Quoting Vagabond: "Do you see how infinite you are?". We are infinite and labels limit us and makes us become stagnant. Labelling ourselves as victims makes us one, while letting our identity flow and grow makes us infinite beings, able to learn from any difficulty or wrongdoing. Being a victim might bring pity which feels good in the short run, but keeps us looking for more pain and pity. Learning and expanding bring us closer to others and to us. It makes us whole, compassionate, joyful.

@OFFICIALTEEK-nu1ev

11 күн бұрын

W VAGABOND MENTIONEDDD

@raskolinkovmn

10 күн бұрын

thnx for mentioning that !!

@MJ-yc8zf

10 күн бұрын

Omg thank you for the breakdown. I’ve always wondered what that quote could possibly mean and couldn’t quite understand. Maybe if I read Vagabond for a second or third time I’d get it but your interpretation makes a whole lot of sense now.

Perception and interpretation of an attack is what gives it power. Without relinquishing its control in your mind, you will never be free of its effect.

@junnipres

11 күн бұрын

@@whozitoverlord2348 exactly

I remember when I helped a friend who tried to unalive himself cause he was having bad luck with women. Even though he would always threaten that for attention. So he got checked into a mental hospital where I was his friend on call for a long time. When he got out he was hard to be around, he bought pepper spray and threatened people with it after he would antagonize them and they told him to back off. I called him out on his behavior and told him why I didn’t want to be his friend anymore. He tried shaming me back telling me I had a “victims” mindset. I told him “no dude, I’m refusing to be a victim”. Not my fault he couldn’t behave himself or act normal.

Damn right, I'm the perpetrator.

@junnipres

10 күн бұрын

💀

@yelladude6969

10 күн бұрын

Keep fucking around and you'll get the whole label sent up for years, uh

@immasi8922

9 күн бұрын

And I the penetrator

I can pretend to the point that I actually have the illusion of caring and you speak the truth

This whole world is a learning experience and its better to believe that than to believe actual things that happen

After watching a few of your videos I can't help but mention a similarity between your outlook on life and the core axiom of Thelema: "Do what thou wilt"

@junnipres

10 күн бұрын

@@WalterLuary-tm9eo yess!! The root of all my beliefs and my main philosophy in life is freedom. Doing what is true and freeing to you in every corner of life

Bro , finally someone who understands it

@Nii645

10 күн бұрын

I've been going through so much stuff , but not viewing myself as a victim made it way easier to deal with it.

I kind of like my wounds, idk if they will stay here forever. They teach me. They make me feel. I love feeling. Hurt is when I praise God the most. I think we need to love our wounds enough to let them go. Letting go of things that hurt us can be hard, though I’m not sure if I have any experience to say that it is in fact hard, which I imagine is it very hard. And even if the wounds don’t go, we should become familiar with them enough to be used to them so that they don’t overly get in the way. Also, I may be too sleepy to be getting philosophical right now 💤

Pressure makes diamonds 💎

If you can’t be victim you can’t be winner also. You have to be victim and winner at same time and also the opposite

the algorithm is onto me...

I don't know what to do anymore I am physically unable to hide or run i am victimised but I'm jot a victim you are right I don't deserve this treatment and it's better to tread the fine line between delusion and truth

For some reason this video reminded me of the Matilda song "Naughty" Just because you find that life's not fair, it Doesn't mean that you just have to grin and bear it If you always take it on the chin and wear it Nothing will change

I don't want to be a victim I don't want to feel like a victim I don't even want to feel like a villain I know it is better to live good

depends on the context, im happy you have reached those conclusions but they arent applicable to me. i failed to live up to certain standards for an extended period of time, therefore im no longer entitled to certain things in life, and those are what makes life worth living, at least for me. if it were otherwise doing what is right would have no intrinsic value. i can do all the things you say, and i try/do, but no amount of progress will ever grant me a life i need/want past this point. i would like to be wrong but im afraid im not however i still wouldnt want someone else to sympathize with this viewpoint. perhaps my future holds something akin to what you are doing except with a dont end up like me twist, liked and subbed btw.

Proud of you, 1K on the way🗣️🗣️

I don't know how to cope with this anymore I'm not really that bad in this lifetime but I'm treated as such

I feel it's not so much that you weren't victimised but that your wounds aren't ultimately detrimental to you because in end you alchemised the experience into compassion/wisdom so you end up with net character gains and can help those in similar situations too (purpose). I think it's really beautiful to see you so defiant about being called a victim though. To me that's the part of you speaking that's directly oppositional to wounding. Kinda like a fierce self compassion. You spoke before on struggling with passivity so it must be nice to feel that aspect of your character start to develop and shine through ❤🎉.

I don't know how to get over a victim mentality

Don't take life for granted.

