Pray for you and your husband that their will be more understanding and more love and honor
@Lysa-i1i3 минут бұрын
Hi ES, I’m a Swiss lady married to a Ghanaian. In 2000 we decided to move to Tamale and wasn’t able to stay due to financial difficulties. We returned in Europe and came back some years after to continue our projet. Not easy. Finally I returned to Geneva and my husband remains in Tamale as it’s never good to leave your properties on other hands there. I’ll be back by the end of 2024 for retirement in Tamale. I hope to have the chance to see you there as I admire your concept of life. We have a group on Facebook calling Tamale expats and with some of the members we’re used to have a Sunday meeting when we’re around to share our experiences in Ghana. It’s really helpful and can give you a breath. Wish you all the best and hope to have the chance to meet you one day.
@user-sz6hm3bo1v17 минут бұрын
If you ,an black american go to africa,and they ask uou why your in their country? Why you marry their men. Zay" millions of africans live in u.s. ,u.k. ,canada and countries like china and india.......looking for jobs without documents,collecting wellfare and assistance!!!! So i dont see why one or two " black " americans in africa is a problem. You are too timid. Look how bold illigal immigrants are in america!!!
@Blessed-cz4sw21 минут бұрын
I pray that your ok. I saw your last live yesterday you were expressing that you were going to leave Ghana. I pray you will be strong. I pray to the most high that you are protected from all things. Yes we are expressive and many does not like that. God almighty is in control and follow your heart. Love you
@ernestnwachukwu29 минут бұрын
Av been following your channel, you have to be strong, you know it's a different part of your own world and I really feel you when you get emotional , even though the you want the connection and it's like you not getting it but I tell you this with time and patience your resilience will pay.. ❤🎉
@judithbatse766732 минут бұрын
Do you think it will be beneficial to travel to Accra maybe monthly to see your friends? Because I feel like you’re mostly working on the farm and leaving to a different environment once in while may help.
@michellegrant561734 минут бұрын
African men are not easy. I dated two of them .
@fabianbridgewater333336 минут бұрын
You have to go visit thats all leave what happen to our people we cant fix that not to forget but leave it alone God got it move foward now with love it conquered a multitude off sin.
@michellegrant561740 минут бұрын
I was just thinking about you.
@ClayBootsСағат бұрын
Beauty and Blessings with your words. Love is an animal like know other. Thank you for your vulnerability and grace. May your troubles be light and prayers for your Journey ❤❤❤
@shirleysmith3954Сағат бұрын
I understand the way you are feeling and I know you have to do what is best for you. I love my Hubby too. But I am really concerned about when he comes to the United States to live finally, where will we go from there. He’s a strong will man. But he does show compassion for me. He doesn’t like to see me cry or hurt. He’s from Western Africa. I pray we will succeed in our marriage. We have went through a lot for the last 7 years and we are still standing together. I want you to be strong and be happy in life. Much love ❤️ to you.❤🇺🇸
@gianakempСағат бұрын
You guys are so blessed you treat eachother beautiful
@joshuaacquaye6933Сағат бұрын
I anticipated that your marriage would encounter many challenges because the gentleman you married does not meet your standards. He is not well-educated, and in his part of the country, men are traditionally seen as the head of the household. Their culture and religion make it difficult for an educated American like you to adapt.
@ndelek4540Сағат бұрын
You are bigger than life you are a true African Queen stay srrong stay focus and continue this beautiful journey of life❤
@joshuaacquaye6933Сағат бұрын
If you want to leave, you can. I clearly remember when you arrived in Ghana, you vowed never to get involved with any man, only to break that promise.
@tangieking_140 минут бұрын
With all due respect, does that somehow bother you?
@teneishaswinton7591Сағат бұрын
Blahaha…sorry to laugh. I knew Vin Man was going to after you! I remember the skit you guys did where you tried to leave and he ran down the cab and threatened to beat the guy. That man is not about to let you just up and leave! I had the visual of him knocking on the door and throwing you over his shoulder and carrying you away when you open it. Lol
@PleasantGreetings2u2 сағат бұрын
Blessings, Perace and Love!
