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@benderxxx9089

6 ай бұрын

You do know that there is something called no fault divorce right?

@aliMohamed-ev3wr

6 ай бұрын

Bro, become Muslim & go to Somalia or Morocco for beautiful loyal sisters. You need to spreed your handsome DNA but inshallah become Muslim ❤

@andrewgholami3309

6 ай бұрын

Just become muslim AD

@Blount-kt5fh

6 ай бұрын

I read that wrong i thought it said here is why I will never marry a man

@xjaymie_j3ossx

6 ай бұрын

this is why Jesus needs to be at the center of marriage

"Most women just want a wedding & the validation of being called a wife......" 100% truth!!!!

@CaptainAbmerica

6 ай бұрын

True but God created her to want that.

@tm-ci7tx

6 ай бұрын

​@@CaptainAbmerica I have to disagree with you. God created woman to meet the emotional needs of a man. Nowadays it's the other way around, no wonder divorce is on the rise.

@onapath

6 ай бұрын

@@tm-ci7txgood point, don’t know how that flew past my mind before now.

@Niilo2.2

6 ай бұрын

Fr. Kings don give your life for a hoe that ain't worth it.

@tayburns4316

6 ай бұрын

@@tm-ci7txI would say it’s more the case the woman gets financial stability from a man and gets to lock him down. That means more than validation

The west is truly fucked.

@malika5731

6 ай бұрын

It was always 😂

@The_Indo_Aryan

6 ай бұрын

​@@a.m.4148 Those are only a few bad countries

@MyBallzInYourJaws

6 ай бұрын

Its everywhere now

@SamSidere

6 ай бұрын

Fr

@SamSidere

6 ай бұрын

​@@a.m.4148less developped while 90 % of the population is depressed

Marriage = 50% of losing half of your assets. Single = 0% chance of losing half of your assets.

@danielkissner4708

6 ай бұрын

I like that math

@coolgainz9307

6 ай бұрын

So true, being single can be a beautiful thing

@ktube1432

6 ай бұрын

Also if you die single, family will take all your wealth.

@tegathemenace

6 ай бұрын

​@@ktube1432 and if you die in a relationship you take it to the after life?😂

@Thievr

6 ай бұрын

It’s higher than 50

It's sad how people forgot that marriage is a spiritual activity ordained by God😢

@skunkdog4263

6 ай бұрын

I was looking through the comments real quick before I looked at a verse for this… this generation is just corrupt

@livelifeentertainment

6 ай бұрын

Tell that to the government and some of these females out here 😴

@JohnDoe-nm4zj

6 ай бұрын

Women in the bible were virgins

@coolgainz9307

5 ай бұрын

That’s cap 👎🏾

@tristanrose1212

5 ай бұрын

​@@JohnDoe-nm4zjyou didn't read the bible

He speaks facts about this matter tbh

@Niilo2.2

6 ай бұрын

Why none of yall goof balls say anything? AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

@Niilo2.2

6 ай бұрын

But totally agree.

@fashionlife5348

6 ай бұрын

Noo he doesn’t because Legally you can’t do a lot of things you otherwise could’ve

@Muhammad-k

6 ай бұрын

@@fashionlife5348 you can write them down as your partner when you travel and stuff if thats what your talking about

@DivineTQ

6 ай бұрын

​@@fashionlife5348such as ?

Marriage is a religious concept the problem is that men are marrying women that aren’t religious that’s why they have no problem filing for divorce (instead of honoring the vows till death do you part)

@sole008

6 ай бұрын

Smart man . Andrew Wilson said it one day( btw if you don't know him you should definitely check him out he is really a beast) he said that marriage is for religious peoples. Its a religious institution. Liberals and the likes shouldn't get married because they believe in secularism and have no moral compass aside from the laws of the country which are subjective.

@Alex58355

6 ай бұрын

Exactly

@GreatTaiwan

6 ай бұрын

Those vows are in Christianity not in Judaism Note: our religion is thousands of years older than yours So pointing out those vows are not the one to be kept 😂

@oriont6944

6 ай бұрын

What of women marrying men who aren't religious. Problem is that people nowadays aren't religious even religious people themselves, do you know how many Muslims don't know the atrocities committed by Muhammed. And the Jews are still waiting for their Messiah, if not Jesus than what kind of Messiah, a warmonger? People have now turned Christianity into some kind of badge they can remove when it suits them, don't even know the teachings of Christ.

