Why Getting Laid Off can be a Good Thing | Chetan Mahajan | TEDxFIIB

Getting laid-off is traumatic in the least, and can be devastating. This talk is given by a corporate employee who completely changed paths and rebuilt his life after he was fired from his job. He shares many life lessons, including his learnings from one month he spent in an Indian jail.
Chetan’s last corporate role was as CEO of HCL Learning Ltd. He has also authored a book titled, ”The Bad Boys of Bokaro Jail” published by Penguin in 2014, but his writing career was not a bed of roses, it had a painful start. He has lived for many years in the US, where he also earned an MBA from the Kellogg School of Management. He has founded ‘The Himalayan Writing Retreat’ that offers deep inspiration and learning to writers at all levels. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @Deanthemachine1983
    @Deanthemachine19833 жыл бұрын

    Was laid off yesterday after working for the same company for 15 years. I started at the very bottom and worked my way up to 2nd in command. In one brief moment, it all ended in the name of "downsizing". I took a lot of pride in my work but being laid off made me realize that your life isn't supposed to be about a job. Life is meant to be enjoyed and be way more meaningful.

  • @AdemirAlijagic

    @AdemirAlijagic

    3 жыл бұрын

    I wish you good luck in finding your true meaning and joy in life! It is a gift in disguise! I know the feeling 😊

  • @Deanthemachine1983

    @Deanthemachine1983

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AdemirAlijagic Thank you!

  • @lydiaallie533

    @lydiaallie533

    3 жыл бұрын

    Im in the same situation

  • @rohitchauhan1378

    @rohitchauhan1378

    3 жыл бұрын

    how did you manage things after laid off, and how you doing after so many months?

  • @Deanthemachine1983

    @Deanthemachine1983

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rohitchauhan1378 I got hired by an engineering firm that I previously worked with as a client. When they heard I was laid off they called and offered me a position out of state. Making professional relationships is very important! I'm not making the same salary but the job has been way less stressful and the people I work with are much better. I'm still figuring things out but it could be way worse for me. I appreciate you asking after so many months. I pray for all those who lost their jobs this past year.

  • @markeetasummers292
    @markeetasummers2924 жыл бұрын

    I was let go today. I was sad, shocked, hurt then realized there’s something great in this

  • @cyyrious

    @cyyrious

    4 жыл бұрын

    Markeeta Summers HAVE you bounced back? I was let go yesterday 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @MovingontheWorld
    @MovingontheWorld3 жыл бұрын

    Love the point at 15:48 - 'Don't spend all of your energy trying to get back in. If there is a bigger dream you have somewhere, try to shoot for it'.

  • @Fishsticks187
    @Fishsticks187 Жыл бұрын

    I remember being laid off during covid, having hardly any money to my name and wondering if I'd be able to keep a roof over my head. Three years later I'm making double what I was before and working for a good company. I struggled during those years, but there is a light at the end of the tunnel if you believe there is.

  • @glendasmith7507
    @glendasmith750710 ай бұрын

    This was really exactly what I needed today. I just got let go last Wednesday and I have a million things going through my mind right now. I’m scared, uncertain, relieved, angry, and scared all over again. I plan to rewatch this as many times as I need to until I find myself back on solid ground. Thank you, sir 😊

  • @lazarlegacy2753
    @lazarlegacy27533 жыл бұрын

    A healthy attitude literally shifts our lives and opens the doors for more opportunities. You got this!!

  • @AdemirAlijagic
    @AdemirAlijagic3 жыл бұрын

    I got fired and I have never been happier! I had been dreaming of starting my own business and KZread for years but was held back by fear... And I am so glad I got pushed into doing this! I got my first client 2 months in and haven't missed my old life one second!

  • @justynamaria0333

    @justynamaria0333

    3 жыл бұрын

    subscribed! love ur videos :)

  • @AdemirAlijagic

    @AdemirAlijagic

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@justynamaria0333 Thank you! I appreciate it! 😊🙏

  • @honeychild1498

    @honeychild1498

    3 жыл бұрын

    I subscribed. Looking forward to watching

  • @AdemirAlijagic

    @AdemirAlijagic

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@honeychild1498 Thank you! 😊

  • @davidsimeoncole

    @davidsimeoncole

    Жыл бұрын

    Where are your videos?

