My female main character's journey is in a way mirroring my own and she eventually gets to fulfill the dreams and desires i currently can't fulfill. I've been putting off the deep dive into the character profile because i have to relive my own painful journey, but it seems like its a huge must to clarify the misbelief and aha moments.
@ryanhollist3950Күн бұрын
On the idea of "satisfying your reader": there was a TV show some years ago that I loved the first season of. However, I was so satisfied with how that season ended that I've never cared to go watch any more. Continuing on with the characters feels like it would ruin the perfect ending I already got from the writers and performers.
@isaacriggs4656Күн бұрын
Somebody forgot the word "glossary."
@storiesbydesirae2 күн бұрын
Thank you both for sharing. This was helpful!
@nahliinahlii7782 күн бұрын
Can your protagonist’s internal conflict change as the story goes on?
@pastureexpectationsfarm64122 күн бұрын
Love the ampersand reference to (I'm begging the universe) "A Bit of Fry & Laurie"
@TheDubastro3 күн бұрын
How to get a hemorrhoid 101
@janedoe52294 күн бұрын
That whole silent 10 minutes at the beginning of UP. Not one word and it makes you want to cry.
@Senovitj4 күн бұрын
In between Winter Soldier and Civil War, there were a city dropped on civilians and civilian Wakandans killed mistakenly by Wanda. I think that would change one's outlook. Some of the others are stubbornly remaining unaffected by those events.
@wanderingbelleasmr10546 күн бұрын
I recently had to take a medical leave from a job I love and I don’t know if I’ll be able to return because my dissociative disorder became too debilitating to function. I have always judged my worth by performance, whether in work or school or what I can produce creatively, and having my progress slam to a halt like this has destroyed my self worth. I’m trying so hard to implement what you’ve said in this video. Thank you🫶🏻
@NomadicExpressions247 күн бұрын
Ty. Recieved and reflected.
@storiesbydesirae9 күн бұрын
Thank you! This was an eye-opening gratitude discussion.
@VEdeLange10 күн бұрын
I really enjoyed your book "The More in the Less" 😊
@maddieburnett455410 күн бұрын
I have been doing an intentional declutter before an upcoming big move and needing to downsize! These tips are so helpful!
@maddieburnett455410 күн бұрын
Loved this so much!!
@AbbieEmmons10 күн бұрын
Beautiful and inspiring as always! 😘
@synthapug11 күн бұрын
Bonus points for getting it done before a divorce
@keithg46011 күн бұрын
The Martian, by Andy Weir, has my favorite opening line. (Naughty langiage alert) I'm pretty much fucked. That's my considered opinion. Fucked. He's talking about getting stranded on Mars, so he isn't overselling the situation. You may argue that it is try-hard, but it is at least accurate. The only negative is that the cursing may be a turnoff for some readers.
@KAEmmons11 күн бұрын
What do you want to declutter in your life? 🌿 Subscribe to Rewildest LIfe to get the FULL Minimalism series: rewildestlife.com/
@PhoebeAstonMusic12 күн бұрын
I haven't been able to meditate for a very long time. Honestly, this was beautiful! thank you so much
@KAEmmons12 күн бұрын
I am so blessed to know that this could serve you, my friend! 🙏☮
@ArianKa11413 күн бұрын
Amazing meditation❤️
@saranrajsenthilkumar713 күн бұрын
Basic of Hinduism “everything is your thought”
@kimgray2815 күн бұрын
I love your videos and they've helped me so much. When you started talking about gardening, I just smiled. After reading Braiding Sweetgrass, I planted a "three sisters" garden. Yesterday afternoon I had my first harvest. Thank you for all your wise words. Keep up the great work!
@EsCrItOr0OB08O16 күн бұрын
If you ask me about villains who are evil for the sake of being evil, what I answer with sympathy for the world is that they can still have great internal conflict. Maybe they literally believe they must be evil because they failed many times in life, escaped an abusive home or were left alone and tried really hard to improve themselves only to be called a freak, but when they found no other means to survive besides something they considered evil, they finally found people who supported and loved them, giving them a reason to be loyal to evil itself, they could still be lovely and charming villains.
