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@ledijuazeez

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the video I've been charging towards my girl after she wants a break up but after watching your videos I realized I was doing the wrong thing so starting today I'm starting the No Contact rule

@LazypunK07

6 ай бұрын

I have question. this part is my fault. I have a partner and accidentally I hurt her physically because we are both jealous, she goes away and after a month she goes back to her ex. and now I really sorry really really sorry of what I did. she gave me 2nd chance but it went rough again. I did all ways to fix it but it seems she doesn't want to comeback to me. I cried heavily day by day until now, and when I'm at work, I remember memories of us and it deeply hurt my heart. even I did a way to move on there's a part of me that saying I want her back. I changed myself now. and now we don't have communication. should I let her go? can someone give me advice

Give those who don’t appreciate your presence, the gift of your absence

@Biggest..

10 ай бұрын

🎯

Perfect timing on what I am going through now, I have not talk to my women for 5 days and is hard but I keep myself busy by going to the Gym, talking to friends and family about life or relationship advice we all need some reassurance in our lives just relax and have peace of mind know that everything will be okay be positive and stay happy. Keep moving forward gentlemen.

@Jaygw0p

Жыл бұрын

We in the same boat bro

@EzazHazarika

9 ай бұрын

@@Jaygw0p another one here friends - but Jessica nails it nice and proper!! Let us be at it 🙂

@fortheyarerandom

7 ай бұрын

update?

She's always delivering her messages at the right time👏

Yes, many people break this rule. It's good you are teaching us how not to mess it up

@tankthearc9875

9 күн бұрын

i was doing so well and making progress but i slipped up and looked at her phone log and called a number , turned out to be her gf at work, messed up badly she got mad and i have to start all over again

Thanks to your advice in previous videos I found it easy to take this step (as it had become necessary) as far as my last relationship was concerned. It was simple to stick to and I've moved on since then. Thanks again! 😊

Thank you Jessica , Im in a heartbroken place right now and your videos/content is what I have to keep myself together. Thank you for your work .

Your timing on this is impeccable Jess...just what i was needing...thanks

Wow this is where I always mess up, thanks for the update. Watching from Kenya

Please respond to your exes when they contact you, if you ghost them, it's really awkward for you contacting them later, or even expecting them to contact. Just respond, don't put emotions or drama, and never initate or reach out. Ghosting them can be bad for you when they don't reach out to you after the period.

@iamhypnotist994

Жыл бұрын

exactly if they reach out, they miss you and by not responding, most ex's won't wanna get rejected again

@shannonjackson3470

Жыл бұрын

💯

@liamnicholls7106

Жыл бұрын

@@iamhypnotist994it matters that when they reach out they are reaching out on your terms and conditions, if they are just calling to confide in you they are benefiting from you without giving you what you want.

@ronaldclaude1892

Жыл бұрын

You’re absolutely right. I haven’t initiated contact for 40 days, but she reached out 2 times and I answered cordially and briefly.

@countdowntorevolution9986

10 ай бұрын

yes I match their energy.

Bless you Jessica,very valuable advice as always x

Hey Jess, been awhile, your channel is of course still very relevant. Keep cooking!

Thank you Lady Jessica for the tips and the truth already well spoken.

She is a great help to so many of us

Haven't even heard your advice yet and I know it's going to be well received. Thank you

I'm currently going through a no contact rule with my ex it's over 2months plus and I haven't contacted her or texted her, I must confess it's been difficult but I have been strong to pull through. Jessy ur videos on no contact rule has also helped me alot to reach this stage. Thanks

@ELCLAVE300

Жыл бұрын

Has your ex reached out at all?

@aniediumoekam3340

4 ай бұрын

Had your ex tried to reach out with you

This is really educating and very insightful. Thanks Jessica, you're awesome 👌

Hey Jesicca its ...Chicco Watching From Nairoi, Kenya...I Love your Content,it has realy helped me in making wise decesions in dating

The "No Contact Rule" hmmmmmm, difficult to obey unless you are very discipline. Thanks for given the tips on how not to break this Rule again. Thanks very much.

