bro uploaded that video on valentines for a reason ☠☠

@SamoaVsEverybody814

3 ай бұрын

To make single ppl feel better about themselves lol

@RainStripes

3 ай бұрын

​@@SamoaVsEverybody814Yep

@SamoaVsEverybody814

3 ай бұрын

@@Sagemo I literally didn't mean it like that lol, sorry I should've phrased it better. I should've said "to let single people know that being single is fine". Both have perks you're right 💯

@ChrisPTY507

3 ай бұрын

Cope video for single people

@brian1011234

3 ай бұрын

😂😂 for all us lonely mofos

The Sun is all alone. Yet, it still shines.

@maxpower4868

3 ай бұрын

The sun is 1 star out of more than 100 billion in just our galaxy. The sun is FAR from alone

@MammaKush88

3 ай бұрын

And all the planets rotating around it...

@treheron

3 ай бұрын

@@maxpower4868and you’re 1 person out of 7 billion, you’re far from alone, I love you.

@ne0n863

3 ай бұрын

​@@maxpower4868 yet the closest sun is still 40,208,000,000,000 km away

@maxpower4868

3 ай бұрын

@ne0n863 in measurements corresponding to human capabilities that is a VERY far distance. In the grand scheme of things, that's a next door neighbor

Talking to significant other: "We need to break up. Aperture said it's better to be single."

@seanm3636

3 ай бұрын

Get used to having people throw balled-up pieces of paper at you

@SurakIII

3 ай бұрын

Rofl

@Tensho_C

3 ай бұрын

on valentines too, unforgettable😂

@gregoryleonwatson8631

3 ай бұрын

Ya 😢 but after the breakup, each person re-evaluates 🎉 and we begin a new 🥰 better because of the breakup. This is progress 🤔 this is evolution 🧬

@lawrup

3 ай бұрын

if you Both Earn more money then your all set

If you've been in a bad relationship you'll see the beauty of being single.

@vixenvalenzuela

2 ай бұрын

Yes

@turtleanton6539

2 ай бұрын

Ind33d😊

@turtleanton6539

2 ай бұрын

​@@vixenvalenzuelayes indeed😊

@IndustrialCake

2 ай бұрын

Exactly. Some people are afraid to be by themselves though, so they’ll take whatever comes their way, even if it means terrible relationship after terrible relationship.

@jaysouthmusic8230

Ай бұрын

Trust me ik it’s the best feeling

"Be alone, that's where ideas are born." -Nicola Tesla.

@oalbg5462

3 ай бұрын

Ended up dating a pigeon

@grungeisdead8998

3 ай бұрын

Didn’t he die old and alone in a hotel room?

@brine_909

3 ай бұрын

​@grungeisdead8998 why is dying alone such a big fear, isn't the life you lived more important then the day you die

@keyflag

3 ай бұрын

​@@grungeisdead8998 but he lived a more significant life than 99℅ percent of humans ever did.

@I_kaz_

3 ай бұрын

​@@grungeisdead8998he did die alone in a hotel room yet the whole world knows his name, he's the very representation of genius. The sacrifices he made and the pain he went through for humanity are honoured.

I'm 71 years old and I've been single most of my life. Yes I've had my love affairs, but I have to admit I love being single.

@manosijroy8282

3 ай бұрын

Wow man 71? I am a 23 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I did go on my first ever date 5 months ago at the age of 22 and she was 19(20 now) and had my first hug too but sadly she turned out to be toxic to me 2 weeks after the date and blocked me everywhere and I also went out with a female friend 4 months ago who is also 23 and ate in a big restaurant but idk whether to count it as a date. But almost 3 weeks ago, I got a new crush on this girl in a class where we go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 7 months ago but we are in different classrooms. She is also within the 21-23 age range and I had been too shy to talk to her but 2 weeks ago eventually with the help of my friends and one of her classmate I was able to talk to her and again said her Hi last week. That classmate of her did say she is single but last week another of her classmate said that she probably has a boyfriend so that makes me feel confused whether to pursue her or not but I won't believe it unless she herself says she has a bf. 6 days ago, I again talked with her a bit and even we did handshake and she smiled too but I was definitely still sounding a bit nervous while talking with her. Sadly she still didn't follow me back or reply to my first dm to her on Instagram and its been 10 days already so idk whats up as she was still friendly with me 6 days ago. She is very very pretty almost model like and I just look average. Without my glasses, I look better but I have high power so should wear them all the time and look really nerdy and dorky in it so idk whether I even have a chance with her. I had crush on another girl in the same classes for the past 6-7 months and she also turned 23 last month. I liked her a lot and she even called me cute several times and I also gave her chocolate 2 weeks ago but was too shy to say her that I liked her but she probably knew I had a crush on her tho. Sadly she is ignoring me these days as she came to know about my new crush on this another girl. I also have been chatting with this girl on Instagram for the past 7 months and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other that time and now she is in a different college. She is 19(turning 20 in April) and she is super sweet and we are both foodies and send each other virtual hugs and chat daily talking about almost everything. We will meet soon too and go to eat somewhere but I am still single in the end.

