What My Father Did Changed My Life Forever
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Welcome to Unfiltered Stories! Today, our guest Kevin Boyd shares his life story with us. Having experienced CSA at the hands of his father, he endured so much pain from a young age.
After years of struggle, as a changed man, he was able to find the strength to forgive his father. His healing journey empowered him to confront the haunting memories of his childhood. He now shares his inspiring story to inspire and help others break free from the chains of their past.
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@tracybenson6364
Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry that you experienced such trauma as a young child and so glad your mamma had your back.
@Tan-di7tt
Жыл бұрын
Please heal that precious man above, Lord please.
@bridgetholbourne6849
Жыл бұрын
I was a target because my parents had too many friends .... I could never tell because I didn't want to hurt my mother .... It's not my weight to carry ,it's took years to put it down ..😢❤❤
@LoriKasprzak-yk6nc
Жыл бұрын
Male on male p*dophilia is referred to as stealing the boy's manhood. Did it affect your s*xual identity later on?
@BrandyBB
11 ай бұрын
I just sent my email to share my powerful and life changing story with the world finally. The way God intended.
Kevin I'm glad that you are telling your story I hope it will help other male victims of sexual abuse
@DeboraSampy-eb4nx
Жыл бұрын
💪🏾💙
Hyper-sexuality is common among some who have been violated. I am so sorry you were assaulted by the man who was supposed to protect and nurture you. You are worthy of love and hope you have it 🫶🏾
@mariahconklin4150
Жыл бұрын
So true it happened to me because i was groomed by my cousin now I"m the black sheep of the family and don't talk to any of them at all. Horrible horrible family who only see me as the grown adult who takes money from them so now I live poor and try to work but if a manager is awful and treats me bad I won't go in the next day and I just shut down but never again I'm okay leaving if someone treats me awfully...leaving friend's, family, work situations, churches. I'm so lonely but the animals outside comfort me and so does the train near by and the Amish people that show up. lol
@iseeyou2810
Жыл бұрын
@mariahconklin4150 you don't need anybody but you inner strength. I have learned that, learn to be okay with your solitude and you will love like I do.
@pussygalore731
Жыл бұрын
He's gay, not hypersexulized😅
@804smiles
Жыл бұрын
@@iseeyou2810def we all should at some point take sometime if only 6mths by ourselves so when it is time to spend wit sum1 else we know our worthiness if u know what I mean? We gotta know & love ourselves before we go out & grab else & try to build a foundation wit them and pull them into our mess but that's jus me living & learning myself too
@UnfilteredStoriesYT
Жыл бұрын
Great insight! Thank you for your support ❤
to those that said he was a teenager and could fight him off. Remember, this man is in a place of authority, his father. Authority is a huge factor even between 2 adults which is why at places of employment, when a person in a higher position uses it to intimidate in any way, sexually or physically, they can be fired or sued. God Bless this man
@Flower-ck2bs
Жыл бұрын
Sadly it is not functioning. There are authorities that hide something and just to nothing.
@tinadavis2083
Жыл бұрын
Amen😔🙏🏾😪💔
@JG_SmileSOBright
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely! What kid doesn't fear their parents?
@CoCo-yv3hl
Жыл бұрын
Ppl that say that don’t know how you freeze when you know you can’t win a battle… it’s extremely insensitive. He did nothing wrong even when they are older you are conditioned that it’s ok because nothing was done after the first time so in their minds they “normalize” it to deal with the trauma. Detachment almost
@loveppl6999
Жыл бұрын
A TEENAGER IS STILL A CHILD!!!! THEIR BRAIN IS STILL DEVELOPING THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT U THINK THEY SHOULD KNOW BCUZ U LOOK AT THEM AND SEE THIS BIG HUMAN BEING THAT IS OFTEN TALLER THAN ADULTS.
What kind of parent would do that to their children? It is as bad as killing them… can’t believe it! It is absolutely unthinkable to me….😢
@Flower-ck2bs
Жыл бұрын
There are many adoults, parents, relatives, siblings, cousins, grandparents, teachers, police, priests and so on who do this but authorities do nothing.
@shannaskinner3098
Жыл бұрын
Honestly theres been times I'd rather have died then deal with the mental prison I lived in years after the abuse.
@tonya592
Жыл бұрын
me too
@lorettahines7936
Жыл бұрын
Suppose if the father didn’t think that he wasn’t his son?
