Beeing childfree makes you less a slave to the system

@lunaimadog4723

7 ай бұрын

🤗Exactly what I'm thinking! I save another life for not being part of the system especially the "rat race trap".

@yoyatecontare8024

7 ай бұрын

So true

@antinatalistwitch111

7 ай бұрын

Factssss! Plus I contribute 0 slaves to the system at the same time. WIN-WIN🎉🎉🎉

@petyavelikova5066

7 ай бұрын

Couldnt agree more.

@thyeconomy

6 ай бұрын

Yes... agreed. We slave for forces that think of us as nothing more than Canon fodder .

90% people dont think of anything before having kids - they get pregnant thinking God will provide 😂

@CordeliaWagner1999

7 ай бұрын

The vast majority of human population isn't of Christian faith.

@lijohnyoutube101

7 ай бұрын

Very roughly only 40 percent of people on the globe believe in a god/religion so J disagree with you stat. In fact yes the fundamentalist religion individuals are indoctrinated to have many children however in general its the bottom 20 percent of society and with the least education that have the most unplanned pregnancies. The further up the ladder you go regarding stability and education the odds decrease.

@Bubileaf

7 ай бұрын

ROFLMAO

@Twelly93

7 ай бұрын

​😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@Aniexo_

6 ай бұрын

As a child free christian this was hilarious 😂😂😂.

My reasons for being childfree are simply because I just don't want them. Never did want them.

@kriskeena9438

7 ай бұрын

62 year old mother of 2 here. "I don't want to be a parent" is the BEST reason not to have kids. You don't have to justify it. It's your life.

@keyhimself3542

6 ай бұрын

Just wait til your 471 years old. Then you'll change your mind

@Lilymoo88

6 ай бұрын

@@keyhimself3542 Maybe 😂😂

@Lilymoo88

6 ай бұрын

@@kriskeena9438 Thank you 🩷

@fluorite1965

4 ай бұрын

Same but also I can't tolerate them.

I totally understand why more people are choosing to be childfree the world has gotten worse plus some people are trying to break the dysfunctional cycle of generation trauma by not having kids

@corndogS29

7 ай бұрын

Breaking the cycle of generational poverty as well

@angelaholmes8888

7 ай бұрын

@@corndogS29 yep totally agree

@nowherenothere

7 ай бұрын

💯

@milliem8051

7 ай бұрын

I’ve spent my adult years healing from childhood trauma and I haven’t felt like I’m in a good place to bring a child into this world.

@angelaholmes8888

7 ай бұрын

@@milliem8051 you are being wise with your decision to not have children if you feel that you are not in a place to be a parent

I dont think we need more humans in this world to make it better Only reason they say there isn't enough of us, is because society needs more workers :/

@diaryofthechildfree

6 ай бұрын

It will always come down to money sadly. There is a deep hunger among the wealthy for power and greed.

@billg9502

6 ай бұрын

Slave workers .

yeah honestly i don't even know how people are even able to afford kids rights now.....

Honestly what always gets me is that I came from a poor family. My aunts and uncles on both sides had kids after being in a family that had 6 kids and were in poverty. It was not a goal to have kids for them to really take care of them. It was just something that you do. Growing up, my mother taught us how to do all the chores and didn't properly take care of us. My father worked all the time and didn't really know my mother was severely depressed and would sleep all the time and I took care of my little sister. We went to school and it was a break for them. They sent us to church to have a break from us. My sister and I were fully functioning to take care of our own needs like cooking, cleaning when we were 5 years old. We even went grocery shopping with a list and a red wagon. We lived in a rural area. The store would even sell us alcohol and send it home with us if my mother called the store. It was all we knew and we survived our childhood. I just don't see the point in having kids with our world and what is expected of us. I may be ruined from reality of not being cared for properly. Also most of my cousins are alcoholics and pot heads continuing the cycle of poverty. What is the point? Unless you really make it a point to make your kids a priority instead of a chore you shouldn't have children. I am childfree. I just don't want them. I don't remember my childhood fondly; it was just something to get through so I could start my life on my own terms.

