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I notice as a infj I could open up but most people are so self involved they would not even listen they would turn the conversation back onto themselves

@ally5045

2 жыл бұрын

Omg yessss, same struggle - Fellow INFJ

@guessinfrench

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!!

@PSYCH-O

2 жыл бұрын

Yup totally relatable!

@anglerecendez4659

2 жыл бұрын

Relating! Self involved or whatever information is gathered it maybe drugged threw the mud

@rickhollis6896

2 жыл бұрын

And they would never realize how rare that opening up is for an INFJ

INFJs communicate through symbols...they usually see things/signs most people missed... They are often lonely too but are happiest when with people they love. They only want GENUINE relationships and I have to admit this, INFJ crave for intelligent conversations. Don't bore an INFJ by showing off how rich you are, how powerful you are in a company, and how beautiful and handsome you think/consider yourself... These are my pet peeves and I really hate these kinds of behaviours in people. INFJs love humble people and their keen senses can spot an air of arrogance right away from you without telling it to you. INFJs aren't materialistic people but would want to use the power of money for the homeless and people in most need. Most INFJs are spiritual because they can hear what the universe is telling them. Their souls are in the universe but have to live a normal life here on earth. They yearn to escape into the vast galaxy for sometimes and recharged by the energy of the universe......these are what most INFJs who found themselves and have come to accept their fate deeply long in their hearts and souls...

@AsydTrip

2 жыл бұрын

Facts 💯

@amberblair9377

2 жыл бұрын

I agree, very well written!!❤

@seqkatwinn2766

2 жыл бұрын

Sabrina Wanderer, yes!! Word for word, yes!!

@debbiejohnson9471

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!! Every word!!

@traciewilliams5947

2 жыл бұрын

I would up vote this a zillion times 🔥🎈

I think with time our analyzing & intuition becomes so good, we can almost see all the flaws. Therefore more hesitant to start anything with someone in the first place. I wish there was a button to shut this skill off, but haven't found it lol

@harryboyes2812

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, you are so right.

@PSYCH-O

2 жыл бұрын

Spot on, my friend! 🙏

@NickNick-ml5uu

2 жыл бұрын

Excellently put.

@ianm271

2 жыл бұрын

This is so painfully true, that sometimes I sincerely wish there was a surgery to turn the sense off, snip a wire, snip a stem, SOMETHING...

@howyoudoing88

2 жыл бұрын

@@ianm271 right there with ya 🤦🏻‍♂️✌️

INFJ here and I can read someone immediately and I have very seldom been wrong. I knew the minute I saw my husband he was the one. We were married 36 happy years before he passed. Cannot explain this ability, but it us there. I can feel good people…or evil people as well

Yup; I’m single for the first time in 35 years and am ……. ECSTATICALLY HAPPY!! I’m finally able to experience the actual ME not the me channeling my partner.

@PSYCH-O

2 жыл бұрын

YES! I can imagine the liberation, it's time to enjoy and celebrate yourself 👏

@cindychurch335

Жыл бұрын

Hi Erin, I’m single after a 30 relationship and have been since 2015. I completely agree. Even though more challenging financially I feel light and free. I don’t need material things to satisfy me like before. I’m fiercely independent and have a very rich inner life.

I'm in an relationship with an INFJ since I was born, and that person is me. Often it's quite challenging 😅. But the truth is, because an INFJ wants to help, they are the perfect prey for toxic people. After 2 partners, I think that's enough. I'd rather be by myself, it's healthier.

@PSYCH-O

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, you're exactly right.. Empathy and giving the benefit of the doubt can attract all the wrong people. It's so unfortunate, but very true.

At 67 I've been alone for 15 years. Ended up marrying 2 full blown narcissists. I seem to attract them like a magnet. The worst beyond the cheating, disrespect, lying...is being gaslight! Making me doubt myself and what I intuitively know is not truth. Then I will go for the jugular. That is totally Unforgivable. As I've aged I'm much quicker at disposing of or preventing toxic people in my life and am much happier.

1. Self fulfilling prophesies 2. They are always watching 3. Over analysing 4. They want to better their partner 5. They experience bouts of loneliness 6. 7. They're quite particular with their surroundings 8. They are never truly revealed That's the things I could get

Pretty much spot on. Am so over it... Much happier without a partner... A few good friendships are a lot more productive..