@TheWatchmanPost2 сағат бұрын
Stay strong for me. I'm a Ghanaian who love you and what you do with your husband❤❤❤. APTTMHYAH
@user-xn1sb3jx6q2 сағат бұрын
The thing is alot of Africans just want to leave Africa to America or Europe i am in Europe and the Africans would come up to me and start asking alot of question like where you from and when i say from the caribbean they will tell me you are my sister then the next question is how long are you here because they need their papers to stay here without Problem i always tell them i like to be ALONE , i know some woman that marry them and after they get what they wanted they start beating them and they even brought women to their Apartment interdrucing them as their cousins😂
@user-xn1sb3jx6q2 сағат бұрын
People can wear 1earing 2 earings 3 three earings four earings it doesnt matter 😂
@limahjamailus53892 сағат бұрын
Hi. ES. Iam from South Pacific, Don't quit, you are a strong lady to go to Africa, Everywhere you go there is challenges. Proverbs 14:1 you have worked hard and built things yourself and you yourself will destroy everything you have built. Hold on, through this storm. You will be fine. ❤
@sonyabell4573Сағат бұрын
In agreement, stay put.
@user-xn1sb3jx6q2 сағат бұрын
Everybody is born with love and hate and if you show love to People they should be able to love you back
@user-mz3sw2qp6z2 сағат бұрын
I tried it. Trying to get some Africans to understand our History/ slavery/ racism is like to talking to a piece of bread or a WP. They are fiercely confident in who they are and i envy that. We are like confused adopted children searching for where we belong. The journey contines and is ongoing. For some Africa and for the many not!
@user-xn1sb3jx6q2 сағат бұрын
Africans knows about slavery they just dont care
@daniella84003 сағат бұрын
Based on my interactions with Africans in the US, is never move to any country in Africa. I’d visit, sure but def not move there. Go to the Caribbean, where they actually like us because as a whole African do NOT like us!
@msongy73 сағат бұрын
Plants are everything! 🪴
@EmilyPeters-ym6ew3 сағат бұрын
Do you and be happy you and your husband life-style is to die for❤❤❤
@EmilyPeters-ym6ew3 сағат бұрын
Sister years ago, a Ghanaian GP TAUGHT ME THAT YOU COULD LIVE ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD HE ALSO SAID GHANAIAN MEN ARE NOT EMOTIONAL AND THE DEFINITION OF LOVE IS NOT THE SAME AS IN THE WEST HE WAS ONE OF MY GREATEST TEACHER SO I GET YOU❤
@znayJ3 сағат бұрын
ES I admire your strength and tenacity 🙏🏾 for your peace of mind stay safe make your move quickly and quietly asap you will be a success wherever your Ancestors lead ✌🏾🫶🏾
@redsak53113 сағат бұрын
Ghana's economy and general quality of live has gone down drastically day by day, year over year in the last 5 years. There's a general sense of hopelessness and regression. There's no leadership in Ghana now. Factor in cultural differences, living in the north, Marriage issues.......It can be a lot.
@godfreyiga20134 сағат бұрын
As an African man who has been in the west,I came to the conclusion that my woman is my backbone and I have made sure she has that power I have nothing in my name and she runs things for the family. It is hers to mess up
@analyticsol94 сағат бұрын
I found out I never really loved anyone. Only loss. Infatuated yes.. love I don't think so... That's what I look for, someone to show how to love and what love is really about
@earldeanpowell30504 сағат бұрын
Thank you for a wealth of information about Ghana Africa. ❤
@TheHiphopgems5 сағат бұрын
Well looks like FBA/Tariq is right, black Americans had an ethnogenesis and they are not African. I've been watching all the back to Africa youtubers since the pandemic, my conclusion is that 1) there is no money in Africa 2) the situation that led to the military defeat of the African and his enslavement are still there, those things being tribalism which leads to people willing to betray another tribe and lack of advanced weapons and financial systems . So when you move to Africa you are living with people that are economically and militarily broken and people that would sell you again if they could. On the other hand if you return to America you will get stuck in 9-5 hell. So I don't have a good advice for you lol. But I would remind you that there is plenty of land for sale in America including California. Another option is the Caribbean which also has a lot of land and a lot of melanin and a different culture than the us
@user-jd4de7os3b5 сағат бұрын
You can homestead, grow your own food, raise livestock and own your land in the USA 🇺🇸. It will be yours legally because we have a functioning government. No malaria, less scamming, no green card tricks, no poison, no 3 or 4? Wives etc. Women have rights in the USA 🇺🇸. Come home!! These Africans are not our people.
@africaine48893 сағат бұрын
But here she is with an african man.
@user-jd4de7os3b5 сағат бұрын
Leave and come home. I don’t trust those people. 🇺🇸 come home to your family. It is dangerous for an American woman to be alone there.