  • @elizabethgibson1048
    @elizabethgibson1048 Жыл бұрын

    I was laid off a week ago from a company I’ve lived for over the last 10 years. I’m realizing it’s not healthy to make your job such a part of your identity. Trying to figure out my next step - this was very helpful.

  • @trocycling1204
    @trocycling1204 Жыл бұрын

    I got laid off, searched and searched and never landed anything (after a year). So, I decided to start my own business. I knew absolutely nothing! I made that business last 3 years and learned more than I did in the 15 years that I had a fancy corporate job. Unfortunately that business is coming up a little short on the financial front, so I have to re-enter the workforce soon. But, I wouldn't trade it for anything. And now I have a nice little side hustle, and a totally different perspective on everything.

  • @honeyhoney-by5hr

    @honeyhoney-by5hr

    8 ай бұрын

    Inspiring

  • @littlemspd9674
    @littlemspd96744 жыл бұрын

    I was just let go as of yesterday. Instead of feeling down I somewhat felt relief. Everyday the alarm went off.. I was thinking why am I doing this? I don't even enjoy what I'm doing and to find this video and hear you say what I'm feeling is amazing. I know this is not the end for me but a start to a new beginning. Sometimes in life you need that push to really go for what you enjoy in life. So I look at this experience as a blessing in disguise. Thank you again for sharing your journey and inspiration!

  • @cazovejanegra

    @cazovejanegra

    4 жыл бұрын

    Littlemsp D I was let go on Monday, and I actually felt great. The work environment was miserable and toxic, and every single day I felt worst. On the first January 2020, I remember questioning myself why the heck I was still here? And then I really thought in leaving that horrible work. So In a way, I already psicologically had quit the job. So when I was finally let go, besides the initial anger, I felt truly great. Best of all, I am receiving tons of much better opportunities, which I should have searched before.

  • @littlemspd9674

    @littlemspd9674

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@cazovejanegra Sorry for the delay, I'm just now seeing your reply. I hope you are doing well and feeling much better. It's my hopes that you are doing what you truly love now or at least will once this pandemic is over. Many blessings to you!

  • @cazovejanegra

    @cazovejanegra

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@littlemspd9674 Thank You! Even on this enviromen, I was able to land a better payed job with a much better work environment. In the end, I really, really, really needed to leave that Job, but didn´t want to for "emotional" reasons. Blessings!

  • @littlemspd9674

    @littlemspd9674

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@cazovejanegra I'm very happy for you.. sometimes we just need that extra push!

  • @rlfitt070

    @rlfitt070

    3 жыл бұрын

    thisssss: '' I somewhat felt relief. Everyday the alarm went off.. I was thinking why am I doing this?''

  • @nofyfb123
    @nofyfb1234 жыл бұрын

    Bottom line: corps expect. No, DEMAND, loyalty. They consider paycheck a form of a charity/handout. They have established a "we against them" culture, and the best way of dealing with this environment is to NOT get emotionally involved and not expect anything that's not going to happen - no matter how much time and effort you invest in your job, you'll eventually get chewed up and spit out.

  • @boayoon8715
    @boayoon87155 жыл бұрын

    I was let go two weeks ago.. been feeling sorry for myself but I must carry on.. thank you.

  • @justsain3236

    @justsain3236

    4 жыл бұрын

    Did you find another job yet? (I just got made redundant today(19/07 ) :(

  • @boayoon8715

    @boayoon8715

    4 жыл бұрын

    Just Sa'in no not yet.. I spent a month sitting at home feeling sorry and angry at myself. Sorry that happened to you, the road might be tough ahead.. stay strong and keep yourself busy. Use this time to reconnect with yourself and your dreams. Companies will replace us within a week. Put you first. Peace ✌️

  • @TheLatinoRedneckCowboy

    @TheLatinoRedneckCowboy

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@boayoon8715 I know what your going through. Hang in there and put more effort when applying and meeting the hiring managers.

  • @evaisdreaming

    @evaisdreaming

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hope things are better for you now!

