Katie Ibsen | Fashion Scholar
Katie Ibsen | Fashion Scholar
stressed out ADHD grad student that loves to intellectualize fashion
I just really love old things and looking like I could be from an old Hollywood movie while I galavant around NYC! Join me for some whimsical fun around the city, but also some adhd stress induced essay crises as a graduate student in Fashion Studies at Parsons School of Design in New York City. I also recently graduated with my BA in Anthropology from UC Berkeley!
Instagram: Thevintageacademic
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'Habits' are impossible for me
This is really good, I love the synced blocks
hey thank you for your informative video i want to ask that does parsons will accept one backlog for masters program ? plesase respond if you could thanking you
Hi Katie. I'm Colleen. Just started subscribing to your channel and Kaelyn Grace Apple's as well, since I'm a PhD Sociology student in the University of the Philippines Diliman, and I also just inquired about joining Accepted Society. I know you posted this particular vlog a few months ago, and I know the things you shared here aren't what you might be feeling anymore right now, but I just wanted to say how much I appreciate the vulnerability you shared here, with your feelings of sadness, being overwhelmed, and the challenges you had with your thesis. Of course, I don't want anyone to feel those things, but I've been going through the same things right now with my own final research papers. I also have bipolar II disorder. So, it felt rather comforting to know that I have never been alone in feeling this way because of course there are other grad students who are "neurodivergent" and have also struggled in school. What's important is that you also stayed positive here by being grateful and proud of yourself for what you had achieved in this video, with your thesis. I also have similar concerns as well with my own journey, but mine are more on worries about maybe being dropped from the PhD program if I am not able to meet my deadlines today for my final papers (I've had a hard semester applying and working in jobs in a call center and finally getting a job in a government development agency in the research department, and I think my mental health is getting affected with the lack of sleep I've had this week, working on my papers). But I hope that if I would ask for an extension from my professors, they would understand. I have already asked for consideration on these papers because these are actually delayed research papers that I have from the past year. But I've had a financially difficult time the past year, although I am very grateful that things are looking up since my current job pays well. Moreover, I feel a bit of shame of the idea of asking for another extension from my professors for making bipolar II disorder a reason for being unprofessional about my deadlines, but I just can't help it. My brain hasn't been functioning since yesterday because I feel a bit overwhelmed. I think I might do what you did in this video and get myself some bright light therapy outdoors this morning. In any case, I think I'm going to visit a psychiatrist as well to get an appointment, since that has been long overdue for me. Nothing beats getting a professional to help you out when you need it. But overall, I just wanted to affirm the experiences you've shared in your channel, and how much it is helping people like me. Whatever the future holds, I hope I will be able to stay committed to my goal of developing my country through development work and education (since I was also a college professor), and to graduate from my PhD. Thanks, Katie, and wishing you all good blessings in your schooling and in life!
One of my favorite careers♥️
It was fun while it lasted!
Enjoying your videos for the last two years. What was your experience like at The New School/Parsons? And in comparison to UC Berkeley?
Ooh that’s a huge question! Long story short is that they are two entirely different cultures that took some adjusting to in both cases. I found that I really enjoyed learning at Parsons because UC Berkeley (and community college) gave me a good foundation to work from. It would take a whole video to explain this in depth, but I will add your question to a Q&A video in the future! ♥️
I am submitting my master's thesis in about a month and my ADHD brain is not cooperating as well as I would like it to, but I know I can and will do it! Congrats on submitting your thesis! This is really motivating me right now.
You’ve got this!! Don’t be afraid to trust yourself and lean into your ADHD ability to respond to deadline pressure - just remember to also take care of yourself with sleep, adequate nutrition, water, movement, etc. I know you can do it!! I’ll cross my fingers for you and please update me when you’ve finished!
Thank you! This is so extremely relatable. I struggle with figuring out how to organize all the stuff that gets piled up on shelves, the floor, etc. when it doesn't have a clear place to belong. So I end up leaving stuff in piles gathering dust for months, sometimes years. I need a class on all of this!!
I get that!! I also still leave piles of stuff around the house- especially piles of books lol. It’s something I’m not sure I’ll ever get the hang of 😅
thanks for sharing Katie! it's so uncomfortable to think about our identities outside of "school" or "student" so i think you are very brave for taking a stab at it! 🤍
Aw thank you! It’s something I want to do before I dedicate myself to more years of study. I think it’s important to have a good sense of self when you’re in academia
I related to a lot of this. I had a joke where I'd say "When people ask me what I'm going to do after I graduate, I tell them 'Take a nap!'" But yeah, life moves on, and another massive undertaking is on the horizon. Cool. =)
Taking naps is precisely what I’ve been doing ever since graduation lol. Life does indeed move on and I look forward to what’s next!
