Bob, a 65-year-old, extremely wealthy widower, shows up at the Country Club with a breathtakingly beautiful 25-year-old blonde: she proceeds to knock everyone's socks off with her youthful appeal and charm. She also hangs on Bob's arm and listens intently to his every word. His buddies at the club are all aghast. They corner him and ask. "Bob, how'd you get the trophy girlfriend?" Bob replies. "Girlfriend? She's my wife!" They're knocked over, but continue to ask. "So, how'd you persuade her to marry you?" Bob says: "I lied about my age." His friends respond: "What, did you tell her you were only 50?" Bob smiles and says: "No, I told her I was 90." 😅

@53strat55

3 ай бұрын

lmao

@HH-kg4fq

3 ай бұрын

Was it Anna??? Lol

@brettpatetto6847

2 ай бұрын

that is called a gold digger. Bob is having a good time... while a good looking wealthy man like me has never even been in a relationship or had sex at my age

@dr.manhattan6278

2 ай бұрын

Fast forward five years, and Bob is divorced. Why you ask? Because Bob has (ED) Bob has low energy and very low testosterone. Bob is old and unattractive to his much younger wife. All Bob has to hold on to her with is his finances. Poor guy 😂

@StuJones-gn7te

2 ай бұрын

If Bob is smart, his money and property are in out of state trusts and in 5 years, IF she leaves, she'll discover that he actually owns nothing.

"Seeing what people go after when they have the most options is our truest glimpse into what they really want" wow! I really like this saying!

@SuperiorRobyn

5 ай бұрын

What's the point of dating if you're prolly never what your partner really wants, if everyone is just settling because they don't have options??

@thorodinson6649

5 ай бұрын

@@SuperiorRobyn exactly right. Glad you’re getting it.

@SuperiorRobyn

5 ай бұрын

@@thorodinson6649 you feel the same?

@FiredtoFreedom

4 ай бұрын

@@SuperiorRobyn That's why many men are giving up on the US and doing the passport bros thing.

@SuperiorRobyn

3 ай бұрын

@@piligay6969 oooohhhh. I like thos perspective. But I see the point this original commenter is making

My father is 16 years older than my mother. He always joked that he wanted her to take care of him in his old age. Sadly my mother passed away a year ago and left my dad devastated. They were incredibly happy. Don't listen to all the feminists criticizing older guys dating younger women, do what makes YOU happy.

@acoustic296

Ай бұрын

True as long as it's not a minor there's no problem.

@korypo303

Ай бұрын

Sorry for your loss...well stated. Amen

When my children were younger I employed young women, wanting to take a year break from their studies, to help with child care. I did this for 4 years with 4 different women. Each one at least once, was hit on by a man in their 40s/50s while working for me. Their advances were not received well in ANY of the cases. One woman working for me even came home scared and in tears. When I was in my early twenties I dated a man in his late 30s. It only lasted 6 months, we had little in common, we were in different places in our lives. A 15 year or less gap works, in my opinion, but when it goes beyond that....I personally have never seen a good outcome. My uncle, for example, was 30 years older than my aunt. My cousins were very sad when they lost their father as teenagers, and my aunt became a widow at 50. I definitely think men are drawn to younger women, but I am not convinced younger women reciprocate, unless they really just want money.

@emm9002

10 күн бұрын

You are absolutely right. I’ve never ever been attracted to older men - but I’ve suffered their advances my whole life. So much so that I started to despise men and spent 10 years in therapy. No woman I know has ever dated an older man. I remember feeling disgusted when in my teens and twenties when a man my father’s age would try to flirt with me. Most young women I know don’t even know that older men hit on them - to them it’s not even a possibility. When I mention it I normally get a disgusted look. I am personally physically attracted to under 25 year olds and I am 40. I think that this guy is just trying to convince himself that young women want older men. He’s talking about less than 1%. I dated a guy who was 20 years older than me once. I remember thinking to myself how old he looked and today I cringe when I remember kissing him. I was embarrassed to tell anyone we were together - however briefly. I liked him as a person, we worked together which is the only reason I agreed to go out with him. This is a dangerous misogynistic rhetoric that he’s peddling here - disregarding 99% of women’s actual wants and needs and convincing men that they should pursue younger women because they are into older men. Today I date men younger than me mostly because the ones my age are falling apart lol And I don’t know a single guy who is with a much younger woman either. I don’t even know one who’s ever dated one. But I sure think that this video has made a lot of misogynists and incels happy lol

@elizabethanne462

10 күн бұрын

@@emm9002 great you are dating younger men! Thank you for your comment.

@croulantroulant3082

6 күн бұрын

@@emm9002 so you dating younger men is OK, but men dating younger women is not? mmmk.

I have never been attracted older men, physically. My ex husband was younger than me. and now that I am fifty, I am dating a much younger man. We have an strong chemistry. Women can be visual creatures too :)

@susanmagdaleno5778

10 ай бұрын

Why of course , kudos for y sweetie.

@EC-yl7xk

10 ай бұрын

Thank you for saying that. I date younger as well and older if they look good and have money.

@js9273

9 ай бұрын

Most of the men I've known have been a year or two younger than me. I've certainly never been into significantly older men. I think there is a lot of delusion out there in the "manosphere" regarding what they think women are into. It's also bizarre that they think we're not visual creatures.

@capmidnite

8 ай бұрын

Oh look, an anecdotal example of one data point! While the vast majority of evidence points to the opposite phenomena being more common.

@js9273

8 ай бұрын

@@capmidnite yeah but it's not exactly uncommon for the woman to be older, especially when it's only a couple of years. Age gaps of a couple of years where the bloke is slightly older are the most common. But this video is suggesting 50 year old men are teaming up with 18 year olds which is blatantly crap. It's also crap that women are at their most attractive at 18 (some might me, most aren't) and it's total crap that women aren't visual.

Great video: concise, persuasive, and fair minded.

I've decided I'm not old; I'm 25 plus shipping and handing. 😁

@maximinoblas1171

Жыл бұрын

Ur still a baby 👶 🤧 😘 bless you 🙏

@parshuram8031

Жыл бұрын

Plus massive service tax

@maximinoblas1171

Жыл бұрын

@@parshuram8031 she's not a slut cause I lost my virginity at 24 .

@joseph6243

Жыл бұрын

@@parshuram8031 And a 50% restocking fee for returns or exchanges.

@kevinnorris6157

2 ай бұрын

Yeah and not only has the box been opened, the flaps are all worn out by someone else. Please advise young women to keep their virginity until marriage

Yes they are more attractive physically. However, never again will I bother with young women. They are too insecure, life is a mess, they just want to party, etc. I'm at a point were I have everything except a family so want a women not a girl. I want peace and calm from a partner not drama.

@corriescrivener1937

23 күн бұрын

if there over 18 by law there not a girl lol also being older does not make u mature that's a Lifestyle thing. . I'm in my fancies. I still party with the young people. Half my social circle are between legal and 23.

@St.Garoosh

20 күн бұрын

The majority of younger people these days are hot messes. Guys too. Young Gay relationships are disastrous for other reasons but by this older/younger thing is just as common there, and just as unsuccessful.

@avjam

16 күн бұрын

@@corriescrivener1937 have you ever thought of what goes on in these young girls heads? that you are a dirty old man waiting to score for whoever is willing. I know it because I used to be this young girl with young friends and we get disgusted with old men who hang around younger women but of course we don't tell it to their faces.

This goes way deeper than men just being sexually attracted to younger women. Most young girls report a drastic drop-off of attention once they turn 18. Under age girls are hunted relentlessly up until the age of 18. When I was 17 years old, I "dated" a 57-year-old man. Looking back, I deeply regret it. He looked every bit his age, he was violent, he was cruel, and he was semi impotent. Looking back I cringe at the thought that I let him touch me. I babysat two kids as a live-in babysitter. One child was ten years old and the other child was 14 years old. During an encounter with these children, my 57-year-old "boyfriend" was playing up to the 14-year-old. He was trying to get her attention sexually. It's just something I never forgot. It really pissed me off. But at the time I was so naive, I couldn't even see what he was doing to *_me._* To shorten this up a bit, not too long ago, a man I was dating told me that if it was legal, men would line up at middle schools and elementary schools to have sex with young girls. I wanted to vomit, because I knew he was telling the truth.