  • @kufudokungfu

    @kufudokungfu

    4 жыл бұрын

    Been 1 day for me

  • @mishraad
    @mishraad5 жыл бұрын

    Loved the comment "Skillset for a price tag"

  • @chetanmahajan8040

    @chetanmahajan8040

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Aditya

  • @blahblah-we6dw
    @blahblah-we6dw5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you I just got laid off and I really connected with this video

  • @katharine1285

    @katharine1285

    5 жыл бұрын

    I just sent this to my husband, he was just laid off too.

  • @EZ5965

    @EZ5965

    5 жыл бұрын

    me too

  • @rpaul9578
    @rpaul95782 жыл бұрын

    First thing I felt was anger, then sadness, then I was fine with it.

  • @sweza2334
    @sweza2334 Жыл бұрын

    Just got terminated today for no reason other than just performance not matching to future expectations. Made good relations with so many people and invested so much time on the firm, but they announced this to me before I left for my holidays to my home country after 4 years. It’s unfortunate that in today’s world businesses only seek for good numbers, not good people.

  • @booknerd3850

    @booknerd3850

    7 ай бұрын

    Same here, just got that this morning actually…I’m devastated to say the least. Have you bounced back yet? Any advice you’ve found that would be useful?

  • @positive_vibes_2427
    @positive_vibes_24273 жыл бұрын

    Employer of two years let me go yesterday. I needed to hear this!

  • @SD_003
    @SD_0034 жыл бұрын

    Just Brilliant 👌 Lot of people would need to see this specially in this covid situation. Loads of layoffs all around.

  • @mr.gegenpress7750
    @mr.gegenpress77505 ай бұрын

    I got laid off today. My boss offered me a position last month and called me today to cut me off. It still hurts but some important lessons learned. The workplace i treated as a family, exiled me. I feel betrayed after putting numerous amounts of extra hours to complete the work. My position was offered to a new comer. Trust was broken, but this is life. People are resilient. Thanks for this wonderful talk ❤

  • @melis699
    @melis699 Жыл бұрын

    Was laid off a month ago and I am drowning in bills… I gave so much to my job and just like that… it was over

  • @deliciousbakery1010
    @deliciousbakery10104 жыл бұрын

    This is definitely needed for everyone like myself who’s been laid off

  • @laurentpk
    @laurentpk4 жыл бұрын

    I was just laid off from a job I have had for 16 years. I was given a severance package however part of the package is to continue working for another month and help those who still have jobs move to another location. Never been in this position before... I would love to turn the package down and quit but I'm not financially able to do so. I guess I should be grateful I got something. I truly knew it was coming and wanted a change in my life. Always a silver lining if you bother to look and offer the Universe your desire for change. A change for the better even if you can't quite see the change at this very moment. You will...🌝

  • @veronicaapolinar1059

    @veronicaapolinar1059

    3 жыл бұрын

    Relate to your comment they laid me off and I was for some time so tired and unhappy even though I appreciate the fact to have an income I wish for so long to be able to take care of myself and sleep enough so I could get back my creativity and everything else that I let go of to be able to fit in I am grateful to know that I am not alone

  • @KetoPowerZone
    @KetoPowerZone3 жыл бұрын

    I have been unemployeed from last months and I was in depression and I have seen this video my life percpective totally changed today..Now I know I am going to try out so may amazing things my upcoming days...Thank you TEDx

  • @amitgurav8495

    @amitgurav8495

    Жыл бұрын

    Let us know how you succeed

  • @dhruv21datta
    @dhruv21datta3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for putting this up.

  • @dianneberest6419
    @dianneberest64194 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing this.

  • @KyleRobinsonTravel
    @KyleRobinsonTravel4 жыл бұрын

    I was laid off last week and I immediately started to applying for jobs and unemployment. I was ignoring my emotions until it got to the point where now I have applied for over 40 jobs. I now have been struggling with guilt, anger, and feeling like a failed which is something I was not use to becasue I have been so career driven. I wasn't perfect but I always improved and helped as much as I could. Maybe I wasn't happy, maybe that affected my mood at work. I didn't feel fulfillment and didn't like being the bad guy to people or dealing with terrible people. I worked in management and thought me and the other guy were very open and worked very well together until it happened out of the blue and told me what the reason was and that the paper work was already filled out and done. So there was no explaining on my side. Now I'm struggling between the choice of getting stable as fast as possible to continue what I was doing or taking the loss, Going back home, and finding something I rather do/ a career change. I hate feeling and I hate that how hard I worked that now it won't even be a reliable reference for a job employer. This video helped a bit and hope I can figure it out before something else goes wrong. I always enjoy ted talks but this is one of the first times I have watched one on a topic that hurts me and others so much.