@lijohnyoutube101

7 ай бұрын

OMG that is horrible and just awful. My childhood was like a storybook and nothing about yours relates to mine. My heart cries for the child that you were. Hopefully you have been able to get some good therapy!

@yoyatecontare8024

7 ай бұрын

You are breaking the cycle, proud of you!!

@petyavelikova5066

7 ай бұрын

You just described my childhood, although I have 1 daughter i raieed as a single mother and now totally support her decidion to be childfree and she married a wonderfu. Man with the same mentality. They are married 9 years now, both in tneir 40s and enjoy life. I never remarred and got into relationships with men after my husband left me aftef giving birth because i gained weight. I livd happily single, travel, read, enjoy cooking classes and enjoy my life.

@Hawkfeet

6 ай бұрын

The irony of your childfree choice is that your parents had you If your parents had the same ideology then you wouldn't exist Thats the truth I thank god for being alive and to my parents who decided to have me My sister you need to find or look for a new environment that has all of what you need You mentioned alcoholicism right? I suggest looking for a conservative area to live in the middle east or Africa for example It isn't what the media tells you it is I hope you change your mind and find a good husband and have a beautiful small family Peace ✌🏽

@77Tadams

6 ай бұрын

@@Hawkfeet I don't think being alive is all it is cracked up to be. I will manage it the best I can, but I would never consider having kids on this planet. No way. It is barbaric and low vibration. Just not for me. I am not into soul trapping. Having a child is a flesh encased trap for a soul. It bleeds, is painful, and then you die. It is rather unappealing. We shit and piss, kill things and eat things with faces. We have wars. We force our offspring to work at things to make money in order to make things better and it isn't that great to begin with. Humans are kinda over-rated.

I asked my mom a few times; 'weren't you worried about bad things happening to us?' Her answer was 'no, you don't, when you read/watch bad news/disasters/shootings/attacks/wars etc, you still think 'that won't happen to us''. And every time she stops and says 'when you think about it, it's awful isn't it?'. I live in a city that is expecting devastating earthquakes, yet I see people moving into buildings that are clearly not earthquake resistant. Not only that, they then have children. I really do not get it.

@sirblackmist

7 ай бұрын

I've learned this: we are the other people of other people.

@lunaimadog4723

7 ай бұрын

'cause they just don't care and they never learned they just want to spread their legs and spawn as long as they wanted but never have a thought what would be the outcome or the life of that person. Like, we just had a virus that doesn't have a specific vaccines that really combat the virus and for newborn vaccines then I find out a friend, cousin and neighbor give birth to their 1st or 2nd child. Sometimes I asked myself, what is wrong with them. Am I the only who cares so much and overthinking. 🤷 Now, if I find out their child got sick 'cause of flu or pneumonia(child of my cousin just recently got out from hospital). I simply say, that's on them and sorry for the child. Even in the news a child died 'cause of (maybe) malpractice but the reason the infant was admitted because of pneumonia. And now they're fighting for justice. They couldn't find a person to blame but the other, well, all the time.🤷

@Datb2

7 ай бұрын

It’s sooooo strange the response you get from people when you ask valid legitimate question and they look at you like ???? Oh I didn’t even think of that

@ayamystic

7 ай бұрын

She’s a liar. It’s easier to say that than “I just didn’t care”

@CuteCatsofIstanbul

7 ай бұрын

@@ayamystic I've thought a lot about this and no, I actually believe that was her naive thinking back then, like so many of her peers born in the 40's-50's. At a time when coming out of a war, society was being bombarded with the message of 'it will all be great now', there were more jobs, more money, people were getting their first cars/tv's, and of course religion/society/governments/capitalist systems made you believe you had to get married, buy that house and have children. Thankfully things are changing significantly ... now we have our eyes and hearts open.

In the Czech Republic it’s normal to be on maternity leave for three years usually. And you get money every month during that time. But the money is ridiculous! The father must have a good job to support that family.

It's always been so interesting to me how parents and pro family types don’t ever really address the financial burden of having kids. On the contrary, they usually minimize the financial and incredible time costs associated with raising kids. Why is that?! Why aren't parents more honest about the sacrifices parents inevitably make to be parents. They're so eager to skip over that part and just focus on how fun and wonderful it all is. Very suspicious...

