Why No Contact Rule After Breakup TRIGGERS Your EX

Yes. Another video on the no contract rule after breakup. It’s because men still have trouble with the no contact rule.
Most guys go off the rails emotionally after the breakup and they totally struggle with the no contact rule experience. That’s why understanding the no contact rule psychology is important. Using the no contact rule to move on is your best option.
Following the no contact rule after break to not just get your ex back, but to move on from her emotionally is something you MUST do.
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  • @chrisgundrum4660
    @chrisgundrum46604 жыл бұрын

    Alright someone chew my ass out not to contact her

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    You KNOW better than to do something stupid like that. Walk away!!

  • @CyLus1964

    @CyLus1964

    4 жыл бұрын

    You got this bro You don’t need that in your life right now!!!

  • @cvolrath8960

    @cvolrath8960

    4 жыл бұрын

    We got you man. Don't call.. remember for the boys

  • @Neauxluh

    @Neauxluh

    3 жыл бұрын

    Should I delete her from snap too so she doesn't see my stories?

  • @cvolrath8960

    @cvolrath8960

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Neauxluh heck no, I would keep her on that. Let her, know your having a good time, show her you trying new things.. just don't put anything about relationship on it

  • @crystalfox604
    @crystalfox6043 жыл бұрын

    I'm a female & no contact does bother women after a breakup!! Don't reach out & she must lose the ability to expect you to reach out.Work on yourself during your breakup.....

  • @anton211985

    @anton211985

    3 жыл бұрын

    It won't work if she checked out months before breakup

  • @jinxjinx2027

    @jinxjinx2027

    3 жыл бұрын

    Does it work if she seems happy posting on social media during no contact? I don’t view or interact with her post

  • @VENADO_MAZISO

    @VENADO_MAZISO

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@anton211985 if you had a great relationship no matter how far back they checked out no contact will always work

  • @Amctothemoon

    @Amctothemoon

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@anton211985 wanna bet

  • @sriramprarmy

    @sriramprarmy

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me gf left me a month ago and she didn't treat me with proper respect.. Always hurts me.. I wanna make her regret her decision..What shall I do?

  • @brandonwallace4346
    @brandonwallace43463 жыл бұрын

    i broke NO CONTACT after 7 weeks it was literally the Worst Mistake of My LIFE and it will NEVER happen again iam just simply Moving On FOREVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @antilaw9911

    @antilaw9911

    3 жыл бұрын

    I learned that mistake my last 2+ year relationship. I texted, emailed, cried etc for 3 months. Then, after 1 month I stopped, then she started texting me a lot. I ignored because I had new girlfriend. So the sooner you start no contact, the sooner the contact you

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes !!!! 💪🏽

  • @angelievilloria7672

    @angelievilloria7672

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dont do it again sir youll be fine

  • @briandickson3496
    @briandickson34964 жыл бұрын

    If they break up with you and this method works, then she's a narcissist and isn't worth a second chance. If she doesn't come back to you, it means she cheated/had her mind elsewhere entirely and you didn't notice it. So really, that shows this is really the only thing to do. If it's a healthy relationship, you should be able to work together, talk about it, figure out what needs to happen. The second it becomes this power game/one side deciding something without communicating, then it shows the disrespect. Walk away.

  • @renaldsunset

    @renaldsunset

    2 жыл бұрын

    💯🔥

  • @dahotone106

    @dahotone106

    2 жыл бұрын

    It’s always a power game, the game never stops

  • @yizzlekizzle2311

    @yizzlekizzle2311

    Жыл бұрын

    Sadly, all single women with no children are narcissists' and self centered. It's always about them. Sadly.

  • @EAGLESFLYHIGH
    @EAGLESFLYHIGH4 жыл бұрын

    When my ex broke up with me it was because my mouth got reckless I initially apologized for being wrong but she ignored me. She wants to be chased and etc but I'm in full no contact mode...She'll be back 👌

  • @MScott-fc9wf

    @MScott-fc9wf

    3 жыл бұрын

    Update?

  • @dororo4148

    @dororo4148

    3 жыл бұрын

    Update?

  • @gerardomartinez452

    @gerardomartinez452

    3 жыл бұрын

    Update

  • @stewart2313

    @stewart2313

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @dirkdiggler5821

    @dirkdiggler5821

    3 жыл бұрын

    Give us an update

  • @jojoa6098
    @jojoa60984 жыл бұрын

    Saturday at midnight I came out of gym heading home and I caught her on my street it's been like 3 months after the breakup she ended it so why she stalking me smh...

  • @rcnet5803
    @rcnet58034 жыл бұрын

    13-14 years together. She went for the rebound right after. 57 days of No contact. Ready for doing No contact for rest of my life, if i have too. I Will take my fucking silence to the grave. Let the silence rock!!!

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    Smart man 👏🏽👊🏽

  • @MusicthatsStrange
    @MusicthatsStrange4 жыл бұрын

    You guys are the older brothers I never had ✊

  • @faliceminor6432
    @faliceminor64324 жыл бұрын

    Honestly I don't know why they don't have more views

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    We’re growing brotha. Lol Thanks for ur support !!! 🙏🏽

  • @23dlmb

    @23dlmb

    3 жыл бұрын

    Seriously these guys are the truth!!!

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    Much Respect brotha !!! 🙏🏽

  • @randomtalk8473

    @randomtalk8473

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know the youtube algorithm and there’s lots of ways for them to grow faster!!! But as of rn they’re doing good

  • @seanisboss777
    @seanisboss7773 жыл бұрын

    Had a relationship of 3 years end. Was awful about no contact for the first two months. This gives me a fresh perspective. Day two is today. We lit. Let's see what happens

  • @Don-pk2uy
    @Don-pk2uy4 жыл бұрын

    Didn't beg or anything, I just said "cheers" and she left. Been almost 3 months and not a peep

  • @agbordaniels

    @agbordaniels

    4 жыл бұрын

    She’ll be back if you were together at least 3 years

  • @Don-pk2uy

    @Don-pk2uy

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@agbordaniels lol nah it was like 8 months but I thought we were good, guess I was the only one 🤣

  • @agbordaniels

    @agbordaniels

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tasteless Prick did she come back?

