Who to Marry & how to marry?

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You may be wondering why I'm doing a video on how to get married since I'm not a marriage counselor and typically cover entrepreneurship. The reason I decided to cover the topic of marriage is that a lot of people have requested an episode on this topic AND whether you marry and who you marry has a huge impact on entrepreneurs.
In this video you'll discover:
#1: The Purpose of Getting Married - 3:16
#2: The Perfect Time to Get Married - 5:15
#3: Benefits of Getting Married - 6:49
#4: Benefits of Staying Single - 8:06
#5: Reasons People Get Married - 9:56
#6: Why Who You Decide to Marry is So Important - 14:34
A Debate with a Family Member on What Really Matters when Choosing a Spouse - 20:38
Words of wisdom from my dad - 25:14
#7: How to Get Married - 25:58
Learning from mistakes -- 28:08
#8: How to Know When You're Ready to Get Married - 29:22
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  • @VALUETAINMENT
    @VALUETAINMENT Жыл бұрын

    Get the PDF here: valuetainment.com/who-to-marry-how-to-marry/

  • @rp5751

    @rp5751

    Жыл бұрын

    It said to fill out the form to get the 50 questions to ask but there was no form. Help?! 😥

  • @spiwegiggs3409

    @spiwegiggs3409

    Жыл бұрын

    I can not access it how come

  • @alexpablo6840

    @alexpablo6840

    Жыл бұрын

    Where can I get the PDF, not on the website anymore

  • @jordanphilipperris

    @jordanphilipperris

    Жыл бұрын

    How do you get people to look past the A word (Autism)? Even if it is high functioning? I have been wanting to give the whole dating thing a try but even with a few women who I thought things were going well with, they always backed out before there was ever any face to face meeting? It doesn't matter if I am being simple or deep, I have tried so many things. I feel that I have decent enough looks, intellect, likeability factors and more than enough good stuff to offer. I have tried pouring out who I am, and I consider myself to be quite deep when I get to know enough about someone. So if there is any advice you can give me with this, I am all ears, cause I would love to find her someday, someone who is also deep and just real/true to themselves, o if there is a way to present this better or just whatever, please, please, please let me know: "When I look at/experience stuff, like say, rocks, wind, touch, facial expressions, vocals/tones, emotion...everything, they/life are all like living/emotional objects to me, absolutely everything is, and in that way everything is the same thing/countless emotions/senses/etc forever changing, like that of constantly changing/moving water/ripples/vibrations/etc where me and everything else is just that, so the concept of anything being separate from one another took me quite some time to grasp :) When I was on pills, I understood measurement/perspective, things being separate, nothingness, emptiness, boredom, vastly dulled emotions, death, time, and the world felt and even look like it had a lot less colourations/shades/depth, like it was a lot more 2 dimensional looking compared to my normal self and I felt much like an actual/literal zombie (Again, compared to my normal self) and all of this bought forth what to me was a new kind of fear, the fear of being alone, of death, of nothingness T_T I then needed to find stuff to try to fill in this new concept of emptiness, of a kind of darkness/loss that I had never known before, of creating+faking emotions to try and fill the void and “time” seemed to move much faster as so much amazing+intense stuff was missing. I must keep emphasizing that without the pills, everything (Yes, emotions/sounds/etc too...everything) is like an ever changing bombardment of ripples, waves, vibrations and tones where emotions are everywhere and everything T_T All too often, due to many Autistics physical/verbal/emotional/etc reactions this easily makes it look like a fair number of people on the spectrum don’t have much in the ways of emotion/etc, that we don’t really care about how others feel, that we shut ourselves off from emotions and so on, but I say that the problems are in the fact that too many of these “expert” researchers are comparing us to the average persons, and I see that as being a truly massive mistake on their part… I live as emotion with forever changing emotion all around, and it is a super intense lifestyle, but when I was on the pills, they opened my eyes to another way of living/looking at/experiencing things/life and for me the way I naturally live (Without the pills) is the way I want to live even though for most others, it would probably send them into madness, just as the pills introduced me to a way of looking at/experiencing things that to me was it’s own world of madness… This has all combined together to give me some very interesting perspectives/understandings, like a bridge between the 2 worlds, and I think that I have turned out very well as a result of it all, and I have even spoken in a couple of events before too, and being on the pills made colours and so much other stuff really dulled down, almost like being shut in a dark cold room, torn away from life’ love/a mother torn away from her child. Without pills, everything is much brighter and sharper in an intensity soothing (non blinding with the right environments/etc) kind of way (Like floating+melting, as if being filled with water in a very cooling/cleansing way, as if I am about to enter heavens cool yet warming light), being able to see countless more shades/etc then I otherwise would due to things being so much more detailed, like looking at/feeling never ending/forever changing tapestries of bright liquid crystal silver light :) Here is one of the pieces of poetry that I typed a while back that I think would go pretty well with this: May your souls of ghostly liquid light spread their cleansing chills to hauntingly beautiful tones and vibrations in the never ending melodies of mysterious holy darkness in life’s eerily eternal song of infinitely awe inspiring complexities, turning fear into enhanced awareness & illuminating the way for others through the experiences of angels through us T_T" I have also given Women a glimpse into other experiences that are important to me, and on top of all that I have asked questions with giving my own answers to them so that me and her can really get to know about our favourite hobbies, shows, foods and so on.