@darkmidnight818

3 ай бұрын

​@manosijroy8282 you cannot be a real person...

@turtleanton6539

2 ай бұрын

Inde3d me to😊

@philuntaysterlingsterling5046

2 ай бұрын

​@@manosijroy8282 As you age if you take care of yourself you will have plenty of options when women are young they want a supreme man but as they age they just want normal but here is the catch as man age we become the superior man vs our younger self and that opens the door to women of all ages once you reach 36 your sexual market value will be equivalent to the girl that had a womans body with the short shorts on bouncing around in gym class thats the best example I can give because I'm sure every boy had a gym crush but the message is keep living and you will see the days I speak of

@rezzo1802

2 ай бұрын

​@@manosijroy8282I'm 30 and I'm not gonna read all that, what did you think to yourself bothering an old man and expecting him to read all your stuff?(No offense tho)

Honestly, I am almost 24 and never been in a romantic relationship, never had my hand held, never kissed a girl, obviously never had sex. Sometimes I feel like that doesn’t allow me to fully appreciate being alone, since it’s all I ever known.

@shivarampersaud6799

3 ай бұрын

I'm with you brother. I'm 21 and being alone is all I've ever known. How am I supposed to appreciate it when my heart yearns for something that I may never have?

@nice02

3 ай бұрын

Me NBSN....im love being single....theres a peace and happy

@fParad0x_

3 ай бұрын

I'm also almost 24 and have never been in any relationship as well.

@andrefelipe2643

3 ай бұрын

Same ! I think is better to focus on us and our goals .​@@fParad0x_

@psypulse8516

2 ай бұрын

I'm 25 years old, and like you I never had a girlfriend, had sex or kissed a girl. I feel you, a LOT. What the video says is right, we can live a fulfilling life by ourselves, but it is not the way I want to live my life. I have emotional and sexual needs that are unmet that are making me soffer, I can't think of going through life without having some to cuddle with, making love, sharing moments of happiness and sadness... someone I can be myself with. I can't think of life without having someone to love

Loneliness is the effect of not being alone for too long but rather having your mind untouched for too long.

@stephanieparker1250

3 ай бұрын

Perfectly said.

@khaludi8584

3 ай бұрын

You have ways with words

@serpenteve

3 ай бұрын

What does it mean by - mind untouched?

@Jay-cp1cx

3 ай бұрын

Dumbest thing I heard all day

@rhammond7517

3 ай бұрын

🤔That's deep

Bold of you to share this on valentines Day.

@Brute_1

3 ай бұрын

bold of you to be watching this on valentines day

@paulalfaro7276

3 ай бұрын

@@Brute_1 💀

@Z3rath

3 ай бұрын

The game was rigged from the start

@samuelkamautv

3 ай бұрын

Indeed 😅😅

@SurakIII

3 ай бұрын

@@Brute_1 Fortune favors the bold.

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

@MohamedZaitoun-mh9ht

16 күн бұрын

Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

@HAMZAPINE

16 күн бұрын

Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

@fakiriayoub8087

16 күн бұрын

I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

@MohamedZaitoun-mh9ht

16 күн бұрын

Is he on instagram?

@HAMZAPINE

16 күн бұрын

Yes he is dr.porassss

One of the worst feelings is getting into a relationship and later realizing it was a mistake.

@rongike

Ай бұрын

there are no mistakes in life, only experiences, some that you want to repeat, some you make sure never to repeat.

@The_Wolf_of_Wall_Street

22 күн бұрын

Which I'm going through rn

Coming home to an empty apartment and waking up in it, are some of the great pleasures of life.

@zamoragera13

3 ай бұрын

Yes it is.

@TheDarkPlace00

3 ай бұрын

Single life: Where the only commitment is our own solitude.

@thelawyer95

3 ай бұрын

Exactly. That's my feeling of complete peace. Me myself and I.

@elza32358

3 ай бұрын

I've found my people ❤

@thelawyer95

3 ай бұрын

@@elza32358 No you don't, chase your Chad and leave us alone with your antics.

Coming from a dysfunctional family, being alone seems priceless❤❤❤❤

@NubianNemesisArise

Ай бұрын

Omg 😂😂 #FACTS! 🎉

Well said! Better to be on your own than be with the WRONG person!

@ojames1983

3 ай бұрын

So many say this foolishness, because it doesn't account for self-accountability. Not failing is typical better than failure. Relationships are reflective of YOU. It's better to be a better person, who can co-bond with others, especially with a partner, instead of being a perpetual bad selector in people and partners instead of failing at it. You're welcome.

@turtleanton6539

2 ай бұрын

Yes ofc

@AdamOBrien-ke8tg

2 ай бұрын

Obviously but a lot of people expect to be with the perfect person yet no one is perfect including themselves. It’s who you care about for the person they are and want to grow with as a person. Maybe it won’t work out but maybe it will. If you both care about each other and want to grow together then it could be amazing, fun, faithful, loving, supportive. You can grow as a person while with someone.

@cthulhu4411

24 күн бұрын

Seems like every girl I try to date is the wrong one and treats me like shit becaus ei have mental disorders and autism....

