What Your Ex Is Thinking During No Contact
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In today's video, you're going to learn what your ex is thinking during no contact. After a breakup, there is an imbalance that was caused by your actions- your neediness, your clinginess, your insecurities. You put them on a pedal stool because you've led them to believe that you need them to exist, but this is not your fault. Don't drive yourself crazy if you've put your ex on a pedal stool by doing all sorts of mistakes after a breakup because you were overwhelmed by your emotions, the negativity, and sense of despair that a lot of people experience when they face rejection.
Your significant other is happy during the early stages of no contact because they have their freedom and independence--and its a new beginning. They are happy because most people aren't ready to accept the breakup, so not hearing from you gives them a sense of validation. But, unfortunately, human beings tend to overvalue what they don't possess and what they've lost. So at some point, if no contact is established the right way, your ex will begin to feel like they've lost you. Watch this video to learn what your ex is thinking during no contact!
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After 5 months of no contact she texted me trying to be friends I just blocked her immediately and didn’t even read what she said lol
I can’t thank you enough for this channel. I wouldn’t be able to make it through my sleepless nights without reassurance from your words.
@costaskoullias1145
3 жыл бұрын
I have a question we have 2 children and we need to have contract regarding our children. I will see my children. Is this a good thing? We try not to have other contact.
@Mserikalopez
3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you!
@DEEEETECH
3 жыл бұрын
Meghan you not alone going through it so painful but there is hope I embrace my lost is time to move along.
@kostadrandakis5891
3 жыл бұрын
Same!
@swedencentral7489
3 жыл бұрын
Same. :(
I don't want him back. Him Leaving gives me peace... Yes I do miss him but its fine...
Its so sad to see so many ppl broke-up in the middle of a pandemic.😞
@ridha7662
2 жыл бұрын
Dear It is not sad...it is really good that we got time to see real faces else in busy life it's very difficult to find anything like this❤️
@carolmilligan3259
2 жыл бұрын
Haven't been able to see my friend for so long.really miss him.
@xsperiencethe1255
2 жыл бұрын
Dude right. That's why me and my 7 year relationship ended.. We just talked about kids and marriage months ago and now she's with another man. Insane.
@yashinaik7660
2 жыл бұрын
I got mine just before pandemic and see I'm here
@Comeswoopfam
Жыл бұрын
That’s the perfect time to do so
In panic mode right now😪😪
This is really true. In my experience i followed the NC at first its really tough i cried. Everytime i think of time and everytime i remember he dump me bec of other women but after a few months everything change i fell great .i nver think of him ofter.im very free and i can do what i want .....then when i totally move on....he come to my place and tell me tht he really miss me. He want to come bck to me but its over ....so guys NC is very good
What a soothing and calm soul this man is.
No contact means you don't see no post on social media or nothing cut her off delete the contact and forget about that
I love the idea of using the time "to reinvent yourself". A great explanation of how this strategy works..! It must be absolute though until he reaches out - and then play it cool.
Emotions overwhelm them.....that’s me! And I’m crying😥😭
thank you all for what you do. i'm glad i found your channel.
Hello coach Adrien. I am going under this situation right now and everytime that I feel sober I just watch your video and listening to evryrhing you say until I fall asleep. Thank u
@allymimi8789
10 ай бұрын
Hope you find peace ✌🙏
I receive this Word Amen
I listen to you every single morning
Thank you so much for this content✨🌙
Thank you! I appreciate all of you and this channel so, so, soooo much!!🙏🏼
One week no contact, and she has driven by at least four times, and I'm not on her way to anywhere. Winning! PTL!
This is soooo true my brother!!
I was toxic. He left me and he will not be coming back. I haven’t had contact with him. He is probably with someone else that will treat him better
thank you for your wisdom
You are so right. Thanks for your help. Soraya xox
Thank you Adrian! This has been very helpful to me/us. Moving forward and reaching out after difficult break up. Blessings to you and love Advice counselors.
