How I Freed From My Stepfather's Grip On My Past
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Today on Unfiltered Stories, Robin S. shares her life story with us. From such a young age, she had to endure so much at the hands of her stepfather and couldn't manage to get away from him. Unfortunately, her mother did not protect her and she was jealous of their relationship. It took a long time for Robin to be freed from her stepfather's grip on her past.
She wrote a book to tell her story and show other survivors that there's a light at the end of the tunnel. Her life story and journey of healing continue to inspire so many people.
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@user-kx5lp2ns8n
9 ай бұрын
Hi, emailed you... how do you select stories/or which emails to open? *Compelling* channel *here!* And gratitude for offering a platform for Ppl to *Release their Pain* via *their Voiced Story.*
@anthonyriche552
4 ай бұрын
@@user-kx5lp2ns8n Amen! I agree this channel is giving people their voices back and allowing them to own their story.
Your mother will have to face herself someday. I hope you will continue to heal and inspire other's. 💚🙏🏽
@ceceprincess4758
10 ай бұрын
Face God oneday
I know it takes a lot of courage to tell us what you been thru. Your mother was wicked and evil. I'm glad you got your ex husband locked up for touching your daughter inappropriately and you're going to counseling for your healing. Stay strong🙏
I'm so glad you were able to STOP your daughter's abuser and she's getting help and you too.😃
you are a *very* compelling speaker, robin. you're going to inspire some people to change their situation for the better - no doubt aboout it.
The audacity of him to tell you about forgiveness and to let it go! I've learned that NO ONE on this earth has my back and loves me like God.
@ceceprincess4758
10 ай бұрын
Right
@angelaholmes8888
10 ай бұрын
Yeah it was sick that he did that
@user-uu8rf5su6h
10 ай бұрын
Amen
@681m4m
3 ай бұрын
That part triggered tf outta me, reminded me of my uncle telling me 'I'm sorry i SA you, BUTTTT i was SA too' 😠 as if that justified him doing it.. just disgusting
You said you remember running in the woods and him falling on top of you, I screamed and started bawling!!! I'm still crying writing this. I thought i had it handled, under control, but you said those words and everything shattered. I don't want to feel this anymore, i can't deal with this anymore!!!
@Jolenelpz
9 ай бұрын
Iam so sorry love
@laylay7448
3 ай бұрын
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I'm definitely buying your book! More importantly I'm sorry this happened to you and your daughter. There is light and healing at the end of the tunnel. May God continue to bless and keep you.
Unfortunately like Robin I struggle with PTSD I didn't realize this until I was in my 20,s I feel sorry for anyone victim of sexual abuse who is going through this
Omg when she said you can mourn the living my eyes bulged because people told me the same thing. And how people project their feelings about their moms. You may jave a great relationship and thats great but nobody should he forced to be in a relationship with a parent just because they're your parent.
@angelaholmes8888
10 ай бұрын
Yes exactly it infuriates me when people say that stuff society tells us to put parents on this stupid peddle stool there are some people who shouldn't had children 😡
Robin I'm so sorry that you were abused and treated so horribly in your life you are truly a strong courageous person to overcome the trauma and heal
The way she tell a story is crazy lol. I love her
Your mum is not well. How? What kind of mother is she? she doesn't deserve the title. Being abused in childhood usually leads to making bad choices in relationships. I have been there and still looking for real love. Thanks for having the courage to speak your truth, it is not easy at all. You are a beautiful strong women inside and out.. I pray continuous peace, love and healing over your life 💕🙏🏾
My stepdad abused me badly too and I’m still tryna break away from the past
@ceceprincess4758
10 ай бұрын
Prayers for u
@angelaholmes8888
10 ай бұрын
I'm sorry that you were abused I hope that you will heal from your trauma
@Hipocahontess
10 ай бұрын
They absolutely shouldn’t. It is giving peace to a monster.
@blackingingerpurrin
9 ай бұрын
Omg ❤️❤️❤️sending love your way
@margaretgarana911
8 ай бұрын
You got this!!
And the award for the most inspirational KZread channel goes to...
@spicycreole1714
4 ай бұрын
This✅️✅️
Any mother who would let that monster breathe should be unalived. That is it. That is all.
Amen sister! So many people tell me how blessed I am to have my mother when she actually knew her husband (my biological father) sexually abused her kids from her previous marriage and us. I understand you. Your story is very similar to mine. Keep going, you are not alone.
My mother is alive and I mourn her regularly. I love her dearly as well. Drug addiction overtook her and she was sober for almost a year and I wouldn't trade that for the world. My granny took custody of me and I remember her vehemently warning them to not let our neighbor near me and they felt she didn't have the right to say that because she chose the streets. But I know that no one wakes up and says, 'I want to get on drugs and be a prostitute and not take care of ny kids' No. On the contrary. She ran to drugs because of her trauma. Older generations have a tendency to blame young girls, saying they were being fast. Its so sad. So many broken young girls that grown into women but haven't healed that little girl yet, then they have daughters and that cycle will continue unless they get help. This channel has helped me. Therapy, prayer, journaling and sharing bits and pieces of my story has been so cathartic.