Never been in a relationship before. Life`s been great still, the sky still above, still blue, the food taste as good, the coffee smells as good, the sun shines the same.

Detachment is key. I'm 61 and have been single for 29 years. Life is good. I want for nothing.

Being alone is better than being with a toxic person, & being with the right companion who helps you grow is better than being alone.

@No_Enemies_Kale

2 ай бұрын

Yes.

I'm isolated by my own actions, struggling with relationships due to mental health issues and societal pressures, haunted by painful memories and bitterness towards myself and the world, I feel exhausted and powerless amidst the chaos.

@DaCostaGuitars

3 ай бұрын

The boat isn't full yet, though am sure others feel the same. As have I. *virtual bear hug*!! for you are loved, no matter the struggles. You matter, amidst the chaos. You can be light, within any dark abyss.

@Skittenmeow

3 ай бұрын

Sending virtual hugs. I felt lost at sea for a while. It took spending time with myself to actually learn to love myself and value myself. It happened slowly, and at first I didn't notice the gradual change. I was at a stage where I would involuntary yelp when certain memories hit (stuff I held deep shame over, or guilt, or embarrassment) Thise feelings are sticky and insidious, they take a while to process and there is no forcing or magic solution. One day I found myself turning my little involuntary yelps into a tune. Then deciding to "sing" a favourite song but only in weird yelps. And then laughed so much. It became that every time my body did some involuntary noise to shock me away from an uncomfortable memory I could choose to continue that noise as a tune into investigating that memory. I turnec from avoidant and aversion to curiosity and self discovery. And when I do something near 'mortifying' now I make up a little yelp melody/ dance immediately. So that it becomes an "inside joke" known only to me and also embracing how fucking weird I am in a kind way

@kalebscarminach8807

3 ай бұрын

I'm with you. But it's insanity to think that because something happened once or even a few times then it is going to keep happening that way. Get some help with your mental health and don't give up my friend. I know it doesn't seem like it sometime, but you belong in this world and you will meet people that are happy that you are alive and made happy by you presence.

@Psyfi85

3 ай бұрын

same, addictions throughout my adult life, failed relationships, friendships, family disintegration. Career is a whole animal on its own, everything has felt hopeless for some time.

Bold of you to think I have any control on the fact that I'm single

@MojKanal-cz1iz

3 ай бұрын

My genes made that decision for me

@grungeisdead8998

3 ай бұрын

Lmao he does talk about being single like it’s a choice and not an unfortunate circumstance

@erictalkington5674

3 ай бұрын

@@grungeisdead8998 it is if you make that choice. I made that choice years ago to stop going out looking for someone and just chilled at home and focused on me and leave dating alone for up to 6 months, it's been 8 years this coming summer. Have felt no need to get involved with some broad just because that's what everyone else is doing. I'm 42 by the way, I'm not earlier in life. If you choose to stay single, it is a choice. I mean unless you got females throwing themselves at you day in and day out, then it might be a harder choice.

@erictalkington5674

3 ай бұрын

@@RyanAnderson-dyNw well, I've seen some ugly ass dudes with beautiful girls and they didn't have money. A great personality can change a lot and so can some weights and exercise. You're only defeated if you acknowledge defeat.

@RyanAnderson-dyNw

3 ай бұрын

@@erictalkington5674 I have seen that too. I'm not saying it doesn't happen. I notice you said a great personality AND weights. Let's acknowledge weights don't always work. Neither does great personality. There are medical conditions and genetic dispositions that can prevent easy improvement to a certain people's bodies. How often do you see ugly ass dudes with hot girls? Not often is my guess. I don't see it often, let alone ever lived it. Defeated? Only an idiot doesn't see the forest from the trees or recognize when they aren't winning THAT fight. Attitude helps, it doesn't change eye sight or what they find appealing. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Beauty is only skin deep. That's what they say but those sayings only pay-off for the unattractive when others have fallen from their peak physical looks. Usually of old age, flat out bad reputation, or unpleasant unplanned physical deformity from a number of causes. Part of my reason I don't get along with fate, and God. They kinda suck and I have no use for things that dont no help me.

Was in a relationship from 16yo to 27yo. It definitely stunted my growth as a person. Took me a couple years to learn how to be alone

@plantmama7442

3 ай бұрын

Wow SAME. On that journey right now. I’ve had a long term relationship, now I’ve enjoyed long term singleness and grown as a person. I think I’m ready to find the right partner. Wishing you the same as well ❤🙏🏽

@AntonMidtsundstad

2 ай бұрын

just broke up with my partner and first love of 4 years after finding out that she cheated on me...I feel betrayed and lonely... any advice?