Needed the pep talk. Thanks dawg ❤

Man this really hit. The victim mindset yet understandable how it got developed by a past experience, but if one allows the past to still linger, they will carry it into the present, therefore giving it your power. What we tell ourselves is a cautious moment as well, so the more someone says they’re a victim, the more the ego is going to look for the things in life that can make them believe it’s true. Just repeating the cycle. It also takes them away from enjoying what’s truly in front of them. Even more, it takes them away from themselves. There is never anything wrong with you, we just need to reclaim our power back by learning instead of holding on to old stories. Acceptance, forgiveness and letting go can help what is done set you free. It takes time, but you who’s reading, can definitely do it. You’ve always had that version of yourself with you, someone who’s capable of greatness. 🤍 and if anyone can do it, it’s always been you ~

I need to pick myself up i need to be stronger i need to stop this internal pain and suffering

very inspiring can't wait for this video to be recommended to everyone in 15y

Honestly this video is amazing, I started to think I’m crazy for thinking like this since everyone always seems like they want me to feel bad for myself. Thanks for making this 😁

@junnipres

10 күн бұрын

of course! i understand this, sometimes it's confusing when your heart and mind are telling you to be one way and everyone around you seems to have an opposite mindset. stay true in your beliefs! (if they're beneficial/positive ofc)

So refreshing to see this. Spot on, 100%, inspire others to start thinking the same. It's the only way forward.

You're so pretty, slaaaaaaaayyyyy

@junnipres

9 күн бұрын

Omg thank you😭!!

how the hell did i end up here i was just watching some action scenes

At least I at the very least pretend to care pretend to learn I am literally better than the others

thank you for these videos. i feel like i already understand a lot of the things you say in your videos, but i struggle to listen to my mind over my feelings, so i find it very helpful to have someone else essentially tell me to listen to my mind. glad to see your channel is growing!!

@junnipres

10 күн бұрын

there is a fine line i believe in listening to your mind or feelings. sometimes you need your mind to guide you to a more positive and safe space for you and other times you need you feelings to bring you to what is right in your life. emotions are such a wonderful thing! this is def more of a complicated topic i might make a video on one day. and thank you!! i'm also so happy my video did something for you :-)

That Ramona flowers energy.

@junnipres

10 күн бұрын

one of the highest compliments if you aren't referring to comic book ramona

"cute cat she looks like my cat josephine" - ,mason'

I love your videos, keep going :)

In every part of your life every one will put labels on you. You must liberate yourself from all these labels and the persons trying to put you in boxes. Remember life is absurd you must Te Révolter. Thanks for this video.

Shoutout to Juniper, love that girl

This is the way.

Ignorance and innocence is not the same thing.

right now im in jail for aggravated assault, robbery, speeding, threats, hit and run, war crimes, and so on. IM A VICTIM YUH HEARD?

yes my family is not a victim of sexual assault and r@pe

This! 🙌🙌

Hand of Fatima 🪬 comes from Fatima Zahra the daughter of the beloved sealed of prophets Muhammed S.A.W ❤️

yo, continue making this types of videos, are good as fuck, i love your form were you talking is so authentic and real, but i apreciate if you put subtitles in the videos, i am chilean but i know a little bit of eanglish but is most easly if i can heard and read, thanks for make these videos.

thought daughters unite (i luv ur videos btw)

@junnipres

Күн бұрын

@@king_salamander3938 haha thanks :,)!!

Just a few days ago I just saw one of your videos in my algorithm and I thought you were Beautiful so I watched all your videos. But these videos are very powerful especially this one. Thank you very much for inspiring. I know some day you will have many more subscribers. Keep up the good work Leilani. Greetings from the Philippines.

Self empowerment. All tyrants begin as rebels who decided they were not going to be a victim. It's the core theme in A Song of Ice and Fire (game of thrones). Political realism is fun.

It is a good message, but ultimately some people are just weak and in love with their "victim mentality". Because the real issue with it is that "if you are NOT a victim, then some of the things that happened are also your responsibility to fix and deal with" and a lot of people would rather not do that, at all.

It's always better to live your life how you wanted to even if somebody damaged you otherwise you would be their pawn the whole time if you play the victim. It's nice to see someone having the same mindset with this topic, makes you feel not alone, thanks for sharing this. Also where did you get your sweatshirt, it really looks cool

@junnipres

10 күн бұрын

@@mirkoat22 yess!! I agree, and I got the sweater from H&M. You should be able to find it if you google “h&m white car sweater”

@mirkoat22

10 күн бұрын

@@junnipres Thank youu, found it!

