society realises this. better to accept than drag your feet. the messenger of God preached many things and all are proving correct. alcohol, sexually, drugs, diet, morals etc. almost nothing is left. most societies are now morally bankrupt. regarding apostasy there are reasons for the law and of course it applies. islam will always protect the group from those that cause disruption.
The one who can understand the quran...1001% murtad... Slm dari Malaysia...
I’m a 58 year old retired Army Infantryman and fought in two wars in Iraq during my 26 years. I always enjoyed talking with Iraqis and Kurds to learn how their life and culture is for various demographics. After my 15 month tour in Iraq in 2003-04, I learned more than I cared for. From many Iraqi muslims I learned about the saying they have there; “women are for babies and boys are for fun.”…….that’s when I asked more about the meaning of that and started laughing. Maybe you can discuss this topic and what happens at the age of 29. Then there’s the camel urine. You can buy camel piss at every grocery store in Muslim majority countries since their prophet says it has health benefits, what those benefits might be, I have no clue. I heard a news report where a small store owner got in trouble because he was selling his own urine to the customers and labeling it as camel urine. Hilarious. Can you imagine as you leave the house for to go shopping, the wife says; “oh dear, don’t forget the camel piss and make sure it’s fresh!”. Lol.
😂😂😂 14:00 Saudi Arabia is a model country of Islamic law? This is a joke.
It's one example. What example would you use
@@FriendlyExmuslim I am ok with criticism but it must be fair and consistent. For example the constitution of the United States. It’s a document that judges and law makers try to interpret in order make laws that fall within that document. This is the same with Islam. The isn’t 1 standers that every Muslim follows without any context. And just like in the US there are people that are more conservative and there are people that are more liberal when trying to interpret it. Hadiths aren’t not laws. However in order the come up with laws, the hadiths and the Quran are a base line. But judges in Islam have the ability to look at situations and make decisions that will have the best outcome. But there are also standards that are followed. You may not think it’s the best situation but there are valid reasons that when a boy reaches a certain age he should be raised by his father if there is a divorce. The system we have today was around. Child support and visitation. These things can be factored into Islam now that they are available. But it is unfair and misleading when you make it like Islam is so horrible and backward when you put it up against a system that even today has many many flaws. Just ask all the men that have been given the short in of the stick. That have went to jail or even paid child support for year for a kid that wasn’t even his and doesn’t even get reimbursed. There are no good options after divorce, there are just bad and worse ones when it comes to kids. Courts and judges just try their best to deal with a situation that they believe will give the best outcome. And often it fails. Be fair with your criticism, that’s all I ask but Islam laws are black and white they way so many people try and make it.
This man is joke .... He has alot of trauma with his muslim neighbourhood maybe bullying, or strict family but then blamed islam for his asshole family culture... 😂 your neighbourhood are asshole dude and also your family maybe theyre asshole too and dont generalized over 2 billion people for such trauma
No trauma. Also, you're not my doctor lol
11:12 the father has a much bigger responsibility towards the child.
This ex sufi😂
The Hadith wasn’t meant for all time. The scholars took that Hadith and used it to try and make laws and deal with problems that arose in the community. It isn’t perfect and it was never meant to be. But a court system would use everything in those situations and the total of Islamic principles to come up with the most fair solution. Come on, at least be fair.
I have been through divorce and the judge gave my son the right to choose which part he wanted to be with. Yes at a certain age, the child even in today’s courts has a right to choose which parent they would like to be with.
We hear similar scary story in Malaysia.... To make matter worst, if the women revert from Islam.... They by default lost custody.....
Eeeewwwww
WTF
The fact that Muslims are asking "where are you getting this from"? is proof Muslims dont know Islam. I will never forget how Muslim women were telling an ISLAMIC SCHOLAR to ask forgiveness from Allah because he told them the truth that Muslim men can have 4 wives and not seek the permission of the first wife. This is how far removed Western Muslims are from Islam. Women in the Muslim world know this. If you ask anyone in the Muslim world if the taliban or ISIS are Muslims, they will say yes. Groups like ISIS and taliban have done nothing unIslamic. They have done nothing that wasnt practiced by earlier Muslims. I saw a Muslim woman go viral on tiktok due to her ex husband and custody. Little do people know, this is all Islam. She is Muslim enough to wear the hijab but not Muslim enough to accept ALL of Islam. This is raw Islam. Child marriage, polygamy, slavery, etc. Muslims are either unaware of what their religion teaches or they are in full denial.
What supports can Muslim women, and mothers, be given by us if they leave?
That's simply NOT true really 👎🏻 All the aspects of Family Law and marriage, including Divorce and Child custody depends only in the country's LOCAL LAW ⚖️ I'm saying this and I'm not even Muslim myself!!! Just stop showing - off, gaslighting and backbiting on Islamic religion, spreading LIES 🤥 Shameful, disgraceful, disgusting 🤢 🤮
You're calling me a liar? Aren't you the one pretending to not be Muslim?...