@deyowtf

Ай бұрын

@@AntonMidtsundstadfind something that makes you go straight forward like a sport or music or anything you’d like and waste your energy on it so there’s no place for the misery in your life also you can read love yourself by kamal ravikant it helped me go through the break up few months ago but you’ll probably find it a corny psychology book wish you the best man hope you’ll get through that

@stilistis

11 күн бұрын

idk, i've been alone my whole 20's and i'm 28 now. I feel like it stunded my growth to always stay single. Except maybe career wise. But even then I feel like i'm not that advanced or anything

@AntonMidtsundstad

8 күн бұрын

@@deyowtf Thank you for taking some time to give some advice ☺. Yes I think you have a point, try to have fun and to find passion in other things to fill the hole. Loving yourself is something im not very good at sustaining, some days I do, most days I dont. I listened to a audio sample of the book you recommended, it was interesting, I might buy it accually. Thanks again.

I literally told my friend these exact things this morning. I'm going to be single and stay single. Meeting people is exhausting.

@khall187

3 ай бұрын

If you're trained to exist digitally, yes it is. Go out. Touch grass. Touch ass.

@Skittenmeow

3 ай бұрын

100% agree with this. I think being late diagnosed autistic is part of it. My last relationship was really good but having had many years together we realised we had become close friends but no longer romantic. I started to feel like a burden, that I needed to prove I could do it alone. I also knew he needed romance. A couple of years after we amicably broke up he found a new partner, and she was the one to call me and tell me and say she didn't want to interfere with our friendship. She's become a close friend over the last 5 years, and he has stayed a friend. So breaking up I made one friendship stronger without burden, and gained another really close friend which isn't easy late 30s/early 40s. I don't feel incomplete, I've learned to trust myself and find what I love about myself. I'm not against another romantic relationship, but I don't need that. Only people who deeply truly know me

@user-rf4jq8sn5n

3 ай бұрын

It's the trusting people that is exhausting for me

I love being single and alone. I dropped all my friends after I awakened. Happiest I've ever been

@rickyfitness252

Ай бұрын

Lol

@AnimeFridays

Ай бұрын

@@rickyfitness252 I know it sounds bizarre. But it's just a different feeling when you can create your own happiness without relying on others

@BuizelCream

8 күн бұрын

​@@AnimeFridaysI'm in the same boat as well. There is a unique set of happiness created with another person or a group of friends or community, but it's just as fleeting as making money in my experience. There's so much more liberation and autonomy and empowerment when I've made myself my own best friend for years, basking in my solitude and loving myself to the point that it eventually led me to having a boyfriend anyways turning 28 since I got so much love to give. Happiness from other people is so fleeting, that I even feel like my partner is now coming to terms how giving me solitude more than usual is better for the both of us since there's a deeper level of inner joy he realized he can't really give me. Even when in a relationship, having a mindset like a single person of knowing to make my own happiness is proving to be more vital than ever.

@snowarmth

Күн бұрын

That's exactly right, you two! Happiness is a term often conflated... There's happiness as an emotion and happiness as a state of mind. As a state of mind, it includes peace, self-acceptance and forgiveness, and fulfillment. When you are who you want to be, and enjoy being that person. That's magic.

@rickyfitness252

Күн бұрын

@@AnimeFridays I'm married with six kids. I still value my solitude... But you're missing out on half the picture. You should try to cultivate a close relationship with somebody outside of yourself. We're social creatures at the end of the day.

Loneliness is a fear that many face. But if you can face that loneliness, accept it, love it, then the fear doesnt exist anymore. Imagine living a life where youre not motivated by the fear of loneliness. Imagine living a life where your happiness is not dependent on a person or thing outside of yourself.

@erictalkington5674

3 ай бұрын

That's the life I live and have for almost 8 years now. It's as glorious as it sounds!

I've been single 13yrs and counting. I'm enjoying my continued peace 😌

Something tells me I needed this

Just as valentine's day is approaching an end....he knows EXACTLY what he's doing...nicely done

@smoiealexis2921

3 ай бұрын

Approaching its end? It’s only 12 gang

@foofington5431

3 ай бұрын

@@smoiealexis2921 timezones exist gang

@smoiealexis2921

3 ай бұрын

@@foofington5431 you got me , my fault 🤦🏾‍♂️ totally forgot , have a great day !

After such a horrible valentine's because of a heartbreak, this video feels like a gift. Thank you

@grungeisdead8998

3 ай бұрын

Same, broke up a week before Valentine’s🚬🗿

@flowergirl5739

2 ай бұрын

💔

I’ve lived like that all my life. I can’t deal with people around me 24/7

No interaction no drama pure peace no desire no hurt only dedication to work

"It's very strange to be so well-known yet be so lonely." -Albert Einstein.

@rtx_____

28 күн бұрын

"It's very strange to be gay as well." -Albert Einstein.

This is such underrated advice. I’ve had so many friends who are always in a relationship and have trouble dealing with who they are. I have often told them they need to spend some time alone in life to have to with themselves head on. You learn a lot when you are left alone with yourself.

I really don't feel alone. There's so much stuff to learn about that are far more interesting than needing to cater to a "significant other". I'm trying to learn programming and markup language. I edit in photoshop and blender. I mod games. I recently rebuilt a sportsbike engine and on my way to repair another one with an electrical problem. There's so much other stuff thats more interesting than just continuing the species. I might come across someone but for now it doesnt matter. I just go along with whatever because that's what life is - an endless project. For someone to raise a family is achievement, for me - a dumb chore. I'd rather fabricate a front fork compression tool than try to lie to a woman to like me. It's what I am and I don't feel an ounce of guild being like that.