@adigundaniel4464

6 ай бұрын

​@@GreatTaiwanthere are no vows in a Jewish marriage???

Fellas, Never Sign a Marriage Contract That Only Benefits One Party 💯💊

@BulkierEmu050

6 ай бұрын

Such a stupid and ignorant thing to say...

@thestruggler7926

6 ай бұрын

@@BulkierEmu050Why? Women benefit more from getting married than men.

@J.D-df6dn

6 ай бұрын

​@@BulkierEmu050Wow. How is that? Are you 5?

@Megamind_mog

6 ай бұрын

​@@thestruggler7926 no they don't if a divorce is signed it's usually 50 50

@malone4735

6 ай бұрын

@@BulkierEmu050 Get Married And Keep That Same Energy in 10 Years🤣, Keep On Being Naive Buddy!

Marriage is the transfer of power, leverage, control and wealth from the man to the woman. RIP husbands. These divorce judges don't play.

@superboixl3038

6 ай бұрын

when you say it like that damn.

@masternoremac3738

6 ай бұрын

Your just bitter and hurt, thats their retaliation...

@marriagecausesdivorce7540

6 ай бұрын

@@masternoremac3738 their retaliation is just manipulation. its just shaming language used by 304s to manipulate a man into doing what she wants.

@tegathemenace

6 ай бұрын

​@@marriagecausesdivorce7540 the perfect tool for enormous egos that hate to look hurt

@Mr-Anand

6 ай бұрын

Your country is just a piece of crap. In my country Arrange marriages happen. And Arrange marriages is happened in front of whole family including far relatives. So when anyone decides to divorce then the whole family turns to them, make them understand and try their best. So it's very rare to see divorce in my country ( states that are infested with Western mentality is excluded ).

Don't ever sign a contract that benefits a person when and if "they" break it..

@The_Alpha_Silverback

6 ай бұрын

Crazy physique ma nigga

its crazy cause my parents literally did this. i never found out or asked about it until i was 17 realizing that they werent even married yet we all did the things families with married parents would do. they are smarter than i give them credit for tbh

@1reviravoltanotempo611

6 ай бұрын

equal cristiano ronaldo and your woman in arabic saudit

@raythomas5090

5 ай бұрын

@@1reviravoltanotempo611they give him a pass cas he’s a famous footballer only there for 2 years. If I spent half a billion tax free money on a footballer I’d look the other way too

@TheThe-sn1wc

5 ай бұрын

So ur a bastard lol

I’m happy that I witnessed a new generation of men who have their eyes wide open and have refused to let women finesse them.

@DeAnthonyWhitley

3 ай бұрын

If you keep up this mindset you gonna have a lonely ass life

This is why I love Nigeria. In Nigeria, most people do traditional marriages, which means that the court isn't involved in the marriage. So if anything happens, 100% of your Assets (or liabilities) goes to you. We don't want our useless government to be involved in our marriage.

@raythomas5090

5 ай бұрын

I think it’s like that in a few other countries in the motherland . It should def be like this 100%

@samtonnude941

5 ай бұрын

I like any african countries tbh, I will even go live in nigeria.

@TheNotSoRandomDude

5 ай бұрын

@@samtonnude941 don't go😂

@samtonnude941

5 ай бұрын

@@TheNotSoRandomDude Nah i would live in nigeria, i'm african lol and i have interest in african cultures.🤦

@Kflaynife

5 ай бұрын

This is why I love being Nigerian.

Sometimes , when I watch all these things happening in west , I feel so grateful that I'm born in east.

@malika5731

6 ай бұрын

Same here

@jkw6196

5 ай бұрын

North East Asia: Korea, Taiwan,ChinaJapan are also plagued by feminism bro. South East Asia would be better

@Thatgirl12-fp3uq

2 ай бұрын

@@jkw6196 all the countries you speak of are patriarchal.

I’ll get married and sign the paperwork if she’s richer than me lol 😆

@B1gBossMan

6 ай бұрын

Lmao

@nananyantakyi1549

6 ай бұрын

What if you become richer than her 10 years down the line?

@GaMadeZae

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

Basically, you are saying marriage is a business😂😂😂😂😂😂

@hot_whelz

6 ай бұрын

That was how it was used back in the day and surprisingly in some situations still happens a lot of rich families that have had generational wealth for many years only get married to other rich people. But I most cases now is for love

@Michael0429

6 ай бұрын

Pretty much a contractual agreement

@J.D-df6dn

6 ай бұрын

​@@hot_whelzDefinitely not for love....