  • @kathykokkinakos7041

    @kathykokkinakos7041

    7 ай бұрын

    @@jordanphilipperrissee 😢really 13:33 😅😅months we were😅

  • @JBulsa
    @JBulsa7 жыл бұрын

    I met my wife through the comments section under a youtube video haha!

  • @10aventuras

    @10aventuras

    7 жыл бұрын

    D Bulsa wow that's nice:)

  • @ngalindan603

    @ngalindan603

    7 жыл бұрын

    are you the wife

  • @essennagerry

    @essennagerry

    7 жыл бұрын

    Are you serious? Hahaha! When was that? Did she just happen to live in the same country/area as you?

  • @JBulsa

    @JBulsa

    7 жыл бұрын

    3 years ago. no. she lived in California and moved to south Carolina. passed now.

  • @JBulsa

    @JBulsa

    7 жыл бұрын

    yep! 6 years ago. she lived in north Carolina, me in south Carolina.

  • @yvonneruvinski8065
    @yvonneruvinski80657 жыл бұрын

    A good marriage is part of being wealthy.

  • @Kalmworld1
    @Kalmworld17 жыл бұрын

    So true, marriage is like a business and you HAVE to have a good business partner.

  • @gavinwaterman5456

    @gavinwaterman5456

    6 жыл бұрын

    Does it exist

  • @ItsZeBoss
    @ItsZeBoss7 жыл бұрын

    Being a married Entrepreneur myself, the best best thing I can advise to people on here is to make sure you have someone who believes in you and supports you! My wife is my Cheerleader and all the other "benefits" of marriage are just that... benefits.

  • @awad7391

    @awad7391

    3 жыл бұрын

    If someone has a busy lifestyle, the most important thing for me is a soft place to crash at night. totally agree

  • @m.k.s.7417

    @m.k.s.7417

    2 жыл бұрын

    You work hard, for: her, to get YOUR Hard earned earning's?? -Seems a fair enough - deal, to me!!- L.O.L.

  • @vsimon0297

    @vsimon0297

    Жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @Danny_Selam

    @Danny_Selam

    7 ай бұрын

    Believe in yourself above all else. This type of mentality creates dependency

  • @cannalibrium4025

    @cannalibrium4025

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@Danny_SelamMaybe both? 🧡

  • @silveirabraga777
    @silveirabraga777 Жыл бұрын

    I’m a 25 year old Christian entrepreneur and one of my biggest dreams is to get married and have a big family. This is the exact kind of content I was looking for.. Thanks Patrick👊🏽❤️‍🔥

  • @helenc056

    @helenc056

    6 ай бұрын

    How many kids do you want?

  • @horuzz2009

    @horuzz2009

    3 ай бұрын

    I am the same. I want at least 3 kids

  • @MrBowles760
    @MrBowles7603 жыл бұрын

    I was super lucky. Found a woman who thinks very similar to me. She supports me in the hobbies I have. She makes me my favorite Mexican food. God is good.

  • @a.r.8987

    @a.r.8987

    Жыл бұрын

    👍

  • @Blakely901

    @Blakely901

    Жыл бұрын

    Blessings bro

  • @ronizielinski4048

    @ronizielinski4048

    Жыл бұрын

    Aww that is very nice.