@rosiebottom3870

7 ай бұрын

Of course he was telling the truth. Its the taboo few men admit to fantasing about. Most teenage girls including me will have some nasty story to tell about some dirty old man - we get the lesson from a young age.

@michaelharris8598

27 күн бұрын

Read about President Andrew Jackson. He first fell for his wife while she was coming back from grade school and he was in his 20s.

I appreciate the perspective. This is a dynamic that men and women are both responsible for.

It’s hard to find happy older women really good video. Thank you your man ☘️❤️🙏

I enjoy dating younger women because they are generally happier. Older women have lower self-esteem. Most guys don’t care about a few wrinkles or gray hair. My advice to older women is forget the Botox. Concentrate on the beauty inside.

@christianhenry4173

Жыл бұрын

3 simple reasons a man wants a younger woman. 1) Less body count 2) Less drama from past relationships 3) High fertility

@ffxiisucks

11 ай бұрын

@@christianhenry4173 Also less bitter and cold.

@scc8728

11 ай бұрын

Well with comments like these I'm surprised woman like men at all

@ffxiisucks

11 ай бұрын

@@scc8728 Uh most women do not like men...

@ichigotheg.o.a.t

11 ай бұрын

@ffxiisucks uhh, you mean most women don't like most men,?,. ,. ,. ,. because the statistics say other wise,. ,. ,. ,. ,.

please make a longer video about this, this needs to be talked more

Then I've been a trend-breaker. The most unattractive thing for me is emotional & cognitive immaturity. So most of the women I liked were older. To me if she's older and in good shape, that trumps being young and unhealthy.

@InAVanByTheRivr

Жыл бұрын

Nice! More youthful beautiful women for the rest of us! No problems here with you breaking that trend 👍 everybody wins

@sugurugeto330

Жыл бұрын

​@@InAVanByTheRivrIf U have nothing to say, dont do it🐒

@75SuperMario

Жыл бұрын

You're bringing personality into it though. This is just from the perspective of initial attraction. I think any guys would prefer an older, peaceful woman than a haughty, younger one for a long term relationship.

@SuperiorRobyn

10 ай бұрын

@@InAVanByTheRivrassuming they even want you….

@EC-yl7xk

10 ай бұрын

@@InAVanByTheRivr most young women don't want much older men, that was more in the past than today.

Very sound observations👍!

Wonderfully said

My husband and I are 18 years apart. People online believe that my husband doesn't really love me but I know he does and has proved it. I couldn't be happier. ❤ My husband matches these qualities of the older man. He's actually 47 right now lol. One of the first things that attracted him to me is how informative I was about myself, I took care of myself and had a bubbly, welcoming attitude.

@misssimmons99

11 ай бұрын

My bf and I are 20 years apart. We have a lot of haters, not just from older women but from older men who are jealous because they haven’t pulled a young woman.

@elise9537

10 ай бұрын

What do you like about him?

@Why_Knott_Me

10 ай бұрын

@elise9537 he listens to me, has helped me form positive coping skills when all I used to do was punch things and drink. We're both sober. He is a really hard worker and knows about various topics. He's super creative and artistic. He's super in tune with his feelings and makes me laugh. He cares a lot about communicating with me. He's just super easy to be around. Hes level headed and chill as a cucumber. I'm also the one who came on to him, not the other way around as many think. We talked over the phone and bonded over family, Magik the gathering and anime. We're huge nerds. I keep adding things as I think of them 🤣

@elise9537

10 ай бұрын

@@Why_Knott_Me well yes thats the context I am talking about.. actually told some of these guys not to make any creepy moves or comments :) and just be a normal, decent human being but I think they dont know how to fake that :)) otherwise they would. they watch all these tricks and tips on how to get women. they are either on the autistic spectrum or not so bright because everybody's doing the same lines, moves its annoying for women. why did you drink ? what kind of trauma do you have?

@Why_Knott_Me

10 ай бұрын

@elise9537 I've been sexually assaulted 7 times because my ex pimped me out for 6 years. I also had a boyfriend before this that later had 2 instances where he touched or pressured kids. This was a couple years after i broke up with him. He is a registered sex offender and was only a year older than me. He was incredibly threatening to be around and would blow up at anything. I broke up with him in a public place. My husband is the first man my parents have ever liked. My ex also didn't work for the majority of our 7 year relationship. He used drugs while I was pregnant with his son and would hide it from me. Obviously I found out. We had an open adoption with my best friends family. My ex isn't in the picture and doesn't talk to his son at all and doesn't care. I talk to my son when I can, and my husband and I pick out bday and Xmas gifts to send him every year. They live a few states away. Honestly it's one of the best decisions I ever made aside from getting away from my neglectful ex and getting clean. I'm almost 3 years sober. I'm a straight A student. I think the biggest problem a lot of women can have is when these things happen, they can blame men as a sex. These individuals that hurt me don't make up all men and remembering that is how I found a good man whose good for my mental and physical health.

As a 32 year old man that has dated both sides of the spectrum older/younger women and I prefer to be with an older woman and ill explain why. BTW I'm part Irish and it will become clear later in the story why I'm saying this and this story is quite long I appreciate the time for those that read jt. 1) Alot more mature 2) alot more respectful easy going 3) they know what they want and they know how to properly communicate. 4) they aren't after my resources and I'm not after hers. 5) The bedroom action is alot better with older women .Younger women never really satisfied me sexually and it was mostly just boring. Older Women actually like sex and they are more open minded about trying new things. Here's a my story I was 20 years old I had broken up with my 3rd gf because I caught her cheating with her dead beat ex bf. Then about a few months later I went out to a restaurant my date didn't show up so I went by myself and I saw this real attractive and beautiful woman who latter became mybwife sitting by herself so I decided to talk to her and she said she had a date however he never showed up and then I said mine stood me up to and she asked me to join her and I obliged we started talking and then after we ordered our food she asked me how old I was and I told her to guess and she said I was at least in my early mid 30's and then I told her I was 20 she was kind of surprised at first because she said I looked older than that. Then I guessed that she was in her mid late 20's and she said no I'm 37 years old. I was a little surprised myself because she didn't look a day over 30 tbh based on 1st impressions. Anyways we continued our dinner and talked some more she said she worked for a company made good money etc and I make pretty good money myself at 20 working on my journeyman anyways we stayed in touch for several years after that she considered us to be a long term FWB and we would go out for dinner dates etc she always insisted on paying for everything I didn't object to this however as a traditional man I told her I want to pay for dates dinner etc not just her every time and she finally relented which im surprised she did after so long of always insisting on paying for everything and told me ok you plan the next date for us. On my 23rd birthday I planned a special date for her So the 1st destination was the Salon to have her hair and nails done 2nd I took her shopping bought her clothes shoes etc. Then I bought her a Claddagh ring at a jewelry store and she really adored and appreciated the rings beauty and I told her she wears the finger on her right hand with the heart pointing towards her to indicate she is in a relationship or with heart pointing towards her fingers to symbolize that we are just friends she put it on with the heart pointing towards her. Then we went and ate lunch then I took her to the art museum and then I took her out to dinner at a fancy restaurant and then we finished the night off by going out to the club and we danced a little bit. Then after we went back hoke she said it was the best date a man ever took her on and she said she wanted to properly thank me for it then i told her i had fallen in love with her and she got teary eyed when i said it and hugged and kissed me and said shenhas fallen for me to long story short she said tonight i wont have to wear a condom and that night I ended up getting her pregnant and 2 months later when she told me the news I was so happy and her parents already really liked then when we announced the pregnancy her family was really excited and happy for us and at the dinner I planned i got on my knees and asked her to marry me she started crying and screaming yes then I put the ring on her right finger to symbolize we were getting married everyone in the crowd was cheering. Now I'm 32 years old and my wife is 49nwe have a 9 year old son still together to this day and we are intimate at least once a day sometimes 2x. If you thought the story is over I still have more to add over the years we've been together both me and wife have been subjected to negative stereotypes because of our age gap. Most common stereotypes against me are 1) he is just using her for her money which is completely false 2) That's probably his "Mother" like an adult mommy and that 1 particular infuriates both of us wife actually punched a woman in the face for saying it. 3) YOU can't find anyone your own age. I say I. Happy and she's happy it's none of your damn business. The most common stereotypes my wife gets are 1) She is old enough to be my mother when the word mother is uttered in regards to our relationship both me and her get real upset and angry. 2) She needs to find someone her own age. Now sometimes my wife gets called a cougar and she said damn straight I am she is proud to admit she is then she says your just jealous cause this fine man respects me treats me good and satisfies me while your single alone and miserable. Conclusion to my story is yes men do like younger women however certain men like me prefer an older woman it's just my own personal preference s everyone has theirs it's just important to respect life choices of others as long as their happy mind your own business and improve yourself instead of trying to pull someone into the same misery your currently in.