@tatenda2706

6 ай бұрын

@@hot_whelzwell said especially the Royal family, they only Mary people who very rich or have certain bloodlines, that’s been happening for years, LA Rams owner Kronke married daughter of Walmart owner, or even you see it in shows like game of thrones were people Mary people from certain houses

@ElCodigo96

6 ай бұрын

@@J.D-df6dn facts bro I wonder back in the days do people needed a contract to get married 💀💀💀

The marriage is an insurance policy for women

@sentry8992

6 ай бұрын

It makes perfect sense in that regard. A woman is taking on a huge risk when she has a guys children. If he decides to bail on her she's stuck with the kids. He's out there roaming freely and her life is altered forever. Women deserve the protection of the government marriage contract.

@nananyantakyi1549

6 ай бұрын

​@@sentry8992Men don't need to bail out, women do..They initiate 80% of divorce

@manniking233

5 ай бұрын

​@@sentry8992. Not at the expense of my freedom and sanity, though. Don't ever get married as a man if you can help it.

@eddieliusa387

5 ай бұрын

@@sentry8992yes but on the other hand the wife has to be loyal, the problem is there is no actually way to tell if a woman is cheating, if a man leaves, well that’s visible. If there was a way the man can get guaranteed loyalty, men would be much more open to marriage. Maybe really big punishments for getting caught cheating? Idk

Have been married 26 years. One of the best decisions of my life. This is why America has a problem today. It's your kind of thought process that leads to a broken family.

@malika5731

6 ай бұрын

Finally someone said

@alphablitz7907

6 ай бұрын

His thought process protects his sanity, Do you know what happens to divorced men financially? And the justice system being unfair? Keep your self important crap to yourself lol 💀😂

@MyBallzInYourJaws

6 ай бұрын

Well, kind sir things have changed a lot now a days

@mrmelonman2893

6 ай бұрын

fax

@formulasaltythunder4806

6 ай бұрын

@alphablitz7907 sounds like your a bitter divorced guy

I literally just signed my divorce papers hours ago. This is all true. And definitely in the future if I was ever to find a woman and saw the need to marry, I would definitely do what is said in the video. Have the wedding the lady desires, get a ring, live together, have kids, last name change ect, all without doing it through the government legality and paperwork. It would still be a just as great. Just without the government involvement and bounds. I was young and happy to get married initially and signed all the paperwork because that’s custom and no one tells you otherwise. But even if you don’t think anything would happen to your marriage even putting that aside why would you want the government and a contract bounding the terms of your relationship.

@flasheditz786

6 ай бұрын

Did you lose any assets or money?

@cautarepvp2079

6 ай бұрын

Well did you find the right woman or eventually you split the assets?

@jamalydude

6 ай бұрын

@@flasheditz786 thankfully I ended up not too bad off. Kids are week on week off evenly. I don’t owe any child support. Able to split claiming the kids on taxes. We each kept our own debts and vehicles, retirement accounts. And I got maybe a third of the house value in cash which isn’t much and that part sucks, but all things considered I didn’t lose too much In this considering majority of men end up owing child support or spousal support for years and years. This whole process took a year and a half of legal battles and was hell on earth, she was literally trying to take everything from me and give me nothing, and I ended up going to a therapist due to mental pains. I got lucky and it’s not a easy or fun process.

@derekrodrigues6890

6 ай бұрын

Yeah did you lose assets or money?

@The_Indo_Aryan

6 ай бұрын

Did you lose any assets or money?

*FACTS!!! He is not lying here one single bit!* I actually feel sorry for all the men who didnt understand these simple facts and let malicious women violate them financially through divorce.

This is why marriage is supposed to be a covenant before God and not a covenant before the government.

I don’t mind getting married it just simply won’t ever be in U.S. The percentage of healthy long lasting marriages/relationships outside the USA & UK is significantly better. REALTALK

@phillmugshd9836

6 ай бұрын

Checkmate, the ruler of this world benefits. Your problem is the corruption of having sex like a handshake... Then you are left with no godly reason to get married, further corruption is when you get married in Middle age when the person you are getting is a corrupt opportunists. If God says "delight in a wife of your youth" if you intend to get married past 30yrs then you know what you are looking for. Pull out stats of those who got married between 18 - 25. 😉

@raythomas5090

5 ай бұрын

Same

Got to find yourself a woman of God, All men need to give their life to Christ And a Good woman your come into your life, Stay Strong Bros 🙏☦️

@YuhhFeelMe

6 ай бұрын

As a man, I make MY own decisions

@wensleymompremier7132

6 ай бұрын

I agree 🙌🏾✝️

@parkservice6293

6 ай бұрын

Lol woman of God? Where do I find one? On Mars?

