if their absence brings you peace it wasn’t a loss.

@r.e45

3 жыл бұрын

(.)

@firstladyqueen5985

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah ☺️☺️ and it can still feel like a loss although it's more healthy and peaceful for one's spirit. P.s. I read a psychology article and it said we hurt cause there was a connection no matter how fake or toxic it was. Now we have to get used to Not talking to and/or seeing the person. And trauma bonds are even worse!😢😓

@hellodiamonds

3 жыл бұрын

BIG facts!

@HoneyHoneyBaby

3 жыл бұрын

Hello 🤗 It was a win 💯🌟‼️

@HerShe_

3 жыл бұрын

Whew A WORD

“don’t be afraid to lose any guy “ MAJORRRRR KEY!

@kandacenoire

3 жыл бұрын

kyncoTV ANY!

@joanaborges9450

3 жыл бұрын

YES! Absolutely. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Not every guy is going to be "the one", and that's ok.

@evelynruiz6772

3 жыл бұрын

Definitely needed to hear this rn

@KimikoA24

3 жыл бұрын

my energy all 2021 i swear , i move on when i feel that the guy is a player , like to seduce many women , idc how fine he can be , i get my L rightttt

@MW-ob8jm

3 жыл бұрын

I absolutely agree but also prepare to be single for a while...

"Stop giving fish credit for swimming" best quote of my life.

@ArshennaHines

3 жыл бұрын

Love it ! 😊

@charlenetchicou

3 жыл бұрын

She just dropped like whaaaat! I am using it for life🙂

@tarabooch3024

2 жыл бұрын

I'm loving for this quote 🤣

Wow “he hasn’t done anything to show he’s a husband why are you trying to prove you’re a wife”

@princesscollection6

3 жыл бұрын

this right here!!!

@adeline6799

3 жыл бұрын

So damn true

@sidrahkausersyed7490

3 жыл бұрын

This really hit hard

@wannabeagoodperson5827

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, that made me understand the whole point.. made me see it all in a new perspective!

@missfefeloves

3 жыл бұрын

Yess team stacie

“let them do what they want to do so you can see what they would rather do” I NEEDED TO HEAR THAT OMG

@Tatianarain

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! I recently started doing this. Let them show their cards and tell on themselves. They'll feel more manly and you can decide if their true self is what u wanna choose or not

@niamacathey8304

3 жыл бұрын

c1981 stfu you’re a man probably and on a video about women talking about men move on

@Grace-ov5zi

3 жыл бұрын

Niama Cathey thanks queen

@niamacathey8304

3 жыл бұрын

Grace Cooper np and take any advice you can I just got done with a 6 year relationship and it was tough but prayer and videos of other ppl and just trying to live outside of the person helped but just continue to pray if you are and be honest to God and trust you’ll get through it

@tacos6977

3 жыл бұрын

WHEN I HEARD HER SAY THAT......

This hurts but it’s okay. Done being desperate. Reclaiming my crown.

@AshaChristinaFoster

3 жыл бұрын

House of Truth Tarot there you go babe ;)

@KimikoA24

3 жыл бұрын

peeweeyooood

@littleleah310

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@joreennkole6276

3 жыл бұрын

This hurt me too because I have made so many mistakes but that all stops today. I promise myself this

@yoongisgirlfriend9302

3 жыл бұрын

Y'all inspiring me to be my best self👑Thank you all.....Let's all become the boss of our lives and relationships💅😌As we should💅👑

Ladies if you wanna know the character of a man just tell him NO.

@prettygirlslovepink

3 жыл бұрын

this exactly.

@MiszFit09

3 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

@crpwifey2562

3 жыл бұрын

AMEN

@lovelight2919

3 жыл бұрын

Sooks

@lnnttr

3 жыл бұрын

fr i did this and he got mad

From a man’s point of view. A Good woman is the prize. My wife was definitely my prize 😁. And 16 years of marriage and two kids later, I’m the winner.