  • @rrrrrrraaaa9

    @rrrrrrraaaa9

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tasteless Prick 15 months nothing. We were also together for 8months. Ended decently.

  • @Amctothemoon

    @Amctothemoon

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@agbordaniels Fact

  • @mudduck754
    @mudduck7543 жыл бұрын

    Six week's gone. Hear its driving her crazy, all she can do is complain about my no contact. She don't hate me,she just don't know what I want. Was a text from a mutual friend. The hardest thing is cooking for one.

  • @user-re6cb4po7i
    @user-re6cb4po7i Жыл бұрын

    Thx guys. Enjoying the vids. There was no begging or pleading from this guy. Some women leave a man after years even while he displays strong masculine traits. Handsome, tall, fit, leads, protects, not controlling, honest, loyal, keeps her in her feminine. Huge risk to play testing games. Quality guys must show zero tolerance.

  • @JoJo-vz5yh
    @JoJo-vz5yh4 жыл бұрын

    Who else likes all the videos first before they actually see the video because we already know its going to be good

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's what's up!

  • @swapfire242
    @swapfire2424 жыл бұрын

    Dated long distance for 2 yrs. We broke up in March I begged until this morning but now I’m done. She’s gonna be back though!

  • @blessedbygod6870

    @blessedbygod6870

    4 жыл бұрын

    my man! she will

  • @Sin-hater

    @Sin-hater

    4 жыл бұрын

    Just move on you’ll see, she will make fake social media accounts if you leave her alone and ignore her when she tries to come back.

  • @Twannes

    @Twannes

    3 жыл бұрын

    Update?

  • @swapfire242

    @swapfire242

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Twannes She came back begging and crying, but she’s been with another guy and I didn’t do anything so I’m not taking her back

  • @samiboy2296

    @samiboy2296

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@swapfire242 how long did it took her to come back ? can you share your experience a bit more ?

  • @bl4zecr4ze89
    @bl4zecr4ze892 жыл бұрын

    My bf broke up with me a week and a half ago. I was devastated and felt like I had lost a huge part of me. I couldn’t eat, I couldn’t sleep, I could barely function, I threw up multiple times a day because the thought of actually losing him made me sick. We work at the same place. He avoided eye contact and seemed fine whenever I saw him. I’ve always been the type to beg for him to stay. I loved him more than I ever loved anything in this world. I started watching these videos. At times they seemed to really help, but others it was hard. I went through a week of no contact and boy was it the hardest week of my life. But he came back today, telling me he couldn’t sleep, he was very unhappy, this was very hard for him. I told him he seemed fine and he wouldn’t even look at me. He said he couldn’t because when he did, he pictured me with someone else and it killed him. We talked and he asked me to give him just a little more time to be sure. I agreed. I have hope that we will sort this out soon. I believe in the saying that two people have to fall apart in order to fall back together even stronger.

  • @chancewilkerson63
    @chancewilkerson634 жыл бұрын

    You guys are awesome, me and the baby momma got back together for a month but I found her cheating on me with her ex, so I broke up with her and full no contact minus the kids obviously

  • @TheCARVERFAMILY
    @TheCARVERFAMILY3 жыл бұрын

    I’ll agree because I’m too nice to my ex and always easily accessible and that night she hit me up like always after not hearing from her that day and I ignored her 2 video chats she texted me saying “ your worthless “ the. She turn around and calls me again. Actually put a smile on my face lol

  • @michaelkern2675
    @michaelkern26754 жыл бұрын

    You guys are legit. Recently broke up with my fiancé of a few years. She said we weren’t compatible so I moved my shit out and went no contact for a week. She kept on reaching out about stupid, small stuff every other day and then finally said something that pulled on my heart strings. I responded and now she pulled back. Big mistake on my part.

  • @kenishalperkins

    @kenishalperkins

    4 жыл бұрын

    She’ll be back

  • @michaelkern2675

    @michaelkern2675

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kenisha Perkins I’ll Venmo you if she does lol

  • @FM-zg5hz

    @FM-zg5hz

    3 жыл бұрын

    Any update?

  • @michaelkern2675

    @michaelkern2675

    3 жыл бұрын

    F M I should’ve never broke no contact and stayed strong. She’s been in a rebound relationship.

  • @FM-zg5hz

    @FM-zg5hz

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@michaelkern2675 I’m going through something similar (my ex is with a new girl) but I feel like no one really understands until they’re going through it. Would you be open to keeping in touch?

  • @ichibansspirits2727
    @ichibansspirits27274 жыл бұрын

    Someone hold me back! We broke up yesterday and today I didn't reach out to him! But I've been holding back on texting him but I've haven't caved in yet.

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hold strong! It's a marathon not a sprint.

  • @ichibansspirits2727

    @ichibansspirits2727

    3 жыл бұрын

    Update it worked

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    NICE !!! Good shit Steph !!!! 🙌🏽💪🏽

  • @jasonramirez7631

    @jasonramirez7631

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ichibansspirits2727 how long did it take ?

  • @ichibansspirits2727

    @ichibansspirits2727

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jasonramirez7631 it took 2 weeks and they caved in and missed me. Like even if they texted me I wouldn’t text them until I got my phone blown up

  • @irredeemabletrex8435
    @irredeemabletrex8435 Жыл бұрын

    Alright, I have begged for almost 20 days. I think no contact has worked for people who begged for 2 months, it will definitely work for me. I got this!! Guys please a little support. We all want to love and be loved.

  • @paldape
    @paldape4 жыл бұрын

    Well I’ve decided to stop trying. If he’s for me he will return in time. I’ve had to accept it. I fucked up 🥺

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    Accept it and walk away Patti!

  • @Napoli41482
    @Napoli414823 жыл бұрын

    My ex cut me loose over the holidays and the "holiday blues" made me a weak bastard. Fast forward 28 days later in no contact/radio silence, I'm regaining my old, happy self... but it'll be a while before I become the best version of me once I start putting in work at the gym. My dignity and self-love is more important to me. I'm a proud king with or without a chick.

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    .My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    Message me on WhatxApp.

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    And I will direct you to someone who helped me get back my ex and he can also help you bring back your ex or a specific person.

