Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world.
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How many boys are raised by single mothers with little or no male influence? I taught our homeschooled son a lot of things, but there was absolutely no way I could teach him how to be a man. His dad was the one our son had to learn from. I am grateful to have had a wonderful husband. He was delighted to have a son. And it showed. You simply can't teach a child something you know zero about. And this isn't something you can research and learn in order to teach. In my opinion, saying we don't need a man to raise a child, that we can be both mother and father to our children is one of the most destructive and harmful feminist lies out there. But one nobody dares mention. I'll likely take all sorts of heat for saying it, from single mothers and the children they raised. I know everyone does their best.
I used to wonder so often why my ex would intentionally start fights with me and seemingly not even 30 minutes later become aroused and start flirting with me. Absolutely mind boggling revelation.
I must be dreaming. Someone is actually advocating for men. All my life I've heard about what a raw deal women have. The lady doth protest too much methinks.
This all nonsense. Go out and talk to people. That’s why they’re asking where did the good men go. They’re in their apartments and houses moment they get off work. They’re at home. 😅
Guys... Doesnt matter what the situation for women is. The majority are never satisfied. You cant fulfill or understand a mind that is not in balance with itself.
So make your partner feel anxious and insecure. Awesome plan!
Ladies, face-to-face take a long look into the vanity and repeat after me: "I am not as great as I think I am. The universe does not revolve around me. When I am gone, life will go on. No one will remember me." You're welcome.
“Undifferentiated Warmth.” Wow. That’s just €£¥•#%* great! 30 years of my life could’ve been different.
you dissected the problem very well but i didnt find the solution very clear. can you suggest the first step in recovering from this weak shit
That might be true, but ultimatums have generally been held as emotionally abusive for absolutely as long as I can remember
I love this one ❤
Being enough for high value woman is death to yhe children, thats science thats entropy thats being educated and giving a dam with more than a brain steam.
Hypergomy try entropy 😂
Lol I think if a girl/woman really likes a guy, then all those criteria are out the window, including the six figure income..
Hmm i will say one thing to this. Matyring yourself shouldn't be high on the list of situations/ways for you to express love. Defeat your ego, sure. But dont degrade or kill yourself (unless its a life and death situation..very rare). Also, how can you defeat your SELF, then be loving to someone. The whole beauty of showing love is that..as crazy as we are as biological animals, if we are able to be loving..what a feat that is! It is despite the SELF, which makes being able to show love..beautiful. It is transcendance above..not defeat of the SELF. Its probably just symantics between my interpretation and Orion's explanation, i feel like we are on the same page anyway
Talking to women about female things is boring (specially if that's the only conversation topic); and yet, if she doesn't care nor is interested about my things (nor wants to learn), is she really making an effort to have something we can talk about? It's not about what she knows, it's about how far she is willing to go so we can have something to talk about, we as guys do it all the time, do girls do it too?
You are like a father figure man
Sounds tiresome and tedious...
In the debilitated despair of my situation my co-star arrives
This is deep
Thank-you.
You've succeeded in describing me for many many years, until few months ago when I sat my ass down and asked myself tough questions, that's where I realised I was always too fast to invest my emotions, for every girl, I would already have planned a family with her before knowing her
Totally agree. Also I would rather not do a thing if I know that it will go wrong some steps ahead. Btw I think a am a pato perfectionist too
Serious question. How do women love, then? Given that love is for the person itself, whereas women are motivated otherwise. Can any ladies explain?
Funny… because it’s the Barbie dolls that came with everything. How they got it… idk, but Ken dolls never came with too many big accessories of their own. Ken didn’t get his 1st car til 2012. So imagine generations of girls growing up thinking it’s their Barbie world. Trained from their youth to be spoiled. The psychological expectations came from so many sources. This is just one of them…. Very Interesting.
This is good advice for men who are bad at choosing. As someone who spent 10 years as a recruiter though, this still doesn't guarantee that you'll hire the right person. 😂
This is the most eloquently put solution to having a wonderful relationship - with one - or many cats (women) in your neighbourhood. Thanks Orion!
"Single mothers are low value." Well.....now no one really wants to have your children. Why are we still talking?
The only thing I fear more than rejection is if she is actually NOT rejecting, then I am stuck with arranging dates, trying to be cool, say funny stuff, but I know full well that its only a matter of time before she finds out she can do better, so approaching is lose/lose for me
I agree with all your videos, Dr Taraban, excellent. However, majority of the ladies who think that they are ‘hard to get’ will curse your teachings. They prefer to learn it the hard way.
this guy is great
First time I've watched your program. The best information and advise ever.
Fantastic work by you here. Content is engaging, just long enough to stay with it on a busy day. Camera shot is clean and very well framed. As a content creator myself I recommend a teleprompter placed in front of camera with a mirror kit or just under the camera. It is distracting to see you read way below the camera. This not a critical issue just a recommendation. Enjoy your day. Thanks for sharing the videos.
Dear doctor, perfectionism is exhausting, painful and debilitating if it is undertaken in order to meet other people’s expectations and participate in the rat race and one-up-man-ship in struggle for survival in a hostile, competition ridden environment. The Darwinian struggle for survival is true for our biological reality, but our human nature thrives and progresses on collaboration, cooperation and solidarity Perfectionism is fascinating, exhilarating and highly rewarding if it is engaged towards the betterment of mankind which is the true purpose of our short lives in this world. The quest for excellence is the motivating force behind all individual and collective progress… not by trying to surpass each others, but by making each day better than the previous.
I think most people who do arts for a living have high self esteem, and I'm trying to be that person!
And he'll cheat with his ideal woman.
Kenneth Branagh doll has spoken.
So am i to understand that men only want one thing and women want Everything "!!!😂
gAs Alexander Pope said "Whatever is, is right".
I live in a small town. People are average. Is the rest of the world not average? In my world beautiful people are on Tv
Do or do not, there is no try.
Just listen to: ‘Be easy’ by Sharon Jones and you’ll understand the science.
😂😂😂😂😂500
So what you’re saying is the woman has to be perfect-void of any emotional problems void of any expectations void of any boundaries and needs. Just be there to be his doll. Sounds like perfectionism and fantasy.
The first few comments are what my wife thought they were. I should have just done what she asked. I always pushed back and let it affect my ego. Now I miss her to death!
Who said anything about starting a family? 😅😅😅
👏🏼 yes! More please 👏🏼
This might be accurate for most people but it missed one key thing…. You’re assuming all women are worth the time and effort and men should just take whatever washes up. I go on first dates particularly expecting to have an ok time and to become uninterested in the women I’m on the date with. Maybe everyone else is just looking for a warm hole, but to me most women aren’t worth a second date. I’m a weird guy, I get along with most people but wouldn’t want to date most people either. Sure, if I’m just looking to fk than this is great, but that’s just depressing. I can masterbate alone for much cheaper with much less time and effort, even if it feels better for a few minutes to use one another for this carnal pleasure.
Shit. I got exactly this signal and wasn’t able to comprehend. Better next time.😊
Imagine if you paid top dollar for a luxury vehicle and then you find out that you’re the 10th owner and one of the previous owners even wrecked it, several owners paid a reduced price. Now you feel bad about the price you paid and worry that the previous damages may affect it later.