What Enneagram Types are the cast of FRIENDS?
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This video uses footage owned by WBTV from Friends. Footage used is intended to add new expression and meaning into the show by analyzing the enneagram types of the Friends characters. I do not own the Friends clips in this video. If you love the Friends TV show and want to know more about their characters, it might help to think about each character through the lens of the Enneagram. I personally think that Monica is a Type 1 Reformer, Ross is a Type 5 Investigator, Rachel is a Type 3 Achiever, Chandler is a Type 6 Loyalist, Phoebe is a Type 9 Peacemaker, and Joey is a Type 7 Enthusiast!
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Thank you for not typing Phoebe as a type four just because she’s quirky! She is such a nine!
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
I agree! Thanks for commenting, Emily 💜
@ranikster9955
3 жыл бұрын
Oh god, I was just compared to Phoebe today lol 😂
@meganh9241
2 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly!!!
Most people type Phoebe as a 4, but I don't think that is accurate. Phoebe is not aloof because she seeks identity, like Fours. She wants peace more than anything else. You can see her wearing a peace sign earring and hates conflict: when someone is fighting, she tries to stop them. She is more passive-agressive than "moody", categorized as a problem for Fours.
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
YES! That's why I am thinking she’s a #type9 . Thanks for watching Alcance Musical!
@Ayhayteyam
4 жыл бұрын
I tend to disagree to a degree. Being passive aggressive is a manifestation of a certain trigger, a form of mood. I am a strong four and have episodes of extreme passive aggression. I have a strong need for peace and justice and that’s my line to T1, an important consideration when typing. It’s important to look at the underlying defense mechanisms. Type 9 is narcotisation whilst Type 4 is introjection which I find Phoebe does a lot of, everything seems to be as a result of her actions (good and bad). What’s CRUCIAL though is looking at the subtypes even more so than the wings as a self preservation Type 4 presents very different to One to one T4 and social 4. It would be interesting to look at each characters subtypes :)
@432HertzStreet
3 жыл бұрын
This is being looked at in a very confusing way. Look at her core fear. its separation, her 'mother' is dead and the others abandoned her.. clearly a 9 - i find female 9s to be quite tough too when they need to be as they have to teach their selves a lot without guidance
As a 3w4 thank you for your analysis of Rachel! I identify with her a lot in some ways and it always annoyed me when people focused on her moodiness or selfishness. Yes we can tend to fall into those mindsets, but she was a lot more as a protagonist and achieved a career and independence even when no one had faith in her! Truly a 3 spirit (w a twist of creative 4)!
@elenasantamariaiselfdevelo7405
4 жыл бұрын
She started working at a coffee shop with nothing and then hustled to get her dream job!love that 😍
If you want to jump right to your favorite Friends character, here are the time codes: Monica (0:32), Ross (2:18), Rachel (3:43), Chandler (5:22), Phoebe (7:05), Joey (8:25) Be sure to vote for your favorite character in the poll in the card above the video!
@schrdngrskat3847
4 жыл бұрын
Abbey Howe Can you do a video about the Enneagram types of the How I Met Your Mother characters? :) I’d guess that Barney is a 7, Marshall maybe a 2 or 4?
Great work on your analysis! Recently binged the whole series during lockdown and had a go at this too. Ross 6w5, Chandler 6w7, Joey 7w8, Rachel 3w4, Monica 1w2 (with a 2w3 fix), Phoebe 9w8 (with a 4 fix)
@Niceslayer263
Жыл бұрын
I think ross is 6w5 too
Such a good analysis, all of them are so spot-on! For wings, Monica seems like such 1w2 (with all her hostessing and wanting to take care of people), Chandler 6w7, Joey 7w6 (which explains why the two of them click so well) and Ross 5w6. Not sure which way Phoebe would go.
@_Juliette_00
3 жыл бұрын
I think wing 8 suits Phoebe more than wing 1 as 9w8s are more assertive.
I used to hate Rachel bc all my friends hated people like her and well, I’m a 3w4 myself.... Man the work I did to fit in, typing myself as a 9 for years bc of that. I still feel a bit insecure seeing her in Friends as my heart is saying ”I would also do that!” but my experiences say ”that’s stupid why is she so shallow”... Fun, right! But I’m growing back to myself, so it’ll be fine. Thank you for the great video!!