@PSYCH-O

2 жыл бұрын

Yup.. sometimes it unfortunately gets to that point. 😫

@tharakafernando7451

2 жыл бұрын

@@PSYCH-O is that so unfortunate?? I also feel like single life is the best for me

@carolineangelard4274

2 жыл бұрын

Yep, I just ended my relationship, for about all the reasons explained in the video haha... And I think alone is a good way to be, at least for a while! I can see right away if it is going to work or no, this is good in some ways. But for the ones I think it is going to be amazing, I can only focus on the good, and I am not able to see the bad... of course after a couple of months I start to see the bad, and then I cannot see anything else than the bad

Many of us INFJs are also HSPs i.e. highly sensitive people and many of us are what I call "creative empaths", artists of all stripes! "Know thyself"....Socrates! I've been a professional artist/illustrator/fashion illustrator/painter, pianist/composer for over 50 years and we're inherently ,and also trained to be, great observers of life! Taught to be aware of every detail as I was as a former retired NYC fashion illustrator! We have an eagle eye and we don't miss a beat! But conversely if we've been co-dependent in a relationship we're way too trusting and can be blindsided as I was after a 42 year marriage plus three kids, until death did we part to a bonafide malignant narcissistic sociopath, real Dr. Jekyll/Mr Hyde not unlike my late father! We happened to meet in a psychology class at New School University formerly the New School for Social Research in NYC in a class called "Changing Sexual Roles in Contemporary America" in 1973! When one repeats the same kind of relationship that is called "repeat compulsion/; first coined by Dr. Sigmund Freud in the late 19th century /early 20th century. That is because that is the only paradigm or blueprint we have in our head since childhood per psychologists/therapists! Alanon and therapy work and many great therapists here on KZread are very helpful as well in this regard! I like what the French Parisian women say about love relationships and they learn this from the time they're little girls at their mother's knees..."It never ends well, you either go through a break up after an affair, get married and either go through a divorce or two or end up widowed or a widower! So enjoy it while you can if you can! They're very pragmatic about it all and are experts in the field of love relationships and have been for centuries, part of their historical and artistic culture and what most of their great famous plays and famous French cinema films are all about, l'amour, l'amour!! Best of luck, "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger"! Or as the old saying goes, "love IS blind" or can be! Reply

it's okay I have my cats...

@seqkatwinn2766

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!! I always go back to my cats. Lol! >^..^

@stevewilliams5816

2 жыл бұрын

Lol

INFJ want a deep connection and aren't satisfied with superficial levels. I have been married 22 years and still wish for a deeper connection to my extremely extroverted spouse.

@PSYCH-O

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely correct. I hope you can find a way to achieve that.. it's not impossible! 🙏

Basically, we INFJs tend to put way more effort in our relationships than our partners and most other personality types won't even try matching us in that regard. So naturally, we feel bad and treated unfairly because no one else has our level of dedication, leading to very frustrating and painful experiences on our side while our partner simply can't comprehend whats really going on, even if we try to explain. They mostly just get hurt cause they think they're less worth than us or they might think we're obsessed or something. Either way, it's bound to be a major problem if you let that be your problem in the first place. My take on this is, either get an INFJ partner who works the same way as you do, but you know we're rare people, or try seeing things from their perspective more often. If they really love you, you will see the signs. Just don't expect them to be as frequent as those coming from ourselves. This doesn't mean they don't love you as much, it's just not their way of doing things, showing their affection always like you do. So be patient and sit back. Don't make the mistake of being needy or clingy. Remember the fun things you did before meeting your partner and enjoy those. Make them come to you, just every now and then.

Relationships are a Flow chart. When this - this and this occurs the outcome is inevitable. End it now instead. We already know. We hold people to what they say, not how its said. When we say "What you did offended or upset us, please do not do it again" We really mean it and it's an instant "Get Out of Jail" card that you just provided us. Cause we know you will do it again. We wouldn't offend twice in the same way - unless self-defense. Our goal is no intentional harm, too bad others don't see it that way.

Speaking solely from personal experience, when maturing to the point of realizing strengths and weaknesses in depth, there comes a point when truly permanent serious relationships are obviously not likely; the odds of success being near impossible.

@fazzaustralia8932

2 жыл бұрын

Seems to be the case.