@TaylorJackson-fn2om16 күн бұрын
Hi just wondering, how do I write a chapter if my character doesn't want to speak?
@Marayot16 күн бұрын
This is a great challenge. It's beautifully done in "The Silent Patient" by Alex Michaelides. They "speak" with their silence, their actions and reactions or the lack of both.
@TaylorJackson-fn2om16 күн бұрын
Thanks so much, I’m glad I’m not the only author out there going thru this.
@pastureexpectationsfarm641216 күн бұрын
There is certainly no intelligent life on this planet.
@thefatbat555618 күн бұрын
I'm more interested in your thoughts than minimalism. The weird part is I hate clutter with a fiery passion so I suppose I am a minimalist of a sort, just not to the extreme of choosing to live in a glorified closet.
@christineczyryca582018 күн бұрын
What if you're writing a true story and you really don't know what they're thinking? Do you just explain what they did and just what you observe, like facial expressions??
@MrZkoki18 күн бұрын
I'd like to read more from Kate. She is so shy. It's a pity, to be honest.
@hunched_monk327918 күн бұрын
I love your vibe. Came here from your writing pod. Very helpful advice
@akua970018 күн бұрын
This was so beautiful. Thank you ❣️✨️❣️
@deborahmeyers55118 күн бұрын
I've been decluttering for a while for spiritua emotional l and physical space and I have let go alot but I can also do better slowly and when I know I really want the thing out of my space I thank and let go ❤ thank you Kate you are such an inspiration ❤️
@VEdeLange18 күн бұрын
I've accumulated a lot of stuff and tied it into who I am. Hoping to find fulfillment in it. After a while, I realised - instead of me owning all that stuff, it is owning me. Not being able to move freely, think clearly or feel truely. I know by letting go of the things from my past, I can be. I struggle dealing with the sentimental value I attached to things someone gave to me. But that value is a fallace. It reduces the person in the same way as materialism reduces me. We are more than our possessions. Our bond goes deeper. Gifts are just symbols of what is meaningful. Possession of the symbol doesn't change that. Logically, I know it's better to let go, but ask me where that stuff is... I'll show you! Another hurdle is keeping things in case I need it. It's funny how rare it comes true... and when it does, I make do without it because I can't find it. Then, later, I discover the lost treasure. Bury it again, don't bother drawing a map because this time I'll remember! it so happens that I'm actively decluttering this weekend after, after an inciting incident. I feel stronger and more authentic than before I started. Getting clear on what is important to me - who I am, who I want to be - has helped me identify what I want in my life. Thanks for the map, Kate 😊 I would like to see the other 6 pieces
@Sages_and_Pages19 күн бұрын
This really resonated with me! I am in the middle of doing a whole-home decluttering and it's true there are objects that I do not use on a regular basis but are difficult to part with because of memories and emotional attachment connected to them. Thanks for sharing these great insights! You inspired me to keep going on my minimalist journey.
@Marayot19 күн бұрын
I've been decluttering slowly but when I hit a wall is with my family. Both, husband and son, like to collect things and they tend to "fill" the spaces I clear around the house. I managed to save "a corner" for my art but I would like it a bit bigger. Would be interested in boundary setting for this.
@JoshTheWhale18 күн бұрын
❤ of course You need some space, the question is what is going on below the surface. Many men today feel pressured into being tough, and while that can be fine as an element on its own, the question is whether they are conscious of it. Then when you go beneath the surface, the next next questions are whether they are doing it because they feel anxious about the future, or just neglecting taking care of their space because e.g. they have never trained a strong skill of keeping things in order, or they neglect it for some other reason, don't recognize the benefits, etc. Many things can come from the pressure from their environment. If possible, melt any fears with humour, and may You all be in Your decluttering journey optimistic together ❤ Wish You a lot of nice surprises, good mood, step by step progress, peaceful journey and a lot of space ❤
@Rndm077s18 күн бұрын
Embrace the tension of setting boundaries. Be okay with them feeling uncomfortable with your boundaries. Reasonable boundaries of course as your home is a shared space.
