Why does the BIBLE say to WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE | No Sex Before Marriage

Why does the Bible say to wait until marriage before having sex? In today's society, remaining a virgin is often seen as "weird," and there's a push to make us believe that having sex before marriage is normal. But what is the truth? In this video, Daniel explains why you should say no to sex before marriage.
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In this video, Daniel Maritz from DLM Men's Lifestyle talks about sex before marriage from a biblical perspective. Today, Society, Entertainment, and the media today teach us that it is ok to have sex before you get married and even suggest that being a virgin is weird. But what is the truth? What does the Bible say about sex before marriage?
Daniel explains why the Bible says to wait until marriage before having sex. Many people feel ashamed to admit they are virgins, and may even give into peer pressure, believing that having sex is necessary to fit in.
Questions such as "Should I give into temptation and have sex before marriage?", "Is it okay to sleep around?", and "Why should I wait until marriage before having sex?" are common struggles, and in this video, Daniel will answer these questions from a biblical perspective.
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  • @dannyphantom3090
    @dannyphantom3090Ай бұрын

    As a 22yr old man waiting til marriage is definitely hard especially when it feels even alot of Christian women dont want to wait anymore but I know it will be worth it to only be with my future wife

  • @lauras6762
    @lauras6762Ай бұрын

    I am a woman but I get a lot out of this channel. Thank you for saying if your daughter comes and tells you she is pregnant, love her. So many parents punish their daughters when they get pregnant, when this is the time they will need their parents the most.

  • @DLMMensLifestyle

    @DLMMensLifestyle

    Ай бұрын

    Yes, we need to be more like Jesus and always act in the Spirit. Then we will truly have empathy for others and know how to be the light in their lives.

  • @WilsonMusaso

    @WilsonMusaso

    Ай бұрын

    Yes amen 🙏 Jesus christ 🙏 🙌 ❤ 💖 👏 ♥ 🙏 🙌 ❤ 💖

  • @DLMMensLifestyle
    @DLMMensLifestyleАй бұрын

    Thank you all so much for taking the time to watch the video premiere and connect in the LIVE CHAT! I was on the train and lost connection in the last few minutes. Always remember life is short, so do not waste yours! Love you all!

  • @gmanbkind2all

    @gmanbkind2all

    Ай бұрын

    You are blessed. I would love to listen to a full sermon 🙏

  • @tingtongpeekaboo8419

    @tingtongpeekaboo8419

    Ай бұрын

    We Love you and Jesus Love you too. God bless you

  • @pashaboss6
    @pashaboss6Ай бұрын

    My girl left me today and we were supposed to marry next month.. I'm heartbroken😢i wasted so much time and effort for nothing😢😢

  • @christopher0531

    @christopher0531

    Ай бұрын

    Don't worry bro I have been gone through the same but lord gives what's best for us

  • @DLMMensLifestyle

    @DLMMensLifestyle

    Ай бұрын

    I am glad you watched the premiere and that I could connect with you in the live chat! Focus on God and all will work out the way it should (Romans 8:28 & Matthew 6:33).

  • @unclef7090

    @unclef7090

    Ай бұрын

    It's not wasted chief.There is something in your time with her that you can take with you.also stay strong 💪

  • @driftergrey

    @driftergrey

    Ай бұрын

    It going to sound really like a canned saying but.. time will heal the wounds. And it's true. I'm speaking from experience. Time. But also, stick with friends and family and church groups. Don't spend most of the time alone. ⏰

  • @justinlyon6243

    @justinlyon6243

    Ай бұрын

    Actually she just saved you a lifetime of wasted time. You just dodged a bullet. Don't get married. It's the absolute worst contract a man can enter in his entire life.

  • @LouisC777
    @LouisC777Ай бұрын

    Waiting for marriage in this generation is hard. I am a 25 year old virgin and most people my age and even younger already had multiple partners. My biggest struggle is finding a woman who also is a virgin , I struggle to accept a woman who didn’t wait and already gave it to someone else while I’m waiting for marriage.

