Lover? My Wife decided after we adopted the children, that our love life is over and will NEVER be together again - but expects a forced celibacy "marriage" will somehow work.
@MikeNMusicАй бұрын
I struggle with split attention real bad, I need to drop what I’m doing and focus on what my wife is saying.
@lisacoleman9398Ай бұрын
Thank u :)
@drlutskovskyАй бұрын
Brilliant! this should be taught in high school just as physics and chemistry. Seriously .. 👍
@alwaysmyself_072 ай бұрын
Ok. #1 being responsive with 'I get it or I understand ect.." Is a trick that people use to pretend they're listening. Big L !!! 👎
@valeriek52452 ай бұрын
What you are describing in this video is the Imago Dialogue created by Harville Hendricks. It's great that you are sharing it but you might want to give him credit for it.
@G_III2 ай бұрын
Used to try this without even knowing it was a thing. Her response usually was, "do I have to spell everything out for you?!!!" 😂😂😂
@EdG-rn7dk3 ай бұрын
Years ago I spent 2 months in individual counseling, to learn these techniques. Too 2 is key.
@michelediafos7253 ай бұрын
Yes
@stephanie5794 ай бұрын
My husband had a 2 yr affair so anger is all I’m feeling lately … I need help managing my responses to him … help is needed as his betrayal has destroyed me
@user-tn8vk6bx1h4 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@SimplyHealthTips4 ай бұрын
What if the receiver doesn’t think they did anything wrong and that the sender is too sensitive and the receiver doesn’t want to apologize because they don’t think they did anything wrong and that the receiver is who has the problem???
@Robert-36915 ай бұрын
This is truly exceptional. I had the privilege of reading something similar, and it was exceptional. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
@Michael_Arguello5 ай бұрын
Time to face the Muzic. Taking relationship advice from the enemy in your relationship will only keep you engaged in an abu$I’ve relationship. Muzic, explain why being defensive invites attack. I don’t think you will so I will. The reason is that your defensive reaction using truth, causes them shame!!!!!! SHAME!!!!!!!! And they have to attack you when they feel SHAME. every time. That means they are a narcissist. Run! The target audience for videos like these is the victim, and this advice keeps them in the cycle of abu$e. Dude…you can’t be a narc and give relationship advice as if you were not one. The day will come when this obviousness will be plain to all, and not just a few like me. When that time comes, videos like these will be for entertainment. Watch the fool make a fool out of himself and those he leads. 😂 Don’t take relationship advice from a manipulator on how to stay in a manipulative relationship. Run from all these people, don’t run to them for advice. Seek Jesus, not a clown, unless you want to stay in the circus.
@Michael_Arguello5 ай бұрын
32:42 - LMAO I see what you did there. Ask a real person what a narcissist wants to know. Watch his reaction to the response. The shame is real. If someone leaves you, they found what they were looking for and it wasn’t you. You can fight it, or let say good bye forever.
@Michael_Arguello5 ай бұрын
Needs more snake oil.
@ASBallers5 ай бұрын
Absolute gold dust Bruce, thank you
@ShakeMyWay5 ай бұрын
Very nice! I love the way you taught us to appreciate with more description and specificity. Your way of teaching is truly a gift I appreciate.
@johnpiper13415 ай бұрын
Yes all very true. We have been married for 58 years. Now I have Cancer and need support he doesn't how to handle me. We are now 77and John 84
@TsholofeloMosime6 ай бұрын
You made me realise that I'm going to fight for my relationship with my girlfriend and I'm willing to fix my wellbeing
@xMr.Graves6 ай бұрын
Good show mate🖤
@sarahpyle59326 ай бұрын
I value what I have seen of your content so far. Do you recommend watching these videos with your partner or separately?
@mamauly79906 ай бұрын
You Amazing!!!!!!
@Matthew84737 ай бұрын
This piece is impressively insightful. A book with analogous content was a significant journey for me. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
@pennymcintyre44038 ай бұрын
I love this....I wish I would have found this six months ago...made a lot of sence to me..
@katiehughes693310 ай бұрын
Can you make me listen to my partner because I am interested and make you be interested because I want to be interested
@Setheskivias11 ай бұрын
I hear singing and there's no one there, I smell blossoms and trees are bare, all day long I seem to walk on air I wonder why I wonder why. I keep tossing in my sleep at night and what's more I've lost my appetite, stars that used to twinkle in your eyes are twinkle the sky I wonder why.....
