Edit: HEY! the last thing I want is for you to feel guilty in any way for overthinking, or worrying about him. It’s completely normal, it’s someone you deeply love and care about, I say it right there, I do it too, I just want you all to take this information, and invite you to make that concern something more conscious for your good and for jk’s good. I’m not telling you not to worry at all, just that you can identify what you can fix, and take it. What you can't handle isn't going to do you good. Not him, not you. trust him, if he has his life resolved, perfect, if not, then he will do it on his behalf, because there comes a point where we simply do not get anything out of worrying, apart from accompanying him and being there for him. Take care of yourself and your feelings too. You are also very, very important here♡.

@angelawang4660

Жыл бұрын

I'm so glad I found your channel🥹

@riverselive_kdmz_8458

Жыл бұрын

​@@bunnychick13 is he depressed? Sorry I didn't understand the video so much what's going on yall

@heynanana0613

Жыл бұрын

@@riverselive_kdmz_8458 he is not... he is just living his life

@penelopepitstock

Жыл бұрын

I 💯 agree with what you’ve said. Overreacting or assumptions about their personal lives makes things harder for them, it’s not helping them even if there is a real problem. They each have 6 brothers who love them unconditionally and know them better than probably anyone else on this planet. If anything goes wrong, it’s their brothers who will help them back up 💜

@moarmygene7310

Жыл бұрын

Tysm for making this video❤ The biggest gift we as Army can give bts is PRIVACY. As celebrities and humans, they are already deprived of so much privacy, and it surely can't be easy. It's important for us to take a step back and realise that we can't influence their private lives directly, except by giving them the space they need. JK is a grown man. He has problems, like everyone else. But we cannot solve them for him, just like he cannot solve our problems. Of course, he can be a sense of joy and support through his presence and music, just like we can be encouraging to him, but in the end it is his actions and those of the ones close to him that will solve his problems. So let's be the awesome fandom that we have been labelled as so far, by treating BTS as fellow human beings, respecting their choices and their privacy. We love you JK, and therefore respect your choices and privacy❤ you can tell us about things, but you don't HAVE TO. If I was an idol, this is the attitude I would want fans to have❤

About the crying…I personally thought he had read a touching comment that made him well up. He was reading comments at the time. I also find it healthy that JK can cry easily. He doesn’t suppress his feelings. That’s great! Crying is not an illness!

@bby_euphxria

Жыл бұрын

exactly crying isn't always associated with bad things we need to cry that's what makes us human it's a basic emotion yet some people don't know how to respect his boundaries and his words

@laurakubickova8777

Жыл бұрын

Crying is definitely fine and what is the point (if he was really crying) that he felt comfy showing his emotion toward us and this is important! We shoud apreciate him and comfort him!🫶🏼 (because imagine that u are depressed and someone just say “don’t cry”… woow how helpful🙄)

@dysmissme7343

Жыл бұрын

I love how easily and openly he cries 💜

@ninirozhy

Жыл бұрын

Yes I find it so bizarre that whenever an idol cries it has to turn into something dramatic, everyone suddenly has a psychology degree and diagnosing them with various mental disorders and not to mention all the “sad aesthetic” tiktok edits so weird

@i_want_to_be_sunshine

Жыл бұрын

I haven't watched that one yet, but if he was reading comments before, it's very possible. We know that he gets teary when it comes to army and I'm the same so I can't blame him. It's quite beautiful. Crying is a really hard thing to do for me, but when I write or talk about what bts means to me, I often cry. It just shows how comfortable and deep the feelings between us as fans and them as artists are. They really became a magic shop for me.

What a lot of people forget is how much of a support system Jungkook actually has...he has his members, his family, his staff, and close personal friends. I'm sure that he gets support and care from those in his life. He is not alone. It's also important to remember that if he's not okay and that he is depressed...that's okay. There's nothing wrong with not being okay. What we need to remember is that if that is the case, it's none of our business. We are fans, not friends, and bombarding JK with questions and accusations isn't going to help him. We can worry from afar, that's okay, we love them after all, and loving somebody is wanting them to be happy. But loving somebody is also letting them figure things out on their own and trusting that they know what's best for themselves

@yoongiSadboy

Жыл бұрын

this, just on point

@bunnyboopbubblesbcubed8380

Жыл бұрын

Even yoongi said that watching JK struggle while growing up was difficult for him, but ultimately Jungkook figured things out for himself and that he (Yoongi) was proud of him💜 sometimes, the best thing we can do for someone we love is to let them struggle a bit to find answers, no matter how much we want to solve things for them

@VANESSA_DULCINEIA

Жыл бұрын

💯

@ishaaa30

Жыл бұрын

this.

@chayo4537

Жыл бұрын

Why aren't people saying this about the rest of the members? This alleged depression and strange behaviour?

Jungkook was robbed of his youth. At the age of thirteen he started to experience the rigors of an idol, deprived him of a lot of things that a normal teenager could have been enjoying. He just deserves the understanding, respect and space which he owes for himself. Let us continue loving him, and his music. He's a very talented person.

@angelaopris7763

Жыл бұрын

👍👏👏

@kate.valishina

Жыл бұрын

@@Goldgoodnesscan yes! This is exactly what he's doing. And it's totally fine and understandable. He is a grown up and knows his limits. I'm so happy when he does live streams. But a lot of armys reacted like crazy mommies. The only thing we can do is show love and support. And army need to understand these boundaries between idol and fan.

@MODNAR67

Жыл бұрын

@@Goldgoodnesscan he didn’t give his childhood up for Armys, he gave his childhood up for his dreams

@nightshadow73

Жыл бұрын

Koreans spend their youth in school for 18 hours a day. They go to regular school and then they go to their cram school all to prepare for that giant test. They have to take that almost determines the rest of their lives. Jungkook has been able to experience more things than his counterparts have been able to do. He has had more adventures than they’ve had while they were stuck in a classroom. He was seeing the world.

@riybe4226

Жыл бұрын

@@nightshadow73 Jungkook has finished both school and university while being first a trainee, and then the main vocalist, center, lead dancer, sub rapper, and face of the group. He has been stuck in the studio recording all the vocal guides, background vocals, harmonies, adlibs and raps since 15. And then, he went to dance practices because he could not afford the mistake during performances. And then, he was stalked, sexualised, harassed, and hated by millions of people every day. Yes, he traveled a lot, but for work. Yes, he did not go to normal school, but is it really better? He went through a massive trauma and pressure that no teenager should have experienced.

recently i think some of them fans like literally think of JK as a baby boy. ik he is our forever 'baby kookoo' and stuff but it's really just an endearing nickname to show how much we love him. the truth is, he is 25 and, finally for a long time, is having an opportunity to really live a life of a normal 25 male but we being 'dramatic' like this will only strip away his freedom. guys, as a fan let's just be by his side, support his choices and not act so entitled.

@jonghun8468

Жыл бұрын

That happens alot in the industry. Especially when the idol is so young when they debut and they end up in a way trapped as "the baby" No matter what. Its not just in kpop either. Jk could be married and a father of a grown adult and some people would STILL think of him as "the baby"

@honeymelon6177

Жыл бұрын

If they were talking like that to a 25 year old man that's sitting in front of them, they would be extremely embarrassed.