@CrystalDatingCoach

3 жыл бұрын

HALLELUJAH!! A man agrees. Women are the PRIZE!! 🏆

@behaviorwellnesspodcast9574

3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations! Yes you are the winner.

@kay744

3 жыл бұрын

“A word for someone” Hi I’m someone.

@CrystalDatingCoach

3 жыл бұрын

@@kay744 Someone SPECIAL. Any Man Is Fortunate to have me in his life. Repeat everyday! 😍

@xguy9999

3 жыл бұрын

Remember, Proverbs 18:22; The man who finds a wife finds a treasure, and he receives favor from the LORD. Ladies you are the treasure that the right man wants to find.

Asha just said "you're not about to deliver yourself to him like you're uber eats" 🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣

@orubek355

3 жыл бұрын

😂

@vaunni

3 жыл бұрын

I died 😂😭😭😭

@fevvral

3 жыл бұрын

i literally had to stop what i was doing and seize out of laughter

@bervelyesteves6379

3 жыл бұрын

🤣

@imeldamahlake6258

3 жыл бұрын

At 2am🤣🤣😂😂

Ladies go and read: "he's just not that into you" and forget about him. There are more exciting things in life than men lol!

@mrcolemore5831

3 жыл бұрын

Like cats and dildos

@taymonsterbren6852

3 жыл бұрын

Mr Colemore lol right

@user-of9bx1uk3u

3 жыл бұрын

That's the truth.

@Evettecord

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

@mrcolemore5831

3 жыл бұрын

@@xian4812 ok if you believe so

"then there are the girls that overshare to avoid getting played but are usually the ones getting played" me: 👁👄👁

@gakiikinoti4514

3 жыл бұрын

Neenaw neenaw mayday mayday😂😂⚠️ So sad

@imaniscript6323

2 жыл бұрын

😭😭

@cynthiawurld4223

2 жыл бұрын

I’m a victim to this I feel Lyk I shud just wake up one morning and not tell anyone anything bout me at all Lyk nothing no info bout me or my next move 💀

When you get to a level of I DONT CARE! You are now on a whole new level of dangerous.

@joycenash8271

3 жыл бұрын

Of all the comments I have heard today, this gets the KZread award! Say that again for the people in the back and work it up to the front! That is a side I tried to warn people about. Stay away from that side because when I snap and I am DONE, I don't care! And dealing with me? You might as well find a wall and try to get it to talk. It may be better. And you talk about dangerous? A new level they cannot comprehend.

@napoleon2708

3 жыл бұрын

Agree sadly sometimes we care too much for men that can’t even remember our names

@derkaiser9826

3 жыл бұрын

Men’s weakness is that we care too much that we stop caring to the point we don’t even wana lay with Women. And Women’s biggest fear are Men who won’t be manipulated with sex.

@joycenash8271

3 жыл бұрын

@@derkaiser9826 not all women, just some. That is not a game I play. But I understand where you are coming from.

“in a new relationship, the bond is particularly shallow” thank you. I need to remember that!

@AshaChristinaFoster

3 жыл бұрын

So important ♥️

Stop treating him like a husband when you are notttt the wife! I love this

@Make_Me_A_Sandwhich

8 ай бұрын

Exactly don’t treat her like a wife when she ain’t wifey

"When you put a lot of effort without them working for it... they will devalue it" Man that hit me like a truck :/

@evka24

3 жыл бұрын

men value what they work for...its like they appreciate animal they caught instead of someone gave them the meat to eat

@Katrica670

Жыл бұрын

@@evka24 but for some it ain't even about the meat to eat. And lotsa them actually stay with and drag out something with people they got it from right away. So...🤔

@Doidao-xx5vf

Жыл бұрын

Men don’t have to work for a females attention m. Men have to work for them to become a better person, mentally, physically, spiritually and financially. Women have to work for for a men’s attention, that’s why they show their bodies, use tons of make up and etc.

@pixie89

Жыл бұрын

🥲

"Men get with who they CAN be with, women get with who they WANT to be with" Learn the difference and act accordingly ladies , you are the PRIZE

@jzero671

3 жыл бұрын

Keep dreaming.