  • @JesusSavedMe34

    @JesusSavedMe34

    Ай бұрын

    Don't give up, Keep following Christ and focus on God and yourself

  • @dannyphantom3090

    @dannyphantom3090

    Ай бұрын

    Same man I'm 22 and it's really hard and somewhat embarrassing when guys in high-school are already doing it before me and it's hard because I want a woman to be a virgin as if I waited I want someone who also waited for me.

  • @babalarassrah

    @babalarassrah

    Ай бұрын

    The reverse values😅

  • @babalarassrah

    @babalarassrah

    Ай бұрын

    You should leave the western countries

  • @Matthewspann
    @MatthewspannАй бұрын

    Thank you for covering this. Amen

  • @DLMMensLifestyle

    @DLMMensLifestyle

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks for listening

  • @HelloKitty.2002
    @HelloKitty.2002Ай бұрын

    Thank you for this great video. God is preparing me for marriage right now

  • @velmaanangwe4217
    @velmaanangwe4217Ай бұрын

    God bless you Daniel. You're really impacting my salvation journey 😊

  • @joeminoso1554
    @joeminoso1554Ай бұрын

    GOD BLESS YOUR MINISTRIE

  • @sandhyaelangbam5032
    @sandhyaelangbam5032Ай бұрын

    God bless you your ministry 🙏🏻

  • @Hope9944.
    @Hope9944.Ай бұрын

    Thank you Pastor Daniel 🙏 Many asked me about it but I couldn't answer it...Thank you so much and God bless You Brother...🙏

  • @DLMMensLifestyle

    @DLMMensLifestyle

    Ай бұрын

    You are most welcome! Thank you for watching the video! God bless

  • @John-902
    @John-902Ай бұрын

    Sadly I missed the live but the video was beautifully explained

  • @DLMMensLifestyle

    @DLMMensLifestyle

    Ай бұрын

    No worries! Join me next time

  • @thelikebutton2464
    @thelikebutton2464Ай бұрын

    Im 33 and cant find a good girl... im really thinking of going over seas and finding a woman who isnt morally bankrupt.

  • @tinylittlecrumb

    @tinylittlecrumb

    Ай бұрын

    I found a beautiful young godly woman in the Philippines to be my wife. If you cannot find anyone in your home country, definitely get your passport and go.

  • @LouisC777

    @LouisC777

    Ай бұрын

    Passport bros ✊

  • @JeremiahKalani

    @JeremiahKalani

    Ай бұрын

    Matthew 6:33 Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and his Righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you. Read the Word of God daily and prayer have conversations with Lord Jesus, stay focused on Lord Jesus Christ .

  • @PapaEnoch052

    @PapaEnoch052

    Ай бұрын

    A lot of men have turned to going overseas and having married women from countries where women have a more traditional family role and less societal corruption than most women in the United States.

  • @jaybah836

    @jaybah836

    Ай бұрын

    I'm still thinking there is some good women around on the US. And I'm 33 too.

  • @KierraPlays
    @KierraPlays15 күн бұрын

    I am 17 years old and my parents are separated not divorced but it hurt seeing my dad walk out the door🚪and it affected my grades and my emotions❤

  • @cosminbryant1243
    @cosminbryant1243Ай бұрын

    Amen love the video so true I do have a desire to get married but it is hard to find a good godly woman that would treat me right

  • @arpso
    @arpsoАй бұрын

    Amén To God be the Glory forever Amen!🙌

  • @symonsangam4924
    @symonsangam4924Ай бұрын

    Thank you brother

  • @oloratomotshoganetsi4075
    @oloratomotshoganetsi407528 күн бұрын

    I agree with you and your God Daniel. Thank you advice me to God . Im from Botswana 🇧🇼

  • @gmanbkind2all
    @gmanbkind2allАй бұрын

    Thank you, Daniel 😊 It was a wonderful chat and much appreciated. I resent you the email on your Christian Lifestyle email. May God bless 🙌 you and Nikita ❤ Enjoy your😊 train ride.