@torhbakalit908

Жыл бұрын

It's easy just think bout that girl who shake u off like a used tissue ,usually it works for me I loose interests mostly after I need to play bs like this

@aklikpe

Жыл бұрын

@@torhbakalit908 That is well noted, thanks for sharing

I felt like you stared into my soul and read my mind. I violated this rule because like you said, I figured out of sight, out of mind. She will move on and that is the hardest to cope with. I also am guilty of the rebound relationships. I definitely have found myself looking at what the new person in lacking in comparison to my ex. I don't want to get into any new relationships because I know that I will just be comparing them to her. I also deal with a lot of triggers that remind me of her like highway signs that have her city on them, parks where we used to walk, etc. It got to the point where I can be on vacation and I will see women who remind me of her to the point where I might not even be thinking about her, but when I see them, feelings start flowing back.

Thank You Jess.

Thank you Jessica you’ve helped me so much ❤

Hi it's been a while last Dec on no contact rule and focusing on myself funny thing is I'm happy without her and I don't miss her I really fill light

this woman is too good...... Damn

Thank you Jessica!!!

Jessica thanks so much you really help my emotion

I love your advices!!! Thank you very much

@JessicaOS

Жыл бұрын

Glad you like them!

Thank you Jessica, this came in handy😍

We didn't talk to each other for 2months...the moment we saw again, we made out. But it was clear we aren't dating again. Cos everytime I remember why we broke up...I get pissed again. Thanks 4 this ... I'm losing that number and reestablishing the NCR

This video is fully packed with more helpful and valuable information. Thank you, Jessica. You need a round of applause 👏.

@JessicaOS

Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

Thanks Jessica, the timing of this video was just perfect. After a 6-year relationship I started to go through this just yesterday and I've never felt so sad and desperate to talk with that person. It's really that hard to not mess this up :(

@JessicaOS

Жыл бұрын

You got this!

@tonyflores6237

Жыл бұрын

did you keep it up?

Keep up the great work.

Yoh Jess is not easy but I'm fine now, Is been 3 months now with NC i am coming a better person now🙏🙏

Thanks Jessica, watching you from Kenya, l have been going through this, l broke the no contact rule, lemme start it again, to b honest it's not easy

Thanks Again Jessica.

Keep up the good work 🤜♥️

Much love from Kenya,your videos are quite impactful

Thank you Jess...I must say I literally hurt my woman emotionally but sincerely it's unintentional. Maybe because it's my first relationship and it's really hard to handle relationship matters for now... My lady would say "she doesn't give up relationship easily but when She does that's final" I truly love her but I don't know why I give her so much pain emotionally... Recently she decided I give her a break...(not necessarily a break up)most times I would text but she never responded or better still one word answers and it painful... To some extent I seem like a nuisance by texting her without her responding but she would read them. sincerely, I want her back but I want to be a better version of myself.. She do say she likes it best when we were friends before we got so intimate... Not texting her is so hard to do but I would try to give her the break she deserves and i would try to get better...God willing we sort things out... I wish I could show a chat..most of the issues where "I do make her cry on her birthdays(3 consecutive birthdays), I don't know how to manage her emotions" Though sometimes she gets overly sensitive... I really wish I knew this to make her happy.. Thank you Jess once again..

Hi Jessica, I have finally subscribed. I have been watching your channel for a about a yr now and you just keep knocking it out the park with simple solutions and thought out answers to very complicated everyday struggles. My ex had her reasons to break up with me but made it clear that she saw us going no where so when i return a msg to respond, i put 0 feelings into it and just severed. I told her to take care and to not worry about my clothes, that she could get rid of em however she liked. I knew that this would bother her but i also respected her position. I wasnt going to argue it and i didnt want to see her face to face for this because i didnt think it was genuine, so i tried to make it difficult for her to come over because i could sense anxiety and pain. I never wanted that for us and she just couldnt move on so i tried to make it easy. So last night, she calls me at 1 am, she cant by pass DND anymore, we are done. So i msg her back and she doesnt respond all day. Did i break no contact? Also, i havent even watched this video, so i am sure it should help but, yea i just wanted to know what you thought because i dont like friendzoning and i would much rather move on or start over later.

Hello Jessica, greetings from Zambia. Thanks for all the advise you give us on love, relationship and communication. Am really learning alot from you and it's really working out in my life.

@afriyiejonathan9196

Жыл бұрын

You see, she is a Ghanaian,

Thanks Jessy,much appreciation from 🇿🇼

This has really helped me

Thank you ❤

Actually taking notes.

