12 questions to ask before marriage 💍
0:00 Introduction
0:55 The ruling of marriage
6:43 How to search for a spouse and what are the boundaries
16:17 Seeing the potential spouse
33:30 Question 1 - How do you envision marriage?
34:32 Question 2 - What qualities would you like to see in a spouse?
35:09 Question 3 - What are you family dynamics like?
39:45 Question 4 - How do you spend your free time?
40:20 Question 5 - What are your thoughts on financial arrangement?
44:35 Question 6 - What is your social life like?
44:46 Question 7 - Who are your friends?
44:58 Question 8 - How do you want to raise children?
46:51 Question 9 - What are your future ambitions?
47:03 Question 10 - Do you have any health issues?
48:02 Question 11 - What is your past like?
52:30 Question 12 - What type of a wedding do you want?
53:23 Q&A Session
In this video, we delve into the principles and practices that can help you nurture a strong and fulfilling marriage according to Islamic teachings.
Discover the wisdom behind the importance of compatibility, communication, and mutual respect in Islamic marriages. Explore the role of love, mercy and compassion as foundational elements that create a nurturing environment for both partners. We discuss the significance of shared values, goals, and the pursuit of spiritual growth as essential components of a healthy relationship.
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Everyone who reads this, please make Dua for me. There is a woman that I find very special and exceptional, to the point that my fear is that I won't be good enough for her. Make Dua that I will be everything she wants and needs in a husband and more InshaAllah
@hidayaeggah1240
Ай бұрын
L0
@abutahermuhammad3719
Ай бұрын
bro, that goes for me too. I even started pray regularly. I never saw her yet.
@MunaIbrahim-hq2de
25 күн бұрын
May Allah make it easy inshallah amiin
@professionalpizzaconsumer5419
24 күн бұрын
I really hope Allah grant you brothers a healthy marriage with the ones your attached too
@Abidjanfun_house_talk_show
15 күн бұрын
May ALLAH ease it
Lecture notes 🖊️ 🖊️ Steps for getting to know someone for marriage. 🖊️ Marriage is compulsory, when you have the means... All sorts of means. And the fear that you're ganna fall for Haram. Get marry if you're in such condition. Time transperecy, time, talking, tolerance the five important T's of a marriage 🖊️ Marriage is Recommended, when you do have means all sorts of but you have control your temptations. 🖊️ Marriage is Neutral, when you're finances and temptations are balancrd, not too much 🖊️ Marriage is Disliked, when one doesn't have enough finances, but temptations are so low that they won't be able to satisfy a female 🖊️ Marriage is Forbidden, unable to provide for a family and they are ganna victimize the female. So forbidden. How to search for a spouse, the limits of searching for a spouse 🖊️ So the one who is serious for marriage, and he know he would talk in Islamic boundaries and within limits with respect, he can talk to the other person that he wants to marry. But the necessary things only. 🖊️ Don't approach marriage if you're not ready , just because you're thinking thr other person ganna go away and you just cling on to it knowing that you're ganna marry like 7 years after ... Don't approach for such marriage.... If you know you can't marry this person, don't play with him or her. Seeing the potential spouse, what to see in her or him 🖊️ Are you allowed to see her without hijab? 🖊️ You can see only hands and face says majority. But based on evidence prophet saaw said to jabir ... See of her what would entice you to marry her and the scholars say that you can see of her with her Wali permission ( father or brother ) what they'd allow, bit of hairs,a bit of arms, legs or neck or what a father or brother or uncle can see . 🖊️ Take your time in meeting and knowing them... Take your time when you're knowing her or him. But with respect Bi IznIAllah. 🖊️ Ask and research for things that you are looking for in a marriage before you marry, that you want in your spouse, manners! Or being a good friend or beauty or wealth etc. What makes a good husband or wife in your perspective.... Ask and research for it... make a list of things you're looking for inshallah. 🖊️ Look for what you really want, and look for a person who already have what you want in spouse. What is already there, what is already established. Because you might do things for other's and if something happens and they leave that thing because they say we did that only for you Ways you can find someone....... 🖊️ In a respectable manner, within limits, within the line of islam that you know her or him quite well Matters to keep in mind to find about each other 13 topics of discussion to talk about. Visit the one you wanna marey in his/her home... Talk to her in a supervised environment. Like do talk before so that you two become comfortable , the likes and dislikes maybe. Talk about yourself first Talk about things... Other things with her, weather etc maybe..... What you can ask or talk with your spouse before Marriage , think about them and then decide. 