@JusticeWarriorTV
Жыл бұрын
Males do. Look at history.
I am so saddened by this story this is so disgusting. I was molested as a child and I suffer mentally to this day I am 51 and seeing a therapist and taking anti depressants prayers for you brother 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@evonza4858
Жыл бұрын
Bless you big time🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️🖤💚🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😘
@uly1q
Жыл бұрын
Same here I'm a female I just turned 50 and I was molested by my maternal uncle. I haven't gotten counseling but I feel like I need it
@evonza4858
Жыл бұрын
@@uly1q ❤️🖤💚🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️🖤😘💚
@vinavina336
Жыл бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@wendylee7242
Жыл бұрын
God bless you,there are so many of us, I'm still going through..
Men should talk about their experience with sexual abuse more often. I’m sure there are many men that experience sexual assault trauma but decide to internalize it. If it still impacts them till this day, they need to speak up and bring awareness so kids stay aware of this grooming process, sexual assault consequences and it’s impact later in life.
@CrustyUgg
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely. The most under reported crimes is abuse but especially sexual abuse towards boys/men
@kid-ava
Жыл бұрын
most definitely 💔
@Freddie-xh3su
Жыл бұрын
Very true.
@uriyahbonafide4194
Жыл бұрын
The shame is overwhelming for a lot of men.
@BriannaLifeCoach
11 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, most of these men don’t care
You have just broken a generational curse. GOD bless you and he was with you all the way.
@KM-oy5yh
11 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💚
This man is an excellent storyteller. We don't often talk about children who didn't get to make their own choices about their sexuality because of abuses that they suffered. I am interested in reading his book. I pray for his continued strength and recovery.🙏🏽
@tinadavis2083
Жыл бұрын
Amen🙏🏾😔
@persephoneharrison3439
Жыл бұрын
The things they do are terrible! A child doesn’t know what’s going on!
@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807
Жыл бұрын
Do you believe the abuse had an impact on his sexuality?
@kayceetaylor2151
Жыл бұрын
One's own sexuality is always a choice, even if one was pushed in the wrong direction by abuse.
@tfowler4060
Жыл бұрын
It is a real thing.. if you never experienced it you wouldn't understand it only those who have been there know what it does to you growing up and as an adult..
This is really how it all starts for MANY MANY MANY gay, bi , pansexual people. Thank you for sharing this story. Let god be with you FOREVER.❤️
@marciloni12
11 ай бұрын
Yes, it's first sex experience and it never leaves you!
@KM-oy5yh
11 ай бұрын
I #Agree 🎉
@KM-oy5yh
11 ай бұрын
@@blessedforever8172OH, Wow, Sooooooo #Sad🎉
@jernisharichard4986
10 ай бұрын
Yes, So true people don't get it. It's also a spirit manipulating them to think it's them that want it or that's their personality. You need the renewal of your mind. Become born again. Turn to Jesus Christ 🙏 and learn the rules, principles, and laws. It's through knowledge that the just are delivered 🙌. I pray everyone finds their identity in Christ Jesus who strengthens us.
@BlackNoiseCat
10 ай бұрын
Finally someone said it. They’re NOT born that way. They are groomed and abused that way.
Wow when he said his mom said to him she wished she never had him but that he recognized she didn’t mean that, it was based off her emotions, that was powerful
Sexual abuse of any kind especially to young innocent little souls changes who they are sometimes for life. These sick 🤢 perpetrators should be jailed for half their lives...
@gigiarmany4332
Жыл бұрын
or all of it, they never change
@kaylao.3326
Ай бұрын
Not half, their entire lives
Your story hit me hard. You’re an incredible person.
@UnfilteredStoriesYT
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words ❤
@J_a_s_o_n
11 ай бұрын
@@UnfilteredStoriesYTthe Holy Spirit can help him and He is willing.
This is why parents need to explain to children to tell them even if they threaten you
@blessedbythebest1003
10 ай бұрын
YESSSSS come on People we are in 2023 and obviously the predators ways and what they say are repetitive!! How can people not tell their kids this stuff. Smh.
I believe your Mother knew. And the hate wasnt towards you, it was the hate she had for herself for letting what happened to you. She might not have known at first, but she knew at some point and didnt do nothing about it.
@KC-ni5gw
Жыл бұрын
Not so, stop spreading lies. The mother did not know, when she found out, she divorced her husband. The father was the perpetrator, not the child and not the mother!!!!