Oooooh the tradwife research would be so cool, like studying the political connections and implications and the connection with cottagecore etc. It is indeed emotionally heavy for sure, and I hope you get to do that! 💜 I really loved your observations about how academic work requires a lot of compartmentalization of emotions and the very physical process of thinking, I think I forget that sometimes
Yes!! It's super interesting stuff- I presented it recently and it received some really positive feedback so I'm excited to continue pursuing that research in the future. And I'll always be the first to advocate for our brains as a part of our bodies. Thinking takes so much energy! And thank you for naming compartmentalization, that's definitely the phrase I was reaching for and couldn't find lol
Congratulations on finishing the thesis 🎉🎉 will you be doing a viva presentation?
Thank you! We have the opportunity to present but it's not required. I presented a different project during our symposium
All the best for the future!
Thank you friend!
Thank you for this! If you don't mind me asking, could you provide more context & advice when it comes to finances, especially regarding housing & affording NYC in general? Would you consider your background to be low-income, middle-class, upper-middle-class, wealthy, or ultra-wealthy? Also, do you get financial support from your parents while in school? Additionally, what advice to you have for affording such an expensive city on a daily basis? I'd appreciate a response is as little or as much detail as you're comfortable with sharing & thanks in advance! :)
These are all really great questions! I would love to answer these in detail in a future video, so stick around and I'll get to that this summer!
@@TheVintageAcademic Awesome, thanks! :)
What is that neck and shoulder warmer you have? I need one of those! I get such a cold neck and shoulders when studying at my desk too.
I think I just searched up “shoulder heating pad” on Amazon to find the one that I have! I have a repetitive use injury that flares up so the heating pad really helps
There's nothing racist about being a heterosexual, white person who believes in God and a nuclear family.
Not inherently, no. But purporting it to be the correct way to exist as the foundation of nationhood is racist
@@TheVintageAcademic living as a white, heterosexual, Christian person who believes in a nuclear family, is in no way shape or form mutually exclusive with racism. Unless a person is harming another person or mistreating them based solely off of race. Racism is defined as having a prejudice against another race, or discriminating/antagonizing another individual based solely on their race - NOT their way of living. Deciding to be a person who has old-school values such as traditional gender roles, a home based upon a religious foundation, and homemaking are not inherently associated with just the white race. ALL races have this concept.
@@cozycodingmeg but saying that it’s the right way to live and wanting everyone else to do the same can be racist. Racism is more than direct, overt, interpersonal prejudice from person to person - It’s also subtle, cultural and systematic and governmental etc etc that act to oppress people of certain skin color and/or backgrounds that we might not see on the surface. I’d also encourage you to rethink the claim that “all races have this concept” bc race and culture are not necessarily the same thing, and cultural norms about what makes up a family unit and what is expected in the household and conceptions of gender all changes from culture to culture
Thank you for sharing! I have been cheering you on. It made me emotional to watch you complete and submit. Yay for you!
Thank you!! I'm happy to share this experience with so many wonderful people ♥️
So proud of you my friend! You did so incredibly well! I hope you look back on this with pride ❤ also love the rare James sighting haha
Thank you friend!! I'm so relieved to be done, I'm excited to reflect on these videos in a year or so and feel that pride!
Katie! How fantastic! ❤️ your honesty and vulnerability in this journey will continue to support and validate future students and scholars! As a side note, what citation style does fashion studies use?
Thank you! I really hope it does! And we were required to use Chicago for our thesis! With my Anthro background I was raised on APA so it was quite a shift but I have learned to love footnotes lol
Oh my gosh, CONGRATULATIONS!!!! I’m so so ridiculously excited for you!!!!! You did it, so so very well done!!!! BRAVO!!!! 🎉(And now that I’ve used up my daily allotment of exclamation points, lol, I’ll stop blethering, but, just know, that by sharing your real, your journey, you’ve inspired me in ways you could not even possibly know…thank you, beautiful soul😘❤️)
Please feel free to use all the exclamation marks!!! I’m so honored to hear sharing my experience has inspired you, I only hope I can continue to do so by sharing what’s next- even if I’m not sure what that is!
(I'm bad at lit reviews.) I always remember this line in the Harry Potter movies: "You're going to suffer but be happy about it." Yeah, that's about right when it comes to these things. But, these labors also make good stories to tell, and you've told a great story with these episodes. Congrats, and onto the next struggle! =)
Haha that Harry Potter quote is exactly what it feels like to work on something like this! I’m glad you’ve enjoyed the story and the journey, I’m looking forward to sharing the next one ♥️
I think it's great that you found your way of accomplishing things. If it makes you feel better and gets you results, absolutely do it your way. The journey continues. =)
I agree! Embracing our own ways of doing things is so important!
congrats katie!!!!! not gonna lie this got me in my feels! thank you for sharing your journey with us 🤍
Thank you so much!! Finishing the thesis was for sure an emotional experience so I couldn’t help myself with the montage at the end ahaha
I'm so happy for you! =)
Thank you!
