Why you should ask out your crush | Alex Le | TEDxYouth@Dayton

Taking risks in life builds strength and confidence, even if the outcome is not what you hoped for. Insert bio This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @thulaniwav
    @thulaniwav4 жыл бұрын

    i feel like this guy actually asked his crush out and when it worked he was so hyped he gave a ted talk about it

  • @tahaqtr7439

    @tahaqtr7439

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @axle_le

    @axle_le

    4 жыл бұрын

    I can promise you that did not happen XD

  • @thulaniwav

    @thulaniwav

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@axle_le so what did?

  • @michaelalafin4706

    @michaelalafin4706

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@axle_le I don't know but I feel it worked, but you want to make us feel better.

  • @ashutoshs1966

    @ashutoshs1966

    4 жыл бұрын

    *bruhh

  • @seanandrasick698
    @seanandrasick6984 жыл бұрын

    Instructions unclear, accidentally asked out her dad.

  • @LEVYATHAN

    @LEVYATHAN

    4 жыл бұрын

    LOL

  • @_cynth_wave

    @_cynth_wave

    4 жыл бұрын

    Did he say yes?

  • @888PsyMike888

    @888PsyMike888

    4 жыл бұрын

    Did he crush you?

  • @seanandrasick698

    @seanandrasick698

    4 жыл бұрын

    Collons Yes we are married now, please send help.

  • @__sharavanan__

    @__sharavanan__

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@seanandrasick698 😂

  • @shanepartridge2744
    @shanepartridge27444 жыл бұрын

    It's called a "crush" because they crush your hopes and dreams

  • @MattDav

    @MattDav

    4 жыл бұрын

    Draino 9 f a c t s

  • @yogangstudios5715

    @yogangstudios5715

    4 жыл бұрын

    Stonks

  • @thelordandsaviorgigachadrr888

    @thelordandsaviorgigachadrr888

    4 жыл бұрын

    Can we get an amen

  • @samcavemanlosco6417

    @samcavemanlosco6417

    4 жыл бұрын

    14 years old white girls be like

  • @JoseARosas-wl1fx

    @JoseARosas-wl1fx

    4 жыл бұрын

    Abby beef boss wife do you watch Proofusre? The guy who rages at wii sports?

  • @connormay1891
    @connormay18914 жыл бұрын

    Me: I’m gonna do it today Later: Her: How’s your day? Me: you too After: Me: It’s ok you weren’t ready for the trick questions

  • @daronpopin9881

    @daronpopin9881

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lmao

  • @YoutubeShortsIsACesspool

    @YoutubeShortsIsACesspool

    4 жыл бұрын

    I just wheezed so hard

  • @octave11thpianist58

    @octave11thpianist58

    4 жыл бұрын

    Damnit I dont get it, please explain.

  • @bladeealbania

    @bladeealbania

    4 жыл бұрын

    Octave 11th Pianist he wasn’t supposed to say you too.

  • @octave11thpianist58

    @octave11thpianist58

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@bladeealbania ik, I thought it would be more co plicated than that.

  • @AllThisPower
    @AllThisPower4 жыл бұрын

    Me: I'm going to ask her out. *Crush enters the room* Me: Ight imma head out.

  • @jalissatowns3434

    @jalissatowns3434

    4 жыл бұрын

    You won 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @antfactory1

    @antfactory1

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bruh me

  • @ZayingIt

    @ZayingIt

    4 жыл бұрын

    lmao!

  • @ScarletxP

    @ScarletxP

    4 жыл бұрын

    Very original thanks

  • @maximillianford9301

    @maximillianford9301

    4 жыл бұрын

    This is literally me hahaha

  • @tianrun_li.3dm
    @tianrun_li.3dm4 жыл бұрын

    Me: You Tube: you look like you are single, here are some tips.

  • @enzocerrudo314

    @enzocerrudo314

    4 жыл бұрын

    This is no tip, is a ideal thats not useful. There’s better ways to interact with ur crush. And better ways to get better as a person

  • @UknownAfrican

    @UknownAfrican

    4 жыл бұрын

    Enzo Cerrudo Like how? You sound like you’re experienced af 😂

  • @patricioiglesias5346

    @patricioiglesias5346

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@UknownAfrican I would say that instead of asking if she wants to go, you should say "let's go to..." . Less posibility of rejection.

  • @wspacefacexx

    @wspacefacexx

    4 жыл бұрын

    HWHEHE

  • @Khe2BVevo

    @Khe2BVevo

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @desaeviantaylor2218
    @desaeviantaylor22184 жыл бұрын

    When he said ''your scared it will ruin your friendship'' i really felt that

  • @trendisty6160

    @trendisty6160

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @egodumpster

    @egodumpster

    4 жыл бұрын

    It hurts, because you like the person but if you Get together and break up things will never be the same

  • @meredithmoore461

    @meredithmoore461

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yea

  • @raycarden7941

    @raycarden7941

    4 жыл бұрын

    Not friendship but the opportunity to have a relationship

  • @kinni02

    @kinni02

    4 жыл бұрын

    Man and whaman can't be friends

  • @kaitlinniiicole
    @kaitlinniiicole4 жыл бұрын

    i actually asked him out and he said no. i’m mad at myself now. thank you for coming to *my* ted talk

  • @tyler.__.g3923

    @tyler.__.g3923

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kaitlnn it’s aight, you had the guts to ask and that means something.

  • @meredithmoore461

    @meredithmoore461

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yea my friends decided to write one of my crushes a note saying that I like him, and it was so embarrassing bc he was kinda like one of those popular guys in the school, so pretty sure ya know how that ended!😂

  • @kaitlinniiicole

    @kaitlinniiicole

    4 жыл бұрын

    Meredith Moore haha yeah i feel that, i asked him out and no one else knew so it was just like kinda awkward at the time. we’re chill now though lmaoo

  • @sumitshrestha2986

    @sumitshrestha2986

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@kaitlinniiicole respect! Atleast you dont have the feeling of regret.

  • @kaitlinniiicole

    @kaitlinniiicole

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sumit Samuel haha yeah, i’m pretty happy about that. i was super scared that it would hurt our friendship

  • @adriand8035
    @adriand80354 жыл бұрын

    “Why don’t you just ask her out” *You wouldn’t get it*

  • @angelikajoanna3817

    @angelikajoanna3817

    4 жыл бұрын

    Negative_ 32 I understood that reference

  • @garethrice4393

    @garethrice4393

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@angelikajoanna3817 We live in a dateless society

  • @danisirooszadeh7305

    @danisirooszadeh7305

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nice one😂👌

  • @kgroovy3649

    @kgroovy3649

    4 жыл бұрын

    It really be like that tho so😂😔

  • @johnriordan9083

    @johnriordan9083

    4 жыл бұрын

    "there ain't enough coochie in this town for the both of us, compadre"

  • @No-wt3mf
    @No-wt3mf4 жыл бұрын

    Bruh why does KZread recommend me this now

  • @dragoncrafter4831

    @dragoncrafter4831

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah for me too. Couldnt sleep because I was thinking about asking her out, and this gets recommended

  • @josepablobermudez6283

    @josepablobermudez6283

    4 жыл бұрын

    it's a sign, you have to tell her

  • @erzloh

    @erzloh

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@dragoncrafter4831 lmao I'm in the same situation and I fear that the more the time passes the more it's difficult

  • @se7vin77

    @se7vin77

    4 жыл бұрын

    oh, you _know_ ;)

  • @adhdx2reacts186

    @adhdx2reacts186

    4 жыл бұрын

    Brandon Rios same bro I could’ve used this a year and half ago and now she has a boyfriend and they just hit there one year mark 😩😩😩👌🏿

  • @user-pv1ng2od2n
    @user-pv1ng2od2n4 жыл бұрын

    OH MY GOD i've listened to this about a 100 times throughout the last week and was determined and even excited to get rejected and GUESS WHAT HE SAID YES and I was SO confused. So now onto searching for ted talks about first dates😂

  • @tyler.__.g3923

    @tyler.__.g3923

    4 жыл бұрын

    all.in.or.nothing _ congrats! Wish I had the balls to ask mine...

