A girl asked me out once. I married her.

@A-N-X-I-E-T-Y

4 жыл бұрын

@Ben Rosen someone's miserable

@wiktoriakohman2200

4 жыл бұрын

Stop making me think that I can ask him out 😫☹️🙏

@magicallydelicious1673

4 жыл бұрын

wiktoria kohman GURL YOU ARE BETTER THEN THAT! Know you’re worth more then that! ❤️ You deserve happiness and a chance just as much as anyone else in the world! Go ask him!!! 👏💞💖💕💝💗 The worst is rejection, and if that happens I’ll invite you to a youtube chat and I’ll be your new therapist 💗💖😜

@techvirus

4 жыл бұрын

@@magicallydelicious1673 I might need therapy too

@techvirus

4 жыл бұрын

@@wiktoriakohman2200 you can. What holds you back?

"Guys love the chase" No, we don't. Sincerely - a guy.

@tonychapman5753

4 жыл бұрын

I hate the chase so, so much

@SchuylerT.Colfax

4 жыл бұрын

@@tonychapman5753 Same here! I don't chase women either, especially when you find out she's leading you on or just using you. It would be much simpler if women would be more open about thier interest in a guy and ask him out. These females love to talk about 'liberation' and their dislike of 'traditional gender roles' but they still want men to perform thier 'traditional gender role' and do the asking-- and paying-- for dates. The want 'equal treatment' but not equal responsibilty.

@henrypeters5291

4 жыл бұрын

EDIT: Sincerely-EVERY GUY

@tonychapman5753

4 жыл бұрын

@@SchuylerT.Colfax When someone says, 'guys love the chase,' I hear, 'I only date men who are so attractive they think women are a game.'

@Jose_Doe

4 жыл бұрын

Who thinks that honestly? Hell if we're going by stereotypes if anything its women who love the chase.

No man enjoys “the chase.” We hate when women play games or try to send vague signals instead of just being clear about their interest.

@MatthewCoast

3 жыл бұрын

Speak for yourself, bro.

@f.p1758

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@AnUnknownPlayer.

3 жыл бұрын

@@MatthewCoast he isn’t just speaking for him though lmao, most people said the same thing in the comments.

@1986Martinez

3 жыл бұрын

@@MatthewCoast You must not be sane nor sound.

@SerifSansSerif

3 жыл бұрын

Men are simple creatures. Why make things difficult for them with games?

As a shy guy, I approve of this message 👍

@benrelsdale4530

4 жыл бұрын

Me too. It's so hard to ask someone out if you're shy..

@A-N-X-I-E-T-Y

4 жыл бұрын

@@benrelsdale4530 It's always hard

@xxfri3ndlykill401

4 жыл бұрын

Yep me too👍

@gabenewell3955

4 жыл бұрын

Ezequiel Renovato being good looking and shy is a curse

@markgery644

4 жыл бұрын

I'm shy too and I've been asked out twice and said yes to both. And I'm like a 4-5 on a 1-10 scale of looks. The confidence of the woman asking me was a turn on that made me want to give them a shot.

A girl asked me out once, then I woke up

@christianwood1891

5 жыл бұрын

NANGSTAGRAM TV i was asked out by 2 girls at the same time im not even kidding you

@Likeabossmanbro

5 жыл бұрын

'Guys love the chase' ... I don't even chase my liquor. 🥂

@sasquatchycowboy5585

5 жыл бұрын

I had a hot girl asked me out once, I brutally rejected her in front of her friends. Honestly I thought it was some kind of setup, and she was going to make fun of me. To be fair I was 17. Needless to say she never asked me out again, or spoke to me again, or was willingly in the same room with me again.

@BRBallin1

5 жыл бұрын

2 girls asked me out. 1 of them I didn't even know who she was and she asked if I wanted to go out upfront. The other girl was not good looking at all

@rc-pf1wq

5 жыл бұрын

thas tuff

Girl: *stares at me for 0.00362 seconds longer than a regular look* “well i gave him a chance..” Me: excuse me???

@philippmeyer1240

4 жыл бұрын

Im Thrillz A female friend of me told me how she got the tongue of of stranger put in her mouth without any talking because “she gave him a look”. She was just looking around the club, looking anyone in the eyes. Maybe those two should meet

@ShenLong33

4 жыл бұрын

Basically.

@Zankokurai

4 жыл бұрын

thats literally what happens a lot of the time too

@nickbailey9442

4 жыл бұрын

Yip totally or the girl gets mad and found out later cos she wanted to go out. I would never be rude to a girl asking me. Would be really nice actually.

@CdrChaos

4 жыл бұрын

Girls expect guys to have a masters degree in telepathy from Xavier’s School for Gifted Youngsters.

WHat'S ThE WORST that CAN hAPpen!? for someone who's terrified of commitment, I'm terrified they'll say yes.

@bladelazoe

4 жыл бұрын

Well, if you are scared of commitment, if you get a yes, then dive right into it. Learn as you go. You'll never get over your fear of commitment unless you face it head on.

@fabrizioayala7938

4 жыл бұрын

Cant tell

@anenayar1995

3 жыл бұрын

one of the best comment

@hiro2protagonist

3 жыл бұрын

It’s a date, not a wedding proposal. You can ask em out, & then tell em u want to take things slow. Casual with no commitment or expectations until the next discussion. Further, u don’t ever have to commit. Poly and/or open aren’t my thing, but people do make those choices. Idgi, but if ur afraid of commitment you could always try it.

@Tondadrd

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, afraid of commitment (not being good enough for it) & if she says no. So either outcome is terrifying, yes & no.

I was chased by a girl once - when I was in 3rd grade at recess.

@sharknadofartquake2449

3 жыл бұрын

Lol same and her name was/still is rachel but then she let me know she doesn't want me playing with her anymore at recess so I stopped going near her.

@Nom1fan

3 жыл бұрын

Still more action than I got in years haha lolmao .. *cries in forever alone*

@infernolord6786

3 жыл бұрын

What is up with 3rd graders and chasing each other. My sis is a 3rd grader and she is always talking about chasing boys at school. funny huh.

@akumabazooka9169

3 жыл бұрын

Yup Year 2 (grade 2) for me, that was the last time ever. I'm 25, laminated v card, alone forever, no self esteem or confidence. Never been on a date or anything in relation to dating

@infernolord6786

3 жыл бұрын

@@akumabazooka9169 sad, wish u luck

If a woman asked me on a date I would say yes to her just because I'd be impressed by her courage. A real woman gets what she wants!

@ChaddyFantome

8 жыл бұрын

+Tomáš Jeziorský This person knows.

@ASFALT21

8 жыл бұрын

+Tomáš Jeziorský Even if she's fat and wears those tumblr feminist glasses? I doubt it.

@AeonFlexMusic

8 жыл бұрын

+Tomáš Jeziorský You're a bitch

@ChaddyFantome

8 жыл бұрын

***** If every women thought like that about guys asking them out, we wouldn't exist as a species.

@ChaddyFantome

8 жыл бұрын

***** This is 2016 tho, where the population is already too big as it is and relationships not based around reproduction are at an all time high. When the coding becomes obsolete, it gets dumped or rewritten.

I tell my female friend to ask guys out and they say "the guy is suppose to ask". Usually I reply with a joke like "So you basically you want the power to reject people." or "And that's why your alone".

@awakenow7147

7 жыл бұрын

Solid response!

@Heleen452

7 жыл бұрын

Yep!! Hate that all the guys are supposed to do it. Girls always have such bad responses as why the guy should do it.