@denisetenny4529

7 ай бұрын

Yeah, like he's a baby out among the wolves, and only they can save him! God, they drive me crazy sometimes. They see these men still as boys and only one dimensionally. He's grown. He bought his own place. He can drive a car. He owns cars. He's probably dated (that would k1ll them) and I think these things would shock them. It's like they think BTS just stops, folds themselves into a box until they are ready to view them, and then they magically alive themselves. They have no other purpose or life for these people.

jungkook is pretty much coming live whenever he feels like nd the best thing we can do is to provide a safe space where people wont over analyse everything. even if he cries nd then say he didnt just leave it like that. if u wanna show him love . show it in diff ways than giving ur opinion on wht he shld be doing.

@bunnyboopbubblesbcubed8380

Жыл бұрын

Exactly this

@natachadomitro2577

Жыл бұрын

correcto❤

@sabrinanirasha

Жыл бұрын

that is such a wonderful and mature answer !! and you're very mich right about that.

@cecileroy557

Жыл бұрын

Thank for this! I'm pretty tired of comments telling him to stop drinking and obsessing about his mental health. Jungkook is a grown man!! Guys his age often drink A LOT!! And not only in South Korea. He's worked his ass off since he was young - just let him live his life!!

@Darumdarimda22

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree!

I'm honestly so happy that you brought this up. As fans, it's important to realize that our relationship with BTS as ARMY are not what most people would call "normal". It's a parasocial relationship. Parasocial interaction (otherwise known as PSI),as defined by a quick google search, "refers to a kind of psychological relationship experienced by an audience in their mediated encounters with performers in the mass media..." The idol industry in Korea has been specifically designed to promote this kind of relationship, with things such as aegyo, marketing, and the way idol groups are trained to interact with their fanbase. This *does not*, under *any* circumstance, mean that these idols (whether it's a BTS member or otherwise,) are *required* to play into fantasy. I have often found myself overthinking and worrying for members' health, but you have to take a step back and re-evaluate and consider, because these idols, as unreal as they may seem (especially to non-Korean netizens), are still *people*. They are all *human*, as Jungkook so sadly had to remind us. I don't doubt that idols care about and are grateful for their fans, but we have to start realizing that some of us have a sense of entitlement toward our idols. At the very least, that's what *I* think. This was probably much longer than it needed to be since yoongiSadboy already put together such a powerful video on the topic, but I felt the need to share, lol. Have a wonderful day, and thank you so much for this video. -

@kimcole1093

Жыл бұрын

Well said

@VANESSA_DULCINEIA

Жыл бұрын

I agree 👍 💯

@theway6763

Жыл бұрын

👏🏽THANK 👏🏽YOU! People completely fail to understand this or simply don’t want to accept it🤷🏽‍♀️

@nahweraprossy-ck9wl

Жыл бұрын

​@@Goldgoodnesscan it's obsession

@airenmehnaz

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this!! I was about to write an essay about this in the comment section but you saved me from it by putting my exact thoughts into words in a much better way than I ever could ❤✨

he's worked so hard for the last 10 years, and has spent all that time away from his family, and being looked after by the members and the rest of bighit. for me personally, seeing him at home on his livestreams is so comforting. he's at home and he CHOOSES to spend time with us and that is so precious. it warms my heart. jungkook is an adult who is free to do what he likes, there's no need to panic as he still has the support from the boys and the rest of the company. 💜

If wearing the same clothes at home everyday is a symptom of depression, then I must be SEVERELY depressed 😂! HINT, I'm not depressed.

@Cookie_Comment

Жыл бұрын

SAME BRO. i wear the same comfy clothes and i’m just living my life. how the heck does that equate to depression? smh :’(

@purplemb

Жыл бұрын

Hahaha i can relate😅

@bby_euphxria

Жыл бұрын

fr it's so offensive especially to people who actually have depression like me I can assure you lots of people with depression are able to change their clothes like everyone else we aren't that "lazy" to do that and even if you don't have depression, we all sometimes wear the same clothes cause why not, it's comfy and relaxing. Jk wasn't even wearing the exact same clothes just similar clothing pieces people these days smh makes everything about depression throwing the term around everytime someone looks "depressed" like it's a trend forgetting it's actually a serious mental disorder that affects your daily life...

@Cookie_Comment

Жыл бұрын

@@bby_euphxria THANK YOU. i get so annoyed when it’s used so loosely - how hard is it to educate yourself or just stay within your business smh :/

@passionable90

Жыл бұрын

But also, we’ve seen his closet in bv1-this guy had at least 70% of his closet in black tees lol

i really wanted to see someone address this situation in the way you did it. this is the right thing. no matter how much we love him no one should be doing things that invade his privacy it's just ridiculous. as he said, he's a human too. just because people want his attention and to get noticed by him they shouldn't be doing these things, it's wrong. wrong in every way possible. i can't believe that people can actually do things like that, they're all grown adults. and also the thing where people tell him not to do things..wow, it's really getting out of hand like why are you telling him to not do things that he wants to do? he can do whatever he wants and as fans we should support him not say stuff about it or overthink it or analyze it. i mean i can completely understand that most of us are worried but still, he looks happy he's doing these lives to share things that he does with us and i'm sure he hopes that we would just enjoy watching his lives and not do such absurd things. i really hope people can understand and stop overthinking things. and thank you so much for making this video, you've said the right things. i really appreciate it

@natachadomitro2577

Жыл бұрын

totalmente de acuerdo, que injustos que son por Dios .

@marieharris6269

Жыл бұрын

It's jealousy, taking a month or two off after nonstop grinding for >10 years does not equate to being unemployed. To those haters so what if he's unemployed? He's not begging them for bread. People that are miserable in their lives and seeking attention are often selfish and don't care about the people they hurt. True Armys let support them and always remember we're fans, maintain that boundary!💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜🦋

I saw older army’s saying he’s been known to be super active on various social media in short periods and then not heard from for some time. So whatever he’s doing is really nothing new at all. That was reassuring for me (other than the very direct reassurance he himself gave) and all I needed to hear not to worry. Newer army (like myself)(I’m talking like post-2018 fans) need to keep in mind how much of their idol lives we weren’t there for and that we don’t know them as well bc of it. All army’s need to keep in mind that he 100% has people around him that care for him.

Jhope said not to worry. Jk is a strong guy. You said it beautifully, army shouldn't be part of his problems, we need to stay his refuge.

i absolutely agree. most of us haven't realized what boundaries and privacy are. hopefully we realise the fine line between invading his space/drawing conclusions and being genuinely concerned and wishing for his well being. also, he said what he said, if something's up, we'll know when it is the right time for us to know. thank you for this video

I thought we as a family have evolved from invading the members' privacy and it breaks my heart seeing that they still have to go through this on an everyday basis, even when they're not on the face of the public for majority of the time. jungkook is the purest man, and i mean what i say. his heart is devoid of any mal intentions and he always tries to lighten the mood, whether it is with the members or with us. seeing him cry was not what i expected, since i didn't really expect anything in his previous lives. as u said he was just enjoying his time alone singing playing with his dog, spending time w us etc etc. i didn't think much of it because that's what jungkook is by nature, he's simple and he's sorted for the most part. crying, however, is not jungkook, but now that i think about it- there could be many explanations for it

@kate.valishina

Жыл бұрын

Well... crying is normal for him because he is very sensitive. We all know that he cried a lot during concerts abd award shows. And it's okay to cry when you are overwhelmed. I cry a lot too and it's not because I'm depressed (although I am diagnosed with depression). It's because I'm very sensitive whether it's something good or bad. And I think I kinda understand what he's going through right now. All we need to do is to remind him how much he is loved.

