let me know what you want to hear me talk about next

Got this recommended to me when I felt incredibly lonely and a bit sad and only went on KZread to just do nothing for a while - Sometimes the universe works in mysterious ways

@Roham3

2 ай бұрын

Or just your device is spying on you (Just like myself)

@chrislubko1141

2 ай бұрын

@@Roham3 Nuh-uh, ignorance is bliss! But also, I didn't say anything out loud unless they can finally read my feelings and thoughts

@Roham3

2 ай бұрын

@@chrislubko1141 did you text someone about it?

Crazy how I got this video in my recommendations right after a break up

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

hope u doin okay bro 💙

@Roham3

2 ай бұрын

@@liamthetree I've never felt this much of freedom in my life Thanks for asking bro💛

Relationships are really hard. This year I'm deploying to the middle east, (Combat Medic in the US Army) and just less than a year ago I shipped off to boot camp. We've gone through a lot of emotional hardships and a lot of emotional trauma just within the past 8 months and arriving to my 1st duty station and the next morning being told I'm deploying.. it was been really hard. Relationships aren't for the weak-minded. But that doesn't mean you can't get into one. I've had the most fun with my girlfriend, and seeing her ever so often reminds me of the beauties of being in a relationship. Through thick and thin, her and I have been together. We're closing in on 2 years in 3 months. I've been the happiest with this woman. Although it's really hard, I know it's going to be worth it and seeing her smile. Anyways, being in a relationship is not bad; especially not when you've found the one for you. Stay safe you all!! Chose your partners wisely (or not), as it can really do so so much good for yourself :)

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

thank you for your service! really glad you liked the video thanks so much :D

I think i needed this in a weird way, thanks. I'm scared to get into a relationship with this person but after watching this, I've come to realize that in the end, no matter the outcome, i will grow from the experience.

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

really glad i could help

im in a very rough spot in my relationship right now. its all been making me so nervous and anxious to the point i've gotten sick. ive never seen your videos before. never seen your channel. haven't even watched a minecraft video in weeks. seeing something like this makes my day a lot better. keep doing what you're doing

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

that makes me very happy that i could help even just a bit, i’m rooting for you bro you got this

Chill music, nice builds, life changing topics, great video!! also,for the people out there not seeing how impactful this video is, I say "life changing" as in it could actually cheer up people and even advice them. Imagine someone wanting to end it all after a breakup and seeing this video. It would help them deal with it, not only with the video's message but also with its nice and calm atmosphere.

I thank the algorithm for taking me to you

Been going through a divorce after 5 years of marriage. A marriage that started on the basis that, in my mind at least, being married would fix me. Big surprise, it didn’t. Thank you for this video

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

i hope things get better. thanks for enjoying the video!

damn, this deserves more views

As someone who has never had a girlfriend and is about to graduate, I've seen all of my friends hook up and get together while i sit on the sidlines. It is the worst feeling to see everyone you know move on without you. I feel stuck and like im falling behind and will never catch up. I have 2 loving parents, 2 pets, grandparents are all alive and 4 great siblings and yet, i feel like im at the bottom of the mariana trench, i feel so so so lonely. I understand that you havr some insight into this mattrr but i really hate people saying being single is great bc those people never had trouble finding a relationship, they havent gone their whole lives being cast aside by anyonr and everyone. Sorry for ranting have a great day everyone.

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

i understand how you feel because i was there for a long time too, it really wasn’t until i started to really really focus on my own self improvement that things started to get better. i started running, going to gym, writing my thoughts down, i started to gain confidence and felt stronger, and then i started to make a lot more friends and socialize a lot more which finally lead me to relationships and more friendships. it sucks at the start but if you get even 1% better every day after 100 days you are double the person you once were. you got this bro i believe in you, you can do great things

@arti15f

2 ай бұрын

​@@liamthetree sorry to butt in here, but ig other person wont mind if it was 11 days with no replying... it can be pointed out that you have taken care to do this self-emprovement while still amid your teens - it is accepteable time to make mistakes and then improve. but for someone approaching 20, or even mid 20s like me to be still in need of such improvement is completely another degree of failure. much harder to make up for and to get over, much less possible to excuse it. it would seem so, at least. age is REALLY important in regards to this topic and there is extreme difference between teens and 20s.

I'm turning 28 and I'm happy to say that I am one of those people who is now in a happy relationship for the past 5 years. We're currently trying to buy our first house. But my happy time now came at a cost of a lot of self-discipline, patience, grinding and a lot of emotional suffering. Yes, I have also experienced crippling heartache and loneliness in the past. That kind of pain was what pushed me to better myself and look at relationships differently. I am a complete different person now, and for the better. Tough experiences forces us to change the way we think and act, so we adapt to the world. Some turn to bitterness and isolation, others turn to adaptation and reap the fruits of life. My advice to you younger boys and girls is to understand that life is not all about having a good time. It is about also experiencing the bad and trying to turn those bad experiences into positive opportunities. It's thanks to my ex that I now know what I do and don't want in a partner. It also taught me the fundaments of how women think and act. And this helped me by not repeating the same mistakes with my current partner.

@liamthetree

Ай бұрын

couldn't agree more. if anyone cares this comment is really worth the read^^^^^^^^

@andnowyouknow3363

Ай бұрын

@@liamthetree Thank you Liam, looking forward to more of your awsome insights

I’d rather remain single than waste my time and money om relationships

I recently realized I'm aroace, but before finding out anything like that exists, i was confused. Everyone had or still has a partner, while i just ignore everyone, reading a book or drawing. This video made me realize, that its ok. Thanks, i'll probably watch more of your videos :D

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

glad you enjoyed it! thanks for watching the content :)

Honestly, I've enjoyed being single for years. Some flirting, extras & situation ships here and there... It's only since this year that I'm thinking... Something serious, something lasting would be nice. But I'm not near a stage yet where I can have all that. So imma focus on myself until god decided otherwise.