@Sammie551

7 ай бұрын

Nothing more attractive than looks 🤮

@Hope-zz9eq

7 ай бұрын

I appreciate your story. I used to think these relationships don't work until I learned that one of my heroes, Paul Stamets, married an older woman with kids at the start of his career and then went on to do critical research and development in mushroom science. To me, his career proved how correct his marriage was. Then someone I know married a woman 20 years older than him. I had my doubts, but his career has taken off and he loves his life and loves her. Then I followed this couple on youtube, Fitshortie Eats, and this crazy fruitarian lady found her soulmate in a younger man and then they had two kids. They are living their dream life. Could she have done this with any other man? I don't think so. Chippy is her soulmate. My older fiance cheated on me with a younger woman, so I developed a lot of false beliefs because of that. Then I found out that he was a serial cheater from his ex girlfriends. So I had to let go of those limiting beliefs about age differences.

@SKBottom

7 ай бұрын

If it works for the two of you, I'm happy for you. It's nobody else's damn business. People really need to learn how to mind their own business. I'm 1/2 Irish, 1/4 Scot, 1/4 Welsh by blood. Bloody American by birth and raising. Yes, in my family we are well aware of the Claddagh ring and what it represents.

@Gomba13

7 ай бұрын

Okay, but that’s not what a cougar is. A cougar is a woman who is specifically interested in younger man and she only goes for younger men. Also, the interest is purely sexual. If a woman falls in love with you and she happens to be older, that’s not a cougar. My partner is 32, I am 47. I have been called a cougar before and I feel insulted: they presuppose that I am using him, when in real fact, we love each other and neither of us was going for an age gap, which we were a little preoccupied with at first.

@boggeddanoff3495

6 ай бұрын

big loser excuse

Thanks for clarifying this important truth ❤😊

@elise9537

10 ай бұрын

You mean red pill overused tropes?🍄🍄🍄

this channel is a gem

I notice that when we talk about this topic, a lot of people just have the vision of the 21 year old girl dating a 50-60 year old man which are not the most common age gaps. When we talk about men going for younger women and women being attracted by older men, the most common scenario are women in their 20's going for men in their 30's and early 40's. And yes this tendency happens from the earliest days. Girls in school are usually more attracted by boys a grade or two higher, it's very rare that a married woman is the exact same age or older than her husbands, usually the man is at least a few years older. Plus, most women openly admit not dating men younger than them even for just a year of difference.

@Accentor100

Жыл бұрын

@@sarahrobertson634 Younger guys frequently get dumped for older guys.

@Accentor100

Жыл бұрын

@@sarahrobertson634 LOL It's amazing how some women like yourself who was not being addressed personally feel the need to try to convince a stranger on the internet.

@Accentor100

Жыл бұрын

@@sarahrobertson634 Well, best of luck to you LOL

@sleepfighter

Жыл бұрын

@@sarahrobertson634 The younger guys always dump the tramps who cheat on the older dudes cause they mean absolutely nothing to us lol😄

@sleepfighter

Жыл бұрын

@@sarahrobertson634 oh you ugly hoes care..you’re not fooling anyone..it’s too late for you skanks to change..might as well be sluts the rest of your lives 😂

At 26 I started dating a 19-year-old girl. She was madly in love, but the age gap actually seemed to be a problem in the sense that she was constantly insecure about how much further advanced I was in life compared to her (degree, adult job, knowledge, etc.) and felt incompetent. Despite her impressive efforts there was a gap in IQ as well, which didn't help her confidence either. So fellas, keep an eye out for those insecurities when you try younger women.

@manosijroy8282

10 ай бұрын

Do you feel 19 and 22 is as problematic as 19 and 26? I am a 22 year old guy and I like girl who is 19 so we are only 3 years apart and we are both in college and we tend to get along well and don't notice any difference.

@user-hl1ct3yh1r

10 ай бұрын

I can attest to this. I am a female and my ex partner and I had a 5 year age gap and I will admit I was constantly comparing myself to him. I now realize we play two different roles in life man and woman, but I’m too late. I’d say there isn’t a problem dating younger women, but keep in mind, they are most likely less experienced at life and serious relationships. They’ll also mess it up, a lot of times. I know I did. So make sure you have patience, compassion, and understanding. This is my opinion and advice as a woman who found herself in this sort of relationship and who’s still learning. Good luck.

@elise9537

10 ай бұрын

they dont get it.. older ppl fetishize younger ppl and use them as a social status symbol. for me its pretty clear that I need to date ppl I have a lot in common with and whos in the same stage of life as me.

@elise9537

10 ай бұрын

@@manosijroy8282 age is important yes because our brains, personalities, experiences keep developing. elderly men preying on young ppl is just a red pill trope. women who are chasing young ppl are not well intended, nice ppl either. from what I have noticed for a relationship to work you need to have a lot in common with the person and see the world trough similar lenses. dont wait till you are old and more accomplished to find someone fitting or some asian teen.theres going to be too many cultural, financial, perspective differences. figure out what you want from someone and dont date anyone who doesnt have empathy for others, dont have tolerance for stress and dont deal well with the realities of the world. never let your hormones decide who you are dating because once you are in that phase its going to take around 2 years to get over it ;) look up the science of love and attraction and never waste time with the wrong ppl.

@manosijroy8282

10 ай бұрын

@@elise9537 but I am just 22 and my crush is 19. We are only 3 years apart in age

I'm enjoying the content through a different lens .

I still think it creepy with maturity levels and also just the factor of power dynamics.

This comment section is giving me insecurity fearing that I would never be loved and cherished as I was in my 20s the same ever again when I get older, lose my shape due to biological factors, no matter how nice, decent and feminine I am to others. And I'm only 24 this year :)

@JimmyThePinecone18

Жыл бұрын

There is a time limit on everything. That is the brutal reality of life. No person is perfect and thus there will never be a perfect relationship. Make best use of the time you have, some opportunities are gone forever.

@NathanaelNaused

Жыл бұрын

Definitely not never. But it is true it gets harder as time goes on.

@shinobi_endure

Жыл бұрын

Yeah. That's pretty accurate. That's how life is.

@adamrandall5163

Жыл бұрын

It's all good, you have at least another 6 months before you need to worry - lol that is a joke by the way.

@user-dj4fd5vc6c

Жыл бұрын

Your newfound humility could turn out to be lifechanging. Most 24 year olds think the party never ends. When it does it isn't pretty. Plan ahead.

Very educational! Lesson straight to the point, with a dab of self esteem boost 👌

@emeow7426

Жыл бұрын

😭😂

@SuzyLemke

11 ай бұрын

Hi.. A real live woman here... here to tell you that Women in general do not like older men.. if u mean older than 3 years of her age.. We like to date men around our same age, whether that be within two to three years younger or older.. This is reflected in all the marriages out there where the statistics show that the husbands and wives are only a couple years apart at best. If u think a gal likes you and u r 5-10 years older than u r?? U r fooling yourself.. That is when she takes the liberty to try to balance things more to make things more fair to her so then she wants the old fart to make more money etc cuz she knows she is starting to get the bad end of the stick here in terms of inequality with the ages. Do you guys realize we think these things through?? We dont want the man to die ten years ahead of us and then we are widowed in old age. We think about this. We dont want the guy to not be able to have sex later on cuz he is so much older than us. We think about these things.. Wake up.. You guys tell yourself lies just to make yourself feel better.. When an older man by ten years or more looks at a woman we feel its creepy.. Its not fair to us since we are not gawking at men that much younger not because we dont think they are attractive, it just does not make LOGICal sense cuz of compatibility issues or simple fairness.

