Welcome to the Dropping In Podcast with Charlie Houpert 🎙️
(Formerly the "Ben and Charlie Podcast")
Charlie is one of the founders of Charisma on Command which is a personal development KZread channel with more than 5 million subscribers and 600 Million views.
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Being open is good and all, wish he wasn't bigoted.
Correction - Prostitution was made a crime in order to go after the late great black heavy weight boxer, Jack Johnson. He liked white women (and associated with prostitutes) and the bigots of the time hated him for it. It had nothing to do with religion.
Am I the only one who thinks that he wasn't being rude?
Im kinda lost eho this video is for, for me at least this is already how I carry myself.
Don Lemon is such an idiot.
I was cooking while listening, but I need to listen to this again and take notes. Great podcast, instantly subscribed. Please interview Richard Grannon if possible.
I admire you for being able to go back and continue watching this for a teaching moment. When these liars hit my liar cord I can not continue watching them. It makes me for real squirm. Thanks.
Finding a good Psychiatrist, therapist and counselor is difficult you have to shop around and see who is the right fit. A lot of the time a psychiatrist is only gonna provide you with pills each appointment. You’ll go in there and probably talk for around 15 minutes and then he’ll write you a prescription., i’ve seen more people actually be helped by therapist somebody that can perform EMDR CBT and other types of therapy not just talk therapy
He started the conversation with what he believes, he put it all out there, there was no miscommunication. I don’t believe this is rude
Bro is like a toddler he cant sit still for one second lol
Thank you for the interview, very helpful 🙏
“Love is the will to extend one's self for the purpose of nurturing one's own or another's spiritual growth... Love is as love does. Love is an act of will -- namely, both an intention and an action. Will also implies choice. We do not have to love. We choose to love.” ― M. Scott Peck
Just remember, these tactics to game a conversation primarily work great against someone else that isn't trying to do the same. 5:48 This is also a poor example as this isn't a therapy session or a conversation between friends. It's someone having their words held accountable by media. Something that doesn't happen enough in our media. What's more important than the question there is the inability of the person with the worldview to provide the evidence or facts that back up their worldview, and then immediately threatening the journalist interviewing them. Using such a poor example from a conversation that should have closed questions, while not saying anything of the behavior of the person being interviewed, makes one question the purpose and intent of even including it in this video.
Did Charlie stop making Charisma on Command videos, and also stop making videos here?? I haven't seen anything new
Thank you for the part about turning our judgment on ourselves. I always think I’m in the wrong. Way too many times have I given people the “benefit of the doubt” and my instincts ended up being right
Sneako should look for a daddy in Dr K and not Andrew Tate
Great video & advice!
Great to see you making content again Charlie!
this is my first time watching your video on this but i feel like you're going to mention someone using language that removes their role in actions, this guy on rogans interview was using all kinds of phrases like "she got caught up in it" and crap like that whenever something he was responsible for happened
So unmet needs in childhood have a correlation with stronger feminine projection?
I am transgender and disabled and am working on integration to diminish the shame, self-judgement, and self-pity around those things.
I appreciate you actually addressing early childhood issues first.
I was sketch about therapy until the day I spoke with a psychiatrist and it was one of the easiest conversations I ever had, their ability to listen and respond was uncanny and strangley disarming
The dude is insecure & acts like a Tate clone
This really makes me think. I've never had a strong attachment to any social group, and my ideas have been completely independent. So much so, that I was willing to burn relationships if we disagreed enough on something important. I wonder if I'd been happier and had more friends had I just adopted the views of social groups to fit in.
I always love Charlie's videos. However, I find the constant scene changes to be distracting...it's a bit much for the eyes. 👀 🙈 It takes away from the verbal content.
Amazing work! ❤
Such a great video. Alex is saucing out gems like no other
video importee dans ma tete.
I've implemented all these without knowing. Learned it mostly from watching my grandfather (I miss that man) and an old pastor who mentored me. Some real gems here.
When I hear things like I genuinely wonder if the person doing things right is doing so mindfully. Or if it'd just their natural instinct to do so from past experience and learning.