@kkroyu

6 ай бұрын

I agree... But still protect yourselves regardless

@teammusketeers

6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂 good question.....becuase most arent from the planet ​@@parkservice6293

Engagement is the farthest I’d go, therefore if things go south, I take the ring and save it for the next one

@diegoalvarez8605

6 ай бұрын

good luck getting that ring back :)

@Bob-bg7xl

6 ай бұрын

​@@diegoalvarez8605 if registered legally as his property, he can get it back.

@johnnylafountain635

6 ай бұрын

@@diegoalvarez8605buy a ring from Walmart. They all look the same and women won’t know the difference

@mathmanchris666

6 ай бұрын

That ring is gone tf u on 😂

Being a Christian gives it a diffrent perspective my friend

@fardeenmahmud8866

6 ай бұрын

As Muslims, that’s what we do as well. The government has one set of laws. Islam has another set of laws. And for us, God’s commands in the Qur’an come first before any man-made law.

@renegade595

6 ай бұрын

How to get married without government involvement? If you cant answer that then being of any religion involced is pointless since the government has the last say. Thats now how marriages were designed

@tegathemenace

6 ай бұрын

​@@smpiano6605 Church weddings don't require contracts.

@drecula25

6 ай бұрын

Hate to break it to you, but religion ain't in that government paperwork..

@thlipsislamont1352

6 ай бұрын

If you're looking at it from a western standpoint, what you're saying make possibly. Nevertheless it's not biblical to have to have the government involved in your marriage. So, this Western marriage is not true biblical Christian marriage.

Reasons NOT to get married 1. You’ll lose your freedom 2. Your sanity 3. Your money 4. Marriage will drain the hell out of you.

@tegathemenace

6 ай бұрын

Just money, you marrying hobos?

@user-oh6ho3kf7i

6 ай бұрын

Reasons to be single : 1. freedom - 2. your money is yours - 3. free relationship and fun

@tonika7543

6 ай бұрын

@@user-oh6ho3kf7i 💯 facts.

@jonathantennent1516

6 ай бұрын

I been thought this crap for 30 years. I worked in prisons, and a jail. I would Xtra overtime. For the money. And peace in jail. Then home

@Ender-wi5og

3 ай бұрын

I get money. But wth you mean by sanity and freedom? You cheat or smth?

Everyone should Google the term "common law marriage" and see what their state's laws are on it.

@charlescaldwell5119

6 ай бұрын

Common law marrage

it's only crazy expensive in the US. it is so frustrating to hear your comment on why women wants to marry. Seems like you haven't met a woman with substance, who are financially great and wants to marry for love, emotional support, building the magic together as a power couple.

@thearyaofbelief

5 ай бұрын

Stop Coping Women in their Prime sleeps around with Chads and after hitting the wall they all are settled for an Average That's how it goes on 😂

Get married in the church ⛪️ so there are witnesses and leaving the legal shit out

This honestly breaks my heart

@The_Alpha_Silverback

6 ай бұрын

Same here

@phantasam1904

6 ай бұрын

Sucks, but it's the truth.

@Milo-Mike

6 ай бұрын

You can still ask the man and give him the ring

@XxforevercandygirlXx

6 ай бұрын

You didn't need to say that ​@@phantasam1904

@deek69

6 ай бұрын

@@Milo-Mikeyou’re gay

DO NOT do this. if you buy a house with someone you are not married to, or have stuff signed in both of your names, the other person could walk out and leave you with the cost of those items, (a lot of debt).

Jesus Christ is king

@legionofgod6691

6 ай бұрын

Amen

@glitchadapt8681

6 ай бұрын

True

@nicktt500

6 ай бұрын

Jesus wasn't a king. He was just an enlightened man.

@pawelis9146

6 ай бұрын

​@@nicktt500of course He was, He is and He will be the King

@themistafi

6 ай бұрын

Englightend😂 he is god in the flesh, our lord and saviour amen.