@omnipotentwiz5101

11 ай бұрын

@@SuzyLemkeYou have no clue what women want. You’re probably over 25. Most men want women that’s 21. 25 is old. Most 21 year old women want wealthy men, irrespective of their age. You sound bitter 😂

@SuperiorRobyn

10 ай бұрын

As a female this makes me feel suicidal. I mean I already knew this stuff. Everyone does but I have been thinking hard about it the past couple years. I am 28 and have never been in a relationship, I was raised VERY sheltered and was not raised to have good confidence or social skills and I have been very isolated I am very sad. Guys did not like me when I was a teenager, because I was biracial in a white community before it was considered “cool” and “attractive” like it is today. What about my self esteem?

@SuperiorRobyn

10 ай бұрын

@@SuzyLemkehe Max average age gap in america seems to be about 7 years. But these guys are talking more about dating girls who are 10-15-20+ years younger.

Excellent!

My 25-27 year old friends and I are NOT attracted to anyone over 32ish. If we date much older it is purely for money and we are so confident he’ll give us his money that we are willing to suffer the embarrassment of being with you in public- as long as it’s not around the guy we’re really attracted to.

@davepazz580

8 күн бұрын

I always have a good laugh when women say "If we date much older it is purely for money and we are so confident he’ll give us his money..." as if older men even care this is the reason... Once a man is getting sex from a younger woman, he's not going to care about any such motives... he's gotten what he wanted.

@MissMakeDo

8 күн бұрын

@@davepazz580 I guess you don’t realize men give some women money because they are TRYING to have sex with us. We choose to walk away once they start expecting sex. But if you find someone who gives you sex for it, why would we care? If you want to laugh bc you found someone with lower standards, well just laugh with (and at) you!

I’m 44 and I’m interested in a 26 years woman. We are both interested but already dealing with prejudice and toxicity from other people, including my parents.

@johngalt6838

11 ай бұрын

Do what you want...forget family, so called friends. But keep it temporary, never marry!

@jamesrick7351

8 ай бұрын

you parents are haters

@Johnny_Utah242

7 ай бұрын

@@peridotbeauty That's not the reason. I don't have kids. Ley me had another reason: Women, specially older ones don’t like it because they are seeing themselves in the past when they were young, and that their prime time is gone. And all this envy and prejudice without being interested in the man.

@laken1804

28 күн бұрын

No you are not that interested. You just want to flatter your ego. Otherwise you would not be here talking about other people. You'd be busy making the relationship work.

I'm 39. Women my age are on the verge of menopause. You can't start a family with a menopausal woman. End of story for me.

@joygibbons5482

Жыл бұрын

Really? I went through menopause at 58, no idea this happens to “most” women at such a young age.

@dion5804

Жыл бұрын

My mom went trough menopause at 57. Her last child was at her 48. My dad was already too old and they stoped to have sex after that. And my grandma had the last at 52 to 53. Maybe, it's genetics.

@82keiko

11 ай бұрын

I'm 41, so please talk for yourself, like we say over here; it will be what you perceive; see it as a start with experience of what & who you do not want. It's better to have no relationship than a toxic one; and there are lots of reasons why women haven't started a family yet at our age; like illnesses in the past, etcetera. Women our age can still start a family; do not start shaming-victimizing us/self. Not all men want someone who has so little of life experience; not all men are the same, just like not all women are the same. I have a babyface; that means I am 41, I look like I am 25, and I am still waiting till someone of about my own age starts a talk with me ;p I mean, if that would be truth, that they want a young woman, then why are only young men interested in me, because of my babyface (them thinking I am around their own age); people/men of MY own age stay on a safe distance because of my babyface; because they 'think' I am too young, but well, I cannot walk around yelling my age, can I? ;p Most people even do not believe my age, well, it's a kind of mess in a way. But people just seem to be shocked, and if they start talking to me, lol, then they say it's just so weird because they had prejudices. Well, hope I won't met a man of my age who thinks I am 25 and then is disappointed because I am not the age I look like... Well, wish me luck ;p Anyways, just keep the faith alive, do not kill your own chances; stay open, ready & willing to meet that one right person; we are in this together... We are worth it, we 'are' beauty no matter what society shouts, and thus we owe it to ourselves to continue to believe that it can still be done.

@immortaljanus

11 ай бұрын

​@@82keiko I hear you, friend, but women have a clock, whether we like it or not, whether they like it or not. If I want to have a solid relationship with a woman, I will want to court/date her at least for two years before I want to start a family with her. A 39-year-old who wants to have children cannot afford to wait for two years, her fertility window is closing too rapidly. I've known mature 19-year-olds and I've known immature 37-year-olds. Women who do not think ahead will only start thinking about long-term goals when her options start to deteriorate. I wish it weren't so but experience has shown me otherwise.

@82keiko

11 ай бұрын

@@immortaljanus So tell me about all of your experiences then, because you are not a woman, are you? You say it's the end of story for you, but you are then saying you are a man; well i am confused but it does not matter who you are ;p We are all in this together. But what is an immature 37 for you; how does that look like, maybe she was reflecting your wounds, and a 19 year old does not even know about life, let alone know who she really is, and what her wounds are... it's just a matter of time... for no one is perfect, and it's not about working at relating with others/partner, but with relationship with self; is a 19 year old prepared to work at herself? It's not only about your clock, it is also about your maturity. Healthy children doesn't mean a womb alone, it needs both parents who have first reparented themselves, so they are not still wounded that they mess up their children and make them sick, so afterwards, the next generation, has to hurry because of their clock ticking... because they became sick because of a messed up parental behavior towards them; i wish and pray that you find a very mature 19 year old, then. It takes more than your age for children to be healthy. I do not know how many women you had who were 40 and had problems with giving birth, but I do not know them personally. But I believe you are interested in people with a younger clock, and that's totally fine with me; each has to look for what he believes is more important in life: the age of the woman, I think it is more about the looks in first place if i read the general comments, not about the health inside and the future (because she TOO will age at a point); because you can look pretty and be younger of biological age but that doesn't mean you are healthier inside to deliver or grow a baby inside. I am not letting society tell me what to expect, but I understand if you are sure that a young woman will be better as a mother to your child and have a healthier delivery of it, one can only wish for but a body is more complex than that, and you do not see that with your eyes, you just hope you are right. But each must do as he/she pleases, I am not wasting energy at personal preferences ;p but I look young so naturally people of my age should be very interested in me, so in my experience only young men are interested (who think i am their age)... lol But please, be honest with yourself, do you want a younger woman because of her younger womb, of do you want a woman because you find that more attractive, or because society says that woman of your own age are boring like man of our age or what, just be specific (not for me, i mean, just for you to see what you find most important)... We don't have to hide what we prefer, we just should be honest with self, if we are honest as human beings with self, we can be honest with others too. It is as simple as that. I know enough women who are older than 40 so well, I you are scared of having a woman of your age giving birth, of find them unattractive, than i guess it's obviously better you look for a younger one who wants an older man. But to say that someone who is 40 is in her menopause already, well, that's like a societal idea of men LOL. Some women of my age, who have already had children, would love to hear that, to not have to deal with monthly inconveniences, you know; haha. Most important, but that is something personal, is self-love, so then you can have healthy love for someone else and not neediness; if children is number 1 priority, well, you could meet a young one who doesn't want or can have children as well... or who thinks; well, I am like you, I want to wait till I myself am 30 or 35 to start, because 19 is too young for me personally (for example) to start having children because you want them within 2 years... (like your clock is ticking, but the clock of a 19 year old might stop ticking for another 10-20 years and she will be still fine too... But hey, we do not have to make it that complex; let self-love lead the way... If people are meant to have children, that will come, and else we will have to accept it too...