  • @s.carter1646
    @s.carter16464 жыл бұрын

    Man. A few months ago I was out of work and my ex wasn't talking to me at all past eating. So I went back to Texas for a few months. And when I came back she ended the Relationship. So I tried to keep it together and she was like No it's iver I'm done. So I walked off and it's been 3 months No Contact. I'm working out. Losing weight and Grinding and working on buying a new home so I'm ok. Will she ever reach out? Idk but I will not.

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    Don’t know your whole situation but your best bet is to stay no contact.

  • @mariusgabriel1076

    @mariusgabriel1076

    2 жыл бұрын

    Update?

  • @Avalara88
    @Avalara884 жыл бұрын

    Black Book Basics 100% truth👏

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    👊🏾

  • @randomtalk8473
    @randomtalk84733 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been doing great for the past 5 months... been doing no contact since February & haven’t looked at her social media for like a month and i’ve been great! Lost 20lbs but I saw her today.... and she saw me too and omg I was about to text her cuz I miss her bad but I decided to not and hold off, thank God I watched your video rn.... It’s hard but it’s the safest and best way!

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    Message me on WhatxApp

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    +1=9=1=4=2=0=6=4=0=8=5

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    And I will direct you to someone who can also help you bring back your ex or a specific person

  • @Apena926
    @Apena9263 жыл бұрын

    You dudes are the greatest.... keep up the good work 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    Message me on WhatxApp

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    +1=9=1=4=2=0=6=4=0=8=5

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    And I will direct you to someone who helped me get back my ex and he can also help you bring back your ex or a specific person

  • @EndorphinDolphin333
    @EndorphinDolphin3333 жыл бұрын

    Underrated channel. This works well honestly. You guys really helped me out. Thank you!!!

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the support Matt

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    Message me on WhatxApp

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    +1=9=1=4=2=0=6=4=0=8=5

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    And I will direct you to someone who can also help you bring back your ex or a specific person

  • @andrewthomas8737
    @andrewthomas87373 жыл бұрын

    I was with a alcoholic girl for three years. I have engaged the no contact rule. I received a txt message from her last night. But I’m not going to reply back Because I’m better than that.

  • @lukeArmstrong524

    @lukeArmstrong524

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too mate, mine is alcoholic and promiscuous. I just ghosted her. She will drunk text me soon. Im on day 2 no contact.

  • @cuhtana4547
    @cuhtana45473 жыл бұрын

    No contact is hard to do but when you mention to grow some balls i was like damn you right lol

  • @Amctothemoon

    @Amctothemoon

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s heart wrenching but it shows your strong , man up take back control otherwise your lost forever Don’t let her back just like that make her work for it , otherwise your wasting your time

  • @Ty_Weezy22
    @Ty_Weezy224 жыл бұрын

    Me and my girl broke up and now that I look at it I was extremely needy and always put her first. So I know she’s waiting for me to blow her phone crying to get back together but after studying and taking your guys advice and taking to other females I know she’ll start to worry about me then hit me up

  • @Aj_n_You
    @Aj_n_You2 жыл бұрын

    I am an alpha woman and if I see the guy I like with someone else, I’d just walk away or cut any feelings for him automatically; maybe gradually (if I like him very much) but I’d start to look at him the same way I look at any other man or friend. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Depending on the woman, telling or appearing with another woman, just make the breakup easier, (my case). 😄

  • @victoriapaul3937

    @victoriapaul3937

    2 жыл бұрын

    I pray the universe grant your heart desire. I know of a great man that can help you manifest your ex back without any delay, he helped me get my ex husband back after separation and I'm very sure he can also help you❤

  • @Chicago.hottie

    @Chicago.hottie

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly, and I’m the one cutting men off .. & I have absolutely no intentions on contacting a man that disrespected me .. especially when you knew from the jump I don’t play games. Idc about you or your lame ass life & damn sure don’t care if you get with a new woman, wish y’all the best ✌🏽

  • @oswaldofigueroa529

    @oswaldofigueroa529

    Жыл бұрын

    You will eventually end up alone due to women aging like milk, so enjoy it while it lasts cause it won’t work forever

  • @Taybaby2000

    @Taybaby2000

    8 ай бұрын

    No such thing as an alpha woman...is why yall be unmarried

  • @jeffaungier5379
    @jeffaungier53793 жыл бұрын

    I left my gf of 48 because again she went lala unreasonable and started acting the victim again. It was my final straw so i said im done with it... a week later i called for a chat but she said its over and cant see me in her future. So i basically said i respect her decision and wished her all the best. Been NC since (4 weeks) She initially blocked me on everything as i told her to so i didnt message her in a moment of weakness... since then she has unblocked/blocked/unblocked me on FB... i only know as noticed ‘likes’ or comments on a mutual friends posts... she always chases me and always did before the 15 month relationship.... No clue what comes next tho

  • @diptachakraborty235
    @diptachakraborty2353 жыл бұрын

    Why This Channel is really underrated?? You gyz are really true 🔥🔥

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    Comments like this are what keep us pushing. Thanks brotha !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    Message me on WhatxApp

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    +1=9=1=4=2=0=6=4=0=8=5

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    And I will direct you to someone who helped me get back my ex and he can also help you bring back your ex or a specific person

  • @tntadrenalinetntadrenaline312
    @tntadrenalinetntadrenaline3123 жыл бұрын

    Would it still work IF we broke up in October we talked 2 times and that was a month ago would it still would work?and I did not beg to be specific about the 2 times we spoke a while ago

  • @maxyefremov5170
    @maxyefremov51704 жыл бұрын

    Would no contact work if she told me she lost feelings and does not know if we would end up in a relationship and I told her okay lets not talk.

  • @ty65756

    @ty65756

    4 жыл бұрын

    she's probs just testing u so it should work

  • @New-jb1tc

    @New-jb1tc

    4 жыл бұрын

    Im guessing it can work. No contact helps rebuild attraction in a lot of cases. No false hopes tho. People in this world are crazy and do what they want anyway. Dont bet on it.

  • @marquesridley2464
    @marquesridley24643 жыл бұрын

    Together almost 3 yrs, sons are like family..got a little distant beginning of quarantine, she was busy and I was tryna figure out stuff with work..she said she felt abandoned n broke up with me. Tried to work it out ultimately she wanted to move one...no contact for 4 months..I love her, held her down through her court drama and issues with baby dad n she dipped during a rough time for everyone..not sure if I’ll hear from her again..but im not breaking no contact

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    DAMN, Any woman that would do you like that ain’t worth shit !!!