@t4gguk

Жыл бұрын

@@kate.valishina crying is normal for him, i agree with you, but crying out of the blue at times when really nothing emotional is expected,, is not normal. he is seen to cry usually on the final days of tour, while watching sensitive movies, etc. since these are times when emotional responses are expected and usually empathised. But during a live? Without any pretext? That personally doesn't seem very jungkook to me

@kate.valishina

Жыл бұрын

@@t4gguk it's out of the blue for us because we don't know what's going on in his life. Maybe (just maybe!!!) he read all those comments telling him to stop drinking and smoking and it touched him because it was kinda rude. Idk really. Nothing bad happened but it's all over the internet. I think he is able to take care of himself.

@jonghun8468

Жыл бұрын

​@@kate.valishina there's nothing wrong with being sensitive. Some people are just naturally show more emotions than others. And crying doesn't automatically mean the person is depressed. I've seen people cry because their stressed an also cry because their happy.

@jonghun8468

Жыл бұрын

​@@t4gguk If someone suddenly gets upset and starts crying it's not "randomly" or "out of the blue" something could have been playing on his mind for days or something could have happened earlier that day. We just won't know because we don't know everything that happens when he's not of camera.

my friend, thank you so much for making this video. only a few days ago i was having a conversation with my army friend about how frustrating it is to see people make such absurd conclusions and "worry" about him. You voiced all my thoughts exactly, especially at 5:21 .Jungkook shares these parts of his life with us, which is so precious, so respect him, trust him and what he says.

as a person who was one of the people who made "i'm worried for him" comments, watching this video really opened my eyes to another perspective. i'm also wondering why i drew such wild conlcusions when all the answers to our questions are pretty much already answered by himself. at the end of the day he is his own person, he is an adult, hell the man is already 27 in korean age, he can make his own choices and knows the responsibilities. i'm actually happy to see him have time and willing to do all these lives for us since he has been working non stop since debut for ten years. instead of all these comments worrying over him (all out of good heart i'm sure), if i were him, i would rather have the fans moreso having fun and interacting together with me. at the end of the day we are fans and that's that. we can worry from afar, there is no need to be IN his life, that is his privacy. like he said there are things that we do in private and things he does in private, there's a line we draw. just like what the video said about jungkook seemingly crying, it could be rhinities but he could be lying. even then what right do we have to interrogate him? imagine if you were crying and you didn't want to explain yourself why whether it was because you weren't ready to explain or just didn't want to. now what would you feel if multiple people kept on asking and asking and asking. sure they don't have bad intentions since its all out of love and care for you but i think its also respect. respect their wishes if they don't want to talk about it for now, he is a grown adult he can make decisions for himself and we should respect his privacy. put trust in him like he puts trust in us one last thought the video was also really relaxing to watch in general with the editing :) thanks for making this video !!

I try not to worry about Jungkook, but sometimes is imposible I hope that he is okay and I hope people don't spread rumours about him

I watched this video a while ago, and couldn’t help but come back to it, after seeing Jungkook’s post, about food (THAT HE DIDN’T ORDER) being delivered to him. I rarely comment on things related to BTS, but this just upset me so MUCH. I’ve been an ARMY since 2014, and I was very well aware that there was a line/point that as a fan, I shouldn’t cross. Love and support can so easily become an obsession. As I grew, I kept that in mind. I don’t want to be someone who would ever make any of my idols uncomfortable. I know that not everyone will think the same way I do, but to reach this point… A point where Jungkook just says “STOP” in hopes that that will work, after kindly telling us before to respect his privacy. It’s no longer being an ARMY. This behavior is beyond disgusting. I wouldn’t blame Jungkook if he moved, and never go live again. I’ve read many comments that say that BTS gave us their youth, and I couldn’t agree more. It’s sad to see that this is the payment that they are getting. It’s sad to see that this is the payment JUNGKOOK is getting. And what’s the worst of all, is that not only does this affect BTS but us TRUE ARMY’S as well. The bad apples are rotting us along side them, and we too are and will be suffering the consequences that they brought upon themselves. Respect Jungkook. Respect his privacy. Respect BTS. Respect everyone.

Thanks for this video. As a mom of teenagers, I worry a bit for JK too. At moments he might come across as a bit sad, or lonely lately. But... we don't actually know, right, what's going on in his personal life, unless he tells us himself. And as much as BTS means to us, or as much Army means to them, there should be a healthy boundry. And we have no business in their private life. I also remind myself JK has an enormous back-up of family, members, friends and ofcourse the company and staff. All people that know him very well and have intrest in him being happy and healthy. So I trust that IF he would not be well, they would notice, or he would ask and get help from all kinds of directions. His daily life and circumstances changed a great deal the past half year, so I think it's normal and okay to need some time to adjust, or search for the right path. Or just take a break for a while and let it all sink in. He's the youngest, so he might not have a stonewritten plan just yet. But at the same time, he's definately not a baby. And actually, I think most late teens or half twenties hate being called babies. Since they, rightfully so, want to be seen as mature and not be belittled. I could very well understand if JK would get sick of always being treated like he is this helpless innocent little boy. While the man's got millions, seen half of the world and carried a huge responsability and weight on his shoulders for half his life, and worked his ass off for a decade. If I look back on my twenties, well sure, I had drinks, I smoked, I went out, got tattoos, stayed up till dawn. I had a job, and my own house, but besides a rabbit, not much responsabilities yet. I could let loose every once in a while. And I did, before I got more settled. Besides, the alcohol consumption in Korea seems to be a cultural thing too. (Not that makes it healthy, but puts it in perspective). (For ex. I don't think in my country a show like Suga's would be broadcasted with that much booz in it, but there it's a normal thing to do). I truly feel ashamed of the people that harras JK in any way and call themselves Army. They should reflect on themselves and realize how they would feel if it was the other way around. Where groups of people would follow them, stalking, making up stories, and basicly ruining their personal life. They would be scared shitless and call the police. Unfortunately these SS don't seem to have a brain. Have respect for the members you claim to love! And realize that if you cross the line too often we all might lose their trust completely and they would shut down. So indeed, like the video says, support the members, but keep your distance and just show them your love by listening and respecting their wishes. We should be so grateful for everything the members have done and created for us, all the love we get through their music, performances and shows. And all the extra's like the lives, letters, behind the scenes. But that doesn't mean we own them. They are just people. With ups and downs, insecurities and doubts. But they will pull through and grow, if we let them.

@teresakaczmarek3855

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, I can only add that those who profess love for a person / idol while imposing their own opinion, views, criticizing it is not healthy love but toxic love / selfish love / addictive love.

