What To Do When You Just Need Someone to Talk To?

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danache.com. Who do you turn to when you just need someone to talk about your problems with? Watching inspirational videos like this will help get you through that rough time. Let's face it though, we all go through things in life and sometimes the pain can be great. But instead of talking about your problems all the time, why not focus on your blessings? One of the best inspirational messages I've heard is about focusing your mind on what you want, not what you don't want. Learning how to attract good things in your life is a skill of personal development. It's a skill that has changed the way I think and respond to problems. Give it a try. And instead of looking for someone to to talk to about your problems, learn how to speak life in your situation! Follow me on Facebook at / danacheonpurpose and if you're looking to be a part of growing a business with inspirational leaders, meet me at learnwithdana.com.

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  • @emh8861
    @emh8861 Жыл бұрын

    It’s very lonely when you don’t have someone to talk to. 😭

  • @lifeinlimbo2186

    @lifeinlimbo2186

    6 ай бұрын

    It sure is.

  • @earthlyfae
    @earthlyfae7 жыл бұрын

    except depression can't be cured with a "positive mindset". It's not sadness, it's a mental illness.

  • @SpidersDontPayRent

    @SpidersDontPayRent

    3 жыл бұрын

    YES!! THANK YOU!! SOMEONE UNDERSTANDS

  • @quandaledingle7812

    @quandaledingle7812

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mr Robby Dude you understand but you don't care let's be honest

  • @JohnJay9210
    @JohnJay92108 жыл бұрын

    wow...I needed this...I turn on my cell phone to look for answers about why I feel the way I'm feeling and got you some how...

  • @somduttasengupta1738

    @somduttasengupta1738

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @MrMonster107
    @MrMonster1078 жыл бұрын

    I agree but I think your wrong as far as people talking to anyone about there problems is a great ideal, one it helps them feeling that someone cares

  • @user-kg9tv4gi8n

    @user-kg9tv4gi8n

    2 ай бұрын

    Iv been needing someone just to listen,it does help,,my so called friends were there after the accident,, saying we worry about you,,but not one has called stopped by or anything,, point is,if your a human being with compassion,, sometimes that's better than someone you know

  • @kvlt22
    @kvlt224 жыл бұрын

    I’ve always liked the idea of this method but never understood why I couldn’t get it right. Depression makes it real difficult to simply “not focus on your problems”

  • @The2Bros
    @The2Bros3 жыл бұрын

    I just want a call or text from someone that I didn’t text first no one talks to me unless they need something

  • @friedcattails

    @friedcattails

    3 жыл бұрын

    same. im so lonelyyy :(

  • @rj_7606

    @rj_7606

    2 жыл бұрын

    Im here for you man. Im in that stage of my life and trust me i need someone to talk to 24/7. Please don’t hesitate to reach out to me.

  • @EvilWhiteMale63
    @EvilWhiteMale633 жыл бұрын

    There certainly times that we NEED to discuss our issues or problems. However, if your focus is primarily directed on your best self or the positive aspects, will go much further in your life! Thank you for caring enough to make your video.

  • @user-fg3dz5kv7q
    @user-fg3dz5kv7q3 жыл бұрын

    I just had the worst day of my life. I've felt lonely, empty and miserable for a very long time now. I feel like there is no real satisfaction, no real happiness in life. I struggle, suffer, only to suffer even more. Why is it even important that I pass exams? That I get to middle school, then to high school? Finishing each of these does not mean I'll just magically stop being a depressed mess. Each one of them will only make life more difficult. We suffer to live and live to suffer. I'll never get what I truly want, what makes me feel satisfied, happy. I have a 1000 problems, one solution, and it's out of my reach. There's no one I can talk to. I am completely alone in this cruel world. I wish someone would make me feel loved and loving, make me feel like I have a purpose, being there for someone. Someone, please save me someday. I'm not perfect, but I swear I would find that little good inside of me, if I just had the reason. I swear that I could change. Is there someone, maybe with similar struggles, willing to talk to me about my problems (or about literally anything), and vice versa? I'm male, 14 in April, currently in 8th grade. I can prove it if needed.