  • @himalayanwritingretreat5515

    @himalayanwritingretreat5515

    4 жыл бұрын

    All the best, Kyle. I hope things work out for you.

  • @msch7620

    @msch7620

    4 жыл бұрын

    I hear you on working so hard for years, thinking you get along and not being able to use it as a reference. The CEO of a similar company looked at my LinkedIn profile 3 times this week, so I looked out of curiosity and he is looking for someone. I know that I fit the profile perfectly and could apply. But a part of me wants to do something else.

  • @ramshasyed5595

    @ramshasyed5595

    3 ай бұрын

    You are not alone😢

  • @luiscosta19123456
    @luiscosta191234564 жыл бұрын

    Thank you just made my day, definitely needed to hear.

  • @billmcyrus
    @billmcyrus4 жыл бұрын

    This is helping me greatly, thank you so much! I got stuck in a bad work situation for over a year now and am working on a path forward from it.

  • @wasif71840
    @wasif718405 жыл бұрын

    wonderful story.. thank you for sharing

  • @Chocokaylarobin
    @Chocokaylarobin2 жыл бұрын

    I got laid off a couple months ago and it made me extremely frustrated because I've literally spent over hours into this job and I was let go for reasons I will never know and it was my dream job I always asked why was I selected for this I still have no idea but honestly it was very eye opening. It taught me what I would like in a job as well as how much of myself I'm willing to give to a company.

  • @anhad135

    @anhad135

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks. We have to remember it isn't our fault. It happens to the best of us.

  • @shelveswithstories13

    @shelveswithstories13

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi l hope you are doing well now

  • @Chocokaylarobin

    @Chocokaylarobin

    Жыл бұрын

    @@shelveswithstories13 I am! I'm 1 year into a new job, it has its ups and downs but it showed me alot more than my previous first job i definitely have alot more creative freedom and exposure which is a plus :)

  • @shelveswithstories13

    @shelveswithstories13

    Жыл бұрын

    @ChocoKaylaRobin that's so incredible. I was feeling so hopeless all of a sudden because I'm planning to do MBA next year and join the corporate world. This entire mass lay off thing was bothering me so much, I started to cry. Your experience made me a little relieved. Sometimes, all you need is just someone to talk to, I guess.

  • @xTheRedShirtX
    @xTheRedShirtX7 ай бұрын

    I was just laid off from a job I loved working at. I felt so stressed, depressed, and scared because I don't know where I can go now. I made bad decisions with my savings and have bills that not any job can take care of. I am thinking about bankruptcy if its possible. I am doing anything I can to help out my situation and I job hunt 9-12 hours a day non stop. For those who are in this same boat, I learned you aren't alone with this. Be positive, keep looking, and stay as strong as you can. Good luck guys.

  • @SonnySinghGlobal
    @SonnySinghGlobal5 жыл бұрын

    Love this video. Helped a lot

  • @eurofoot1519
    @eurofoot15194 жыл бұрын

    Real eye opening lecture.

  • @jhors7777
    @jhors7777 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for posting this helpful video

  • @christophermoody1448
    @christophermoody14484 жыл бұрын

    Great message !

  • @tjmixmasta
    @tjmixmasta2 жыл бұрын

    Great insight. Finding this video brings me peace, definite opportunity to pause and reflect on my career so far and what I really want from life. Thank you Chetan!

  • @trulivelovelaugh6426
    @trulivelovelaugh64265 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the encouraging words.

  • @atehbingaday
    @atehbingaday Жыл бұрын

    i just got laid off after working in my first company for a week. I don’t even know how to feel about this because it feels like I’m being pulled back to square one after making my very first step after graduation. But I really do hope, referencing to what was mentioned in the video, getting laid off will be a start of another beautiful journey :”)

  • @cheongyuenlian5955
    @cheongyuenlian59554 жыл бұрын

    I cry lor listening to this...bcz of the fear...have stop us from pursuing what we love...the uncertainty of life make us worry every single day...

