Should girls ask guys out?
Have you ever wondered if a girl can ask a guy out? What if he is younger than you? In this video, I am talking about if a girl should make the first move and what it's like to date someone that is younger than you.
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It’s us Elijah and Alley Vallotton, but you can call us Lije and Al. October 17, 2022, marked the day we became the Vallottons and started our life together in the beautiful Northern California. Here is a quick flashback to bring you up to speed. Al was the big city girl, but deep down a small-town girl at heart. Elijah was a small-town boy with a big heart for life. We fell in love and got married. Now we are learning the ropes of young married life. On this channel we’re not holding back, we’re talking about all the most tricky, touchy subjects, being open and honest with our journeys and life together. We are NOT the experts but there is something beautiful about a story, being open and honest about messy moments, and learning together. So pull up your seat, grab your cup of joe (or Corona as Lije would). Here we go!
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I really enjoy those talk videos! 💞
@alleyvallotton
2 жыл бұрын
Yay! I am so glad 💕
hey all thanks so much for this one many blessings
@alleyvallotton
2 жыл бұрын
You’re so welcome!
Hey I really enjoy your videos:) looking forward to seeing your channel grow!! I love having a Christian couple to follow and learn future relationship information from😊😊Love you videos, keep it up!!!!!
@alleyvallotton
2 жыл бұрын
Aww, thank you!! We're excited to make more :)
@judah_davison
2 жыл бұрын
Looking forward too watching them:)))
I like the idea of the girl making it known that she likes me but for me the guy to continue to persue her that way I have the green light to do so as I don’t know what signs really a girl gives out otherwise that she likes me etc
Opening song plzzzz
Heres the kicker for me- I have guy friends... but to have a guy friend than I can text or one who's comfortable in friendship with texting back and forth I don't have and never have had that. The men around me in my group of church friends date and pursue more outside of the church group. So it's more so we only see others in group hang outs since we all go to different churches and the girls get shafted...to have a friendship with a guy like that is foreign to me.. and frankly quite sad and frustrating. I don't see 😕 how something can grow into more when there has never been something to grow from. 🤔
@alleyvallotton
Жыл бұрын
Hey girl! Oh man, I hear you. It can be so frustrating when the guys in our circle of friends seemingly don’t know how or are not interested in even intentionally getting to know us. What would it look like to get outside your normal weekly “rhythm”? You might be surprised what other type of guys there are/friendships you might form💕you don’t always have to have friendship to pursue intentionally getting to know new guys.
@lorimassey29
Жыл бұрын
@elijahandalley been trying to broaden my circle most definitely. Trying to get more involved in my newer church and serve. Aldo trying to find Bible study groups and meet-up groups that are Christian. With social media it's more unnatural in meeting people I am finding and we have to have more intent. It's kinda exhausting.....
Unfortunately I don't see it ever becoming more common for girls to ask a guy out or for girls to make the first move or be the initiators in starting a relationship. Why do I get that feeling that will forever be the guys role or just always be one-sided, I know there are tons of guys in the world who hate and resent how it's normally always up to guys to make the first move or be the initiators in starting a relationship
@alleyvallotton
2 жыл бұрын
I think you're right.... it is innate for men to pursue and for women to be pursued. However, I don't think it is wrong for girls to initiate the conversation. :)
@nobodysperfect06
2 жыл бұрын
@@alleyvallotton it doesn't seem that it's innate for a lot of guys or all guys out there to pursue a woman, also, is it wrong for a woman to ask a guy out?