@awakenow7147

7 жыл бұрын

Heleen X5452 Seriously. As a guy, I think it should go both ways. Some girls and even some "gentlemanly" guys act as if we're still operating in the animal kingdom.

@midnightiscool7447

7 жыл бұрын

I argree!! girls should ask guys out too

@marlom7882

7 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU finally someone said it

Can confirm, I asked my boyfriend out cos I really liked him and I had a suspicion that he liked me too but he's a shy guy so it had been months and he never really made a move, so I asked, he said yes with no hesitation and we've been together since.

@yono5373

4 жыл бұрын

Emma McLean whoa 😳 I envy you, how did u gather the courage to ask him out??

@humanyoda

4 жыл бұрын

And is the relationship good, Emma?

@enniswhalen2428

4 жыл бұрын

@@humanyoda - Would love to hear from Emma McLean on that . . . .

@nobodysperfect06

4 жыл бұрын

If only that happened more often

@KefKedes

4 жыл бұрын

Now thats the right move. Most people unfortunatly got NO IDEA how hard it can be for a "shy guy" so to say. To ask a girl out or even go after her at the first place

Speaking as a guy, yes. If a girl asks me out...I’m almost certainly going to say yes. I’ve been on the other side. I know how hard and vulnerable you are to do that. What happens after that date, only God knows, but I’m always gonna say yes to the initial ask.

@moominmay

3 жыл бұрын

That’s really sweet of you 😊

Women hate being approached by dudes all the time yet expect all men to make the first move. You rag on men for being upset about being rejected yet none of you ever have the spine to approach a guy. For once I agree with Anna.

@sayit8ntso

8 жыл бұрын

+zawarudo Well said.

@ELdASenSei

8 жыл бұрын

+zawarudo They expect the leonardo dicaprios to make the first move. That is why I am forever alone. fml =[

@shermaine9624

8 жыл бұрын

+zawarudo Women hate being approached by *dudes they don't like*. They want men they do like to make the first move. Both are different things.

@WarHawk215

8 жыл бұрын

+zawarudo They expect you to make the first move when they like you, also I'm assuming you're referring to guys randomly approaching girls they don't know which is creepy unless you approach them with an expensive car and model's body.

@whyisthisathingnow...

8 жыл бұрын

+ELdASenSei But he never gets an oscar :(

"I can't handle that kind of rejection" WE HAVE TO FACE THAT EVERY TIME Dx

@vallorio7421

4 жыл бұрын

I had to laugh when I heard it like: and we‘re supposed to handle it or what?!

@anyomations3997

4 жыл бұрын

I know, right!?

@T-Bone99

4 жыл бұрын

Coded Sky best way to play it off is to say; hey it's all right, take it as a compliment and have an awesome day! Or when they hit you with the boyfriend line, since you wanna play it cool whether she lied or told the truth just say; Oh sorry, well he's a lucky guy that's for sure, i wish you guys the best, have a great day! By playing it so cool and relaxed they're kept wondering if perhaps they should've said yes like; that guy handled it like a pro, he was really nice about it too...maybe he's cooler than i thought at first? Just think to yourself: As soon as you say "hi" you won. Whether she says yes or no. If she says yes then getting her number is just a BONUS to your approach. Going on dates and so forth is just a BONUS to you approaching her. Don't misinterpret this btw, it's just a way to completely take away any fear of rejection by having this mentality before approaching. You're thinking you win by saying hi, so walking over and doing so already makes you a winner. She said no? You still won. She said yes? Well that's a bonus to you already winning.

@treacherousjslither6920

4 жыл бұрын

@@T-Bone99 What did you win?

@lindarojas734

4 жыл бұрын

My condolences brotha, times are changing tho!

Damn I feel so badass rn because I just asked my guy friend out yesterday and we gonna see each other tomorrow!!! He likes me back btw

@ShenLong33

4 жыл бұрын

Update.

@akemi2929

4 жыл бұрын

updaaate!

@anisaali6792

4 жыл бұрын

update???

@dobromir90

4 жыл бұрын

Update?!

@dobromir90

4 жыл бұрын

@Catholic Faith Dan She has left us on such a cliffhanger.

When i was in high school a girl asked me out and then she said “just kidding” ever since then i’ve had trust issues

@TIC4848

3 жыл бұрын

Oh, wow, that was so mean of her. :'(

@jaguarsmith546

2 жыл бұрын

that happened to a friend of mine in highschool by this girl that was in our friend group. he and a lot of people thought she was serious, she wasnt, ruined their friendship

@ultimobile

4 ай бұрын

be grateful you dodged a bullet with that mean and nasty beaitch

we need more women like you.

@Squarion

8 жыл бұрын

+Mr. FunTuber pls

@MrTriplej79

8 жыл бұрын

Woah jae didn't expect to see you here👍

@naz_deante5795

8 жыл бұрын

yep

@bryantwilliams7149

8 жыл бұрын

yeah

@nightsbeatswitchgood

8 жыл бұрын

True

I've asked a few guys out and it was TERRIFYING. Most of them rejected me, but I'm glad I did it. Now, I'm not afraid of rejection. Asking someone out is still scary, but I'm more inclined to do it now.

@ZixerBunny

8 жыл бұрын

+tallasianchick awesome that you tried, now you know how a guy feels when he tries to ask you out :)

@ordinarytree4678

8 жыл бұрын

+lee yang isn't that usually the reason guys are rejected too?

@leeyang1972

8 жыл бұрын

Jaunty Spider no. women don't judge a guy by his look, like men does. women judge a men by his status or what she can get something from u.

@Narmina46

8 жыл бұрын

+tallasianchick I asked a few guys out, they agreed to go on a date, but I felt that they did it just not to make me feel bad, so I said thank you and moved on. Just a few days ago we celebrated our first anniversary with my dear husband whom I also asked out! Actually, I am a shy person who doesn't have much friends, but sometimes I just feel like doing something decisive or extraordinary for me and its pays off!

@ordinarytree4678

8 жыл бұрын

lee yang If you were to choose between your average joe and you're equally-wealthy average joe who's a bit better looking (ignoring personality for arguments sake), its a pretty simple choice for both genders. But in the end I don't like generalizing this much. Hookups are based on physical traits but lasting relationships are of course more situational. In the end though, everyone likes eye-candy. If you don't believe me look up some buzzfeed videos with naked men and look at the comments.

"Guys love the chase" Are you kidding? The chase is easily the worst part, rejection being the only real contender for worse. Guys only do it because they think girls like to be chased.

@gilesscanlon2586

4 жыл бұрын

True !

@claytoncourtney1309

3 жыл бұрын

Guys do it because they do not have the female privilege of waiting.

@TaiChiGhost

3 жыл бұрын

@@claytoncourtney1309 I've spoken with a fair number of women on this topic (waiting) and they REALLY don't like it. How many?? I worked in a busy, inner city hospital from the time I was 23 until I was within a month of turning 70 (thanks to covid19.) LOTS of girls there ...

@memali2939

2 жыл бұрын

Hypcrite

@spqdallas

2 жыл бұрын

Guys do it because the survival of the species depends on it. It is literally in our DNA.

I once asked a guy if he would be my boyfriend... he’s my boyfriend now and we’re nearing a year of being together ☺️

@SchuylerT.Colfax

4 жыл бұрын

Good on you! And him!

@enniswhalen2428

4 жыл бұрын

L R - And you LIVED?