  • @Blue-mi1yh
    @Blue-mi1yh3 жыл бұрын

    My 3 non negotiables: 1. Values service, growth, gratitude 2. Willing to put herself out there and take risk. 3. Offers charity when not needed to

  • @constanzelabest
    @constanzelabest5 жыл бұрын

    my 3 non negotiable : - no addictions whatsoever - dedicated to family -having the same vision of the future

  • @Jo-ql8xi

    @Jo-ql8xi

    4 жыл бұрын

    constanzelabest YES this is crucial

  • @candybandteam4083

    @candybandteam4083

    3 жыл бұрын

    what about dopamine addiction? People can be addicted to sugar, people can be addicted to self defeating behavior even, something to think about

  • @mcr5577

    @mcr5577

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@candybandteam4083 those non negotiables look very non specific lol

  • @yesi558

    @yesi558

    3 жыл бұрын

    would you marry me?

  • @johnathandougherty565

    @johnathandougherty565

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hows that working out for you?

  • @griotolu7040
    @griotolu70403 жыл бұрын

    8:10: 4 9:55: 5 What do People Marry For? 14:33: 6 Who you Decide to Marry! 14:50: Have 3 non negotiables 15:45: You can't force somebody to love you or force urself to love somebody. 16:50 : book suggestion, 101 questions 17:15: Know what you can't work with! 20:10: 21:21: 22:33: Alignment in beliefs is important 27:20: introduced girl to ppl he trusted, for feedback. We all gave blind spots 28:20: Inversion! Valuable wisdom in how not to do it. 32:24: Question. What do we do when we go through Financial difficulties 33:20: If your daughter Question 35:40: Transparency 38:50: Be OVERLY prepared!

  • @CGodisgrat

    @CGodisgrat

    Жыл бұрын

    It was quite dramatic before 14:50

  • @venuselectrificata

    @venuselectrificata

    7 ай бұрын

    Good looking out 😎 thank you!!!!

  • @samuelzarategonzalez9751

    @samuelzarategonzalez9751

    21 күн бұрын

    Thank you !

  • @philspaghet
    @philspaghet3 жыл бұрын

    I'm a single guy in his early 20s and I'm really damn tired of hearing MGTOW people telling me to "abandon ye hope all who enter here" and never get married. So thank you for this video. I want to take my time but at the same time, I would like to get married or at least in the process of marriage before I hit 30. Modern feminism today scares the hell out of me but I still do want to raise a family and have kids. I believe I'll be a good father. Thank you for the video :)

  • @dianaaugustine5438

    @dianaaugustine5438

    Жыл бұрын

    Good for you! I’ve only been married two years, but it’s great and my husband would agree! I showed up to our first date (met online) with a list of pre-marital counseling questions. We made a game out of discussing a few questions each date. We matched up on all of the major questions about religion, political persuasion, and life goals. Everything else was easy to keep an open mind about because it wasn’t important to either of us. Almost 3 years, a wedding, and one child later, I have no regrets. He is now my best friend. Marriage to the right person for the right reasons is a blessing, not a curse. I highly recommend it!

  • @iammaximus614

    @iammaximus614

    Жыл бұрын

    Work & create value on yourself, & when you’re ready usually by late 20s early 30s you’ll be ready & find some1 about 5-10yrs younger than you that you both can build together

  • @andre1987eph

    @andre1987eph

    Жыл бұрын

    @philspaghet I TOTALLY understand your viewpoint. I felt like you when I was young. However MGTOW guys have it right. Life will teach you the hard way or you can follow wise advice. Your Purpose as a MAN does NOT involve wife and family. Furthermore, getting married and having children in USA puts you on a path of being betrayed by wife and children and destroyed by govt if done in the West. My success story is ever greater that DBP's. His story doesn't hold a candle to mine and what I have avcomplished and overcone so he cannot dismiss me as an irrelevant loser. I will say that if you genuinely want to have a family, wait until you have secured lifetime financial security in your 40s 50s or even 60s and can move to Phillipines, Thailand, Eastern Europe, etc where marriage and family is not under assault by Gov't and society.

  • @philspaghet

    @philspaghet

    Жыл бұрын

    @andre1987eph bro I want my wife to find me attractive, I'm not going to wait till my 40s. Also, statistics are easily manipulated. I'm a devout Christian man, by that alone my chances of finding a traditional woman go up from maybe 5-10% if you're a secular person to well over 60% when I couple that with the fact that I'm a pretty good judge of Christian character since I've been in ministry for so long since middle school. As for lifetime security, I'm an engineer, I'll be making over 6 figures by the time I'm 30, I'll be fine when it comes to that. I don't want to marry a chick who would be my theoretical daughter's age lmao.