@brian1011234

3 ай бұрын

To each is own

@Aishu_Mech

3 ай бұрын

Exactly dude, you sound so relatable to me 🤝💯

@ivanpaganCHAMP

3 ай бұрын

Grind on brothas and sisters. Need not worry about others but focus on bettering and growing yourself and make the garden flourish, best wishes ✨🦾

@shawnshawn2699

3 ай бұрын

INTJ? 🤔

@gethinfiltrator6700

3 ай бұрын

@@shawnshawn2699 INTJ-T

You have so much freedom it's crazy.

@Yuri-nc9vl

3 ай бұрын

If you live paycheck to paycheck is not freedom, it's a nightmare being alone!

@hummingbird4934

Ай бұрын

@@Yuri-nc9vlI agree!

I dont know what is happiness so i can never be unhappy 😊

it’s best to be single till you achieve the best version of yourself

@khaludi8584

3 ай бұрын

that the idea of the video. Well said

@smoothlyrough512

3 ай бұрын

Then when you get a girl, she will change your back to your worse self😂

@AZITHEMLGPRO

3 ай бұрын

So much cope

@Leto85

3 ай бұрын

What does that even mean? How can you know you've achieved that best version of yourself?

@SplendidNinja

3 ай бұрын

There is no "best" lol we all need love

Being single should be the height of your life to discover who you are. Use this freedom to explore, travel, get an education, and get your finances together that way you can your best self which more attractive to a potential partner when your ready for a relationship and if not you are living live.😊

@Brae2723

3 ай бұрын

Eh this is only easy for adults who already have somewhat of their like together. Being a young adult in college living paycheck to paycheck unable to go out and have any fun, it’s hard for this to be the height of your life. Then there are people who are intimidated by people who are confident and seem to have their life together, especially women. It’s weird but a woman being independent and career driven scare off potential partners.

@vali69

3 ай бұрын

That just sounds like a way to cope until you get older and are 'ready' only to find out you're 30+ and have no experience in a relationship which deters most people.

@shawn9635

3 ай бұрын

Very well said

@yourlocalbudtend3r

9 күн бұрын

@@vali69that is exactly how I feel

@vali69

9 күн бұрын

@@yourlocalbudtend3r it's good to see someone else who feels the same way though in these past few months I've realized I'm not really attracted to relationships and or romantic stuff, I'm simply aromantic and actively feel disgusted just by imagining myself doing anything like that, I guess that's called being romantic repulsed, kind of like being sexually repulsed which I'm somewhat not, I would never want to do that but I feel just a tiny bit attracted, unlike with romance where there's nothing. Now I've forgotten the context of the video above, but I hope this was somewhat related, I've been on a little self discovery journey and I've also learned that what I desire would be at least some friendships with people who have the same interests as me. But I'm too traumatized by my past experiences to ever feel like I could connect with someone that way. I've never had any true friendships and I've been completely alone in that regard since highschool. Thus I don't feel like I can easily trust those who're not my immediate family. At least I grew in a decent enough environment yet still old fashioned when it comes to thinking. But enough about me, if anyone is still reading this just follow your heart and keep trying even if you keep failing, but also try different things to not get sucked up in a void solely because of that issue.

Being aromantic comes with its upsides

I've been single for some time now, and I'm fine with that. In fact it's helped me grow as a person in many ways. If someone comes along then great, if not then I'm cool with that also. Society's expectations, are not my own.

@daarom3472

3 ай бұрын

no one in society expects anything of you nowadays. Literally the most free time period in history.

@TechnoViking__

3 ай бұрын

Lol beta

@TechnoViking__

3 ай бұрын

@@daarom3472lies

@TechnoViking__

3 ай бұрын

@@marktunnicliffe2495 loser

@marktunnicliffe2495

3 ай бұрын

@@TechnoViking__ If by that you mean not needing to act like a needy "macho" man child. And having the confidence, experience and intelligence to be fully at peace with being single, instead of jumping into dead end relationship after dead end relationship just for the sake of it. Then whatever you say kid.

I want to stay single, grew up bullied and abused. I don't trust anyone. Plus love is based solely on looks...

@arrow2380

3 ай бұрын

Same here. I'll say not only looks but also personality. I don't have that side of myself anymore which wants to go out and meet a girl because I'm pretty aware what happened in my past. I want to be on my own inside my own personal space.

@helloworld2054

3 ай бұрын

Its all about personality and game now, and I don't have it

@johnjennings9693

3 ай бұрын

Exactly cheers,

@RedPilledFit

Ай бұрын

Physical attributes isn’t based on love, it’s based on lust. Love is an action on wanting the greater good for someone at all times, lust is a gratification based on selfish needs.