I go back & forth with this because on one hand I do want to be married but on the other hand I don’t want what comes at the end so I just kinda leave it there

This is exactly what I did. No legal contract. Wedding ring church and family blessings. No paper work. She went and did a legal name change in the court later

If you’re living for yourself and not for the Lord then you need to really consider if you’re ready for marriage. Marriage is about sacrificing the egotistical self and a big tool in the process of sanctification. It’s been the most challenging thing and fruitful path in life. Trophies are fun, but treasure is worth protecting. Good women do exist brothers

@paulbrown9328

6 ай бұрын

Okay but, what does marriage have to do with the government. From my understanding the government contract to marriage don’t even follow the Bible and aren’t religious. From the jump I never planned to get married by government contract but, by my church, community, and God.

@direwolf1977

5 ай бұрын

I'm good

Nope. This is Mainly in the United States, because everything is a Business. Love and Marriage are treated like a drive through. Y’all gotta travel and experience the world outside. Not all women think this way, this mainly occurs with women raised and born in America. Y’all seriously gotta see what the world has to offer, not the women in your town.

Only Desperate Men with no options would consider marriage...just "kick it' with her..and if she changes or you both get bored..split up. No government intervention. ..no payouts....kitty is 25 for a penny today...marry it????

@Drizzydid

6 ай бұрын

You will always end up splitting up living in that reality though. Because realistically women past a certain age are not gonna stick around to be "boyfriend/girlfriend" / pretend married to a guy forever. Even if they say at the start it's no problem she'll see her friends getting married off to their former boyfriends you'll be attending those friends' weddings and her clock will be ticking all the while she'll start to resent you eventually and you almost 100% will split it's not if she changes it's more when following that logic. Because It's not worth it to them either to do that...especially if there is a possibility of you having kids with her intentionally or by making a "mistake" based on how much you two are getting at it over time no woman would want to stay in that kind of relationship, get knocked up, and get dumped when you get bored to become the girl who has a kid from some other man back on the dating market. But for sure not getting is married is great and sensible as long as you accept that your chance of being with the same person even if you find a "good" one is between slim and none and slim has its foot halfway out the door already after 2-3 years of "cohabiting". As long as you accept it and don't get annoyed when they leave after however long it's cool and like you say low maintenance.

@potatoisgoodnotacherry

6 ай бұрын

​@@Drizzydidcould you please summarize all of that into a couple of sentences please? Way too many points formed in a single paragraph.

@tegathemenace

6 ай бұрын

​@@Drizzydid Not if you're Ronaldo. Or you live in Nigeria and do a trad wedding which is culturally recognized😊

@Drizzydid

6 ай бұрын

@@potatoisgoodnotacherry How you gonna ask me to write even more sentences by summarizing 🤣. Nah mate read it there's good content in there!

@Drizzydid

6 ай бұрын

@@tegathemenace You're funny. So unless you're 1 specific person out of the 8 billion the rule doesn't apply okay...you went for the most extreme exception possible lmao. And I am Nigerian actually...maybe you are too...and if you are then you know that you don't want to open that can of worms at all right now 🤣.

This is kind of sad. Working in hospitals ive seen non-married people who arent allowed to make decisions for their S/O. Marriage isnt for everyone but its beneficial with the right mentality.

@abdelkader8556

6 ай бұрын

décisions like what if i may ask ?

@douba_plusa

6 ай бұрын

@@abdelkader8556next plan of care, especially if the partner is unconscious or unable to make decisions for themselves. I believe some examples could be whether to move them from ICU to hospice, whether to do a risky surgery, whether to keep them in a coma they don’t seem to be waking up from

@officialdjsuchalady

4 ай бұрын

@@abdelkader8556 yes. If you’re not married you have no decisions at the end if theres an unfortunate experience. I’ve seen family members kick out the S/O and wouldn’t let them see the individual transition

I'm a Man and quite frankly this strategy will not hold up under scrutiny. Reason being, guys would be essentially asking a woman to commit to you without any protection that the government contract provides. What woman would go for that? If some dude had plans to impregnate my daughter and have her raise his kids without being married, there would be hell to pay. Most successful Men admit that their wives played a huge role in their success. In alot of cases she is entitled to that 50%. With the exception of professional athletes, most conventional careers and wealthy households were built by the couple building the fortune together. This concept only applies to guys that have managed to build significant fortunes on their own.