  • @da-eu

    @da-eu

    Жыл бұрын

    @@philspaghet you're right Phil. I hate feminism and I pray to God to see more happy families. Because a happy family it comes from a happy marriage between them both

  • @jesusvalenzuela8410
    @jesusvalenzuela84108 жыл бұрын

    Pat make a video on marriage and finances. it's the leading cause of divorce

  • @rahimhamza557
    @rahimhamza5574 жыл бұрын

    21:10 (we are Muslims). Economic alignment is VERY important. I remember asking my wife (then girlfriend in college) what does she propose I do with $1,000 between taking a vacation or reinvest it and she gave me an idea which made us money to buy our first property (land). I was merely testing her with the vacation question, I was very happy she chose reinvesting the money

  • @ronizielinski4048

    @ronizielinski4048

    Жыл бұрын

    Amazing

  • @amirnezam93s
    @amirnezam93s8 жыл бұрын

    Watched every second of it. not married but will definitely use your advice when I decide to do so! Thank you Pat for the great content!

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    8 жыл бұрын

    👍👊😎

  • @voxrva

    @voxrva

    6 жыл бұрын

    Amirnezam Samadabadi

  • @bloodlorde4994

    @bloodlorde4994

    Ай бұрын

    You're married now?

  • @PoetaProfundo
    @PoetaProfundo7 жыл бұрын

    literally felt like I was having a meaninful conversation with a mentor... Incredible, thanks Pat!

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    7 жыл бұрын

    +joshuaogaldez I'm glad. Thats the idea.....

  • @gabrielabrown2620
    @gabrielabrown26206 жыл бұрын

    Interesting, I preached the same advice to my single friends! I'm always checking out girls for my husband😂😂 NUMBER 1 RULE I gave my husband when I met him. We DON'T FIGHT ABOUT MONEY! We talk and find a solution. Marriage is like a business, you invest on eachother, you strategize solutions, etc. If your investment is not helping you grow or bringing the business(family) down then time to reinvest or find a new business. Sharing this video with my single sons!

  • @DJAlisterCrane
    @DJAlisterCrane6 жыл бұрын

    I'm not married yet but it's good to know that I'm not the only person who thinks it would be best to reduce the likelihood of the marriage ending. Divorce is an expensive roadblock to success.

  • @normafig924
    @normafig924 Жыл бұрын

    I am 65 years young. Single. Made my mistakes. I totally agree on the things he said to discuss and reflect on. I diffidently will revisit these questions for sure. I still believe I can make a better choice even at my age. Never lose hope. 🙏😊🥰

  • @yinkamola265
    @yinkamola2657 жыл бұрын

    patrick bet-david no one has inspired me as much as you in a long while,thank you so much for this.

  • @gibransaliba8801
    @gibransaliba88017 жыл бұрын

    I can see the importance of marrying the right person. It really pays off to marry the person or else you could end up with a miserable life

  • @ElRealFuturo
    @ElRealFuturo7 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the advice. I'm 27 and still haven't reached my business goals so I will focus on those for now.

  • @olawalemoses8958
    @olawalemoses89585 жыл бұрын

    You are a great man Pat, not only because you lead a company but because your words are loaded with timeless truths and they are applicable for everyone even with the least of opportunity. Thanks a lot...

  • @Nooby668
    @Nooby6685 жыл бұрын

    I'm becoming obsess with your advices and videos. You talk about the real stuff and you never sugarcoat anything which I like. Thanks !

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    5 жыл бұрын

    That’s the idea Mary Ann! Much love to you!

  • @isaiahowens1847
    @isaiahowens18476 жыл бұрын

    I'm 21 and a college senior studying business. I saw this video while scrolling through your channel. Thanks for the awesome video, it was very thought provoking! I will keep this information tucked away as I begin to enter my post-college years.

  • @AMelvin
    @AMelvin6 жыл бұрын

    I have to say this: Your marriage advice that you give people here is one of the best I've heard! I know you are not a marriage expert, but I think every married person can give at least a little helpful advice about marriage. I also want to say that I love your videos, they are full of important information for entrepreneurs. I like people like you who get to the point fast without fluff and a lot of self promotion. And I love your honesty! As far as marriage and entrepreneurs I also have a little advice as an ex-married person: if you are single and an entrepreneur or are considering having your own business, make sure your partner is going to be at least opened to the idea (if not entrepreneur herself or himself). You cannot imagine the struggle you'll have with people who do not trust in your abilities that you can do this and constantly tell you to give up and get a job because is the "safest" and "best" way to live. Particularly when you start your own business is going to be a lot of work to build it and it's going to take a while to make a constant stream of income, and if your partner does not support you in this, it's not impossible to be successful (there are lots of people who've done it), but it's going to be a constant struggle. Anyway, thanks for the video, and keep them coming!