@forgoogletotrack7181

7 ай бұрын

Because society shames them when they talk about the hardship of parenting. So they are forced into the charade. That's why parents will automatically counter with "I love my kids, they're my world" without acknowledging the negative aspects of parenting. Societal shame creates cognitive dissonance.

@Inc0gnit030

7 ай бұрын

​@@forgoogletotrack7181That and the fact that parents want everyone else to be in the same boat as them because it somehow validates their decisions to become parents.

@Chloe-ds9jf

6 ай бұрын

Maybe online, but offline every single family member and friend of mine has talked about the financial burden of kids lol. All my friends that want them cannot, because the cost of living just makes it impossible.

I couldn’t agree more with you I am 35 year old man who already told my parents I don’t want kids either. Since you mentioned climate change it’s just that it’s also politics especially people in the far right spectrum that’s causing this destruction of innocent people and the world. I do appreciate the difference you are trying to make keep up the good work and do what you can do

I’m here to take the path of least resistance

When you choose to have children, you should seriously ask yourself "Why do you want children? What do you want children for?". 99.9% of people's reasons for having children are inherently selfish and me as a childfree man, I don't believe that there is an unselfish reason for having children. I actually have a whole stack of reasons why I don't want children, so I have made the correct decision.

@lijohnyoutube101

7 ай бұрын

I wanted kids to give back to the world all that was given to me. To experience joy in their adventures, to pass on knowledge, to help to improve the world and so many more reasons.

@trevagraham1605

7 ай бұрын

Agreed 100% Every single reason is either selfish, or narcissistic.

@trevagraham1605

7 ай бұрын

​@@lijohnyoutube101i would love to know how your children are improving the world.

@krystlerees5144

7 ай бұрын

Because children create hope. The next generation is light and being able to help mentor a child in their journey is a unique gift. The parent child bond is deeply meaningful and powerful. Creating a haven where my children can enjoy friendship with each other and progress/discover the beauty the world has to offer, poetry, art, literature, music, nature, food, relationships etc has been the most rewarding thing I have ever put my energy into. This is coming from someone who has lived abroad in different countries for multiple years, got the degree and cool career and competed in university sports. It just doesn't compare. Also selfish is a funny term. Are things only laudable if we're miserable doing them😂 Don't do anything enjoyable then because heaven forbid you are selfish.

@lijohnyoutube101

7 ай бұрын

@@trevagraham1605 It depends on the day. Some aren’t successful because we are all humans but to care about others, to care about the planet, to try to volunteer across society, to be thankful for what they have, to think about careers that will help humanity achieve new goals or help others etc etc

As a g u y, it baffles me why any lady would want to be a m0m. Its like signing up to be a prisoner.

@nekocat12

7 ай бұрын

On god

@Childfree334

7 ай бұрын

Female socialization and programming is a heck of a drug. I'm just thankful I didn't fall for it.

@juliebella1221

7 ай бұрын

That's exactly what it is. Prison for life and the destruction of her body. You ever see a woman who's had a baby - brain on the tummy is what it looks like. I feel so badly for them. No more bikinis for the majority of them. Also, they lose their teeth and so many other health problems for life after just one baby. However, I've noticed, it's majority unattractive or only mid women doing this. The majority of truly gorgeous women have their own homes and are single and child free. I think the religi can only keep the unattractive people with a promise of a spouse aka some semblance of a life. The Pass Port bro wives have a baby to stay. So, if you took out poverty and didn't allow men to use that as leverage - the child free would go all the way down to the poor and unattractive. However, since majority of women are kept poor unless they attach to a man around the world....man designed it that way because man is a wankah. The moment you give women a fair chance, they won't be having children. The wealthy women who have children also have live in maids and nannies, they are no where near anything you'd call a Mom. More like a CEO of a family business than a Mom. However, if you're a poor woman, they overturned Roe to make sure that woman stays poor even if SA or underage. Again, men are wankahs, they have to force this upon girls and women, because they know, if given the freedom, girls and women would run from them and create a world without men. And I don't hate men, but take a look at the world they created - nobody wants to live here. Nothing new under the son as they say.