  • @helen2883
    @helen28833 жыл бұрын

    I have been let go since November 2020. Right now I am just using living off of unemployment benefits. I am loving with my parents but I am going to move out because my parents are sadly toxic. I am worried about financially BUT I know that great things are coming my way. I know it for sure. I pray that everyone who are laid off at this time will use this time to renew yourself and get the career you guys deserve.

  • @Tina-wm1rp

    @Tina-wm1rp

    10 ай бұрын

    Hi Helen. How are you doing now? I hope you found the job. Take care.

  • @eveline001
    @eveline0015 ай бұрын

    This was a heaven sent. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @limitedtwo1120
    @limitedtwo11202 жыл бұрын

    Very inspiring story. Thank you for sharing

  • @jarhonda2702
    @jarhonda2702 Жыл бұрын

    This video is very eye opening!!! On Time!

  • @lizineurope7631
    @lizineurope76316 ай бұрын

    It healed my soul, thank you!

  • @VelezBiH
    @VelezBiH3 жыл бұрын

    Great talk thank you !

  • @Peter-rg4ng
    @Peter-rg4ng2 ай бұрын

    Beautiful talk! 👍🙏🏻

  • @indivims
    @indivims4 жыл бұрын

    Chetan as always you put reality in a simple and suttle manner. Good luck buddy

  • @RhijennUI
    @RhijennUI2 жыл бұрын

    Love this!

  • @sameerbhatia451
    @sameerbhatia4515 жыл бұрын

    Great Talk and great advice.

  • @pankhudiseth
    @pankhudiseth Жыл бұрын

    You are an amazing man, thank you sharing the goodness.

  • @perwezahmad6580
    @perwezahmad65803 жыл бұрын

    Simply mesmerising

  • @manjeeths8602
    @manjeeths86022 жыл бұрын

    I got laid off and or glad I was. Seeing my near and dear ones succumb to this covid during this 2nd wave also has made me question the reality we are living in. All this job, work and other glass walls that society has built around us has started to shatter and the light is finally able to escape.

  • @isoftenterprise
    @isoftenterprise3 жыл бұрын

    This changed my mindset, just the push I needed...💯 now I'm really gonna conquer 💪

  • @grizleeone1
    @grizleeone13 жыл бұрын

    I was let go today and this helped. Thank you.

  • @reziiwastaken
    @reziiwastaken4 жыл бұрын

    I am glad I watched this.

  • @JonRevelos
    @JonRevelos5 жыл бұрын

    It's inspiring to hear your tale of struggle and growth, Chetan. Thank you for sharing it with the world.

  • @chetanmahajan8040

    @chetanmahajan8040

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the kind words, Jon.

  • @irhanfarhan3571
    @irhanfarhan35712 жыл бұрын

    Great talks chetan, sometimes we have a golden handcuff that we don't have the courage to switch to what our passion is, sometimes being forced into the situation is the answer to our prayer and lead you to better role

  • @anhad135

    @anhad135

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Irhan.

  • @syeddanish5334
    @syeddanish53348 күн бұрын

    Such an amazing and motivating speech for the ones who are feeling down. Really appreciate it.❤❤

  • @adamstokes
    @adamstokes4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you brother

  • @monicakochar
    @monicakochar Жыл бұрын

    Laying off wasn't bad but not being sure of next steps is killing me.

  • @cerianhawke9386
    @cerianhawke93864 жыл бұрын

    Shared to Facebook thank you

  • @ubadtmar7835
    @ubadtmar78353 жыл бұрын

    Inspiring

  • @mikethemechanic7395
    @mikethemechanic73954 жыл бұрын

    I was laid off in Jan. I left my field of 17 years. Only reason why I went is because my father in law was retiring from the place. I was there 2 years and let go because of Boeing. I looked for a job ASAP. I went back into my last field and the demand for mechanics was huge since I last had to look 9 years ago. I got too pay and it’s 19 mins from my house. Lots of overtime. It worked out.

  • @healthycitizen1926
    @healthycitizen19263 жыл бұрын

    Im 21 and just got laid off from my first office job .

  • @8383kathy
    @8383kathy4 жыл бұрын

    Wow what a tale.