1 Whats marriage life to you... 2 What qualities would you like to see in a spouse. 3 Talk about each other family and culture. Talk about how things goes in each other families. Talk about culture how things goes on in one's family. 4 Living arrangements and family dynamics. Islam does not recommend that a husband would force her wife to live with her family. She would have a home of herself. 5 How you spend your free times... Hobbies... You workout or do you read or you do what. 6 financial arrangements. Managing finances. Agree on finances... No matter your money is mine or your and my money is ours.... Just be agree on these arrangements. Her money is her's, but his money, a part of his earnings or wealth is her's money not all money. 7 Talk about children, talk about numbers, and how to raise them how to educate them and naming them. Who would name the child... So talk about them 8 future Ambitions, your carrier, my carrier, 9 Health issues, that you might have. Islam have made this thing haram. Don't hide it from him or her. Tell someone else to tell them but do tell them 10 The past. If a sin in your past can show in future, talk about it. Like drugs. Or some addictions. Talk about it. With respect of course. Anything that can creeo from the past, talk about it. 11 How would you want a weeding, details of weeding. Talk about details so that it doesn't make a fuss in that critical time. JazakAllah khair
@dkurniawatid
10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@adilhassan5132
10 ай бұрын
@@dkurniawatid 😇
@wyhed1
9 ай бұрын
Thank you for writing. Really appreciated
@adilhassan5132
9 ай бұрын
@@wyhed1 remember me in your prays bhai 🏵️
@horizon6309
9 ай бұрын
Jazakallah ❤ I needed this
Pray for me May I find righteous spouse who will be best for me.
@shafiq154
11 ай бұрын
May Allah give you a good man of your choice, اللهم صل و سلم و بارك على محمد و على اله و اصحابه اجمعين
@BQ900
10 ай бұрын
Inshallah! Allah had a precious Muslim man show up in the US. What a gift. Take your own car and don’t go to rooms. That was my father’s advice but he’s not Muslim.
@yasbs3680
2 ай бұрын
Ameen 🤲🏻
@fridawsbamba1641
20 күн бұрын
May Allah grant u a pious spouse
I love it when my Muslim brothers sisters tell stories and happenings in the comment section. It just feels like a global community sharing and chit chatting together. Makes me so happy😁😁
@bakhtawarnawaz7791
11 ай бұрын
Just like a gossiping group chat
@Ok....-
9 ай бұрын
Haha.. Good 👍🏻
@fridawsbamba1641
20 күн бұрын
@@bakhtawarnawaz7791wooow,like seriously
This lecture was great, MashaAllah! Please make a full course for youngsters going to get married. May Allah bless you, Ameen.
@MuftiAbdurRahman-rd1ke
9 ай бұрын
Brothers, I hope this channel Admin makes some Islamic videos about the harms of porn. Moslem youths are being plagued by this disease, but for many non-Moslem white men, it is their pride that keep them pure and good. Whoever I talk to about Islam, they listen with eagerness and say they will take a course in Islam, while Moslems I advise lash out, and even speak negatively about tenets of Islam, until I was afraid for the future of this Ummah, and I felt like screaming and crying. Every one of us will have to die, today or tomorrow, and imagine, if you have to lose Iman and faith in Allah because of these filthy sins, and because you were addicted to watching these disgusting things, then we must ask why were we even born. You and I will rot in the awaiting grave and those dirty bodied porn stars who you watched will also die and decompose in the shallow graves and will be eaten by insects and worms, and yet, Moslems are constantly searching online for more filthy images and videos. Who do you think Allah will prefer to have next to Him in paradise? Moslems who watch porn and think about sexual relations all day, or non-Moslem men who are chaste and have a clean heart? Never think Allah has a dearth of people to worship Him, and if your heart is filthy, then Allah will replace you with the non-Muslim youths who have a pure heart, because they do not find the filthy women in porn movies to be attractive or worthy of their time. In whose heart do you think Allah will decide to preserve the Koran? Who do you think Allah will give the gift of the Koran, in their hearts or our dirty eyes and filthy minded souls which have become cheap by constantly watching disgusting bodies of human worshiping? While Moslem are watching and worshipping filthy probate parts of sinful men and women, don’t you think Allah might choose to expel us from the glorious folds of Islam?