@InthenameofYeshua
Жыл бұрын
Normally they do know what’s going on
@MsVeeTheVisionary
Жыл бұрын
She may not have known, but she recognized something was not right with her son. Remember he mentioned how close he was to his mom.
@regalynwilliams536
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely!! I agree 100%
@andreablossom3929
Жыл бұрын
@@KC-ni5gw It took her years though.
How disgusting! The fact that you can talk about this and remain calm and intentional with your word choice is so powerful…Bless you, Kevin! ❤️
@m.waymire
11 ай бұрын
When you are delivered by GOD and find a way to help others threw telling your story like he does and he wrote a book as well , its a release of a lot emotions . You didnt pay attention but he was very emotional through out his story, you can tell it was cut in segments but yes his story is powerful because it shows that there is healing, deliverance, transformation in the name of Jesus.
@patriciamorrison187
11 ай бұрын
So sorry
As a person who was also molested by a family member until I was eight years old😢 I understand the way that conditions you , and I’m so glad that I decided to allow God to enter into my life! I have chosen to heal and change my life for the better, and I even started a channel full of self awareness and love 💕!
@blackwisdom7151
11 ай бұрын
I never been molested !!! But I met and know people that was molested!!! (and I told them to do the same thing you have done !!! ) As a child one has no control over a ADULT F**k UP actions)!!! But u let them WIN !!! if what they did defines your decision and who you are as a ADULT TODAY !!! NOW TAKE LEGAL ADULT ACTION ON THEM !!! OR like I suggested to a friend ( go to his church set close to the PULPIT and when he say the sermon for today is!( Come out with a baseball bat and yell out FUCKING YOU UP For what you did to me AS A CHILD)!!! Once you split his head open!!! Call me for Bail money !!! And TRUST GOD To touch the JURY,S HART !!!!
So sad so many children around the world have to suffer because of sick Adults that need serious help .Such a sad story !
@tenacrewoodssoapsandsuch1335
Жыл бұрын
Hurt people hurt people
@1_star_reviews
11 ай бұрын
Those adults don’t need help, they need prison!
@Vstar87
11 ай бұрын
@@1_star_reviews yes your right they do but unfortunately there’s a large majority that get away with it due to no evidence !
@tiannacarson3076
11 ай бұрын
Like the pedophile rings that try to organize and try to educate others saying that adult child relationships are natural and doesn’t negatively effect the child …. How dare you !!! Not a single person on this earth who was sexually assaulted as a child doesn’t have issues with it for the rest of their life … it’s not natural or right and directly abusing children for their own sick gratification
Your dad was very sick and twisted I am absolutely sorry 😔 for what you endured throughout your childhood.Its sad how sometimes these parental figures dont look at their childs moods or change in personality or just ask has someone touched you. I'm hopeful this gentlemen found peace and happiness 🎉 things like abuse never goes away blessings.
I was molested by my own father too. Thanks for sharing your story ❤
@barbeegirl7196
Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢I'm sorry that this happened to you,it happened to me as well by my father.I absolutely hate that this happened to us😢I am still healing from the past 🙏🙏🙏,I pray that you are as well ❤️❤️
@MillennialMountainMama
Жыл бұрын
@@barbeegirl7196 Thank you 🙏 and God bless you 🤗❤️ May God comfort us and may we heal
@OfficialJoyski
Жыл бұрын
Shii y’all gay now 🤔❤
@Sunflower88685
Жыл бұрын
@@OfficialJoyskiyou think you funny huh. I hope you are ready for hell! You will have a first class ticket.
@tycoonestate6379
Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry
This video hit me. I was molested by a friend of my papa, he told me that if I were to tell my papa, he would kill him and myself. I admire you for being true and real.
Thank you for telling your story. I hope this helps other male victims speak out about sexual abuse.
@Sunshine-jq9sw
Жыл бұрын
Most men take that shit to the grave from having too much pride.
To say I love the ending of his story is an understatement. There’s nothing impossible with God. May God use this story to get others unstuck in the name of Jesus Christ. Love you my brother in Christ and I am so sorry for whatever you had to endure 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Kevin, I am so sorry that your dad caused you so much pain and trauma. Hang in there Brother. I know how you feel. I was also sexually abused by a close relative at 11 years old. The pain and trauma never go away. Jesus has helped to ease the burden and pain. Jesus is still working on my heart. I couldn't listen to the entire story. I stopped listening at the part where your dad ask you to lay on top of him.....I will be praying for you. Be blessed Brother. Be blessed. Jesus loves you and he can take the hurt away.