@kisi9121

Жыл бұрын

Im mom for four, i´m not worried. He is not alone with his feelings he is with army witch is his safe place, happy place. He is drinking so what I can drink too sometimes, its normal. He have so many loving people around him and he is working, boxing, cooking...normal things . So its okey. If he stops doing that , then i will worry. He is healthy normal young adult

@kisi9121

Жыл бұрын

But stalking him, go to the same gym as him ..thats is not right, respect him and give to him his freedom in freetime. They dont share everything, they have workroles thats fine and normal. Now there is so weird armys, look at the mirror. We have love this guys like this, silence and watching

Thank you. I made the mistake of reading the comments under one of the translated videos of JK "crying" and the group hysteria about him about to commit suicide was overwhelming and horrifying. Jungkook is my ult bias, he was what pulled me into kpop in the first place, I adore the man. But no matter how much I or any of us love him, we do not KNOW him to any degree where we have the perspective or right to theorize over his mental health. Much less work ourselves into a panic about a suicidal crisis. He's a grown man of 25. Can we please, please let him be the adult he is and respect him enough to listen to what he says about himself? Please.

It’s been a while huh?:) My computer it’s about explode and it’s the only way I can do this. Actually it took me THREE ENTIRE days export this TT but idkn, I really feel the need to talk about this, It was very frustrating for me, I hope this reaches the right people. Im doing well btw! (to all the people who is asking me. I still read all the comments ♡) so don’t worry. To those who are still here, thank you, and sorry.

@lgtv6267

Жыл бұрын

I love it so much, i thought the same but lacked the words.. if you are interested i'd translate this into spanish in the hope that it'll reach more people. Thank you for making it :)

@yoongiSadboy

Жыл бұрын

@@lgtv6267 of course! You can translate it, thank u

@DeeSparta

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this video. I have been trying to explain to people/Army that we need to respect JK's boundaries and not overthink things.

@loveyourselfthewayyouwisht6654

Жыл бұрын

Good to hear from you again! You are missed and you are loved!

@annsalonav8531

Жыл бұрын

I like the way you think I thought I were the only one thinking about this We should let him do what he need He is a human too 🫀😊

As a nurse, I believe him when he said he had rhinitis. Based on his appearance, his nasal tone at times, and the fact he was sniffling much of the time. When he puts his hands up to rub his face ( which he did before in the Vlive), just before he covers his face completely you can hear him snif up what sounds like a glob of snot. And then once more. Then he rubs his eyes (most likely itchy). My eyes get teary when I'm on my phone or computer for awhile because the blink rate slows down, eyes get dry, then teary when you blink. His eyes are mostly shiny anyway. But as it was well worded in the video, let's not jump to conclusions as if we really know him. Most of us struggle in life. Let's be understanding and respect his privacy.

THANK YOU! I've personally been worried, but more worried about how overwhelming it must be for him to get almost choked with attention and stalking, while he's simply trying to take a damn rest. It's ok to worry for someone, especially if you see "habits" of them going down the wrong path, but in this case, it is Jungkook we are talking about! We don't know him as a private person, and i'm sure that if he really needed and WANTED help, he'd have plenty of access to get it. We should rather appreciate getting lives where he already seems to share a lot of his private time, and take, that he's doing lives and making it a safe space for himself and feeling comfortable in doing so, as a compliment, rather than jump into wild conclusions. If he cried or not; we've seen him cry before. If he drinks in the night; like he explained HIMSELF, he can control it and he's a grown man. IF and ONLY IF, there was EVER to be a problem with how he's doing mentally or physically (as i mentioned already) he would have plenty of access to get help, and he sure as hell, wouldn't immediately share it with ARMY's because we (AGAIN) don't know him as a private person. He has his friends, staff, BTS and a whole company to look after him. So... Leave a man be. You wouldn't do this kind of stalking and nagging on someone you went to school with (I hope not at least, get help if so), so please consider, before making whatever assumptions or trends about someone else's health. It's fake news, until he announces it himself or through HYBE entertainment, which he hasn't but he has announced his lack of privacy, both physically and digitally. So the best thing you can do for him, is support him by watching the lives, and keep your worries to yourself. In short, basic humanity and respect for another person.

PLEASE, CONSIDER MAKING A SHORT VERSION OF THIS! i feel like that way you could reach more people who actually need to see this and thank you for this video, youre totally on piont

I appreciate Jungkook's realness. Do you Jungkook! Real ARMY respects that line between him being an artist and his private life.

I'm grateful for posts, and videos like yours! So many "whiney" posts worrying about Kookie, or complaining about his adult behaviors, like drinking, were driving me crazy! Since his LIVES and Q&As during quarantine in LV, I have felt so close to him, and I appreciate everything he shares with us, and love him even more for it. While everyone seemed to be freaking out, I was cheering him on for coming into his own, and doing what he wants HIS way. He's fine. He's got this! His Brothers, his family, and we are all here for him. In between the serious moments, he seems so happy! He has earned this break. I'm so happy for him to o have time to breathe, and see him having fun with us, and visiting with the important people in his life (Bami too). Thank you so much! I'm so relieved to finally be seeing more people speaking with wisdom, rather than being negative. It is called Life, and Kookie is going through it, just like we are. 💜🙏🐰

Jungkook is an amazing young man he loves his ARMY so much he treats us to these lives ..he is so use to having army in his life from so young ...his interaction is so precious ...he is a grown man now and can choose what ever he wants to do .. he is a stunning strong georgous young man and I wish him.all.tje best for the future 😊💜💜💜💜🌹🌹🌹

I'm glad you made this video, I've been getting annoyed with fans policing JK. He's a normal human who just happens to be famous. But drinking and chillin in the house for the love of God let him! He's earned the right to relax and enjoy his break.

It is soooo good to hear your compassionate, considerate, and sane voice amongst the hoopla. I have missed your comforting perspective. You are so genuinely sensitive to the reality of these men as they live in the excruciating spotlight of being BTS. Many thanks and peace to you.

Goshhh!!! Finally someone says this. Y'all he's resting and hanging out with us. if he's having a hard time, he's doing those to cure them. and you guys messing the things?? that won't help for him, even his situation can be worse. so guys pls support him, post fun comments under his live(not weird shts)(eg commenting "we'll be here for you", "you can come with us anytime", "thanks for being comfortable with us" etc. instead of "are you okay Jungkook?" "stop drinking" "don't cry" cuz he won't say if he's okay or not and we can't help with that), stop unnecessary overthinking. he's human too, also a gen-z like us. So he'll have depression, sleepless nights, and many other stuffs in his life like US! + I mean if he's crying or showing emotions, he's rly comfortable enough to show his emotions to us and you guys are saying to stop crying. I don't think that'd be great. let him cry, let him pour his feelings in here whatever he feels. What he feels is not our business, we only need to listen his word and showing support. Maybe he'll feel much better because of us, because of our loves we give.