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Thank you Katie for taking us on your journey. God bless you and your family I am certain that in many ways you have no idea who you will inspire. One day Lord willing I will too publish my novel and if it takes me through higher Education. Your witness will inspire me to persevere.
Thank you for the kind words ♥️ I hope you keep working towards your dreams!
YOU DID ITTTT 🎉🎉🎉
I did it!!!! 😁
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Finish it Celebrate it Move on with my life Currently my to-do list 😂
An honorable to-do list lol! You can do it!! Cheering you on from the other side!!
Ouuu I thought it was a weird complex thing I had about walking around and saying what I’m reading out loud, but it WORKS so well! Highly recommend 🤓
Just you accommodating yourself!! 10/10
paying attention but the professor is saying IS SO TRUE
It’s rough
I hope this doesn't sound rude, but you give me hope that I can go to graduate school. I'm so bad when it comes to time management and being late, but I realize that even graduate students make mistakes, so I don't need to be perfect
That’s not rude at all! I’m glad my videos can take away that luster of perfection that academia seems to be and show that it’s actually just full of imperfect people doing their best ♥️
Oh god she started w the feedback 💖 I’m bracing myself for the feels. I’ve been avoiding tackling my feedback for a couple weeks now 🥲 I scanned thru it once and she was v nice but I still felt kinda disappointed that I didn’t come across as focused enough in my paper despite how much I tried bc lol of course I didn’t
I totally get it- but at the end of the day incorporating feedback leads us to a final product that we’re proud of!
I’m so proud of you, Katie! Thank you for sharing this journey with us!
Thank you friend 🥰🫶🏻
"Skinny white boys whine about their lives"😂😂😂😂😂😂
You can do it!
i did my best!
I don't know you, but bc I'm single I have to vicariously live thru u having a happy relationship T_T Helps me to see that it's possible for me one day =)
I feel very lucky to have a supportive and loving partner, I hope you find the same ♥️
@@TheVintageAcademic Yesss~ good luck if you're still in grad school! I just started -_-
@@Mindsetolympics just graduated! Best of luck to you too 🍀
That's rough hopefully you will make it in time good luck
Thanks! Stay tuned to find out
Are you trans??
you got it bro lock in
Thanks friend 🫡
i was basically in the same boat as you and came out with a A- so u got it :)
the apprentice music😭
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I love your stickers on your Apple laptop. Is there a special case you bought to let your stickers shine through or do you just add the stickers to your laptop (without a case)? 😁🤩
Thank you! It’s actually a collage that I made & taped it onto my laptop and then put a clear plastic case over it to protect it and the laptop
Fellow ADHD person here. The whole feedback thing, adding harsh words that aren't there, and taking it personally is rejection sensitivity. Another of the lovely gifts that ADHD bestows. The channel How to ADHD has some great videos on what it is and how to work around it. She also goes hard into the research, which I'm sure you'll appreciate as an academic. I found your channel through Kaelyn's as I'm looking to go back to school in my 40's and was so glad to see you documenting your journey as someone with ADHD. Keep up the great work!
Oooh thank you for pointing that out! I know I experience RSD but I’m not always aware of it! I think my approach of just feeling it and coming back with a clearer head has worked so far but I’ll check out her video! Thank you!
I'm watching this while swatching for the classic Lavenda Rainbow Jumper which is my reward to myself after finishing my masters work and going to my graduation (and then coincidentally also coming down with a cold lol). You have been working so hard, and although I don't always watch all of your videos, I am so happy for you and proud of you and I am so glad to see another woman succeeding in academia while figuring out how to take care of yourself and work with/around the ADHD!
Oooh that sounds like a lovely thing to do as a reward - what a beautiful design/pattern too, I hope to see it when you're done with it! Thank you for the support and the kind words, it means a lot to me - and congrats on finishing your masters work!!
Dang wish you luck
thanks lol
Real lol
it was honestly the worst
Awww I am so happy I was there for you during this time my friend ❤ you absolutely killed it! And I’m sure I’ll be in the exact same position next year! Love you endlessly
I will be forever grateful for the way you love your friends, I wouldn't have finished it without you!! I hope I get to be there for you when you're writing yours!
I was an anthro major in Berkeley and graduated in fall 2017 :)
Aaah I love meeting other Cal Anthro majors! What do you do now??
@@TheVintageAcademic now I am back to Korea and working at liquor compamy. Not much related to Anthro though.. :)
I love hearing you speak so passionately about fashion and education, and how happy you are! Congrats on the abstract acceptances, and thanks for another wonderful and relatable vlog! I also fully get the health anxiety-there have been way too many times where I’ve stayed up all night googling the various ways I’m dying 😅
Aah thank you! I'm glad my passion comes across through the screen, I truly feel so strongly about it. I also have to say I'm glad i'm not alone with the health anxiety - my partner does't get it so sometimes I feel a little silly when it happens