@mantenehsaccoh2551
9 ай бұрын
Aameen yarba 🙏
@seynaboucherif3674
5 ай бұрын
AllahummaBarik
@shaiksohailali1250
5 ай бұрын
@stephaneabdullah7045 C*cc'c''v:cc:'
@try2justbe
4 ай бұрын
Not just the youngsters , but even older people need to hear this
Marriage is act of worship- Subhan’Allah!
Questions to ask? 1. How you view marriage life? 2. Qualities you will like to see in a spouse? 3. Each others family dynamics; how you get along with your family, culture, living arrangements 4. How you spend your free time; what are your hubbies, what's cheating when it comes to social media 5. Financial arrangements; combined or separated resources, lending money 6. Social life; introverts, extroverts 7. Children: decisions on educating them, naming them, raising them 8. Future ambition and goals 9. Health issues 10. The past 11. Criminal records 12. How would you want a wedding?
@MakaveliA.B
11 ай бұрын
Weddings are from the past
@fatimaadnan322
11 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@aminah761
10 ай бұрын
@@MakaveliA.Bwhat
@hellfire...burns.
10 ай бұрын
Shayteen live in the human body!!! Hadith on Satan: Devil runs through people like blood Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Satan flows through the human being like the flowing of blood.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2174 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim Shaytaan lives inside humans! All humans have shaytaan living inside their bodies! May Allah protect us from the accursed shaytaan and guide us to the right path ameen (WE MUST SAY! please say this because the shaytaan cant harm us).... Satan Said, "I will Surely Mislead them All," and so God Said, "I will Surely Fill Hell with you, O Iblees, and those of them that Follow you All Together"So Indeed Satan is an Enemy to you, so Take him as an Enemy, he Only Invites you to be with him in the Blaze of Hellfire 43:62, Qur'an [So] never let Satan avert you. Indeed, he is a clear enemy to you - 36:62, Qur'an [For] he had already led astray much of creation from among you, so did you not use reason? 15:39 - 40, Qur'an [For Iblees] said, "My Lord, because You have made me err, I will surely make [disobedience] attractive to them on earth, and I will mislead them all, except Your chosen servants among them." 38:84 - 85, Qur'an [So God] said, "The truth [is My oath], and the truth I say - [that] I will surely fill Hell with you and those of them that follow you all together.".... Hadith on Satan: Devil runs through people like blood Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Satan flows through the human being like the flowing of blood.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2174 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim Shaytaan lives inside humans! All humans have shaytaan living inside their bodies! May Allah protect us from the accursed shaytaan and guide us to the right path ameen (WE MUST SAY! please say this because the shaytaan cant harm us)
@AbdAllah_54564
10 ай бұрын
@@MakaveliA.B get off your red pill nonsense boy. Are you a Muslim?
الحمد لله الذي بنعمته تتم الصا لحات I have always refrained from falling into haram relationships because I truly believe that each one of us has already someone Allah has chosen for us. We just have to be patient and hold onto our faith that the person Allah has chosen for us will find us in His destined time. In my prayers, I always ask Allah to preserve my future husband like how He is preserving me for him. May Allah guide us and grant us sabaar while waiting. May we all be married to someone who would help us build our eeman stronger. Ameen.