  • @markfares2579

    @markfares2579

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey man. I am 15, a sophomore, and I went through the exact same thing awhile back. I know exactly how it feels what you’re going through. I care what you’re going through because I was once there, and it sucks. So I’m here for you man, and maybe one, day I would meet you in real life and we would become friends and I wouldn’t even know that you were the stranger I spoke to on the internet, and I think that’s beautiful

  • @user-fg3dz5kv7q

    @user-fg3dz5kv7q

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@markfares2579 Hey dude, sorry that I didn't see your comment earlier. I honestly didn't think anyone would see my comment. And I didn't think anyone would actually put in the effort to go out of their way and reply to me. So thank you so much, I am really grateful, and I'm glad to know there's someone out there who can relate to my problems. Thank you.

  • @mrsdanache

    @mrsdanache

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry you're feeling this way. I believe there is definitely more to life than suffering. I believe we were created with a purpose and a destiny. It's hard being young and trying to figure out life, but know that life can be good. No matter what you've gone through, there is always hope to rise above where you are. I'll be praying for you.

  • @muskduh
    @muskduh11 ай бұрын

    Thanks for the video!

  • @francesikeanyi5479
    @francesikeanyi54796 жыл бұрын

    am really facing something bad i dont know what to do i dont have any friends to talk to😖

  • @RobD1

    @RobD1

    6 жыл бұрын

    Frances Ikeanyi ... Hang in there people do care just find people that are full of love and positive energy. We care ☺

  • @francesikeanyi5479

    @francesikeanyi5479

    6 жыл бұрын

    +liveindamoment thanks alot

  • @kerolloskelada9085
    @kerolloskelada908510 жыл бұрын

    You seriously made me think about a lot. You need me learn something very important. I really respect what you said. It made me think about what I've been going through and how to make myself feel better.

  • @gkflfkgl
    @gkflfkgl8 жыл бұрын

    I really like this video and I can toatlly understand that you say talking to somebody doesn´t change the problem, but I think talking about problems can defenitly help. I don´t mean people who are talking to almost everybody about there physical problems. If you´re struggeling with a problem or a menthal health issue most people keep it in secret, and so did I, for me it was really helpful just to talk about my issues to my school counsellor. I still had my problems but I felt better with them, even if it is only for a while. That´s the same with therapy, why do people go to a psychologist? Because they want to talk to somebody.

  • @Earthtime3978
    @Earthtime39787 жыл бұрын

    Think about the positive? Really, that's it? Cmon man some people are so overloaded and sick from stress they are ready to die .

  • @jeankeats3200
    @jeankeats32005 жыл бұрын

    You're so right. You seem like a great person, XO

  • @ilovenicolebunches4616
    @ilovenicolebunches46164 жыл бұрын

    I dont know if I should tell my parents since their the only people I can talk to or keep my thoughts to myself.

  • @pixiedust1273
    @pixiedust12733 жыл бұрын

    Exactly what I needed to hear on this very moment

  • @mrsdanache

    @mrsdanache

    3 жыл бұрын

    Awesome. I'm glad it touched you.

  • @fairymairah
    @fairymairah5 жыл бұрын

    Interesting ! ! ! !

  • @jacobymahaee755
    @jacobymahaee7556 жыл бұрын

    Dana, please help me. I'm so depressed and scared, I can't even talk to my own family. I need someone to talk to so badly that it hurts and I'm so scared to get help😭

  • @RobD1

    @RobD1

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jacoby Mahaee .... What's wrong man?

  • @mrsdanache

    @mrsdanache

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jacoby Mahaee I'm sorry you're going through a hard time. Whatever the situation, I don't believe there is anyone or anything too far from God's hand or his love. I'll be praying for you.

  • @jacobymahaee755

    @jacobymahaee755

    6 жыл бұрын

    I'm just so scared to get help, what do ido😖

  • @johnnykitty2024

    @johnnykitty2024

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jacobymahaee755 Bruh serously no replies

  • @idknanmolla2976

    @idknanmolla2976

    3 жыл бұрын

    i’m sorry for you. are you better?

  • @baku2212
    @baku22126 жыл бұрын

    I need somebody to talk to. But all my friends Are on vacation. And my parents is what i need to talk about

  • @yes-fe8mt

    @yes-fe8mt

    5 жыл бұрын

    same... and life too

  • @blakereed7702

    @blakereed7702

    5 жыл бұрын

    I can talk to u....and we can talk together about our life's

  • @melodygordon5084

    @melodygordon5084

    4 жыл бұрын

    Do you still need help

  • @melodygordon5084

    @melodygordon5084

    4 жыл бұрын

    @A Living Legend don't say that.