@JoshTheWhale18 күн бұрын
@@Rndm077s this was definitely missing from my writing, sorry! 🙏🏻 Yes, leave their responsibility to them. Well placed roles and responsibility should feel nourishing for everyone, and they build respect, cooperation and rapport. You can give someone the benefit of the doubt, but do it in a "obvious" way, to foster safety... and expect the same from them! Should they have unreasonable expectations about You, don't accept these and in a calm way extend the safety e.g. by saying that You also don't expect time-consuming things from them. Men often dislike being wrong 😂 or to be seen as irrational, so hopefully You can use that as well if needed, so they can save their face and so You can expect fairness from them. Don't know how much of a difference between you and them you're dealing with, but hopefully something helps. ❤️ Definitely treat Yourself fairly and appeal to ideals step by step, hopefully You can have some good rapport in no time.
@AbbieEmmons19 күн бұрын
YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION 💗
@KAEmmons19 күн бұрын
YOU are an inspiration ❤❤
@nicolabanda223119 күн бұрын
🫂❤️Thank you.
@supergeekdustin253919 күн бұрын
I've been really struggling creatively since I had to change my brain meds. Hoping I can get back into it.
@willcore_nashton679719 күн бұрын
I have so much difficulty with that type of video because it's so neurotypical type.... that I am like ; " when I try to understand the complexity of the movie or the book it's because I actually like it. It's interesting to me. "
@user-eg3mo3dy5y20 күн бұрын
🤠👍👌🌞❤🙏
@user-eg3mo3dy5y20 күн бұрын
Thank you 🤠👍👌❤🙏
@manager-nim262320 күн бұрын
Your video looks like it was made in 2013
@TaylorJackson-fn2om20 күн бұрын
Hi just wanted to ask how important is plotting if writes the story for me? Because it feels a little depressing and I'm a discovery writer.
@user-ue4sp4pw3v21 күн бұрын
Off topic but I need to know more about those pants please 😄
@thehomelessteddycomics334621 күн бұрын
Great insights. You should look for author Stacy James Meadows. Great episode that is very informative. ❤
@nsellers843621 күн бұрын
“On the edge of my sheet” is when you’re reading in bed and it’s so suspenseful you can’t fall asleep until you know what happens.
@nurianetoibanez226821 күн бұрын
Did you both think at some point about translate your books to another language? Don't know if it's just a possibility... Would be pleased to read it if someday i can find them in spanish 🥰 I'm not so good at english 😅 for sure. Thank you for your content, sisters! See you in the next video❤
@CelinaDK-sy1zq22 күн бұрын
My favorite side characters are Albert and Nellie from Little House on the Prairie, Mitch Henessey from The Long Kiss Goodnight, Basically all of the contestants especially Ms Crawly 🤣😂from Sing.
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My female main character's journey is in a way mirroring my own and she eventually gets to fulfill the dreams and desires i currently can't fulfill. I've been putting off the deep dive into the character profile because i have to relive my own painful journey, but it seems like its a huge must to clarify the misbelief and aha moments.
On the idea of "satisfying your reader": there was a TV show some years ago that I loved the first season of. However, I was so satisfied with how that season ended that I've never cared to go watch any more. Continuing on with the characters feels like it would ruin the perfect ending I already got from the writers and performers.
Somebody forgot the word "glossary."
Thank you both for sharing. This was helpful!
Can your protagonist’s internal conflict change as the story goes on?