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

i wish more people had your mindset. very wise words

@Waryfuls

2 ай бұрын

I've wished that it was difference but after everything that happened. It's the only option and solution left.@@liamthetree

I really enjoy your content, especially the way you do it. Nice strong topic/storys over calm music and building. There is alway option to keep you in the background and just hear all of it and brainstorm My suggestion for the next topic would be: habbits to make your days better Keep up the good work and stay strong

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

love the idea and thanks so much for the kinds words. really glad you enjoy the content!

Thanks for posting this..I rarely comment..but good job lad

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

thanks so much i really appreciate it

Thays a good way to think about it man. Thanks for putting this out there.

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

thanks for watching!

At the end of a long day, it’s nice to be able to listen to what you have to say. Thank you for this.

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

thanks for listening!

I've moved a bit past this message myself also, buts its really, really true. Anyone listening to this, you can definitely take some positive messages from this. Always remember that not everything will work for everyone, and you should take the things that help you feel stronger from these messages.

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

thanks for the kind words, so glad you enjoyed the video

I just wanted to say that these videos have been pretty life changing for me. Lol I didn't know a guy on the internet could change my mind so much. As always your content is great and keep up the great work.

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

super glad to hear that, i love helpin anyway i can :)

Could you talk about breaking up a friendship? There's not much perspective out there and i think you could have some experience to share

@bottleofcat

2 ай бұрын

Breakup a relationship? Just stop talking to them especially if they are far way but if you live close ir see them in person just say you are not as interested but give like 2-3 complements then say you just wont be able to talk or play with them anymore it worked for me multiple times so up to you if you would like to handle it that way 🤷‍♂️

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

sounds like an awesome idea, i’ll write some ideas down about this one

If you don't mind venting... Basically I fell behind very hard in life, compared to what is average progress. Recenty I turned 24, but only experienced one long-distance relationship, two dates, and several fruitless chats with girls, with all of this being confined to 2023-2024. Before then my romantic experience was practically non-existent. What I want is not just to find love, or more friends. I strongly feel that missing out on relationships(and more active friend-making than I did) in crucial periods such as final years of school or early college left a hole in my life that nothing can fill. Like I am not even fully human and whatever I achieve starting today, however great, is simply not enough to ever be as goo as guy that was popular athlete in school and dated at 15 or 16. To me everyone who had this experience in youth seems superior even if he peaks in highschool but spends rest of life as pathetically as possible. Now I do want to leave this all behind and become more normal via active self-improvement. But regret over lost years is so crushing that I dont think my life can be freed from that failure or that I can ever be truly happy. How would you have gotten out of this condition?

@arti15f

2 ай бұрын

To clarify, I am not a *complete* failure in socialising. Time when I missed out hard on normal development i around 14 to 18 but otherwise I usually was on good terms with others and maintained alright relations with whoever surrounded me in shool and college. My problem is that it was all superficial, so I probably never had a really close friend after 16, and there always seems to be some invisible barrier between me and everyone.

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

everyone feels like they have wasted years, i think everyone would rewind time and do everything differently if we could. my advice would be this, maybe you did waste some time but you woke up today and decided that you wanted to change, you can stop “wasting” time at any given moment and lots of people waste time until their 30s or 40s so try and feel grateful that you are looking to improve yourself today when others don’t realize the need to for years and years down the road

@arti15f

2 ай бұрын

@@liamthetree I can agree to this in principle. But there are extreme differences between people that miss out. Someone who was star of his class and schools champion in some sports may want to redo small thing about his life but as a whole he is happy with his path. But others fail so hard they would prefer to rewrite life entirely. These two examples are definitely not same, I think.

Honestly after having been in a two year relationship with someone incredibly clingy I can safely say I prefer to be single than. That way I get to sleep with who I please.

Such a good and wholesome video

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

really glad you enjoyed it!

why is this a minecraft video but thanks

Yesterday, I decided to end things with her, I already regret it, the 29th was supposed to be our 6 month, but I hate myself already for it, I feel like she is the one even though we both have issues, I never see myself with anyone else, she hates me. I'm trying to fix it but it's stressful and I feel sick

@liamthetree

2 ай бұрын

sorry u going through a tough time bro, if you want any advice just let me know

@rollinbasshead

2 ай бұрын

@liamthetree I could use some, we broke up, but I want her back so much, I've made mistakes before and I was rude and didn't show her as much love as she did me, I really want this to work but I can't stop myself from thinking about her and I can't stop texting her when my dad is giving me advice and saying text her only once a week I just don't know what to do 😞

@rollinbasshead

2 ай бұрын

@@liamthetree if there's any way I could personally contact you, like email or discord or something, I just don't know what to do. Do I move on? I think about it a lot and I try to but I wake up the next day with feelings of fixing it again, you seem really smart and I'm just someone young who is trying to work something out with someone who wanted to get married at one point

@rollinbasshead

2 ай бұрын

@liamthetree actually, she ended it all with me, we are completely over now and no going back, if I ever go back she needs to change and I deserve better and she blocked me, you were right man and I appreciate it 😊

Don’t do content too much if you don’t feel like it. My advice

this is why being aroace is helpful

ooga booga

Don't know this channel, but my advice is to start taking tren and get a boyfriend

@mystifoxtech

2 ай бұрын

blåhaj moment

cope