@weirdtyler4932

4 жыл бұрын

The league of men salutes you

@lindarojas734

4 жыл бұрын

Ennis Whalen I most certainly did. And very happily :)

@lindarojas734

4 жыл бұрын

Arinzé Ononye nice

If a cute girl asked me out I would need a very good reason to say no because that kind of open desire is as hot as it gets. Even if they stammer and mumble through every word, that would be endearing in its own right because it shows that they are willing to step out of their comfort zone to get me...best compliment ever. Guys...If a girl asks you out, give her a shot...not a commitment...not a week or a month...just a cup of coffee...get to know her and see how she makes you feel. Worst case, you can both have a good conversation and build up each other's confidence before leaving to find other fish in the sea. Best case...She blows you away with her awesome personality and her choice to ask you out becomes the best thing that ever happened to you.

@DrewShrock1

8 жыл бұрын

I literally think the exact same thing. You could not have said this any better.

@unknownwatcher7851

8 жыл бұрын

what if she is crazy

@hiro2protagonist

8 жыл бұрын

demon fox pends on if her crazy works well with your crazy. If she drives you crazy with desire and a manic determination to be a better man, and figuratively set the world a laze in glorious energy, it's all good. If she drives you to punch holes is walls, snap at each other, and literally set the world on fire...you are not right for each other.

@gotmilkjoe

7 жыл бұрын

I was twelve and I threw a fit about respecting values.

@kentreborn2027

7 жыл бұрын

But what if I am also crazy?

I think most guys don't like the chase, if a girl plays too many games we are more likely to find someone else.

@jojobaggins9224

8 жыл бұрын

+Francisco Ramirez I agree. "The chase" is not fun, it's annoying.

@madd5

8 жыл бұрын

+Francisco Ramirez pathetic loser

@pasheg4345

8 жыл бұрын

+Francisco Ramirez Not to mention that this kind of games is typically futile (for a man). If a woman plays those, more often than not she just loves mens attention and would do it pretty much with everyone. Of course, it typically goes nowhere or ends with a 1 night stand at very best. If a woman likes a man, she normally makes it clear one way or another. Even if she's shy - it just will be done in a different manner, but still pretty openly.

@ryanciani3324

5 күн бұрын

im not playing mind games. saying boys like a chase is ridiculous. im not gonna chase some girl who doesnt make effort

I'm not shy, I just always default to "she probably doesn't wanna be hit on right now"

@hmb8801

3 жыл бұрын

That's a harmful excuse

@dreuk_tv

3 жыл бұрын

@Ugly Inferior Disgusting Subhuman #5'6 manlet be his wife's boyfriend ;D AHHAHAHAHA

@lapris7380

3 жыл бұрын

Just send signals and if she responds to them well then you’re good because if I like a guy and they don’t show any interest at all I try and get rid of my feelings especially if they are a friend because I would rather have them as a friend rather than not at all so send good signals because it helps

@yummyfunnybunny5167

3 жыл бұрын

I just go with "she'll file a sexual harassment charge and ruin my entire life. So nah not worth it."

@hmb8801

3 жыл бұрын

@@yummyfunnybunny5167 So do you try online game instead ?

Summary! 1. What's the worst that could happen? 2. Don't waste time 3. Missed opportunities (you'll regret not taking the chance) :)

@enniswhalen2428

4 жыл бұрын

i c - Does not work that way. The profile from this end is that the guy has NO regrets since he dodged a bullet.

@NewMusicWeekly

4 жыл бұрын

2:12: 4. You get to pick anyone you want, not just from among those forward enough to ask, which has an oversupply of 'holes.

@jokertheinsaneclown3136

3 жыл бұрын

The worse thing could happen is damaging your self esteem and questioning your worth. But I agree people should take rejection better.

@urdadsonic1036

3 жыл бұрын

what if you lose them tho

@Lucid5630

3 жыл бұрын

@@jokertheinsaneclown3136 do the same as guys do which literally everyone should do regardless of your gender, accept their answer,respect their feelings, and move on, but its easier said then done

If a girl asked me out I would be honored because it takes courage, but if I didn't see her as my type I would let her off easy as to not hurt her feelings and vice versa.

I asked him out 5 years ago and now we are engaged 😉

@kylereese3957

6 жыл бұрын

my condolences to you're husband

@davidbolha

6 жыл бұрын

Kyle Reese 😅😆 +1

@redfather5342

6 жыл бұрын

When's the weeding more importantly when is the divorce

@that1guy350

6 жыл бұрын

Gina From Korea game over

@hotpotato2102

6 жыл бұрын

Kyle Reese *your

I always ask guys out when I realize they like me back, but every single one that I got together with turned out to have this passive, insecure, low self steem-ridden personality. It's like, they never had the guts to ask me out, so they never have the guts for anything else (being straight forward, asserting boundaries, trusting me, discussing relationship problems in a mature way, etc) makes me wonder if I have a bad taste in men, or if the inability to ask me out is a red flag for future behavior

@tshaolin971

4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely not, it's not about your taste in men. Never compare men and women, we are opposite. Men evolve at a slower pace than women for biological reasons.

@bempoucasombra7098

4 жыл бұрын

@@tshaolin971 well I'm only 22, and this has happened with men older than me, sooo

@tshaolin971

4 жыл бұрын

@@bempoucasombra7098 How much older ?

@bempoucasombra7098

4 жыл бұрын

@@tshaolin971 what does it matter? Its not like theres a set amount of years for men to "achieve the same level of maturity as women" theres no such thing, there are immature cowardly 50 yo women, and trustworthy mature 18 men out there.

@breakingthemasks

4 жыл бұрын

@OP ... Actually, I think your point is solid. Which is why I don't quite take this concept as far as Anna does. I wouldn't recommend that girls ask guys out straight up like that... But I definitely do believe that girls should be deliberate and intentional about sending guys signals that you are open to an approach. Without signals from the girl, good guys who are genuinely concerned about not disturbing you if you aren't in the mood... Those guys will stay away, or just be platonic with you. Guys that don't care about you will approach regardless. So no signals = lots of approaches by dbags. Signals = more approaches by kind men. Note: signals are all about differential behavior. E.g. some girls are flirty with everyone... And some girls are shy with everyone. To successfully send signals, you must have noticeably different interactions with the guy you like than with guys you don't like... And those interactions need to be romantic or physical enough not to be confused with you liking a guy as a friend. You are aimed at communication clearly that this particular guy is "attractive" to you. Nut just funny, or smart, etc. Good luck!

My girlfriend asked me out on our first date. It was a terrible snowstorm so I decided to message her and chat her up a little, and then she point black asked if I wanted to go hiking with her. We're both pretty shy and a little awkward, but somehow we got past that and now we've been dating for almost a year and a half.

I completely agree -ridiculously shy male

@baylovesoldbooks3977

8 жыл бұрын

what does the NC stand for in ur name?

@KhanhTran-hq1oo

8 жыл бұрын

Cry.

@andrewblain5202

8 жыл бұрын

\( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)/ I'm not the only one

@Lucid5630

3 жыл бұрын

Hey, asking out should go both ways

Welp...I just asked my crush to prom, he said yes. Now my class is in shock because they didn't expect a girl to ask a guy out...I hate the fact that we've made it weird or surprising for a girl to ask a guy out. We're all just people + he's pretty shy so I don't think he would've made the first move. Idk why I wanted to share that...k bye

@beastwing3272

6 жыл бұрын

InternetHobo OH GOODIE! WE HAVE ONE MORE THING GOING TO HELL! YOU! AND YOUR DUMBASS COMMENT! SO I-SUPPOSE TWO THINGS!