  • @jereanellaster2085

    @jereanellaster2085

    4 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations, young jet eye🥳 😂🥳

  • @meredithmoore461

    @meredithmoore461

    4 жыл бұрын

    I want that!!😂❤💔

  • @steelsaber5431

    @steelsaber5431

    4 жыл бұрын

    Good job!

  • @EaszyInitials

    @EaszyInitials

    4 жыл бұрын

    r/thathappened r/youngpeopleyoutube r/nigga

  • @meliodas.1108
    @meliodas.11084 жыл бұрын

    I tell myself all the time when I get in a situation: "The worst thing that can happen is you'll die "😂

  • @skipdiner9972

    @skipdiner9972

    4 жыл бұрын

    I tell myself that too but it sadly never happens

  • @meliodas.1108

    @meliodas.1108

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@skipdiner9972 But it helps to get the job done 😁

  • @skipdiner9972

    @skipdiner9972

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@meliodas.1108 I meant I sadly haven't died yet

  • @meliodas.1108

    @meliodas.1108

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@skipdiner9972 you won't die for sure just like that 😜

  • @carterjohnson4079

    @carterjohnson4079

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ima sound like a week but by his name that makes me thing of naruto when sauske learns chidori

  • @deanparker5542
    @deanparker55424 жыл бұрын

    The most awkward part was getting weird looks as I got escorted out of my family reunion

  • @Dream-nt2vv

    @Dream-nt2vv

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lmfao

  • @SushiReversed

    @SushiReversed

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes officer, this comment right here

  • @DefinitelyTheRealFBI

    @DefinitelyTheRealFBI

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@SushiReversed uh huh ill take note of that

  • @zoeken5086

    @zoeken5086

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@DefinitelyTheRealFBI this is cursed

  • @z3ddd

    @z3ddd

    4 жыл бұрын

    HOLD UP-

  • @jameschristensen1658
    @jameschristensen16584 жыл бұрын

    i did and it’s exhilarating but she doesn’t like me back

  • @hamzasoumlali3601

    @hamzasoumlali3601

    4 жыл бұрын

    It doesn't matter you did your part the rest was up to her it's not your problem, to the next crush.

  • @asuraborn

    @asuraborn

    4 жыл бұрын

    There's plenty of fish in the ocean.

  • @gabrielmauger7608

    @gabrielmauger7608

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@asuraborn *sea but whatever

  • @Rayan-is7ky

    @Rayan-is7ky

    4 жыл бұрын

    Gabriel Mauger there are also plenty of fish in the ocean :)

  • @bastiarnogoll6783

    @bastiarnogoll6783

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@gabrielmauger7608 The metaphor is with 'ocean' tho

  • @paulgolke2012
    @paulgolke20124 жыл бұрын

    “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” -Some basketball player

  • @juliansantos3342

    @juliansantos3342

    3 жыл бұрын

    Michael Scott

  • @zjenthusiast3037

    @zjenthusiast3037

    3 жыл бұрын

    Gahndi

  • @theinfamousdingus2228

    @theinfamousdingus2228

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wayne Glensky!

  • @gside772

    @gside772

    3 жыл бұрын

    It is is one of those shots i wouldn't want to risk but dying inside everyday cos shes all i want..UGH

  • @teddyIngram

    @teddyIngram

    2 жыл бұрын

    - Micheal Scott

  • @DawoSida
    @DawoSida4 жыл бұрын

    Finalllllyyy gonna Propose my crush tomorrow.. Update: just got friend zoned 🥺🥺🥺 *She said she sees me as her favorite friend*

  • @lala12718

    @lala12718

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dawo Sida how'd it go

  • @aparnaga1182

    @aparnaga1182

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's another word v shl add in Oxford dictionary..... Sorry about the girl. Hope u find someone better

  • @Evgplays1

    @Evgplays1

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dawo Sida rip

  • @jacksonmontgomery6716

    @jacksonmontgomery6716

    4 жыл бұрын

    F

  • @JohnemonSilver

    @JohnemonSilver

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol I felt that

  • @-overdooo-
    @-overdooo-4 жыл бұрын

    "To get something you've never had, you have to do something you've never done."

  • @stfsp9745

    @stfsp9745

    4 жыл бұрын

    Looks like i should go out from my room... Nah!

  • @domri4203

    @domri4203

    3 жыл бұрын

    I've been rejected before.

  • @alizoncastillon3055

    @alizoncastillon3055

    3 жыл бұрын

    Whoaaa. It hits me. Ok, I take courage now!!! For real!

  • @imanafdar

    @imanafdar

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@domri4203 good then you wont wondering and overthinking about her and can move on since all clear

  • @maskboy2743

    @maskboy2743

    2 жыл бұрын

    oh my god, i will frame this in my room if i had one

  • @therandompandaman4521
    @therandompandaman45214 жыл бұрын

    "One second we're the smartest, funniest, best looking person in the room. Then we leave our bedrooms and go into rooms with other people." This line almost makes me want to do it.

  • @dahlia_moon1475

    @dahlia_moon1475

    4 жыл бұрын

    The Random Panda Man omg god I read that while he said it

  • @CamIsSuper

    @CamIsSuper

    4 жыл бұрын

    I want this quote on my wall

  • @randompheidoleminor3011

    @randompheidoleminor3011

    4 жыл бұрын

    Basically me when I transferred into an elite school.

  • @mr.perish6799

    @mr.perish6799

    4 жыл бұрын

    This is gonna be my senior quote

  • @sen7167

    @sen7167

    4 жыл бұрын

    I don’t get this joke

  • @benjaminchen4367
    @benjaminchen43674 жыл бұрын

    Me: asks crush out when I know I'll get rejected *Gets rejected* Me: surprised Pikachu face It happens but honestly it was not that bad

  • @mikhailhakim2631

    @mikhailhakim2631

    4 жыл бұрын

    Later it will be bad and then you'll be fine

  • @roeseldelgado

    @roeseldelgado

    4 жыл бұрын

    Benjamin Chen Jäger geile Sau

  • @nataliagodoroja7953

    @nataliagodoroja7953

    3 жыл бұрын

    LMAOOOO that's basically me

  • @VaishaliThulkar

    @VaishaliThulkar

    2 жыл бұрын

    yep, like u know its gonna be a no, but u still when. do get rejected its like "ahh, well"

  • @Arpita._

    @Arpita._

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly in my case. But bro he was totally giving mixed signals so that made me think he would agree 💀 Anyways atleast I'm glad that he knows I had feelings for him, I liked him...that's it lol

  • @devonhaapakoski2011
    @devonhaapakoski20114 жыл бұрын

    I asked out my crush and she said she’s going to tell her boyfriend, weird

  • @prankster8241

    @prankster8241

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sure is

  • @satelconsa6873

    @satelconsa6873

    3 жыл бұрын

    That girl can't make decision of her own, yes she's weird

  • @dhruvvsnv1601

    @dhruvvsnv1601

    2 жыл бұрын

    Is he still her boyfriend?