@ravololamihantaguselly2010
14 күн бұрын
Ameen
I think such advice should be given in every school, irrespective of race or religion, I wish I had the benefit of such advice when I was young (many years ago) unfortunately I am a product of the 60’s, but Allah makes us strong with every life experience 🙏
@manuelazac
Ай бұрын
That's trueee🙌🏽I'm in my 20s but I love watching this kind of contents
It’s sad that a lot of brothers don’t fully provide for thier wives
@zk321
10 ай бұрын
We’ll it’s sad that women are asking for so much when the inflation rates are so high and zina is so cheap when Aisha ra ate dates and black water for 3 months
@Lipanj92
10 ай бұрын
@@zk321 When you Muslim men become exactly like Rasoolallah, then we Muslim women will become like Aisha. No other way around. Otherwise, your suggestion to drink black water is ridiculous! I wonder if it's even saheeh! And you're comparing two completely different times. Your logic would make us go back to ride donkeys instead of driving the cars. Allah forbid and protect us from the extremes and extremists of all kinds, both ascetics and hedonists! Asceticism is not an excuse for laziness.
@Lipanj92
10 ай бұрын
@@Realrabbit If you're already a Muslim, first thing you need to do in order to thrive is to either marry or leave your non-Muslim haram girlfriend.
@Lipanj92
10 ай бұрын
@@RR-wk9zi As a Muslimah, I support this message but not to the point of being ridiculously cheep. As you said, treating yourself from your savings with trips to the neighboring cities or countries should be a norm. I don't crave for luxurious travels but neither do I want to live a boring life like a prisoner in one town my entire life and eventually only visit Saudi on my way to hajj. I don't want a husband who's a couch potato because I certainly am not a lazy woman unlike many sisters who just want to live privileged princess life of putting makeup on, shopping, travelling, and self-obsessed social media boasting and self-promoting even when married.
@Lipanj92
10 ай бұрын
Sister Aminah, define 'full provision', please. I hope your clarification will be realistic. On the other hand, I know extremes where they really don't provide basic necessities, yet look for a 2nd wife. Those are disgusting weasels.
Assalamu alaikum just to give some hope insha'Allah. I searched for 10 years, couldnt find a husband. In the lockdown my mum gave me a profile of someone and after meeting 3 times we decided to get married alhamdulillah. We spoke on the phone in between. We are UK born, professionals but we kept family in the loop which is how I knew he was serious. Of course alhamdulillah he was God fearing and respectful towards me. Theres nothing shameful about involving family early on.
@ihsaan4450
10 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah that’s great news for you. May Allah bless you. I’m in a predicament as well, looking for long but still no opening. Family are not well connected socially so it’s more hard and going through the social media route is a bit scary tbh.
@highesteem2778
10 ай бұрын
Involving family early on is what should be done
@Ok....-
9 ай бұрын
Yum ...that's so much wellness of you ....May God keeps yalll Happy
@fridawsbamba1641
20 күн бұрын
@@ihsaan4450Please why is family not helping though
@maheenkhan2266
4 күн бұрын
I am 32, a doctor and still unmarried ..Still hopefull and Alhamdulillah for everything..
One of the best lectures I’ve heard, masha Allah, I love the way he talks, such a soft spoken May Allah swt grant him the highest rank of jannah ameen, truly a very clear message. May Allah swt be pleased with him on the day of judgment ameen
I just started praying and I love listening to your lectures.
@AbdalMalik-ye1df
4 ай бұрын
only 4 months ? why didn't you pray before ?
@Deen_Over_Dunya_Love
2 ай бұрын
@ It's their own journey, lol. We're not entitled to knowing that. They could also be young. Please don't say these types of things as it's discouraging.
Amazing ma sha Allah. That final answer is brilliant.
Mashallah he has such a wide knowledge in so many aspects and his ability to apply Islam in a pure practical way on our day to day life is impressive. Inshallah we will have more such blessed professors.thank you so much , you answered so many of my questions and im sure many of us find many answers in this lecture mashallah without even have to ask our questions.
I like very much to listen to the sheikh! MashaAllah, is very good speaker! Many people can benefit from his lectures! 🤲💚🌹
ربنا هب لنا من أزواجنا و ذريتنا قرة أعيننا و إجعلنا للمتقين إماما ❤
May Allah reward you and continue to spread beneficial knowledge through you. Ameen
the most truthful and practical questions before marriage
The best lecture on marriage I've heard so far, May Allah bless you belal :), Jazakhallair this was so insightful especially as a young muslim woman.