The thing that concerns me is the fans. Like the format of his lives is so intimate and comfy coz he feels that way with army and he feels okay to share. He is an adult and constantly learning from everyone. He might even be more balanced that many ppl his age due to his circumstances. But that intimacy he shares might fuel many ppl's imaginations and their parasocial relationship with him. And that relationship is based on what they perceive him to be rather than him actually. We see that when people baby him even though he might actually be older than half the fandom and is in his mid twenties. People say "don't drink it's not good for you" as if he doesn't know that himself. But they feel very excited as well when he outright flirts with army. And tbh it affects the fans more than him...this parasocial relationship. So I'm just thinking how they'll react when one day he decides to just go marry someone or whatever. They don't own him....and i hope they realise that well. Just becoz he shares doesn't mean he is obligated to do that or be available for armys always.

Thank you for making this. It drives me crazy watching the lives and seeing people commenting at him to "stop drinking" or "go to bed" or "look at the comments, don't ignore me!" I am just so over it. He has spent half his life dedicating himself to people that he has never even met. He has sacrificed so much. I don't understand why people can't just let him live. We don't get to tell him what to do. We should all support him doing whatever makes him happy. And to anyone that has gone out of their way to stalk him or seek him out--you are SCARY. Don't do that. Put yourself in his shoes. That would be a terrifying situation to be in.

@annikalund2329

Жыл бұрын

@Allie, I totally agree with you. Some comments during his Lives were so disrespectful, I can’t believe people write that down. I especially hate it when they ask about other members . Please enjoy the one who started the Live. And please keep shipping out of the comments. And religion also, please. I’ll stop my ranting here.

@alliereiners

Жыл бұрын

@@minteabee I know it makes ARMY look bad. Like let him do whatever the heck he wants I would happily watch him do anything. People feel entitled for whatever reason.

Thank you... This was a very thoughtful video. I said the same to some other commenters who seemed overly upset when this happened. But you illustrated it better. He was 13 when he started working. He deserves a break without anyone telling him what he "should be doing". We all need time to re-evaluate our lives now and then. I think he's earned the respect he wants now. 🐰🕊😇

I love this! I feel like I’m always fighting someone in the comment sections after his lives because people act as if he’s not capable of making his own decisions and finding his own happiness. We don’t own him or any other member. We simply love his music and art and should be thankful that he’s sharing anything else outside of that with us. He’s a beautiful human being and I’m thankful for the time he allows us to have with him. 💜✨

I really REALLY APPRECIATE you for making this video so beautifully....I mean I too had a hard time collecting my thoughts over all what was going on...and as you rightly said that worrying about jungkook is not what you should worry about....I mean who isn't having sh*t in their lives? we all are in this adulthood phase wherein things get out of control, not as expected and we even tend to get TIRED. AND THAT'S IT. If he is tired after working so hard for years then be it that way. LET'S JUST LET HIM BE. ofc it won't mean stop worrying about his wellness....but in the boundaries we have. I hope whatever he does …. he's happy :)❤️

My opinion is to help Jungkook or even the rest of the members or even other artists 1. Don’t follow them to their houses, gym, their company, etc. except when it is announced by them or their company and they are prepared for it. 2. Just listen to them. Even if they are trying to hide their true emotions let them handle it on their own. Including if they have to go on the deep end of things. They do have staff, family, friends who will make sure that they are safe. Even if we want to. They are humans just like us. For me if people keeps asking me the same questions like are you okay or what’s wrong I will shut down completely. 3. The dating questions like can we date for so and so time is cute most of them especially Jungkook has laughed about it and agreed. Just know that it is just kidding around. 4. Some people need to stop asking them to speak English or whatever language. They speak Korean and they feel more comfortable speaking in Korean. Just wait until the Subtitles come on like I do. Sometimes they might speak in English which yes to them it is hard. I heard Jungkook, Hobi, and Suga say that. Yes they all want to be fluent in English and other languages. Evidence look back at their lives. Yes they know some words in English. But some people need to stop and understand that Korean is their language so respect it. 5. Besides the famous Yoongi marry me saga or asking about how another member who is in the military is doing or if they heard anything from them is one thing but asking hey where is so and so it is rude. This is this member’s live. 6. It is okay to be worried about idols or any celebrity. But telling an adult not to drink or smoke or whatever is rude. It’s okay to ask questions like have you eaten today? Or even how are you? Just listen when they answer. Some things aren’t meant for us to know. They deserve their privacy. 7. In the live about someone ringing his doorbell it was actually for his plumbing in his kitchen. He said it in his next live. And if anyone heard it he asked what time it was. The person said 2 o’clock he had it planned out for the plumbing company to be there at 2 o’clock. Jungkook lost track of the time he thought it was earlier than 2 pm. 8. He is adult and he can do adult stuff. It isn’t anyone’s business if something is wrong he will tell us when he comfortable. And he loves black clothes lol same here . The last thing is about when he openly said that he wasn’t crying when someone asked he said that he has rhinitis. Which he talks about comfortably. He said that when he drinks it acts up. And yes drinking alcohol, hot drinks, even eating spicy foods can make someone’s nose run and make them look like that they are crying. He also been using Bam’s eye drops in a few of his lives. If he is saying that he is okay then we have to listen to him and trust him. He trust army so we need to trust him. They all do.

Thank you si much for this video was so necessary, if he came live is because he feels confortable. It's a way for him to express himself, the less we can do it's enjoy and don't mess it up, at the end of the day he is living his youth by himself for the first time, we must love and support jungkook.

I think that JK is just missing Army. He’s very young, and to sit each day without doing what you’re used to doing has to be hard. He has such passion for music and dance and I hope he never loses that. Now, let’s all raise our glasses in cheers for JK. JK, JK, JK!!

@lupelostra

Жыл бұрын

I don't think so, he had said that if reincarnation existed he would like to vome back as a rock in his next life, he wants to rest and do nothing after non stopping for 10 years, makes sense

@melbaraboo

Жыл бұрын

​@@lupelostra he didn't say that yoongi did.

@lupelostra

Жыл бұрын

@@melbaraboo yeah you're right, but it makes sense as well that he wants to do nothing now, he hasn't stopped for 10 years.

This vid needs to be seen/trendin as there are many Armies who r constantly "concerned " but personally it's just them trying to control what jk should n shouldn't do so ty for this vid - made me cry as u voiced exactly my thoughts

Very well said , we have all worried about jungkook because we all love the beautiful person that he is , but we must respect his privacy , as he says he is human too , give him his privacy and ket him live , the video is well done and says everything

watch, follow, support! as he says he is an adult. we only see a moment of his life. if he drinks during lives, it's probably only with us. It's called friendliness. if he was depressed, he wouldn't do the lives. then it is very sensitive 😊. And that's why we love him. I confess that I feel frustrated by their dispersion. it's all of our lives. we meet and everyone goes their own way. Thank you for the video 💜

You know I love and Purple you for making this video. Because we trust them so we have to be attentive and listen to what they're saying instead of making our own theories and over analysing everything so I agree with everything you mentioned in the video and we as a fandom have to learn one thing which is to respect members privacy and personal space. Gonna share this video with my Army friends and I hope this video reaches every Army. So that we make a safe space for him

nah this video needs to go viral!! this is so true and i’m glad you’ve made this video. THANKYOU

After all the perfect thoughts of understanding, reasoning and loving serenity I've read, I would only add my wish for this fandom to learn to listen and grow up just like JK and the other members do. And one last thing: fretting publicly doesn't make anyone a more hardcore supporter. In fact, it has the opposite effect casting shadows and doubts. That doesn't help. 🤟 Thank you for the great vid and welcome back. 💛💜🤗