@9darshana

3 жыл бұрын

@CounterStrike211 But women have so many options. We are pursued by so many men, especially if you are online dating. We have the options to say yes or no.

@jaquamusic4344

3 жыл бұрын

@@9darshana exactly 😂👍

@davemwale5732

3 жыл бұрын

@@9darshana But eventually you'll only get your orbiters. The man you really want? You're probably not his type. He'll just smash and pass. And you'll be used

@flyingdutchman2442

3 жыл бұрын

@@9darshana options for sex . These men don’t want to keep you.

My baby father cared less about the baby and I but when I moved on and carried myself like the prize ...now he begging me back and giving me money for the baby ... ladies love yourself and don't settle for less !!!! Thanks sis ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@blessedchildofgod9112

3 жыл бұрын

Pink girl I was married and rather you married or not some men try to use and abuse especially if you don't have respect for yourself and love

@cubanita365

3 жыл бұрын

Saaaame sis saaame

@blessedchildofgod9112

3 жыл бұрын

Pink girl there's no reason at all ...I left him two years ago

@onthatilemanana6175

3 жыл бұрын

I'm still with him and have been thinking about leaving but I keep using the baby as an excuse to not leave but I know that and is like what am I waiting for but I still won't leave.. please help ladies 😟

@blessedchildofgod9112

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly if he not hurting you and baby and providing everything I would I stay if not I'll leave him

This is so true! As women you have to be so busy creating your dream life that you become a high value woman/the prize for a man. When you chase, not only is it masculine, but it gives the man the advantage of choosing vs him choosing you 💜

@AshaChristinaFoster

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!

@zulugeneral5563

3 жыл бұрын

Wrong all you need is to look good Men dont care about your money 😴

@roxanamalkawi7264

3 жыл бұрын

@@zulugeneral5563 actually..they do! Or at least the last one I met.

@zulugeneral5563

3 жыл бұрын

@@roxanamalkawi7264 they dont l have never heard that

@roxanamalkawi7264

3 жыл бұрын

@@zulugeneral5563 I am looking very gorgeous in office outfit. He was crazy after me and told me that he is planning of marrying me. However when I told him that I am unemployed because I just moved from USA to Europe...he started backing off. We spent 5 days together and than he said that he actually decided to be with the ex girlfriend because she is rich!!

Seriously ladies watch this video everyday. That's what I am doing

@ceanneharris8183

3 жыл бұрын

Same here!👏

@sonalimartinii

3 жыл бұрын

Yess girl same here 🥰

@jarah96

3 жыл бұрын

Yesssss, daily pep talk!

@rumcakes2

3 жыл бұрын

I know I will! This will be playing while I get ready to go out on dates or meet new ppl! Gotta reaffirm these things in our beautiful minds! 👑💅🏾👸🏾

A guy I liked so much, and I made him know this, then he began to manifest his immaturity by ghosting me, I held strong and kicked him outta my life. I'm a beautiful, independent and confident woman.

@user-of9bx1uk3u

3 жыл бұрын

What he did was disgusting.. low value man and the trash 🗑 took its self out, thinking you would chase after rubbish. 😂 you’re winning.💖

@susuilu

3 жыл бұрын

Well done my sister

"Do not compare yourself to another women,you are you" My motto gotcha

One of my favorite quotes I've read is "the moment you feel like you have to prove your worth to someone is the moment you walk away" and always remind myself of that if it appears like a guy is losing interest. Love your videos and congrats on 140k !!

@susuilu

3 жыл бұрын

Amen to this.

I manifested the man of my dreams, it took a year and sacrifice of leaving a comfortable 7 year relationship going nowhere, but I did it and believe me when I say, when it’s the right one, you don’t have to play any mind games ever.

@TRINIGIRLHANNAH

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. With the right one there isn’t any mind games. If there’s mind games he isn’t the right one. Simple.

@nazlsnar2691

2 жыл бұрын

How did you manifested sis

@bronzedflames

2 жыл бұрын

how young were u were u left the guy?