  • @LongCOVIDAdvocator

    @LongCOVIDAdvocator

    2 жыл бұрын

    He already smashed. You don't want another man's d in your girl already

  • @studiousboy644

    @studiousboy644

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@LongCOVIDAdvocator bruh

  • @saxoboy739
    @saxoboy7394 жыл бұрын

    I refuse to go out with any girl whose standards are so low she would go out with a guy like me

  • @siegejay6364

    @siegejay6364

    4 жыл бұрын

    ahahah lolz

  • @mrmcfluffed580

    @mrmcfluffed580

    4 жыл бұрын

    Go to the gym

  • @thehighgroundhimself736

    @thehighgroundhimself736

    4 жыл бұрын

    Task failed sucessfully

  • @jordanabarcelos3733

    @jordanabarcelos3733

    4 жыл бұрын

    Guess who is going to be alone forever... lol

  • @nasharar6946

    @nasharar6946

    4 жыл бұрын

    Omg don't say that bro 🥺 no need to talk down on your self like that

  • @noahtucker8491
    @noahtucker84914 жыл бұрын

    i just did it guys, the most awkward part of it was leaving the preschool class in handcuffs

  • @MikhaelAhava

    @MikhaelAhava

    4 жыл бұрын

    Woah.

  • @birkoyun8432

    @birkoyun8432

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lmfaoo🤣🤣

  • @myraniang3649

    @myraniang3649

    4 жыл бұрын

    haha

  • @danielstevenson1074

    @danielstevenson1074

    4 жыл бұрын

    Uhm I think you should watch a tedtall on if you're ready to date lol

  • @tonyth9240

    @tonyth9240

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oof

  • @sophiek2817
    @sophiek28174 жыл бұрын

    Can’t relate, I just admire from a distance

  • @davidbolha

    @davidbolha

    4 жыл бұрын

    A good fantasy can fuel you for months instead of a bleak grey reality. 😏

  • @simpletonproductions

    @simpletonproductions

    3 жыл бұрын

    _Sounds like stalking_ Okay

  • @mlnchly1536

    @mlnchly1536

    3 жыл бұрын

    SAAAME

  • @tinasway9097

    @tinasway9097

    2 жыл бұрын

    Literally

  • @arnavpramanik9112

    @arnavpramanik9112

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @kromandi897
    @kromandi8974 жыл бұрын

    “What if climate change is real and all the Polar Bears die?”

  • @alexandergeorgiev2631

    @alexandergeorgiev2631

    4 жыл бұрын

    The video played that right when I read it 🤯

  • @z3ddd

    @z3ddd

    4 жыл бұрын

    Who else pisses on the side of the toilet to make less sound

  • @nickgriffin7710

    @nickgriffin7710

    4 жыл бұрын

    You know, peeing on the ground, if you aim the right way, can be nearly silent

  • @kromandi897

    @kromandi897

    4 жыл бұрын

    Stoopid Stuff TV that is a great life skill

  • @nickgriffin7710

    @nickgriffin7710

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kromandi thank you. I have always considered myself to be full of wisdom

  • @noahloveshisark
    @noahloveshisark4 жыл бұрын

    Who else randomly got this in their recommended

  • @donkey3454

    @donkey3454

    4 жыл бұрын

    Noah Mariscal I think KZread is trying to tell me something so not random but yeah

  • @harrywang6792

    @harrywang6792

    4 жыл бұрын

    "Randomly"

  • @allenshen4902

    @allenshen4902

    4 жыл бұрын

    KZread knows I'm single

  • @Inseut

    @Inseut

    4 жыл бұрын

    "randomly" KZread knows. Go ask her/him out!!

  • @sh1roume

    @sh1roume

    4 жыл бұрын

    I really think youtube is telling me something

  • @QuantumParticle
    @QuantumParticle4 жыл бұрын

    "You should ask out your crush" *No, I don't think I will*

  • @matthewh.8717

    @matthewh.8717

    4 жыл бұрын

    I understood that reference 😂

  • @vewayy

    @vewayy

    4 жыл бұрын

    nah fam

  • @tf3confirmedbuthv54

    @tf3confirmedbuthv54

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m about to tho, ngl

  • @vewayy

    @vewayy

    4 жыл бұрын

    Some High Voltage Channel go on bro u got this

  • @mrtyrant1680

    @mrtyrant1680

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm not in the mood to get rejected

  • @rachels.1332
    @rachels.13322 жыл бұрын

    I love how he actually is scared of giving this TED talk but he still did it. Proud of you man

  • @kevinbl7821
    @kevinbl78214 жыл бұрын

    Me: God please send me a sign if I should ask her out God: *Literally comes down from heaven and tells me to do it* Me: No

  • @icecream6446
    @icecream64464 жыл бұрын

    so im guessing everyone’s youtube started recommending this?

  • @yungariesx

    @yungariesx

    4 жыл бұрын

    yup...youtube knows what we’re going through lmao

  • @shovel5526

    @shovel5526

    4 жыл бұрын

    yes & ur hot

  • @icecream6446

    @icecream6446

    4 жыл бұрын

    hannah let me update my photo real quick for you

  • @johnny3402

    @johnny3402

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @shovel5526

    @shovel5526

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jessica Bui blesst x2

  • @TalesOfFath
    @TalesOfFath4 жыл бұрын

    This is where boys get seperated from the men

  • @danielb1372

    @danielb1372

    4 жыл бұрын

    walking sickness this comment urged me to speak to my crush more than the whole video did🗿

  • @bonjey1

    @bonjey1

    4 жыл бұрын

    True. Go hard or go home

  • @hawkisdaboss5768

    @hawkisdaboss5768

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm a man, I've done this multiple times.

  • @dsetgetatme

    @dsetgetatme

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yep.... You feel like a BEAST after you ask out FINE WOMEN!! And sometimes I got a date with them 😎😎

  • @hawkisdaboss5768

    @hawkisdaboss5768

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@dsetgetatme and usually it makes them impressed since you're being direct, so even if they say no it gets the girls talking about you.

  • @axle_le
    @axle_le4 жыл бұрын

    After reading all the comments of people getting rejected, I am starting to wonder whether or not this is really good advice...jk jk. Thank you to anyone that watched this video. I appreciate it more than you know : )

  • @wallownine554

    @wallownine554

    2 жыл бұрын

    ayo why has no one seen you here good speech my man

  • @august-bl1jh

    @august-bl1jh

    2 жыл бұрын

    hey, good stuff man!!

  • @magnusbevaart2477

    @magnusbevaart2477

    2 жыл бұрын

    You said the point was not getting that date but becoming the person you want to be, so mission successful :)

  • @anushree1183
    @anushree11834 жыл бұрын

    "What's the worst that could happen? " *He could hear me*

  • @joelv6605
    @joelv66054 жыл бұрын

    I like how everyone out here is getting rejected because of this one video, respect ✊ 💯

  • @Bolo_Podoleo

    @Bolo_Podoleo

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@gabriellwin7882 ouch

  • @TheCharmZ

    @TheCharmZ

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@gabriellwin7882 Same it just happened to me Monday

  • @dontedoestuff

    @dontedoestuff

    4 жыл бұрын

    Gabriel Lwin Bring it in brother *im hugging you rn, embrace it

  • @n0nenone

    @n0nenone

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@gabriellwin7882 i too got rejected without even proposing and rest is same

  • @subhamchowdhury6229

    @subhamchowdhury6229

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@gabriellwin7882 F

  • @michidaisydog1816
    @michidaisydog18164 жыл бұрын

    nobody: Me on the inside at school: Whoever here has a crush on me, ask me out. You have no competition. Im rooting for you even.