Very interesting

49 years old here with a 34 year old girlfriend, I have little to no interest in women of my age , most are not in good health and are unable to keep up

the majority of the 25 year olds don't date 45 year olds, so the basis of the whole argument is flawed. If you sexualise someone that is closer to your father's age than yours, you have unhealed psychological issues. Likewise, if you are attracted to someone that can be your child, your are creppy.

@veronicalagor4771

5 ай бұрын

Exactly.

@TrutherOne-xv8nr7yj3e

5 ай бұрын

Everyone is different. It does not necessarily have anything to do with psychological issues. Some people are fatherless and childless; so the argument is misguided in that context.

Maturity is probably the biggest factor. A lot of young people are into the party scene and hookup culture. If a woman wants a long term relationship, the odds are better with an older man.

@carlosr192

3 ай бұрын

Old guys when they want a relationship...they want for real and know all the specifics of it. That's a charm. If this guy has some appearance, behavior and a carrier. They can get a 25 or 28 girl in any time of his life. And yes, no kids and traumas is a good deal.

@fingerprint5511

3 ай бұрын

Just because he has an old body doesn't mean he's mature.

@bobbob6743

3 ай бұрын

@@fingerprint5511 If he was he would want to date someone who was also mature. Not a young adult.

@Incel_81

2 ай бұрын

@@bobbob6743 I’m 42 and a virgin 😂. Was never in a rush to be in a relationship as I found no one I liked or any girl that liked me. If I had a chance, I’d be with an 18 year old virgin. Sue me.

@bobbob6743

2 ай бұрын

@@Incel_81 im sure your mentality has nothing to do with why women avoid you lol

I like as you get straight to the point.

Hahaha I love the way you said "it s because younger women like older men", you nailed it sir

@Sinsteel

Жыл бұрын

Right, because of course if the interest wasn't mutual, older guys wouldn't be attracted to young women, right?

@sirgalahad2

Жыл бұрын

@@Sinsteel Less would be for sure. If there was pressure to not do something, such as say 60 years ago being sexually promiscuous, significantly fewer people did that. Now that it's open or "there is interest on both sides" it happens much more frequently. Similar principle. There will always be those that do things. Let's take an extreme, rape for example. Pretty much horrible in most/all cultures and societies. Yet it still happens, be it rarely. If there was now "interest on both sides" as it were, there would be a massive uptake in rape. So to your point, if it wasn't mutual there would be a few that are still attracted and go after young women, as there will always be with anything. But the majority wouldn't.

@JudgeJulieLit

Жыл бұрын

@@Sinsteel No, many older men pursue younger women, despite the younger women's parries, expressions of nonmutuality of romantic interest.

@mongnhibaongo7554

Жыл бұрын

if he said it's because some younger women like older man it will be more correct, but what he initially said was wrong. take it with a grain of salt.

@elise9537

10 ай бұрын

yeah so gross lol

I've been tossed aside by my sons mother for a neurosurgeon in his late 40's. She would have never met him had I not helped her to enter her career choice by becoming the stay at home father. It has not been an enjoyable experience(I've separated from her, and now have a 50/50 parenting schedule), but it has given me insights of great value. I wished I could have kept the family together, but letting her use me in the ways she did was unacceptable to me. My father raised my sister and I by himself, and I grew up believing that I would not do the same to my offspring. But, life is both wonderful and terrible, filled with peaks and lows. I am still searching for my one and only to build/share a prosperous/fulfilling future with. Best of luck to all on their Journey here on Earth.

@elise9537

10 ай бұрын

You helped her find love;) are they still together?

@musashiwebb

10 ай бұрын

@elise9537 lol you're very subtle, Elise. I need a woman like you in my life. To answer your question, no, he used her(my ex) and is still with his wife and daughter(shocking, I know). Life's greatest lessons are best taught through living them. I'm grateful to have lost a woman who betrays her partner and now have found an entertaining one on a KZread comments section.

@levismirnoff5450

9 ай бұрын

Never raise a womans status to a point where she perceives yours as lower. Sorry, but that is just begging for it. Hypergamy is a bitch.

@musashiwebb

9 ай бұрын

@@levismirnoff5450 Indeed, this I now know well. Many things shall be different in my next(hopefully final) relationship.

@lydiabennett1780

9 ай бұрын

@@musashiwebb sry you went through that. I hope you find someone who appreciates you 🙏

Young women are sometimes mocked with their infatuation about boys, weddings, planning weddings, reading about weddings, etc. But it's somewhat physiological. It's the flip side of this video. Young women want to nail down a good man while they are still young, because they know that's their most valuable asset. It's radical feminism that is messing with this paradigm and causing a generation of single women to grow older and miss their opportunity. (obviously this doesn't apply to all)

@cutebasooma

2 ай бұрын

Most young women are married. It's your perspective of a young woman that's wrong. A young woman is a woman in her reproductive years. Not just women in their early 20s. You just want naive women because you're not family guys.

You're right sir. Thanks for the explanation and details

If you're a traditional Christian man...then younger women are (at best)...nice to glance at, think to yourself, "Wow, she's beautiful." and move on. My wife and I are very much in love. If she died... I don't see myself coupling up ever again. It would be a sign to me that I'm supposed to spend the rest of my days fly fishing. I can't IMAGINE trying to match to a "young" woman. She's almost assuredly going to want kids....and I'm done raising kids. She'll want "experiences" and travel and everything else that's busy and expensive. Me? As I get older I crave peace and quiet and familiar places and routines. Getting involved with a younger woman then would be nothing but trouble.

I read another perspective about this from a Psychologist who worked in Aspen. She said she saw a lot of wealthy older men with young women in the community. She stated that initially it worked out well but later the women seemed to feel like the men stole their youth and the relationship often ended.

@psychacks

Жыл бұрын

Not a lot of personal accountability in that anecdote. 🤔

@fionad6338

Жыл бұрын

Yes just happened to my dr. He married 30 yr old 25 yr dif. He had a health issue. not serious. woman saw writing on wall and bailed

@popejaimie

Жыл бұрын

@@psychacks young people make poor decisions and old people take advantage of them, who's accountable again?

@karllarsen8797

Жыл бұрын

@@popejaimie As if old people do not make foolish decisions. if you believe a 25 year-old woman is still not mature enough to make wise decisions, why not advocate for the age of consent to be lifted to 30?

@popejaimie

Жыл бұрын

@@karllarsen8797 wild response, as though I argued that poor decisions should be illegal lol

When I was 25 I met the love of my life, he was 63! I found him irresistible and he was wise and loving, he also had enough money to take care of me. I was totally fulfilled by the love and didn’t even care about much money anymore. I think the maturity and wisdom of older men is very attractive to some younger women.

@SharonElizabethWhitfield

Ай бұрын

Would you have fallen in love with him if he was only on Social Security?

@JackMason-oq8lf

Ай бұрын

If you didn't have that money, you'd care.

@user-wr2cp2ng2j

Ай бұрын

@@SharonElizabethWhitfield mannn 😂

@user-wr2cp2ng2j

Ай бұрын

​@@JackMason-oq8lf u never know

@vidaacheampong2563

19 күн бұрын

Key word MONEY 🙄

As an older guy in my late 40s I've dated women in their 20s or so for the past decade and it simply works great - they don't carry baggage, they're generally positive and excited about trying new things in life, beside the obvious attractiveness and fertility side. It's a win-win situation imo.

Im 34 and I discovered your chanell yesterday. I realized the reason (apart from curiosity)i attract guys younger than me and and guys my age or older is that I am just myself. I just do what I want. Its up to them to say no. I expect the same. Fair game. I just treat them how i want to be treated. Thats it. Thank you for sharing this. Its educational nad answered so many whys I have now.

Couldn't agree more. It makes perfect sense 🙂

@Jonslying

Жыл бұрын

When I was 25 I loved men my age. You should listen to women more instead, I wouldn’t have ever traded a young man for an old one.