You are part of tge problem this new generation is something else. Marriage means you are not living in sin forever.

@nananyantakyi1549

6 ай бұрын

And who told you you have to involve the government (devil) in your affairs to be married? This is how you use s are tactics to push men into destruction.

@raythomas5090

5 ай бұрын

I definitely believe in marriage, I’ll just do it when I live in another country where the government has no say…..marriage isn’t the problem. The government is

@user-px7po7hv9d

5 ай бұрын

Yeah right lol

@direwolf1977

5 ай бұрын

So me loving being single is a sin now??? Too bad!

Terrible advise. The fact that marriages today have been tainted and people no longer understand the marriage covenant (hence divorces) should not invalidate this sacred institution itself. Strong societies are built on strong moral and family values. The promotion of sexual promiscuity and normalisation of premartial sex feeds into the immorality of society and is actually one of the reasons the divorce rate is so high.

@Ban00

6 ай бұрын

Laugh now cry later

@mannyledell4602

6 ай бұрын

Exactly

This is a fantastic take. I was always thinking the same thing as a teenager. What’s the point of signing papers when we can do all the things that marriage consists of.

Marriage is all about you, your spouse, and how much respect and love y’all show each other. Theirs a reason our grandparents are still married, and are happy with each other.

Not even 50 but 80% of marriages nowadays end up in divorce

Wonen offer nothing in return

Seen alot of older Black men as a nurse not able to go and live alone being shipped to nursing homes to eventually die alone because all their lives they had this type of mentality and chose to be an individual and not work or commit to a relationship. When women have children they desire stability and part of the package for a quality woman would include marriage. A prenup to protect the assets you acquired before me is fine but after the marriage…no.

@seant6154

6 ай бұрын

Yea, but women have relationships with who they want to now, and sometimes they choose the wrong guys. Young women have to commit to a relationship too!

@suhdude6919

6 ай бұрын

"not work or commit to a relationship" this is so funny coming from a woman lol

@YuhhFeelMe

6 ай бұрын

Thats cus if most men wanna stay single then they CAN

@tonih4887

4 ай бұрын

@ThatBoyDontPlay Yes you are correct. People have the option to do whatever they want but just know there are consequences to all of the choices we make in life.

@seant6154

4 ай бұрын

@@tonih4887 I wouldn't call it a consequence for guys. If you can watch the TV show Law & Order: Special Victims Unit: Season 14, Episode 16 Funny Valentine. It shows a young woman (Misha) choose to love/support a guy who killed someone. She was facing penalty of perjury by lying on the witness stand. After court, Misha ran away with him to some yacht, they start to kiss a little, and then the guy's cell phone dings with a text message from another girl. Misha says to him, who's that? He then suddenly gets angry at her, and ends up strangling her to death on the yacht! Her body was found floating in the water a few days later. This goes to show that young women generally need to make better decisions when choosing guys to be with. They don't always need to be bad boys.

Prenup isn't helpful if no fault divorce exists 🤦

Get married religiously if you're Muslim and have her sign a prenup

Marriage for women is an *asset* but where as for men it's a *Responsiblity*

@neongecko3065

5 ай бұрын

Someone clearly hasn’t found a good woman yet

@jaycommonsense2468

4 ай бұрын

​@@neongecko3065that's what all devils say

Never sign a contract where someone gets half of your thing if they break it

Once you have a kid, prenup is out the door. As a man, you're just fuked.

@dalinkwentk9180

6 ай бұрын

Pretty much😂😂gotta pick your poison at this point

Oh boy just say that you are not ready😂

@90slifter90

6 ай бұрын

He’s a fuckboy.🤣

@raythomas5090

5 ай бұрын

In this country. You can def get married and live elsewhere without the “belt to ass” laws

I have no problem with getting married so long as it’s kept between the 2 families with no government affiliation. Just make sure you live in a state that doesn’t recognize a shared home as legally married.

The problem is people forget. Marriage is a Biblical concept that was created by god. You're not supposed to just marry. You're supposed to pray and ask God to guide you as to who will be your wife. Whoever God has for you will not lead you to divorce. They will not be a yoke around your neck but a blessing and a source of strength. This modern idea about hating marriage is because people don't believe in God anymore that's the problem

fun fact: portugal has a 92 percent divorce rate

@zempov

3 ай бұрын

Not 92%, but for every new 100 mariages 92 are divorced. and that was in 2020. now its about 50 divorces per 100 marriages.