  • @fredriklarsson1707

    @fredriklarsson1707

    4 жыл бұрын

    Michi daisydog I can see that you can use Control C,V

  • @michidaisydog1816

    @michidaisydog1816

    4 жыл бұрын

    Fredrik Larsson it was supposed to be a meme quote, ya boomer

  • @bhavyareddy4912

    @bhavyareddy4912

    4 жыл бұрын

    BRO LMAO THIS IS MEEE

  • @tonyth9240

    @tonyth9240

    4 жыл бұрын

    😏

  • @tristandepakistan9947

    @tristandepakistan9947

    4 жыл бұрын

    @turtlesilike2much funny thing is most people don't even know what it means

  • @andrescurls29
    @andrescurls29 Жыл бұрын

    The hurt from rejection does not linger like the pain of regret...

  • @bigsmoke1179
    @bigsmoke11793 жыл бұрын

    I had 47 rejections my whole life but I'm still on it.

  • @need4spe3dBeast

    @need4spe3dBeast

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ask cj for some advice

  • @haznayn5521

    @haznayn5521

    2 жыл бұрын

    fuckin thats a lot. still gotta give u props for mustering up the courage to ask, gotta a crush rn and might drop a big hint tomorrow and ask her out the next day, who knows she might even say yes

  • @user-dp7ye3cg2z

    @user-dp7ye3cg2z

    2 жыл бұрын

    You've counted them all?

  • @cb5170
    @cb51704 жыл бұрын

    im watching this knowing that i will never ask out my crush

  • @thiruvalluvar3880

    @thiruvalluvar3880

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same lol

  • @DaChessinata

    @DaChessinata

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same 😆 😆

  • @danmoreta

    @danmoreta

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nah you got it have a little faith I believe in you 💯

  • @mdm2186

    @mdm2186

    4 жыл бұрын

    cozy boys

  • @chinares

    @chinares

    4 жыл бұрын

    Im watching this not even having a crash

  • @julial6789
    @julial67894 жыл бұрын

    Me: God give me a sign if I should tell him I like him God: Recommends KZread video as a sign Me: I don’t believe you, give me another sign

  • @johnpangarakis396

    @johnpangarakis396

    4 жыл бұрын

    Julia L lmao, I felt this

  • @julial6789

    @julial6789

    4 жыл бұрын

    Logan Staub I say go for it because rejection lasts for five seconds while regret lasts forever. If your crush doesn’t like you back, don’t worry and keep in mind rejection is just redirection and you’re closer to finding the person for you. Best of luck to you!

  • @mikhailhakim2631

    @mikhailhakim2631

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@loganstaub8690 tell me the result

  • @ruris189

    @ruris189

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@loganstaub8690 how did it go?

  • @Matthiel

    @Matthiel

    4 жыл бұрын

    How did you know how I feel

  • @joffefan590
    @joffefan5904 жыл бұрын

    I told my best friend i had feelings for her after this. Yeah, she didnt even answer❤️

  • @mathebus

    @mathebus

    4 жыл бұрын

    Respect to you bro 👊 I just did the same and I'm left on read 😂😂 that's life

  • @joffefan590

    @joffefan590

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mat just wait, im sure she’ll answer eventually🙌 for me it took an hour, and we’re back just as before now man👊 it’ll work out, better than regretting not saying anything! Respect to *you* man👏

  • @jereanellaster2085

    @jereanellaster2085

    4 жыл бұрын

    😥💔

  • @meredithmoore461

    @meredithmoore461

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yea I was like her who didnt answer and its just kinda awkward

  • @billowen3285

    @billowen3285

    4 жыл бұрын

    Guys you need to do this stuff in person

  • @mycxl
    @mycxl Жыл бұрын

    I confessed, and let me tell you, if you wanna tell someone about something, BE STRAIGHT FORWARD. you don't want the person to think what you actually want to say. That's all, it'll relieve much stress at the end of the day

  • @AbdulRehman-do9xj
    @AbdulRehman-do9xj4 жыл бұрын

    Me : "breathes in indian accent" Crush : I have a boyfriend

  • @AbdulRehman-do9xj

    @AbdulRehman-do9xj

    4 жыл бұрын

    @That OneBrownGuy I'm not Indian,

  • @TheJoseph0012

    @TheJoseph0012

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@AbdulRehman-do9xj then why do you have an Indian accent?

  • @AbdulRehman-do9xj

    @AbdulRehman-do9xj

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@TheJoseph0012 i have Indian face. I only mentioned breathing in Indian accent just to convey the message how i look like And we all know how much girls like Indian boys or Indian looking dudes.

  • @bhavikajangid8579

    @bhavikajangid8579

    4 жыл бұрын

    😅

  • @MelloCello7

    @MelloCello7

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nothing wrong with Indian dudes, it's just the memes that kills it. Show her that you're a chill dude and u should be fine regardless of answer

  • @rexrecks1490
    @rexrecks14904 жыл бұрын

    You know, I believe that this talk applies to way more than just asking out your crush.

  • @thecookiehero4338

    @thecookiehero4338

    4 жыл бұрын

    Right? He really expanded the concept to life as a whole. Inspiring.

  • @prudvim3513

    @prudvim3513

    4 жыл бұрын

    Definitely, but this example is relevant to most of the people.

  • @micaelanieves9718

    @micaelanieves9718

    4 жыл бұрын

    rexrecks yes so true

  • @Zero-ef4sc

    @Zero-ef4sc

    4 жыл бұрын

    True. It is the same thing in business for example, if you ask a potential investor to give you money, the answer may be yes, the answer may be no. But if you don't ask them, the answer is no.

  • @calamitrialchoerry8835

    @calamitrialchoerry8835

    4 жыл бұрын

    rexrecks facts

  • @jessicabaum9370
    @jessicabaum93704 жыл бұрын

    Three experiences to share: 1. The Monday after homecoming my freshman year of high school I asked the guy I went with about the possibility of us dating and he said he didn't think it was a good idea. (Knowing him better now than I did then, I know he sometimes freaks out and says the opposite of how he feels which is what happened that day.) About a month and a half later he asked me out and we dated for about 8 months. 2. I had a crush on my best friend during my sophomore/junior year of college. I was 99.999 etc. percent sure he didn't feel the same way, but I needed to hear him say it. I didn't ask him out, but I did talk to him about it. I was right, he didn't like me that way. But it was the first of many difficult and awkward conversations we've had that have made our friendship stronger. 3. My college boyfriend and I started dating because I asked him out. I remember debating with my self about whether or not to ask him. Ultimately, I realized there was absolutely nothing he could say that would be worse than the amount of anxiety I was feeling. I have to say I don't regret anything about those experiences or anything that happened because of them. My regrets come from the times I didn't ask someone out or tell them I had feelings for them. "What if..." can be one of the most painful questions to ask yourself.

  • @lily-8954

    @lily-8954

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @prashasti598

    @prashasti598

    2 жыл бұрын

    that is really amazing! what ifs can be terrible >o

  • @livingforhim1005

    @livingforhim1005

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great message

  • @riniedarryllan1846

    @riniedarryllan1846

    2 жыл бұрын

    How r u so brave to ask guys out i mean I will never ever do that cuz 1. Guys are mean like seriously 2. I saw a tiktok that says guys hate when girls tryna flirt with them first 3. I've seen a lot of comments that say guys have possibility to say yes so that they can flex it to their friends and not bc they like u back and it will just gonna hurt my feelings 4. The girls around are just so mean, they will probably judge me bc of asking a guy out first and they will think that I'm just way too easy. I really hope u understand what I'm saying

  • @livingforhim1005

    @livingforhim1005

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@riniedarryllan1846 omigoodness, I always thought flirting with the guy first would make you memorable, lol. --though this wasn't to me, I wanted to say try not to think that way about all guys as a whole. There are many jerks but also so many hidden gems and nice people. I've met one guy super nice and someone else a bit blunt and hurtful 🤷‍♀️ even though both turned me down ---With risks comes pain but in the end it gives you confidence and you won't overthink and regret never saying anything. -Lastly forget those girls and forget their judgement, I think a girl being bold and confessing or asking someone out is crazy awesome. And you're not easy, your inspiring because it's what many people in general are afraid to do 💗

  • @anjana5853
    @anjana5853 Жыл бұрын

    Regret hurts more than rejection! So confess your feelings for your crush.