@REALCaptainAmerican Жыл бұрын
I wonder if this dude is still with that original partner. Press X for doubt.
@sandiwhitten9497 Жыл бұрын
Love Love Love
@sandiwhitten9497 Жыл бұрын
Love Love Love
@annewhite4535 Жыл бұрын
This has been very helpful but I feel as if I am being punished ,He doesn't come in to eat any more we are in different rooms when discussed the lack of affection hesays I work for you I feel rejected and I end up going to the gym to push weights we have beenmarried 35 years and we are like ships passing in the night
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Lover? My Wife decided after we adopted the children, that our love life is over and will NEVER be together again - but expects a forced celibacy "marriage" will somehow work.
I struggle with split attention real bad, I need to drop what I’m doing and focus on what my wife is saying.
Thank u :)
Brilliant! this should be taught in high school just as physics and chemistry. Seriously .. 👍
Ok. #1 being responsive with 'I get it or I understand ect.." Is a trick that people use to pretend they're listening. Big L !!! 👎
What you are describing in this video is the Imago Dialogue created by Harville Hendricks. It's great that you are sharing it but you might want to give him credit for it.
Used to try this without even knowing it was a thing. Her response usually was, "do I have to spell everything out for you?!!!" 😂😂😂
Years ago I spent 2 months in individual counseling, to learn these techniques. Too 2 is key.
Yes
My husband had a 2 yr affair so anger is all I’m feeling lately … I need help managing my responses to him … help is needed as his betrayal has destroyed me
Thank you ❤
What if the receiver doesn’t think they did anything wrong and that the sender is too sensitive and the receiver doesn’t want to apologize because they don’t think they did anything wrong and that the receiver is who has the problem???
This is truly exceptional. I had the privilege of reading something similar, and it was exceptional. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
Time to face the Muzic. Taking relationship advice from the enemy in your relationship will only keep you engaged in an abu$I’ve relationship. Muzic, explain why being defensive invites attack. I don’t think you will so I will. The reason is that your defensive reaction using truth, causes them shame!!!!!! SHAME!!!!!!!! And they have to attack you when they feel SHAME. every time. That means they are a narcissist. Run! The target audience for videos like these is the victim, and this advice keeps them in the cycle of abu$e. Dude…you can’t be a narc and give relationship advice as if you were not one. The day will come when this obviousness will be plain to all, and not just a few like me. When that time comes, videos like these will be for entertainment. Watch the fool make a fool out of himself and those he leads. 😂 Don’t take relationship advice from a manipulator on how to stay in a manipulative relationship. Run from all these people, don’t run to them for advice. Seek Jesus, not a clown, unless you want to stay in the circus.
32:42 - LMAO I see what you did there. Ask a real person what a narcissist wants to know. Watch his reaction to the response. The shame is real. If someone leaves you, they found what they were looking for and it wasn’t you. You can fight it, or let say good bye forever.
Needs more snake oil.
Absolute gold dust Bruce, thank you
Very nice! I love the way you taught us to appreciate with more description and specificity. Your way of teaching is truly a gift I appreciate.
Yes all very true. We have been married for 58 years. Now I have Cancer and need support he doesn't how to handle me. We are now 77and John 84
You made me realise that I'm going to fight for my relationship with my girlfriend and I'm willing to fix my wellbeing
Good show mate🖤
I value what I have seen of your content so far. Do you recommend watching these videos with your partner or separately?
You Amazing!!!!!!
This piece is impressively insightful. A book with analogous content was a significant journey for me. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
I love this....I wish I would have found this six months ago...made a lot of sence to me..
Can you make me listen to my partner because I am interested and make you be interested because I want to be interested
I hear singing and there's no one there, I smell blossoms and trees are bare, all day long I seem to walk on air I wonder why I wonder why. I keep tossing in my sleep at night and what's more I've lost my appetite, stars that used to twinkle in your eyes are twinkle the sky I wonder why.....
I wonder if this dude is still with that original partner. Press X for doubt.
Love Love Love
Love Love Love
This has been very helpful but I feel as if I am being punished ,He doesn't come in to eat any more we are in different rooms when discussed the lack of affection hesays I work for you I feel rejected and I end up going to the gym to push weights we have beenmarried 35 years and we are like ships passing in the night
Great teaching thank you 🙏