In some states you can be married under "common law marriages" and some things like kids and buying a ring will be considered in court when determining if you were married under common law.

Anytime you sign a deal that only benefits one party, you my friend.... have signed a horrible deal.

It’s The Truth. Take Those Emotions And Go Somewhere Else With Them.

Bro doesn’t know marriage can be done in church in front of a pastor without getting the government involved. You can say your vows and get married through God. Forget the government. You should be finding a God fearing woman, those types of woman don’t just get married to for the idea of marriage. They get married because they found someone they want to be with for the rest of their life

@sole008

6 ай бұрын

It's literally what he said did we watch the same clip?

@coldfitness2466

6 ай бұрын

He's just an idiot @@sole008

@reesejohnson2788

6 ай бұрын

Common law is the next enemy…

@aqibkhan4356

6 ай бұрын

Getting marriage religious still gives her all the benefits and she can still take you to court and take half your shit. What you talking about

@direwolf1977

5 ай бұрын

No thanks

Austin: You really don't have to get the Government involved by getting married. Government: Common Law = I am still involved.

If you get into a marriage with this kind of thought, of course things are gonna go wrong!! You're already defeated from day 1!! Marriages end because people don't wanna work out their differences. When problems hit, first thing they think about is drifting away

@direwolf1977

5 ай бұрын

That's why we not doing it!

Never sign a contract where the other is awarded for breaking it

Same men call out women for wanting to be single and tell them they will die alone with cats

@sibongilemaseko8799

6 ай бұрын

Funny because black men do not even have money. What money are black women going to take from them.

@druvmazumder

6 ай бұрын

he never said he wants to single

@nananyantakyi1549

6 ай бұрын

Women want to be single, they just want a wedding and your assets..After that they go back to being single which is what they really want.

@MississippiSoulchic

6 ай бұрын

Exactly

@mentoriii3475

5 ай бұрын

Watch the short instead of commenting by the title

womp womp prenups are not legally viable in India.. we're technically effed

Pre-nups aren't worth the paper they're signed on. The woman only has to tell the court she signed "under duress" and they will throw out that prenup faster than used toilet paper.

In Africa we don't necessarily have to sign any government contract. Customary marriage & that's all... married to a clean virgin

Marriage is a guarantee for the woman that the man won’t just get up and leave one day and leave the kids behind. If men got a guarantee that their wife wouldn’t cheat, it would be fair, however the former is much more visible than the latter so tough situation

i m sure a lot of states have defacto marriage laws where you re legally considered to be married, youre spouse having a right on u re property and all, if you cohabitate for a given period with ur spouse.. so if u live togather a given no. of years then u cant escape

@truzs2807

6 ай бұрын

Do you know if that sort of law apply anywhere in the Uk?

@meneliksolomon7984

6 ай бұрын

@@truzs2807 no, but its probable since its a common law statute. You ll have to check there

Sad to hear ..marriage is a wonderful union always put God first the devil hates what God created

FACTS! DON’T DO IT MEN! Women behave there best when you hold all the leverage

@arlusterpenn6019

5 ай бұрын

Holding back marrying her is not leverage... Trust me on that😂

Marriage is holy and it has utmost value in the eyes of God and religious people

Exactly man, on point 🙏💯

I got me a good one. Married 14yrs and we have 4 kids. Weve been together for 17 so whatever you do, date for a loooong time so you get a good idea of who you're with.

6 ай бұрын

why are u spending time on this channel old man?

@XxforevercandygirlXx

6 ай бұрын

​@ Your comment is sad

@XxforevercandygirlXx

6 ай бұрын

It's sad these days millennials don't want to get married

@Alex58355

6 ай бұрын

@disrespectful

@cautarepvp2079

6 ай бұрын

​@@XxforevercandygirlXxyep and gen z that are coming even harder

Marriage is like a plane, you never hear about it until it crashes

As a Christian, marriage is beautiful as its God uniting man and woman till death parts them. Through that commitment, man to woman and woman to man, a family can be established. It’s sin, or it’s wrong, to have sexual relations outside of marriage (fornication and sexual immorality). Our society is seeing the consequences of not defining marriage the way God instituted. So now there lack of self control, children out of wedlock, soul ties and broken families and relationships “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh' So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.” Matthew 19: 5

@James-cn8lo

6 ай бұрын

But marriage is a covenant and NOT a contract

@XxforevercandygirlXx

6 ай бұрын

Agreed I'm a millennial and it's sad that people my generation don't want to get married, they don't want to make it work, therefore breaking our hearts.