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! I'm happy you found this helpful. - Coach Adrian
Hi Coach Arian, could you plz do a video about toxic relationships and when to let go? I know you guys made a video some time ago but could you talk about it again?or Maybe a combo about toxic and narcisstic people in rs?
Thank you so much for the knowledge!
My boyfriend dumped me we are in long distance relationship, and he posted his new gf in WhatsApp 5 hrs I cought him cheating on me. Unbelievable ! After he asked me to marry him and made a plan about our future and now he has a new gf. ! I don't think I'll get him back!
She blocked me and whatsapp me 2 years of no contact. I saw it and never texted back. Now she's always been watching what i put on my status. It really works
This is true, I've done this and all the above happened
I can't thank u enough coz ur advise has given me everything i needed God bless u guys.
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words, Ahmed. Coach Adrian
Good information as well as advice😘😘
Amazing gentle soul
Awesome video....it works
I'm the one who got broken up with and got ignored. I started no contact today and I'm getting private calls and calls from strange numbers. I love it! I want to know what this man will do and I want to see how far he will go to win me back. I need to know if our love is real and worth fighting for. This is great 🤣. Oh how the tables have turned. I cried so hard yesterday. Never again.
You are absolutely right. I have done this it took all my might but I stuck to my plan . He texted me yesterday, he is still on read.🤨🤐
@lamamaasrani3659
3 жыл бұрын
Can u pls tell me what exactly u did for him to get back with u? Its not that i need hope or something but i feel so lost it happened 3 days ago and i still cant think straight and i need support pls
I hope she comes back 🤞🤞🤞
Thanks for your honest advies!! It really worked!!
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome. Thank you for watching, glad to hear your feedback! Coach Adrian
Really good video, I loved when you said they will crumble
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching Tom!
Not true been separated and in no contact for 3 years. And there is no interest for her to wanna come back!!
Hi. Great content in your video and gives hope and encouragement to all.🙏🏽 Does this apply to married couple that have separated? Do they experience similar feelings? Thanks!
Thank you for this wonderful wisdom..
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate it, John! Coach Adrian
Now this is actually a good video. Great job.
Best “advice” I’ve heard! Thanks 🙏
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Coach Adrian
Hello coach. She friend zoned me because she said she wasn’t ready to love because she doesn’t love herself (she said “I almost love you” several times and she told me no one has ever treated her this well). It took me a while to realize that I was friend zoned because initially, all she told me was that she needs space. She continued to text me though because she told me that I was one of her best friends (I told her she’s one of mine too). But after talking with her, I told her I need space from her now. Do I apply the no contact rule? She essentially broke up with me without me knowing. I even asked her if her telling me that she needs space was her way of letting me down easily and she asked me what I meant by that. Please help me coach!
My sons mother cheated several times and had one of the wife’s not have found out I’d never know. I left and left everything behind she has begged and begged went to therapy got on medications but that flame that once burned is gone and although I tried to forgive I knew it would never be the same. 2 weeks later I find she had been talking to a new guy on a dating app and he had taken her to dinner all while she was begging me. Hold your self to a higher standard guys cus if you allow it once it will continue to happen. I’m hurt but I’m ok
Thank you sir ...For such a valuable and wonderful tips and tricks based on human psychology. ..may God bless you.
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching Intesar! www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
😀this is what i wanted to hear
Great Video, love it Thank You👍👍😍
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate it, Kiky. Thank you for watching. Coach Adrian
Wow you are right. Thank you for this
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
You are so apt!
Thank you 🙏
My 9 years relationship left me like a stranger and blocked me from everything!!9 months since then and i think her no contact tactics are working so she must be happy without me so be it!!
Thank you so much word of the moment
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome, Sharon. Coach Adrian
Wise man 🙏🏻
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate your kind words! Thank you for watching. Coach Adrian
Im in the fresh setuation right now.yes its hurt he leave me for other woman and we are in defferent country.we are married and we have plans!but he betrayed me.this channel helps me a lot to be strong.i do no contact.thank you so much for this channel 🙏🙏🙏
Makes me completely Emotional... I will try my best to be patient. Love ur valuable suggestion.