I respect the hussle but this video made me curious on the original. You've literally clipped Sneako mid sentence multiple times. The beginning of the video where he says he doesn't believe in therapy literally ends with he wants to be proven wrong and asks on Drk perspective. Bro you matrix channel. Man's moving like BBC news
tl;dr - don't judge, listen to people and show understanding. I think you are right in some of your analysis but consider this. Sneako (not defending him I just like the dynamics of interactions) came in with somewhat aggressive "trolly" energy. I don't think he was being rude, just being overly blunt about his opinion in a higher energy way. Some people are just more demonstative with their voice and body motions. Stop trying to homogenize people like they should all talk to each other in the same way. But look at things from his perspective. Most people who talk to or about Sneako come from a judgemental perspective and DON'T listen to him. So what do you expect him to behave like upon meeting someone? I don't think he has any reason to believe the NEXT person won't treat him the same way, so he is preemptively defensive by being agressive or at least passive aggressive. The doctor showing that he listens is simply disarming to Sneako because he realizes this dude isn't like most others he's dealt with. People interested in psychology always think they're breaking things down into certain behavioral patterns or techniques, and even though you claim to want to respresent their POV and articulate it back to them, you started with a judgement of rudeness instead of understanding why he may have started the way he did and saying "ahh that makes sense." It's like having someone come into therapy who's been abused their whole life - like a dog in a cage who's been poked with a stick - and upon seeing their initial defensiveness you think "wow they're rude, let me employ these techniques I've learned to deal with rude people." Meanwhile, the person who has been abused has learned to read people out of necessity/survival and they detect your initial judgement rather than reading compassion or understanding and they potentially write you off from the start. I mean what abused person wants any new person they talk to to interpret rudeness rather than pain? They can interact with someone and that person could go tell another "yea, they are rude." You titling the video the way you did is essentially that. Now that other person is primed to believe that person is a jerk, which could result in conflict, rather than someone who needs kindness and love shown to them for a change. This is why people like Sneako are the way they are. People don't care about your abuse or issues, only that you aren't rude to THEM. So, since they aren't a person who values you without stipulations, just lean into being a troll or jerk because it certainly feels better than hoping for compassion from someone and they just call you rude.
I wonder what it's like to say I could have any girl
This is why we should listen to rich people when they say "Money doesn't buy happiness"
There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all unique. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've learned that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years back, my wife and I were almost divorcing because we had problems in our marriage, but we managed to work things out. It was a hard time, but we got past it.
I get why what you're saying is so important, and I honestly want to be happy too. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart, I can't imagine my life without her; my love for her is strong. I really want her to come back, and I'm fully dedicated to making that happen. We've tried different paths, like therapy, to fix things.
Learning to let someone you love go is always a tough journey, but in my case, I had the wisdom of a spiritual mentor who kept my marriage from crumbling. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Your advice is valued. I'll promptly look her up online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that pursuing this method will also lead to favorable outcomes for me; I deeply yearn for her.
You are welcome
Dr. K absolutely handled him my god
These two are awesome and show proof and sources to their claims on their Friday show @The China Show. ignore the people (Chinese bots) in the comments calling them liar's, Shilling for a government that abuse every human right and use R@p3 as a form of torture.
Really good video actually
too many distracting movie clips in between you speaking. you could have just shown yourself speaking. i have adhd and i found myself distracted with how pretty olivia munn is or the girl from good will hunting
the most difficult part to get past the manipulation is josh dubin believing in him, if you trust josh dubin like rogan does, you might think "if josh belives in him, i'll give him the benefit of the doubt".
Strickland would hate this video.
i could have done without the reality tv show analysis. the editing with the background music, the pre conceived notion i have that its mostly manufactured scenarios for tv, it just completely takes me out of any realness going on. the theo and sean conversation tho was really great, it was just raw and emotional, the only edits where the switching of camera angles.
I've heard for years people having this misconception that showing emotion is weakness.. when its done like this. when you willingly talk about something that you know could bring you to tears, that's strength. Never underestimate a person who does this.
Bro gaslighted sneako😭
They are winning and more people are shifting right because the left has went completely insane. Actually a liberal in the 80s and even 70s would have been what is today considered a conservative without the religion. If you take religious issues out of it a Republican is what used to be, a liberal. The live and let live category of people the people that didn’t care what you were doing as long as you weren’t hurting anyone you weren’t forcing them to participate. Those are Republicans. The problem that the left has with the right is there always trying to force us to participate. I don’t want to participate. I don’t wanna participate in anybody’s religion and I don’t wanna participate in anybody’s life choices. And I don’t have to.
Wow beautiful
Such an amazing video. Thank you for making this. On a sidenote: the sudden end of the video felt a bit jarring, a few seconds more with the music gently fading out would've been neat.
Sometimes you gotta ask yourself, “do I have to be better at attracting the one thing that is made to make you miserable 99’9% of the time?”
Don Lemon is the best example of what NOT to do on so many levels. What a douche