@sasori8555

6 жыл бұрын

BeastWing !!! What the hell are you talking about lol?

6 жыл бұрын

A girl like you will go far in life

@immortaldiscoveries3038

6 жыл бұрын

Exactly InternetHobo. You are right.

@bacanagames2019

6 жыл бұрын

Lol that is the funny thing about women. They think the class was shocked because u ( a girl) invite him. If he is shy there are a lot of possible reasons for your class to be shocked instead. Like: "How that guy got lucky", Why she "invited him" . I think that your action to invite him as a "girl inviting a guy" was probably the last reason why they were shocked.

I was teaching at a girls high school (so many stories). Every year there was a “Sadie Hawkins” Dance. That was when the girls had to ask the guy to be their date. The ladies already in a relationship found it fairly easy to ask their SO. The other girls not so much. Every year I was teaching there it was mildly amusing to watch the girls strategize and then try to work up the courage to ask a guy out. On several occasions they would ask a classmate if it would be ok to ask her brother, if all other attempts failed. I would use this as a Social Studies teaching moment. I would note how difficult it was to challenge established mores. This was in the late ‘70’s (I taught for 35 years) In a similar vein I overheard young women tell stories, that their Moms told them a good girl would never just call a boy...without him having called first!

@enniswhalen2428

4 жыл бұрын

A N - Maybe YOU are one to help dismantle some of these double standards.

@gwf82

4 жыл бұрын

my mom always seemed disappointed i was never asked to a sadie hawkins dance....i wasn’t surprised the slightest, i was and still am an unwanted and undesirable guy

@akemi2929

4 жыл бұрын

@@gwf82 Your reply reminded me of a phase in my life. Being unwanted and undesirable... I've been there dear... I totally get you! I never had the courage to ask any guy out, and a guy asking me out was out of the question, since I was one of the most unattractive girls out there. I could never expect anything other than Platonic friendship with guys... But after I got out of High school, literally every guy started finding me attractive. It has increased so much now, I have no idea what exactly happened. Like, literally whenever I say that I've always been single, people think I'm lying and that it's just not possible... But I don't want to be with anyone who's solely into my looks and not into who I am as a person. I always start wondering, 'Would this person have even spared me a glance had I still been the way I was back at school?" I totally get you... Just believe in yourself and be confident with who you are, as a person. That'll help u love yourself better, and feel whole in yourself without having to want another person's presence to feel whole in yourself. ^_^

@gwf82

4 жыл бұрын

Divya Anj. sadly things never changed for me, i’m soon to be 38 and still a low value guy that women don’t give me a second thought...but i’ll soon be doing something that will end all my problems

@akemi2929

4 жыл бұрын

@@gwf82 You still there?

Love thinking about missed opportunities as a self-conscious guy, because it's much nicer to think you ever had an opportunity at all than to confront the reality that you never really did.

@amoscaul3264

3 жыл бұрын

well said.

@enniswhalen2428

3 жыл бұрын

@ U O - Does not work that way.You will hear from someone ,YEARS LATER , that you WERE on the right track with her, but that YOU gave up too easily. You will not even remember it that way at all.

A girl asking me out would certainly make everything much easier for me. I'm an Introvert and being social and flirting with girls is very alien to me. Plus, I have to wade through all of the crap dating politics. A lovely lady asking me out would certainly allow me to avoid all of the hateful comments I've had.

@darkparadise1970

7 жыл бұрын

Michael Berry go out with me then😀😀

@michaelberry3862

7 жыл бұрын

I appreciate the offer.;) x

@SAKTHITech

7 жыл бұрын

Michael Berry true man.. all the 'signs' we have to read..

@michaelberry3862

7 жыл бұрын

I do my best not to talk to women these days, or people in general. I want to at this time in my life become a hermit on some remote island and never interact with Humanity again. Just sit in the dark and watch all of you continue in your trivialities.

@MrAL19

7 жыл бұрын

Feel you man. But this kind of thing, finding that significant other for the rest of our lives. it doesn't matter if it's the guy or the girl taking the first initiative. I think It's in Gods hands, put your trust in him and he will put that person in your life at the right moment. God is perfect.

I've never EVER heard a guy say they enjoy chasing a woman. They enjoy HAVING a woman, not chasing one

@ChestersonJack

6 жыл бұрын

Goldusted W I've heard guys say they enjoy the chase, but they're mostly weirdo

@tiarasmiley3604

6 жыл бұрын

Goldusted W 8

@jeffc5974

6 жыл бұрын

Those types are typically not looking for anything permanant.

@TheUnique69able

6 жыл бұрын

The chase is when she shows real interest but wants me to fight for her a bit. Thats as far a chase it can get. If she displays no interest (even if she's interested) we leave as playing mind games is not a chase

@marygardner8613

6 жыл бұрын

W

I’m shy as F*** and I nearly pass out when I ask someone out 😂

@devincampbell5007

4 жыл бұрын

Then you'll go into a coma if someone asks you out

Girls should just ask guys out cause there's a 99% chance we will say yes. As a guy we see it as opportunitiy and not be picky.

@poohwithtimbs7027

4 жыл бұрын

@Stan Marsh Simp

@poohwithtimbs7027

4 жыл бұрын

@Stan Marsh Bruh i'm joking chill

@anisaali6792

4 жыл бұрын

@Stan Marsh you just sounded kind of simpy but its the same for guys to they dont like rejection so if they want equal rights and all start acting like that because no one likes rejection especially the chase everybody hates it can even make me completely lose interest

@gilesscanlon2586

4 жыл бұрын

Correct !

@TIC4848

3 жыл бұрын

@@poohwithtimbs7027 How is he being a simp?

I confessed my love . . . . To my cat. He than rejected me and scratched my hand.

@sarahirwin3746

7 жыл бұрын

same

@LoneWolf-mw1mm

7 жыл бұрын

don't worry you have anime to ease the pain

@animeoeshonikako730

7 жыл бұрын

Drago Flame Lol

@Abigdummy4life

7 жыл бұрын

Cats are basically real-life tsunderes, only they're a lot more blunt and stoic in their derogatory comments towards you.

@DidntExpect

7 жыл бұрын

And dogs are real-life yanderes. It drives me insane

thank you, I absolutely hate having to ask girls out first, and sometimes they're really mean about it, which is so discouraging.

@Molly.Vivi.

8 жыл бұрын

+John Harrison I'm sorry, if they're mean they weren't girlfriend material anyway though :)

@Enovien

8 жыл бұрын

+xxxSoraya ^

@dajam9035

8 жыл бұрын

Honestly, if they were mean to you; I say you avoided a bullet. Either that or you came at them terribly wrong.

@TCthaCrisis

8 жыл бұрын

Let me tell you a trick, well sort of.... I rarely get rejected. Why? Because I watch girls 1st, talk to them 1st(small talk)... Look for any "Bitch qualities"... See if they show any interest. If not I dont ask them. If they do I then I'll take my chances and ask them out. Works like 90% of the time

@CharlesLamJr

8 жыл бұрын

+John Harrison I asked a girl out a few years ago and she said she would go. That night I got 3 or 4 long hate texts. Saying things that were way out in left field and not true at all. After that, I have never had the guts to ask another person out. I asked her out after a class too. Every time I saw her in the hall and or in class it was extremely awkward.

asking a boy out: 99% chance of getting a date asking a girl out: 12% chance of getting a date me: I accept everything

@redfather5342

3 жыл бұрын

Its 50/50

@LYJManchesterUnited

3 жыл бұрын

12% ? I only ask when I know

@coasterthrills2061

Жыл бұрын

That's too specific. Where did you get those numbers?