Thanks alot for the briefings,am glad to be part of 3MTT
Thank you brother it was an eye opener for young generation, people who wants to getting married... May Allah bless you w
Interesting and a beneficial talk for today's youth. Allāhumma barik
So... anybody interested in marriage? .. I'm asking from a non-freaky perspective ofcourse May Allah ﷻ bless you ya Bilal😅
@SG-oe9xu
10 ай бұрын
Yes because it’s very lonely out here Allah made us to be in pairs at minimum Swear I’m dead serious I’ll need 1-2weeks to get mentally physically ready
@fridawsbamba1641
20 күн бұрын
A lot of us are out there, don't know where u guys are looking though
Those questions and decisions are really really important, I knew islam value your thoughts, feelings and opinions ... I'm fully agreed with mufti May Allah bless us all
Ma sha Allah Shaikh Belal, great talk, jazak Allah khair!
This lecture was so rich and insightful ma sha Allah. Jazakallahu khayran 🤲🏾
@hellfire...burns.
10 ай бұрын
Shayteen live in the human body!!! Hadith on Satan: Devil runs through people like blood Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Satan flows through the human being like the flowing of blood.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2174 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim Shaytaan lives inside humans! All humans have shaytaan living inside their bodies! May Allah protect us from the accursed shaytaan and guide us to the right path ameen (WE MUST SAY! please say this because the shaytaan cant harm us).... Satan Said, "I will Surely Mislead them All," and so God Said, "I will Surely Fill Hell with you, O Iblees, and those of them that Follow you All Together"So Indeed Satan is an Enemy to you, so Take him as an Enemy, he Only Invites you to be with him in the Blaze of Hellfire 43:62, Qur'an [So] never let Satan avert you. Indeed, he is a clear enemy to you - 36:62, Qur'an [For] he had already led astray much of creation from among you, so did you not use reason? 15:39 - 40, Qur'an [For Iblees] said, "My Lord, because You have made me err, I will surely make [disobedience] attractive to them on earth, and I will mislead them all, except Your chosen servants among them." 38:84 - 85, Qur'an [So God] said, "The truth [is My oath], and the truth I say - [that] I will surely fill Hell with you and those of them that follow you all together.".... Hadith on Satan: Devil runs through people like blood Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Satan flows through the human being like the flowing of blood.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2174 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim Shaytaan lives inside humans! All humans have shaytaan living inside their bodies! May Allah protect us from the accursed shaytaan and guide us to the right path ameen (WE MUST SAY! please say this because the shaytaan cant harm us)
@dm7628
10 ай бұрын
@@hellfire...burns. Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Satan flows through the human being like the flowing of blood.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2174 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim عَنْ أَنَسٍ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِنَّ الشَّيْطَانَ يَجْرِي مِنْ الْإِنْسَانِ مَجْرَى الدَّمِ
JazakAllah khair kaseeran for such words of wisdom
"you can ask them...in a non-freaky way" 😂
@mlindalina1
11 ай бұрын
Was that code for flirty lol
@savesheikhjarrah1480
11 ай бұрын
A lot of ppl actually don’t understand what is and isn’t creepy unfortunately and need actual direction. And even with direction still don’t understand!
@FarhanNaqvi-oy5we
11 ай бұрын
@@mlindalina1I'ma Flirt
@mysoftlensuk4611
10 ай бұрын
q😊
Really enjoyable lecture, you speak in such an inviting way and display great character masha'Allah - barak Allah feek 🤲🏼
Jazakumullah khayran for this sheikh!
Thank you for your video. I have made a note of the Five Ruling.
Excellent lecture, well researched and very practical.
The best advices from I’ve ever heard about mariage ! Thank you very much.
Very informative and beneficial. Jazakallahu khayran wa baarakallahu feek. 🤲
This is one of THE best lectures on marriage on youtube... I'm surprised this imam only has 1k followers. His advice is on nouman ali khan or mufti menk level. Looking forward to more content!