  • @indagotv8165
    @indagotv81653 жыл бұрын

    Guys so should I not post on my social media at all during no contact?

  • @terronb
    @terronb4 жыл бұрын

    Please respect my choice. Yeah we've all heard something to that effect. It definitely does hurt

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    Still hurts bro lol

  • @DarkRockstar2

    @DarkRockstar2

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's when you buss down her best friend...

  • @aksingh9623
    @aksingh96232 жыл бұрын

    I’m never going to contact her by myself until she initiates the contact again.

  • @michaelvargas82
    @michaelvargas823 жыл бұрын

    Respect her choice and take care of the real MVP! Your happiness comes from within! Stick to no contact. She left you! Let her live with her decision and NC helps teach her that.

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    Message me on WhatxApp

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    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    And I will direct you to someone who helped me get back my ex and he can also help you bring back your ex or a specific person

  • @anthonyvargasjr1602
    @anthonyvargasjr16024 жыл бұрын

    Brother this really works I've been in a relationship with this female For about a year and I started to get weak and we decided or she decided that we should go our separate ways and still be friends after watching your video I said fuck that 6vand started dating and I just hooked up with my ex before her who is a true 10 and within an hour of posting the picture she started congratulating me threw text which means she stalks my fb page so I didn't respond and within 2 hours after she did a video chat and I didn't answer lol I feel so dam good because I flipped it on her! Thank you for this video but what should I do next and what might happen team?

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    Good shit brotha !!!! I guess it all depends on which direction you wanna go with it.

  • @jrtheinvestor4354
    @jrtheinvestor43544 жыл бұрын

    You guys have hit gold with the information you give out. We need more men like this, this is literally the key to happiness as a man. This channel is going to have 35k by the end of the year. Keep it up brothers.

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    Respect !!! 🙏🏽

  • @New-jb1tc
    @New-jb1tc4 жыл бұрын

    I thought about breaking no contact today for sure lol

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hold frame 💪🏾

  • @1111spiritualone

    @1111spiritualone

    Жыл бұрын

    , it’s been 3 months , i’m starting not want them back

  • @kathrynerickson8525
    @kathrynerickson85252 жыл бұрын

    So I went no contact and he keeps sending me messages in my IG DM’s. One said he regretted not talking to me about everything before I left because I tried to discuss things and he blew me off. The rest of the messages are random posts. The type he used to send me to make me laugh, etc. It has only been 8 days. Do I respond? I haven’t responded. I don’t know what to do. I love this man and always will but his behavior needs to change. What do I do?

  • @miles34744
    @miles347444 жыл бұрын

    You think this will still work after being separated for 7 months and shes already with someone else? I did the begging for a while until like a month ago I tried asking for another chance back in june

  • @miles34744

    @miles34744

    4 жыл бұрын

    Whoever liked my comment a minute ago here’s my update. The bitch is basically dead to me. She tells me she doesn’t want me. I sent a photo of us and our kid if I’ll ever have my family back. She clearly said no. Fuck her. I don’t know why I spent the last 8 months dwelling and hoping for some kind of miracle to happen. I’m telling y’all like I told her stepdad. “She can go to hell!”

  • @mariannebauman3410
    @mariannebauman34102 жыл бұрын

    It's only been 3 days no contact n he definitely doesn't like being ignored n makes rude comments like " I can't believe you" ...n he is the one who broke up with me SMH trying to stay strong

  • @themessiahsdaughter
    @themessiahsdaughter4 жыл бұрын

    I haven't talked to my ex since July 3rd I've been doing no contact and he got another girl you know and it's like do I care or do I not care? I care I'm hurt I'm older he younger. I'm 53 and he was 40! I was more a mother to him! Dude ain't working, he jumps from one woman to the next. He leaves the women with a baby and be like NEXT😭😭 He couldn't leave 1 wit me. So we have not ties. I didn't know all of that until I actually started talking to him and I saw a lot of red flags and I had a lot of red flags to as well with my temper and me doing things different than he. So it was a lot of stress in the relationship but I do love him and I know he loved me but we just can't be together now he's with his high school sweetheart and he moved back to his hometown after she divorced her husband. He was in her inbox😭😭Now he with her and trying to pick up the pieces again and I'm not dating because I'm not strong enough and I don't want to jump into nobody's life with this extra baggage and people need to realize that and I can't mess with him cuz I don't trust him because it was so easy for him to just leave me!! And pick up and start over and I haven't reached out and I won't reach out I'm done dude won't be playing me like a jappppp🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️1 YEAR DOWN THE DRAIN ITS COOL

  • @kourtneyrichards3180

    @kourtneyrichards3180

    4 жыл бұрын

    My situation was worse than yours i got pregnant with a twin 2 months later he got married to someone else. I moved on and he came back i wanted nothing to do with him. U need to do wat i did move on and never look back he never loved u in the first place learn to love yourself and have standards. That is something a "NARCISSIST" would do.

  • @BasantKumar-sp2pc
    @BasantKumar-sp2pc3 жыл бұрын

    I broke up with her and blocked her. I had hinted her before. She was afraid that I might leave her. But still her behavior changed only slightly. Then one night I broke up with her and blocked her. She must have got to know in the morning. I am in no contact. I am still friend with our common friends. No talk. Business as usual.

  • @alexanderejiofor3961

    @alexanderejiofor3961

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hello to whom it may concern I can also recommend you to a man called dr tuda who helped me manifest back my ex ; I’m so happy I got my ex back and he can help in all relationship problems ❤️❤️❤️

  • @alexanderejiofor3961

    @alexanderejiofor3961

    3 жыл бұрын

    Whtspp him directly

  • @lukeArmstrong524

    @lukeArmstrong524

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thats it mate, block her and no contact. I did the same thing to my girl. Im on day 2...

  • @CyLus1964
    @CyLus19644 жыл бұрын

    Getting ready to break no contact after the second day. What should I do?

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    She doesn't want you. Don't compromise your dignity. EVER. Keep looking forward.