@Luna-Starfrost

2 күн бұрын

@@RedPilledFit Yeah, and love comes after "lust". "First impression matters" is literally the best thing one can say here. "Love on first sight" is not actual love. Real love comes after weeks, months even. Until then, there's 100% looks, 0% personality in almost all cases. That will go down to maybe 80% / 10%. But the initial stuff is purely optical and shallow things. Humans (and other animals too) are extremely superficial beings, that's just in our genes. It's like a colorful, male bird showing off its pretty feathers to a female.

I think it's a good idea to learn how to be alone. I can think of at least one instance in your life when you will be completely alone and no one will be able to help you. At that moment, having experience with being alone, will make a difference. The other reason is enlightenment, or refinement if you will, requires a lot of introspection and acquisition of knowledge. This is maybe a little easier to make time for when you're single.

“Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together,but do so with all your heart.” Marcus Aurelius

@NightmareRex6

3 ай бұрын

what do ppl who been given a bad fate do? like someone starving in north korea or yamen eta eta?

@fParad0x_

3 ай бұрын

​@@NightmareRex6that's why I don't believe in fate

@meowrbius

3 ай бұрын

@@fParad0x_ Fate is real. Having good fate is the real privilege. I'm not coping. I know from my experiences.

❤ Being with right person who understands you , supports you emotionally is actually wonderful thing , ❤ Waking up from bed alone , preparing your breakfast, going to work come home 🔄 hung with friends one a week is something else that i have no adjective to describe 😅

@BerryBeastie

3 ай бұрын

Yeah but would you still want to wake up alone, make ur breakfast alone & work alone while you're 40? Your friends will have a family of their own, and go on family vacations while then you'll hang out alone. Would you want that?

@MMC619

3 ай бұрын

@@BerryBeastieyou can still be alone and poor after a divorce relationship don’t guarantee that you won’t be alone

@BerryBeastie

3 ай бұрын

@@MMC619 That's why being with the right person matters. All marriages don't end in divorce. Choose your spouse rightfully.

@MMC619

3 ай бұрын

@@BerryBeastie nah I am good with my house and car just going to buy new bike for rides you enjoy with right person I would think about it after laws get changed if not I am good with my assets besides divorce rate is pretty high

@BerryBeastie

3 ай бұрын

@@MMC619 Okay whatever.

Being alone forever is my greatest pleasure. Thank you for the video.

A fitting day to upload such a video.

Swooping in like a lone superhero in a world full of sidekicks! Your video on staying single is like a breath of fresh air in a crowded room. Thanks for reminding us that it's cool to fly solo sometimes, finding our own groove and rocking it. Keep shining that light on the single life.

As someone who's never been in a real intimate relationship, I can honestly tell you that the hardest part is finding friends and people to spend some of your free time with. I'm perfectly fine spending big part of my time alone (actually prefer it), but when I have a weekend that I want to do something different it becomes harder to find people for that, since at the age of 30, most of my friends are married, or in long-term relationships and they do these things with other couples. Yes, I'm doing many of these things alone too, but sometimes having people to share the experience is much better. The other thing is that get so used to being alone that you feel detached from other people....as you basically are living in your own world. It's hard to give a damn about anything and anyone out of the 'perfect' little world you have created.

"Marriage is that wonderful institution that, when two people are together can solve the problems that they otherwise wouldn't have being single" - Mark Twain

I was single from 19 to 24. I loved it so much, the feeedom! But i fell in love, and just ended it after almost 3 years this past Sunday because i realized i dont like to be held down or to have to answer to anyone! Im not a good persons other half, im a loner at heart and thats okay!

This is incredibly interesting! I grew up with a mother who was obsessed with having friends, and she always pushed me to get out of the house and be with people. She made me think it was weird not to be. She’s on her third husband and hasn’t been single for more than a few months since she was 14 years old. She’s been gaslighting me into her way of thinking for as long as I can remember. yes I’m a wreck because of it. Another factor for me in being single is that I don’t trust many people. 9 out of 10 people end up disappointing me in the end. I’m an only child and have never had an issue with my own company. I have lots of interests. I’m a musician so I can easily entertain myself, and I could spend hours and hours listening to music and finding new artists.

Solitude is different than loneliness. Im finally in good company 💪

I appreciate this being posted on the day after I got broken up with

@regular_joe1669

3 ай бұрын

Ooh, the day before Valentine’s Day? I feel bad for you

@ANTINATALIST_lewis

3 ай бұрын

☹️

@rocketspaceships

3 ай бұрын

@@regular_joe1669 yeah man, it sucks, like really really sucks

@rocketspaceships

3 ай бұрын

@@ANTINATALIST_lewis my exact feelings

@grungeisdead8998

3 ай бұрын

Use this as an opportunity to better yourself!! You now have more time to focus on yourself and do things you want to do start working out or create a goal for yourself, you want whoever dumped you to see how much you have changed for the better in their absence show them that “I don’t need you, in fact I’m doing better than when I was with you” attitude

This video is exactly what I needed to hear! You perfectly capture the empowering side of being single, and remind us that happiness is achievable regardless of relationship status. Thanks for spreading positivity and self-love!😊❤

@OrganizationXIII

3 ай бұрын

Cope

This video is the best! It not only got to me, emotionally, but to others I thought about and shared with. You are the best. Keep it up!