Jungkook está decansando y divirtiéndose como todas las personas; tomando, charlando, cocinando, cantando, boxeando y compartiendo tiempo con personas que él aprecia: ARMY. Ahora estas e personas deben de saber su lugar como fans y dejar de sobreanalizarlo, como dijiste: respetándolo, dandolé privacidad y repetando los límites que hay no sólo entre "artista-fan" sino de persona-persona. Yo salgo a correr y estaría totalmente perturbada si es que de repente alguien me comienza a seguir sin saber el propósito ni sus intenciones o simplemente a esa persona, eso es acosar y traspasa los límites de decencia humana. Es un hombre que no ha dejado de para de trabajar desde los 15 años y ahora después de 10 años por fin tiene un descanso, él está apreciando e incluso compartiendo eso con ARMY, pero existen personas que dicen "preocuparse" por él y dicen que quieren que regresé a trabajar, a mí me preocuparía el hecho que en más de 10 años él jamás nos dijera directamente cuán agotado estaba, con tan sólo ver los momentos donde él no se sentía bien y casi desmaya en el escenario se me parte el corazón y no quisiera que regresará a ese nivel de exigencia. Nos deja entrar a su vida y a su casa por unas cuantas horas y no sólo a unas cientos sino millones de personas así que imaginen la presión de eso sin contar lo que especulan de él con tan sólo mostrarnos una pequeña parte de su vida que además es lo que él quiere que veamos, así que por favor no lo lastimes con teorías sin fundamento, está bien preocuparse por él, todo el mundo aquí se preocupa por él y eso es debido al amor que tenemos por él y deseo que esté bien, pero levantar falsos, eso hiere a cualquier persona. Así que piensa en él antes de esparcir rumores y en cuanto lo puede lastimar, ver lo que personas que él quiere y respeta están diciendo de él. Jungkook es una persona de 25 años que tiene la confianza de compartir y reír con el fandom así que no arruinen esa confianza que tiene y provoqué que comienze a alejarse. Cuidalo, repétalo y amalo, es lo menos que puedes hacer como fan. 💜

@merce10554

Жыл бұрын

Ojalá estas palabras llegaran a las personas correctas. Este fandom tendría que madurar de la misma forma que ellos maduran y disponen de sus vidas.

Yes, I appreciate the moments he shares so much, so please! Army stop saying negative things about it, just keep it to yourself, you’re only hurting him by posting “worries “! Thanks for this video!

you're an intellectual. I'm so grateful for your existence

This is the first of one of your videos that I've watched and it was good to see that there is someone else out there who thinks the same way as I do. Although I'm only about a year into BTS, one thing I've noticed is how much of their lives they do share with their fans/army. But it's not up to the fans to make decisions for the members of BTS, they are frown men and they are able to think for themselves. JK is probably going through a pretty tough time right now as his main support just isn't within reach at any time he wants/needs him. But we should sit back and watch him and communicate with him to give him some sort of support in place of Jin at the moment. It's not our right to tell him what to do and for those fans/army's out there that think they can all I've got to say is YOU DON'T OWN HIM AND YOU'RE NOT RELATED TO HIM so you should mind your own P's & Q's and just be there for him if he needs you. YoongiSadboy, I loved your video and more importantly what you had to say. Keep it up & Borahae Saranghae. 🥰🤪💜🥰🤪💜🥰🤪 💜💜💜

You're absolutely right. People really be overstepping their boundaries. We should respect his choises.

I think these kinds of videos are good, we must learn to respect and stop overanalyzing everything and questioning what he does or doesn't do, it's his life, his decision, and as fans it's not up to us to get involved in it, I hope that everyone understand that, he is a human too and I am glad that he is so open with ARMY in showing his emotions and saying what he really thinks, this man deserves all the love in the world 💜

Thank you so much. I hope most of people will find out your video to maybe, as you said "focus on what we can fix". Sending you lots of love 💜

This video really calmed me down! I wasn't super informed on what was going on with JK and I was begining to get a bit worried from seing sad clips of him here and there. But yes I agree with you compleatly! He knows what's best for himself and the fans are just gonna have to support him! I hope alot of other armys take this video to heart cuz you really nailed it! 💜

У ТЕБЯ ЧОНГУК, ТАКОЙ КРАСИВЫЙ ГОЛОС КЛАССНЫЙ И ОЧЕНЬ ВИД ПРЕКРАСНЫЙ, С МИЛОЙ УЛЫБКОЙ И💜 ДОБРЫМ СЕРДЦЕМ, ТЫ ПРИВОРАЖИВАЕШЬ И ПРИТЯГИВАЕШЬ, КАК МАГНИТ!!! И ПОЛУЧАЕТСЯ ЧТО В ТЕБЯ ВЛЮБЛЯЮТСЯ!!!

you literally said it all, thank you! we can worry but in private, it's not our place to spread theories on his life while we see barely 5% of it he has relatives, he's a grown ass adult and we are just his fans we are human too so we can change our behavior and learn from our mistakes love uuuu

it’s abt time someone addresses this cause some fans really need to check themselves these days. i get you are concerned for jungkook but you all gotta understand that we don’t know him personally so you can’t just overanalyze everything. he’s not some baby boy you need to protect he’s a GROWN ADULT who can do whatever he wants. know your place as a fan cause no matter how many concerts and fan meetings you’ve been to, amount of times bts responded to your comments, or amount of times you got the chance to see bts, you’re still a FAN and nothing but a FAN

Thanks for saying what I also think. Let's not forget also, that he has many good hyungs, and family in his life

First of all, thank you for uploading this video and raising awareness. Even if I haven't really been invested in BTS as a group for quite some years now, I'm more than happy to see the boys being themselves and let lose of being an idol. Prioritizing being their own persona is THE LEAST we as fans own them. After seeing all the comments on his drinking habit and people generally telling him to refrain from doing what HE WANTS I was so upset. I haven't been this upset in a while. NOBODY has the right to tell a GROWN MAN what to do.

really happy to see such a useful, actually helpful and not harmful video on the topic. the amount of content creator armys who approach this topic of sasaengs by literally using their content, broadcasting the videos and photos invading their privacy, etc... it's infuriating. thank you for your work! I hope things will improve

All I want to say is thanks for this video I think finally after a few years the army is taking responsibility for how toxic they can be even though I feel like it's only been happening just recently.

Thank you, for being grounded enough to say it clearly and remind people to LISTEN when Jungkook speaks. We can all worry about the people we love but we should also pay attention and not invalidate their words when they speak.

All of your points are so amazing more people need to realize Jungkook is his own person and no one has the right to tell him what he can or can’t do or can or can’t believe in or be let’s all just love and support him. As well as value his true self and see he is trying to express himself freely as he should be able too💛💜

I think it’s alright to worry about him as a fan you want your favorite star to be in a good space and to watch for actual strange behavior cause knowing the K-pop idols who have tragically died by a touchy subject but it’s also a tricky thing though cause as a fan you gotta keep distance because at the end of the day your just a fan not a friend not a family member nothing just a fan so bombarding them will only make things worse but as far as being concerned and worrying I feel that’s fine but know to not push boundaries

Thank you for making this video! I think that it is really important that we give him the support but also the space he needs. Like he said he is a human too and just wants to live and enjoy his life and have his privacy. As fans we really need to listen to what he says and if he seems upset then he has made his reasons very obvious. Even if there are things he does not talk about, that is his business.