  • @DLMMensLifestyle

    @DLMMensLifestyle

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for joining the live chat! God bless

  • @varkoog
    @varkoogАй бұрын

    6:34, hahaha, "yes it is in the Bible. You should read it a little bit more." I agree with you 100% It is a handbook for life itself.

  • @momthatloves3985
    @momthatloves3985Ай бұрын

    I messed up, but we prayed for forgiveness and I know God forgave us! We are blessed! We have 5 daughters! To Hod be the glory!!!

  • @momthatloves3985

    @momthatloves3985

    Ай бұрын

    God

  • @jaybah836
    @jaybah836Ай бұрын

    Im taking this path

  • @user-gz6rj3rt9q
    @user-gz6rj3rt9qАй бұрын

    I got to the point where I had sex with my cousin because I didn't understand my husband's plan for our family. I know it's very embarrassing, but I never told him what happened between us

  • @user-gz6rj3rt9q
    @user-gz6rj3rt9qАй бұрын

    My husband does not want us to get married, we have three children. Help me, how can I tell my husband that we should get married.

  • @teasingsafe351
    @teasingsafe351Ай бұрын

    what if both of a couple would agree to stay together without the need to engage? is it then ok to have sex before marriage?

  • @baleshabakakaza-amlak3195

    @baleshabakakaza-amlak3195

    Ай бұрын

    The question is, is marriage a covenant between to people and god or two people and the state? Contract are usually for a businesses, should not be needed in one’s personal life

  • @gasa3073
    @gasa3073Ай бұрын

    Thank you for your great videos. However, I would like to make a few comments here. In my country we have a saying that there is a gray theory and a green tree of life. I definitely agree that if people are married they should behave responsibly - especially if they have children. But getting married without living with your partner for at least some time is quite risky. Humans - unlike animals - have to learn sex to a certain extent, and it may happen that you and your partner do not understand each other on this matter (or simply do not suit each other). And what if you are already married? And please, don't let anyone imagine that they will "work" on it and everything will be ok. It won't be. Neither love nor physical attraction can be forced. And few areas of human life are as fragile as sexual harmony.

  • @stevejung6470
    @stevejung6470Ай бұрын

    Sex before marriage is badddddddd

  • @babalarassrah
    @babalarassrahАй бұрын

    Religion has a problem with that

  • @godskingdomservant3191
    @godskingdomservant3191Ай бұрын

    "For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our s1ns in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Cephas, then to the twelve. Then he appeared to more than five hundred brothers at one time, most of whom are still alive, though some have fallen asleep. Then he appeared to James, then to all the apostles. Last of all, as to one untimely born, he appeared also to me." 1 Corinthians 15:3-8 (ESV) Yeshua replied to His disciples: "I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me." - John 14:6

  • @dragoncomosaics9282
    @dragoncomosaics9282Ай бұрын

    Let's discuss Eternal Security here. Let's say someone once truly believed OSAS, even got promises from God regarding Eternal Security, and then was really disappointed by some actions of God in his/her life and decides willingly do evil in the sight of God, seek and do orgies, and think that for he/she it is acceptable to live this way until death and suffer consequences of such actions, and after death Eternity with God is also acceptable. This one will be Saved? All rewards will be lost if he/she got anything before such actions, or some rewards still be left for him/her? If OSAS is a lie, then: 1) How person can be 100 % sure that he will end up in Heaven if he/she trust Jesus Christ for his/her Eternal Salvation when he/she cannot avoid sinning each day and have no idea what future will bring? 2) What requirements of obedience and faithfulness to God (how many and what kind of sins/day or sins/life is acceptable to God and what is not?) 3) Let's say he/she done orgies and then started to believe Gospel and repented and then started to live 'new life'. Then he/she is Saved? Saved means what? Saved from what? In case, later he/she end up in a Lake of Fire then why it is called Salvation if end was Doom? He/she was Child of God and God allowed to die His Child in Hell when had Power and Foreknowledge to avoid it? Is God that lose at least 1 of His children is worthy to be worshipped? Now, if he/she done that repentance+believe thing during death bed situation and after acceptance of Jesus Christ as Lord and Saviour instantly died then he/she would be in Heaven? So, then once U start to repent+believe it is best if someone kill U so U end up surely in Heaven? 4) Let's say obedient christian started to do orgies, and according to U he/she will be in Hell for this. It is also known that fall of christians is much worse than just regular persons and according some tales demons will torture christians more in Hell then the rest. So, if that is the case, what is the point to be Saved by Jesus Christ for unbeliever before death bed situation if he/she from that day when he/she accept Jesus Christ as Lord and Saviour have to repent each day, sacrifice everything, and still have no Assurance of Eternal Salvation, and if fall then will be tortured even more than if he/she would never believed it?