“u cant run way from someone who really wants u” oh girl I wrote this one down🙏🏼❤️ thanks queen

15:18 Yes! This is a fact! One of my friends likes me and I told him I'm not interested in dating. He still communicates with me. When I asked why he said, "I like you and that will not change." He also respects my boundaries.

@kittyearsheadbands8810

3 жыл бұрын

Put him on your roster...that’s why I do in case I change my mind I have him at arms length

@ShiaGirl18

3 жыл бұрын

@@kittyearsheadbands8810 I brought him some fruits yesterday and he was grateful for them. His gratitude was genuine and he complimented me on my smile.

@giftedvoices533

3 жыл бұрын

@@kittyearsheadbands8810 that an awful thing to do. Leading a person on, when men do it u call them shit.

@kristin4912

3 жыл бұрын

@@giftedvoices533 bringing a friend fruits is friendship, not flirting. If he chooses to still stick around her because he doesn't want to lose the friendship (and she straight up told him she doesn't want to date) then please trust that he knows what he's doing. I'm sure whoever he is, he has self-respect and would tell you that.

@giftedvoices533

3 жыл бұрын

@@kristin4912 read the comment I replied to. I wasn't replying to shiagirl18 but kitty. Just take a look at what she said

"Giving credit for a fish for swimming!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

@AshaChristinaFoster

3 жыл бұрын

It’s trueeee😂😂😂😂😂

@TheDreamHaven

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

I REEALLY needed this and kind of embarrassed at how much I have done this for men 🤦🏽‍♀️

@lucianosmommy8854

3 жыл бұрын

Been there girl.

@susuilu

3 жыл бұрын

We have all learnt the hard way

Lmaoooo, I cannottt 😭😭😭😩. I can’t believe I was so desperate. I literally did everything you mentioned not to do.

@adesolaamoo

3 жыл бұрын

Thank God we have Asha as our big sister. 🤍 She gives us the best advice.

@oceejay5148

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂 me toooo

@WolfRain216

3 жыл бұрын

It's okay sis, you're not alone! I think it's safe to say that all of us here did and were desperate 😅

PERIODT! 💅🏾 And, if he’s upset and pulling away because you have your own life, he’s either super psycho controlling or he wants you to chase HIM... or both! Run away!! 🏃‍♀️

@joycenash8271

3 жыл бұрын

Both and ain't nobody being bothered.

@KimikoA24

3 жыл бұрын

lmaoo there's a guy i've talked with him online , he told me i was beautiful blabla , he asked for my social media , i gave them to him and waited. Few days later he sent me " I see you're zapping me " lmaoo BOY?! Do you think i'm gonna run after you but you showed no interest in getting to know me ?? Quality queen don't untertain any man . I deleted him everywhere , Next !

When you agree with almost everything Asha says, but have trouble actually implementing it 😩 I got too attached and can't give up

@jessicaperoine3001

3 жыл бұрын

Same same

@katnahhh9126

3 жыл бұрын

jessica peroine I know but never again

@Grace-ov5zi

3 жыл бұрын

me too sis me too

@daniellelindo6875

3 жыл бұрын

date someone who likes you more than you like them and treat yourself like you are too good to be attached to him

@nonono777

3 жыл бұрын

@@daniellelindo6875 But I stayed friends (sometimes with benefits) with an ex and I keep hoping he'll fall in love with me. I can't like anyone else in that way. And I can't stop all contact with him cause he'd be sad if we stopped being friends. It's been going on for far longer than I'd want, but I just can't stop having feelings for him

Don't be afraid to walk away either. Walk away from what no longer serves you. always be able to walk away. 💯

“Men get with who they can, women get with who they WANT” that did it for me🙌🏾💯 Officially motivated💪🏾

@tunnajonz3290

3 жыл бұрын

In men perspective it's more of a man can have sex with who they can but a woman have sex with who they want... it doesn't go farther than that. Man is the one who chooses you and decides to keep u. Ya'll don't get it twisted 👀

@Mani-jo5lq

3 жыл бұрын

@@tunnajonz3290 What do you men want from women? Just trying to see what I'm doing wrong.