@ryanciani3324

10 ай бұрын

most true comment ever. this is exactly why i dont do it

@Ramxie35

7 ай бұрын

bc u r not a guy@@coasterthrills2061

Correction "Women love TO BE chased". That's why they end up with the "second choice", the real deal doesn't chase women

@RenaldMusic

4 жыл бұрын

@Catholic Faith Dan Become interesting bro

@hiro2protagonist

3 жыл бұрын

Bull. Sometimes you make the move & sometimes they do. It’s situational & depends on the person. If you meet the one & don’t shoot your shot bc “real deal doesn’t chase women” you have only yourself to blame when you wind up with your dreams own second choice. I’m all for women asking men out, but there is no reason to make that a requirement either. By your logic shy women would never get it, & clearly they often do. I’ve met some great guys who wound up w/ shy girls. Get off your gender essentialism toxic masc high horse & get Gus. Bc this is 100 percent bull.

@petalknurling4841

3 жыл бұрын

So true.... Happens all the time

@JustMe-gr5yk

3 жыл бұрын

This sounds true... sad

@nomoresleepx3930

3 жыл бұрын

They love to be chased thats why so many leftover women nowdays

Finally i found my people. I asked almost every single one of my crushes out but got rejected every time. 😅 Despite that, my hope still stands strong and im not giving up.

@christianwood1891

5 жыл бұрын

Laura Mihalek 😍😍😍😍

@vegitoblue2187

5 жыл бұрын

Laura Mihalek you guys have it easier any I say you are kinda good looking (looks do matter) and I say try the shy guys or the ones who don't talk much. They may be one of the best people you met . I wish do wish a girl asked me out some time I'm getting sick of being rejected or misunderstood as a creep(once)

@safaa2198

5 жыл бұрын

You go girl!

@robertdevoy3119

5 жыл бұрын

Sadly, guys are surprised and suspicious of women asking them out. It's just so uncommon. They figure you could be a psycho. In fact, I know guys who were aggressively pursued by women who turned out to be psychos. It's a shame too, because many guys are unaware of the clues women throw their way to signal interest. Try to find more subtle ways to let a guy know you want to be asked out. Compliments usually work. Such as telling him you like his cologne, his shoes or shirt, his hair style, his facial hair/beard, his eyes etc. I was 16 the first time a women tried to pick me up. She told me i had beautiful blue eyes.

@vegitoblue2187

5 жыл бұрын

Robert Devoy I don't think so my friends girlfriend asked him out in a normal way just like a guy ideally would it's not a bad thing

1:13 "Guys love the chase" Haha, I hope no girl seriously has said that.

@enniswhalen2428

4 жыл бұрын

K N S C N -Unfortunately, they say that A LOT . . . . .

@HUNKragor

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah we also LOVE dieing earlier and committing more suicide. It's all part of the fun

@Ronin3453

4 жыл бұрын

It's called projection bro

@slingshot5454

4 жыл бұрын

Who are you? I always saw you in the comment box with the same dp

@michaelw6103

4 жыл бұрын

@@HUNKragor hell yeah... lets go take a swim to relax. I'll bring the toaster.

So I've also always been the one to ask guys out, I was leaving the notes on their desks since I was a kid (they never did check yes but I never gave up) and while I'm still probably not going to stop making the first move cause the only other option is wasting time waiting around, what I've always gotten (besides rejection) is guys who go out with you just cause you asked and they might as well, but they don't really like you all that much and it doesn't last. In other words, you perpetually get settled for. And it makes logical sense, even as a girl who makes the first move I know men generally aren't expecting it, they're raised to believe they have to make the first move, and so if they /really/ liked me they would have done so. The fact that I had to is almost automatic confirmation that he's at best not quite as into me as I am to him and that's a hard thing to deal with, especially when I don't want to be on the other end either, dating whoever asks me out just cause it's easier.

@armandelezi8449

4 жыл бұрын

Most men are programmed to be the hunters.... You just found some classic old school dudes who don't appreciate that trait in a woman... Try instead interacting or showing interest in a safe way to gauge his interest in you... If he doesn't flinch at all don't bother but if he looks back or makes eye contact he is yours

@Lucid5630

3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations, you just did what guys do everyday : D, but in all realness, in general, both genders are shy, I congratulate You that you actually ask the guys out, and yeah you dated old school dudes, tbh, some guys would love a girl if they asked them out, but hey, you can decide who makes the first move(I guess)

I wouldn't mind a woman asking me out I think only insecure men would be bothered by a woman asking him out

From a male's perspective there is nothing better then a women that knows what she wants and won't be afraid to go out there and get'em!

@kadehampton6583

8 жыл бұрын

+Puglous Yes very true but i'm not the only one that holds that value.

@Gammera2000

8 жыл бұрын

+Andrew martin You're trying to troll aren't you?

@somabalestra1131

5 жыл бұрын

You're awesome~

Got rejected from a guy I was in love with and I moved on, got rejected from another one who I wanted to sleep with but who was a drama queen, so I moved on. Asked out a great guy that I had spoken to twice, and he was so enthusiastic about it. Now we have an awesome relationship and planning to stick together and have kids...chase the one you want, if it's a good one then he'll chase you back!

@samanthalee7109

6 жыл бұрын

Anni Rundgren How do you get over the pain from the rejection? Sometimes, it hurts so much but I just dont have the solution to stop it. It's no one's fault and people keep telling me that time is what I need to move on. It has been 1 week. My crush is leaving in 3 weeks' time and he wishes to hang out with me once or twice before leaving. How am I gonna move on and meet up with him at this point of time;*(( It hurts so muchh coz it is my first confession and I have never dated before.

@DivineAtheistWannabe

6 жыл бұрын

Samantha Lee well, go through 100 more rejections and perhaps soon, you will become grounded and strong as an average male.

@DivineAtheistWannabe

6 жыл бұрын

Samantha Lee in all seriousness though, you'll get over it. There's millions of other guys in the world, many of whom you're capable of having similar or even stronger feelings for. Crying about something and feeling sorry for yourself doesn't solve anything and doesn't make your life better in any way. In the end, work to become a better person. Being too hung up on one person will prevent you from discovering all the other awesome people you could be meeting. And trust me there are awesome people out there, much more so than this guy. You'll realise that in time after you get over him.

@dove3099

5 жыл бұрын

@Zucc Masta You are saying that everyone should be fit for not eating enough not for working out and building strength in the bodies. You sound mental. Do you hear yourself?

@dove3099

5 жыл бұрын

@Zucc Masta Brainless jock...

I so sopport the female empowerment of asking the guy out.

"That's a cute picture of me huh, I was kid yeah, good looker" lmao, this chick is hilarious 🤣

"some guys don't find me attractive" wait...WHAT?!

@karimkopra

7 жыл бұрын

ask the cat JUST SHUT UP AND FEEED MEEE OK FINE FINE MEAAAAWWWW NOW FEEED MEEEE u_u damn humans

@jzoneozone4715

7 жыл бұрын

Brownie_Takeshi, ever seen her without makeup?

@laisthedream2145

6 жыл бұрын

Jzone hadzone NOT OKAY!

@adrianramirez6848

3 жыл бұрын

some guys don't find most girls attractive.

so much yes :D -shy male individual

@jaylanrussell

8 жыл бұрын

I can confirm this quote

@ekamlin

8 жыл бұрын

+blazejecar Same.