Love the ampersand reference to (I'm begging the universe) "A Bit of Fry & Laurie"
How to get a hemorrhoid 101
That whole silent 10 minutes at the beginning of UP. Not one word and it makes you want to cry.
In between Winter Soldier and Civil War, there were a city dropped on civilians and civilian Wakandans killed mistakenly by Wanda. I think that would change one's outlook. Some of the others are stubbornly remaining unaffected by those events.
I recently had to take a medical leave from a job I love and I don’t know if I’ll be able to return because my dissociative disorder became too debilitating to function. I have always judged my worth by performance, whether in work or school or what I can produce creatively, and having my progress slam to a halt like this has destroyed my self worth. I’m trying so hard to implement what you’ve said in this video. Thank you🫶🏻
Ty. Recieved and reflected.
Thank you! This was an eye-opening gratitude discussion.
I really enjoyed your book "The More in the Less" 😊
I have been doing an intentional declutter before an upcoming big move and needing to downsize! These tips are so helpful!
Loved this so much!!
Beautiful and inspiring as always! 😘
Bonus points for getting it done before a divorce
The Martian, by Andy Weir, has my favorite opening line. (Naughty langiage alert) I'm pretty much fucked. That's my considered opinion. Fucked. He's talking about getting stranded on Mars, so he isn't overselling the situation. You may argue that it is try-hard, but it is at least accurate. The only negative is that the cursing may be a turnoff for some readers.
What do you want to declutter in your life? 🌿 Subscribe to Rewildest LIfe to get the FULL Minimalism series: rewildestlife.com/
I haven't been able to meditate for a very long time. Honestly, this was beautiful! thank you so much
I am so blessed to know that this could serve you, my friend! 🙏☮
Amazing meditation❤️
Basic of Hinduism “everything is your thought”
I love your videos and they've helped me so much. When you started talking about gardening, I just smiled. After reading Braiding Sweetgrass, I planted a "three sisters" garden. Yesterday afternoon I had my first harvest. Thank you for all your wise words. Keep up the great work!
If you ask me about villains who are evil for the sake of being evil, what I answer with sympathy for the world is that they can still have great internal conflict. Maybe they literally believe they must be evil because they failed many times in life, escaped an abusive home or were left alone and tried really hard to improve themselves only to be called a freak, but when they found no other means to survive besides something they considered evil, they finally found people who supported and loved them, giving them a reason to be loyal to evil itself, they could still be lovely and charming villains.
Hi just wondering, how do I write a chapter if my character doesn't want to speak?
This is a great challenge. It's beautifully done in "The Silent Patient" by Alex Michaelides. They "speak" with their silence, their actions and reactions or the lack of both.
Thanks so much, I’m glad I’m not the only author out there going thru this.
There is certainly no intelligent life on this planet.
I'm more interested in your thoughts than minimalism. The weird part is I hate clutter with a fiery passion so I suppose I am a minimalist of a sort, just not to the extreme of choosing to live in a glorified closet.
What if you're writing a true story and you really don't know what they're thinking? Do you just explain what they did and just what you observe, like facial expressions??
I'd like to read more from Kate. She is so shy. It's a pity, to be honest.
I love your vibe. Came here from your writing pod. Very helpful advice
This was so beautiful. Thank you ❣️✨️❣️
I've been decluttering for a while for spiritua emotional l and physical space and I have let go alot but I can also do better slowly and when I know I really want the thing out of my space I thank and let go ❤ thank you Kate you are such an inspiration ❤️
I've accumulated a lot of stuff and tied it into who I am. Hoping to find fulfillment in it. After a while, I realised - instead of me owning all that stuff, it is owning me. Not being able to move freely, think clearly or feel truely. I know by letting go of the things from my past, I can be. I struggle dealing with the sentimental value I attached to things someone gave to me. But that value is a fallace. It reduces the person in the same way as materialism reduces me. We are more than our possessions. Our bond goes deeper. Gifts are just symbols of what is meaningful. Possession of the symbol doesn't change that. Logically, I know it's better to let go, but ask me where that stuff is... I'll show you! Another hurdle is keeping things in case I need it. It's funny how rare it comes true... and when it does, I make do without it because I can't find it. Then, later, I discover the lost treasure. Bury it again, don't bother drawing a map because this time I'll remember! it so happens that I'm actively decluttering this weekend after, after an inciting incident. I feel stronger and more authentic than before I started. Getting clear on what is important to me - who I am, who I want to be - has helped me identify what I want in my life. Thanks for the map, Kate 😊 I would like to see the other 6 pieces
This really resonated with me! I am in the middle of doing a whole-home decluttering and it's true there are objects that I do not use on a regular basis but are difficult to part with because of memories and emotional attachment connected to them. Thanks for sharing these great insights! You inspired me to keep going on my minimalist journey.