I heard the title of a book, 'Single at Heart,' and had an ah-ha moment. I'm not in a relationship not because I don't want one, or because I couldn't find it, but because it's not a priority in my life. I'm not people focused. "Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people" (E. Roosevelt).

Being single is a trap. I have been single for years now and it's getting too comfortable, like I live in my own little world where I am the queen of everything and I do everything as I want. It's like an absolute freedom to do whatever the hell I want. It's not for everyone though, as there are people who can not stand to be alone for that long. I can, so I got too comfortable in my own little world I created. It goes as far that I got extremely picky when there is a possible romantic relationship in my way, and when I don't feel it, I sabotage it. Even though I do whine sometimes that I would like to have a partner, I also get so picky about potential dates that it seems impossible to find what I would want.

@Brae2723

3 ай бұрын

Do you have close friendships? I ask this because even without a partner you can still have an amazing life with close friends supporting you and helping you throughout life which can cause you to focus on the people in your life than someone you want in your life. But in my case I’m single, have no friends, struggle with mental illness and living on my own. So life is miserable even while I’m focusing on my career and not worrying about the future.

@biljam972

3 ай бұрын

@@Brae2723 I have friends, but not close. I meet nice people sometimes on the streets or occasions and that helps too. I would like to have real close friends, but so far, no luck for me. Talking to nice people you meet wherever does help, though. Also, if you have a family with whom you are close. I also try to combat loneliness when it happens by helping animals, to be honest, mostly cats, and that makes me also meet some nice, but also some quite nasty people. Good and bad everywhere. Nothing can guarantee you happiness and feeling not alone, not even relationships. I am an absolute control freak so doing all by myself kind of makes me feel more comfortable. But yes, it can get lonely.

@shawn9635

3 ай бұрын

Are you a virgo?

@biljam972

3 ай бұрын

@@shawn9635 Bingo! Yes, I am, actually.

@shawn9635

3 ай бұрын

@@biljam972 I knew it..I'm a scorpio and I have alot of close friends who are virgo and I can see the pattern..you are a truly good and dependable soul and I definitely wanna keep up with you

Managing housework while single can also be a lot easier. There's only you making messes, and it's much faster to clean up right away when it's just your dishes, etc. Less laundry to do. Especially if you're a woman it's likely being single is going to be easier from the standpoint of housework. Plus you can make your own routines. You don't have to work with someone else to form a routine.

This was beautiful and thought provoking. Thanks Aperture.

I needed this.

You are supposed to stay in a relationship and try to make it work the problem with relationships nowadays is people are ready to break up as soon as the slightest inconvenience arises if your partner doesn’t like something you do in a healthy relationship you would use communication to try and fix the situation in 2024 you just dump the person and start from scratch… media and shit gave people the false idea that real life relationships are supposed to be sunshine and happiness 24/7 that’s an unrealistic expectation for your partner to fulfill

Being alone is better than being someone who brings out the stress in you not the best in you .. I'm 39 almost 40 I don't care about dying alone I have a daughter was married for five years to the person who made me feel the most lonesome in this planet called earth... I go karting I do parachuting (skydiving) play videogames..I work hard for my seven year old and that's the new love of my love don't stress over women be happy maybe one day God will send you someone he designed for yourself but for the first time in years im happy being alone! Here you go guys 🌹

Great video. Thanks.

I’ve stopped caring about having someone. The idea of love for someone else that isn’t my family means nothing anymore.

Best = Being with the right person Okay = Being alone with yourself Worst = Being with the wrong person I agree and say its best for human development to get to see all three situations but not to stay too long with the wrong person being alone is no shame

Single, now three years down the line, i finally feel complete and happier. 🙏

The entire start of the video had me in smiles! Something is wrong with me, I absolutely love this. I would never give this up. I can't even share my space with a pet, not even a cat.

Amazing timing 👏

I haven't been in a relationship in many years. I don't mind, I have cats, who are a delight! I love my single life, but I do need human connection with someone I love or like a lot. No compromises. Me first!😻🐾

Needed this… ty

1:59 “it’s unrealistic to think one person can fulfill your every need and desire “ needed this thanks @aperture

im in solitude, the best version i can be, single since 2019 🥰

@jjgameshow2682

3 ай бұрын

Happy belated Valentine Destiny!

Beautiful video ❤... Thanks

Success is self satisfaction😊 not human attention

My last relationship was so awful, and being single for 6 months has been nothing but peace. Thank god.

I loved how you classified a partner trying to talk to you as noise. Lol❤😂

One of your best video. Solitude is gold!