  • @karaokelovers3672
    @karaokelovers36723 жыл бұрын

    Is 6 months agood amount of time to have a good amount of emotional investment and will no contact still work for this situation ? Iv been in no contact for 3 months now my friends told me she posted something on social media regarding me not asking her out in 6 months how someone you meet in 2 months can show you more than someone you were with for 1 year.

  • @JaiAuthenti

    @JaiAuthenti

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hate those post. Just keep doing you. If she wanted to talk to you she would have. Especially if she broke up with you. If they leave us, why would we chase? Especially if you begged and pleaded.

  • @sothis4221
    @sothis42213 жыл бұрын

    my love broke up with me suddenly about 2 days ago...he said he wasn’t healthy for me and that it was the best for him or else he would have killed himself if he stayed with me. money has been tight because of covid and he just left me in the dirt alone. earlier in 2020 I kissed another guy but it was NOT consensual and I felt very violated. my boyfriend found out and was devastated. im scared that he won’t come back because of that. im trying to show him I am financially capable by paying all our bills while he is living at his friends house. we were MADLY in love. I love him so much and I’m so scared he’s going to find someone else. i am doing no contact after begging and pleading and being crazy. do you guys have any advice? its so bad that I’m physically sick and on the verge of going to the hospital. help! 🥺

  • @JaiAuthenti
    @JaiAuthenti3 жыл бұрын

    Day 40-41 of NC. I was looking at our old text and almost folded. About 3 years and she left me. She is 18 and I’m 20.

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    Don’t be a simp, go to the gym, go for a jog, the moment u call her is when u fail and she wins. Women don’t want a failure. 💪🏽💪🏽

  • @adrianrodriquez3398
    @adrianrodriquez33983 жыл бұрын

    AM NOT ,,, breaking no contact... bought me some Tom Ford cologne and setting a golf game the day she wants to "Meet up to talk" HAHA!

  • @CyLus1964
    @CyLus19644 жыл бұрын

    I was with my lady for 8 years I cheated in February, and months later she told me she needed space. I tried to get her back called multiple times, texted out of emotions and she has been cold for a week before I decided to just go dark and do no contact. I still have her things in my place, but I put it all in a closet. What should I do in the mean time to pass this anxiety of what’s she doing or who she is with?

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    Anything and everything can to improve yourself. Your what’s important, not her. Hit the gym, get your money right...

  • @CyLus1964

    @CyLus1964

    4 жыл бұрын

    She contacted me today by text and I didn’t answer so she called, but I was being short of conversation then politely got off the phone she then called me back seconds later asking what’s wrong I told her nothing I’m just handling things and she wanted to talk more. We spoke for about 2 mins then hung up. Don’t know how it’s going to play out but I’m staying strong and will not be contacting her at all. If I mean anything she will contact me.

  • @CowboyEkim
    @CowboyEkim4 жыл бұрын

    I’m in no contact with a married woman NOW

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    lol 😯

  • @CowboyEkim

    @CowboyEkim

    4 жыл бұрын

    Black Book Basics .. I know bruh 😏

  • @Silver-Lining1111

    @Silver-Lining1111

    3 жыл бұрын

    Next Level 🤙🏼

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    Respect !!! 🙏🏽

  • @andreisigartau9971
    @andreisigartau99712 жыл бұрын

    My story. She wanted a brake after a argument so I said " I think it's a good idea " it's been one week She hasn't contacted me yet, she deleted her social media account. I have some moments wen I want to reach out , but I keep telling mi self No. How needs to initiate contact and how long until I should give up and move on?

  • @jeo6485
    @jeo64853 жыл бұрын

    So I was dumped and then she broke no contact after 3 days, I made the mistake of telling her how much I missed her and how I realized what I did wrong, a week went by and she told me she can’t have me in her life. Again I am in a no contact situation where she is still keeping up with my Snapchat and instagram but not talking to me and I haven’t talked to her. Are my chances ruined because I let her know how much I missed her after the first break if no contact? Or do I keep the no contact going and wait to see if she hits me up again and play on the advice you guys have given?

  • @matthewphilipp6115

    @matthewphilipp6115

    2 жыл бұрын

    Update?

  • @setasonte6392

    @setasonte6392

    Жыл бұрын

    Update ?

  • @jmanaaron8886

    @jmanaaron8886

    Жыл бұрын

    Keep no contact bro. Whatever it is, just keep no contact. I made the same mistake but trust me bro. It'll work. Keep no contact. Sometimes she'll breadcrumb you to see if you're still interested. Do not fall for it. Keep no contact.

  • @parkerlinden8132
    @parkerlinden81323 жыл бұрын

    I begged a little for about a week, but then switched to no contact. No contact still gonna work even with the earlier begging?

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well it definitely pushed you further away from getting her back, it really depends on what all you did and how bad u were. More times than not it should work. The question is how are you gonna react if or when she does call you.

  • @jorgeescamilla3230
    @jorgeescamilla32304 жыл бұрын

    Awesome guys, thanks for the content

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    👊🏾

  • @mashryan3111
    @mashryan31113 жыл бұрын

    Quick question. What if you do no contact and at the end of it. She is still over you and happy with her new boyfriend

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    When does no contact end?

  • @dnzwill

    @dnzwill

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@opusandtarquez never ninja! 😂 unless you win the negotiation and then MAYBE.

  • @TheNlinger
    @TheNlinger4 жыл бұрын

    No doubt best content out there! 💯

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    💪🏾

  • @stephonbailey4093
    @stephonbailey40934 жыл бұрын

    It's been 2 weeks since the break up she views my story and she seems angry on fb

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hold strong. Hold frame Stephon

  • @Jake-cj5xe

    @Jake-cj5xe

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm going on 6 months bro it gets easier just give it more time

  • @sriramprarmy

    @sriramprarmy

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@opusandtarquez My gf left me two weeks ago..She never prioritised me and never shown kindness to me..I wanna make her regret her decision..What shall I do?

  • @adrianvanegas8092
    @adrianvanegas80923 жыл бұрын

    Told my ex I would leave her alone since she doesn’t know what she wants. Next thing Ik She blocks me from all social media except twitter but unfollowed me. Going on week 2 of no contact but I’m still doing me hitting up the gym and reading books for a new mindset. Oh well any thoughts on why she did that?