  • @DG-zv4bl
    @DG-zv4blАй бұрын

    But weddings are expensive......!

  • @95talon07

    @95talon07

    Ай бұрын

    They don't have to be

  • @marco13mag
    @marco13magАй бұрын

    Daniel, Is it wrong for Christian married couples to not want kids?

  • @user-gz6rj3rt9q
    @user-gz6rj3rt9qАй бұрын

    🥺🥺

  • @BADDMIXX
    @BADDMIXXАй бұрын

    Amen Brother! Mary, Virgin, OUR LORD THE CHRIST, Virgin, The 144,000, Virgins, Had I'd Been Taught Correctly... At 57 - I'd Still Be A Virgin!

  • @jacobvelez7353
    @jacobvelez7353Ай бұрын

    What about the believers who struggle with sexual desires were not going to hell or are you saying a Christian will go to hell if they never overcome sexual sin?

  • @joshthesmith77

    @joshthesmith77

    Ай бұрын

    I’m 23m virgin and I’ve struggled since 11 due to loneliness and emotional trauma. I believe there are two types of porn addicts; one hungers for perversion and seeks to watch or do the acts they watch and the other burns with passion and desire intimacy but porn is the only outlet for their desires but are unable to stop once they begin. I’m the second and in desperate need of a godly virgin wife. Please pray for me! God bless!

  • @joshthesmith77

    @joshthesmith77

    Ай бұрын

    Read 1 Corinthians 7:8-9. :)

  • @douglasboyd8475
    @douglasboyd8475Ай бұрын

    Why was the standard different for David and Solomon? They had gobs of concubines and the Lord never said a word until Solomon backslid because of it. It’s hard to understand because Jesus tells us to not even look at a woman with a lustful thought and yet David and Solomon were allowed to totally get their freak on with everybody

  • @annmburu1063

    @annmburu1063

    Ай бұрын

    There’s a difference between God’s perfect will vs Permissive will . Just because God allowed it doesn’t mean that was His perfect will for both Solomon & David . These two men suffered greatly because of lust . Solomon’s concubines and foreign wives pushed him away from God , he built temples and idols for them and in the end he saw it all as vanity . The book of Ecclesiastes is a testimony of his search for happiness and joy and the realization that obedience to God’s law is what can grant you joy . David also suffered greatly because of his sexual sin . These two men are prime examples as to why we should abstain from pre marital sex , be faithful partners and choose to follow God’s law instead of our fleshly desires . It’s Gods will for us to be sanctified and to avoid sexual immorality- 1 Thessalonians 4:3

  • @DLMMensLifestyle

    @DLMMensLifestyle

    Ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @douglasboyd8475

    @douglasboyd8475

    Ай бұрын

    @@annmburu1063 Oh, I agree, but God definitely turned his eye away from what they were doing it seems. These men went above and beyond God‘s will on sex and nothing was ever said until David got a woman who was married pregnant, and Solomon let them bring idols in but up until that point they were both allowed to have sex with all the concubines they wanted to. It seems odd to me.