@juliebella1221

7 ай бұрын

I think it's rest. You get a moment, only a moment, like a few days, lol, when you get with a man that everyone is kinder to you. I still won't go to a doctor without a male with me. They treat you horribly when you're alone as a woman. I've been SA twice by male OBG-YNs. One on my school campus. When you're not with a man, the world is terrible to women and girls, and when you get with a man, the world applauds you and is way nicer to you, all the while applauding the man as he abuses you. The more he abuses you, the more the woman suffers, the more society applauds the relationship. So, when you leave him, you get blamed and "boys will be boys" is the excuse to anything he did wrong and the woman leaving him is just the worst thing she could ever do. LOL!! So, when you're single, you go back to the world hating you - nothing hated more than a Single Mother than a Single Woman. LOL!! Especially a beautiful one. LOL!! They send the pickme aishas after you. Like in that episode of Married with Children, Peg was making her own money and being seen as a seggs symbol and men wanted her and Al couldn't take it. He couldn't stop her, so he sent Marcie and her nag hags to stop Peg. Women and men were soooooo much nicer to me when I was coupled up. Invites to everything. When you're a single woman, you're seen as a temptation, because you know men, have no self control....yet they're supposed to be the leaders. LOL!! @@Childfree334

@Chloe-ds9jf

6 ай бұрын

Plenty of positive stories/experiences about being a mother all over the internet you can read, or ask one you know irl. It's not black and white.

Excellent vid ... as a childfree geezer lady it's great to see so many smart kids getting the CF message out there - brava

Wish so much have Childfree friends sometimes is cool just hanging out with people who thinks the same..anyway good video!

@milliem8051

7 ай бұрын

There’s some childfree meetups in my area

@yoyatecontare8024

7 ай бұрын

​@@milliem8051Cool!! 🎉

This video was so timely and powerful. Thanks for pointing these things out. Very well said

@diaryofthechildfree

6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! I'm glad to hear you enjoyed it!

@fmsstudio6316

6 ай бұрын

No problem. Great video.

I love all the facts & reasons, but for a lot of women, it’s because we just don’t want babies. Period. And that’s as deep as is goes. Why no one will listen though. . . .

I 100% agree, pretty much all the reason you just named are why i am choosing to not have kids, it annoys me so much because all the conservative(you got to have kids) men alway straw men childfree women, saying the only reason we choose to not have kids is to travel, party and be hedonistic. when in fact it's a lot more complicated them that. Women's healthcare is also terrible....i don't want to have kids on a sinking ship or die in childbirth.......

@CordeliaWagner1999

7 ай бұрын

I travel and I wynt my money for myself. These traditional men just hate that chlldfree women are to free for their taste. They want women to be dependent servants and not competition for the highest paid jobs.

@antinatalistwitch111

7 ай бұрын

Even if that was your reasons, soooo what?!?!? U don't OWE anyone children!

@rebeccaw_artist4127

7 ай бұрын

@@antinatalistwitch111 i 100% agree! i am so happy childfree people are speaking up, i had no idea how much shaming people do to childfree people. I feel like thats is why so many women give into having children is because of pressure from men...

@rebeccaw_artist4127

7 ай бұрын

@@CordeliaWagner1999 true! I love traveling and spending money on myself. but I hate how they try to paint us as these hateful, hedonistic, selfish witches, when in fact I am just a normal person, who has to go to work, and survive like everyone else. I haven't partied in like ten years. pretty much all I do is work, sleep, and rest.......(oh! i am such a party animal, who consumes to much, and participates in depravity)........like these people can F right off.

Love your videos kelsey you give great reasons why people choos to be childfree you are a beautiful valid woman love you're channel that is why i choose to be childfree vary intelligent video

Childfree Gen X'er here. Happy I made this choice back in the 90s. A growing global childfree movement will force governments and the capitalist system we live in to change laws and make more benefits available to those who choose to parent. Excellent pre-parenting training and education at school level and ongoing parenting training, better free healthcare, properly regulated and minimum-fee mandated childcare, better maternity and paternity leave policies. If the capitalist system requires cogs, it will have to evolve and adapt.