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m kinda wondering what made her say she doesn’t know what she wants because that could explain a lot. The blocking thing is often what they do when they are emotional and don’t get their way by u not chasing after the break up.

  • @coldbeing5420

    @coldbeing5420

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@opusandtarquez I was with this girl for 2 months (she said we were "talking") and she removed me off snapchat the day she ghosted me, a month later of no contact, I reached out to ask her how's she doing. She's involved with school, etc. Took a day to reply to me, I did the same back. Told her if she wanted to catch up sometime, to reach out as a bit of closure for me, (letting her know the door still open but I'm not gonna chase). She took read receipts off. Week later, I posted a picture of me on insta, a nice selfie by the beach, she liked it. 3 weeks later, she removed me off facebook as friend and I don't even go on facebook. Next week, I posted on twitter about passing 2 certs in my job field within 2 months, got good support from my buddies from it and she liked my tweet. It's been a week now and I don't understand why she removes me off those two platforms and continues to like my stuff? I've been in no contact for 1.5 months since.

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    You need to quit dwelling over her. That type of stuff happens when you break no contact. She’s playing w you now. Plus I’m willing to bet she has other guys in her back pocket.

  • @coldbeing5420

    @coldbeing5420

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@opusandtarquezYou’re right. I’m still focusing on my purpose and dating around. She showed me a picture with 3 of her exes at a college party 1 time and she thought it was the funniest thing. She hasn’t posted anything since she ghosted, haven’t liked any of her stuff, don’t plan on it. Looks like she keeping tabs on me tho. Can I turn this around or is this a lost cause? Appreciate the reply

  • @coldbeing5420

    @coldbeing5420

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@opusandtarquez She actually got back with her cheating ex a couple weeks ago

  • @fahadabdirahman2603
    @fahadabdirahman26033 жыл бұрын

    If she blocks You after You said i moved on and dont contact me again. What does that mean?

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    You pushed her to the extreme. You told her not to contact you any more.

  • @chadbaker2224
    @chadbaker22244 жыл бұрын

    No one can answer this question so I'll ask you guys. How do you do no contact if you have a child together? I love my daughter very much (shes 6) and would love to do no contact but I dont want to effect her life negatively. Would love to hear some input. Thank you.

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    Figure out a schedule w ur kids Mom so this way you don’t have to talk. If or when you do talk make it light, playful, short and ONLY about your daughter.

  • @chadbaker2224

    @chadbaker2224

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@opusandtarquez I will definitely keep this in mind. Thanks for the reply 👍

  • @chadbaker2224

    @chadbaker2224

    4 жыл бұрын

    Also: As embarrassing as it is I would love you guys to hear my story. You are going to think I am making this shit up but it's the truth. Me and the mother of my child have had an on an off relationship for 8 years. It's been pretty tumultuous but we really loved each other. I know we loved each other but we both really fucked up. We both cheated many times and I have even put my hands on her but our love was unconditional. Recently, in July I had covid. Me, her and my daughter lived together and I thought it was best for them to leave so they wouldnt get it. They stayed at a hotel for a few days and the mother of my child ended up getting it. My parents came and got my daughter. My ex said she was going to be with friends and staying with them. Little did I know, for 5 weeks she was in Colorado with her ex girlfriend she had previously after we broke up for 2 years. She came back to Florida after her vaction and told me that I needed to leave (I think she didnt want to have me around so she wouldnt cheat on her girlfriend she had been cheating on me with) mind you both of our names are on the lease but I pay for everything so I left . The past 2 weeks I did everything a man shouldnt do. I begged, I cried, I pleaded. She wouldnt change her mind. I wish I wouldnt have done that, you dont do that especially when you have been absolutely fucked over in every way possible. I texted her and called her relentlessly for days and she wouldnt change her mind. Today was my last day trying. I told her today that I respected her decision and goodluck. It's super hard to move on from the mother of my child but I have to. After all our relationship wasnt amazing,we both had many problems in it and she flew to Colorado to cheat. You gotta have respect for yourself and know when to walk away. When someones mind is made up. There is pretty much nothing you can do or say.

  • @alexg.2235
    @alexg.2235 Жыл бұрын

    I understand this concept. But I would like to ask a very specific question

  • @darider6286
    @darider62864 жыл бұрын

    🌴🌴😎🌴🌴 real men talk there

  • @tybennion1
    @tybennion14 жыл бұрын

    Together 15 months. Did NC but made the one mess up and reached out about her possibly cheating once I found out she had a rebound within two weeks. FML. Back in NC for about a month now; haven't heard squat from her.

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    One little mess up during NC can fuck up everything.

  • @tybennion1

    @tybennion1

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@opusandtarquez Can do anything about it now. NC still the best option and time is on my side.

  • @gloading8525
    @gloading85254 жыл бұрын

    What if you already begged and cried? Shawty left me for tarquavion cuz I was broke. Im doing no contact and making racks now so what are my chances?

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    If you did that begging stuff then u obviously just pushed yourself away further. Money helps but if your making more money, then you should be enjoying your money and your life and talking to new women. If she wants u back then let her come to you.

  • @gloading8525

    @gloading8525

    4 жыл бұрын

    Black Book Basics Ight bet 💯

  • @gloading8525

    @gloading8525

    4 жыл бұрын

    Black Book Basics I was just wondering if I can get her back from her rebound since I fixed the problem witch was being broke. And she’s my first so it’s hard to let go.

  • @aman371
    @aman3714 жыл бұрын

    Going no contact is tough as fuck as I feel maybe her level of interest might be going down by the minute.

  • @lukeArmstrong524

    @lukeArmstrong524

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oppisite is true...

  • @michaelbozinovski9357
    @michaelbozinovski93572 жыл бұрын

    Broke up with my fiance, Packed my bags last night walked out this morning!

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    💪🏽💪🏽🦈

  • @michaelbozinovski9357

    @michaelbozinovski9357

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@opusandtarquez Thank you guys for your support I watch this particular video about three times already LOL and I will not be contacting her going no contact for sure

  • @issa1543

    @issa1543

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello prettys I know a woman who can help you to bring back your ex to you without delay she was the one that help me to get back my love within 3 days

  • @issa1543

    @issa1543

    2 жыл бұрын

    What Sapp her

  • @RHammer1983
    @RHammer19833 жыл бұрын

    I’m not breaking no contact.