Please do a video on how to deal with narcissistic parents

I mustve listened to this one particular video at least 10 times for it to be drilled into my head.

I appreciate your work

@JessicaOS

4 ай бұрын

It's my pleasure

I messed up Jess.. But I love her 😞

thanks

My ex and I are co workers and I broke the no contact rule to look for compromise in the work place for the sake of professionalism. She is a head nurse and I’m a physical therapist with her completely not speaking is causing issues in the work place

After successfully going through this do we wait to b contacted or we can just contact her?

What do i do when i spoke to her then left her on read after i spoke about how the relationship made me feel then i stoped speaking to her

Jess❤thank u so much, one question how do u cope with the ex u work with please help

Perfect

I was in NC when my ex reached out. Everything was casual and cordial. Then he reach out again after 5 days. I was tired of his mixed signals and i lashed out. Whenever he reached out he always made sure to make it clear that it was purely for work.

Im practicing no contact with my ex who really wanted to be friends after the break up i even gave up on our snap streak but she put it back and to avoid awkward ghosting I maintain it but i don't send anything but a black screen its our only point of contact but I'm still not sure if im doing this right or not im doing better as time goes by but i still feel like im messing up

I did wait the 30 days, but messed up after. About 40 days in. Within the first 30 days, he reached out 3x guilt tripping me into believing that I was childish for not staying friends. So I reached out to say that my reasons for not being friends were valid: and I felt stupid right after reaching out, bc he reiterated that we had no future. So even tho I kinda failed, I now won’t fall back into the guilt tripping.

I tired the no contact rule but could not go through with and am still with her feels just looking for how to stop that

Greetings from Cameroon. What if she'es constantly contacting you all the time to tell you the child is not feeling fine he needs to go to hospital?

God bless 🙏 any one watching these Amen

@countdowntorevolution9986

10 ай бұрын

amen

I have done more than 3 months and she is now calling me, I can't even pick up, cus I forget I knew her

How does this rule work do you tell the person you going no contact or you just go on to start the rule?

You are good

Oh jes I missed it but I enjoy it wow.

No contact means No contact,,, period!! Put the fon down and go get a life ✌️😎

What if I'm not strong enough to even start a no contact. I text and leave a voicemail everyday even though I'm blocked I know she listens to them. we broke up and 2 weeks later she was seeing another man. I'm still not strong enough to do this. she was still calling me every day up until last weekend. I'm just confused and weak. I'm in the worst position of my life and I don't know how to do anything about it...

Jess thanks I just apply this n it working really my x is calling texting n begging to see me , should I let her see me?

@olivierrenard1855

Жыл бұрын

Of course. Follow Your HEART and do NOT ACT liké Artificiel Intelligence. Every relation IS UNIQUE so do NOT apply this Advice liké a ROBOT. You also have a SOUL so seek Inspiration and also REMEMBER that no human is perfect... ᕙ⁠(⁠ ⁠ ⁠•⁠ ⁠‿⁠ ⁠•⁠ ⁠ ⁠)⁠ᕗ

So if she reaches out in the first 30 days you should not respond. So basically you ghost her for 30 days, and expect her to continue chasing you? I don't think so.

@ronaldclaude1892

Жыл бұрын

The most effective no contact is to never reach out, or initiate a conversation. However, when they reach out, you have answer cordially and briefly. You do not keep the conversation going unless it’s they are saying things that really have substance. You do not answer all breadcrumbs, and you also do not answer right away. It is crucial that you never display emotions and bitterness.

@isaacjacobs3785

8 ай бұрын

100%. There is over 100 plus so called 'experts' and it's all BS, all sales pitches. Praying on you, why you are emotionally weak. Everyone and every relationship is different. If its meant to be, they will come back. Self respect, self value, and faith in your own journey. There is the need to give them space, and yourself but there is no timeline to follow other than your heart. Just don't chase, it is not attractive!

@TayongoExplores

8 ай бұрын

@@isaacjacobs3785 The no contact rule is for those who want to use it. No one said it's the only solution to your problems.

Never go back to your ex😎..its that easy if you are mentally strong...