  • @ChetanSingh-pp8on
    @ChetanSingh-pp8on5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you chetan for sharing this wonderful expression of emotions of loosing a job. 🙏🙏

  • @shanmukhrider548
    @shanmukhrider5485 жыл бұрын

    thanks this helped me

  • @syncstudy8792
    @syncstudy87922 жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏❣️👍👍👍💞 amazing talk!! 🙏 thank you so so so much💐

  • @Seven15
    @Seven154 жыл бұрын

    I have a feeling I’ll be getting laid off tomorrow. I feel ashamed. I feel embarrassed. Most importantly, I feel relieved. But I also feel scared because I have no idea what to do next... I don’t know who to go to about it either. I don’t want to work 9-5 anymore (or 6-6 which is what I have been working) I want to work on my own time.

  • @Seven15

    @Seven15

    4 жыл бұрын

    I did get laid off the very next day of this comment. I’ve been unemployed since and I haven’t been searching for a job. I keep telling myself that I am searching for what I want but I still find myself in the same spot that I started. I feel like there is no progress. How can I show my mom, my brother, my grandma, my grandpa, and my family, and my friends that I want to love what I do and do it until I can’t because this is all I care about.

  • @vigilante7

    @vigilante7

    4 жыл бұрын

    Seven15 keep your head up! It happens to all of us, including me. Just think about what your strengths are and what your story is, and your employers will find it more attractive, and you’ll be more at peace. Take your time.

  • @anu7982

    @anu7982

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Seven15 how are you now ? Keep ur spirits high on ur journey , same phase , learning and upgrading skills

  • @Seven15

    @Seven15

    3 жыл бұрын

    Anu same as before... my life feels like it is depleting rapidly faster and faster each day, mostly due to the lack of sleep (waking up at 3pm going to bed at 11am everyday) I can’t sleep. I’ve been getting better with eating. Still have not found a job due to COVID-19. I appreciate your concern, really.

  • @anu7982

    @anu7982

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Seven15 covid is a best time to devote time for wat you love because once this is over , we will find many ppl like us who lost track like us ,many equals,so by this time make a plan and devote urself to it , anyways this is a judgement free period for ppl like us from family and other ppl , use this time to upgrade your skills for wat you love , I don't know wat is the career path that you are trying to make work ,else I would be able to help you more ,sleep early and wake up early , chart a plan , work on it for next 6 months . It should be a plan which you really love .

  • @FastTrackEarnings
    @FastTrackEarnings3 жыл бұрын

    Congrats Chetan! I ended up in a similar situation. I couldn't stand the Alarm clock. Got sick and tired of "the small box". 8 years ago I found a simple way to make a living online while living in the "mountains" (in USA).

  • @anhad135

    @anhad135

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good for you, Ben!!

  • @HannesGrebin
    @HannesGrebin Жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @sayeemahalingam9118
    @sayeemahalingam9118Ай бұрын

    Thank you. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @CharismaJustis
    @CharismaJustis4 жыл бұрын

    It took a while to get to the point but the last 2 minutes are key- don't rush trying to get BACK in.

  • @pinoyheartbeat7245

    @pinoyheartbeat7245

    4 ай бұрын

    I love that part to of not trying to rush back in.

  • @fuziontonygaming
    @fuziontonygaming2 жыл бұрын

    Video is very relevant especially rn

  • @nimitshah8895
    @nimitshah88954 жыл бұрын

    Nice one

  • @SharlenesJourney
    @SharlenesJourney3 жыл бұрын

    I might get let go, I keep messing up and today I made a huge mistake I’m so upset with myself. I’m having a lot going on outside of work which is causing depression. 😞 having a job is so stressful for me this is the third time I’ve got let go I’m horrible I just want my own business I need control over my life please I just need a change can’t do 9-5 my whole life 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @_shumba

    @_shumba

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hang in there, hope all is well. Just remember there is more to life than work. Immerse yourself in hobbies, rekindle old relationships, read the Bible, write down a list of your strengths and remember what you bring to the table. Maybe also list down your weaknesses so you can tackle them and improve those areas too.