  • @pedropadilla3738
    @pedropadilla37383 жыл бұрын

    Patrick, everyone in my family is average, you are really helping me to be the game changer thank you

  • @douglasfranklin9701
    @douglasfranklin97017 жыл бұрын

    you really hit the mark with me, when you mentioned 'self inflicted wounds'. six years later, I'm still cleaning up the mess.

  • @TheAnbrown05
    @TheAnbrown058 жыл бұрын

    Not finished watching yet, but I LOVE the fact that you and your (then) girlfriend read "101 Questions..." and discussed. Such a great idea!

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    8 жыл бұрын

    👍👊😎

  • @Majesticmotorcar
    @Majesticmotorcar6 жыл бұрын

    Never have I been more inspired and motivated from someone than Patricks videos. For Life and business. He has got really asking myself things I never have before. Thank you. Keep up the fabulous wotk.

  • @clarkbolding5161
    @clarkbolding51617 жыл бұрын

    Know your why for marriage, be clear on the type of person you're looking for, who you choose is the most important decision you'll make, be upfront about your non-negotiables, you can't force someone to like you, make sure your beliefs are aligned, take advice from people you respect, be upfront about everything your past your expectations and your vision for the future

  • @DeematheFashionDesigner

    @DeematheFashionDesigner

    Жыл бұрын

    What do you think about religion ? Lol

  • @debowaleomole6634
    @debowaleomole66346 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Pat, to you and your excellent team. Your videos are a must for entrepreneurs. Pretty sure you'll be back bigger and better in good time. I wish you and the team every success.

  • @coachomri5468
    @coachomri54682 жыл бұрын

    Patrick you are like the dad I never had.. In every video I feel like Im having a man to man talk with a dad that cares about me and my goals. Thank you.. I never had that..

  • @media1manager836
    @media1manager8367 жыл бұрын

    one take, real talk. impressive.

  • @angelforfreedom
    @angelforfreedom4 жыл бұрын

    Patrick, this knowledge that you’re dropping (which is quite evidently based around your own ample personal experiences in life) is so deeply insightful and rich in pragmatism. Kudos! And, thank you!! 🏆

  • @danthetrainer
    @danthetrainer10 ай бұрын

    I think this has just changed the trajectory of the rest of my life. Thank you, sir. Much love from Kenya, Africa 👊🏾

  • @Puppynutter123
    @Puppynutter1233 жыл бұрын

    What a great great public service taking the time to provide clarity to such an emotionally loaded issue.

  • @gloh4871
    @gloh48717 жыл бұрын

    Never have I had such laugh's while soaking up wisdom at the same time haha. Thanks for the work you do Patrick :)

  • @cdeadpoolblock1309

    @cdeadpoolblock1309

    6 жыл бұрын

    if your not sharing Patrick's videos, your not grateful for the value he has provided to you! come on guys lets help him get to a million subcribers before the end of the year! Pat is the only one that teaches like your dump he repeats and makes himself clear all the time, I love his content. do share!

  • @rberman0522
    @rberman0522Ай бұрын

    You know... I really like you and your way of thinking. I sent this video to my sons (who are currently 28 and 32). I believe they will get a lot out of it and lead to more discussions about where they want to go and what they want to do in life. Mostly though, I like the great example of you, your family values - and business. Keep it coming.

  • @TheJuranovic
    @TheJuranovic6 жыл бұрын

    You sir are a role model. This is the best video on this topic I've ever watched. It's very to the point, as oppose to vague and woo-woo advice that other people give.

  • @ericrasmussen2629
    @ericrasmussen26297 жыл бұрын

    Patrick, I LOVE this channel. The value you provide is unparalleled. Thank you!!!

  • @JP_AZ
    @JP_AZ6 жыл бұрын

    "The sex was amazing! ..... The car alarms went off" 😂😂😆😆

  • @VALUETAINMENT
    @VALUETAINMENT8 жыл бұрын

    Here's the link to the 50 questions to ask before you get engaged. (Entrepreneur Version) www.patrickbetdavid.com/how-to-marry-and-who-to-marry/

  • @YM-vn2ts

    @YM-vn2ts

    8 жыл бұрын

    page not found. please fix

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Yoshi Mario I just tried it and it worked.