  • @alexanderejiofor3961

    @alexanderejiofor3961

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hello to whom it may concern I can also recommend you to a man called dr tuda who helped me manifest back my ex ; I’m so happy I got my ex back and he can help in all relationship problems

  • @alexanderejiofor3961

    @alexanderejiofor3961

    3 жыл бұрын

    Whtspp him directly

  • @supakid628
    @supakid628 Жыл бұрын

    Can I post on social media durning no contact ?

  • @BanaAlhafez77
    @BanaAlhafez774 жыл бұрын

    Even if he ignored my 2-week message ? Should I stay in no contact ?

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    4 жыл бұрын

    2 weeks message?

  • @BanaAlhafez77

    @BanaAlhafez77

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry English isn’t my first language.. I texted him on the 13th of July but he ignored my message and since then he hasn’t seen my message and he hasn’t replied..

  • @mariannebauman3410
    @mariannebauman34102 жыл бұрын

    He broke up with me n since day 1 of no contact , 3 hours later he has been blowing up my cell n his last text yesterday was " I can't believe you" . This was his choice to break up, I only said Fine n went no contact!

  • @mariusgabriel1076

    @mariusgabriel1076

    2 жыл бұрын

    Update?

  • @23dlmb
    @23dlmb3 жыл бұрын

    She text me I miss you after 3 day of not a word . I of course weak said I miss you too , but nothing else after that. Staying strong bc of of BBB . But why did she do that??

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    Fear of loss, that anxiety, stay nc and don’t be surprised if she does it again. If the goal is to get her back set the date when she text u again, if not keep doing what ur doing. 💪🏽💪🏽

  • @NotTellingYou-
    @NotTellingYou-2 жыл бұрын

    Need some help. My ex reached out 2 weeks ago saying that she missed talking to me. We exchanged a few texts and I told her I had to go but asked when she was free to talk. She told me she wasn’t sure but would like to and would let me know the next day. She reached out a few days later asking when I was available. I didn’t answer cause I was sleeping. The next day she asked I could talk that night and I told her I couldn’t but told her when I was available. Again she told me she would let me know. 2 days ago I got a text from her that said, “You haven’t reached out one time to me since July. I’m not attracted to you anymore. Like at all. I hope you have a good one, Kyle. May god shine light on your path, always.” How do I respond to that?

  • @issa1543

    @issa1543

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello prettys I know a woman who can help you to bring back your ex to you without delay she was the one that help me to get back my love within 3 days

  • @issa1543

    @issa1543

    2 жыл бұрын

    What Sapp her

  • @luismendez964
    @luismendez964 Жыл бұрын

    I miss her, I screwed up a lot , cheating but only by texting them. We moved in with 4 months and things went fast. She kept forgiving and then left me 3 months ago. I want to reach out and let her know I realized my faults it will never happen again. She reached out 2 weeks ago with nothing important but to push my buttons. I wanted to break contact

  • @tracismetka5176

    @tracismetka5176

    Жыл бұрын

    I know of a man| who can bring your ex back to you he fixed my relationship and my ex is back to me and we are living happily like never before

  • @tracismetka5176

    @tracismetka5176

    Жыл бұрын

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  • @gtcam723
    @gtcam7233 жыл бұрын

    4 days of No Contact. Honestly, too pissed off at the moment to bother. Several dates and several hangouts then friendzoned. Even after the friendzoning there was flirting, and long lingering eye contact when we were p with our friends circle, selfies in the morning. On another note, I was pretty happy with how I handled it as far as not yelling, begging, whining, etc

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    You could have done something wrong, it could be a test, she could be getting back w an ex, whatever the reason is don’t take it personal. Just do you and move on.

  • @gtcam723

    @gtcam723

    3 жыл бұрын

    Black Book Basics Roger that. Already working on the improvements I see I need to make. Plus, I have a physical bar that’s fairly high that I need to hit.

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    🦈💪🏽

  • @PropesorLucho
    @PropesorLucho3 жыл бұрын

    She heard that I was cheating based on hear-say, then we quarreled and I said below-the-belt things to her (really derogatory) And she blocked me on all social media, now can I still rely on this NO contact for one month? And expect her to be back?

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    Message me on WhatxApp

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    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

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    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    And I will direct you to someone who helped me get back my ex and he can also help you bring back your ex or a specific person

  • @michaelvargas82
    @michaelvargas823 жыл бұрын

    "Respect my decision." I've heard those infamous words. Walked away and went No Contact. Tyrese CD staying in the zipper case and sticking to NC!!!

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    😆

  • @michaelvargas82

    @michaelvargas82

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@opusandtarquez fast forward to 21st day of NC. Blocked on Facebook after posting on a mutual friends post. Guess she didn't want to see 2.0. Must have triggered her emotions. "Respect her choice" and let her wash that babypowder out with some ice cold water. 🦈

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    Message me on WhatxApp

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    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @joshp146
    @joshp1462 жыл бұрын

    Gf broke up with me last week . First day of no contact . She was mad at me cause I didn’t make the first move & felt like I never put here first & didn’t try hard enough in the relationship & seemed like she was done with me . She was obsessed with me & told me she never liked a guy like me before . We’ve broken up a couple times before but she always comes back after a day or two . But this time she hasn’t reached out , and said she still wants to be friends this time . How long should I do the no contact period for ? 3 weeks ? 4 weeks ? Is 5 weeks too long ? Im afraid of if I wait too long she’ll end up with another guy . I know girls move really quick . She told me she still has feelings for me & still likes me. What do I do ?? Thank you for your time !

  • @johnsonrobinson4817

    @johnsonrobinson4817

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @johnsonrobinson4817

    @johnsonrobinson4817

    2 жыл бұрын

    Whats@pp him now🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀

  • @issa1543

    @issa1543

    2 жыл бұрын

    I know a man who can help you to get back your ex love to you without delay he was the one that help me to get back my love to me within 3 days

  • @issa1543

    @issa1543

    2 жыл бұрын

    What Sapp her

  • @dnajee8805
    @dnajee88053 жыл бұрын

    This is crazy I went no contact with my ex now she trying to get into contact with me I think street can have her I don't need her back

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    3 жыл бұрын

    #LikeABoss !!!