  • @SharlenesJourney

    @SharlenesJourney

    2 жыл бұрын

    Shumba thanks so much for your words I’m definitely trynna get myself out of this rut I’m in. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @ilovedeezytbaby
    @ilovedeezytbaby4 жыл бұрын

    I was just laid off today and I’m just still bothered by it. I don’t know what to do

  • @zoeng9026

    @zoeng9026

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cassie Waller i got laid off last month. Most importantly now is to focus on your action plan. For me is to polish my resume and keep sending. Reach out to some connections if you have. And don't give up. Treat it as giving yourself a momentary break. But treat finding a job as a new temperorary full time job.

  • @suzanebeavogui7485

    @suzanebeavogui7485

    3 жыл бұрын

    I got laid today I Don't know too

  • @AbhiBangalore
    @AbhiBangalore3 жыл бұрын

    Wow!

  • @adamjgb
    @adamjgb6 күн бұрын

    Best thing that ever happened to me. Ended up with a job that pays a lot more money, is fully remote, and brings me more satisfaction and pride in my work.

  • @Xeavone
    @Xeavone Жыл бұрын

    I entered the job market just before the Pandemic after graduating with my BFA in Illustration. Thing is, being a creative requires that you work jobs unrelated to your profession while funding your actual job as a creative, at least where I live on top of paying off student loan debt. Started off working a part time job at an automotive dealership for a year, managed to find full time work as a courier for Covid-19 and Cancer patients before getting laid off. Once office jobs started opening back up, I tried to apply full time, but only managed to work part time again due to lack of experience at a college. Four months ago, I finally landed a full time job at a clinic. I surprisingly fell in love with my new job, as I managed to incorporate my experiences as an Illustrator and Graphic Designer from my Graphic Design internship, and my administrative experience from by two previous part time office jobs. Even better, I finally managed to strike a deal with a book publisher to publish my current and future work as an artist and writer! While it doesn't cover expenses, I was living my dream life... and I just got laid off at the job I started falling in love with. Currently in the process of finding a full time office job again before collecting unemployment. I swear, feels like I can't have nice things and just enjoy myself. This was nice to listen to while job searching.

  • @TheWheelofLife100
    @TheWheelofLife1004 жыл бұрын

    Although I did get fired, I still have an income coming from a property I own, so money really isn't an issue at this stage, but the fact that not working and not contributing to society and being 47 yrs old, makes me depressed and unworthy and uncertain about my job prospects, but listening to this has helped and hopefully might inspire me to a better quality of life.....thanks.

  • @justsain3236

    @justsain3236

    4 жыл бұрын

    Forget society do what makes you happy, you will be contributing to society via the taxes you pay anyway.

  • @ScissorN

    @ScissorN

    2 жыл бұрын

    Travel , see the world meet new people life is beautiful

  • @katerina650
    @katerina6505 жыл бұрын

    My bf has been laid off now for 9 months... hes applied to hundreds of jobs, gets interviews, but no job offers 😔 this has been so sooo hard.

  • @ismaelmara6920

    @ismaelmara6920

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sorry am in the same bucket

  • @mariangelesc4957

    @mariangelesc4957

    4 жыл бұрын

    Did he find something ? What field was he in? Just got this news today

  • @cecicc2315

    @cecicc2315

    3 жыл бұрын

    What profile does he have? Or whate type of job he is looking for ?

  • @skyyblue1314
    @skyyblue1314Ай бұрын

    Thanks I was let go yesterday. Oh boy, a lot of mixed emotions. You wisdom in this video helped me a lot! Thank you.

  • @pavanmadamset
    @pavanmadamset4 жыл бұрын

    ChetanMahajan Sir, You Have Inspired me With Your Attitude

  • @chetanmahajan8040

    @chetanmahajan8040

    4 жыл бұрын

    Glad it helped.

  • @daughteroftheking1222
    @daughteroftheking12224 жыл бұрын

    I was let go today. The exec's behavior with me was questionable, so I was about to quit as soon as I got another job offer anyway. Yesterday, I felt a lot of dread for going to work today, seriously considered calling in sick, but I'm glad I didn't. I've been saving up for a car, so I have savings to live on until I find a new job. Glad for this Ted Talk to help me figure out what to do next. Curious: has your layoff been a blessing to you?

  • @msch7620
    @msch76204 жыл бұрын

    I just got laid the day I came back from mat leave “due to restructuration”. I’m so mad about this.

  • @ls-wv8dy
    @ls-wv8dy Жыл бұрын

    Really Good talk. I was laid off recently. Very encouarging

  • @jttay473
    @jttay4734 жыл бұрын

    I was just laid off two days ago!