I could only imagine the hurt you still feel. Proud of you for sharing this, because I know this was probably hard to speak about. 🙏🏼
I am so sorry for what you went through. It's so unfair that children are used in this way by any adult. But the abuse becomes that much more profound, confusing and damaging when it's a parent who violates their own child.
how could u resist your father as a teenager when u had already been conditioned and damaged emotionally thus very vulnerable and probebly in his grip .I m so sorry for these traumatic experiences you went through .I think the dream u had was amazing i m so glad you relied on God and that you feel better now
That broke my heart when he said he was excited to stay home w/ daddy
So wait… your father never went to jail for sexually assaulting you as an innocent child? Forgiveness is one thing, being forgiven is another, and taking accountability is something else.
@melviasheppard8466
Жыл бұрын
Put in jail with the general population !!!! Shame on his father and I hope that he’s burning in hell 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@chasg8183
Жыл бұрын
A lot of victims in their 40s and 50s did not see their perpetrators go to jail. Unfortunately 😢
@emjay313
9 ай бұрын
My father never went to jail
@itzmebe
9 ай бұрын
@@chasg8183 That’s heartbreaking 💔
@itzmebe
9 ай бұрын
@@emjay313 I am so sorry. That man should have been thrown in a cage. May I ask why he wasn’t?
Kevin you are a remarkable person to forgive your abuser I know that I never could do that
A guy told me years ago, never leave a man, alone with your children, even if it's their "real father"..... Because man don't think like women (hyper sxl, hyper sx on the brain 24/7)and that they will never admit it...... 😶
@JB-nr7iy
Жыл бұрын
That is gross, women are also sexual abusers and to say that some men can't help be pedophiles because they are hyper sexual is an apologist pov
@LionIron447
Жыл бұрын
@@JB-nr7iy I understand that women can also be "Predators", I'm just sharing what an older guy told me about men, and also teens and preteens can also be "Predators"....... No hate just a sad truth 😔
@iamunstoppable205
Жыл бұрын
@@LionIron447The truth is that MOST predators are men. Women are the minority. Period. Facts are facts.
@Mrs.Blair_MPA
Жыл бұрын
@@LionIron447that's not true, there are wonderful men who love their children the way God would have them love their children. There are millions of wonderful fathers in our world. My father was wonderful. My husband is wonderful with our children.
@beyondthesea2228
Жыл бұрын
Shit I don't leave my son with anyone but by mother.
I can do "ALL" things through Christ who strengthens me!!! Love you Brother!
Kevin thank you for your unflinching honesty. You were damaged by your dad as a child but your clarity as grown man shines a light on the plight of sexually abused children everywhere.
When my dad died in 2020 my mom confused to me that he had sexually abused me when i was 2years but she told me as if it was my fault, today she still speaks to me in an angry way, even all my life when i was a child when my mom will hug my brother and sister she never hugged me😢
@nate2759
Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for what you went through and that your mother treats you that way. You are beautiful and your parents did not deserve you. God loves you.
@andreablossom3929
Жыл бұрын
Displacement and deflection of emotions are so evil. Your mother sounds very immature and needs help and prayer.
@nkreseknowledge2241
Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢
@lol-rg3gy
Жыл бұрын
Cut her off. She doesn’t deserve you at all
@vicvic2081
Жыл бұрын
She's crazy. Ignore her. She's possessed
This hitting close to home bc my kids feel im emotionless. I show them affection they push me away. This encourages me to keep pushing and try harder.
That’s the kind of betrayal that goes far deeper than what a stranger can do… may God bless you Love
@KM-oy5yh
11 ай бұрын
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER 🎉
There is a strong part of me that is saying this man needs a hug. I hope he is doing alright
Mr. Kevin. I really want to thank you for sharing your testimony. It really meant a lot for me in this season of my life. ❤️ God is faithful.
Sending healing to you and all who have experienced this abuse. 💗
You’re brave , did nothing wrong & explain so well to help others ❤
I swear some people are beyond sick human beings. So sorry this man endured this, along with many others. The strength he has to articulate this openly is impeccable.