  • @YM-vn2ts

    @YM-vn2ts

    8 жыл бұрын

    ***** Now it works. It was probably something with my computer. Thanks and great video. Love your channel.

  • @azadehomrani-kermani3064

    @azadehomrani-kermani3064

    7 жыл бұрын

    I have subscribed but I did not get the 50 question's PDF file in my email :)

  • @allanlim204

    @allanlim204

    7 жыл бұрын

    VALUETAINMENT I subscribed but no pdf file was sent to me

  • @luketrencevski8716
    @luketrencevski87167 жыл бұрын

    GREAT old school advice my persian friend!

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    7 жыл бұрын

    👌

  • @orlandofurioso9228
    @orlandofurioso92284 жыл бұрын

    Deciding to get married takes intelligence and wisdom, background checks, and looking past the person's looks and money.

  • @Bittzen

    @Bittzen

    Жыл бұрын

    And checking their debt and liabilities, credit report

  • @CreaOneTive
    @CreaOneTive6 жыл бұрын

    This is such a special video because many of us entrepreneurs want to design our lives and romantic relationship(s) are part of the journey for some of us. Thank you

  • @inanetcyber4840
    @inanetcyber4840 Жыл бұрын

    this is more than a mentorship. its 2023 and am 22 years old and this is hiting right at the point big up mentor

  • @shannonwalcottraddin1485
    @shannonwalcottraddin14853 жыл бұрын

    Patrick, I love your page and love your content... I want to encourage you to wear your wedding band 100% of the time. It’s a reminder that you were born to be a good man for your wife and family even when those weak moments present themselves.....I have learned from experience what it is to miss the mark here. I appreciate your life message more then you know!

  • @Blue-mi1yh
    @Blue-mi1yh3 жыл бұрын

    David habibi this topic has been seriously aching my heart thank you for making this video

  • @jazzyjay0718
    @jazzyjay07182 жыл бұрын

    I truly thank you Patrick 🙏🏾, all of this for free is amazing

  • @Shouko-sama
    @Shouko-sama Жыл бұрын

    Complications just made simple. Awesome marriage here I come at 28 years old(1 year from now)

  • @aliciawhite6839
    @aliciawhite68398 жыл бұрын

    Another Great Video! Deep down I believe marriage is teamwork. Partnership, like in business you look for the heart and character of an individual that shares the same ambitions & standards to achieve and continue growing together for a greater cause. Blessings to you Patrick!

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    8 жыл бұрын

    Thanks, Alicia. 👍👊😎

  • @elpidiodalmeida4957
    @elpidiodalmeida49577 жыл бұрын

    I am not yet married but I wish I met you long ago through my teens because you give a wholistic perspective to life and i think people like you is what we all need.

  • @Darrenwalkingby
    @Darrenwalkingby3 жыл бұрын

    Great material as always. I’ve been listening to lots of material from Patrick since lockdown. An inspiration for my personal as well as business life. Looking forward to grow my travel vlogs in 2020. Let’s make it the best year we can. Sending love to all from Canada 🇨🇦 💯🙌

  • @andreypolonsky1694
    @andreypolonsky16947 жыл бұрын

    As always, great vid. I thank you Patrick - your videos are changing my life.

  • @snehadosieah2950
    @snehadosieah29503 жыл бұрын

    This is the closest closest sense I heard about marriage!! Omg I can’t believe this! THIS is the the rational way to do it. I am impressed!

  • @adingdinga9780
    @adingdinga97808 жыл бұрын

    Omg this is my second video of you and I'm loving every bit of the content here. And your mode of delivery is entertaining. You're funny and I truly enjoy this.

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    8 жыл бұрын

    It's good to have you finally join us. We've been waiting for quite some time. ;)

  • @adingdinga9780

    @adingdinga9780

    8 жыл бұрын

    Oh I am very glad I am finally here ;) And thank you.

  • @TheDaddyk423
    @TheDaddyk4233 жыл бұрын

    Keep putting out great content! Appreciate all of your feedback and outlook on life!

  • @MatthewNJDavis
    @MatthewNJDavis6 жыл бұрын

    "Women can fake orgasms, men can fake love." - Bo Burnham.

  • @annakirshenbaum1458

    @annakirshenbaum1458

    Жыл бұрын

    No, they can't. We women know.

  • @randallfoltyniewicz7505

    @randallfoltyniewicz7505

    Жыл бұрын

    Women fake love.

  • @theproductspecialist
    @theproductspecialist6 жыл бұрын

    Great thanks, Patrick. I share your video with some singles including my daughter - and they are all ministry persons (",). God bless you and your family, Bro! Never thought of this I found after watching as usual your enterpreneur video.