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
2 жыл бұрын
I know how hard this can be but you can do it! www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thanks.for the wonderful advise.
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
Hi Adrian, Thanks for the quality content. I have a very important question for you. In my case it was me who decided to break up. My girlfriend requested time apart and I decided it was better to break up. How is this case different? Any insight will be DEEPLY appreciated.
Thank you sir 😢😢😢🙏
Thank you for such advice I'm gonna start working on me
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome. Sending you lots of positivity! Coach Adrian
I was so nice to him but when he said he wanted to end it I just said ok and stop texting him
Yes, it is true… When in no contact, SP will try to get attention in social media by posting his lonely feeling… it is true
Idk my ex posted week ago a sad quote and deleted it right after I saw it. I’m over a month on no contact now
Thank you so much for this channel and your advice! I have an off-topic question for coach Adrian, I really like your accent, it sounds strangely familiar to me. I was wondering where you are from? I think we may be from the same place:)
What if you're doing the no contact but she's found someone she's been talking to on tinder? She's going to be moving on way easier without talking
Thank you Adrian. I needed that.
Thank you 🙏🏽
Hi coach Adrian is it ok to remove,unfriend and unfollow an ex on social media after the break-up?? to prevent myself to contact him.
wow spot on.
It’s going to be hard but hopefully I can do this, telling her I love you and her saying I know, I don’t want that, I want her to want me again
@jessicafung7565
4 жыл бұрын
JagonPoo time will tell, get stronger for yourself and stop telling her you love her until you love yourself more.
I love you!!
Thank you.
NC/Radio Silence forever
Hi I use no contact and after that my ex and unblock on facebook one night what should I do next?
Hi , i been watching your channel since the day my bf dump me, I just wanna ask , My bf dump me last feb 28th. then he say to me we can’t be together and he will be never be together again, but he’s still has a feeling for me a little bit. He don’t know if he’s wanna get back to me, but he don’t want me to wait for him, so he tell me many times he’s not coming back but my stuff in his house, is still there and not mentioning it to me in message or anything though and he still not asking about my address so that he can send it to me. I just wanna know where should I start to get his half feeling back to me ? Should I start doing no contact or do I need just to start being silent and to explain it to him that I’ll give him time ? Or tell him that I will not contact you for a while ? and think it again ?
I love my boyfriend, but is being chatting on me with is ex ,so i start this no contact thing, so please help me more i dont what to loose him but i just what him to see me like he ise to.please help
Can you apply no contact if you are living together? The situation was bad and I moved out of our room... but unfortunately my kids and I don’t have another place to go... and he won’t leave but it’s been a week of no talking, no texts nothing... can it work if we are in the same house?
Thanks my friend.
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome, Alfred. Thank you for watching. Coach Adrian
Thank you so much.. Very helpful video ❤
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching! www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Unfortunately for me,he lied about our breakup,manipulated me and cheated,he is happy with the girl, I blocked them on social media and a year later I am still struggling to breathe and sleep
@nada46141
2 жыл бұрын
I hope you're doing better
My sons mom left me almost 3 months ago she actually left to another state and i am not sure if she is ever coming back we have been in contact but I have slowly have a kept it to a minimum.
Yeah right. Did the NC, she eventually texted to get my stuff and have a 2.5 hour talk where she brought up the breakup in the last half hour. While I was there she said I could keep my mothers Christmas decorations at her house. What?!! Overall the talk went well, she agreed we needed to talk more. I took a shot, over stepped, and asked when this virus is over maybe we could have dinner. She said that would be nice. When I left she leaned in for a hug but backed off, fine, with this virus, safe move. Texted her a couple of times since then, nothing specific, no relationship talk. That was two weeks a go. She has not texted first unless she wanted me to get my stuff. My feelings? She gave lip service and nothing more. So I guess I dont give a poop, JUST LIKE HER.