Your mom is a just as guilty as step-father..🎉🎉🎉may Jesus Favor you Always ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@angelaholmes8888
10 ай бұрын
Yes she totally is
We are here for you, Robin S!! ❤❤❤
Wow bless you and your strength 🎉 luv to read your book
Blessings to you, strong & beautiful woman!
I L💞E!!! SHE said ❤ NO one's GOING to TELL ME -My STORY is FICTITIOUS!!!because I HAD TO LIVE IT 💯😣
I told my mother and her baby daddy but nothing changed She told me , I wish you would have kept telling me. In my brain , it was my fault cause I didn’t keep telling . Then the same baby daddy I told with my mom started doing the same thing. Thank you so much for sharing ur story.
@a.bquiroz914
7 ай бұрын
I was told I should have told the aunt of her husband. Then was told everyone knew he was a creep. Then to shut up n quit telling stories. They still bring him and the aunt around I don't ever greet them never. IDC. I know he did it to his daughters too. I know everyone knows. I know that's why nobody likes me. It's ok.
@mobates89
19 күн бұрын
@@a.bquiroz914 I've learned that if I have to be uncomfortable being in a predators presence, they have to uncomfortable hearing about their infringement. What's that saying do unto others that you would want to done to you. An eye for an eye because they love the bible for some reason.
Hi Robin I'm soo sorry you went through all this abuse and grief and pain 💔 thanks for sharing your story with us it not your fault please forgive yourself queen fine you a good church and asked God to come into your life and your family 💔💔💔😫😪😔 soo sad soo many evil people in the world God say let the little children come onto me 😢😢
Uuugghhh..the burger king convo..so deep..you are a great mom..protect your children..even if you werent..break the cycle!
I love that you told your first husband's mom that he was a dead man walking!! You are so strong! I know you don't feel like it but you are! You faced your abuser and saved your daughter!! You are awesome!!
I can only imagine. How hard it must be to, write a book. Reliving every hurtful incident from childhood. I forgave my mother. Even though she never said sorry
@angelaholmes8888
10 ай бұрын
You are truly a good person to forgive your mother
@hopesanchez3501
10 ай бұрын
@@angelaholmes8888 Thank You ❤️ I forgave my mom because, I want her to, go to heaven with God. 🙏
Hello......😊I'm from Washington NC....God bless you
I don't know how robin forgave the monster who abused her not many victims could do that
I remember being in hospital at about 12yo after running away after being ripped to bits on the stand at my stepfathers court case after 6yrs of sexual abuse he got 5yrs good behaviour bond and my mother drove us home again anyway I'd been in a car accident while hitch hiking I hated the gown they gave me so I took the sheet of the bed and wrapped myself up one of the sisters asked me had I ever been molested I suppose because of my weird behaviour I just said hasn't everybody in those days I was branded as a runaway and the police would just keep taking me back I'm 72yo now and have NEVER spoken to anyone about it I remember wanting to kill my mother more than him really I was an alcoholic from 13 till I have been a sober member of AA for 30yrs but these ladies stories are heart wrenching make me feel I'm not alone.Thank you XOXO XOXO XOXO
God bless this women. not only is she is wise and articulate she is full of healing may God allow her to live the best life possible.
I am so sorry that you and your beautiful daughter had to be subjected to this. Thank you for sharing❤❤❤
Brave🙏
I would love to read your book robin. Your very courageous and inspiring.
Some women begin treating a daughter as competition rather than their child. Men too do so (their sons). Idk why parents do this. A child is NOT a competition. Why?
@gabrielleabraham5773
9 ай бұрын
I don’t understand it either but I find very weird.
@pinkpugginz
3 ай бұрын
incestuous bs. a lot of fathers are obsessed with their daughters and their sexual behavior
@autobotdiva9268
19 күн бұрын
narcissism
Your pain is just as valid as anyone else’s. Glad you were able to confront your past and move on despite not having the support you should’ve had from others, namely your mother. Thank you for sharing your story.♥️
I see your pride for your daughter, so awesome, glad you took charge of your traumas.
Appreciate you.
Thank you for sharing. Sometimes we need an anchor.
Prayers for your complete healing and success in life!❤❤❤❤
I'm glad you got away God freed you and your mama gonna have to face judgement someday but I'm glad that you got your daughter away from that sick man as well God bless you and your daughter ❣️
I’m from Washington NC I know how things like that were in NC Thank you for sharing your story
@PlusBeauty-vs6kt
8 ай бұрын
I’m from there as well and it’s full of predators 😢
Thank you for sharing.. 🙏 much love ❤️
WE LOVE YOU ROBiN(!) AND IM S000000 PROUD OF YOUUUUUU 🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🙏🏿
Robin i want to hug you so bad. I love you and you dont know me, its your energy 🤗🥰. Sending you love & light my fren... Keep on keeping on 🙌🏿
Thank you for sharing your story. I admire that you walked out of such darkness as a strong warrior. There is a light that shines out from you. Im blessed to have heard your story.❤
“ cuz I k ew I was gonna have to do time. “ 😂😂😂😂 I know that’s mf right bay bay ! Tuh !