@PoesieIslamique
11 ай бұрын
nouman and menk are both people not to follow. not to mention that this guy said some weird stuff about mixity
@AtTaulibah
11 ай бұрын
This Sheikh can't be compared to those you mentioned. He is on another level. ALLAHUMA BARIK, Aameen. May we all benefit from his lectures, Ameen
@AtTaulibah
11 ай бұрын
@@PoesieIslamiquePlease listen to what he said about mixing again. He is a school teacher and counselor as well so he knows what happens on the ground / in reality hence he mentions genders mixing already exists....he is addressing people living in the west who attend the schools etc. He clearly said we can't be naive about what happens and that the ideal would be how it used to be during the time of Nabi SAW.
@belal.assaad
11 ай бұрын
Jazak brother. May Allah make me as you assume of me and increase us all in knowledge and forgive our shortcomings, Ameen.
@belal.assaad
11 ай бұрын
@@PoesieIslamique it would be helpful and a show of your level of knowledge and wisdom to clarify which ‘weird’ points about mixing I stated so we can all learn inshllah.
Thank you so much Ya sheikh. Right now am really on this move, that's why i had to learn more about the decisions I take because marriage is a serious thing so long as you in it no going out unnecessarily 😢
Thank that you opened your channel🎉
This is the first time I hear this type of lesson jezakAllah
Thanks for sharing this information it is very important for us the ummah MashaAllah 😊
Mashaallah allahuma barik sheikh. I needed this lecture. I wrote down all the points
This brother GETS IT MashaAllah
Great lecture. God bless you.
It’s nice to see you active again ustadh. Alhamdulillah
May Allah reward you habeebi. I cant count the number of blessings i got from this beautiful lecture.
Jazakallah sheikh this was soooo insightful plzzzzz do more videos like these! ❤
JazakAllah Very important advice
Awww I had been waiting for this video .... TabarakaAllah sheikh Billal🤗
Agreed family dynamics should be discussed
I noticed all your points and inshaaAllah convey it to my children, so that they will make right decision, JazakAllah
May Allah bless you brother
Jazakumullah khairun Sheikh. There are also those that convert to Islam for the sake of marriage and not for the pleasure of ALLAH. I know of a family that married their daughter to a "revert from hindu" soon after they married the husband stopped practicing and became influenced by his family again. They raised their children upon a philosophy and some mix of Islam from wife's extended family. However this man would refuse for the children to do anything like madressa or fast etc. Many years later they divorced, Alhamdulillah. The daughter chose to practice Islam fully, Alhamdulillah however she is a single Mother trying to protect her child from the clutches of her father who dots over the grandson who is the only grandchild. Please keep them in your duas , may Allah facilitate their hijrah and make her son amongst the righteous Aameen
@abdulgill5013
10 ай бұрын
That’s ridiculous, may Allah guide them to the right path.
@taym2720
9 ай бұрын
lol, thats what happens with reverts
@mnunezhk
3 ай бұрын
@@taym2720stop generalizing. fear Allah
Good ikhlaq , good manners are very important in all relationships.
Great lecture. however , I still feel overwhelmed by thinking about marriage. Finding a partner/ spouse is not easy now a days.
@mumshorts
8 ай бұрын
Yes true, but leave it to Allah
@fridawsbamba1641
20 күн бұрын
What's making it difficult though
This is advice worth more than gold. Thank you dear skeikh and may allah bless you
Salam alaykum from France 🔵⚪🔴 I just discovered these videos and i love listening them. May Allah reward you.
Thank you sheykh 🤍
Thanks for this value sheikh may Allah reward you
Mr Bilal, i really love listening to your lecture...it gives me reminders and brings me back yo the right path lotlle by little...i hope yo abide and follow your advices sincerely...Ameen
When he was talking about men that are a bit more feminete or women that are a bitt more musculine, he isn't talking about those that support and are a part of the qawmu lut gang.
@Deen_Over_Dunya_Love
2 ай бұрын
Qawm e lut gang😂 Perfect name.
@MrsLeenz
18 күн бұрын
I believe not, because we can have the ideas or thoughts but not act upon them… i guess
Jazakallahu kheiran ❤
Love from Pakıstan, my dearest Sheıkh.