Never been in a relationship and I wanna experience one at least once 😭

@artawhirler

3 ай бұрын

You might wanna read these comments first. 😅

@shalxnda

3 ай бұрын

@@artawhirler already saw the comments and full video

@Welliam706

2 ай бұрын

​@@shalxndaus. Never even touch a guy man 😭

Self love is a million times better than being in an unhealthy or lonely relationship. You can definitely find happiness and contentment on your own. However, we need to be honest with ourselves, a healthy loving relationship is a million times better than being on your own. The most beautiful part of life is our emotional experience with others, the biggest being love. Maybe its cause I'm a hopeless romantic but there's a reason there's so much poetry, music, art and books written on love, even wars have started off love. I know its better to be on your own then to settle for someone but I think we all yearn for genuine love way more than our solitude. I envy genuinely happy fullfilled couples, I think we all do because, why wouldn't you? Its more fulfilment and more love. So lets not deny what we all know is true... You posted this video on valentines day because you're coping just like the rest of us single people

@noahbrown4388

3 ай бұрын

True. We evolved to be pair-bonded and in a tribe of close compratriots who appreciate our presence. There’s no getting around it for most people

amazing input and outlook on life!!

Im not afraid of being alone. it's actually comforting to be alone sometimes. Its more the feeling of my friends having time with their significant others and none for me.

good stuff mate

This video hits specially hard today.

@Constantinos-zf9wv

3 ай бұрын

To bring a child into this mad world i don't want that so i stay single FOREVER..

@Mayo-ow5lb

3 ай бұрын

@@Constantinos-zf9wv I mean being in a relationship doesn't necessarily mean procreating,but oh well.

@grungeisdead8998

3 ай бұрын

@@Constantinos-zf9wv just get with a woman who hates kids

@tazepatates4805

3 ай бұрын

@@Constantinos-zf9wv find someone who doesn't want babies

Awesome video! I recently have chosen a path to completely forget about dating and to stay single because I have been in a bad relationship about a year ago that traumatized me and I don't ever want to feel that kind of pain again, I like being alone and I rather keep it that way even though other people look at it as a bad thing, I look at it as a good thing, I can't get hurt if I'm alone.

Stay single is my happiest desire

Loneliness doesn't come from having nobody around you, it comes from not being able to communicate the things that are important to you ~ Carl Jung

I'll never understand the "find yourself" concept. In the context or a relationship or not, I've never not understood who I was. At times I tried to make people happy by doing things I wouldn't normally, but I always knew who I was while doing so.

@rvrgrrl

Ай бұрын

I understand the 'find yourself' concept very well. Growing up in multiple foster homes and not having the opportunity to develop a sense of Self in a secure setting has lifelong consequences. Being in forced relationships and then pursuing my own relationships because I thought that's what I was supposed to do didn't really leave space for having a strong sense of personal identity, but I'm grateful to have the chance now. You're fortunate to have that sense of yourself, and I'm sure it's made a positive difference in your life ✌️

I don't have a choice, I'm single against my own choice.

@damndanieI

2 ай бұрын

You always have it. Trust me. I always thought that I am too ugly but recently I went alone to a bar for the first time. I had a nice and funny talk with a girl and for the first time in my life a girl accepted my invitation to dinner. Doesn't have to mean that this will end up in a relatioship but there is always a chance

@dmac5870

4 күн бұрын

@damndanieI I bet you didn't got anything for that girl, so you ended up alone again

She left me 2 days after valentines day. I got her flowers and her favorite candy. She told me she wasn't ready for a relationship after leading me on for so long

@paulcale-zy3gr

2 ай бұрын

That's probably because she was still fucking Chad sorry dude

As a bachelorette, I absolutely LOVE my freedom and peace. I refuse to give that up.

I was the person who is never been in any relationships. But have some a lot of hurtful attachments too. Now i realise you have to be alone. Thanks for this video man. Now i will be focusing on myself only.

Even if i don't fully agree with him, good video, makes some valid points.

Some people need it, others can't do it. Myself, I most definitely can.

When nobody wakes you up in the morning, and when nobody waits for you at night, and when you can do whatever you want. what do you call it, freedom or loneliness?"

@someRandomNameHere

3 ай бұрын

For me it's freedom, and I feel alone with others.

@jakemagulick7006

3 ай бұрын

Depends on the day lol

@khumokwezimashapa2245

3 ай бұрын

Peace

I have no family, no friends and no next of kin. Even though I agree with what you say; when you are in my position where you are extremely prejudiced against, you have to lean on yourself and become resilient, reliant only on yourself and trust your decisions. It makes you stronger and more single-minded, I think you have no choice. It has a lot of advantages, perhaps more than disadvantages. I think you are better on your own than to be in the company of toxic family and friends. Great video. From Perth WA

I'd rather be forever alone than to share one minute of my life with a poisonous entity.

Single for decades and let me tell you it's very difficult to find a movie or show that's not centered around an intimate relationship.

single life is better.❤

@tonika7543

3 ай бұрын

👍🏾

@judahthelion01

Ай бұрын

💯

Outstanding!

I would have relationships, but my family is toxic and I have no friends hence why I watch these videos

I prefere beeing alone forever, i treated it like a challenge to myself, obviously i always wanted a relationship, but after deep toughts i discover that i will be not free anymore, and that is not as good as people or parents make it sound to be, i know that it will be a difficult and challenging life but, i hope that in the end i will be proud of myself.

i am 23 never had a girlfriend or girl friend, dont have close friends only me . dont try to be single or alone go have fun with other people get into a relationship but always stay strong some day you will understand the importance of relationships even it hurts.