🥺 I'm so sorry that he went through that 😔. A child is supposed to be happy, not afraid or abused! Bless this man for sharing his story. God love him.😊❤
My bio father sa me from crib to 11years old Im 71 now and after years of therapy, I still suffer from PTSD.
@rainbowgirlism
11 ай бұрын
I'm sorry that happened to you.
@astartejones4841
11 ай бұрын
@@rainbowgirlism Thank you 💓
@Jade-rr8wh
11 ай бұрын
I just prayed to Jesus about your PTSD. YOU WILL BE FREED FROM IT I LOVE YOU AND JESUS LOVES YOU TOO❤
@KM-oy5yh
11 ай бұрын
Lord Have Mercy 🎉
What a pure, sweet soul of a man! Thank God for favor. His willingness to change and God favor saved his soul! We are NOT our traumas! Our traumas are our testimonies.
Young man, my heart goes out to you and others who were victimized. My prayers and tears are with you, God loves you!
Thank you for having the courage to come forward! Thank you for your honesty and transparency and thank you for caring enough to write a book that will undoubtedly be a blessing to so many others! I praise God for your healing and revelation and I commend you on your God-given ability to forgive and overcome! May you continue to be blessed and be a blessing! 🙏🏼🥰❤
Unfortunately, we have to forgive those that did us wrong so we can move forward with our life. Kevin, you did nothing wrong and you are strong🙏
@toothpastetoothbrush8114
Жыл бұрын
I'm pretty good moving forward without ever forgiving my abusers! I still find happiness and peace, but I still haven't forgiven them. We don't need to forgive those who hurt us in the most unforgivable ways.
@mmcdonald1000
Жыл бұрын
@@toothpastetoothbrush8114 I agree. I have cut off a few people and ex s in my life that did me wrong. A person that cares about u will not do u wrong.
@toothpastetoothbrush8114
Жыл бұрын
@@mmcdonald1000 Glad you found the courage to do that! 🤍 It makes it harder when it's our family, especially our own carers who do these unspeakable things to us. There are many factors why other victims couldn't escape and move forward.
@ebonystone8890
Жыл бұрын
No we do not have to. People can decide to forgive if they wish to. They do not have to.
@mmcdonald1000
Жыл бұрын
@@ebonystone8890 That s true. I have cut off some people that did me wrong
KEVIN YOU ARE A SOUL SURVIVOR...GOD REALLY HAD A PLAN FOR YOUR LIFE...AND HERE YOU ARE TELLING YOUR TRUTH...SO WELL SPOKEN MY FREIND...GREAT THINGS ARE STILL TO COME FOR YOU...DON'T EVER STOP BEING WHO GOD MADE YOU TO BE...LET THIS MESSAGE SOUND LOUD AND CLEAR...GOD FORGIVES US KNOW MATTER WHAT WE HAVE BEEN THREW...LOVE TO YOU KEVIN ALWAYS.
It is so sad that parents are not vetted…I so appreciate your telling your story. Bless you.
Such a beautiful sharing….love the tone and temperament that he is.🎶💕🥰👑
@UnfilteredStoriesYT
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! 🙏🏻
Thank you for your bravery,Im sad you were a victim of this monster. You deserved better.
You seem like such a kind person! Part of your Dad's emotional unavailability was the fact that he was living a lie himself. He likely never wanted wife and family, but in his time, you couldnt be out and proud. God Bless YOU 🙏🏽
@valkyriefrancis445
Жыл бұрын
There are plenty of people in the closet that don't abuse others. His father was an abuser, don't minimise by explaining it as apart of orientation.
@nkreseknowledge2241
Жыл бұрын
He chose not to be out. Also, that is no excuse to abuse children!!!
@bvpltd1476
Жыл бұрын
There’s a difference between being gay and pedophile
@JG_SmileSOBright
11 ай бұрын
Both of you completely missed the point. I never justified the abuse, I spoke to his emotional unavailability. 2 completely different issues. As an English teacher, it makes me sad that so many fail at comprehension.
Brother I can understand you, my stepphather raped me at 10, with the same manipulation, I remouved the rape and I had to go through psychoanalysis for years to accept the rape, which I still don't remember. I've struggled with depression and suicidal thoughts, and had the wrong partners, but I've always fought. Your Mother was blind like mine, I spoke to her at 33 about the rape, but she didn't accept, hurting me. I kicked my stepfather out of the house when I was 18 to defend my mother and brother. My brother got married And she made it through that horrible time. I had a lot of consolation from God and from judo. 😂😂😂 Il mio Ex husband tried to kill me when I was pregnant, but I survived that too. I left him right away, and after a few meetings I raised my son alone. I don't meet my other half, there is always A mistake. But I always trust in God.