@areyoudumb5823

3 жыл бұрын

@@Mani-jo5lq He saying that Women can get sex from who they want. But Men control commit. Reason alot of women got who they want but be complaining that dude cheating or whatever. Most women be like he changed. Nawll he ain't change. He ran game on you. Men know when women are like ain't worth it. Some women are just gone be Bedroom action. It's 80% single mothers rate. Meaning women can have sex. But the men y'all want aint commit to them. Most women are chasing lust & getting left with kids. Look around you. Now how many single mothers you see honestly struggling. women chasing & crying over the man they want. Its because the man don't want them. So women spend yrs trying plz man pick them..But it never works.Harsh truth is the Man for most women. Is always the man they overlooking. Go listen to Kevin Samuels..He hard. But women need the truth. Cause alot of women don't realize dude just sexing on them. The truth hurts. But shit it's better then a lie. But hopefully you don't end up a satitics. Cause the odds are against women. Most chasing "LUST".Dont fall victim.

@mr.simmtheprofessor2919

2 жыл бұрын

I’m actually gonna make a KZread page to disprove this narrative. Once a man reaches a certain level, the world is his oyster

Omg I needed to hear this, I’ve been talking to this guy for 5 months we talk ever day, recently he went away for work for 2 weeks and it’s like he fell off the face of the earth, he was barely texting me and left me on seen for days, I had to snap myself out of it like “ girl y’all not even in a relationship and your hurt? Like for what ? “ took my power back instantly, went to get my hair and nails done now I’m feeling like money and I’m talking to multiple people. Update he told me he just wanted to be friends a few days ago, and that he will still take me to the gun range to go shooting if I want, I politely declined I’m not looking for friends. Do you think I was wrong or su should still keep in touch with him ?

@Elena-pk6kw

3 жыл бұрын

YES GIRL, THAT'S HOW QUEENS REACT👸

@yf8350

3 жыл бұрын

And that’s on period! 😎

@melissac8582

3 жыл бұрын

yasss girl need that

@ct9490

3 жыл бұрын

Needed this ! I’m never letting myself get down like this again

@rebeccaxo2232

3 жыл бұрын

Yes yes yes so much yes

WELL HELLO AND GOOD MORNING MY ANGELS!!!!! Thumbs up this video to spread positive vibesss!!!! Also, THANK YOU FOR 140k I’m crying 😭 !!!! Wow! You guys really love me 😩!!!! Thank you for changing my life!!!! Thank you for believing in me! Thank you for supporting me! Thank you for commenting, watching, subscribing! Ugh!!! I’m so blessed!!! I love my A team ☺️ ROAD TO 200K HERE WE COMEEEEEEE!!!!!

@vanessascorner7501

3 жыл бұрын

The big sis I always wanted

@AshaChristinaFoster

3 жыл бұрын

☺️🥰

@cherylrobinson4860

3 жыл бұрын

Binge watch n take notes then apply in life ladies cause she's right😋🔥💯🤯

@ChiomaJuliette

3 жыл бұрын

We love you. You are beautiful and strong 😘💕💕

"Don't give credit to a fish for swimming." Bam! Wig snatched. Peel us sis, we are your carrot!

@emprissezinwo3686

3 жыл бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾😂

@ifrahjama2215

3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha 😂😂😂😂I love this comment

This is the reason why Lil grown boy's looses WEN they try to PLAY the games we PLAY...I'm NOT CHASING NO MAN PERIOD

@_Kvtta_

3 жыл бұрын

Please. Don't chase.

Asha's so beautiful and elegant. She just exudes poise, grace and confidence, and that's exactly what I'm working to achieve! (It's a work in progress, though 😫).

Don't be afraid to lose guy is probably another way of saying, what is meant to be will be. Someone who is meant to be in your life will always find a way to be no matter what.

@blueseptember2174

3 жыл бұрын

The old “ If you love someone, let them go, if the they come back to you, they’re yours. If they don’t, they never were.”

