why i'm a loser today, but wont be tomorrow...

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im at a stage in my life where i feel kind of lost, so this video was meant to just organize my thoughts a bit to let me rant about how ive been feeling recently... hopefully my thoughts will help you guys out one day too.
if you like this kind of content every like, comment, and sub means the world to me, id love to keep making videos like this one.
if you liked this video you might like some of my others:
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  • @liamthetree
    @liamthetree3 ай бұрын

    something else i love is listening to people talk about their passions. although history is something i find boring, studying history is my grandfathers greatest passion, and i could listen to him talk about history for hours and hours. when someone is truly passionate about something, even if its super simple, its so intriguing to me to listen to their expertise about whatever they love. what are some of your guys passions?

  • @frwwvess

    @frwwvess

    3 ай бұрын

    I completely relate! My uncle is also very knowleageable and intered into history, sometimes when we sit alone, and something about a topic like ww2 or something, i always like to listen to him, we'd talk for hours sometimes, we still do, just not as much :/

  • @Beaddu
    @Beaddu3 ай бұрын

    This video was just recommended to me. And I'm glad I found it. I think I will be visiting your channel more. In my case I could say I'm the opposite at some of the points you stated. Im the one that tells his friends everything and finds it hard to keep secrets. And it bothers me alot. I always try to force myself to shut up not tell them every single little thing I do. Because this also affects me negatively like if I was planning to learn something and I tell my friend im gonna do that I then feel a fake sense of achievement and just stop. This aside. I like the style of your video and I'm sure I will be around in the future.

  • @liamthetree

    @liamthetree

    3 ай бұрын

    i can relate to that a lot actually... when i was first learning music production i would always show my friends stuff i made from samples and they thought it was cool, but i didnt really put in the effort i should have. im a lot more reclusive now where i kind of just grind to myself, none of my friends or family irl know about this channel

  • @Vago_76
    @Vago_763 ай бұрын

    Hey man, I just randomly saw this video and thought it was great, I love your look on life and actually talking about your feelings because I know for many people talking about their feelings is very difficult and I applaud you for being able to do it. Keep your head up, you got this.

  • @liamthetree

    @liamthetree

    3 ай бұрын

    talking about my own feelings is still super difficult for me, but thats also the whole reason this channel was created. im treating it almost like a journal so that on days im feeling down i can come back to my own thoughts and try to reground myself. thanks alot for the kind words, really glad you enjoyed the video

  • @kenma6673
    @kenma66732 ай бұрын

    Difenitly a very interesting video. While and after watching your videos i thught about a couple of things, which i think mitht be interesting for you to hear. Firstly im interested as what do you think makes someone a loser. I would say its someone who is unhappy with themselves / not at peace with who they are. You talk about potential and being good at something but for me that isnt necessarily a criteria that makes someone a loser or not. I think someone who ist just average but has a lot of self worth and who is comortable with who they are isnt a loser. But for example I am not happy with who i am also having an identity crisis and feeling lost and I want to be a different kind / better person and would therefore describe myself as a loser. Also I think a lot of people that would say they are losers struggle with is just as you say "feeling lost" but I think its quite hard to find something you love and that really improves your quality of life. Often while being at a very unhappy / dark place in life there is no such thing as "just doing something". Also im not sure if "grinding something" is the best approach. I definitly agree that it is important to grind somewhat, especially if you start at zero, but im unsure if being really good at something is the key to happiness. As an ex-League player i am curious if you reaching challenger an having put effort into it and knowing that you indeed reached you potential would make you really that much happier. Although i guess its more about how much value you give it because even if it wouldnt mean anything to me, it really could mean a lot to you. Looking back at something and thinking that you could have done so much more is for sure a very shitty feeling, but I think its often about how much value you give "being good at something". I would argue that there are a lot of things in life where its for a lot of people way more enjoyable to just be casual instead of being very good at it. Its important to be proud of yourself with what you have achieved and what you do and that can include just being mediocre and being very good at something. Also I think grinding the shit out of something you love might not be the best approach. Firstly, how do I grind the shit out of watching the sun rise if it is something i love? There are things which you cant really grind in my opinion. Secondly, I think grinding can ruin something you love. Being very competitive and trying to get as good as possible can create a lot of pressure and can ruin hobbys which you love. At the end of the day its just about what value we give to being good at something and therefore about how proud we are with where we are in life. I want to thank you for the video because it has made me think about this and maybe this helps me going forward in my journey. I hope you can take something out of my comment, that broadens your horizon and also helps you.