I've been decluttering slowly but when I hit a wall is with my family. Both, husband and son, like to collect things and they tend to "fill" the spaces I clear around the house. I managed to save "a corner" for my art but I would like it a bit bigger. Would be interested in boundary setting for this.
❤ of course You need some space, the question is what is going on below the surface. Many men today feel pressured into being tough, and while that can be fine as an element on its own, the question is whether they are conscious of it. Then when you go beneath the surface, the next next questions are whether they are doing it because they feel anxious about the future, or just neglecting taking care of their space because e.g. they have never trained a strong skill of keeping things in order, or they neglect it for some other reason, don't recognize the benefits, etc. Many things can come from the pressure from their environment. If possible, melt any fears with humour, and may You all be in Your decluttering journey optimistic together ❤ Wish You a lot of nice surprises, good mood, step by step progress, peaceful journey and a lot of space ❤
Embrace the tension of setting boundaries. Be okay with them feeling uncomfortable with your boundaries. Reasonable boundaries of course as your home is a shared space.
@@Rndm077s this was definitely missing from my writing, sorry! 🙏🏻 Yes, leave their responsibility to them. Well placed roles and responsibility should feel nourishing for everyone, and they build respect, cooperation and rapport. You can give someone the benefit of the doubt, but do it in a "obvious" way, to foster safety... and expect the same from them! Should they have unreasonable expectations about You, don't accept these and in a calm way extend the safety e.g. by saying that You also don't expect time-consuming things from them. Men often dislike being wrong 😂 or to be seen as irrational, so hopefully You can use that as well if needed, so they can save their face and so You can expect fairness from them. Don't know how much of a difference between you and them you're dealing with, but hopefully something helps. ❤️ Definitely treat Yourself fairly and appeal to ideals step by step, hopefully You can have some good rapport in no time.
YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION 💗
YOU are an inspiration ❤❤
🫂❤️Thank you.
I've been really struggling creatively since I had to change my brain meds. Hoping I can get back into it.
I have so much difficulty with that type of video because it's so neurotypical type.... that I am like ; " when I try to understand the complexity of the movie or the book it's because I actually like it. It's interesting to me. "
🤠👍👌🌞❤🙏
Thank you 🤠👍👌❤🙏
Your video looks like it was made in 2013
Hi just wanted to ask how important is plotting if writes the story for me? Because it feels a little depressing and I'm a discovery writer.
Off topic but I need to know more about those pants please 😄
Great insights. You should look for author Stacy James Meadows. Great episode that is very informative. ❤
“On the edge of my sheet” is when you’re reading in bed and it’s so suspenseful you can’t fall asleep until you know what happens.
Did you both think at some point about translate your books to another language? Don't know if it's just a possibility... Would be pleased to read it if someday i can find them in spanish 🥰 I'm not so good at english 😅 for sure. Thank you for your content, sisters! See you in the next video❤
My favorite side characters are Albert and Nellie from Little House on the Prairie, Mitch Henessey from The Long Kiss Goodnight, Basically all of the contestants especially Ms Crawly 🤣😂from Sing.