I never had a mom that taught me things like this. You are healing the collective divine feminine with this insight and information.

@blessings-pe2mf

3 жыл бұрын

@@kashmckinney1750 true! Didnt have that growing up tho, that's why I left this comment 🥰💘

@vianzeedepaz5495

2 жыл бұрын

P@@blessings-pe2mf

Or better yet, tell that man if he doesn’t want a woman who cares about the relationship and values compassion and trust between the two, he can go find someone else. No need to do extra trying to control your emotions. You are NOT a man, be yourself. If he don’t like it , leave!!!!

@5musictomyears5

3 жыл бұрын

exactly!!!

@ttmom21

3 жыл бұрын

🙌🏾

@stormiiofficial8880

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!!

@_Kvtta_

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. A woman who finally understands. Stop doing the extra stuff.

@jarah96

3 жыл бұрын

Say itttttt again!

That is so freaking good !! Guys are hunters they like to chase ! Remember you don't have to settle! Take care of of yourself, be your own number 1 priority ♡ I wish I had girlfriends like you sometimes ♡

@susuilu

3 жыл бұрын

Fact

you make me feel safe 🥺💗

@AshaChristinaFoster

3 жыл бұрын

Awwww this is so sweet 😩😢 ❤️

Hard pill to swallow but I needed this talk, thanks sis.

“Let people do what they want to do...so you can see what they rather do!!!” Yassssss 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@kayburnett36

2 жыл бұрын

this was the eureka statement for me! He's showing me his actions so I am in control on what I will do with the information!

I’ve been in my relationship for like 8 months now and this is still a fact!! This video helped me sooo much!

my boyfriend overheard me watching this video and said "she scares me" LMAOOO

@dysfunctionalized

3 жыл бұрын

good😂😂😂😂🥴

@dysfunctionalized

3 жыл бұрын

as it should be

@susuilu

3 жыл бұрын

They will always say this, when in reality they appreciate and actually respect this.

@aerbear90

3 жыл бұрын

@@susuilu exactly!! Men sometimes don't know whats best for themselves other than when it happens and they go with it and end up respecting it.

“Stop giving fish the credit for swimming”

Soo many positive women on this post and i am living it 😍😍😍

I love the matchup looks heavenly and ultra soft with the shirt, nails, spirit & background.

Available at 2am like Uber eats 😂 I’m dead

@ArshennaHines

3 жыл бұрын

Lol woh I love her analogies! 😃😊

@oceejay5148

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

THE TRUTH HURTS BUT IT FEELS SO GOOD

"Don't be afraid to lose any guy." Damn.

I am NOT the way, the truth and the light... God is❗👏🏾 Love it lol

Wow I really needed to hear this! It's so timely. "Men get with who they can, women get with who they want" - this quote is so powerful 👏 Love 💘 the makeup 💄 by the way

@AshaChristinaFoster

3 жыл бұрын

Thank youuuu

@mr.simmtheprofessor2919

2 жыл бұрын

That only applies to unsuccessful, unattractive men…I don’t relate to your comment

❤ Jesus Christ loves you and he's coming soon ❤ You deserve to be happy ❤ You deserve to be free ❤

Anytime I forget who I am , I come back to this video. I can't tell you how much happy I am Asha. May God bless you.

I think y'all should try to pray to jesus for a man. He got our backs. Of course you would have to be patient. It may take years😬 or a day🙃. Love y'all❤💜

@icedcocoa221

3 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙌🏾

@AshaChristinaFoster

3 жыл бұрын

Yes Gods timing is always perfect!!!!

@stanfatou2002

3 жыл бұрын

@@AshaChristinaFoster I'm glad you agree! Bless y'all❤

@kittyearsheadbands8810

3 жыл бұрын

You still have to do the work ... aka work out, look feminine, and place yourself in locations to find these men

@afrohersheys22

3 жыл бұрын

Been single for 3 years now I’m happy most of my days but the solo life can be challenging sometimes I have my days of negative self talk but I’m doing my best to stay strong...

i honestly needed this😭 this week has been so hard for me and hearing this just boosts me up🥺 thank you love💞

@AshaChristinaFoster

3 жыл бұрын

Awww you’re so welcome angel

@trealthatruth7818

3 жыл бұрын

@@AshaChristinaFoster you're not though.