I understand this me and my son mother is now the best of friends because I stay away for a Year to show her I'm a man not no boy ps ladies stop calling a man who get up every morning and chase the bag

It's really weird...she said not to contact her but she hasn't blocked me. It's so confusing and painful. She blocked me on every platform except her phone. We don't have a timeframe. I sent her flowers and messed up.

Please ma I have an ex after 5 years he sent me hi I don’t know how to forget him tho he said he wants to be friends please help me

Good day I need to know, what do we do when we meet them, not accidentally but randomly. Do we greet them or not?

@sncnutrition7118

Жыл бұрын

Yes, what should we do??

@chinpallatea8007

Жыл бұрын

If it’s unavoidable, I’d say give the situation a small acknowledgment. Say hi, keep it small but move on. Ignore it. If there are others in the setting, mingle with them and let them speak for you. “Oh wow have you talked to xyz, they’re really funny…they got that new job they were looking for…looks like they’ve been hitting the gym…”

Brian Aginga from Nairobi Kenya

I've been 14 years together with her, and this 2023 in August 10th we broke up. In short, after 3 months 18 days, she text me to say happy birthday, and I reply with "thank you". Guess what, she never text me again, she don't even read my thank you message. Am i doing wrong? Someone please give me some advice. Should i move on or?

I was in a ten years relationship she cheat on me l beat her now she blocked me in everything. We still stay in the Same house l still love her the problem is she doesn’t care any more what’s your advice

Broke this rule 3 times and I keep getting shitted on by my exes new man he answers every time my ex never let me answer their phn

She unblocked me but she text me wen want she to ask me something but when i text her she can't even reply me

What do I do when my ex keeps messaging me goodnight and goodmorning? Should I respond back and that’s it or just ignore it?

@JessicaOS

10 ай бұрын

Ignore

@RoyalPandorian

10 ай бұрын

@@JessicaOS thank you for responding I appreciate it and I’ll try to go fully no contact for at least a month

She contacted me and I responded... What does that mean

Hello Jessica! Please, we want a content on how to find a life partner?

I have question. this part is my fault. I have a partner and accidentally I hurt her physically because we are both jealous, she goes away and after a month she goes back to her ex. and now I really sorry really really sorry of what I did. she gave me 2nd chance but it went rough again. I did all ways to fix it but it seems she doesn't want to comeback to me. I cried heavily day by day until now, and when I'm at work, I remember memories of us and it deeply hurt my heart. even I did a way to move on there's a part of me that saying I want her back. I changed myself now. and now we don't have communication. should I let her go? can someone give me advice

@norswil8763

2 ай бұрын

You hit her? If so you don’t deserve her and she should stay away from you. There are not many things worse than physical abuse - go get therapy.

So I got my ex a gift for Valentine's day but sadly we recently broke up. But i still want her to have the gift. Is it okay if I get someone to send it to her ?

@pepsicolla123

Жыл бұрын

No, please please please don't do it. She's not ready to reconcile with you yet. You'll hurt your chances

What is expected to do after d no contact rule

@akasickform

7 ай бұрын

Wait for *them* to contact you..

Please what can I do to make him love to Love Me Again

4:25 thats the main reason when a women leaves.. they think they can have or they already have someone better than you..

David Pitter from 🇹🇹 here

❤❤❤❤

It is not easy sha

I wish I saw this a couple of years ago. NC is the only way!

Is it advisable the block ur ex's contact during the No Contact rule?

@countdowntorevolution9986

10 ай бұрын

not if the end goal is to see her again.

There is over 100 plus so called 'experts' and it's all BS, all sales pitches. Praying on you, why you are emotionally weak. Everyone and every relationship is different. If its meant to be, they will come back. Self respect, self value, and faith in your own journey. There is the need to give them space, and yourself but there is no timeline to follow other than your heart. Just don't chase, it is not attractive!

My boyfriend came back from abroad so I have two kids for him and then since he came back this is making one year is going to a year now and he has not touch me or have sex with me

👍🙏❤️

I can’t just get her over my head

@megwalunonso5542

Жыл бұрын

It's not easy but u need too. I'm currently in that situation

so what happen if you work in the same place. find a new job id not that easy.

This made me realize how fuckin good I’m doing

I'm agree contacted person you but me

Didn't know such a rule exists,if you cut me off, I will be polite respectfully when running into,but I will go to great lengths to avoid you 😅

How do we do the limited no contact