@@FriendlyExmuslim I said that I'm NOT a Muslim. I'm a PROUD European Latina and Catholic Christian ✝️ 🇪🇺 I don't need to lie, unlike you who backbits on Islamic religion by spreading LIES 🤥 You think whatever you want..., just don't lie out of Hatred against Islamic community. The Islamic religion or any other religion got absolutely NOTHING to do with it's followers and communities faults and especially with the so many Islamic countries Law ⚖️. It's like blaming all Yahudi for the crimes against Humanity committed by Zionist regime of Israhell 🇮🇱 👿 😈 Each Islamic country has it's own law, many of them Secular, not even religious!!! For God's sake 😑 Don't make yourself fool and looking like an Idiot! 😂 🤦🏼♀️
The idea to do it with youre sister.. perf.. you lie because the fam knows how and who is a suckling... youre mother.. is youre mother and hers is yours. stpd So you are gay! Not wear silk..for man.. it makes a man feminine... yes gay for sure.. Gold and silk is prohibited by god.. Its feminine Sinners are not on gods path... people of desires . You just lazy...keeping youre self masculine is work.. discipline is work.. u a slave of youre desires thats why you talk a lot of 💩
Did mozes not live like that.. jesus, noah ect. Its only missundersood by people who like to sin..
As the Roman Empire expanded, migrants to the capital brought their local cults, many of which became popular among Italians. Christianity was eventually the most successful of these beliefs, and in 380 became the official state religion. For ordinary Romans, religion was a part of daily life. The religion of ancient Rome dated back many centuries and over time it grew increasingly diverse. As different cultures settled in what would later become Italy, each brought their own gods and forms of worship. This made the religion of ancient Rome polytheistic, in that they worshipped many gods. Matthew, delivered between 386 and 388 CE) to use the Greek phrase ta biblia ("the books") to describe both the Old and New Testaments together. Mathew not jesus.. The Gospel of Matthew is one of the most widely read of the Christian Bible. It is believed to have been written by Matthew, one of the original twelve disciples and apostles of Jesus Christ. Before being called to follow Christ, Matthew was a publican, a tax collector for the Roman Empire. His apostolic mission was at first restricted to Palestine and while little is known about his later life some traditions indicate that he travelled to Ethiopia, still others state that he was in Parthia and Persia. Matthew preached the Faith in Africa and was martyred in the year 65 in Ethiopia while offering Mass. The fact that Matthew worked for the oppressive Romans made him a traitor in the eyes of his fellow Jews. He was considered an enemy of true Judaism. He was also considered unclean and unworthy of coming to the Temple. Not only was he ceremonially unclean, he was also politically polluted and viewed as a self-centered turncoat. There are no direct analogies in our culture that will help us understand the role of the tax collector in the Bible Times.
Wow that ridiculous... how i was believing in this shit How people are still muslim after all this
Sophia was raped after the war by prophet Muhammad. Mashallah .did she scream.who was punished
Poor Yasir Qadhi. More holes in the narrative 😂😂😂
Draddaaahhhh,,, that's deep,,,, AP
Islam is SOOO unfair to women! A woman supporting Islam is as insane as a chicken supporting KFC.
What a sick cult
Christianity is better because it forbids divorce except where adultery is proven. A women/man cannot get divorce even if she/he is abused by their spouse.
Christianity does NOT forbid divorce. It is permitted if there is any sort of immorality in the spouse. Certain Christian sects make divorce very difficult, but it is never impossible. MOST clergy would support divorce if the husband were abusive.
That's not better. Denying people the right to divorce is awful
@@mysotiras21 in christianity, divorce only permitted on grounds of sexual immorality. Its considered adultery for divorced man or women to marry someone else. I think this part of christianity is good for the marriage excrpt that when one partner is abusive, it looks like a no way out. And abusive marriage is aplenty.
I have noticed that anyone who talks about Islam and criticizes it there are always comments that talk about the Christian religion? Excuse me what does this have to do with that? Do you feel so bad about your religion that you criticize another religion?
@@NoordinAbas , try reading the commandment in the original Hebrew or Greek. It does NOT limit divorce to sexual immorality - ANY sort of immorality can be grounds for divorce. Abuse of a partner is immoral.
It’s really weird in a way that , if you only listen to the podcast without seeing that they are hijabis. You would think that they are arguing against the hijab after taking it off.
The fact that he has to hide his identity just proves how dangerous the ideology is.
Tbf imagine the living hell of being Mohammed's stepdaughter. In all seriousness, there is no arrangement in the case of divorce which is ultimately good for children. Children need both parents, a mother and a father, in the home. Sometimes it is absolutely necessary to separate a parent from the child (as in the case of abuse) but that is making the best out of a bad situation. Given that the risk of sexual and physical abuse are higher with an unrelated male in the home, one can see how placing a child with her father is the lesser of two evils.
They can reform how they want, it simply has to have nothing to do with the State, and that separation still has to happen in any M' State. Maybe Turkey has been like this, but the simple fact that they can't still talk seriously about their Assyrian christians and Armenian christians genocide.. it means the work was not done very well :/
That's the basis of democracy
for once i totally agree with him
PROBLEM IS MISTAKING ISLAM AS A RELIGION. AS A MATTER OF FACT IT IS A CULT.