  • @WestchesterNYMilton
    @WestchesterNYMilton3 жыл бұрын

    I'm really glad I saw this in my feed; this is gold! I'm a middle aged bachelor and an aspiring freelancer. I am wrestling with the question of getting married or not one day; currently unfortunately I have no gf or any prospects - the pandemic isn't helping now in finding compatible ladies ha ha. This has to be one of your best episodes on your channel. Good marriages have been proven (based on stats; and yes, not every good marriage produces the following) to bring guys elevated levels of positive perspective, ambition, job promotion, earnings and health. I found that question one would pose regarding a hypothetical daughter to be great, and as for me (which is a bit brutally awkward to accept, but accept I will) the answer would sadly be a clear no. Man, I have so much to work on. Thanks once again for this covering this topic. I wish you and the Mrs. many years of happiness!

  • @joylobaton8077

    @joylobaton8077

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same on my question I’m still single since my fiancé cheated on me . It always be a question right now if I will get married someday or not .Maybe when I find the loyal one

  • @SleepingElephant
    @SleepingElephant8 жыл бұрын

    Tough marriage market right now. I bought the book "101 Questions to Ask Before You Get Engaged" but did not read yet. Thanks for the wisdom.

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    8 жыл бұрын

    Let me know once you do. Be sure to also get the 50 questions on the site for Entrepreneurs. www.patrickbetdavid.com/how-to-marry-and-who-to-marry/

  • @torreswaithe8607
    @torreswaithe86072 жыл бұрын

    I'm 6 years late but I'm ever so glad I stumbled upon this video... pertinent information shared that will help me when making that decision in the near future. Thank you so much.

  • @robertfuture
    @robertfuture6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for shedding some light into this topic.d I could find everything about the entrepreneurial life but nothing regarding how important the marriage role can play in an entrepreneurs life. Will go through the questionnaire w my gf.

  • @MH-mk4zb
    @MH-mk4zb4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Patrick, I’ve watched most of your videos twice and currently I’m going through your interview videos. Incredible contents and I’m a big fan! As a person who’s going to start a business and get married, I was wondering if you’d be able to provide your audience with some contents and detailed explanations on prenup, maybe as a separate video? Thanks so much for all the values you’ve added to so many people’s lives so far!

  • @robertparks2933
    @robertparks29338 жыл бұрын

    PAT, you really drop some knowledge in this video, man!!!! Hats off to you!!!

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Jon Jaxxson 👍

  • @MarieCYntig

    @MarieCYntig

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jon Jaxxson agreed..

  • @kunalarora9387
    @kunalarora93877 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for giving us that kind of information which is not easily observe and available 👍🏻

  • @abhishekbhasin681
    @abhishekbhasin6816 жыл бұрын

    really valueable information ......thanks ,you have just cleared all the blured question in my mind,very helpfull

  • @magicalmike4magic
    @magicalmike4magic3 жыл бұрын

    Pat I love you man. Your honesty. Your wisdom. I share you with all my friends. I watch you everyday

  • @emanuelvdb
    @emanuelvdb7 жыл бұрын

    Patrick you are awesome! I was a little bit skeptical about listening to your channel initially. But you provide the best content on KZread by far. I really hope every aspiring entrepreneur could watch all your videos. You have helped me in my personal, business and spiritual life. I watch and re-watch your videos everyday!

  • @Loveandforgivenesslifecoach
    @Loveandforgivenesslifecoach2 жыл бұрын

    Funny you reference; Notebook. That is a story of my hubby and I. 36 and going. It's been SO HARD, but truly the most UNCONDITIONAL LOVE I have ever witnessed. BTW; My hubby loves your work, Patrick.

  • @av-ji9qy
    @av-ji9qy10 ай бұрын

    The advice you give is amazing…..I listen to everyone of you videos …..I end up thinking about what was said and how it fits in my life …..excellent job ….thanks

  • @princedormenyo
    @princedormenyo8 ай бұрын

    The best video I've watched on marriage counseling. 👏🏾

  • @pllthetrgrrr2825
    @pllthetrgrrr2825 Жыл бұрын

    This is powerfull stuff bro. He teaches me the things I wish my father would've teached me.. Keep it up Pat!

  • @Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52
    @Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.527 жыл бұрын

    The hearts falling at 11:00 made me LOL, nice execution!

  • @lopezgenlopez1030
    @lopezgenlopez10303 жыл бұрын

    Glib conversationalist! Great content. I also find the book “101 Question... and Five Love Languages” quite interesting and on point. Thanks for sharing your views on this topic. Great stuff! Happy days😇

  • @vetriselvannatarajan1377
    @vetriselvannatarajan13775 жыл бұрын

    Thanks PAT for the great video. Really useful. Will use all the tips for my marriage.