  • @66lordez50
    @66lordez504 жыл бұрын

    great video I appreciate people who take time of their day to spread a positive message and help other people 👍🏻🙏🏻

  • @mrsdanache

    @mrsdanache

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I appreciate your positivity.

  • @kesiahmiguel6194

    @kesiahmiguel6194

    4 жыл бұрын

    Let's talk! premium.chat/kesiahmaeLet's talk! premium.chat/kesiahmae

  • @mily5953
    @mily59532 жыл бұрын

    Damn,i need more this kind of vid

  • @LamarcusJ
    @LamarcusJ2 ай бұрын

    i no this vid is 10 years ago but it hlp so much just now

  • @jeankeats3200
    @jeankeats32005 жыл бұрын

    You're great. I wish I could meet you. XO God bless you.

  • @mrsdanache

    @mrsdanache

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @cindrellaanthony2890
    @cindrellaanthony28905 жыл бұрын

    Anyone wants to talk about anything that's hurting... I'm here! I'm a complete stranger who knows nothing about you to judge you. All I'll do is just listen to you. But I know how it feels to be in the situation!

  • @idknanmolla2976

    @idknanmolla2976

    3 жыл бұрын

    my dog died and i don’t know if i can live without him..

  • @amalraihankhalid1938

    @amalraihankhalid1938

    Жыл бұрын

    ​​@@idknanmolla2976 hey.. I know it hurts bad. But life goes on..! Hope u have overcome the sadness

  • @kimm6189
    @kimm61894 жыл бұрын

    I'm emerging from "the pit" long enough to type~I need someone to talk to~just to hear anything positive...two days ago, I was mauled by a vicious dog. My right leg is wrecked. The stray dog chewed, tore and dragged me as he tried to kill me. My neighbor, thank god, came to help and he shot the dog dead, whilst still attached to my leg. Now, the thing is..I don't have any family that could help me, listen to me or even help me dress my ugly and forever wounds that hurts so badly on this day..worse than childbirth. Your video however, was a very good reminder that, I am blessed to be *alive* and that not just anyone would be willing to help~but to remember that I can be there for anyone, who might need "some help" if only it was "someone to talk to" Thanks, much appreciation in Mi.

  • @sravanyeruva993

    @sravanyeruva993

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am alone and depressed and i would love to talk to you😔

  • @kimm6189

    @kimm6189

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Sravan, I would like that very much...appreciate you friend!

  • @sravanyeruva993

    @sravanyeruva993

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@kimm6189 so can we talk or chat???

  • @kimm6189

    @kimm6189

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hello @Srevan Yeruva I am with my nurse just now...I will come back and find you when she leaves...wow, Thank you so much, I look forward to talking to you...hang tight...be back soon!! :)

  • @sravanyeruva993

    @sravanyeruva993

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@kimm6189 okay

  • @patriciaspires5450
    @patriciaspires54502 жыл бұрын

    When you need someone to talk to and they say you are breaking up! They don’t want to talk to you! Learned this the hard way

  • @mrsdanache

    @mrsdanache

    2 жыл бұрын

    That is hard.

  • @nightmareclashroyalgamer8947
    @nightmareclashroyalgamer89472 жыл бұрын

    I need someone to talk to

  • @gerardahern2153
    @gerardahern21532 жыл бұрын

    I feel crushed right now. But I know this is true. This change is probably going to be a blessing. I've been with my wife for 32 year's. It just feels bad. Peace@Love

  • @mrsdanache

    @mrsdanache

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry you're going through this. 😞

  • @toxicknightgaming5663
    @toxicknightgaming56638 жыл бұрын

    My best friends a baby brother died from his drunk daycare driver when he was taking him to daycare now she's really depressed and I don't know how to help but I try to cheer her up. What should I do please help me when my friend is depressed I get depressed

  • @evanever

    @evanever

    8 жыл бұрын

    Woah. I hope that over the past few months she and you have both been able to grieve a while and feel better about life. I've never been in a situation like yours, but best wishes and I hope that you can see the light in life and end up happy.

