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  • @melkerner
    @melkernerАй бұрын

    Lover? My Wife decided after we adopted the children, that our love life is over and will NEVER be together again - but expects a forced celibacy "marriage" will somehow work.

  • @MikeNMusic
    @MikeNMusicАй бұрын

    I struggle with split attention real bad, I need to drop what I’m doing and focus on what my wife is saying.

  • @lisacoleman9398
    @lisacoleman9398Ай бұрын

    Thank u :)

  • @drlutskovsky
    @drlutskovskyАй бұрын

    Brilliant! this should be taught in high school just as physics and chemistry. Seriously .. 👍

  • @alwaysmyself_07
    @alwaysmyself_072 ай бұрын

    Ok. #1 being responsive with 'I get it or I understand ect.." Is a trick that people use to pretend they're listening. Big L !!! 👎

  • @valeriek5245
    @valeriek52452 ай бұрын

    What you are describing in this video is the Imago Dialogue created by Harville Hendricks. It's great that you are sharing it but you might want to give him credit for it.

  • @G_III
    @G_III2 ай бұрын

    Used to try this without even knowing it was a thing. Her response usually was, "do I have to spell everything out for you?!!!" 😂😂😂

  • @EdG-rn7dk
    @EdG-rn7dk3 ай бұрын

    Years ago I spent 2 months in individual counseling, to learn these techniques. Too 2 is key.

  • @michelediafos725
    @michelediafos7253 ай бұрын

    Yes

  • @stephanie579
    @stephanie5794 ай бұрын

    My husband had a 2 yr affair so anger is all I’m feeling lately … I need help managing my responses to him … help is needed as his betrayal has destroyed me

  • @user-tn8vk6bx1h
    @user-tn8vk6bx1h4 ай бұрын

    Thank you ❤

  • @SimplyHealthTips
    @SimplyHealthTips4 ай бұрын

    What if the receiver doesn’t think they did anything wrong and that the sender is too sensitive and the receiver doesn’t want to apologize because they don’t think they did anything wrong and that the receiver is who has the problem???

  • @Robert-3691
    @Robert-36915 ай бұрын

    This is truly exceptional. I had the privilege of reading something similar, and it was exceptional. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

  • @Michael_Arguello
    @Michael_Arguello5 ай бұрын

    Time to face the Muzic. Taking relationship advice from the enemy in your relationship will only keep you engaged in an abu$I’ve relationship. Muzic, explain why being defensive invites attack. I don’t think you will so I will. The reason is that your defensive reaction using truth, causes them shame!!!!!! SHAME!!!!!!!! And they have to attack you when they feel SHAME. every time. That means they are a narcissist. Run! The target audience for videos like these is the victim, and this advice keeps them in the cycle of abu$e. Dude…you can’t be a narc and give relationship advice as if you were not one. The day will come when this obviousness will be plain to all, and not just a few like me. When that time comes, videos like these will be for entertainment. Watch the fool make a fool out of himself and those he leads. 😂 Don’t take relationship advice from a manipulator on how to stay in a manipulative relationship. Run from all these people, don’t run to them for advice. Seek Jesus, not a clown, unless you want to stay in the circus.

  • @Michael_Arguello
    @Michael_Arguello5 ай бұрын

    32:42 - LMAO I see what you did there. Ask a real person what a narcissist wants to know. Watch his reaction to the response. The shame is real. If someone leaves you, they found what they were looking for and it wasn’t you. You can fight it, or let say good bye forever.

  • @Michael_Arguello
    @Michael_Arguello5 ай бұрын

    Needs more snake oil.

  • @ASBallers
    @ASBallers5 ай бұрын

    Absolute gold dust Bruce, thank you

  • @ShakeMyWay
    @ShakeMyWay5 ай бұрын

    Very nice! I love the way you taught us to appreciate with more description and specificity. Your way of teaching is truly a gift I appreciate.

  • @johnpiper1341
    @johnpiper13415 ай бұрын

    Yes all very true. We have been married for 58 years. Now I have Cancer and need support he doesn't how to handle me. We are now 77and John 84

  • @TsholofeloMosime
    @TsholofeloMosime6 ай бұрын

    You made me realise that I'm going to fight for my relationship with my girlfriend and I'm willing to fix my wellbeing

  • @xMr.Graves
    @xMr.Graves6 ай бұрын

    Good show mate🖤

  • @sarahpyle5932
    @sarahpyle59326 ай бұрын

    I value what I have seen of your content so far. Do you recommend watching these videos with your partner or separately?

  • @mamauly7990
    @mamauly79906 ай бұрын

    You Amazing!!!!!!

  • @Matthew8473
    @Matthew84737 ай бұрын

    This piece is impressively insightful. A book with analogous content was a significant journey for me. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

  • @pennymcintyre4403
    @pennymcintyre44038 ай бұрын

    I love this....I wish I would have found this six months ago...made a lot of sence to me..

  • @katiehughes6933
    @katiehughes693310 ай бұрын

    Can you make me listen to my partner because I am interested and make you be interested because I want to be interested

  • @Setheskivias
    @Setheskivias11 ай бұрын

    I hear singing and there's no one there, I smell blossoms and trees are bare, all day long I seem to walk on air I wonder why I wonder why. I keep tossing in my sleep at night and what's more I've lost my appetite, stars that used to twinkle in your eyes are twinkle the sky I wonder why.....

  • @REALCaptainAmerican
    @REALCaptainAmerican Жыл бұрын

    I wonder if this dude is still with that original partner. Press X for doubt.

  • @sandiwhitten9497
    @sandiwhitten9497 Жыл бұрын

    Love Love Love

  • @sandiwhitten9497
    @sandiwhitten9497 Жыл бұрын

    Love Love Love

  • @annewhite4535
    @annewhite4535 Жыл бұрын

    This has been very helpful but I feel as if I am being punished ,He doesn't come in to eat any more we are in different rooms when discussed the lack of affection hesays I work for you I feel rejected and I end up going to the gym to push weights we have beenmarried 35 years and we are like ships passing in the night

  • @brend3887
    @brend3887 Жыл бұрын

    Great teaching thank you 🙏