Dont use online dating guys are already going to think that you are desperate if you are on a dating app. Just don't play games at all. Stay single and wait for the right person to come into your life. It is not worth trying to convince a guy you are confident. If they are the right one you don't have to worry about nonsense

@jessicahitchens6926

2 ай бұрын

A good man isn't going to drop into your lap. Especially nowadays you have to go out and put yourself in their path. Or you will be single and will waste years.

@tonitaquetaparks3304

2 ай бұрын

@@jessicahitchens6926 do what you want to do.

Well said! We as women need to respect ourselves more and not tolerate nonsense from “losers” or “cowards” who claim to be real “men”. Know that as a woman, you have options and the power to choose who you want to be with.

Exactly, I wasn’t available for his call so he block me because I guess he wanted me to chase him lol so I did him a favor and change my number , so we both don’t have each other number , 🤣🤣damn baby narcissist

@GoldenAngel-

3 жыл бұрын

Wow 😳😂😂

@dulcefuzz399

3 жыл бұрын

as you should!

@roxanamalkawi7264

3 жыл бұрын

Waw Quick and sharp move!😋

@shaunettedennis2768

3 жыл бұрын

Roxana Malkawi girl am a Scorpio, am not attached to shit, I always try to see the blessings in disguise and I took that block as a blessing and I showed my appreciation by changing both my numbers lol

@roxanamalkawi7264

3 жыл бұрын

@@shaunettedennis2768 I am scorpio too. I always been too kind for men and they took me for granted, ghosting and breadcrumbing me, while I deeply loved them. However today I FINALLY got pissed and blocked him! He 1st told me that he might be interested in marrying me because my sister is very rich and I told him to not marry me if he doesn't love me. Than he asked me to introduce him to my sister, even if we slept together for 1 year. I just told him that I don't share my men with my sister! So he got so nervous and told me that he never ever been my man and it was just my imagination. I said Adios and blocked him!

I wish I could play this over world wide airways or airwaves 😆😆😆

@AshaChristinaFoster

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly me too😂😂😂

@eyesaidit5195

3 жыл бұрын

@@AshaChristinaFoster You are !!😄😄

@MikieTT

3 жыл бұрын

I wish I could too!!

That roster and Robert Greens master your emotions and the 48 laws of power was the best thing I ever did. I Bossed up and stopped crying over these men and started acting like them. I even had a guy I was dating tell me you're not like the average woman you think and act like a man. I knew then I had this game down. The key is to keep learning the game and stay abreast of new techniques these guys use so you can create recon strategies to not get played and used

@divinefemininebabe7500

3 жыл бұрын

omg thats amazing

@preranadholakia1069

3 жыл бұрын

Can you tell a lil more on how I could read those things? I'd love to know❤️

@johnharden439

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t think that’s a compliment

@_Kvtta_

3 жыл бұрын

Girl please. Men don't even want to act like men apparently.

@auniqueoutlook3043

2 жыл бұрын

I'm a game, there are winners and Losers..

Stop giving credit to fish for swimming🤦🏾‍♀️ TRIGGERED!!

Your energy is amaaaaaaizing today.

I Love the way you talk. It sounds like we are Friends hahaha

@AshaChristinaFoster

3 жыл бұрын

Awwww 🥰 this is such a compliment ♥️

@airamribeiro4103

3 жыл бұрын

@@AshaChristinaFoster 🥰

@rasputinson1739

3 жыл бұрын

We should be

“Let people do what they want to do, so you can see what they’d rather do” 🗣SPEAK IT!

“The SECOND! That you even merely reciprocate...” that part! So many gems in this video omg

I feel like this is good advice for sensitive or codependent girls but not when you have a pocker face haha If you're avoidant you *gotta* show interest cause otherwise guys think you don't like them or will reject them. I feel like we can find a balance between being moderly available/showing interest and knowing when to step out or put boundaries...