@nstar1372

Жыл бұрын

This is so true! It makes perfect sense for me to go for older men for what they can provide.

@cutebasooma

2 ай бұрын

@@nstar1372 Money

Very true! Always dated substantially older and never cared what anyone thought!

That makes sense!

When I was in my early twenties, I went with men much older than I was and it was because I was, frankly, super shy. I mean painfully socially shy - trying to speak to a guy my own age was really difficult because I was so intimidated esp. if he was good-looking. With older men, I didn't feel that intimidation because honestly, it sort of just felt like being with my dad. And they were so happy to be with someone much younger that I didn't have to do anything aside from be young and pretty. I didn't have to try or impress them in anyway - my youth itself was enough to make them want me (although, of course, I didn't realize that at the time.) Sometimes I do feel like I kind of wasted my youth in those types of relationships, but, then, we all do the best we can in the end...

I expected nothing new and had my jaw dropped when he said it

@psychacks

Жыл бұрын

That's my mission with this channel: to help you see the world in a slightly different light.

Reading this comment section, or in fact any comment section, makes you realize how many people believe their version of reality is the only reality. "I don't like dating older men, therefore that singular data point proves all women do not like dating older men." Sheesh.

@Ascension_3030

Жыл бұрын

its solipsism, not their version of reality

@dion5804

Жыл бұрын

Statistically, they are correct. Most marriages or relationships don't have more than 3 years of age gap. Makes sense.

@ty3901

10 ай бұрын

@@dion5804h these young girls are getting pounded by older men everyday. Who gives a flying floppity about the marriage gap as if those married women are all virgins. I think whos fucking outweighs the importance of whose marrying. Considering 50 percent of Americans are unmarried and 50% of marriage’s end in divorce anyway.

@jamesrick7351

8 ай бұрын

@@dion5804 for average folks yes but not for handsome successful men the men these women want

@dion5804

8 ай бұрын

@@jamesrick7351 Those are a very small minority of men and the women that they attract are with them because of their money or status, sadly. As soon they become ugly, ill or poor, they will regret of these marriages or relationships. Even side mistress can become real nightmares and ruin the life of their children as well. I watched this happening sometimes when I worked in upper class hospital. It's not pretty to see.

When people have the most options their true aspirations emerge. Jordan Paterson concurs. He noted thats why in the most equal of societies the differences in gender career selection widen and reinforce traditional stereotypes.

Agree thankfully.

I was a virgin until the age of 26 - and after that womens interest in me went way up than when i was in my early 20s. I dont even look THAT different, but typically date women 4-8 years younger than me after my 30's

@psychacks

Жыл бұрын

There's a reason female interest in you significantly increased in your late 20s. I'll discuss more in a future episode.

@TM-tw1py

Жыл бұрын

Enjoy it my friend - and if you are single, it just keeps getting better as your wealth grows.

@ACruz-kq9di

Жыл бұрын

Careful! The rational male discusses this exact dynamic; men who start getting attention at around age 30 and women who start hitting their "epiphany phase" right around age 26-30 who seek this demographic of men. There's a very real reason for this; they're trying to cash in their chips before time runs out. My advice; don't date women over 25 (yet).

@Alex-wx8be

Жыл бұрын

@@psychacks Which video is that?

@johngalt6838

11 ай бұрын

Which proves the point women do NOT want inexperienced, virgin men.

The reason is very simple in terms of evolution. Women have a limited fertile age range. Men have to accumulate resources and status to support women during childbearing and rearing. In the past high child mortality meant that neither sex had the luxury not to use the woman's limited fertility window to its full (8 to 14 children was normal), hence men's fertility window extends much longer than women's.

Hello Mr. Dr. Taraban, thank you for your content. Do you think, there is causality between high bodycount / promiscuity & ability to pair bond - especially for women? And are there some scientific studies about it?

I’m 33 and my boyfriend is 63 and he’s CEO

@afghandiamond1225

3 ай бұрын

Omg don't you guys have fights?

I've been on both ends of this. I dated women 20+ years older than me, and now I'm with a woman 17 years younger. It happens. But I know that even though I dated older women successfully, I'm in the minority of men. Overall, younger women are simply more attractive, and many women don't wanna hear that. Though it's as basic and as true as saying that humans have two arms and two legs.

@mario-off-topic

Жыл бұрын

When I was 23 I had a sexual relationship with a 42 year old women. When I was 31 I had one with a 19 year old. A lot of different variations in between as well. I see the whole thing more from a orgasmic point of view. Younger women are better of with an older guy because he can hold back better and goes more for quality than quantity. An older women has enough experience with her own body, so she can catch up easier with the younger and more aesthetic younger guy.

@JudgeJulieLit

Жыл бұрын

And conversely, biologically younger men are more attractive, energetic, stronger, humorous, up to challenges and life positive than older men. In nature wild animals by instinct mate with their age peers.

@paulnicolas172

11 ай бұрын

Definitely younger for me and at 54 let’s face it few women are attractive at my age unless she’s a celebrity or takes good care of herself and makes an effort so I think it’s justified . Id rather be alone and buy a girl if I have to than be with anyone just for the sake of it .

@H0lolo

11 ай бұрын

@@JudgeJulieLit so why don't woman prefer younger men why do women mostly prefer older men

@JudgeJulieLit

11 ай бұрын

​@@H0lolo They don't necessarily. But for either sex who cares about soul, intellect and experiences, cultural alignment and compatibility, long term that factor rules, and complementarity of skills brought to the relationship. Younger people can be attracted to older who seem to have life and its issues figured out and solved. And people, depending on their life emotional histories, may prefer either a parent or child role.

This makes sense, I am 42 and dating a 28 year old Woman, so far we mesh really well!

@r.s.4174

8 ай бұрын

@@peridotbeauty When you lived in Asia like me, you will widen that gap to 20 years or so.

@r.s.4174

8 ай бұрын

@@peridotbeauty Of course. You would date a man 20 years older than you. Not uncommon in Asia.

@sneksteppy

7 ай бұрын

Lol, come on bruh, stop being so obtuse. A 28-year old is not being chased after by Chad. You're just getting a used car with 60,000 miles on it rather than 100,000. It's literally nothing to brag about.

@ohtaesvn

5 ай бұрын

​@@sneksteppyno wonder you have no game cuz you compare woman to objects , cringe

@wowzersfyi

4 ай бұрын

@@sneksteppy LMAOOOO no wonder there was a male loneliness pandemic 💀

It had to be said and it was said!

I think there is also the fact that a younger woman usually comes with less bagage in the relationship. Wich makes it way easier..

My moms husbands best friend married a very young woman 20 years young and she actually chased him. He was totally creeped out by it at first but where shes from its normal so she was like wtf why wont you date me 😂 anyways now theyre happily married. Men arent always predators in these cases or bad guys looking for 20yr old 🐈 to ruin

So true. Most relationships have the older male younger female dynamic. It was like that even in high school. Girls preferred seniors. I like women in there mid to late 20s and I am 36 about to be 37.

I think this may be the case when the women don't have money. The women I grew up with were career women and had their own money. They expected a handsome man about the same age. They were just as shallow about looks as men.

@psychacks

Жыл бұрын

"To want" means "to lack." So it makes sense that people want what they don't have, and to want less what they do. That said, by the time career women (or career men) come into their own financially, they're generally already in their early 30s. It's also important to understand that older men don't simply represent the possibility of access to greater resources. Older men typically have established lifestyles, emotional self-control, sexual experience, communication skills, etc.

@cathyosullivan718

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the clarification!

@leyland2725

Жыл бұрын

Usually the men that careerwomen want don't want them back

@ln5747

Жыл бұрын

*Expected* but don't get or keep for the long term. Peak men won't want them later.

@hilarygibson3150

Жыл бұрын

When I went out with MrG (23 years older), I didn't have any money. He'd just been made bankrupt and was losing his home. Money was not a factor!

I’m 25 years older than my wife during our first year together I asked her if our age difference was an issue for her. She looked at me like I was crazy and just said it doesn’t matter I love you, I never asked that question again lol!

