I have come back from us and that was the best decision of my life.... Took care of parents as much i could and living peacefully

@LifeJoyAdventureVlogs

19 күн бұрын

Great. You must have taken care of all aspects of life before moving back. All the best.

Even the mindset of some NRIs is like that. Some create a bubble that India is trash after living abroad for a few years, some feel insecure to move back and convince themselves to live in foreign countries. All a person needs to do is figure out which country suits them the best. Commenting on others choices is really immature. Irony is, there's so much hatred towards India among Indians. If a person has good income and can afford a comfortable life, India is definitely a better place to live in. India definitely has so many issues, but I don't like the way some people are commenting here. Just be happy wherever you are and stop judging the decisions of others. One important thing to remember is, no matter how much we try to disown a country, our roots won't change.

Great content, I have returned to India after 30 yrs in US, I feel great. Jai Hind.

@hemantaim

18 күн бұрын

Wow... good to know

Great content. Health care is relatively affordable and accessible. None of this insurance nonsense and long wait times.

very underrated topic, one thing i observed on parents snd societal pressure is, how much ever you explain or be confident about your return to india choice, they still perceive you as a failure. we can’t change people’s mentality and it subconsciously affects our mind because we live in the midst of such people and their perception is subtly drilled on to us in some form or the other continuously. in fact majority of the time i’ve seen people showing sympathy and offering consolation that you couldn’t settle in foreign land.

@hemantaim

21 күн бұрын

True

@mr_k_games

21 күн бұрын

10000% True. 😢

@akashpatel7926

18 күн бұрын

I guess it's due to currency conversion rate..usd inr. If for example 1 usd would be 10 inr then mentality will also change

Very relevant topic and very wise advice, thanks! Hope many learn from it!

@hemantaim

22 күн бұрын

Thanks

True... people need understand of true enjoyment of life... doesn't matter where you living...I love USA...as well as life in India...I enjoy at both places very well

Dubey Saab, you nailed it! Fantastic viewpoint

Thanks Hemant..I can relate with each and every point you explained here.. and the way you answered all question is fabulous. Confidence is the key. I suggest to everyone who is experiencing the same situation don’t think you are the citizen of third world country…we are lucky to be born in India..I know we are human and we one need some validation at some point on what we are doing and Hemant is helping us to get that validation.

@hemantaim

20 күн бұрын

Thanks for acknowledgement and appreciation

Returning back to India is a big success story, every NRI dreams of going back to India one day, but only few can achieve it.

Returning to India or not is totally a personal choice. People who wish to live abroad and have to return to India for various reasons, such as visa issues, may think they are failures, but if one returns by their own choice, then it's okay.

Because you come back to India and increase the price of everything, for example rentals. Bengaluru rent hike is one major example. Every second flat is being rented to people returning from rich foreign country. Its bitter sweet!

Very relevant topic. I just returned from India after a 2 month stay caring for my parents.

grt topic. Thnks for discussing it

@hemantaim

22 күн бұрын

Thanks

Good Topic.Btw is it a good idea to take up permanent residency of an European country and once you get it return back to India? That way you always have the avenue of another country open in case of need....

You exactly mentioned most part what everyone in the situation is experiencing. Why we Indians need a brand of other country to define us....the most shameful situation...😊

Hitting the nail on head dude. I don’t know how to deal with my American born and raised children. Panic mode whenever I visit India and see other relatives children.

@hemantaim

19 күн бұрын

Why panic

Each person or family has a different story and situation so the decion to return or settle abroad or have a base in both countries is a personal choice or decision - no right ir wrong or future is uncertain. Having said that in current times with changes in technology and Indian culture and trends the so called attraction to foreign lifestile ia reducing, however many still like to go for career or other economic prospects. Similarly returning also will have some reasons - be it career, business or personal or retirement reasons. Dont take in to account what your frinds, relatives or neighbors think. Insteas focusnon your own and family plans and future requirements and take a planned and informed decision.