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    Message me on WhatxApp

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    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

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    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    And I will direct you to someone who helped me get back my ex and he can also help you bring back your ex or a specific person

  • @jaytooconceited9669
    @jaytooconceited96693 жыл бұрын

    I’m getting ready to BUT I’m not trying to because I know it won’t work out in my favor and also I do want her back but I’m like it is what it is regardless of what happens

  • @liyabella6448

    @liyabella6448

    3 жыл бұрын

    Text him on what'Sapp 🤩

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    Message me on WhatxApp

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    And I will direct you to someone who helped me get back my ex and he can also help you bring back your ex or a specific person

  • @sheluv_Eu
    @sheluv_Eu2 жыл бұрын

    So going no contact after a 9 month relationship is that to short will no contact work

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    Not at all. It’s about how emotionally attached she was during the relationship, the memories, and basically how close you were to each other. Opus

  • @michealstone5396

    @michealstone5396

    2 жыл бұрын

    ±2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,

  • @zerihunchekol3860
    @zerihunchekol38603 жыл бұрын

    Don't expect to get your ex back. Once a glass is cracked it is better to throw out, it does not last longer even if you try to take it back and use it.

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    Message me on WhatxApp

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    And I will direct you to someone who can also help you bring back your ex or a specific person

  • @christhomas6199
    @christhomas61992 жыл бұрын

    Bruh… It’s not always the guys fault to why a woman breaks up with him, let’s just keep this a buck

  • @lewisthompson977
    @lewisthompson9772 жыл бұрын

    Does no contact work if your partner is going through depression?

  • @opusandtarquez

    @opusandtarquez

    2 жыл бұрын

    It does. But you want to make sure they’re mentally ready for a relationship

  • @lewisthompson977

    @lewisthompson977

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@opusandtarquez Thanks and one more question. Will the no contact rule still work if your ex has already given you your belongings back such as a promise ring and a hat?

  • @malachihalbert2965
    @malachihalbert29653 жыл бұрын

    Started doing it yesterday, followed by a message formatted by my therapist about recognizing the problems in my behavior etc. Apologizing, laying out my goals and working on things that she needed from me, I did mention fixing the relationship in that message, maybe it was the wrong move and sounded needy. What do you think? Also I did send a bunch of needy shit for the first 2 days after, would that mess it up? Would appreciate a response

  • @salmiranda203

    @salmiranda203

    2 жыл бұрын

    The needy stuff will set you back a couple days probably me and my ex were chatting and I got needy but she never ghosted me we had an argument one night and I told her never text me again blocked her everywhere 2 months later I get a text from her but I’m in no contact because she was super disrespectful the whole relationship and she needs to learn that but back to ur point yes was a bad move but she won’t be gone forever may take 2 or 3 months at best

  • @son_kev7288
    @son_kev72883 жыл бұрын

    Doing no contact at the moment been on couple dates , my purpose has kept me busy so I don’t even think of her Stay strong kings 👑

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    Message me on WhatxApp

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    And I will direct you to someone who helped me get back my ex and he can also help you bring back your ex or a specific person

  • @lsggnag2809
    @lsggnag2809 Жыл бұрын

    About to break no contact

  • @vanessapineda6869
    @vanessapineda68692 жыл бұрын

    If they were cold and distant towards the end, Do men ever even regret losing you? I want him to freakn realize what he lost!

  • @alusme968

    @alusme968

    2 жыл бұрын

    I got help from Dr fred he helped me

  • @alusme968

    @alusme968

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can't believe it my ex is back

  • @yattab4590
    @yattab45904 жыл бұрын

    This was interesting and comical as a woman watching. 🙂You two are super cute.

  • @Flow-qz2zi
    @Flow-qz2zi3 жыл бұрын

    She broke up, what if she is also doing no contact? Then no one is submitting. Then the relationship is fucked. What you guys have to say to that. I am confused. Give me strength boys.

  • @alexanderejiofor3961

    @alexanderejiofor3961

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hello to whom it may concern I can also recommend you to a man called dr tuda who helped me manifest back my ex ; I’m so happy I got my ex back and he can help in all relationship problems 💕💕💕💕💕

  • @alexanderejiofor3961

    @alexanderejiofor3961

    3 жыл бұрын

    Whtspp him directly

  • @sponie2532
    @sponie25323 жыл бұрын

    Does no contact work if she’s in a new relationship?

  • @Chosenfew_0129

    @Chosenfew_0129

    3 жыл бұрын

    Of course only if you really improving your self but the gym be at your best new clothes new style smell good and be happy with yourself and there’s when they start realizing what they lost just have to level up bro

  • @jacobshelton
    @jacobshelton Жыл бұрын

    About to break no contact.

  • @elizabethkaranja570
    @elizabethkaranja5702 жыл бұрын

    Funny but true🥺

  • @victoriapaul3937

    @victoriapaul3937

    2 жыл бұрын

    Take the number from my profile photo..

  • @ramojakupovic1916
    @ramojakupovic19163 жыл бұрын

    So would no contact work for a 4month relationship?

  • @jinxjinx2027

    @jinxjinx2027

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha same situation I’m in. I think there’s a chance it will depending on how invested especially the good times and how attractive she found you. Either ways we all gotta stay strong and work on becoming better

  • @themoonbleu627

    @themoonbleu627

    3 жыл бұрын

    yes

  • @donsteven5646

    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    .My dear if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person

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    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

    .Message me on WhatxApp

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    @donsteven5646

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @vuekay6888
    @vuekay68882 жыл бұрын

    What if she watches your videos and is also playing the No Contact Rule, it becomes a test of nerves inne?

  • @alusme968

    @alusme968

    2 жыл бұрын

    I got help from Dr fred he helped me

  • @issa1543

    @issa1543

    2 жыл бұрын

    I know a man who can help you to get back your ex love to you without delay he was the one that help me to get back my love to me within 3 days

  • @issa1543

    @issa1543

    2 жыл бұрын

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    2 жыл бұрын

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    2 жыл бұрын

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