@Ali-fx6jd

6 ай бұрын

I am a Muslim and I completely agree with you my brother in faith. Even though you are correct we should still sign a free nup. Better safe than sorry

@coolgainz9307

6 ай бұрын

Marriage is nothing special, if you choose to get married then go for it if not then don’t

@Alex58355

6 ай бұрын

Exactly

Facts

I agree mostly. However, if you are to get married I’d get married young, don’t engage in hookup culture, make sure the person you are with actually shares your values because that is a big factor, and also make sure you protect your assets.

this man just saved 40 years of my life 🔥🔥🔥

I want to get married because I have a vision of how I want my life to be in 20 years. I want to have a wife, I want to have kids, etc.

@dalinkwentk9180

6 ай бұрын

Better find a virgin then. Good luck😂

What about if I’m a Christian waiting till marriage, do you have to sign a “contract” to be married in the eyes of God? How does this work? I’m so confused

@robloxiangod1331

6 ай бұрын

So in marriage there is the political aspect so the contracts and stuff and then there is the theological aspect. For a Christian, all you would need to be married would be approval from the church or your priest, which that in itself doesn't require papers. Hopefully this helped, this is the case in majority of Western countries

@savage0928

6 ай бұрын

@@robloxiangod1331 ok, thanks

There are over 6000 languages in the world and this man chose to speak facts

@dalinkwentk9180

6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

Great advice

Although I would love to be married someday but if not I’ll just fine with a longterm relationship. I don’t need a piece of paper declaring my love for a woman when my heart already does it

Thats why passport bros exist, also i am a passport bro and its the best decision ive made in my life

@direwolf1977

5 ай бұрын

Salute bro

That’s about the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard. What happens if you never get married and unexpectedly die? Guess who’s the first to get their cut and decides who gets what, if you’re worth something at all?

@chris-cu9oy

6 ай бұрын

Then get a will lol

@UliSwag

6 ай бұрын

That's what a will is for

@bendover3653

6 ай бұрын

The irony is that YOUR comment is the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard 😂

@Bob-bg7xl

6 ай бұрын

A will is the simplest answer.

@thegreatbaruc8741

6 ай бұрын

A will goes to probate court and guess who gets paid in the form of taxes?

plus you don't get to lose half your assets it's a win win😊

Its mainly religious thats why u get yourself a religious women anything out there will mess you up

@YuhhFeelMe

6 ай бұрын

They arent really "religious"

I mean you can just marry in the church

@UliSwag

6 ай бұрын

I heard that the church will ask for a marriage certificate before u can marry through the church

@janfreese2837

6 ай бұрын

Depends I guess. I'm from Germany. They changed it in 2019 I think so luckily for us we don't have to get the state involved

You are actually talking sense 👍

Facts bro, it’s just a glorified contract to receive rewards for breaking it, especially for men years of work gone in a day.

Unfortunately even a prenup might not cover you

Thanks to allah i am Muslim and Muslim women are not like this

@manniking233

5 ай бұрын

Good for you.

A lot of prenups don't hold up in divorce and men still end up paying out.

and these days allot of woman want to get married so that they can get rich when they slam the guy with the divorce papers

Bro your brainwashing people damnnn 💀

@path100

6 ай бұрын

how?

@cautarepvp2079

6 ай бұрын

yep

@YuhhFeelMe

6 ай бұрын

Not brainwashing

@creative_cooper

6 ай бұрын

By stating facts?

@solarenity

6 ай бұрын

man we shouldnt be scared to marry people.​@@creative_cooper

Married to the game

"Marriage is an economic contract" Dr. Umar Johnson

I can agree with this message. Legal native is a government agreement that makes them money. Ever read the clause on the certificate "bound to the Commonwealth" where vows say"the two joined to God". Everything can be done outside the system!

Never get married. Never have kids. Eff everything that moves. Retire early with all of your assets & income.

@LDGRXR

6 ай бұрын

-live a life of an egotistical fuck and provide nothing to the world, end up hated and miserable.

@dalinkwentk9180

6 ай бұрын

😂😂marriage is one thing but not having kids is a tough one. Gotta at least leave a legacy of your bloodline behind.

Build your marriage on the word of God.