The reason why black women death rate during child birth is so high is bc of doctors/nurses not taking their pain seriously or they don't diagnose them properly or intentionally off them. There are several lawsuits against hospitals for malpractice and causing the death of the mother giving birth. I'm still following quite a few to see the outcome.

@Raddiebaddie

7 ай бұрын

And this is only getting worse with the new role backs on womens rights 😢😢

@antinatalistwitch111

7 ай бұрын

Yeah so why black women keep breeding? Bringing their children in a world that does not respect them based off skin color. We have been fighting the same fights since forever. My goodness. The very definition of insanity.

@user-rc2yf8kt7i

4 ай бұрын

The term "medical misogyny" brings up a lot of content about this for further reading. All women get this dismissive treatment but POC get an extra racism bonus on top of it.

Thanks for sharing

I wanted children, watching my friends struggle extra hard and many without help and I am still struggling, now I don't want them. Can't afford them, health can't afford them, and just simply not wealthy enough.

I'd rather not play Russian Roulette with an innocent life when I can't guarantee the same life I had as a child. My parents are my biggest supporters of my childfree decision.

My favorite is when people say “bad things happen in every generation.” 🙄

On the one hand, I see what you are saying. On the other hand, I see the issue with either side claiming "save this or that by having/not having kids". It's true that first world countries have their problems but holding other countries responsible for blatant dumping of things like untreated nuclear waste, not building to even the most remedial standards or having basic worker safety laws and having zero regulations on selling people items that aren't even food to begin with (yes, I am clearly alluding to the CCP and India) would be a good start. Ultimately, these things go into the ocean on a massive scale and humanity is affected as opposed to just those countries. On the flip side, simply having "enough" kids will not sustain the economy. It is already becoming quality over quantity, so if people have kids, it is important for them to be intelligent/productive members of society. Someone has to program whatever technology is keeping things afloat and come up with solutions to problems in each generation and others have to maintain the basics. With with more things becoming mechanical, this still requires people to be able to learn and read. While I often hear arguments for having multiple languages available, I have met several kids (and a surprising number of adults who do not have dyslexia) that are unable to read in either their native language or English.

@CordeliaWagner1999

7 ай бұрын

Looking at all the people that aren't quality but quantity... The fast growing Useless Class. We have to many low intelligent non education people. In Europe the Number of children who can't read and write after 4th grade is growing, especially since 2015 when millions of Immigrants from islamistic d1rth0le countries invadet our systems. Crime rates are through the roof. And believing in endless economic growth is just dumb. And the Economy isn't a sentient being, it's human who controll the markets.

@Purplelemon5033

7 ай бұрын

People are definitely getting sicker mentally and physically. It’s actually terrifying the amount of kids with not only mental illness but learning behaviours. There’s a large proportion of kids coming through the system now that are going to really struggle to not only to want to work but to be employable. No boundaries, poor communication skills, no resilience. At a local mainstream school there’s several children who aren’t even toilet trained they’ve been known to literally 💩in the playground . There’s kids that can’t cope with being in the classroom they just run around the school all day. They come to school in their pyjamas because the parents can’t get them dressed. My child has 10 kids in his class with learning behaviours many have noise cancelling headphones on to cope with their sensory problems and many are just given a chrome book to type as they can’t hold a pencil and write. It’s really worrying

@CordeliaWagner1999

7 ай бұрын

Germany has a top Ten List of "words of the year" which are an expression for the overall topics and problems. Nummer 3 is "leseunfähig"= Unable to read

@CordeliaWagner1999

7 ай бұрын

We as a Spezies won't survive if the majority of our offsprings isn't fit for survival. No matter how woke people call disabilities, it's first and formost a growing problem.

The reasons why I'm a single and childfree woman: 1: I never liked children, always hated them since the age of 15 and I STILL hate them today 2: I don't want to be a parent, never have, and never will; 3: I don't want to give up my freedom and change my way of life to accommodate children that I don't want; 4: IT'S MY FUCKING CHOICE!!!

