*”Do not fear having no friends. Fear having bad friends”* ~My life taught lesson

@Forbidden.wisdom.

Жыл бұрын

More wisdom in our channel ;)

@pragyan507

Жыл бұрын

There is no such thing as friend actually. Some who we think is close to us we label them as friends. But it is all life acting in their own nature and cycles.

@jacquia.7340

11 ай бұрын

There is no bad friend either... Just people that aligns with your path...or ones that take you off it(is what your calling bad friends) since they are going a different way in their own way .. And the ones that are lost in harmful habits is exactly the time when every person needs a friend.. not someone who avoid/runs thinking it's self preservation..when actuality it's because of lack of experience insecurity runs away.. instead of being present and walking away in mindful decisions is two different things

@jeffharper7579

8 ай бұрын

I'm in my mid 50s and I have so many friends I all I need is two fingers to count with!. I tell people ( kids) life is not a popularity contest.

@carolewoof9512

8 ай бұрын

So true 🙏🏻🇬🇧💝

Yes, that's why Krishna said No one is your friend no one is your enemy, it's the situation and time that make people as your enemy and friends. So, he led his life focusing on Karma and Dharma..Sadhguru, Thank You🙏🙏🙏

@Prity_choudhary61587

Жыл бұрын

So true ❤️

@dshshetty2880

Жыл бұрын

❤🙏🏼

@spirituality8721

Жыл бұрын

Just curious how you know krishna said this.. i mean is it written somewhere in scripture?

@sujal1943

Жыл бұрын

Reference please

@biprojitdhar1901

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely sir, we must change ourselves not others and we should be with the 'life'.

When someone is being nasty to you, first try love. If that doesn't work then try compassion. If that doesn't work, distance. -Sadhguru

@rassoul3548

Жыл бұрын

Coran said that first.

@raymondtendau2749

Жыл бұрын

@@rassoul3548 oh really..Which chapter please.??

@pragyan507

Жыл бұрын

@@raymondtendau2749 Sadhguru never said to walk away unless it is real physical damage. All emotional hurt are self created. The hurt is because of what we expect and expectation not coming true. If you are truly enlightened, you need not walk away to save yourself from emotional damage.

@raymondtendau2749

Жыл бұрын

@@pragyan507 Do not misquote or misintreprete me. I only quoted Sadhguru. You can verify this quote by Sadhguru pls. Thank you.🙏🏿

@pragyan507

Жыл бұрын

@@raymondtendau2749 I am not. I am explaining what he truly means

It’s easier says then done .. and the art of ‘letting go ‘ is probably the most difficult to overcome ..

Some people have real maliciousness and try to hurt your ego and peace of mind. They should be removed.

He explained a thing in under 3 minutes what some of us take life time to realise. 🙏

@babushkapoponick3384

11 ай бұрын

And even when you realize it might not even be true

@jeffharper7579

8 ай бұрын

And some never realise, my opinion is lots of people think every thing should revolve around them 😵 I'm lonely at times but feel better off by myself ( we me and my cats are better off)

Physical pain might be caused by others. But NO ONE can hurt us mentally & emotionally. Emotional pain is our own creation. 🙏🏻😇

@shivania4221

Жыл бұрын

Hi . In my workplace, I have a small issue. I have a manager who doesn't do any work and our project doesn't follow any guidelines and always there is always a pressure from clients on the employees. Actually, many of the seniors have left the organization because of this toxic culture. But myself and some of the other people are freshers, we have worked for 1 1/2 year but didn't receive any promotion. Hoping that after we get some promotion, we will leave the organization. Our managers always give more work than we can do. So, we have to work for longer hours and we don't have any work life balance. Please guide me on how to respond to such situations and how to speak up for myself in the corporate culture? Because our manager doesn't speak for us. Myself and my friends do more work, so he assigns all the tickets to me and my friends. There are some people who doesn't do any work and are in the favour of manager. So they chill around. So, The manager assigns their work also to us saying they are on leave. But when they go on leave, not a single line of code will be written for the objects. If we inform the same to manager, he just nods his head and asks us to the development as the deadline is running out of time. Please guide me on the above issue.

@shivania4221

Жыл бұрын

I am in need of money urgently as I have some responsibility to pay the fees. So, I can't quit the job as well as of now.