  • @shrimphead2381
    @shrimphead23814 жыл бұрын

    F's in chat boys to everyone who just got rejected cus of this vid...

  • @cliffordcalhoun3201

    @cliffordcalhoun3201

    4 жыл бұрын

    Apprecated

  • @ramsho7898

    @ramsho7898

    4 жыл бұрын

    F

  • @postnuclearradiohost

    @postnuclearradiohost

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yo, shoot me an F

  • @jenniesrealgf9372

    @jenniesrealgf9372

    4 жыл бұрын

    lol me

  • @noxxider4361

    @noxxider4361

    4 жыл бұрын

    F

  • @yumikogita
    @yumikogita4 жыл бұрын

    I could give a Ted talk on why this is a terrible idea

  • @leonardos.1507

    @leonardos.1507

    4 жыл бұрын

    With that username and picture i'm not surprised

  • @nilexx2379

    @nilexx2379

    4 жыл бұрын

    This is so funny;) you have a sense of humor

  • @SC-fh9sb

    @SC-fh9sb

    4 жыл бұрын

    Leonardo S. you deadass have an anime pfp aswell ,actual simp

  • @smingjr

    @smingjr

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Marco Solis he isnt wrong tho...

  • @adammansueto10

    @adammansueto10

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@leonardos.1507 savage

  • @KPthesigma
    @KPthesigma3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much. This really gave me the confidence to ask my crush out and she said yes. Everyone listen to this guy, even if your crush says no I promise you will be proud of yourself afterwards.

  • @ok-rn2un

    @ok-rn2un

    2 жыл бұрын

    happy for you bro :)

  • @jacobcooper7123

    @jacobcooper7123

    8 ай бұрын

    I’m going for it tomorrow in class 🫡 We’ll see if she says yes. 😭

  • @Balletlover777

    @Balletlover777

    3 ай бұрын

    @@jacobcooper7123did she?

  • @jacobcooper7123

    @jacobcooper7123

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Balletlover777 Initially she said yes and gave me her number, but then she took like four days to respond and said she was super busy. I took the hint haha. Still glad I tried though, it helped me push pass my comfort zone and now I know without doubt.

  • @sayno3232
    @sayno32322 жыл бұрын

    For all the people who got this recommended, this is a sign! Go for it, G.

  • @ei6728
    @ei67284 жыл бұрын

    Its not about rejection, its the guts

  • @humbertodelac0494

    @humbertodelac0494

    4 жыл бұрын

    i have no guts

  • @ei6728

    @ei6728

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@humbertodelac0494 same.

  • @abdullahmohammad6803

    @abdullahmohammad6803

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mine is about rejection

  • @Milewski23

    @Milewski23

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mine is the possibility of her saying no and it being really awkward since we work together 🙃

  • @abdullahmohammad6803

    @abdullahmohammad6803

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Milewski23 same bro

  • @offbeatmoonknight
    @offbeatmoonknight4 жыл бұрын

    Probably the first guy who wore a 🧢 in his ted talk.

  • @jakewillenbring3078

    @jakewillenbring3078

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yang?

  • @samuellopez240

    @samuellopez240

    4 жыл бұрын

    Backwards

  • @sandwich434

    @sandwich434

    4 жыл бұрын

    Himanshu Prasad ❌🧢 tho

  • @ch-17vevo55

    @ch-17vevo55

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think Marc Rober was the first one to wear a hat at a ted talk maybe

  • @gremlinflat_

    @gremlinflat_

    4 жыл бұрын

    CERTIFIED NERD TALK

  • @MrDaWang
    @MrDaWang4 жыл бұрын

    Asked my friend (who I've known since we were kids) last weekend and found out that she was already seeing someone else. My advice to everyone: DON'T WAIT. Don't wait for the perfect conditions; assume they won't come. Being honest with someone won't mess up a friendship. The feeling of wondering "what if" later on will hurt more than anything else

  • @aerojetrocketdyners-2538
    @aerojetrocketdyners-25384 жыл бұрын

    why need crushes and girlfriends when i have my own monologue and anime waifus.

  • @1AMdoesSomething

    @1AMdoesSomething

    4 жыл бұрын

    Random Weaboo Because Sonic said anime wasn’t real.

  • @faraistauhid2878

    @faraistauhid2878

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hey will u marry me? We can exchange 2d husbands n waifus

  • @nootics

    @nootics

    4 жыл бұрын

    Took too long to find a weeb. I haven't had a crush in years. but i don't care about that. More that I NEED TO FIND A WAIFU

  • @aerojetrocketdyners-2538

    @aerojetrocketdyners-2538

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@faraistauhid2878 i am asexual now exept for when i am watching Anime.

  • @darienwhite6223
    @darienwhite62234 жыл бұрын

    "They might not like you back" Knowing me, they DEFINITELY don't.

  • @ItsAlice1

    @ItsAlice1

    4 жыл бұрын

    It be like this sometimes

  • @aisir3725

    @aisir3725

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same, man, are you sure you don't need depression treatment though?

  • @vaultboy1086

    @vaultboy1086

    4 жыл бұрын

    Feels bad man

  • @Psychy

    @Psychy

    4 жыл бұрын

    I don't know you, but if you don't like yourself, how can you expect someone else to?

  • @darienwhite6223

    @darienwhite6223

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Psychy My point exactly lmao

  • @Ravioliyt
    @Ravioliyt4 жыл бұрын

    Me: tries to talk to my crush My brain: ight, imma head out

  • @morrasod1858

    @morrasod1858

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ravioli yo that’s straight facts. I could talk to anybody (male or female). And make jokes like crazy. As soon as a girl I like is around. My brain just dips😭

  • @krishnac4910
    @krishnac49104 жыл бұрын

    I recently asked out my best friend and crush. I was convinced she was not interested AT ALL. But my friends kept telling me to do it. I waited 4 years and finally told her I liked her through Instagram DMs. The next day at school I found out that she likes me too. So that evening I asked her out using DMs again. It was awkward at first and we couldn't talk to each other about this in person for a week, but now, after 2 weeks, I'm happier than I've ever been. For the first time in my life, I was truly happy. No matter what u believe, just do it. We only have one life, and we should try to be as happy as possible in it. Take risks. Bonus points if you make others happy too. Hope I reached you. Have a nice day.🙂

  • @qurse.5343
    @qurse.53433 жыл бұрын

    If I do ask out my crush and she says yes tf am I supposed to do?

  • @shovel5526
    @shovel55264 жыл бұрын

    god, is this a sign?

  • @icedwhitechocolatemochafra9851

    @icedwhitechocolatemochafra9851

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @amninderkaur9664

    @amninderkaur9664

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm thinking about the same thing😂

  • @johnrommelramirez7534

    @johnrommelramirez7534

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's up to you. You have to choose to get over with the rejection or spend the rest of your life regretting about it.