@theresagrannen

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@laurentverpeaux2281

2 жыл бұрын

amen to that. Definitely deep there now ;) But found a new strength and happiness thanks to all this new information :)

I got to thank my son for showing me this, I’ve learned so much from this 😂

@PSYCH-O

2 жыл бұрын

That's awesome - thank you for watching! 🙌

I'm an INFJ currently with an INFJ. This video made we want to give it all up. I hang in there because I know his heart and this is challenging me to develop my other functions. He's worth it, but whew, looking in the mirror is NO JOKE!

One of my Grandson's Al's an INFJ. We can have amazing in depth conversations for hours. However every so often we get our wires crossed and then it's time to desist or things become quite tense ...

I have the answer for us. Marry another INFJ! I never made it past 6 weeks with anyone until I met my twin flame. We're exactly the same. We get along so well, it's pretty awesome.

@rupinderh01

Жыл бұрын

Do you know your enneogram types ?

When my hubby asks why I'm being distant, and my response is "I'm just mirroring you dude". LOL

Srop hiding in my closet. Yes, I am an INFJ.

@PSYCH-O

2 жыл бұрын

Hahah cheers!

Omg this is broken down to a science accuracy is mind blowing. Great Job!

I almost fell for an INFJ.. but these videos helped me understand the person better! I am not hating INFJs but I'ma be straight up, if y'all think like this life must be really hard for you guys. Bottom line, yes y'all are very kind but in a weird/self contradicting way. Not a fan. ESFJ-A 🙋‍♂️✌️

@theawesomebenji

2 жыл бұрын

Each person is still very different. If you like this person, why not talk to them? Share these videos with her/him and ask if this is how they perceive life. There's a lot of hurt in an INFJ's life - most of the time they're still learning how to cope and do want to become "healthier". If you stopped liking them after watching these videos, then you weren't that interested. You were just fascinated by the idea of them.

@theawesomebenji

2 жыл бұрын

An INFJ is an emotionally triggered robot.

@grimlockarts8386

2 жыл бұрын

INFJ is a spectrum just like all personality types. I for example am a pretty healthy INFJ-A (emotionally and physically). I have worked through a lot of the issues that a lot of INFJs struggle with and I have them under control. For example I don't over think things in relationships even though I from time to time catch myself starting to. My point is that personality types are not a box, they are more like a dart board. The entire "dart board" target is INFJ for example but one person might hit one area while another hits a different region and has differing levels of INFJ attributes. Best of luck with whatever you decide to do.

@Dev.85

2 жыл бұрын

As an INFJ, you do you. But people with views like these are the reason I have chosen the single life for the better part of 10 years 👌

@theawesomebenji

2 жыл бұрын

@@Dev.85 Hey Dev, which comment are you replying to? The main comment?

I agree 😂 the specific place where to put things was spot on. I think i should have a partner who is truly patient and encouraging, someone who lessens our worries and understands these things do not equate to the totality but something we can work on with help

From my personal experience as an INFJ female, I communicate first and give time for things to change. If I feel something is still suspicious, I will find the proof of the truth by searching for it myself and use that real life proof to confirm or deny the possible thoughts in my head. Then after years of repeat patterns, I decide "yes, this is who you are".

Im just glad there are other people that can summon the forces of the point zero in a stare and raise goosebumps in the rom with a word. Or a strum of guitar....oh yea baby. Vibe reading/control was a game of mine at school with music I would sit play and control conversation flows of other friends. If that s not freakish INFJ rofl. I m looking for my other INFJ unicorn counterpart - musician and all in. Creative force :) Love to all....to eternity, our essences embrace the line of code that enlgihtens the darkest shrouds in the universe. I feel sorry that the flow of tears is unstoppable accross this planet and would like to pledge my souls full commitment to make my life count for the common good, against all odds, I survived and keep surviving. The power of intuition is truly magical and flirting with absolute disaster and always getting through has been a cherish skill. I just feel like I ve had 50 lives already and strangely my new best friend is young 21 year old housemate and I ve never laughed so much in my life, Im 36now. I found new amazing friends Iove life and I don t need a partner. I don t even have sexual thoughts anymore and more complete. Every time I try to connect with someone the intensity emotionally sends me crazy - I can t find someone all in like me.