  • @douglasboyd8475

    @douglasboyd8475

    Ай бұрын

    @@annmburu1063 Also, you said that what David and Solomon were allowed to do was God‘s permissive will? These guys had harems full of concubines. Are you going to tell me that was God‘s permissive will? lol It’s just weird to me. I don’t know.

  • @Aartiaaru87
    @Aartiaaru87Ай бұрын

    ⏱️⏱️⏱️😊

  • @ThomasKlatkiewicz-om9yk
    @ThomasKlatkiewicz-om9ykАй бұрын

    DLM, your presentation here is very good. But there is one item that is specifically missing. It is not just two people laying down to have sex. It is a contract with God by the very act and not by words exchanged. Reflect on that please. There are three entities in that Union of the two that have sex. I went to a Christian grade school and then to a public high school. None of this was ever spoken about. I heard about the saints. I heard about the crucifixion I heard about many other things but they never talked about sex. Yep, I'm in my '70s. I was looking for that thought in your videos. Specifically that in the creation of another human, there is God present in that Union. That one very basic fact that the creation of that human being through sex is a gift that is given to you from the Creator. You have to start out with the acceptance of that fact in order to make the rest of the premises that you have talked about. Please revisit the topic. You might want to make an adjustment or two to your presentation. God bless

  • @amineamine-zh1xk
    @amineamine-zh1xkАй бұрын

    Islam is the truth read iseiah 42

  • @ThinkUnique-ki3ql

    @ThinkUnique-ki3ql

    Ай бұрын

    😂 If Muhammed was your prophet of God then check yourself.... He married a 9yrs old girl... Shame on him

  • @MegaTroyhamilton
    @MegaTroyhamiltonАй бұрын

    adultry and fornication are 2 differnt acts!

  • @PapaEnoch052

    @PapaEnoch052

    Ай бұрын

    Yes.... But an adulterer can also be a fornicator.

  • @DG-zv4bl
    @DG-zv4blАй бұрын

    Don't be a hypocrite!

  • @DG-zv4bl
    @DG-zv4blАй бұрын

    11:07 no uterus - no opinion!

  • @aznycts
    @aznyctsАй бұрын

    😂😂😂 God has nothing to do with Sex or any other Shit . All he cares about is to keep the Earth and the Universe working Perfectly so we can have a Life . What you do is ur problem. We have a lots of Shit happening now . do God Gives a Shit ? U tell me 😂

  • @alphaversalproking

    @alphaversalproking

    Ай бұрын

    Just saying with love and respect... God created sex for us to enjoy it, being fruitful and multiply and for a man and a woman to be one flesh.... which is done in marriage only... Please Repent Of Your Sins And Turn away from The Fleshly Lifestyle and worldly desires... Yes I agree that He cares about all of his creation including Earth And Universe and others.. But Do you really Care About God, spend time with Him, worship Him, Reading His Word, Communicating with Him and Praying to him?... If not please do so... (1)God cares also about things that we all are doing in this earth and it does not mean you should be selfish and only care about your life and not spending with him and worshipping him (2) God loves the world that he sent his only Son So that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life and people who become Born Again believers and Jesus Christ Followers will be Saved in this world... (3) Please live a Holy And Righteous Life With Our Lord... Do not be part of the world because it is full of darkness and evilness

  • @mosesfashow5609

    @mosesfashow5609

    Ай бұрын

    Your are ignorant, you laugh now, but watch that last laugh... so sad

  • @LouisC777

    @LouisC777

    Ай бұрын

    You sound so stupid 🙄

  • @hanliepaver4037

    @hanliepaver4037

    Ай бұрын

    So sad to see a person act this way... ignorance... God, bless this child of Yours for he does not know what he's saying Amen 🙌 ❤

  • @user-gz6rj3rt9q
    @user-gz6rj3rt9qАй бұрын

    I got to the point where I had sex with my cousin because I didn't understand my husband's plan for our family. I know it's very embarrassing, but I never told him what happened between us