  • @vdmur7952

    @vdmur7952

    4 жыл бұрын

    No

  • @hellotheirgoodsir9291

    @hellotheirgoodsir9291

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @Mia-qf1gf
    @Mia-qf1gf4 жыл бұрын

    This guy is so convincing, that such a stubborn person like me is actually considering it

  • @chroni3659

    @chroni3659

    4 жыл бұрын

    Do it! You got this! They’ll be lucky to have you :p

  • @cliffordcalhoun3201

    @cliffordcalhoun3201

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dont fall for it. I did

  • @green_ball8773

    @green_ball8773

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @RIPTRIG

    @RIPTRIG

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same tho

  • @fractilizard4476

    @fractilizard4476

    4 жыл бұрын

    Im gonna do it man, you should do too, no risk no fun👍

  • @bunnymsp361
    @bunnymsp3614 жыл бұрын

    I want to ask him out but I’m so scared ☹️ 😞 Edit: I asked him out.. he said yes!😁 I recommend it😁

  • @user-ji8zw2el8b

    @user-ji8zw2el8b

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah no i don't have the guts to do it

  • @joshgonzalez9362

    @joshgonzalez9362

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@user-ji8zw2el8b me neither man

  • @Prosecutor_DarthDecidui

    @Prosecutor_DarthDecidui

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@joshgonzalez9362 yeah, same. Rejection’s a scary thing, and my self esteem is already at -3 out of 10

  • @l0gik321

    @l0gik321

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Prosecutor_DarthDecidui -3🤣🤣👌

  • @Danny_1400

    @Danny_1400

    3 жыл бұрын

    covid: rejection: you wont feel as much pain through a screen but its still gonna hurt

  • @AustinFarrell1012
    @AustinFarrell10124 жыл бұрын

    Me: KZread recommendations: “So you tryna ask your crush out?”

  • @klab705
    @klab7054 жыл бұрын

    him: what if climate change is real and all the polar bears die? crowd: *LAUGHS*

  • @user-dg1vm8fn6o

    @user-dg1vm8fn6o

    4 жыл бұрын

    Fuck'n boomers

  • @justingriffin36

    @justingriffin36

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes. That's how it went.

  • @jonesaffrou6014

    @jonesaffrou6014

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@user-dg1vm8fn6o ok boomer

  • @gregd335shot9

    @gregd335shot9

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @cxt7181

    @cxt7181

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I'm pretty sure we watched the same video?

  • @Benni259
    @Benni2594 жыл бұрын

    Instructions weren’t clear enough, now I’m dating her brother

  • @muddy111

    @muddy111

    4 жыл бұрын

    We lovw Fortnite Woah

  • @Benni259

    @Benni259

    4 жыл бұрын

    Santiago Carrillo yeah ikr, idk how i ended up with him but now we have a family and we are living happily ever after

  • @Psgamer-pl8xq

    @Psgamer-pl8xq

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @nickcarle6290

    @nickcarle6290

    3 жыл бұрын

    Maybe that was your destiny

  • @lilxtravert1299

    @lilxtravert1299

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmao

  • @crazycat2969
    @crazycat29694 жыл бұрын

    I have been successfully rejected by the girl that have everyone crush on in school. And yea, my confident increased

  • @sunnyrayavarapu3068
    @sunnyrayavarapu30682 жыл бұрын

    Still can't get over how good this TEDx Talk is. I didn't have a crush or anything to act on, but this inspired me to take risks in all aspects of my life and has had such a major impact on my life.

  • @bartekg5144
    @bartekg51444 жыл бұрын

    IT WORKS!!! I just asked my crush out and she said "yea why not" Wish me luck boys

  • @thiruvalluvar3880

    @thiruvalluvar3880

    4 жыл бұрын

    Haha you already got it bro! Why you still need luck? But good luck anyways

  • @888PsyMike888

    @888PsyMike888

    4 жыл бұрын

    "Yeah, why not?" The words every man dreams of...

  • @abracadabruh1313

    @abracadabruh1313

    4 жыл бұрын

    When you call her your number ID is gonna say 'free food'.

  • @EmoPineapple

    @EmoPineapple

    4 жыл бұрын

    Moose Moose oof, mean. Go for a walk or smth.

  • @antonellapastor861

    @antonellapastor861

    4 жыл бұрын

    Good luckkkk

  • @Nobigwords
    @Nobigwords4 жыл бұрын

    *asks the universe for a sign* The universe: Me: no

  • @zimitraa

    @zimitraa

    4 жыл бұрын

    lmaooo

  • @simpletonproductions

    @simpletonproductions

    3 жыл бұрын

    Universe: *throws a brick at you* Me: hmmmmmm I don’t this this is clear enough

  • @ksenia1182
    @ksenia11823 жыл бұрын

    BROOO I REALLY WANT TO HUG THIS DUDE BECAUSE I DID IT! I FCKING ASKED MY CRUSH IF HE WANTED TO START DATING WITH ME THANKS TO THIS MAN THAT GAVE ME THE CONFIDENCE THAT I CAN DO IT! *Advice* Go talk to them without making excuses or finding a topic to say because we're not in a movie. I asked him in a really cringy way and I could tell he was embarassed but the thing is that it's better telling the truth than thinking of plans and stuff. Update: he said no but that's ok because I honestly don't feel bad because I did something I wanted so bad for so many months. If he feels cringy after that every time he sees me I don't care and that's not my business because I feel confident and since i did something I was scared of, I'm gonna feel proud of me.

  • @felixg.feliciano8595

    @felixg.feliciano8595

    2 жыл бұрын

    You faced fear of rejection, and dare to experience, thus daring to live. Admiration & respect.

  • @KK-jp5fu
    @KK-jp5fu4 жыл бұрын

    What Gives People Feelings Of Power Money: - Status:----- Asking Your Crush Out and Getting Rejected?: --------------

  • @devinrr

    @devinrr

    4 жыл бұрын

    W Y Text memes are big brain

  • @kylebetz9684

    @kylebetz9684

    4 жыл бұрын

    Stonks

  • @bernadettecastro1319
    @bernadettecastro13194 жыл бұрын

    What if ur crush is a 40 yr old woman with husband and kids Asking 4 a friend

  • @xander9517

    @xander9517

    4 жыл бұрын

    Fullest send brother, best of luck

  • @Annayasha

    @Annayasha

    4 жыл бұрын

    Interesting. Risk it, why not?

  • @billygilmusic5072

    @billygilmusic5072

    4 жыл бұрын

    wait for the inevitable divorce when her husband starts banging his secretary and being absent at home... it would probably happen sooner than later given that she's in her 40s

  • @stockholmsyndromeself-trea7517

    @stockholmsyndromeself-trea7517

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@rrd On the contrary, when he/she asks her out, she's given a chance to have a new family. Isn't it cool?

  • @dvs7440

    @dvs7440

    4 жыл бұрын

    best to stay away

  • @MrThat0neperson
    @MrThat0neperson4 жыл бұрын

    "When you fall off that horse, you get right back up and you eat that horse"

  • @torylanez5809

    @torylanez5809

    4 жыл бұрын

    You had me in the first half chief

  • @midnightcruise3426

    @midnightcruise3426

    4 жыл бұрын

    Now get up and Eat that horse!!!!!!!

  • @torylanez5809

    @torylanez5809

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@midnightcruise3426 ngl that notification did brighten up my day 😂 I wasn't expecting it

  • @midnightcruise3426

    @midnightcruise3426

    4 жыл бұрын

    Haha, its team 4 star

  • @jewlzn7130

    @jewlzn7130

    4 жыл бұрын

    Unless you broke your ribs with that fall!!!!

  • @tr0ubledreligi0n44
    @tr0ubledreligi0n444 жыл бұрын

    "your worried it might ruin your friendship" Me: friendship ha

  • @tristaw2965

    @tristaw2965

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @krissisworld3760
    @krissisworld37602 жыл бұрын

    I asked my boyfriend out a few weeks ago and I felt the same way. I couldn't believe that I asked him out. I was so proud of myself for doing something so brave.