@hemantaim

14 күн бұрын

Agreed

Some of the reason why people don’t want to return to India 1. Security … deteriorating security, from religious to judicial verdicts 2. Pollution/corruption in every walk of life.. environment, politics, society.. 3. Disparities/ inequality , increasing day by day .. economic gap between rich and poor. religious, caste, Creed 4. Extreme Competition .. no childhood for kids, unemployment, lower wages jobs

@mallikarjunag2605

21 күн бұрын

Main reason people produce more kids in the name of religion and least bothered about their life

@cannotwest

19 күн бұрын

Is life in India getting better or worse overall, what is the trend?

@LifeJoyAdventureVlogs

19 күн бұрын

True. Life in India has become easier but still very hard. Returning to India is an emotional decision. If someone's parents were living abroad with them, would they return? I don't think so.

@mangaikannan2330

18 күн бұрын

Spot on!!

Just going abroad is not enough. To be successful you need to go to US, France, Germany, Australia and maybe Dubai (debatable). You get a whole different level of respect in India. Indian relatives, friends and general public will treat you with respect like a king. Parents are also get status and respect in their social circles- "beta us mein settle hai" vs "beta india mein naukri kar raha hai". I know many who took a decision to go back and regret it. Sad!

As an Indian, you will never be truly welcomed into another country. The small instances where you feel welcome are reserved for when the people there are feeling very jolly and kind (These are getting rarer and rarer as capitalism squeezes the life juice out of everyone and everyone is pissed all the time). Otherwise, you will be tolerated at best, and even at minor inconveniences, people will mutter, speak or even scream aggressive words towards you. This is no way to live. Earn, save, come back, and preferably to the place where you grew up and can call home. Don't become a statistic in another country, god forbid.

@hemantaim

21 күн бұрын

True

@LifeJoyAdventureVlogs

19 күн бұрын

We need to adapt and not the other way around. Do you think in India life is not hard? I say it is other way around.

@DivineGeneralMahoraga-en8xw

19 күн бұрын

@@LifeJoyAdventureVlogs Yeah, let's all 'adapt' to racially charged insults. No thank you. Nice attempt at conflating issues, not going to work. But still, I will address it. Life in India isn't that hard if you've gathered enough money to not work and enjoy. You can literally live like a king.

great content

no problem return to India should often require to tell "yah yah yah" look foreign return.

Best knowledge hemant sir

@hemantaim

18 күн бұрын

Thanks buddy

My serious questions is why most Indians in the US don't work on their accents? It's hard to understand sometimes.

40-50% of the your salary every month usually go towards home loan/ rent. If your home loan is paid off or you live in your parent’s house - Life is less stressful 😅 no matter where you live.

@hemantaim

18 күн бұрын

Sozab bhai....you got it right

It's people's mentality. I am in US since 4 years and had job and financial issues as well as my parents health went bad in 3 years. Though we earned but not enough savings. So I am planning to return after I get my desired amount bcoz financial prb was the main reason I came to US. Still in dilemma what to do...?

Jo India mein usko bahar jana Jo bahar hai usko India aana hai. My 18 year experience.

Hi Hemant. Been following you for long and you have definitely been one of the influencers in our decision to move back. You are candid, and very knowledgeable, making it easy to relate to. My problem is and I’m hoping an honest reply from you- I am a girl dad. And all my relatives in Bangalore are suggesting us to stay back because it is safer in Europe for daughters. What do you think about this? Is it so bad from our times or is it better and we are misjudging because of comparison between India and Europe. Regards

@hemantaim

20 күн бұрын

I am also a girl dad living in Noida and there are millions like me.......

@ashishsoni1364

20 күн бұрын

@@hemantaim hmm, that’s why it’s lucrative and seems possible because you and some others who moved back say that. But sadly the pressure from family back in India is tremendous. Thanks for giving me confidence!