Hi Robin, thank you for sharing your story. Forgive me if I am being presumptuous; I only feel prompted to help. I want to encourage you, please look into complex trauma. There are many videos that you may be able to access and will help you to get healed. Unfortunately, there are not a lot of therapists who know how to treat complex trauma. My story is similar to yours. I have been fortunate to heal. I no longer have the dysregulation, and the symptoms of PTSD, anxiety, depression, no self-esteem, shame, and more I’m sure you relate to.
So glad ALL IS WELL... sending you and your loved ones peace prosperity love and healing vibrations!!!!
Never forget this - you DO NOT owe an abuser/predator forgiveness. Forgiveness is for YOU; you receive God's love into your body, heart/spirit and soul, and forgive yourself for thinking it was your fault all along. It was NEVER your fault; leave them to suffer in their shame, darkness and wickedness. Let them feel the full weight of God's wrath, judgement and punishment. You have a divine right to justice and recompense/vengeance. Even in the natural world, there are laws to protect victims and punish offenders - how much more with the divine/universal.
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Man what a story !! God bless you
Thank you for sharing. It's imperative we continue to raise the awareness of these life altering crimes.
I can’t believe Robin is from Chocowinity, I used to go to the skate track out there. It’s the only one anywhere nearby
I hope you to be alright now❤ the best wishes, never give up! You're really strong and Thai video and how you surpassed and shared this are the proves!❤
You are so inspiring please keep telling your story you are a strong woman
The mom was evil just ask the stepdad
well spoken, you shall have whatever you want. smile
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Your presence is amazing - you speak your story SO well Robin - xoxo
Omg I'm so glad I came across this story.I am working on a film this year and the casting call in this February So I have been searching you tube listening to various stories about molestation and this is really well put together.I'm so sorry you went through that, but glad that you worked through it and that you are speaking out to help others.You are a great mother for siding with your daughter and brave for confronting your abuser.Thanks for sharing your story.May God bless you even more.
Powerful , well said!
Your amazing Robin!
Thank you for sharing your story. 🙏🏾
I loved your story ❤❤❤
Thank you. You are amazing. You’re right that people need to press charges.
Oh wow! I have family from that part of nc! Sorry about all you been through. You are beautiful and strong. Please, stay encouraged ❤❤
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As the man (Gen 1:26-28) KJV, a husband (Gen 2:21-25) and a father (Gen 3:16), the minister of God (Rom 13), teacher (Eph 4) and one of the survivors who was bullied in school, I am so sorry this happened to you. Every time I see and/or hear anything like this, I see my wife or my daughters. If I could have protected you from being harmed by "it", I would have, but I can not be everywhere all at once. (1 John 4)
You're amazing 💖
I'll never understand people expecting victims to act out of love compassion or be the bigger person. "You don't want to press charges, he's the father of your child." Where was, "I shouldn't hit my wife, I love her, she's carrying my child." It doesn't make sense. "Forgive them, they're your family." No, It should be, "Treat those you love well with love and respect, don't hurt them because they trust and love you."
I believe your story 💯 …😔😔😔
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Thanks Lord for knowing me before I knew you 🙂
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Your mother is every child’s worst nightmare. She offered no protection. Shame on her.
I would never forgive any beast, happened to me many times i forgive none.
I hope and pray as mean as this will sound that that officer who convinced her not to press charges has all girls and one day he sees his daughter as bloody and broken as this queen once was and all he can see is this queens face. What a scum bag.
@angelaholmes8888
10 ай бұрын
Yeah that man is truly horrible
she lost me at 6;25 because she went back HOME. Bye
Can’t stand mothers like this, they are just as guilty
The police was trash for saying that
0:54😮wtf
Please do your ancestry.I believe you are Cherokee Native from north Carolina.this will help you in your healing.
6:35 and this is why I don’t like the idea of abuse victims having kids bc their kids coincidentally always become victims too…. They should know the traits better than anyone but no, they just repeat the cycle:
A plain horror story
Your mother will have a fiery place in hell to allow that to happen to you and continue to be with him. How sick can you be to slap and tell your daughter that's my man knowing this man is doing wrong to you.
Im healing with the lord Jesus christ help. But i need to know what do you think is stolen from a little girl when sexually abused? I don't remember what was stolen from me from my dad
@naomigebrmedhin6401
3 ай бұрын
Innocence
Hi, near 10:58 *what* she said... "You can mourn the living!" paraphrased. So profound! But per The #BahgavadGita, some other spiritual text: *The Soul does indeed Choose The Womb!* #DNA past-lives... *DNA = data encoded in the b l o o d from our Ancestors!*
U should have previwed this, u told the same thing over and over!, but not nuch about what happened to u,!
Ur story is too fragnented!
Thank you. 🫂