@babushkapoponick3384

Жыл бұрын

I don't believe that

@graycadmon

Жыл бұрын

That's why you need a disciplined mind. Meditate and stay fit. Write if it helps. Eat healthy and sleep enough. Remember your past. Know that you will die some day, and what hurts today will not hurt tomorrow.

@Aarav.B

Жыл бұрын

​@@babushkapoponick3384 Let's start a discussion. Why do you feel that way?

Never give anyone that much power over your emotions or behavior. Be yourself and if they don’t like it allow it to be their problem not yours.

When you are hurt by someone you forgive no matter and continue forwards praying for them and knowing God has you.

@bhvlogs110

5 ай бұрын

Awhh so kind of you ❤

@briandyson7800

20 күн бұрын

Escapism is believing in gods of any kind.

At philosophical level what Sadhguru said is right. But in real life its very difficult to digest when someone keeps hurting you or cheats you or takes advantage of your position ... Especially its very difficult when you have to live with them forever 😢😢😢

@AnubhavSingh-xq2nu

8 ай бұрын

True yar

@sunshineshining4167

8 ай бұрын

True

@SahilCycleCyclops

7 ай бұрын

It is only philosophical because we all are seeing that way, we all don’t want to put efforts. There is a whole process of putting all that to practical and sadhguru and other yogis have just mastered it

@yichable

6 ай бұрын

Also you can "distance" when love and compassion don't work.

@Just_A_Name14

5 ай бұрын

@@bentridermaybe you can’t grasp the concept that taking things personal is hard to let go of and not get emotionally attached to. Some people are living you know

This came at the perfect time when I needed guidance. ❤

@patriciaazzinnaro4610

4 ай бұрын

For me as well 🙏

Yes...this is very true.All you can do is move away from situations and people which retards your growth and peace.Because they are doing what is the only thing they know to do ....and all we can do is uproot yourself from that area and root yourself where you can grow healthy.

I don't know how but my mind was asking the same question and this video popped up. So universe is listening. Thankful grateful and blessed.....

@nrlw-77777

Жыл бұрын

Same happened with me

@sujitpoojary2651

Жыл бұрын

Me too

@cs18989

10 ай бұрын

I had to search for it :-)

@Indian_working_mom

10 ай бұрын

Same here

@shwetasingh3414

Ай бұрын

Same here

Yes and no. Sometimes some people *try* to treat you poorly because of being jealous, or simply because they are not responsible enough to deal with what their perception of *you* provokes in them, not you. And you are like, "I did nothing to you, why are you behaving this way?" It is important to unmask this behaviour

@sunshineshining4167

8 ай бұрын

So true

@dgjlo

5 ай бұрын

Spot on!

Words have psychological power. If Sadhguru's words heal us then toxic people hurt with their words as well.

@Leo-ks6fm

Жыл бұрын

True. But that's a conscious choice we have to take!

@stephanevillatte5970

Жыл бұрын

Yes it's true,I don't create my own pain,words ,behaviors,can deeply hurt....I never suffer with good people,they can make mistakes,that's ok,but being ugly,vilain,toxic etc...is another story

@its.a.bellestory

8 ай бұрын

Exactly!

@bhvlogs110

5 ай бұрын

Indeed, rightly said we need to build a power to take what we want and leave the rest

@bonnyedmonds7539

25 күн бұрын

Toxic people hurt us with their words and actions.

If People are emotionally hurting or insulting u, the best thing is understand their Nature Of Mind & ignore such People by staying away from them. Also practice Self Realization Meditation Techniques such that u won't be affected by anyone.

I am already feeling better. just by hearing this and realizing that I am the one casing pain to myself. Thanks for those wise words

@jeffharper7579

8 ай бұрын

Me also. Were I work they all have to be together but I stay by my self and they can't stand it, but when they tare up equipment they blame someone else but can't blame me.

At first I thought, hey did I just keep escaping from pain inflicting by myself? But then I realized that, no. I only walk away from people which not only ignoring me but also not offering something that lift me up. It's a waste of time spending with people like that. I'm glad I did so, and found a group of people which could offer their knowledges and opinions to help improve everyone including themselves. It's nice to have a group of people the love to improve.

Dont let someones Bad Feelings make you change your focus .

Sadhguru is the real inspiration for everone......... agree ? Yes or no ?