They ALL deserve privacy, respect, and a safe place to say what is on their minds. They don't owe us anything. They do lives for us. For US! Leave them all alone so they can live without seeing negative comments. They don't need that stress in their lives. Real ARMYS are loving, caring, and positive. We owe them that much. Let them live without the stress of negativity. We love you JK and we support all 7! We'll always be here for you 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

Great Video! Not to sound rude or anything but I knew this would happen. The boys aren't boys anymore, their men. They've grown up and that's normal. If they wanna drink or smoke or do something like those let them. They've worked their dream for 10 years now, that's everyones dream honestly. But they also deserve to relax and finally live freely without everyone in their business. One day they will split and wanna start families or move somewhere else or even do something other then music. All I'm saying is they've given us 10 years already the least we can do is lay off them and let them live. Like Jungkook said "We only have one life, so we should live it up and enjoy it." Sorry for this being so long. I went on a rant lol.

every army must watch this, not only armies but also other fandoms too. we are one of the reasons they have to go throgh this. I really appreciate you for standing for this.

First of all thanks for making this video, this is something very important for people to understand about right now...and everyone who worries about him, it's fine to worry like how this video is conveying...but just trust him, he would love it if you guys JUST trust his words and action, we love him so much isn't, if only we just enjoy seeing him having fun in lives and we have fun watching him doing his stuffs it would be so lovely than making up stories and theories in our mind or post any comments on his live according to whatever in our head that's just SO upsetting, pls do what you need to do if you truly love him, care, support, trust him and love him from afar he would love you back too army💜 thanks for the video again

Thank you so much for making this video, many people out there need to see this and enlighten themselves, you just said the things which have been lately messing up with my mind especially after the reading the comments in insta which mostly comprises of :- "DON'T DRINK SO MUCH", "DON'T CRY", "SOMEONE TAKE HIM OUT FROM HIS SOCIAL ACCOUNT & TELL HIM TO BE WITH HIS FAMILY" 😐 Like Wtf??? He comes live to spend some time with us chilling & having fun & sharing a piece of his mind too but certainly not to take these so called Life Lessons from us...we aren't his parents or someone who stays with him physically 24/7 to judge him & tell him all these. I don't know about others but I feel glad to realise that he feels us safe to be himself infront of us, he comes live randomly & even shares recipes randomly...even his schedule too like what he's doing right now or what plans he has for the day etc etc. He himself said in one of his videos that he is sensitive, he also said in one of his lives that Respect,understanding & consideration are the 3 things that are required to be in a person...then I don't really understand why some people are assuming whole new different stories in their mind & spreading rumours about it? Even if he is not okaay (which is completely okaay to feel sometimes), we should be glad that he is letting us in his space & talking to us...Even IF he was crying that night & lied to us, we should be glad that he trusted us enough to let his true feelings come out and if it was truly just because of Rhinitis, then also atleast he shared that with us...that's what matters exactly isn't it? We should always remember HE DOESN'T OWE US ANYTHING.HE DOESN'T HAVE TO GIVE US CLARIFICATION EVERYTIME.WE ONLY KNOW HIM AS MUCH AS HE WANTS US TO KNOW.AS AN ARMY IF WE CAN CHEER OUR LUNGS OUT FOR HIM, WE ALSO NEED TO KNOW WHEN TO KEEP OUR MOUTHS SHUT & JUST LISTEN TO WHATEVER HE HAS TO SHARE WITH US.

I don't think you could have said this any better. I hope the people who need to see this do. Jungkook grew up and was practically raised by the others throughout his teens. It's normal to have different emotions with such a drastic change. However, he has such a strong group of people who support him and that includes Army. Only, we have to be respectful and stay on our side of the line and not cross it. If he wasn't comfortable with us, he wouldn't have let us see this other side of him at home. He has things under control. Thank you for this.

I’m in agreement, enjoy his lives but remember as a human and especially as an introvert he needs his privacy too.

This is a very well-made video and I hope it reaches a lot of people. I have long since abandoned my social media accounts so I fly pretty blind when it comes to fandom news. I heard little tidbits but didn’t realize this much was going on. But this video is probably the best video I could have seen. I really appreciate it and agree with everything said! Thank you for making it.

i am 3 weeks late but i stumbled upon your video rn and oh boy the way i have cried right now because of this video hehe when the (drinking & crying incident) happened i and along with alot of armys specially twitter armys became hyper attentive about this situation because we knew what was about to come what narratives were going to be circulating i myself was jumping on different apps to make people aware about this situation and why is it important not make assumptions but people kept fighting with me about how i do not care about him this whole situation took a toll on my mental health too bc this was jarring i felt helpless and hopeless that i can't help jk and this fandom moving towards hell idk how much of a difference has happened regarding his privacy etc but your video really comforted me and gave me hope that we still are a beautiful community with lots of sense in us and we still are here to protect and love tannies also this whole situation even if it was not related to Jungkook or bts its still so sad and dissapointing as a human it makes you feel that there is no compassion and humanity left in this world :( Thank you for making this video i am so grateful as well as happy to know we are still here for BTS rather than fulfilling our selfish ego THANK YOU 💜

Quello che apprezzo di piu a JK…e proprio la sua autenticciata,creativita …e…non per ultimo il coraggio di essere se steso!!!!Di stare davanti ai suoi fan…cosi com’e nel bene ….nel male….con la gioia….con le lacrime….mi fa pensare che lui e parte integrante della mia vita!Grazie di essistere!!!!💞🌹🙏JK!!!!!!

@sofypi7493

Жыл бұрын

Impara a scrivere prima dai. Ma alla tua età tanto fessa da non sapere che è tutta fuffa? Che tristezza

I have been drunk, lonely and sad sometimes. So why would Jungkook would not be allowed to be like that! He has been sharing with us his many stages! That is so personal and precious! That just show us how he is so opened with us so the least we could do is be respectful and supportive! We all have been there! And he trust us to the extent to show us his vulnerability! So we have to be there for him.

@Melanie-fb7zm

Жыл бұрын

Fr,it’s okay to feel like that sometimes,and it’s not something to worry about.This guy deals with even more things than we do,dieting,music,haters etc.People need to stop babying this guy and making assumptions for every single thing he does.

I agree 100 % to all you wrote. Thank you for this video. 👏

when he started talking about the gym situation it made me really sad :( people need to realize that idols are just like us and need personal space too

I am so greatful to you for talking from thus point of view. That you said ,"A person who has not rested for 10 years needs to take rest and enjoy his he-time"❤

THANK YOU! Someone had to bring the ARMYS that cross the line of respect for the members back to earth. Everything we need to be reminded of, you said it. We can worry about them, but before all, we must TRUST and RESPECT them. Instead of overthinking and saying things that can hurt them if they see them, please, direct your energy into SUPPORTING them and LOVING them!