  • @patricksarama4963

    @patricksarama4963

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow

  • @haydeltae5887
    @haydeltae58874 жыл бұрын

    Ha I talked to my crush without any likes!

  • @tinaa6908

    @tinaa6908

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dogs 😂

  • @alexosow

    @alexosow

    4 жыл бұрын

    But how can you talk to them?

  • @Miguel-yb3hf

    @Miguel-yb3hf

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@alexosow a mouth and words

  • @alexosow

    @alexosow

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Miguel-yb3hf it's a dog

  • @emanessa8795

    @emanessa8795

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'll still give you a like.

  • @beckypettifor4374
    @beckypettifor43744 жыл бұрын

    I don't currently have a crush, but I'll be taking notes...

  • @josepablobermudez6283

    @josepablobermudez6283

    4 жыл бұрын

    same here

  • @arkadiuszgiber6904

    @arkadiuszgiber6904

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @Unschnurr

    @Unschnurr

    4 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @weirdchamp4601

    @weirdchamp4601

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been in school with the same kids for almost 10 years and I am not interested in any of them

  • @Kipchoge475

    @Kipchoge475

    4 жыл бұрын

    i'm not good enough for you? that's what it is, huh?

  • @noahclark1116
    @noahclark11162 жыл бұрын

    Me: Wanna go out sometime? Her: Yeah, when and where? Me: ... (I never thought it through this far)

  • @kirklandwassabi8619
    @kirklandwassabi86192 жыл бұрын

    Just asked my best friend out and she said yes to a date but it was hella awkward. Even if it doesnt work im so glad i got it off my chest. JUST DO IT MY FELLOW KINGS

  • @axle_le
    @axle_le4 жыл бұрын

    Ayo, why does that guy look so cute though, what's that about?

  • @samueldiaz1967

    @samueldiaz1967

    4 жыл бұрын

    Alex Le I don’t want to alarm you but he looks just like you

  • @carmen-yc9tl

    @carmen-yc9tl

    4 жыл бұрын

    This needs more likes😅

  • @gustasvs

    @gustasvs

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nice talk dude... Really inspiring!!

  • @123vitaminC

    @123vitaminC

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha

  • @lialeavasa

    @lialeavasa

    4 жыл бұрын

    i was just thinking that 🤤😍

  • @LeZylox
    @LeZylox4 жыл бұрын

    Can we also get a Ted talk on how to become friends with a girl in the first place?

  • @Sam_Wolff

    @Sam_Wolff

    4 жыл бұрын

    All you gotta do is talk to her

  • @litterallyquaking1017

    @litterallyquaking1017

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Sam_Wolff it's not as easy as it sounds though..my guy crush is always hanging out with a relatively big group of friends, leaving me no confidence to even talk to him;/

  • @scoob1670

    @scoob1670

    4 жыл бұрын

    Treat them like an actual person and brush your teeth

  • @mrmcfluffed580

    @mrmcfluffed580

    4 жыл бұрын

    So i guess the real question is how to stand out from the rest?

  • @myric8537

    @myric8537

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mr Mc Fluffed be true to yourself, don’t try to act “Normal”. I’m not saying to jump on a table and start dancing but more just don’t be afraid to express yourself and your opinions. If she likes you for that, cool, if she doesn’t, oh well.

  • @arigdn3782
    @arigdn37823 жыл бұрын

    i will always be thankful for this video. Yes, i just got rejected but i’m proud to say, i’ve faced my fears and i told my crush i liked him. Obviously he said no, but i’m so proud of myself bc i did something i was terrified of and now i’m ready to focus on myself and my life again. Thank you very much 🙏🏻

  • @mrmanboy9274
    @mrmanboy92742 жыл бұрын

    Now that she’s gone I regret never telling her

  • @DaChessinata
    @DaChessinata4 жыл бұрын

    I'm just going through the comments laughing not paying attention sorry lol

  • @jj-kq7cu

    @jj-kq7cu

    4 жыл бұрын

    Justin McCue heehe same

  • @nevaeh-lehlipscomb4435

    @nevaeh-lehlipscomb4435

    4 жыл бұрын

    Facts lmao

  • @chloemitchell5698

    @chloemitchell5698

    4 жыл бұрын

    ME TOO LMAO

  • @welcome2wyzard

    @welcome2wyzard

    4 жыл бұрын

    mood

  • @raik.d8538

    @raik.d8538

    4 жыл бұрын

    Justin McCue oof

  • @jirinsjimin56
    @jirinsjimin564 жыл бұрын

    Me : **watches too much KZread** KZread : _bro be single af_ **Sends me this**

  • @roysreceptive
    @roysreceptive4 жыл бұрын

    My guess is, his crush will watch this and admire him for his talk. She’ll hint about wanting to go on a date with him, but he’ll have moved on.

  • @benpetsopoulos
    @benpetsopoulos3 жыл бұрын

    Took his advice, and it worked!!! After idolizing this girl for about a year this video gave me the push I needed to overcome my fear of rejection To all the boys out there afraid of just shooting your shot, take it from me, it’s so much better on the other side. No anxiety. No what-ifs. Just do it and you’ll thank me later. That being said, I don’t know if my heart has ever beat that fast before LOL

  • @myrkflinn4331

    @myrkflinn4331

    2 жыл бұрын

    Play darksouls 😂 that stuff makes your adrenaline skyrocket

  • @Cambadadenoobs

    @Cambadadenoobs

    2 жыл бұрын

    I will come back here later and I hope that everything went right ahahaha

  • @boogeyman1016

    @boogeyman1016

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Cambadadenoobs good luck man

  • @everything-comics1102

    @everything-comics1102

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m waiting for him to say “Edit: we just broke up” But seriously you’re kinda inspiring me rn

  • @mclennwi6938

    @mclennwi6938

    2 жыл бұрын

    Any tips for how you worked up the courage 😁

  • @kcmoney9042
    @kcmoney90424 жыл бұрын

    guys i told my crush i liked him and now he’s my boyfriend :)

  • @hazzahannah

    @hazzahannah

    4 жыл бұрын

    Congrats 👍👍

  • @themexican8720

    @themexican8720

    4 жыл бұрын

    Congrats! I am so happy for you!

  • @enzocerrudo314

    @enzocerrudo314

    4 жыл бұрын

    This kind of things doesn happen in real life lol

  • @litterallyquaking1017

    @litterallyquaking1017

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Lolicon I'm starting to see a pattern- the guys are all getting rejected while the girls are getting accepted lmao, either way props to them in having the courage

  • @gameseeker6307

    @gameseeker6307

    4 жыл бұрын

    Adorable

  • @V1SION394
    @V1SION3944 жыл бұрын

    I asked and she said yes, never thought I would go this far

  • @amitkerurkar8685

    @amitkerurkar8685

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow man congratulations

  • @bbd4880

    @bbd4880

    4 жыл бұрын

    I salute you

  • @mikeyboy7719

    @mikeyboy7719

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lies

  • @dasterlykiller7435

    @dasterlykiller7435

    4 жыл бұрын

    W

  • @soba_fm

    @soba_fm

    4 жыл бұрын

    What a god

  • @lucaspiano76
    @lucaspiano762 жыл бұрын

    I’m gonna sit here and watch this video until I build up the courage to do it. Wish me luck lads

  • @ph0enix321

    @ph0enix321

    2 жыл бұрын

    Godspeed brother

  • @erinyes3943

    @erinyes3943

    2 жыл бұрын

    Gluck

  • @dragonloremipsum
    @dragonloremipsum2 жыл бұрын

    A while back I had to give a speech during my English class and I decided to do my speech on confidence just like what Alex did here. I decided to end my speech with "We only have one shot at life, so why not make the most of it?" and I asked my crush out right then and there. She said yes :)

  • @Nyxar-2077

    @Nyxar-2077

    4 ай бұрын

    Lemme borrow your balls bro 💀

  • @579enact
    @579enact4 жыл бұрын

    As a 50 yr old guy I'd like to give some advice to younger guys out there: That bit where Alex talks about summoning up the courage to ask his crush out, reminded me of myself, but here's the thing: Unless the girl also happens to have a massive secret crush on you, and is just waiting for you to ask her out, then if you make a big deal of it when you ask her, I mean if you actually say "will you go out with me?" like that, then more often than not you'll get rejected. Why? Because men are very romantic in our minds. We have a crush and we build it up and up and think it over until it becomes this great dream-like thing, and so asking her out becomes like this great heroic challenge. Women are romantic too of course, but not quite in the same way, or at least, not always so. What I'm trying to say is, try and keep the asking casual, if you can.