I’m so proud of you Kevin! This is such an inspiring testimony. Thank God for your courage you’re transforming lives. To God be all the glory 🙌🏾
Im so sorry this happened to you. how horrible. No one should blame the victim.
Thank you, Jesus!!! God bless you! I love how the Lord changed you and helped you to forgive your Father. This is such a wonderful testimony! You are loved!
Sir, it sounds like you've been delivered! Keep living your best life, the rest of your LIFE!
You’re a vessel to others,I thank my father God for allowing you to tell your story. This happened to my aunts and it has truly ruined our family you explained a lot of things I don’t understand about them and what they may have felt. Thank you ❤️
I feel your pain, parents are supposed to love and protect…
Love , blessings and healing from God is yours dear beautiful man!!!!💕🎶🥰👑
This is what these paedophiles do, threatens the child that they would kill them ,brothers ,sisters and mother. First,they explain what 'to kill' means...after the child understand it,they use it.
“Just because you had a tragedy doesn’t mean you can’t end up triumphant!” That was beautiful! Thank you for sharing your story & thank you for showing us once again how amazing God truly is! 🤍🙏🏽
I hope more people learn to forgive and be set free through true forgiveness! ❤🙏
@Parrotgirl-Tattoo
Ай бұрын
I found that it's easier to forgive others. Forgiving yourself is the challenge. This brave man is such an inspiration 💙 🙌 ❤️ 🙏🙏
What an amazing testimony ❤️ Thank you for sharing your life with us and please know you are in my prayers ❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏 May God bless you richly today and always ❤️
@katjaxxx7353
Жыл бұрын
Yes. Amen ❤️
Beautiful ending- you’re amazing sir
Thank you for sharing your story. I think it's one of the hardest thing to do is to forgive. As humans we are not perfect but at the same time we tend to forget that. I think once you forgive you are set free of the burdens that have held you down. I'm sending you prayers and blessings. By telling your story you have helped so many people.😊
@UnfilteredStoriesYT
Жыл бұрын
Very well said! Thank you for your support ❤
@milanC4659
Жыл бұрын
@peacefulwarrior2024Beautifully well stated!!!
@milanC4659
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@peacefulwarrior2024 You are welcome and it's the truth !!! 💕
@11kwright
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Whilst people forgive the perpetrators, some perpetrators still go on and continue to abuse and inside stick two fingers up to the forgiveness cos they can’t care one way or another as long as there’s some cover and excuse for them to continue!!!!! It’s a hard one.
@nate2759
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@@11kwrightForgiveness is for oneself and not for the other person. If you do not forgive then that person or persons lives in your mind rent free. Of course that person most likely will never care but, that’s okay. Again, it’s for you and not for them.
God bless you. You are a beautiful child of God. You are a man that by sharing your story, will give hope to so many that it's ok to live life beyond the terrors others inflict. Stay strong. You are an angel.
Such a nice kind gentlemanly man. It's amazing how well you turned out despite all the abuse. God bless you. I've been seeing a lot of gay men who were sexually abused as a child.
You are so brave, and just understand you are saving lives by speaking out.
Kevin, you are a beautiful person. God has transformed your heavy cross into a mission. Thank you for speaking up and not giving up on God.
I appreciate the innocence that can still be heard in his voice.
i hope you find your healing. going through child abuse at home, going through homophobia, its too much for some people. you are VERY strong
Amen! I love this! Your story has encouraged me greatly! Praise God!
@tinadavis2083
Жыл бұрын
Amen♥️🙏🏾
@patriciamorrison187
11 ай бұрын
Ypur heart is solid gold stay uplifted sir so many broken souls
I love to hear Kevin's testimony I don't think I can get tired of hearing it. So powerful and encouraging. Thank you Kevin for sharing, my God continue to use you to set the captives free. Also, thank you @Unfiltered Stories Thank you for sharing, May God Bless you!
You are so super beautiful! Just what I needed to hear today. You're helping so many people. Thank you and much love xxx
What a gentle, honest strong man🥰
My heart is so crushed with all the disappointing moments you had in the churches. Makes me sick to my stomach. I’m so sorry 😞 God will release his judgement on them 10 fold. I’m so glad God did what all his “sheep” were supposed to do. God bless you brother.