@queen_behaviour2932

3 жыл бұрын

This❤❤ All this🔥🔥🔥💯👌

This pep talk is gold🤔😍

When I'm indifferent and meh towards them they are always eager and extra keen. ALWAYS.

“Delivering yourself like Uber eats” 😂 😂

@laurier.v464

3 жыл бұрын

Never again ! Level up !

You look like a literal angel Asha. Loved the video babe.

@AshaChristinaFoster

3 жыл бұрын

Awwww thank youuuuu

I kinda like the white shirt with the white background. It looks aesthetic and makes your glow just pop

Thank goodness that I wasn't able to date this year because of COVID... I'm literally sinking into my chair with embarrassment because I did all these things you said not to do... It's so cringe-worthy how desperate I must have seen to these guys... I definitely need to work on myself 😣

girl out of 6,500 languages, you chose to speak FACTS!

"stop giving credits to fish for swimming" - lmaoo that cracked me up

@silentlyflourish

3 жыл бұрын

sameee lol, so tired of giving guys credit for the things they should already be doing

you're like the "I am saying the truth even though it will hurt your feelings because I love you" type of best friend that we all need in our lives lol

"When you put so much effort into it without him actually earning it, he will devalue yoi!" @Asha Christina this is sooo profound!❤️❤️

🥰🥰 self love first. The rest will come magnetically with your frequency

Now my day just got better.....Thanks Asha

@AshaChristinaFoster

3 жыл бұрын

Awww 🥰

@jessicaperoine3001

3 жыл бұрын

Literally

Your energy from the intro is such a vibe Can you write a book already sis Sending love from Mama Africa❤️❤️

Yes. The female in every species is the prize and the male is supposed to earn her. It’s only in our species, human females, who are don’t perceive that and acts like the male is the prize.

Dating in 2020 is harddd... like there are literally no decent men out here it’s crazy 😭

@boo-rv8zu

3 жыл бұрын

Feel you

I think u meant to change the lyrics as "dont always be there when he calls"🤣💯

@AshaChristinaFoster

3 жыл бұрын

Yessss😂😂😂😂

@Anisha..Alayna

3 жыл бұрын

@@AshaChristinaFoster 🤎🤎🥴😆

Love that! “Stop giving a fish credit for swimming.”

You shed a lot of light for me. I wear my heart on my sleeve smh. That stops NOW! 💯👌

“Reel it in, I’m scared” IM DEAD HAHAHA

I cannot even tell you how much I needed this right now! Thank you! I love you and you are amazing! You literally saved me

Screaming through my phone bc this opened up my eyes.

sis slapping us with PURE FACTS throughout the whole video

This deserves more views!!! SPREAD THE WORD PEOPLE!!

Women have the UPPER HAND Period. 🗝❤️

Asha has figured out MEN and sis is spilling the tea!!!!! I wish I watched this video like 8 months ago, would have saved myself a whole lot of trouble.

Finally! I’ve been saying the same thing, this is SO refreshing to hear another woman say this!!! You are so wise!!! Everyone listen to her!!!!

Ugh, thank you for this video! Tired of falling for all of the excuses and utter b.s. Ready to set my boundaries high and my standards higher. Stay blessed sis ❤️

YOU GIVE SUCH GOOD ADVICE IT HURTS. you said exactlyyyy when I needed to hear thank you girl

girl i had to clap at the end of this video! I wish i would have seen this a year ago but me seeing this now and I can ACTUALLY agree with everything you said just shows how much i have grown mentally and emotionally!

He has to earn your commitment. Thanks for reminding me that even u r in a relationship already. He has to keep proving that he deserves ur love!!!!

ASHA HOW DID YOU KNOW I NEEDED THISSS BC YESTERDAY WAS HECKTICCC I LOVE YOU 💕

@AshaChristinaFoster

3 жыл бұрын

I love you too!!!!