@watulukamedia67245 сағат бұрын
I don’t understand how you have lived there for so long without your kids
@DIYHOUSEANDFARM4 сағат бұрын
When you say kids..did you think that I had small kids based off of other KZreadrs whom have never met or seen them before? Get real.
@watulukamedia67243 сағат бұрын
@@DIYHOUSEANDFARM I remember watching your video many years ago with your kids in Ghana. I love what you do, I watch your video, I am a fan of yours. All love
@DIYHOUSEANDFARM2 сағат бұрын
They are in their 20s enjoying military, working, freedom etc. Everyone’s is not born to chase after their children.
@mahlakomnisi5156Сағат бұрын
ES love u still do❤do have children?
@JustHeavenlyThingsСағат бұрын
@@DIYHOUSEANDFARM A realization I've come to with my adult children and grands (2). Good to know I'm not the only one❤
@user-jw3sw3lh9f6 сағат бұрын
United States corporation is gone. In 2019 it went bankrupt. United States does not exist here in America anymore. United States was NEVER LAND IT WAS A BUSINESS. ABORIGINAL AMERICANS allowed them to come into America. This is when we were Colonized by them until 2019. We are in the process of taking back over our land. I'll stop here. If you feel that you would like to research from the prospective that I mentioned, please do. If you don't care about those issues , It is ok. 💚💚💚💜💜💜🪶LOVE HERE IN AMERICA, the soil is me. PEACE BE WITH YOU!
@user-jw3sw3lh9f6 сағат бұрын
LOVE, RESEARCH, RESEARCH INFORMATION, LOVE I AM a ("black") Indigenous/Aboriginal American Indian. Our family have many farms/land. But, I will say the one in Tennessee is over 400 years old. We have paperwork. No one in my family has ever been a slave. Although we know some "black" people were. Also, "white" people were as well (some). 💚💚💚💜💜💜🪶LOVE
@stephaniejames49407 сағат бұрын
I'm from California. Born in LA, grew up in Palmdale/Lancaster area. But LA was my spot, mainly because all my family is still there, most of them. But I loved going to Lemert Park. So many festivities, and food, and people, and culture all in one are with us! Come on back. If not Cali, Vegas bound okay. The car chases everyday, all day, along with street take overs will be waiting. Oh, and the smash and grab up and down the coast.
@victoriadove33637 сағат бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@victoriadove33637 сағат бұрын
❤
@vickieadams664810 сағат бұрын
Monkey Du is really growing up. You look elegant but comfortable. That's your color. You have a great grasp on the horticulture around you. I love the compound. It's so neat and organized. I love the circular pathway of stone, because it helps keep the dirt and mud out of the house. The rabbit is bigger than Monkey Du 😂😂. This was a great activity, showing how to repurpose the resources around you ( egg shells and bamboo). I didn't know egg shells had to be dried. I guess because when composting they can remain the same until they break down in the mix. You got a lot done in this video. I love trips to town.
@Indigo_Jean10 сағат бұрын
So comforting, to hear and see such a healthy dialogue. The community is beautiful. I often miss the Lives, however the realness is needed on the youtube platform. Highs and lows, happy and sad days. Love and frustration, all part of this beautiful human experience. The riches of this life, allow us to explore our emotions, our realities, no matter what the circumstances. To reflect with love and appreciation for ourselves and others, who also contribute to that richness. This was so beautiful to watch. Thank you. 💫🤗💫
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Pray for you and your husband that their will be more understanding and more love and honor
Hi ES, I’m a Swiss lady married to a Ghanaian. In 2000 we decided to move to Tamale and wasn’t able to stay due to financial difficulties. We returned in Europe and came back some years after to continue our projet. Not easy. Finally I returned to Geneva and my husband remains in Tamale as it’s never good to leave your properties on other hands there. I’ll be back by the end of 2024 for retirement in Tamale. I hope to have the chance to see you there as I admire your concept of life. We have a group on Facebook calling Tamale expats and with some of the members we’re used to have a Sunday meeting when we’re around to share our experiences in Ghana. It’s really helpful and can give you a breath. Wish you all the best and hope to have the chance to meet you one day.
If you ,an black american go to africa,and they ask uou why your in their country? Why you marry their men. Zay" millions of africans live in u.s. ,u.k. ,canada and countries like china and india.......looking for jobs without documents,collecting wellfare and assistance!!!! So i dont see why one or two " black " americans in africa is a problem. You are too timid. Look how bold illigal immigrants are in america!!!