@nagwag123

Жыл бұрын

No

@bhanushsharma85

Жыл бұрын

Yesss, love him 😍😍😍😍

@rushikeshdesai8705

Жыл бұрын

Yes

@vaishaleeghoshmantra8917

Жыл бұрын

Yes yes yes....only

@Noobprokermit

Жыл бұрын

He is one of them, but there are many. Taking the ideas from multiple people can provide you the best viewpoint

Hurtful or deceitful words can wound as much as, or even more than, a punch on your face or stomach. If someone is exposed to emotional aggression, lies, manipulation, despise, etc, for a longe period of time this will normally cause ALL sort of pain and misery and emotional distress. Of course, those few enlightened ones may have the strength to not being so hurt by the emotional aggression coming from others.

@anitha6249

Жыл бұрын

It's true it is very difficult. But what Sadhguru says is the only intelligent way to deal with life. We have no choice over our external circumstances many a times and how long do we suffer for life, bit by bit?It is so tiring. I am constantly reminding myself with the words of yogis to become inward focussed.

@mgroliveira

Жыл бұрын

Emotional aggression normally leaves scars, bruises, the eyes cannot see, but which are real. This is something that needs to be embraced before the person may heal and move away from the abusive relationship - as Sadhguru recommend. Of course the person's ability to do that will depends on a number of factors. Sadhguru is not encouraging anyone to follow him blindly, unquestionably. This would be very unintelligent for a wise and realizem Teacher to say.

Sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me.

So many youtubers trying to defame Sadhguru, only person who give clarity to us.❤❤❤

@banumathiramakrishnan

8 ай бұрын

Yes

Anyone can hurt you when you give them the right to make you happy . If you are happy from within no one can hurt you ❤❤❤.

@DiscoveringSelf647

Жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/rKOXp6OmdLvecZs.html Sadhguru talks about correlation between love sex and meditation. 🙏🙏

@marykavanagh531

8 ай бұрын

How do we stop giving them the right

Just his presence in India is a blessing 🙏

"It's sometimes funny how the other person blames us for distancing even though we got hurt, and they never understood how much we cared and tolerated, no matter what."

Absolutely sir, we must change ourselves not others and we should be with the 'life'

"What you are asking for cannot be found in humans"- Divine inspiration.

There is a significant overlap with what Sadhguru is saying here and 'stoicism'. "It's in your head' Don't let the mean, vile, rude, and malicious people 'hurt' you by 'living' in your mind. The way you react to it is important and what you can control. I am living some difficulty at this moment and understand this, however I am making no illusions as this is extremely difficult. I hope it will get better day by day.

Obviously he hasn’t been narcissistically abused. Someone who emotionally hurts you is physically hurting you at the same time. Emotional pain effects you like physical harm. 🙄 his answers are too vague and not helpful.

@jaieeashtekar2804

2 ай бұрын

listen it carefully again it's not vague😮‍💨

@shirley-annramdial2948

Ай бұрын

Agreed

@camilawenger

16 күн бұрын

He is telling you that YOU are in control of your mind and emotions. Don’t give that power to anyone else.

Yes, this is true. I didn’t realize how true until Sadhguru opened my mind

True words sadguru ji❤

I love the way the young lady asked the question

Needed this 😢❤

It feels like he said what my inner self really want to hear thankyou Sadhguru 🙏❤️

One's own estimation about self is far more important than what others think about it ! Because, one can't cheat oneself and one's own conscience ; provided, ofcourse, someone has any !

@amarendraborah6941

Жыл бұрын

"The truth is not always beautiful nor beautiful words the truth !" - Lao Tzu.

I Heard this about 20times.... And each time i learnt many exciting things.... Thank you 🙏

Simple way to leave it all behind. I've seen & heard enough to know what others fail to.

Simple yet powerful

Wow.. Sadghuru put it so simply here... the words i could never find to describe the many situations i find myself in... We look for places were we can be effective with our lives and energy to evolve... some places and people create atmospheres where this is not conducive and energy is wasted on madden things instead of evoling into better beings ❤

The right time and correct words Guruji. I was going through an emotional turmoil that anything cud happen. It was yr words saved me.

What a lovely looking place. Sadhguru really goes his own way of living his life.

Sadhguru's answer bring tears to my eyes

So profound! This mindset stops you from thinking like a victim! Which in turn allows you to move with acceptance and self awareness. 💯💪🏾🙏🏾❤️‍🩹☮️

Thank You Mr.Sadhguru for your words of wisdom !!Love to hear you !! I am thinking about going on a spiritual retreat for three months !

You only hurt the ones you love and only love can mend a broken heart.