  • @ronifran8850
    @ronifran88509 ай бұрын

    So glad there are blessings after a lay off.❤️🙏💯😊

  • @CaptureCanada
    @CaptureCanada10 ай бұрын

    Just got laid off previous week. I think i can change my career and be more happy, still going through the thinking phrase and hopefully will find it out very soon.

  • @tvanh3568
    @tvanh356810 ай бұрын

    I was laid off last week from a job I loved! This Tedex talk is very helpful. Thank you🙏🏻

  • @chetanmahajan8040

    @chetanmahajan8040

    8 ай бұрын

    Glad it helped.

  • @neo5kali
    @neo5kali4 жыл бұрын

    Practically everyone in private industry is getting laid off because we are now in the gig economy, aka the alternate work force (contract jobs, part time jobs, temporary jobs). The latest statistic is that 94% of all new jobs created is alternative work force work.

  • @Indian-cz2tw
    @Indian-cz2tw2 жыл бұрын

    I worked in a company for last 13 years and feeling good and pride but last week I was laid off within 10 minutes... I am divastated but what to do...it is heart wrenching...

  • @bk10200

    @bk10200

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are not the only one. Right, companies don't give a damn about emoloyees.

  • @anhad135

    @anhad135

    2 жыл бұрын

    It happens to the best of us. Not your fault.

  • @jimtekkit
    @jimtekkit7 ай бұрын

    I'm being made redundant but luckily I've learned to not get stressed in these situations. A company restructure essentially rug-pulled my crucial role out from underneath me and I was earmarked for redundancy without the decision-makers even looking at my abilities to deliver solutions and product to the customer. It's impossible to make any sense of such illogical company decisions. If the company is willing to give productive staff the boot (and I'm one of many good staff members affected) then you NEED to get out, not fight to stay in the hope it'll get better. It never does.

  • @kishorekumar7547
    @kishorekumar75473 жыл бұрын

    Getting fired by end of this month! Your speech gives me some courage. Thanks!

  • @debadattabhattacharjee3171

    @debadattabhattacharjee3171

    3 жыл бұрын

    Youre not alone

  • @MichelleLLL

    @MichelleLLL

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same 🤣

  • @dublinisa.isayamwinuka9657
    @dublinisa.isayamwinuka96573 жыл бұрын

    It's happening to me now, being laid off, I have to start my January with new things

  • @andronicus632
    @andronicus6325 жыл бұрын

    just laid off..ugh so now I must try and make my passion a income, its something I've been thinking about all my life.but music and theatre aren't exactly money trees. but perhaps now its time.

  • @andronicus632

    @andronicus632

    5 жыл бұрын

    okay im going to get going on a youtube music song and Ethan we could do that im going to set up that too. next week I will have things to offer.

  • @Badboyifier

    @Badboyifier

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Ethan Crowley :D same story mate, what are you playing? I got 3 months to find another job :D

  • @darst16

    @darst16

    4 жыл бұрын

    How are things progressing?

  • @SharlenesJourney

    @SharlenesJourney

    3 жыл бұрын

    Any update ?

  • @fmstori
    @fmstori4 жыл бұрын

    The company i working for was cutting all temp workers and i only been there a week. My contract ended a the job before that I stumbled on this video after thinking how much I'm tired of working for others. I'm a memoir author with 2 other books this motivated me to start shift my mind set

  • @shobhitdevi4859
    @shobhitdevi48593 жыл бұрын

    I got fired last month and this was after I trained all the new hires . With all this pandemic still waiting for unemployment payment to come through. Honestly I am worried about being homeless. Life has been a roller coaster for me since I have moved to the States 😔

  • @anhad135

    @anhad135

    3 жыл бұрын

    All the best, Shobhit. Stay strong!!

  • @SharlenesJourney

    @SharlenesJourney

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hope that you’re well now🙏🏾 yes it’s very hard here not easy to find a job

  • @missck_2544

    @missck_2544

    Жыл бұрын

    Loolks like my story

  • @prettyboyfloyd76
    @prettyboyfloyd764 ай бұрын

    Laid off after 18 years. Won employee of the year. Everyone loved me. Now they don’t know i exist.