@nychansen
2 жыл бұрын
Update
I know its been 1 year according to your video. Do you still give advice? Let me know, because I know if I do not get some sort of answer...even a quarter of an answer to my question, I will soon have a heart attack! I am so confused and distraught!
What is the court is making us have a no contact
But what if she told me when iwas trying to reach her out , its over , and blocked me instagram, messenger.. but we chT still on. And shes coming back to homeland in a 3 months , we broke up in a distance..
Thank you God bless🙏👑
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate you watching! Coach Adrian
Sir my situation is that i begged and pleaded for 2 weeks and had a success with it she came back but she was cold and being hard then on the 6th day she left me again saying she cannot handle me and said that she regrets giving me another chance saying i never changed and that she dose not trust everything i say , my question for you sir is will i still be able to get her back? i am in no contact right now and i don't think it will work out i need your advice.
Thank you sooo much i needed this
how can you do no contact if there are kids to visit and share time with?
After 2 weeks after no contact my ex explains why she left saying she is wants me to find someone to love me better that her. Why is she doing that?
What exactly is "no contact" period? If you could please explain.....
I had a breakup a month ago now we are not talking. If he text me or call me what should I do ? Should I behave like I moved on and show no interest in him and treat him like just friend. Or I show him affection ??? Please help me.
I have a question i had a relationship but we never see each other we only chatted trough social medias Facebook,Instagram,Viber also sending pictures of us planning what we going to do etc all was fun great worth chatting 24/7 fast responds but in that 2 years suddenly all of that go in wrong direction in december 24th 2020 she called me via messenger we talked about the things she said about things that i not expected to hear and yes after that she friendzoned me she said lets be friends i was mad a lot and i said ok i accept and then i end the audio call and decided to start the Rule "No Contact" and she blocked me immediately and i was ok let it be that way i just waited read books,playing video games i have Gaming PC i was in most good vibe that i not think about it and how the days goes on weeks months from 1st day during no contact she unblocked me on facebook on the 20th day during no contact but she not messaged me when i turn on active green dot status that i am active she comes active to i not reach to her she followed that i was active 24/7 to see is she going to imitate me and she was i was like omg and then after 2 days she blocked me again i post 2/3 new photos on facebook with smile music also good for vibing and again second time she unblocked me on the 28th day during no contact and again she used to follow me stalk on me when im online most of the day etc she saw the photos maybe she saved it idk but guys give me some advice tips what i need to do with her i not brake the no contact rule but what exactly means if she block/unblock me but not messaging me i need some good advices from mature people here that looking for help or in same situation as mine
I've done it. The best thing I've done!!!!! ✔
@LoveAdviceTVCommunity
3 жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that. Thank you for watching. Coach Adrian
Does radio silence work when your man told you he needs time to think?
What about if u loved someone but broke it off because they wasn't being consistent or stepping up ? But they didn't want to end it However didn't want to do more?
I hope you are fine; I had a relationship with a Mexican girl and it was a distance relationship. We met twice but after 5 years she said I found someone else and she blocked me. After that my mind didn't work and I came in depression. I started contacting her friends to convince her to come in my life but she didnt contact me and now I am upset and dont know what to do.
Hi coach adrian im.also in the stage now of break up.my bf block me in messenger but not fb,what should i do i block him also,i really dont know what i do ...i feel hurt. Alot. Pls give me advice
So I watch KZread on a pretty regular basis and I haven’t gotten suggested videos related to exes until just a couple days ago and now I am being flooded with a bunch of KZread recommendation videos on exes coming back or was wanting you and I am trying to move forward with my life. Why am I being suggested these videos when I don’t give two craps about my ex?
Hello sir i am in a long distance relationship. Shall i remove my DP too from WhatsApp during no contract period? If you could please help....
Coach can you make another video about “someone else” currently in that in this pandemic. Sucks man help .