Keep distance is only a way.....Sadhguru..🙏

Whatever others say but for me sadhguru is living teacher angel ♥️♥️

Perfect timing sadgharu thankyou ❤️😊

Thank you Bigger Sadhguru

Sadhguru is the real inspiration for everyone..Because it has a very good inspiration & a very true inspiration quotes.

@parth2sukhadiya

Жыл бұрын

Your iglis blows my mind

@vinaytravelvlogs142

Жыл бұрын

@@parth2sukhadiya Yes

That's a good way of putting it, he's saying only physical pain is real and any other pain is your mind interpreting it as such. It goes against what psychology says though which I sometimes thinks overly focuses on the problems. I'm a highly sensitive, empathic person so I feel on a deeper level, things hurt me for a long time but I'm going to try to keep this in mind, "only physical pain is real, the rest is nothing".

This helps, thank you.

i really like watching those. Curiosity and wise words.

Pranam Sadhguru

Exactly everybody hurts sometimes even our own shadow hurts us

Pranam,sadguru

I really need this thank you so much for the video ❤️

Yes. They say what they say because that is the best they know. Right.

Enjoy him while he is still with us.

Sir you are great ❤❤🙏🙏

Yes dear Sadhguru, what you are saying is right. There is no perfect human being anywhere.

Couldn't thank you enough for this great answer. Now my doubt is clear 🙏

Last week i was busy questioning myself that what to do in certain sitution ….nd here u answered …sadguru ❤😊

Life is more complex then this. It’s helpful to see this perspective however. Ownership of our reactions is essential ☯️💗🙏

wonderful advice, Sadhguru!😍😍😊

I don't know when I heard this I feel confident because I practice what sadhguru has said people do ignore me but I kept being same as I am but with better version

Thank you for your wisdom 💫

Thank you Sadhguru so much

As my old man would say to me as a kid…..sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me ….

The main reason behind of watching all this vedios is one person I have in my life... causing me lots of pain and love both ..to get rid from all this situation ..now iam fond all this vedios it's giving me hope..I dnt know what destiny will create for me..may be all this pain will be worth it someday 😌🧿💞

Take my love sadhguru ❤️

"They are doing what they know best"- Such a powerful and insightful comment to be so simple. And it's 100% accurate. When I apply such to those who perpetrated the negative experience, it fits and I smile because I have seen beneath the facade that they betray.

Emotional pain is much nostalgic than physical pain. It hurts:(

Omg I needed to hear this today.

You are wonderful sadgharu thankyou ❤️😊

This guy gets better like aged wine, truly this man has some real wisdom.

@TheAghoriKing

Жыл бұрын

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Excellent .

171 / 5,000 Sadhguru's wise teachings are precious. Thank you and your team for making this video. May everyone always spend a lot of time listening to the Dharma to expand our wisdom ❤️🙏❤️

That is very true! Just when I needed that advise. Thankyou x

~~Sadguru Is Sadguru !!🙏🏻🥰

This is true. From Nepal

Thank You.

Sadhguru ❤..I suffer from neurophathic pains in my legs and arms ..after have listened to his teachings I started to do daily Hatha yoga..eats primarily vegetables...I sense I've started a process towards healing of my body ...my body feels better ..love from Michael in Denmark ❤️ thank u so much for sharing your knowledge with me and everyone who u initiate ...

@cherie11_

11 ай бұрын

Please listen some healing music and frequency as well. Love and light 🙏💕

@ingersalparthiban3910

6 ай бұрын

Try Vipassana meditation.

You said right sadguru ❤

very good explanation, no one can hurt us, others are doing what they know....

So genius 🎉

Namaskaram sadhguru🙏

Thanku so much Sadhguru 🙏 it was much needed 🙏🌸❤️

Golden lines og Guruji👌👌👌

Sadhguru🙏🏽

This answer s my predicament

Neededthis

Thank you 🙏

Sadhguru❤️ you are a real inspiration thank you for always putting a smile on my face with your awesome video

@sujal1943

Жыл бұрын

you're everywhere..how ?

@radhika5933

Жыл бұрын

I highly suggest (Secrets of sanatan dharma) book by Author sai prasad panda ...

I understand. It is not another person who harms you. Rather: how do you respond to their speech & behavior is up to you. Thank You.

Wow! Perfect advice!❤ The Lord certainly knows what you need when you need it! Thanks!

Save Soil ! 🌏

👍 SADHGURU 🙏>>>💚

THANK YOU