Eek! I don’t sweat the small stuff. But I do have my ideas of organization 😂 even though I don’t really mind the messy people as long as they don’t invade my space. As long as they let me clean around, I don’t need to hear their complaints or that I misplaced their things or what’s worse, getting blamed for throwing away their stuff. After all, messy people are misplacing their own things because they don’t have designated places for everything. When I loose something I don’t go blaming others for my distraction and actions. It’s very annoying when trying to do something good but you get blamed for the bad things that happen to them. I never had that problem with my husband, he loves the cleaning process even if he has to rearrange his stuff 😂 18 years happily married. I love my life and I don’t suspect when everything is good, just keep on guard because you never know if the unforeseen events can change your life or make it better.

We're lonely all the time even though sometimes we're never alone

“It takes years for an infj to open up” put them with an enfp and debunk that rn

@Great-Beard-of-Zeus

2 жыл бұрын

Been with my wife 20 years. Decided after all these years to finally start opening up to her. My wife is an ENTJ. Turns out opening up to her is the worst thing I can do LOL

@twistedsunshine4484

2 жыл бұрын

Hmm. Interesting. I have not found an enfp to begin with. I will start looking.

@PSYCH-O

2 жыл бұрын

Haha interesting perspective 😂

@oueiouwei

2 жыл бұрын

How can you choose to be in a relationship or even be married to a person when you don't have the feeling you can completely open up and be yourself with them? I'm genuinely interested in the answer because it just doesn't make any sense to me😅 infp dude here in a relationship with the most wonderful infj girlfriend ever

@sunchips18

2 жыл бұрын

@@oueiouwei It’s just something that feels very, very, very, very intimate. So intimate, in fact, that it goes a stage beyond “simply” being married to them. Of course, you can be _more_ open with your partner than you would with others, but truly opening up like that just feels…weird. And even unnecessary because why do you have to completely expose yourself like that? 😅 - INFJ

6:41 - I can't stop seeing a nail sticking out of the woman's forehead......

@who-arewe

2 жыл бұрын

hahaaa! oh my, what is that?? 😂

Except the unknown for what it is! That was 100% excellent statement. Because even with our own thought process we have to accept the unknown which we have very very hard time quitting.

When you are being yourself and better that everyday and share all after a whiles specially years feels useless and embarrassing to even try to explain or communicate because that’s what you always do when u open you almost give the a guide a manual so they know what to expect how you feel etc. when you you start distancing is merely cause we are exhausted, disappointed and try to pick ourselves back into something worth while

Seriously though, stop spying on me

@PSYCH-O

2 жыл бұрын

Haha thank you for watching! 😂

As for an infj oriented video this clip is far too intense visually.. I can't focus on what you're saying because the images change so fast and I keep analyzing what's happening on the video while trying to understand what you say.. kind of impossible 🙈 I like the content but not able to follow up 🙈🙈

I should discuss issues no matter how small but in a harmonious way

“Ironically” that’ll never get old ^^

Funny cause it's not easy to talk it out first with my partner if I feel my partner is only going to throw it back in my face and get angry at me for a tone of voice.. it gets to the point where I just sit there and act like I'm not concerned and smile when everything is far from okay in my mind. For me, I pick up on every little thing my partner does as a love language wether that be telling me I'm handsome or the way she might grab my *ahem* when we're on the couch and start playing with it.. Well if thay goes on for months just like that, then all of a sudden it stops happening, I fear the worst is yet to come.. I put myself in her shoes and will analyze everything I may have said wrong that day or the day before or if I opened up too much and let her see my sensitive side which tbh I fear any woman seeing me cry even during sad movies.. but I can't help it. But then if it persists past that day and now I'm not getting told I'm handsome at all now ill eventually have to ask what for.. To receive almost blank stares like how does he notice that.. Or the ever popular "nothings wrong, I just don't know why I've been like that" It makes me feel inadequate and like I need to run or move on quick.. I used to run fast at those signs but with my current partner everything was amazing up until a week ago when we went to a bnb with her family (mom, moms friend, and "step dad") Well when I was in the pool with her I noticed as soon as the "sted dad" gets in the water she let's go of me and stands in the middle of the pool watching him as he prepares to do laps.. the first lap he passed her by and she still just stood there watching him.. at this point I'm sitting on the side of the pool watching her, the second he grabbed her and started playing with her picking her up dunking her and making her laugh. All the stuff I was planning on doing until I saw that it made me not want to cause I'm just not going to follow his routine with her after. He gets out the pool and she then comes over to me and tries to sit on my lap to my over sensitive ass telling her no way get back in the middle of the pool since you like it there so much.. Then I explained it makes me uncomfortable your not legal "step dad" is playing around with you at 18 like that and she said your right I'm sorry.. The next day it was the same thing again and after that I just shut down. I wanted to leave but they were my ride in so I just hung out in the living room watching AHS.. she sat with me after seeing me out there but it just felt weird. I love her I'm still with her I even traveled all 50 states to be wit her but she shuts down on me so often and when asked why she shuts down even more.. It hurts