Thank you for this. I agree, I worry about them, connect to the glimpses they have gifted us into their lives. But that what they are gifts, gifts that theoretically we are not entitled to. They have worked so hard, and like you said even if JK were going through something, let's Control what we can like how we react if we see him or any other members. someone has asked me before what I would do if I saw them in public or ran into them and I said after I remember I have two functioning legs that I could walk after being in a daze, I would wave or bow. When I see he comes to talk to us in the middle of the afternoon, my time zone and I'm like the man can't sleep huh lol Okay I am rambling but the guys deserve to live in peace as we enjoy the gifts they give to us from their lives be it professional or personal.

The fact that he comes online and shares his thoughts and feelings with us so openly means that he finds his safe place or is comfortable with us (ARMY) as he even mentioned this in his latest LIVE as well. All we can do is respect his choices and love him and keep him and the other members in our prayers. Instead of intruding in their personal life can't we just support them from afar as they want us to be. Let's just be their safest hideout where they can vent their thoughts and emotions freely, where they can be what they are and can just be happy and not be disappointed at the end. Let's make our boys proud of us. Let's just be a happy BTS family as we always were and support our tannies. 💜 Thanks for making this video 💜

You’re so real for this, twt army are the only sane people who’ve been having this conversation I’m glad you’ve shed light on it on KZread

@minteabee

7 ай бұрын

we shouldn't devide people into twitter army, weverse army ect. there's going to be good and bad fans everywhere. it's not good to create these divisions. i personally don't use twitter, but i completely agree with what's being said in this video.

Excellent excellent video!! So well done!! You said everything that I was thinking!! JK is a grown man and needs to be treated as one, not like a little boy! We need to respect his choices and be thankful for sharing so much with us! All the members are wonderful that way! But they are all grown men and need a healthy personal life without interference from toxic fans. If you truly love them, you want this for them! BTS, BORAHAE!! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

Commenting just because of the algorithm because more people need to watch this. It is so important

jungkook is such a sweet angel. I love him. I’m so proud of him a lot for this hard work.

Amen!! Many thanks for making this well said piece! Respect Jungkook!?❣️💜

I will always support Jungkook! He deserves the world! Have a good rest and enjoy your precious life💜

I won't put too much thoughts into this but I think that he is definitely going through something and we should support him no matter what

@emmamcintyre6997

Жыл бұрын

Agree

To feel worry to a person it’s bcoz u love and care for him but to stalking a person even the personal life it’s not good and disgusting !💜💜💜💜💜💜💜BTS

I'm justo going to say, Thank you so very much to make this video. Because I got worry as well but I was to reading all this comments about Jungkook from people that just don't understand or even know anything about Jungkook's private life. He is beautifully sharing all this time with us and all people are doing is judging him like they know a goddamn thing... So thank you❤

Love...love...love this video!! Kudo's to the creator of it! I'm not going to lie...I am definitely concerned about the mental toll that things are taking on not only Jungkook but all of the members. I think the reason we see it so much more with Jungkook is because he probably feels the closest to ARMY and we are his safe place. He wears his heart on his sleeve and I think he more than the other members shares the most with us. I do try and remember that he has been in the business since he was 13 and that his behavior is normal for a typical 27 year old. I wish him health and most of all happiness.:)

I’ve said this before on other videos, but if drinking and vaping are the “worse” things he’s done, that’s pretty damn tame!! I don’t think they are bad things at all!! Also let’s remember they are freaking HUMAN1! Thanks for the video!!! I’m glad someone else feels similar to me!!!

He’s dealing with his past, his present and contemplating on his future. He’s a human being, and he wants to be treated that way. His work is a part of him, not the WHOLE of him. He must be struggling with his identity, and not only that, his sense of security and satisfaction with his own life. He wants privacy, he wants a life and wonders if he will ever get that. Let’s support him from afar and send him well regards. He is a grown man settling into a reality that is both hard and fulfilling. I heard somewhere that when you accomplish something it feels like the end. It feels like there’s nothing left to achieve, and that is a death in itself. Each member is dealing with things differently and I respect that when they choose to share that process with us, they do it unapologetically and openly.

Trust me you did a great work. Some people need to learn things

i completely agree with all of the stuff u said. it's okay to worry about him, but we still should always remember that there are boundries we shouldn't cross! also, it isn't necessarily a bad thing, if he is in a bad/sad mood on one of his streams, everyone has bad days, without anything bad actually happening. and also: i think, for many fans it's just weird to see him chilling most of the time and doing "nothing" on stream, because we are so used to kpop idols always having schedules or being busy with a new comeback, etc. but I really hope that many people, that watch ur video, will think about your point of view and maybe take it to heart aswell!

You know something that makes all this come up after watching him come live ,is LANGUAGE BARRIER, very few of us understands and can read Korean, so for the majority that watches him immediately he comes in and ends his live,ends up picking up a few information that might turn out to be as a miscommunication and a misinformation to them because of NOT UNDERSTANDING what he said...for instance the live that he did 3parts plus the extra 5min, the last part of it he was just (meditating?) If I may put it that way, just chilling and reading through our comments then when he seemed to be sniffing ( because we all know he has rhinitis), the conclusion erupted as he was crying .anyway that's just a bit of a part of his live that I've mentioned I know there's a couple more that people pointed out this and that on his other lives...but if we could all just listen, watch him attentively and carefully and not come up with conclusions,it'll be better

@yoongiSadboy

Жыл бұрын

So important too!

Very important video, thank you so much for raising awareness about this. Such voices are priceless

thank you so much for speaking up in such an eloquent way 💗

I completely agree. People should learn to keep that space. Tbh,I was away from keeping up with everything for almost a month or two because you know life happened and one day I saw this clip of him crying and saying "be happy even without us" that really freaked me out. but I guess whatever it is, let's just help him in ways we should rather than invading privacy or starting drama. Let's stream more,vote harder. Let's just stay here and wait till the spring 🌼

I’m very happy that you have made this video. Whenever I feel embarrassed or sad about some “fans” doing such things, these videos and comments under these show me that some of us are really mature and good . Keep supporting and loving BTS!

The last time jungkook was able to live freely without schedules or any heavy stress… he was 11-12 years old… a child.. and he basically goes live bc he enjoys being with army… it’s a safe space for him and he doesn’t need to be shamed in the comments constantly for being a young man… chatting with fans, singing, dancing and having a few drinks at home . Drinking is also very much a part of their culture… BTS drink all the time in things we see but they’re not advertising it… and that’s literally on film while working lol he’s just at home at night and sometimes feels like having a few drinks… the thing is he barely was drinking like 1 drink an hour when he streams… it’s not like he’s sitting there pounding shots and stuff.. even if he was… it’s a big deal he trusts us like that to understand him and know he’s smart and responsible… just let him live without smothering him with judgements. Worrying about him until he says to not worry and that he is fine is when you stop… he’s a grown man with a huge support system…. He comes live to feel good and normal… connection to his ten year routine he lost… and the last thing we want is for him to not feel comfortable with that anymore.. bc that’s what will happen. Let us stay a safe haven for him. Build him up and support him without over stepping in his personal choices… he doesn’t need that from us … he needs love and support