Spot on 👌

Even if the world was perfect it's still stupid to have kids because they're going to suffer either way, they're going to go through things and ultimately go through the horrible process of aging menopause and then the agony pain of death, but the aging deterioration menopause process is the worst that I wish I didn't have to experience it but I am because my parents are selfish pricks that weren't intelligent enough to think ahead but then again they don't care about inflicting suffering so it worked out for them And everyone who has kids never thinks about what this wrinkle-free small human is going to go through Because one day their kid is going to be a hideously wrinkly old fragile creature but No parents never think about that,, it's all about them parents want to be the stars of their own selfish show

@lunaimadog4723

7 ай бұрын

Yes! 💯

@77Tadams

7 ай бұрын

Oh my….😂👍. I must agree menopause sucks ass. I am 46 years old female and no kids. Age is scary af. It is a shit show. But so is all of it like having loose teeth you have to yank out when you are a kid. Getting cramps, losing animals and people you love. It is a crazy ride. By the time you get enough money to do things your body starts falling apart! It is weird. Just try to laugh about it even though it sucks! Sorry, but getting old does suck.

@daysoftheboo

7 ай бұрын

@@77Tadams it does suck and people who choose to have kids don't care that their kids are going to go through this,, when I was a little kid my mom used to tell me everyday "life sucks life sucks life sucks" OOKK so if she already knew that life sucks then why Force kids into existence then!!??? Because of selfishness !! We suffer and die on behalf of our parents

@audreycaruso8111

7 ай бұрын

Exactly. They don't stop and think about what the kid is in store for.

@daysoftheboo

7 ай бұрын

@@audreycaruso8111 they don't think about it and if they do think about it they don't care because it's all about what they want to get out of this poor kid they made , and a lot of people are all about that stupid legacy crap like how men want to spread their stupid last names and women who love getting to name another human,, if I want to name something I'll get a pet but I'm not going to make a human being just so I can put a name on it

Ah emergency C-section and time in the NICU. Happened to my family. That was extremely expensive and the parents had no funds to pay for it. One of them had to get their inheritance in advance.

@diaryofthechildfree

6 ай бұрын

That is awful - especially when it's not expected! I saw a clip a couple of days ago of a women who had millions of dollars in medical bills from her quadruplets being born prematurely.

Because it is possible with birth control. Conservatives wrongly assumed in so called "old good time" ppl had kids because they wanted. Kids were nothing but side effects of having sex, often unwanted, and often being unpaid work force. Now ppl, women especially, can control own fertility. Women pays 99% of social costs of having a child, pay 100% of biological cost, do 99% of work whereas man do 1% of word, 1% of social costs can maintain hobby, career and all he cares for and gets 99% of a praise. It is not always like that, men are getting more loving and careful fathers but in general the vast majority of cost is on a women's side. Women start to ask why should they give up everything to change diapers. It makes conservatives mad with fury and this makes maternity even less appealing. Men are also thinking why they should live in a tiny cage of patriarchal gender roles, they have instead loving and happy relationship or simply have other plans for live.

You are so correct ,. The future does,t look too promising either .

great video as always ^^

@diaryofthechildfree

6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! ❤️

Everything was very well said 👏🏾 👌🏾🤩

Since I've been 13, I have not wanted to have kids. Now I'm 27 and it's actually cool I can say I've had over half my life I've had a childfree ideology and mindset. Before that, I can't even say I would have answered yes, I didn't know it was a real choice. At the age of 13, I did realize it was a legit choice. My parents even knew of couples and single people without kids, it just clicked with me one day, Oh that's a choice! It's a very liberating choice once you realize it. I don't want to ruin my body, and be physically miserable, then have to send a kid to school- which has all it's own problems, not have any free time to myself. And the environment angle, while it's not at the very top of my reasons for not wanting kids, I can say, it's becoming more of a stronger reason too.

Real life handmaid's tale incoming 😬

@diaryofthechildfree

6 ай бұрын

I sadly get reminded weekly and it terrifies me.

There's also overpopulation & lack of affordability that are issues. Depopulation will only affect the rich.