@lunade13

2 жыл бұрын

Not INFJ

@Vinny_Capatony

2 жыл бұрын

@@lunade13 guess the Carl Jung test was wrong 4 times in a row then.. Or maybe I don't fit the typical "im an infj everyone, KZread Said I was rare so I have to be it" Because tbh.. I'd rather not be, once I got infp and was happy with that for about 6 months until i took it again twice and got infj each time since then. But your right.. can you please post your credentials as a counselor, physiotherapist, philosopher or even debate class grades if you even have that.. so I know im at least being told by someone I know who has a degree stating they know what type you are based on a comment on KZread? Or maybe your just one of those kids who say your infj and get jealous when you real one shows up.. yeah I think that's you to a T kid 😂

@Vinny_Capatony

2 жыл бұрын

@@lunade13 Infact I find it next to infuriating how people brag about a mental disorder on here like its something you even want.. type o+ blood type is roughly 1% of the population and doesn't require you to have depression anxiety or dumb KZread analyzers telling you what you are and aren't.. a real infj doesn't comment "not infj" because a real infj wouldn't comment.. they'd see it agree if they do or move on if they don't but I've met plenty of infj who agree and I've met plenty I dont agree with.. its called being human either way your personality type doesn't mean you think single mindedly like a beehive of infj's.. it means you have those qualities and your own sprinkled on top. If you don't understand your probably not an inf anything tbh. You probably have no idea what a real infj thinks since most your KZread videos are personal experiences from other infjs.. like one said we like books. I haven't read since 7th grade, one said we only like sad music.. I do actually but some might not and still be infj's.. You have zero comprehension to what any personality type is or what it means. You couldn't spot an infj at a loner convention.. But truth is there rare for a reason and only a few have been monitored by actual psychotherapists so your knowledge is far from correct sir..

@seyiiroko1575

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like a real infj to me. Exactly what I'd do in that situation. Your partner, to me, feels like an isfp😅 could be wrong tho😁

@daisy3869

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry, that sucks

@PSYCH-O Psychology "Considered to have the lowest relationship satisfaction of all 16 types..." Does that mean that INFJs self report as having low satisfaction in relationships or that their partners have low satisfaction in relationships with INFJs?

Are you stalking me? 😂😂😂

Being honest that is being truthful so it's the same thing. Having honor correlates to honesty to be trustworthy. Intellectually intelligent in at least comprehension aspect of it maybe some problem solving skills and the willingness to accept what may not culturally or say society be recognized that's what the truth might be or what it really is compared to what they have documented you know common Sense again correlates with being cognitivity of being able to comprehend whatever you're seeing hearing doing or is being done too

I wanted to date another me but idk man lol. Felt like we would always have stuff to talk about and watch on TV.

Someone should create an INFJ dating site where we can meet and actually find fulfillment and joy with another human being.

They seem to me to talk like they are looking for parents a lot. Like if a kid was looking for their own replacement parent that they missed out on. Usually infjs had to grow up too much, and too early due to issues within the families dynamics. ❤️ - isfj, a, 4w5,slight w3.

That's sometimes to almost probably all the time anything with more than one person or more than the immediate people in their home we feel misplaced misunderstood but most importantly we feel like we don't belong anywhere even if we're by ourselves with no one around for some reason sometimes we just we just don't belong or we just feel like we don't belong anyways why I don't know I haven't even figured that one out yet.

As a INFJ. Sometimes I reckon it's so hard to find someone lol, but it's ok.

I’m married to an INFJ and I’m also an INFJ also.

LMAO yes we are particular with our surroundings.