  • @coobeeethics4856

    @coobeeethics4856

    4 жыл бұрын

    I feel so bad

  • @jeankeats3200
    @jeankeats32005 жыл бұрын

    I have a husband that's a real asshole. If I could be independent from him, he'd be history. I tried my best in this marriage but you can't lie down with dogs and not get up with whatever. I'm speaking figuratively here. He IS a dog. A stupid clown but when I went down the isle, I meant it. He didn't. Yet, he begged ME to not leave the relationship when so many times I tried to break it off. He'd cry, good Joe (me) gave in. I found out he was look at porn on his cell phone. His phone constantly pings and pangs and he won't show me what's on there. I don't know what's on the other side of that phone but I do NOT trust him. He doesn't want to show he's "clean". So I have decided to just concentrate on me. I hope the next girl he messes with gives him the business in EVERY way.

  • @josephgray8735
    @josephgray87353 жыл бұрын

    So what your sain is that i don't need to tolk to someone I just need to stop thinking about my problem and get on with being alone ok cool I needed someone to tell me to get over it 😭

  • @mrsdanache

    @mrsdanache

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's not what I said at all. If you need someone to talk to, by all means, please confide in a trusted friend or counselor. But understand that your problem is not the end all be all. We are more resilient than we realize. You'll get through this if you just keep going.

  • @dthelonelyone
    @dthelonelyone2 жыл бұрын

    I agree with you to a certain extent focusing just on the negative aspects of one's life doesn't solve anything. But, if you don't talk to someone before you do something stupid you'll end up in prison for the rest of your life.

  • @ShadowOfTheIdeal
    @ShadowOfTheIdeal3 жыл бұрын

    I need someone to talk to. Does anyone know an online site where I can talk to someone?

  • @mrsdanache

    @mrsdanache

    3 жыл бұрын

    Are you looking for general counseling? I don’t want to just steer you somewhere. It really depends on what you’re looking for.

  • @ShadowOfTheIdeal

    @ShadowOfTheIdeal

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mrsdanache I don't know what general counseling is but I'm just looking for someone to talk to

  • @mrsdanache

    @mrsdanache

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ShadowOfTheIdeal I meant just a general or typical psychologist/counselor. I am a pastor and relationship coach, not a counselor, so I offer pastoral care and coaching. That's what I mean by it depends on what you're looking for.

  • @jorell4614
    @jorell46145 жыл бұрын

    Thank you😫 much appreciate ‼️

  • @user-kg9tv4gi8n
    @user-kg9tv4gi8n3 ай бұрын

    Ive needed someone to talk too,bad,,but what I've noticed is their never around after you say that,,,

  • @mrsdanache

    @mrsdanache

    2 ай бұрын

    😢

  • @user-kg9tv4gi8n

    @user-kg9tv4gi8n

    2 ай бұрын

    @@mrsdanache I was wrong,,,

  • @user-kg9tv4gi8n

    @user-kg9tv4gi8n

    2 ай бұрын

    Your the first person to notice me in months

  • @nexxuzzs
    @nexxuzzs4 жыл бұрын

    My rising sign is Cancer..I’m too emotional to feel happy T-T

  • @coobeeethics4856

    @coobeeethics4856

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm a Libra and I am emotional, gets the best of us

  • @sarahnelson9167
    @sarahnelson91675 жыл бұрын

    My younger brother and I just moved back in with my mom, and I'm finding it hard to get the attention and love that I want/need. I sometimes feel ignored or in the way sometimes. I would talk about it with my friends, but I can't find a way to bring it up. Does anyone have any advice for me?

  • @dragonightmares2496

    @dragonightmares2496

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sarah Nelson You don’t have to bring it up straight away with all of them. You can just talk to the one by one. Their advice and backup will get you on your feet in no time. It’s hard at the moment but it will get better as times goes on so you have absolutely nothing to worry about

  • @sarahnelson9167

    @sarahnelson9167

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@dragonightmares2496 Awesome, thank you so much ❤

  • @dragonightmares2496

    @dragonightmares2496

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sarah Nelson no problem, all a person needs is someone to remind them of what they are capable of💯

  • @daniellehite2836
    @daniellehite28364 жыл бұрын

    Sombody I loved as a neighbor died last youear and I have not got over I-it...

  • @mrsdanache

    @mrsdanache

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry to hear that. Grief is a long, hard process. Praying for you.