I pray that your ok. I saw your last live yesterday you were expressing that you were going to leave Ghana. I pray you will be strong. I pray to the most high that you are protected from all things. Yes we are expressive and many does not like that. God almighty is in control and follow your heart. Love you
Av been following your channel, you have to be strong, you know it's a different part of your own world and I really feel you when you get emotional , even though the you want the connection and it's like you not getting it but I tell you this with time and patience your resilience will pay.. ❤🎉
Do you think it will be beneficial to travel to Accra maybe monthly to see your friends? Because I feel like you’re mostly working on the farm and leaving to a different environment once in while may help.
African men are not easy. I dated two of them .
You have to go visit thats all leave what happen to our people we cant fix that not to forget but leave it alone God got it move foward now with love it conquered a multitude off sin.
I was just thinking about you.
Beauty and Blessings with your words. Love is an animal like know other. Thank you for your vulnerability and grace. May your troubles be light and prayers for your Journey ❤❤❤
I understand the way you are feeling and I know you have to do what is best for you. I love my Hubby too. But I am really concerned about when he comes to the United States to live finally, where will we go from there. He’s a strong will man. But he does show compassion for me. He doesn’t like to see me cry or hurt. He’s from Western Africa. I pray we will succeed in our marriage. We have went through a lot for the last 7 years and we are still standing together. I want you to be strong and be happy in life. Much love ❤️ to you.❤🇺🇸
You guys are so blessed you treat eachother beautiful
I anticipated that your marriage would encounter many challenges because the gentleman you married does not meet your standards. He is not well-educated, and in his part of the country, men are traditionally seen as the head of the household. Their culture and religion make it difficult for an educated American like you to adapt.
You are bigger than life you are a true African Queen stay srrong stay focus and continue this beautiful journey of life❤
If you want to leave, you can. I clearly remember when you arrived in Ghana, you vowed never to get involved with any man, only to break that promise.
With all due respect, does that somehow bother you?
Blahaha…sorry to laugh. I knew Vin Man was going to after you! I remember the skit you guys did where you tried to leave and he ran down the cab and threatened to beat the guy. That man is not about to let you just up and leave! I had the visual of him knocking on the door and throwing you over his shoulder and carrying you away when you open it. Lol
Blessings, Perace and Love!
Stay strong for me. I'm a Ghanaian who love you and what you do with your husband❤❤❤. APTTMHYAH
The thing is alot of Africans just want to leave Africa to America or Europe i am in Europe and the Africans would come up to me and start asking alot of question like where you from and when i say from the caribbean they will tell me you are my sister then the next question is how long are you here because they need their papers to stay here without Problem i always tell them i like to be ALONE , i know some woman that marry them and after they get what they wanted they start beating them and they even brought women to their Apartment interdrucing them as their cousins😂
People can wear 1earing 2 earings 3 three earings four earings it doesnt matter 😂
Hi. ES. Iam from South Pacific, Don't quit, you are a strong lady to go to Africa, Everywhere you go there is challenges. Proverbs 14:1 you have worked hard and built things yourself and you yourself will destroy everything you have built. Hold on, through this storm. You will be fine. ❤
In agreement, stay put.
Everybody is born with love and hate and if you show love to People they should be able to love you back
I tried it. Trying to get some Africans to understand our History/ slavery/ racism is like to talking to a piece of bread or a WP. They are fiercely confident in who they are and i envy that. We are like confused adopted children searching for where we belong. The journey contines and is ongoing. For some Africa and for the many not!
Africans knows about slavery they just dont care
Based on my interactions with Africans in the US, is never move to any country in Africa. I’d visit, sure but def not move there. Go to the Caribbean, where they actually like us because as a whole African do NOT like us!
Plants are everything! 🪴
Do you and be happy you and your husband life-style is to die for❤❤❤
Sister years ago, a Ghanaian GP TAUGHT ME THAT YOU COULD LIVE ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD HE ALSO SAID GHANAIAN MEN ARE NOT EMOTIONAL AND THE DEFINITION OF LOVE IS NOT THE SAME AS IN THE WEST HE WAS ONE OF MY GREATEST TEACHER SO I GET YOU❤
ES I admire your strength and tenacity 🙏🏾 for your peace of mind stay safe make your move quickly and quietly asap you will be a success wherever your Ancestors lead ✌🏾🫶🏾
Ghana's economy and general quality of live has gone down drastically day by day, year over year in the last 5 years. There's a general sense of hopelessness and regression. There's no leadership in Ghana now. Factor in cultural differences, living in the north, Marriage issues.......It can be a lot.