@blazejecar

8 жыл бұрын

+Min Sugaaa ~ k, let's go :D

@skullboy0132

8 жыл бұрын

I sexually identify my self as a Apache helicopter as you can see it makes it very hard to start conversations "shy individual helicopter"

@blazejecar

8 жыл бұрын

SKULLBOY 013 I identify as a toaster and because we're in 2016, I find this offensive

I'm not the shyest guy in the world, just a bit introverted, and not really the 'progressive' type, etc etc. But Lemme tell you, even if you're not a Tomboy? Women who can take the initiative are 'Sexy'. If a woman can feel comfortable and confident enough to openly ask a guy out or show their interests, it already shows great characteristic in her that a guy will instantly know whether he really likes that or doesn't. If everyone is crying for equality of all things, women have to stop acting like they should rely on men to take the initiative in majority of cases in everything, initiatives will propel you forward much faster in life, at the job, getting hired, being noticed and probably in finding someone you like. But hey, that's just my two cents.

A girl once gave me her number and asked me out. It was great. Then she took it back when she realized I was a girl.... Dammit

@lazimshahad6776

3 жыл бұрын

Ok weird...............

A girl asked me out in college once about ten years ago... She's been getting this butt ever since!

@shyguy9102

5 жыл бұрын

Good boy, that's the way it should be.

@tiffanypersaud3518

4 жыл бұрын

Christopher Hopkins, thank you for sharing.

@kokannob.3082

4 жыл бұрын

ROFL

@1810verdeXVIII

3 жыл бұрын

You're all about the rim-schjabs

@alisa_and_pup

3 жыл бұрын

@@1810verdeXVIII see my mind went to pegging but sure, that too XD hey, don't knock it till you try it right?

Im going to send this to every girl I've got a crush on.

@PandaMode13

8 жыл бұрын

+Michael Lanman Hi5!!! lol

@AnhLe-zl4ws

8 жыл бұрын

+Michael Lanman gg

@momentomemori

8 жыл бұрын

Or you could just ask them out???

@younas1476

8 жыл бұрын

+Keira Heckman he's to shy, duh!

@younas1476

8 жыл бұрын

+Younas K (Question Y) *too

Reason 4: men now have to be careful with every encounter with women, because one wrong step and he might be accused of harassment or worse.

@shyguy9102

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly, you nailed it

As a shy guy that's FORCED myself to ask girls out in the past only to be completely manipulated & heartbroken, I Definitely approve of this message. I'm tired of approaching girls only to be made a complete fool of by her & all her friends.

People expect the man to ask the woman out or to propose if the girl does that ita wierd. I would love a girl to ask me out. Do u know how stressfull it is to ask out a girl its like defusing a bomb u do something and u dont know how the bomb will react if the bomb doesnt like u or thinks ur wierd ur self esteem explodes.

@vnsteuben

5 жыл бұрын

oh yeah yeah

@crazyciler50

5 жыл бұрын

@@vnsteuben was gonna say the same lol

@RexusprimeIX

5 жыл бұрын

Do I cut the red wire or do I cut the blue wire? I've got 10 seconds left before she thinks I'm a creep!

@brandonm2622

5 жыл бұрын

Meghal Biswas everyone figured women out...

@GuardianWithAGu

5 жыл бұрын

Mans I know it’s like you if you say one thing wrong it would be 9/11 all over again.

In Japan, it's like a tradition for girls to confess first. Most of the time they would say "I really like you" but not really directly ask that person out. It's up to the person getting confessed to say yes or no and then they go out or not. And it's not like Japanese girls are really straightforward and blunt. It's nice that there is no stigma for girls there to ask the guys first.

@The5thelemnt

8 жыл бұрын

+ichigomiruku Wow I've visited there a zillion times but I never knew that. Very fascinating.

@hipergabriel1

8 жыл бұрын

+ichigomiruku I didn't know it is a tradition, living and learning xD

@99Pierogies

8 жыл бұрын

+Gabriel dias because it prob isn't. I bet he saw it in an anime once and thinks that's how it is

@hipergabriel1

8 жыл бұрын

99Pierogies Probably was that, but, can we at least say that isn't something extraordinary to see a girl confessing in Japan? Or this is also wrong ?

@ichigomiruku8737

8 жыл бұрын

+99Pierogies I'm a girl... I am not into anime... and I lived in Japan for 10 years. In Japan, I have confessed to boys myself and have seen Japanese girls confess first too.

Thanks for telling me this, I'm going to ask him out right now

I was very shy in high school and even now I’m rather reserved. The best relationships I’ve had, and still have, occurred when the woman asked me out. The only Epic Fail happened when my first ex wife asked me out. I’m now on my Third-Time’s-the-Charm marriage, and yes, she asked me out.

@hinduhistory1407

4 жыл бұрын

Grow some balls WOMAN!!

A girl that has the courage to initiate conversations is already very valuable :)

@tchuribei5466

6 жыл бұрын

A tip: *You can praise someone without insulting other women*

@luckyowl10

6 жыл бұрын

Taehoe better?

@yagirlceleste1497

6 жыл бұрын

Taehoe wtf do you mean

@tchuribei5466

6 жыл бұрын

Claudiu Lucian yep

@shagwellington

5 жыл бұрын

Right on!

My girlfriend won't stop staring at me and eating pizza. What do I do?

@livinlavidalocha

8 жыл бұрын

You should buy her more pizza so she won't stop staring at you

@blahhblah6635

8 жыл бұрын

Send your ferrets to attack and walk away very slowly...

@daniel_lisbona

8 жыл бұрын

Hahaha, im starting to like you.

@DiePieCLOCK

8 жыл бұрын

Pee on her to show dominance.

@xxxdroidmonkeyxxx

8 жыл бұрын

+Harraz Haris lmfao! That shit made me laugh hard man! 😂

Yeah would be much better this way. Guys can avoid a lot of charges this way too 😅

@robbirob557

4 жыл бұрын

LOL right.

PREACH IT SISTER 🙌 🙌 I asked my crush out on a date and we both cried from happiness after we became official :') You can't miss the opportunity of love 💕 6 months going on LDR 🥰🤞

Have you ever asked a guy out? If not, WILL YOU NOW GIRL?! YOU CAN DO IT GIRL. JUST DO IT.

@Porper102

8 жыл бұрын

I asked my cat out

@MrsMiraj

8 жыл бұрын

+Anna Akana thank you for advices. but still hesitating, anyways

@bradian1

8 жыл бұрын

+Anna Akana Ana Katana!!! XD

@gatogato3748

8 жыл бұрын

+Anna Akana i was asked out by a guy once and im a straight male, i was actually flattered, dude was good looking.

@classymissMassey

8 жыл бұрын

I asked out my husband! 7 years later here we are happily married with a baby!

I realized every person I've ever been with I've asked them all out and it makes me feel like a powerful girl! 💁🏽

@sobreaver

6 жыл бұрын

Everybody should be a leader and they should only genuinely and honestly lead themselves. Enjoy !

@redfather5342

6 жыл бұрын

That's not much of an accomplishment

@zanfr123

6 жыл бұрын

I realize that the best relationships I've had were with women who actually stalked me online before eventually asking me out. Yes it is creepy but if I like her then it isn't... Ring a bell? ;)

@jamescobrien

6 жыл бұрын

ʜᴏᴘᴇ TM I loved being asked out. Made me feel really good.