  • @simplengmalditachannel7331
    @simplengmalditachannel73314 жыл бұрын

    Need someone to talk to. Anyone

  • @sravanyeruva993

    @sravanyeruva993

    4 жыл бұрын

    Can i talk to you?? I am alone and so depressed Can you talk with me🥺🥺

  • @coobeeethics4856

    @coobeeethics4856

    4 жыл бұрын

    Can I talk to you both?

  • @coobeeethics4856

    @coobeeethics4856

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm mainly just bored, but sometimes I just need to talk, but I don't know what about

  • @simplengmalditachannel7331

    @simplengmalditachannel7331

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@coobeeethics4856 hi, can't get out the house. I'm keep myself busy by cooking my favourite food.

  • @simplengmalditachannel7331

    @simplengmalditachannel7331

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sravanyeruva993 depressed about what? Well I'm also struggling with something. How are you?

  • @gerardahern2153
    @gerardahern21532 жыл бұрын

    I don't want to be rich. Money don't make you happy. Being with someone you love dose. I know I have not been in a teem. It was all in my head. I feel bad for the kids

  • @sohamkulkarni8047
    @sohamkulkarni80473 жыл бұрын

    I accidentally cheated on homework, and I'm scared and can't sleep, and no one will talk to me my parents; I'm afraid no one wants to talk to me by the teacher is going to find out. I'm so scared

  • @user-fg3dz5kv7q

    @user-fg3dz5kv7q

    3 жыл бұрын

    Is that a joke?

  • @paulramirez9752
    @paulramirez97526 жыл бұрын

    I got alot of problem going on in my life rn just looking for sign

  • @stillnotstill

    @stillnotstill

    5 жыл бұрын

    Paul Ramirez How are things going for you now? Do you want to talk?

  • @patriciaspires5450
    @patriciaspires54502 жыл бұрын

    Maybe it’s just me!

  • @pevans4337
    @pevans433710 жыл бұрын

    I had to stop watching your videos..... OMG.. I'm gonna fall in love.

  • @randallrobert332
    @randallrobert3322 жыл бұрын

    A balloon can take only so much before it pops.

  • @monmonkey7029
    @monmonkey702910 жыл бұрын

    im bored....

  • @blackicon2609

    @blackicon2609

    5 жыл бұрын

    Still bored?

  • @ingenide
    @ingenide4 жыл бұрын

    nobody listens to me

  • @kendrawhite2115

    @kendrawhite2115

    4 жыл бұрын

    I would listen to you

  • @user-kg9tv4gi8n
    @user-kg9tv4gi8n3 ай бұрын

    See,even strangers don't care

  • @idknanmolla2976
    @idknanmolla29763 жыл бұрын

    i need to talk. anyone?

  • @zara4100

    @zara4100

    3 жыл бұрын

    @maybe maybe Sure! What's up?

  • @idknanmolla2976

    @idknanmolla2976

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@zara4100 it’s been two weeks since my dog died and i’m sad every time.. nobody talks to me, almost everyone hated my dog :(( i don’t know what to do. sometimes i feel it was the only one who understand me, i miss her 😭

  • @zara4100

    @zara4100

    3 жыл бұрын

    @idk nanmolla I'm so sorry for your loss.. I can't imagine what you must be feeling right now. Grieving is completely normal, you might start feeling worse and be trying to avoid it. Just don't bottle your emotions, you need to express them and then you'll feel better about it. If you need someone to talk to or listen to I'm here.

  • @idknanmolla2976

    @idknanmolla2976

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@zara4100 thank you. nobody cared about me till now.. i’m happy to know a person like you. whenever i feel sad, imma tell you. but, how are you?

  • @zara4100

    @zara4100

    3 жыл бұрын

    @idk nanmolla I'm gonna be honest I'm not doing good right now 😅.

  • @candymcmurdo01
    @candymcmurdo01 Жыл бұрын

    Baby..why are you dropping names?? Whatever.

  • @Ibiracatu
    @Ibiracatu6 жыл бұрын

    This sounds like a sales pitch ...

  • @dawnprice3620
    @dawnprice3620 Жыл бұрын

    I just need to talk. All this seems to be about money not help shame on u

  • @danxp6432

    @danxp6432

    Жыл бұрын

    u okay bro?

  • @thescarlettletter2686
    @thescarlettletter26866 жыл бұрын

    This doesn't help

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