  • @EarthrealmWarrior
    @EarthrealmWarrior2 ай бұрын

    Not doing something and then realizing you missed it is the worst feeling. I am 22 and i love science but for SOME reason I ended up taking commerce after 10th grade and not after 5 years when I am done with college I hate it and i have no idea what to do. I also feel lonely at times. No friends or a girlfriend. I don't know 22 might be too young to ask for a girlfriend... anyways thanks for making this video

  • @liamthetree

    @liamthetree

    2 ай бұрын

    everything gets easier with time. i made all my friends just thru playing the games that i love like minecraft and league of legends

  • @EarthrealmWarrior

    @EarthrealmWarrior

    2 ай бұрын

    @@liamthetree well I have a hard time with people but i guess I could try that. Thanks

  • @JamieDombroski
    @JamieDombroski2 ай бұрын

    loved this video. you are obviously a smart and talented individual. you will succeed, just keep on keeping on!

  • @liamthetree

    @liamthetree

    2 ай бұрын

    i really appreciate that bro! thanks so much

  • @Deggo
    @Deggo3 ай бұрын

    this video is going to blow up my man get ready

  • @liamthetree

    @liamthetree

    3 ай бұрын

    thanks a lot for watching

  • @SociallyAwkwardYT
    @SociallyAwkwardYT3 ай бұрын

    Hello! I’m really happy I found your channel and I really appreciate the video. I resonate with you and your thoughts. I used to bottle everything up and I wouldn’t talk to people about my problems but certain people in my life now are really good at listening to my problems and helping me figure things out. My dream job is to be a full time content creator, I’ve made a few videos and some shorts but I am very inconsistent and don’t regularly record. I livestream and used to do it pretty regularly but I stopped for a few months and I feel like I can’t get the same momentum I used to have. I am in the process of trying to stay consistent and be more productive instead of waiting for perfect timing or not getting up and trying. My vision of success and happiness would be to have a strong community of people where I make memories with them and I can make an impact on them and their lives and to make a living from making content. My passion is for learning about video games and knowing all about my favorite games which are Minecraft, Grand Theft Auto, Call of Duty Zombies, and Project Zomboid just to name a few. I’m very excited to learn about game mechanics, tips and tricks, and stats. I love my family and video games of course and watching KZread. I’m glad I was given the chance to see your video. If you ever do need advice or someone just to talk to I’d gladly talk to you. 👍

  • @liamthetree

    @liamthetree

    3 ай бұрын

    yo thanks for the thoughts! i love project zomboid too btw i have like 300 hours on that game lmao. But yes just like with anything in life, its all about consistency. hitting your goals will happen slowly and day after day as you see progress, you will push yourself further and further as you start to understand your own creative limits and ambitions. You got this

  • @SociallyAwkwardYT

    @SociallyAwkwardYT

    3 ай бұрын

    @@liamthetree thank you so much I really appreciate that! I decided I’m gonna try and post/stream every month and at the end of each month I’m gonna do a growth summary and show how many followers/subscribers I’ve gotten and how appreciative I am of it all, I like seeing stats so I thought why not compile it all up and maybe other people will like seeing my stats lol and That’s so awesome you have 300 hours on PZ I only have 100 and something but I love how detailed the game is! I haven’t survived that long but I’m always trying to push forward lmao.

  • @znv2008
    @znv20083 ай бұрын

    4:14 Life is like that, sometimes good things happen and sometimes many bad things happen. You might even lose someone very close to you suddenly. Life is full of obstacles; we have to find the best path, but then another obstacle comes, and we have to choose a better path. Don't worry, just try to fight and find the best road. But remember, this road will also have dangers, and you have to find a way to survive it.

  • @liamthetree

    @liamthetree

    3 ай бұрын

    thank you for the kind words, it really means a lot to me

  • @znv2008

    @znv2008

    3 ай бұрын

    @@liamthetree No friend, it's okay. I have lost many people myself. It's hard for me to trust anyone. But welcome

  • @frwwvess
    @frwwvess3 ай бұрын

    Hey, you know, i completely relate on most if not everything you said in this video, especially with life, where you're kind of just.. living, and to those questions you gave, id ask you a question like "what if you dont have a particular passion" or something like that. And as for the not knowing if you could have achieved something when you had the chance to but didnt/couldnt, i comepletely agree with you on that. Also, i really like your voice man, its really calming in a way Just to add: Im really looking forward to more videos from you, and as fqr as i know, i am better at giving advice than asking for them, unless the advice im asked for are things i aslo struggle with 60% of the time

  • @liamthetree

    @liamthetree

    3 ай бұрын

    finding my passion took legit like 20 years so i get this completely. I always felt so average at everything in my life until i discovered esports, specifically league. challenging myself to face adversity and push my rank higher and higher really gave me a lot of discipline and confidence in my ability to learn. and then figuring out how to help myself helped me learn how to help other people which is my other huge passion. thats why im so excited about making content like this. i get to play games and give advice to the best of my ability. glad you liked the video :D

  • @znv2008
    @znv20083 ай бұрын

    You're not a loser, you're just lazy.

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