@diaryofthechildfree

6 ай бұрын

Facts! There one and only concern is really only workers and consumers to bring in more money. They're on a high right now and they don't want that to drop.

@jpbart1390

6 ай бұрын

While everyone else is struggling. As it is, the rich use the poor to cheat tax. It's called charity: the best way to cheat tax because it's legal.@@diaryofthechildfree

Do not mind you being childfree your taxes help raise my kids😂😂😂

Climate change needs to be reversed. Planting more trees & having fewer children can be quite helpful.

@diaryofthechildfree

6 ай бұрын

I agree! I get heated when I see another forest flattened out for things like sub-divisions, shopping centers, and gas stations.

you've earned a subscriber. (Me btw)

This world's only made for 2 billion people, not 8 billion! The baby boom really fucked things up!

@diaryofthechildfree

6 ай бұрын

Our maximum carrying capacity is 9 to 10 billion but those numbers don't see the way humans consume and practice certain things such as how we live and farm. while earth can theoretically hold those numbers, it would be a horrible experience for many and we would see plenty of shortages with the things we need to survive.

@jpbart1390

6 ай бұрын

My point, exactly.@@diaryofthechildfree

@frankiedomanico9701

5 ай бұрын

@@diaryofthechildfree and yet pro-natalists *still* insist that we have a population crisis. It’s all a total joke.

@CordeliaWagner1999

4 ай бұрын

Food for 10 Billion. No housing, no medial care, no education. Just calories

@CordeliaWagner1999

4 ай бұрын

We are already short on fresh water. This proves that our current 8 Billion is to much.

I'm childfree either way, but healthcare is totally unaffordable. Everyone in the US knows someone who had to put off necessary care and just live in pain and disability due to cost. Childbirth causes so many ongoing new medical issues in women that goes far beyond the price of giving birth... brand new chronic diseases to go with your "bundle of joy". All of which you have to fight to get treatment for and try 10+ different doctors just to get one who takes you seriously and doesn't dismiss you. That isn't free, you pay for all of that. If you go in with an issue and the doctor says you just have anxiety and throws you out, you have to pay for that refusal of treatment. And even once you get a diagnosis you pay more and more for the treatment. Why would any intelligent woman subject herself to that, especially in an era of Andrew Tate fanboys who hate her just for existing? Misogyny doesn't put women in the mood to self-sacrifice to do society a favor. But instead of looking in the mirror or listening to women, they just blame feminism.

You call the US a developed Nation? 😅

@diaryofthechildfree

6 ай бұрын

On paper, it's considered one, but we all know it's far from it! 😂😅

hahaha

I do want kids definitely there’s nothing that will make me not want kids, but I’m certainly interested in learning about the child free logic so I can understand the issues people have with having children and how we can work together to vote differently in a way that makes having kids more appealing for people. I wonder what what the main sticking point is for people, is it the cost? Is it the guilt of contributing to the world’s issues? And man I really don’t like the idea of my kids paying more tax because of people who didn’t have kids, I wish there was a way to cut them off from tax benefits because they refused to contribute to the taxation pool, sigh, I wonder what it would take to encourage people to have more kids

😂😂😂 My goodness… baby, if you don’t wanna have any children just don’t have any.. The human race will survive.

@grenade8572

7 ай бұрын

I saw so much comments like: "if everyone was doing the same thing, humanity would disappear". They don't think that lots of animal's society are functional only if some individuals don't reproduce (cf. Wolves, bees, ants, etc.) Furthermore, humans are the only species that can genuinely love and take care of another one's child (adoption); that's way more useful for the specie's future than birhting tons of children.

@FactsCountdown

7 ай бұрын

How much more time do you want humans race to continue ? Every species has to extinction it just can't go on till eternity and in case of human race it will go extinction sooner because of their own greed

@CordeliaWagner1999

7 ай бұрын

Some Spezies have been around for hundrets of millions of years. We are extraordinary fit for survival because we create our Environment. We will only extinct when we destroy our Habitat. Global warming might end our species. But eating meat and driving Carsten is more important I guess...

@MsBubuTheGreat

4 ай бұрын

So? What is your point?