Thank sheikh. I started to talk with someone for marriage. I wrote all this questions in my note. And I will ask all of them . May Allah take care of you.
@ahmedxo9094
6 ай бұрын
How did it go? Hopefully well
@user-ll7ii1yk3j
6 ай бұрын
why ?@@ahmedxo9094
@BeeButter
6 ай бұрын
Any update on how did it go
@quenikruush12
6 ай бұрын
@@BeeButter😂
Baraka Allaho feek ya 'ami
this lecture is really like a light to our thoughts.... JazakAllah..
22:00 this is actually a good advise. Like you have to give space and keep improving yourself. He/She will see your change will follow too. Might take long but it works!
jazakallahu kheir sheikh 🤲🏾
Barakallahu feek really good Video
24:14 is such an accurate assessment tbh
May Allah protect you sheiykh! ❤
Alhamdulillah!! thank you for this amazing khutba. It was so helpful. You had such wonderful insights for marriage. I wanted to ask you if you can make a video about children at a young age coming asking where did they come from and what's the process. Ofcourse we sugarcoat things in the beginning but as they grow up, they know the real truth. But my question is if we don't lie to our kids, how much truth do we really reveal at their very young age so they don't become influenced wrongly and act on it in desparation? Thank you!
brother Belal I hope you could post more videos on more topics I much appreciate them
I think it’s a good idea to start with, after establishing some contact to lay out the bad habits to see if you can tolerate them. If you can’t then move on… because the things you can agree on can and will be there with many people
JazakAllah brother 🌸
May ﷲ swt. reward us all with good spouses. Allahuma Amin
Man i wish i knew dis before allhamdulillah im happy tho but answered these questions during the marriage 😂
May Allah bless us all ameen
What a delight once again. May Allah preserve you sheikh 💙
@belal.assaad
11 ай бұрын
Waiyyakum.
Excellent lecture.
Subhan Allah thankyou 🙏
Brilliant video
Jezakellah Heir Ya Sheikh!
Must needed. Thank you
Salaam may allah bless you my brother
بارك الله فيك
Jazakallahu khayran 🤲🏻
Jazakumullahu Khairan 🙏
Jazak Allahu khair
I need this. Thanks ustad,
JazzakAllah Khaïr Sheikh for your advise to muslims to choose muslimah as their spouse. One of reason why sisters are 35+ without finding a husband is because, brothers tend to choose non muslim women as spouses, specially those brothers who became successful in their careers. They don't want to be seen with a woman wearing hijab. Subhana Allah, I pray Allah SWT that our sons choose muslim women for marriage for their own sake. Wassalam Alaikoum.
Beautiful maashaa2Allah
Baraka Allah fiikum
Thanks .we need more vedio like this
Jazakallahu Khairan kaseera
41:25 ... 😅 Mr Belal you are hilarious... This topic should have been brought up again- like the topic about " Those who desire Paradise " but 2.0 version of it . Listening to this at work- so with that : thank you for the company. insha Allah until the next time.
Maa shaa Allah
allahumma barik. mashaAllah. JazakAllah Khayran.
i love his lectures mashaAllah Allahumma Baarik may Allah bless him and his family
@Najoua11
11 ай бұрын
7777p⁷
@maryamibrahim1281
11 ай бұрын
Ameen
@user-ri1dv9uh8z
8 ай бұрын
Allah yarhm his son
Okay and totally agree with what you're saying because sometimes you know brothers from places and and elsewhere there the most approachable ones that's asking about wanting to be married and what happens is you either want to be married for companionship again like you said you know conversational you know mannerisms what is it that you do during your day what can I bring back to my home you know or they need money or they working on a project you know so Mother Khadijah was able to do quite a bit mother for tema was able to do quite a bit Mother Aisha scholarly woman Aisha was able to do quite a bit Mother Asia was able to do quite a bit and Mother Miriam was able to do quite a bit so we say may all be pleased with every last one of those 5th entities in characteristics of the abilities of those women. We thank you so much for taking initiative to identify with this kind of understanding of marriage or looking for companionship or looking for soul communication you know because sometimes tomorrow's or miles and as small as a smile
Jazak Allah khairn