@Beautyroom300
Жыл бұрын
God let him get raped by his father and did nothing, now he has to wait on him to release something 10 fold?🙄
@KM-oy5yh
11 ай бұрын
AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉
I’m so sorry that you went through this by someone that was supposed to love and protect you. I was molested by a family member when I was younger and later on r@ped. I was also looking for love and validation in all the wrong places as well. I have now been celibate for 3 years and getting help through prayers and therapy. Thank you for sharing your story and May God bless and protect you. ❤
I'm glad you got your calling, answered and accepted it.
I never been so inspired to write a tell all to my life. You never know how significant your story can be once told if you never think to tell it. It can inspire someone.
Im so sorry about the horrific abuse you went through during your childhood. But I am very glad to hear about your you been saved, very inspiring. Thanks for sharing, and God bless you!
Update: 10/02/21 According to article in ‘PARADE’ in 2012, a psychologist study showed that children need to know (1) that things don’t always work out (2) and you need to know about your ‘Family History’! My comments: Find out how your parents and others were treated by who they thought were their parents, grandparents, uncles/aunts, cousins, great uncles/aunts? Who were their enemies and what happened: who got after them, tried to harm them or who tried to kill them or who killed them? Their dates, places of birth, death, marriages? Their children 👶? Did they go to school: where, when and how? Why didn’t they go to school or further their education? When did they leave home and why? Workplaces? A group member’s comments below: A foundation (family history) is so important ... even if just stories about a parent’s life experiences. Agreed, we need to raise children to be resilient. The other part psychologists are saying, it is important that parents allow children to solve their own problems. Too often parents step in to fix, but we will not be here forever to solve their problems..
@OfficialJoyski
Жыл бұрын
Right I say this all this time when you having a child ❤
WOW - Deep! And to God be the glory for the marvelous thing He has done in this man's life!
That is uplifting . I am so sorry you were so young when the abuse happened. 😢😢😢
This was heart breaking but so common in the Black community. And his mama never loved him, she meant that. The truth will set him free ... he needs to accept that to really heal and thrive ... not just barely survive
Bless you in you're strength Sir..nearly cried with the neglect from you're parents
Kevin, thank you for the courage to share your story. May God restore everything that the enemy has stolen.
I thank you so much for this video and your words of wisdom. I went thru this with my uncle as a child and it took years to over come the damage done. I am just now(at 53) ready to have a conversation with him. I was unsure of how to put into words what I needed to say.... But you have me clarity with how you handled your conversation with your dad. You excited EXACTLY how I feel. I understand why he molested me, I've learned that this has happened for generations in our family. I no longer hold hatred towards him and I have felt true healing with in myself. I'm going to have that conversation! I want to change the generation cycle. Thank you
Thank you Kevin Boyd for your truly God breathed courage and integrity you shared today. Blessings to you.
God bless you sir. You are an amazingly strong and godly person. The timing of your book couldn't be at a more important time. Much needed truths about sexualizing children and the damage it causes. Inspiring. Thank you.
“You are not who you used to be” something we all need to remember about ourselves!
This is a bold testimony! This moved my spirit. Thank you so much for sharing your story. Looking forward to reading your book.
Love his perseverance.
Amazing man and testimony…God will use your pain for His gain and His love for you is perfect and true!❤️
His voice sounds therapeutic to me. I appreciate his transparency & pray for his continued strength in the Lord.🙏🏾
Hearing his testimony is so freeing. I've been so afraid to share more of my journey because of fear of judgment. But the community of support and understanding this platform has created is giving me courage. Scrolling down and seeing the amount of people who have been molested by their own parent is so heartbreaking.
Born again literally. Good for him
These stories about what has happened to men/boys by other men by grooming, touching continuously without consent, and being threatened are so critical to hear. I honor his honesty, vulnerability, and transparency about the effect sexual abuse does to anyone's life. It is so important to understand so there is mass healing and more people talking about it to stop this mass unnecessary trauma. I feel personally the church is the gateway to all this physical, mental, spiritual, and sexual abuse. Thank you for being so brave in sharing your story.
😭😭🙏🏽🙏🏽my thoughts and prayers go out to you my companion died oct 2022 he never got over his best friend being killed he was 51 and died I miss him dearly
Your courage in sharing your story is so inspiring. Thank you & God bless.