@ZIbroweed

6 жыл бұрын

@sobreaver As Inigo says, I don't think that word mean what you think it means.

I have never wanted to be a "Brad" so much. I would never take this lady for granted, she is amazing.

I know it's beside the point, but hearing that someone beautiful & amazing as you gets rejected too when making the first move, it's like a confident boost

The problem is that I'm very insecure and I would totally ask guys and girls out if I wouldn't think that I'm ugly...

@psuede3775

7 жыл бұрын

everyone has a preference, just talk to em, if you fail then you learn from whatever mistakes you made for the next time. or maybe they just purely weren't into you and in that case you're doing just fine

@ezravandermeer972

7 жыл бұрын

P Suede that's true, thanks!

@vermillion4318

7 жыл бұрын

I'm pretty ugly too :'( I've been rejected twice, I just wish it society was created in a way where people know it's okay to ask guys out.

@psuede3775

7 жыл бұрын

you're welcome Loes, also vermillion, the only way for people to realize that is for there to be a movement. You need to have influence on others and from there you can do so. Or at least i think so

@AlexisAlexander646

7 жыл бұрын

Assuming you're in school (Just cuz a lot of people on KZread nowadays are still in school), it's best to make friends with your crush first. Most people don't want to go out with a total stranger that never talks to anyone. Like, think about it. If you don't talk to anyone, that means you probably don't have the greatest social skills. If you went on a date with your crush, your social skills will probably not only be bad, but even worse because you'd be nervous around them. Getting to be friends with them first, without hopefully ending up as best friends/friendzoned, shows that they enjoy your company and don't mind being around you. It also shows that, as friends, you can talk to each other fairly easily. If you can't be friends with them, then that either means that they don't want to talk to you, or don't have an interest in you. This also eliminates the point of confessing, because you already know they'd probably reject you if they don't want to talk to you, which means no humiliation. Also, if you're ugly, why don't you do something about it? If it's your body you mean, such as obesity or something, then try to be healthier. If it's just a physical defect that you can't change, then so be it. Oh, and one more thing. Make sure they like you for your personality too. Say you're a pretty funny, or comedic, person and like to make jokes, most people enjoy other people who are fun to be around and can hold a decent conversation. Awkwardness may be inevitable in times, but break that awkwardness by saying something funny or relateable, or with a fun question that'll get them thinking. Sorry for the long essay, but hope this helps just a tiny bit :)

I swear to god Anna you are my saviour!! Because of you I finally got the guts to talk to this guy I like and it went so well! Seriously, girls should make the first move more often, you get this complete surge of confidence that feels amazing!!

@kudoamv

6 жыл бұрын

*Good NOW I KNOW WHY GIRLS KEEP ASKING ME OUT !*

@sewatilekota398

6 жыл бұрын

libbsabbs You should... Because we sometimes get nervous

@dragonswordmountain2908

6 жыл бұрын

+libbsabbs At a Halloween party, i had a Ninja Costume and asked a girl out to dance, the reason i did it was because my face was hidden if she rejected me, but she agreed. She never saw my face...it felt like a movie, never saw her again, my Cinderella hahaha. It sure does give you confidence to try again.

@camiller958

6 жыл бұрын

I’m bout to try it I’m so nervous

@jamescobrien

6 жыл бұрын

libbsabbs Gow's it going? You still with him?

A lady once asked me out. Been together for 13 years. Ladies, ask men out.

@enniswhalen2428

3 жыл бұрын

@ D P - Let me take a wild guess.You REALLY wanted to treat her right when she did that.

The world needs more Annas

As a man, I really wish that more women were as take-charge and openminded about being able to ask a guy out as you are.

@badwolf3618

3 ай бұрын

They never will be until more men stop approaching them and they realize just how much their egos had been inflated by getting easy attention from men. They will realize just how much they actually liked the attention, despite outwardly pretending like they don't.

@ryanciani3324

5 күн бұрын

girls arent open minded at all. they want someone straight out of a christmas hallmark movie and anything lower then 10 is automatically labeled creepy. an old lady winds up with cats later in life for that exact reason

I asked my crush out and he said yes 🙈💕 so happy

@rm-stuffs2802

5 жыл бұрын

you are really clever, strong and self confidence. I male hope sooo strong that you and your great boyfriend stay Love forever, married tiiilllllllll nature death :)

@angelJ5820

5 жыл бұрын

Kuroi XxX Hana aww so cute☺️☺️☺️

@LoserBroProductions

4 жыл бұрын

Kuroi XxX Hana yessss

@chanbee5159

4 жыл бұрын

I envy u sooooooooo much i cant even imagine what will happen if i ask my crush out... im so introverted....btw congrats.

@abhinavyadav2121

4 жыл бұрын

Wake up man....

Hi Anna, This is me basically. Im a 30 year old male that has been rejected so many times in some pretty harsh ways, so i stopped trying. i focus on me, work and keeping in shape. dont get me wrong, im what women refer to as tall (6ft) dark and handsome, yet i have the worse luck when it comes to talking to women. so it was nice to hear this topic coming from you.

I got asked out by a girl once. We dated, we committed. Eventually, we broke up. Why? For many reasons, but she also stopped being that person who asked me out. You want to be treated equally, but you won't share the risk or the responsibilities. It's not that people aren't allowed to change, but when the change occurs, don't be surprised if everything about the relationship changes. Especially if it changes to the level where it is no longer worth it to one party to remain in the relationship. Women, no baiting and switching allowed. Be honest, be sincere, and consider his feelings, too. Men, ask for--don't demand--what you want. If the net negatives outweigh the net positives, end it. It will be better for both of you in the long run.

Almost every guy I ended up making a move on had the same feelings I did but didn't know how to say it. I think society has been spending so much time telling guys how not to be a creep they don't know how to give a woman her space while also letting her know she's super sexy and you want to go on a date. Girls have to pick up the slack and ask guys out! If a guy thinks you're being too aggressive, he's not worth it.

@Loathomar

8 жыл бұрын

+Kate B That's what I think too. If a guy rejects a women because her asking him out is "not lady like", he is not going to be a good fit for a women willing to ask a guy out and by asking him out you just save your self the time and effort of dating a guy that exacts you to fit into a classic gender role that you don't really want to fit into. Though, some women do want to fit into the classic gender, and they might be best to not ask a guy out. Just do what feels right for you and not what society says is your gender role. Though that does take some deep thought to why you choose what you choose, it is not always easy to know if you are doing it because you want it or because of social pressures.

@tahaelkhiyat3627

8 жыл бұрын

+Kate B I'm a guy and every girl I crushed on had a crush on me back, but I never made a move, so feelings just fade away.

@sethfreeman8095

8 жыл бұрын

+Kate B Nicely written, agreed.

@user-eb9dp2hn8e

8 жыл бұрын

very nice.

@Icureditwithmybrain

8 жыл бұрын

+Kate B I would date you just because you have a cat as your avatar.

I've asked all of my boyfriends out and I hope no guy breaks my record!

@nhertanto

7 жыл бұрын

That's so cool!

@zisrof9157

7 жыл бұрын

What do you mean "I hope no guy breaks my record"? I'm sorry, I'm not English.

@regisatlas

7 жыл бұрын

Mr. Moneypants it's just a joke like if a guy asked me out then I can't say that I've asked all of them out anymore

@JohnDoe-qq6gv

7 жыл бұрын

Is that British English or... I'm sorry I'm from South Florida you have to understand lol

@rachelcrawford5248

7 жыл бұрын

will you go out with me (hahahhaha i broke it. im DEFINITELY a guy not a girl at all shhhhh)

In the era of "me too", girls should get used to asking guys out.