We returned happily in 2009.....after that many short trips abroad were made but Ghar, family, India मे है

Sir quality life he in first grade contrys me Achchhi health fesilitys achchha khana pina sudhdh hava infrastructure etc

Sir mera bilkul bhi Dil ni lgta uk mei ek ek din katna mushkil h husband kehte 3 saal baad tum chli jaana vapis mai 10 saal lga kr aunga pta ni sch h y vo mujhe honsla dete h or mere husband ki family bhi vapis aane k khilaf h kya kru

@hemantaim

7 күн бұрын

Please contact me on Instagram at hemantdubey79

if someone is able to get Group A,B Government job here in India then one should think of moving abroad or not? kindly post your perspective. Thanks

@hemantaim

17 күн бұрын

Then it's not about money however personal choice

The biggest NRI success return story is Dhirubhai Ambani ji. Agar woh India nhi aate toh Reliance nhi banta.

Sir, how can i keep income source from foreign and return to india permanently. US citizenship and then OCI OR KEEP GREEN CARD AND TRAVEL FREQUENTLY. OR Give up GC

@hemantaim

18 күн бұрын

Green card will depend on which category(EB1 or EB2 etc) it's filled....so usually it takes decade/s .....so be there enjoy US and earn.......when you stop enjoying come back

@akashpatel7926

18 күн бұрын

@@hemantaim what to enjoy if there are more struggles and having back to back set backs

@hemantaim

18 күн бұрын

@akashpatel7926 if you happy stay there and if not then come back......I kept it simple

When someone says Japan, Germany, China, Sweden what image comes to the mind. Now I say India what is the image. And there is your answer.

@Pp.703

19 күн бұрын

Answer is materialism. You may call me unrealistic.

@LifeJoyAdventureVlogs

19 күн бұрын

@@Pp.703 For the most of us materialistc properity is a dream. Hard to deny and shouldnt be denied.

@Pp.703

19 күн бұрын

@@LifeJoyAdventureVlogs Yes, nobody is denying it, but it is never ending cycle.

Sir do u have us citizenship + oci or visitors visa...?

@hemantaim

18 күн бұрын

None of above

@akashpatel7926

18 күн бұрын

@@hemantaim then how do u make short trips to us..?

Very good topic of discussion! If you are financial independent, then you will enjoy RTI. However, if you are not financially independent or you can not sit at home doing nothing, India is not the place, because there are no jobs! (Whatever jobs there, are only in IT and services. Manufacturing and Mechanical is long time dead!

Actually no one wants to return people are compelled to return because of visa issues personal family issues

No country or place is bad as long as you can live peacefully. There are great examples like Dhirubhai Ambani who chose India as a battle ground to win! Depends on individuals and respective situations that would drive the decisions.

Envious nature

India mein 80 crore log 5 kg gov ration per depend this harsh reality, Dar lagta ap India mein kaunse politics ka sikhar ho jaayenge , Business karna bohot difficult hai ,Har jagah corruption hai .

Our people never truly liked first-world countries. They admired the powerful currency, which could provide a better life in a third-world country like India. If you don't earn well even after moving to a first-world country, people will consider you a financial failure.

Ents sirf apne bachcho ko grow karna chahte he Khud akele rahte he par bachcho ko achchha vatavaran dena chahte he

What?.... I thought it is success 😕

@hemantaim

20 күн бұрын

Yes it is.....that's what is debate for people who treated as failure

@meraindia5367

20 күн бұрын

@@hemantaim when I came back for couple of years, everyone was happy. But I couldn't save my face when I told them that I need to go back for 3 more years as I bought more real state then I could afford :-(

Delhi NCR full of pollution and traffic

@kunalshah7550

17 күн бұрын

Tbh India needs to create a separate province for NRIs & Pardesis. How can we live mixed with people that don't understand how to maintain cleanliness, cross a road, construct quality buildings with various codes...

thank you sirrrr!!!!!

@hemantaim

22 күн бұрын

Welcome

Returning back to India is a big success story, every NRI dreams of going back to India one day, but only few can achieve it.