Bro omg can I just say ur vids r amazing

@junnipres

10 күн бұрын

@@rhileyisnear thanks 🥹

@rhileyisnear

10 күн бұрын

@@junnipres hey I saw the video you posted last night and you asked the commenters to please share if they have had a similar experience with perfectionism. I am not a perfectionist, but one time I played a concert for a lot of people on guitar, and I've been practicing for months for this concert, and at the end everybody was telling me I did a good job but when I watch the video back I can't help myself from calling myself sloppy and being upset that it doesn't sound good enough to me although most of the other people enjoyed it. I learned to kind of accept it because man it's hard to play a solo perfectly with all that adrenaline loll. But at the end of the day I guess most people loved it, so my idea is to still strive, but also accept it as an achievement

@junnipres

10 күн бұрын

@@rhileyisnear oh my goodness thank you. you've shifted my perception and i'm going to make a video on this soon.

Being offended is not actually action from outside, but inside. We are being offended by contradiction between our inner picture of world, and outer experience. For example: "this person will never left me" >> he/she actually lefts you. This picture, that this person will NEVER left you, despite everything what happening in your or this persons life, is making you vulnerable. What can we do is not to build unrealistic dreams about world, and focus on ourselves, how WE should be. Don't think that this person dropped you, think that you didn't drop. Everyone has its own way, and we have obey it, if it makes us happy. So, the way i am coping with victim mindset is just that i am trying not to depend on the outer world, so be its victim, but create my own values, and regulate it, if it doesn't make me happy.

sick sweatshirt

@junnipres

11 күн бұрын

thanks :)

yes

Pikachu is sleeping on the bed.

You're right, the real victims are chained in my basement 🥰🥰🥰

I WASN'T PAYING ATTENTION PLAYING WITH MY CAT AND THEN THE VOICE CHANGED LMAO 6:46

@junnipres

10 күн бұрын

@@raskolinkovmn this is making me laugh I’m sorry for scaring you 😭

@raskolinkovmn

10 күн бұрын

@@junnipres btw thnx a lot i really needed to hear these words , like for reaaaal !!

@junnipres

10 күн бұрын

@@raskolinkovmn yay I’m so happy!!😄

😭😭😭 VIRGIN 😭😭😭

When I cannot provide fulfillment for myself, have I already lost my power?

@user-lm6me2tz9t

11 күн бұрын

Depends on how you failed and if you are 100% certain that you cannot ever provide that again, which is very rare.

@junnipres

10 күн бұрын

@@Ruminantkind your power/ability for inner fulfillment is never 100% lost on you

Reject the idea of being a victim.

Hi Hello

Today's input: I don't really know the name of this thing, there may not even be one, but this "victim" way of seeing the world is actually quite common. What you said throughout the video is quite acurrate, but maybe you overlooked a little bit too much the fact that... maybe someone HAS a reason to be a victim, but we may be seeing the term "victim" as different stuff. On the literal sense, a "victim" it's just someone that suffered something. You mean "victim" as in "victimism", wich is people that just play the role of a victim a lot, because of emotional gratitude. And well, aside from stuff like manipulation, narcissistic stuff, i think that someone kind of needs to play "victim" when something happens, the thing is how much. You can't just "thug it out" and keep going, even if you learnt from it, even if it wasn't something that killed you. I think that we should have our moments to be sad, and not necessarily even express it socially, just for us, just for a break. Having your guard up all the time, ignoring your own feelings and stuff like that is bad, but probably not as bad as someone who is a victimist.

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you dont know me white girl

@jamueI

10 күн бұрын

Lol

What level is your pikachu?

@junnipres

10 күн бұрын

ten morbillion

@Yuckerb

10 күн бұрын

@@junnipres hell yeah

I deg to biffer

You're cute

Being abused to the point where the physiology of your brain is changed and you are subject to a lifelong battle with major depressive episodes is not Pathetic. Its tragic. You seem to be speaking beyond your experience here Leilani

@junnipres

11 күн бұрын

@@NostraDumass you know nothing about me :-) you know nothing of my traumas. don’t make assumptions, peace and love 🩵

@junnipres

10 күн бұрын

Also, while yes, it’s an incredibly unfortunate and sad thing people get abused in such ways that the brain changes, it is still entirely possible from a neuroscientific standpoint to recover and heal from that and make steps in the right direction to improving yourself/life.

My god people are weak nowadays. You can accept that you are a victim in a situation and still do everything you said. Accepting that you were a victim doesn't mean that you drop all your personal responsibilities and it doesn't mean you don't strive to improve yourself. Accepting that you are a victim to a situation is a simple way of pointing what was under your own predicament and power and what was beyond your predicament and power without getting to the extreme that you blame yourself for things you shouldn't. Blaming yourself for example for something as simple as being a kid with needs, something that is not only vital for an individuals growth but a basic human need, will only damage your long term positioning in the society and you will become the victim of your own overprotectiveness. People should grow up, gather the self respect to go and see a therapist, accept that as a human you need help, accept that you are not perfect and asking for help is the most humane thing ever and stop trying to be a delusional brick.