  • @joshualeon3486

    @joshualeon3486

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks..I will try this.

  • @smingjr

    @smingjr

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah. I've seen that just trying to get a friend group together with that crush is best. You get to know them. Slowly shrink the amounts of freinds you invite and ask your crush one on one if they want to hang out. Just make it casual. If you make is romantic it is more likely to end up weird

  • @ClearlyVague1

    @ClearlyVague1

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your wisdom

  • @Amanda-qe5lj

    @Amanda-qe5lj

    4 жыл бұрын

    so 'will you go out with me' is casual bot more often than not that'll get me rejected, but i have to keep things as casual as i can? what?

  • @TheStianmann

    @TheStianmann

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Amanda-qe5lj No he's saying "will you go out with me?" puts too much pressure on the person being asked because they know your intention is to date them. He's suggesting to ask to hang out in a more casual situation, and see if any chemistry evolves over time.

  • @paulhuynh6228
    @paulhuynh62284 жыл бұрын

    I thought he was going to say She said yes, and she's my girlfriend sitting over there. But the No answer was more realistic. Great talk though

  • @TheChosenOne66501

    @TheChosenOne66501

    4 жыл бұрын

    Paul Huynh the whole point of his talk was that rejection makes you stronger and just do the things you’re afraid of. His message wasn’t “You can’t get things unless you try”. That’s why I knew he was gonna say she said no

  • @jackd1026

    @jackd1026

    4 жыл бұрын

    Spoiler alert?

  • @hplsswrr

    @hplsswrr

    4 жыл бұрын

    the no answer makes his message even more clear and influential though

  • @TheChosenOne66501

    @TheChosenOne66501

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jack D blame Paul for not understanding the point of the video

  • @bradting5078
    @bradting50782 жыл бұрын

    "who here has a crush on someone?" you raise your hand and you see that your husband/wife doesnt

  • @sirticklebear5983
    @sirticklebear59834 жыл бұрын

    No. I don’t think I will.

  • @user-ji8zw2el8b

    @user-ji8zw2el8b

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @hannahanneabraham97
    @hannahanneabraham974 жыл бұрын

    You know, there's some truth to this. I had a bad experience in high school where I had a crush on a guy for a while and he found out himself. After that, I resolved to never again let another crush find out from others and to just tell then myself. I muddled through college with this ideology, taking it to a whole other extent, telling every single guy I thought was attractive so on their faces, making countless problems for myself what not. 😂 But you wanna know how it ended? It ended with me exiting college victorious with my degree, plus with my batch mates holding a viewpoint that I was fearless and go-getter, never afraid to speak up when I had to. Cause this whole asking ppl out out loud? It ended up translating to all the different aspects of my life too. I became louder and bolder in the classroom, in public space, never reluctant to call out bs when I saw it. And that equipped me better for adulthood than I think anything else possibly could've. Honestly, I only realised this as I wrote it. 😂 So go ahead lads and lasses. Ask out your crushes and stare your fears down. I'm living proof that it's worth it.

  • @swathishanmugasundaram394

    @swathishanmugasundaram394

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is honestly the best comment in this entire section!!

  • @prashasti598

    @prashasti598

    2 жыл бұрын

    dang.. that explains a lot! you're my inspiration🙈

  • @mightyminotaur5056

    @mightyminotaur5056

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel like if I did this I would get placed on a watch list. But you’re comment was so inspiring, I kinda want to try anyway!

  • @gabrielcastro6601

    @gabrielcastro6601

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm going to do that because we work at the same place and I really like her I was going to ask her if she wanted to I literally was but got interrupted by co workers

  • @cycsportapparel3350

    @cycsportapparel3350

    Жыл бұрын

    This was a good lesson and so true about life. Everything is related. Overcoming one fear ultimately leads to overcoming a multitude of fears we wouldn't have even thought were related to that "one".

  • @michellepavlikovska9860
    @michellepavlikovska98604 жыл бұрын

    i don’t even have a crush why am i here

  • @yentl

    @yentl

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm here for the nostalgia, cuz I can still relate to it from past experiences. XD

  • @dvegan314

    @dvegan314

    4 жыл бұрын

    God bless the KZread algorithms...

  • @gaurav_bora_

    @gaurav_bora_

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@dvegan314 youtunes? itunes? lmaooooooijuhgf

  • @chaosdweller

    @chaosdweller

    4 жыл бұрын

    Education, I don't either

  • @stilleswassermaximalist

    @stilleswassermaximalist

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same. Haven't had a crush for years now.

  • @SNB_1985
    @SNB_19854 жыл бұрын

    I am a man who lives in the great state of Alabama. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. I wasn’t worried about not seeing her again because we would always still be family.

  • @The_Top_Striker
    @The_Top_Striker4 жыл бұрын

    “Do things that your scared of” I’m kinda scared of my crush because it could get awkward

  • @neol07707
    @neol077074 жыл бұрын

    "Her golden hair" That blonde white girl lost out bruh lol

  • @stockholmsyndromeself-trea7517

    @stockholmsyndromeself-trea7517

    4 жыл бұрын

    Doesn't matter though. Maybe he was watching anime where everybody has golden hair.

  • @annmariebartholomew2591

    @annmariebartholomew2591

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tonghe Wang 😂😂😂

  • @rebeccaastill3293
    @rebeccaastill32934 жыл бұрын

    “Do things you’re scared of” Welp I AM scared of my crush but I’m working on it

  • @clostridiumtetani5965

    @clostridiumtetani5965

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Mon nom I can help man. Just tell me where you live?

  • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

    @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823

    4 жыл бұрын

    What's the point of anyone you can't relax around?

  • @littleprincess4615

    @littleprincess4615

    4 жыл бұрын

    Courage?? Good thing I’m not a griffindor

  • @enzocerrudo314

    @enzocerrudo314

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well, ppl want persons that are self confident, its probable that if the other person feels doubt in u, will reject u.

  • @ashleydeialorita
    @ashleydeialorita2 жыл бұрын

    Ok, the way he opened up the talk gave me chills. Props to him. I'm surprised at myself for actually doing this two months ago, now she and I are dancing around each other (she said she's not ready). Watching this makes me so proud of myself. I felt the exact fear is described so accurately. I'm so glad my crush was lovely and respectful about it. 'It's okay,' she was saying, 'calm down', because I was shaking and laughing unattractively nervously. Thanks for putting that out there, my man, and everyone reading this comment, go on then. Be courageous. It'll be worth it: you'll either learn or get where you want to be.

  • @ravenpug3252
    @ravenpug32524 жыл бұрын

    Completely unrelated to crushes but in the description of this video it says “Insert bio” *I felt that*