@fuiruy

6 ай бұрын

DAWG 25 IS CRAZY YOU WERE GRADUATING HIGHSCHOOL 7 YEARS BEFORE SHE WAS EVEN IN THE WOMB

@freakyfornash

5 ай бұрын

WARNING! WARNING! PEDO ALERT! PEDO ALERT!!!!! 🤣 (L.O.L.!)

@user-fy4kq2us6i

Ай бұрын

Hi, I am age 65 and I’ve got a 30-year-old girl after me. She’s gorgeous. And she says and ask if I would be loyal and dedicated to her alone. Now that is a big age difference there my daughter is 35. I don’t know what to think of it. She’s wonderful to talk to beautiful, but I don’t care what people say. I really don’t care you know I mean people talk no matter what And the ones talk only other ones who are envious. But it’s a big difference. I just don’t know about that one.

@varmastiko2908

Ай бұрын

@@user-fy4kq2us6i What's the problem? People shun it because they are jealous and/or ignorant about the facts of life. You don't have to worry about the gap being too big. The only worry should be that she is already past her prime and whether you are OK with that or not.

Me, a woman, whose husband is 2 years younger. Needless to say this is true. Younger men probably only like women older than them because of the stability and maturity... or so I've been told. Needless to say they've "found out" that they like more younger/youthful women. Ouch, but the truth hurts, that's how it is.

@cutebasooma

2 ай бұрын

And do most women prefer men as old as their fathers or so? The answer is no. Ouch, truth hurt, but that's how it is.

Correct!!

my Father is 13 years older than my Mother. we had a happy Family growing up. They are still together for 30+ years!

I don't think women like men who are a lot older than them generally speaking. There is data that shows this. I'd say on average they do like men a few years older than them, and this changes to skew towards liking younger men once women are somewhere in their 40s. Again, data shows this when it comes to online dating

@cutebasooma

2 ай бұрын

That's the most realistic comment

I am 32 and my wife is 19, and I am happy to have her.

@GreatRetro

Жыл бұрын

You lucky bastard! ^_^

@the_alchemist7824

Жыл бұрын

Can somebody say Paedophile??

@fij715

9 ай бұрын

What the fuck 😂😂😂😂 how the fuck did her father allow that?

@SirineMenia

3 ай бұрын

That just screams Arabic vibes Im fine with it though hope you're both happy

@Pilot-Ali

3 ай бұрын

@@SirineMenia It is a general vibe across every culture of men. However, in some cultures they’re shamed for it, but in general every men wishes to have a younger female partner.

Tbh, young men are more attractive than older men, I'm a 21 yo girl, it's just that guys my age can't provide the lifestyle some might want, so some find the stability that older men can provide attractive, but in terms of physical attractiveness, young men are very attractive than older men.

It is what it is.

BASED AF

I remember being told by women 2 years older than me that I was too young for them in my 20s

@sneksteppy

7 ай бұрын

Bruh, they were too polite to tell you that you're a solid 0/10.

@OneOneThree-wl7ml

7 ай бұрын

@@sneksteppy rest assured plenty of women have told me this too

@OneOneThree-wl7ml

7 ай бұрын

@sneksteppy up vote this comment to give me some uncurable painful illness on Christmas

27 dating a 19yo. She's aware theres a gap in knowledge and experience of certain aspacts buts shes willing to learn 🎉

Answer: youth denotes fertility & healthy offspring. The neotenous phenotype evolved alongside this. This is not only exclusive to looks, but is also present in behaviors as well.

I agree. At age 45, I married a beautiful 27 year old woman. We were both at our peak attractiveness according to the factors laid out in the video. Fortunately, my wife is more mature than the average 27 (now 30) year old, so the relationship is still strong. We have our moments, which probably owe to the difference in experience and maturity, but overall, we are still very compatible.

@leoMC4384

3 ай бұрын

Congratulations. I'm almost 40 and I'm looking for a woman between 27 and 31 with no kids, for something serious, maybe have kids in the future. My father met my mother (17 years younger than him) and had me in his 40's. 😊

@Michelle.A79

Ай бұрын

Until the younger wife cheats on you when you’re too old!

@anthonyperrault4969

Ай бұрын

@@Michelle.A79 Men seem to age better even though women live longer. Men in their 70’s can still attract younger women. Women in their 60’s and 70’s are still looking for men in their 70’s and 80’s. When I’m 70, my wife will be 52. Who’s she gonna cheat on me with - another 52 y.o.? No, because attractive 52 y.o. men are looking for 30-year-olds.

@Michelle.A79

Ай бұрын

@@anthonyperrault4969 Jejeje not anymore! That’s not the case I know heaps of women who have cheated on their older husbands! And no women who’s 30 would go for a 50 year old man unless she’s a mail order bride.

@anthonyperrault4969

Ай бұрын

@@Michelle.A79 Women cheat on their husbands no matter the age of the husbands. Propensity to cheat has little to do with the age of the partner. And it is not true that the only women dating men 20 years older than them are “mail order brides.” Maybe you should try dating someone significantly older than you. I think you may be surprised. I don’t know how old you are, but I can tell you that I have more than enough life and energy for my wife and young child. In fact, my very physically fit wife would admit that she has a hard time keeping up with me, not the other way around. But I’m still very youthful, athletic, and fit for my age. And I have no major medical issues. A prototypical 48-y.o. American male is fat, but it’s not the prototypical ones that are landing the young hot wives.

And when youre cashed up , you have no problem .... after health, money is EVERYTHING.

From a pure Psychological standpoint this makes a lot of sense.

I work for Me-too! I also have been a therapist for 30 years women do not want the older counterpart it is only to come into reality when we become their caregivers, realize yes the lie that they accept older men when they are young, but they get old too, so they shoot themselves in the foot and need to stand ground that after ten years that is so much incurring differences. Very rarely you will see such age difference on both sides that are satisfied, other than sex!! and the younger women/man, will want some of your pocketbook. Let's face it if you want to say women do not look as attractive, you have to turn it back to the men, who age faster and look like a decaying piece of flesh. NO I am not angry, I am very real and find it hard to see other who do not stay informed, aka prehistoric values of men, visual, natural, that has been debunked for years and is not true, it serves as the men in power who write these statements for their advantage. No I am not embarrassed I am older; I look better than a twenty-year-old, but that is not the point it is for me! I shows me men bitch far more than women if they have to keep up with these statements to try and convince themselves I am no old, women are. Wake up old geezers! We like to look at young handsome studs too, but I have more of a chance then you. so do you women stand up!! Young women who play along I blame you as you will seal your fate when you become thirty and older, this is how these type of men think

@brandneu6439

8 ай бұрын

You dont sound nor write like a therapist.

@duncan18663

22 күн бұрын

tldr

@FriendofDorothy

19 күн бұрын

You are a therapist? I don't know what your verbal communications are like but your written communication needs some serious work. I had to work to decipher what you are saying. Proper punctuation and grammar help. I take it you are warning young women not to get involved with older men as they will only end up being their caregivers up the road. That can actually happen at any age. If the love is not very strong the younger person will sometimes ask for divorce or otherwise flee. Consider character before getting into ANY relationship, look deep, not superficially. Thank you for working for Me Too. I am a male who experienced abuse as a child and sexual harassment (twice) in the workplace as an adult. Yes...men get sexually harassed and abused too, not just women.

I have never ever heard a woman say she prefers older men. The only reason women I know would date an older man is if he has money.

@davepazz580

6 ай бұрын

Never judge what a woman says but what she actually does... Money/status = attraction because the end result is identical...

@davepazz580

Ай бұрын

@RanabirDan-op7un "Physical" attraction to a woman includes his social status and financial power... Gene Simmons of the rock band KISS is one of the most physically ugly guys ever, yet he used to have long lines of women waiting for him outside his dressing room following KISS concerts. And in case you are wondering, these women weren't there to just shake his hand and get an autograph if you know what I mean... So you can call this "physical" attraction since they were all interested in Gene Simmon's "physical" body, but the man is very hideous by most standards of beauty... But the truth is without his *status* and *power* as a rock star, *none* of these women would be lining up outside his dressing room... For women "physical" attraction takes into account a man's financial ability and social status... never think otherwise.