Yeah they say it takes years to know and I and j that for us to reveal things and sometimes it does sometimes we'll never rebuild them it depends on the person if we are with a person that's completely 100% with us and honest to us that's part of being in a relationship is not lying to each other and being honest and faithful truthful reliable in a sense of aspect depending on what the topic is from importance to non-importance we're there for you we would like and I would dare say even though we don't say it or think it at the time I think we expect people to treat us the way we treat them and if they don't especially in a relationship something's wrong and if you can't be honest faithful as in loyalty and thoughtful maybe in some people's eyes a little bit more thoughtful than what other people expect you to be but where that thoughtful to you at least some of us are can't say all of us cuz you know or all of the genus homo species that is sapien and I would like to say it is in our species but just maybe a sapiens and but I don't know all I can speak upon us at the moment and quite frankly most of us are completely ignorant and every aspect of any situation let alone intelligent enough to copy him what's going on that's besides the point I digress

it is mot sabotage our chances. We have seen it is not acceptable behaviors. Who can stand? judt creating chaos ourselves. we do not need troubles. Our life already chaos from them living outside only hacking thru intetnet and sending intruders. Others may have different value and can accept them. Go to them! My family can not accept too! The signal has been given, why keep continue? I had lost all . is it not enough? sorry thank you for giving your opinion!❤

I completely lost all concentration with the pic of the nail in the gals forehead. INFJ.

Arrrrgh!! Why are you attacking me??? Lol 😅😂 I thought I am thick skinned. I wish I was. 😌☹️

@PSYCH-O

2 жыл бұрын

But at least you're not alone! 🙏Also, skin grows thicker over time, even as an INFJ!

@twistedsunshine4484

2 жыл бұрын

@@PSYCH-O Yeah before when someone call me names I get so offended but now i barely get offended, I mean I try not to take it personally. 😁

Good video, but how come all the people pictured are under age 35? It seems very ageist.

None of these things are really applying with me as the people who a floating around my energy that , i can feel and have been looking forward to meeting, are so allusive in coming forward , past messaging , i don't think i could honestly even tell you who they are. So yeah, as long as they understand that, they cannot , blame me for not persuing , these random, and disguised or just won't give me any clarity, when i ask them, who they are. Which, is the reason i am never going to get anything started romantically anytime soon if these keeps up. So i am not giving in to any pressure, by others , to make blind commitments or rush in without knowing who it ACTUALLY IS. I do not want to go back to r

Ultimately we were right all along!! LOL jk

What the hell is up with the brunette with the nail in her forehead?

@who-arewe

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

Oh yeah you tweezers were there in the first place well of course they were because that's where they were put and if they get put back not only will everybody still know where they are but they will be put away and that's part of keeping your house clean you use something put it back where you got it from it doesn't get lost and your house is automatically picked up from it all you have to do is end up sweeping and things of that nature dusting but putting away your stuff and compared to leaving it sit all over yeah I'd say that's a big thing it's rude to not take care of your own mess we shouldn't have to do it children that's a little different till they get a certain age but then they should be able to do it themselves too picking up their own mess teaches responsibility and respect for others and sets a standard for repetitive processes that may be like work-related getting people children ready for not being someone who procrastinates and doesn't go to work and ends up dying on the street

Exposed

@PSYCH-O

2 жыл бұрын

Oops! 😅

We do seem to want to help the entire human race and other creatures that might exist. It's a worthy call just think if we could do something that helped mankind for as long as we have left but telling the truth and realizing letting people realize the truth of themselves by they can look it up by telling them you are not a different race than I am you have never been a different race than I am there's no such thing as a wider of black race or a Mexican race that skin Creed and ethnic background and neither one of them is a race no matter what the government changes in a book that's supposed to say the definitions. And literally anybody could look it up so please do and then spread the word spread the fruit if you have to cuz you'll have it there's only been one safety and race ever in existence that you will find under human history. Ask when you're looking things up how did the different skin creeds come to be it will give you the answer. But then ask where did the very first sapient ancestors come from. It will give you the answer and tell you how we populated the world but it will not tell you how somehow people somewhere forgot where they were from who they were and became completely ignoramus in almost every aspect of intelligence.

Wait ...are you saying that someone can “push” their partner into unfaithfulness . INFJs know that the only thing they are in control is their on actions and thoughts and sometimes not even that 🤣🤣🤣