  • @letthetrumpetsound7893
    @letthetrumpetsound78933 жыл бұрын

    Pat, you are 100% right. Common beliefs are everything, BUT you first have to be able to define those beliefs outside of what your family, and culture at large, is telling you who you are. This is the work most of us don't want to do. It's uncomfortable. So we choose to settle with the familiar and thus, end up in a disastrous marriage.🤔 btw you're hilarious 😂

  • @pwersurge_688
    @pwersurge_6883 жыл бұрын

    Great great GREAT video! Man, I love it. This is probably the first video I've seen of yours (and I've seen quite a few now) where you really showcased your humor. You're a pretty funny guy, I could tell you'd be perfect company to have whether if it's to explore interesting ideas or just to have a few drinks and crack jokes with.

  • @pawwaw2730
    @pawwaw27307 жыл бұрын

    pat you could off being a real stand up comedian, love the humour with the message, couldn't ask for more.

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    7 жыл бұрын

    +Paw Waw 😂 thanks.

  • @dudewat212
    @dudewat2127 жыл бұрын

    Pat, I followed your link to this vid. Thanks, man !

  • @thecuriouscompany3055
    @thecuriouscompany30555 жыл бұрын

    Hey man really good content like usual, I liked you mentioned a good book to use for this topic and the 3 unbreakable rules, never thought about it man, thanks man

  • @ChristswayWarriorPrincess
    @ChristswayWarriorPrincess6 жыл бұрын

    We can apply this wisdom to a marriage relationship.

  • @sol5092
    @sol50927 жыл бұрын

    I love this video! and I appreciate this channel!! Thanks so much Patrick!

  • @TTGTanner
    @TTGTanner2 жыл бұрын

    You are a mentor to me and to many other young men, im sure. Thank you Pat Bev!!

  • @jerrygonzalezbarrera1435
    @jerrygonzalezbarrera14359 ай бұрын

    Very important topic and rarely people talk about it. Thank you!

  • @chumachuma5051
    @chumachuma50517 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Pat, you have answered the questions I had in mind

  • @thomsieloff6637
    @thomsieloff66375 жыл бұрын

    Always so much value. Regardless of the topic.

  • @adammcclary3504
    @adammcclary35045 жыл бұрын

    You outdid yourself in this video Pat. Thanks

  • @brianaperez4135
    @brianaperez41357 жыл бұрын

    I love this! I just found your channel and it's so inspiring!! keep up the great work :)

  • @aintnobodycomingtoseeyouotis
    @aintnobodycomingtoseeyouotis6 жыл бұрын

    @shalenadiva I think you’ll like this video. How synchronistic. This was in my feed. I love feeding my soul with good knowledge. Great conversation this morning.

  • @bryannavarro6272
    @bryannavarro62726 жыл бұрын

    Dude, I'm 17 I can't believe I watched the whole video and the value on this video will definitely help me in the long run, Thanks Pat.

  • @cypriotboy6295
    @cypriotboy6295 Жыл бұрын

    'Having right woman in your life is like printing your own money'' Thank you for sharing this video with us

  • @nasbremain7564
    @nasbremain75648 жыл бұрын

    Watching his videos for a while now, I can say that I just found my next long-distance mentor!!

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    8 жыл бұрын

    👍👊😎

  • @victorwarner2734
    @victorwarner27345 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for all these videos yu make. So much value.

  • @anaprado7585
    @anaprado7585 Жыл бұрын

    The supporting them to stay married is THE most beautiful thing I’ve ever heard

  • @charleycassandra
    @charleycassandra6 жыл бұрын

    love this video thank you Valuetainment so funny and informational !!!

  • @fayevibar7560
    @fayevibar75606 жыл бұрын

    Oh my! Starting @10:00 was super funny and i'm at a coffee shop. Hahaha! You the best Pat!

  • @KletoReese
    @KletoReese7 жыл бұрын

    I Love this vid! Thank you! Marriages are failing because of lack of knowledge not lack of Love.

  • @gameswithmuneeb4672
    @gameswithmuneeb46723 жыл бұрын

    Dear Sir your trainee/student from Lahore Pakistan your videos are very very helpful by this video on marriage I got a lot of clarity about marriage and an action plan. Thanks for your mentoring us.

  • @princedeux8923
    @princedeux89233 жыл бұрын

    I love listening to your videos. I want to be just like you when I grow up 🙌🏽