@RuinMassia

Ай бұрын

You’ve clearly not spoken to enough women in your life

@mariaalzova5131

Күн бұрын

Are you kidding?Men are perverts and women are Goldie. You just freaking assuming. No woman won a sleep with man who's his father's age. You are delusional.

I’ve tried to explain this to people (women) before. With no luck

I agree

I am 60 and quite successful. I find it amazing that women in their 20's seem attracted to me. This video really sheds some light on that subject.

@sundown6748

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂 Absolutely no way

@TerriBrereton

Жыл бұрын

They are attracted to your money. Nothing more and nothing less.

@dianemurray6550

Жыл бұрын

You can't possibly be that clueless. Not unless it's critical to your ego to gaslight your own self.

@mugojr4766

Жыл бұрын

@@dianemurray6550 this sounds like a jealous comment

@dianemurray6550

Жыл бұрын

@@mugojr4766 you sound like someone who's ego is dependent on believing that catfish you've been "loaning" money is actually a beautiful young woman with sincere interest in your broken down husk.

This isn’t always the case… sometimes it’s a 20 yr old woman and a 30 yr old man who makes her believe he’s responsible and “adult” but he’s not and she was too young to understand and there is a major unbalance of power and control

@deadcell1

10 ай бұрын

The exception is not the rule.

@LorenzoMasterConnector

9 ай бұрын

Who cares. Women make men believe that they the one and only and then cheat on them when the woman is young and the man is young. There’s an imbalance of power and control, so it’s equality. Men should have there fun now too.

@anastasis-cm5hw

8 ай бұрын

@@deadcell1most age gap relationships are statistically much unhappier. It's just a fact, sorry

My gf for the last four years was 28 and a 10, and I’m 62. I’m planning on hooking-up with a 30 yr old 11. Life is sooooo good at this age!!!

Studies show when there's more of a 6 to 8 year age gap, relationships have problems because of generational differences.

@psychacks

Жыл бұрын

Hm. Do you have a citation for this? For me, a generational difference would be closer to 15 or 20 years.

@mindsstalker

Жыл бұрын

I guess you meant "when there's less than a 6 years gap ..."

@saintoflastresorts2272

Жыл бұрын

@@zxcbxfjyj423 but most relationships fail

@saintoflastresorts2272

Жыл бұрын

@@zxcbxfjyj423 why are you too lazy to cite our sources? If you can type you can cite. Having people look it up leaves things up to chance.

@lorrilewis2178

Жыл бұрын

@@psychacks I know this is an older video, but I'm surprised that you as a mental health professional are not aware of studies showing that the closer the couple is in age, the greater success of the marriage. I didn't even go out of my way to look that up. I ran across it by accident. If I recall correctly, even a small age gap was less successful than if the couple was the exact same age.

How very interesting! My first husband was 15 years older than me, I was 27, and he was 42. I felt safe with him and admired him for his accomplishments. We also shared the same spiritual path and were serious about it. As time went on, however, he started to remind me a bit too much of my parents with his attitudes and even his physical appearance. He was locked into some beliefs about being a man that made him inflexible in his career, and I think it killed him (he was only 57). My current husband is only 9 months older than me and, in many ways, is a much better fit. We married in our late 40s and have been married 17 years and have known each other since high school. Are you familiar with the work of Dr. Patricia Allen? Some of your words make me think you knew her or her work.

@marioandultrachap

5 ай бұрын

Sounds like he just lost his stride for the most part and that's why you left.

@karenwhite7747

5 ай бұрын

Hi Mario, no, he got sick and died (he was only 57), but if he hadn't, I don't think the marriage wouldn't have lasted much longer for many reasons. The age difference was only one factor.

I watched this one podcast and the guy said something very very very interesting: he said that ONE of the many reasons why most men go after the younger woman is because she makes his sperm still feel potent and still can make babies. i tried to put it as best as i can, but you have to hear him say it. It was mind boggling. He explained it so elequent.

@cutebasooma

2 ай бұрын

So that means if an old man marries a woman in her 20s, she will give birth to celestial creatures or something?

@user-fy4kq2us6i

Ай бұрын

@@cutebasooma OK everybody. I am 60 foot four years old. The girl that I’m currently speaking with is 34 years old. But we’ll see where it goes. I would not be comfortable with dating somebody that’s 27 because all they’re gonna do is eat pizza and hang up all night and party, come at night I’m gonna go to bed. But that’s OK. Some women emotionally can handle a mature relationship other women not so much. I think it truly depends on the two people involved. You can love it any age. You can fall in love at any age. If a man looks good. He feels good about himself at his age and a younger girl is attracted to him and she can emotionally handle the relationship. I think it’s a beautiful thing. If we look back in the Bible, a lot of older men married younger women. They really did, so ages just how do they put it just a number

@hillarybillary21

16 күн бұрын

@@user-fy4kq2us6iThe fact that you’re 64 thinking that you should be going after a 27 year old and listing reasons why the young 34 year old is better for you, is disgusting. Are you a multi Millionare?

@hillarybillary21

16 күн бұрын

The largest group to produce autistic children in recent studies are older men with much younger women. What you wrote is a fantasy.

Time a precious commodity.

I don't have a problem with negotiating one 10% allocation to whomever my chosen "big guy" may be as long as all non-negotiables are met.

Women are also visual and also choose men by appearance. And I don't think women like older men. Instead they like money, and young men usually haven't had time to earn it.

@francisbureros

Ай бұрын

Not necessarily. Women fall in love with their ears. If a man says the right things, no matter what age, she's still prone to falling for him.

@chicolofi

Ай бұрын

@@francisbureros Provided the man has the looks that attract her, you're correct. If he doesn't, she won't feel anything for him, regardless of what he says.

@francisbureros

Ай бұрын

@chicolofi If she's a shallow woman, yes. But it's not the majority. I know plenty of beautiful women that are with ugly looking men, and no, it's not bc they're rich.

@chicolofi

Ай бұрын

@@francisbureros Ok, I believe you. Just for curiosity, which country do you live in?

height also plays a biig difference.. my cousin stands a full foot taller than me.. wherever we go and we are with another woman, the amount of times I catch them looking up at him with "dove' eyes makes me wanna throw-up lol

Lol the title says it all

Happier, energetic, and open to learning and new ideas, Oops and not so jaded!!

The fact that something this basic needs to be explained is amazing. The cognitive dissonance older women use to make themselves better the second men have the advantage in desirability is pathetic

@Sinsteel

Жыл бұрын

Right, but this still amounts to women getting "stuff" from men, without having to do anything to earn it, and men, once they get enough "stuff", they can use it to attract young, greedy women. Except what if by the time you got all this "stuff", you'd rather pull your own fingernails out than spend it on greedy gold-diggers?

@elise9537

10 ай бұрын

you go oldie... hit on them younglings and see how their dad reacts :)

@Propofol1234

9 ай бұрын

@@elise9537 Mad post-wall woman detected hahaha

@elise9537

9 ай бұрын

@@Propofol1234 Failed man who made the ideology of the unwanted his whole identity detected.

@Propofol1234

9 ай бұрын

@@elise9537 CRY more- I'm a successful doctor and I only date women 18-23

This is fair, my only concern is, what about growing old together? Will my spouse will still be attracted to me? I don’t want to question if my special other still has feelings for me after being together 20+ years

@elise9537

10 ай бұрын

If shes a woman no a guy yes.

@Largo1845

3 ай бұрын

I friend of mine met an almost 30 years older man. They were together for a couple of years. After a while she wasn't attractive to him anymore bc he was old and it started to show.

What do I think? I love it I think it gives a lot of men hope and determination to make something of themselves once they understand the game.

Harsh reality then that, if lifelong love grows between them, once she's 60 he dies💔

I’ve always preferred younger men ever since I was 16!! & they seem to like me as well 😊

@guya5352

Ай бұрын

You have no brain

Point of correction some young women might go for older men because of resources, money