@BuzziMuzzi

3 жыл бұрын

Oh please, do guys live without nuance in their brains? There’s a difference between asking a girl out politely or raping/ harassing a girl.

@Kingwil497

3 жыл бұрын

@@BuzziMuzzi Yeah but like, even sometimes when you just politely do it, or ask a girl out subtly, a good percentage of the time, they still react in a rather unsettling way so it kinda deters alot of guys from even trying, in order to avoid any unwanted instances from happening. However at the end ah the day, somebody's gotta do it and as a guy I do think that us guys should be the ones to lead by making the first move however if a girl sees a guy she wants, she should definitely act on it and let him know how she feels.

@BuzziMuzzi

3 жыл бұрын

@@Kingwil497 Honestly I'm not kidding, if you're polite and able to take "no" as an answer as a good sport, a girl will not make an issue. Usually when guys say this, it's because they don't realize how they really don't take "no" for an answer and be pesky and mean to a girl about it.

@Kingwil497

3 жыл бұрын

@@BuzziMuzzi Yeah I see where ur coming from.

@BuzziMuzzi

3 жыл бұрын

​@@Kingwil497 Thanks for considering it from another perspective! I'm sure things will work out one day, don't worry. It just takes time and the right person. Stay polite and humble and good things will come your way.

I learned how to have courage to ask guys out for one specific reason - I was too terrified when they were asking me out. That's how I started to encourage myself to be the one who talks first. So, I practiced a bit and... now I have a wholesome husband. 🥰

I'm just scared that the guy will tell everyone about rejecting me and I cannot stand public humiliation

@ryankelly2109

7 жыл бұрын

That happens the other way around too.

@d.n.3652

7 жыл бұрын

4kkjwkaz lol guys don't do that. I never in my life have ever had a friend come up to me and tell me about the girls he rejected

@vyassathya3772

7 жыл бұрын

If one of my friends showed off about rejecting a girl, I would lose respect for him and gain respect for her. Most guys get used to rejection early, there is a mutual understanding and empathy shown.

@Lapusso650

7 жыл бұрын

Vyas Sathya you're not a victim for getting rejected. You're not entitled to a girl. She has a right not to be yours

@Lapusso650

7 жыл бұрын

4kkjwkaz what humiliation? You're not entitled to anyone. I don't understand how you'd feel humiliated from people knowing you were assertive and made a move..

Are your cat shelves custom made?

@AnnaAkana

8 жыл бұрын

+thealpage They're made by Catastrohpic Creations! Tell them I sent youuu :) Mike & Megan are the best

@aaliyahdodd2700

8 жыл бұрын

+Anna Akana i dont understand

@thealpage

8 жыл бұрын

+Anna Akana Thank you!!!

@JaniceFung

8 жыл бұрын

omggg best

@Pythonhier

8 жыл бұрын

+thealpage +Anna Akana www.catastrophicreations.com/ I ordered from the same people lol

Okay so this speaks to me in the deepest of ways. Thank you Anna.

I seriously can't fathom why anyone wouldn't go out with you

@asym52

3 жыл бұрын

I seriously can't fathom why this comment hasn't gotten 5 million upvotes. Anna is spectacular.

4. Asking people out is good for self-development! Overcoming fear, and doing that thing that makes you scared, makes you a stronger, better, more grown up person.

Bottom line is, do whatever you want. Who gives a know what about people's opinions. Anyone who thinks you're (female) desperate because you're making the first move doesn't deserve you. And anyone who thinks shy guys should "nut up" and make the first move isn't addressing the problem. In summary: abandon the notion that men should always make the first move. Consider me subscribed. ^_^

@shelookstome8727

8 жыл бұрын

+Outrageon THIS. :)

I’ve always asked out guys I’m interested in. They always say no, but I make the effort when I’m interested ❤

Respect for saying all those things. I like how you're being straightforward :)

The man I'm with now is the first person I've actually asked out. We've been dating for over two years and it was the best decision I've ever made in my life. Being upfront about how much I love him has caused him to completely change his life from being insecure and self hating to healthy and confident. Loving people honestly is the most important thing you can push yourself to do.

@hudzGee

6 жыл бұрын

Mikky Gibbs That sounds amazing! Im happy for both of you. 😊

@hidhiene7806

6 жыл бұрын

Mikky Gibbs that’s so cute

@twowheelseatingmeals-motoj8080

6 жыл бұрын

Good women like you are hard to come by. Its a bit of a tear jerker for me hearing the state that your man was in because I was the same (and sadly a lot of guys are).

@indeedalsoyes1597

6 жыл бұрын

I asked someone out but they rejected me

@indeedalsoyes1597

6 жыл бұрын

I asked someone out but they rejected me 😔

i wish more women were like this.

Need more people like Anna

This is revolutionary.

Step 1: Don't be ugly ^ wouldn't that get you pretty much anywhere?

@alkestro

8 жыл бұрын

+ImperialBiscuit Damn it. I already fucked up that one lol

@feena9241

8 жыл бұрын

+ImperialBiscuit No

@yugoxgc

8 жыл бұрын

& it works for Men too :D

@MrCanchay

8 жыл бұрын

+ImperialBiscuit Yeah even if u ugly, just by asking, you will get 1/3 women. I bet it's 1/2 if you in to men ;)

@Mixer2904

8 жыл бұрын

+ImperialBiscuit My best friend is ugly but he always gets a lot of girls cause he is charismatic and really funny guy always know how to crack a good joke. It doesn't matter if you are ugly or not its all about your personality and self confidence.

I'm a teenage boy .... And you encouraged me to ask my crush(girl) out ... I gonna do it now .... I think i can..yesss

@99lmb12

6 жыл бұрын

How did that go?? I'm curious. I hope that very well 💪💪

@qustiny.1559

6 жыл бұрын

Laiaa ikr

@afonsolucas2219

6 жыл бұрын

HOW IT GO BRUHHH?! DIDJA BANG!?

@countingsheep8221

5 жыл бұрын

are you a couple now??!?!

@elonsmokesbooff7212

5 жыл бұрын

He died from embarrassment

I met an army guy and because I didn't catch his full name that time I wrote him a letter and gave it to one of his friends the next time I was in the area.A friend of mine told me letters a bit old fashioned but that was my best option at the time.

My first girlfriend refused to make a move, but ended up having all her friends (a number of whom hated me) tell me to ask her out. Eventually I did, but I did tell her that was a weak move and explained why she should just take the initiative. She ended up asking a guy out after we broke up and he said yes so that worked out great for me.

I asked my boyfriend out

Are we all going to ignore that the cat was licking it's ass at the end of the video? Best photobomb (videobomb?) ever.

@bashscrazy

8 жыл бұрын

+saloosh777 - last I checked paws and ass were not the same thing.

@pipparinn

8 жыл бұрын

+bashscrazy 2:30... last i checked this was not a paw... Thats a cat... licking its ass...

@bashscrazy

8 жыл бұрын

+Pétur Ingi Jónsson - that's not the end of the video, that's the middle.

@pipparinn

8 жыл бұрын

that's a good point though

@ereccatateishi

8 жыл бұрын

+saloosh777 so happy im not the only one completely distracted by that. hundred percent sure Anna kept that take for that purpose only ahahha

As a newcomer i can say one thing clear. Anna, you're a breakthrough! Never seen this before. 👍

You are freaking awesome! Please please teach the ladies of this generation!