As an African man who has been in the west,I came to the conclusion that my woman is my backbone and I have made sure she has that power I have nothing in my name and she runs things for the family. It is hers to mess up
I found out I never really loved anyone. Only loss. Infatuated yes.. love I don't think so... That's what I look for, someone to show how to love and what love is really about
Thank you for a wealth of information about Ghana Africa. ❤
Well looks like FBA/Tariq is right, black Americans had an ethnogenesis and they are not African. I've been watching all the back to Africa youtubers since the pandemic, my conclusion is that 1) there is no money in Africa 2) the situation that led to the military defeat of the African and his enslavement are still there, those things being tribalism which leads to people willing to betray another tribe and lack of advanced weapons and financial systems . So when you move to Africa you are living with people that are economically and militarily broken and people that would sell you again if they could. On the other hand if you return to America you will get stuck in 9-5 hell. So I don't have a good advice for you lol. But I would remind you that there is plenty of land for sale in America including California. Another option is the Caribbean which also has a lot of land and a lot of melanin and a different culture than the us
You can homestead, grow your own food, raise livestock and own your land in the USA 🇺🇸. It will be yours legally because we have a functioning government. No malaria, less scamming, no green card tricks, no poison, no 3 or 4? Wives etc. Women have rights in the USA 🇺🇸. Come home!! These Africans are not our people.
But here she is with an african man.
Leave and come home. I don’t trust those people. 🇺🇸 come home to your family. It is dangerous for an American woman to be alone there.
I don’t understand how you have lived there for so long without your kids
When you say kids..did you think that I had small kids based off of other KZreadrs whom have never met or seen them before? Get real.
@@DIYHOUSEANDFARM I remember watching your video many years ago with your kids in Ghana. I love what you do, I watch your video, I am a fan of yours. All love
They are in their 20s enjoying military, working, freedom etc. Everyone’s is not born to chase after their children.
ES love u still do❤do have children?
@@DIYHOUSEANDFARM A realization I've come to with my adult children and grands (2). Good to know I'm not the only one❤
United States corporation is gone. In 2019 it went bankrupt. United States does not exist here in America anymore. United States was NEVER LAND IT WAS A BUSINESS. ABORIGINAL AMERICANS allowed them to come into America. This is when we were Colonized by them until 2019. We are in the process of taking back over our land. I'll stop here. If you feel that you would like to research from the prospective that I mentioned, please do. If you don't care about those issues , It is ok. 💚💚💚💜💜💜🪶LOVE HERE IN AMERICA, the soil is me. PEACE BE WITH YOU!
LOVE, RESEARCH, RESEARCH INFORMATION, LOVE I AM a ("black") Indigenous/Aboriginal American Indian. Our family have many farms/land. But, I will say the one in Tennessee is over 400 years old. We have paperwork. No one in my family has ever been a slave. Although we know some "black" people were. Also, "white" people were as well (some). 💚💚💚💜💜💜🪶LOVE
I'm from California. Born in LA, grew up in Palmdale/Lancaster area. But LA was my spot, mainly because all my family is still there, most of them. But I loved going to Lemert Park. So many festivities, and food, and people, and culture all in one are with us! Come on back. If not Cali, Vegas bound okay. The car chases everyday, all day, along with street take overs will be waiting. Oh, and the smash and grab up and down the coast.
Thanks for sharing
❤
Monkey Du is really growing up. You look elegant but comfortable. That's your color. You have a great grasp on the horticulture around you. I love the compound. It's so neat and organized. I love the circular pathway of stone, because it helps keep the dirt and mud out of the house. The rabbit is bigger than Monkey Du 😂😂. This was a great activity, showing how to repurpose the resources around you ( egg shells and bamboo). I didn't know egg shells had to be dried. I guess because when composting they can remain the same until they break down in the mix. You got a lot done in this video. I love trips to town.
So comforting, to hear and see such a healthy dialogue. The community is beautiful. I often miss the Lives, however the realness is needed on the youtube platform. Highs and lows, happy and sad days. Love and frustration, all part of this beautiful human experience. The riches of this life, allow us to explore our emotions, our realities, no matter what the circumstances. To reflect with love and appreciation for ourselves and others, who also contribute to that richness. This was so beautiful to watch. Thank you. 💫🤗💫
You have amazing videos-from San Diego California
Wait...look up Project 2025😢
🤲🏾 amin amin
This is sooo sweet and kind❤
Hope you are doing well