@432HertzStreet
3 жыл бұрын
But tv characters are exaggerated for comedy, and also your ego is not you. The Self is who you are. so you can escape that cliche and be a whole person again :) keep working on your Self
@monicacamacho3413
2 жыл бұрын
Bruh stop caring what they think
I think Ross is a 6 though. 6w5 for sure...
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
I could see that too!
@sofiasalazarrivas
4 жыл бұрын
Same! I think he shows himself a little too emotional and a bit dramatic to be a 5. And he's at times insecure and fearing the worst.
@viviannecervantes2806
4 жыл бұрын
@Jesse Derrington Bullshit, no, absolutely not, no way in hell, Ross definitely isn't an INTJ, I've always seen him as an ISTJ, maybe even an ISFJ.
@srijeetm
4 жыл бұрын
DANGER! DANGER!
@king_baallzz
4 жыл бұрын
Agree with Ross being a 6w5. Too nervous and “nice” to be a 5 imo
Monica is the GOAT. Even though she's super strict, she's the one who cares the most about others and she's the glue that makes the group stay connected (she's let everyone live in her appartment and she's the one feeding them all the time while others don't even thank her, I hated everyone for being so mean at Monica in the first Thanksgiving episode). Man, I feel so bad for Monica because she always does her best. My favorite character by far
PLEASE DO MORE OF THESE! I love them. Maybe a Parks and Rec, Game of Thrones, The Good Place, Schitt’s Creek, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, etc!
Do this for the cast of Brooklyn 99! That would be hilarious!!
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
good idea!
My enneagram 1 sister feels so much for Monica. She relates so much to her💖
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
Fanny Razo I love Monica!
Thanks that was awesome! If you are taking suggestions... I'd love to see you analyze The Office Characters
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
I am absolutely taking suggestions! The Office, Seinfeld, and Parks & Rec are all on my list! What enneagram do you think Michael is? Dwight? 🤔
@bbjudyfit
4 жыл бұрын
@@AbbeyHowe oh! Im sorry I just discovered your channel. Off the top of my head Michael a 7 .& .. dwight an 8!
@maiselmadness8904
4 жыл бұрын
great ideas! I would love to see Mrs. Maisel and Gilmore Girls cast!
@8368d
4 жыл бұрын
@@AbbeyHowe I'm a 9 and I can totally relate to Michael in most episodes! He doesn't like it when others don't get along, he can't make decisions so he's always asking others to help him, he is super distracted, procrastinates, he has a lot he should be doing but doesn't really ever do the one thing he needs to be doing (signing checks episode lol), doesn't show anger much but when he does it's pretty big. But I can also see a 7 side to him... Can't wait until your next video comes out! Especially waiting for: "Stupid things 9's do" :) Thank you for making these videos!
@katherinereiley3126
4 жыл бұрын
Abbey Howe I see Michael as a 2 for sure. Just not super healthy. It’s about motivation. He wants everyone to be his friend, to care about him, to want to hang out with him. And the way he tries to earn that love his by being the best boss ever, the funny guy, and a good friend (even though he doesn’t succeed at any of those 3.)
Enneagrams are definitely something I am just learning about through this video but everything you are saying makes a lot of sense. It as a pretty solid breakdown of one of my favorite TV casts. Well done. Oh and P.S. Chandler's my favorite too haha
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
"Oh, that makes me feel so warm in my hollow tin chest!"
This video hit that Venn diagram of being interested in the Enneagram and a fan of friends. Good job KZread algorithm! Also, from a video making standpoint, this video is super well done. The editing and pacing move along well, it flows and never feels boring, and I hope you keep making fun stuff like this. Well done!
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is so nice. Thank you so much!! This video took so long to edit 🤣 so its really encouraging to hear that you enjoyed!! I'm currently working on an Enneagram and The Office video!! My favorite show. 💜
I think Monica could be a 2 - remember when she stayed up all night making candy for the neighbors so they would like her? 😂
@melissajeannek
3 жыл бұрын
I said the same thing cause even though she’s a perfectionist I think her motivation is to be liked/gain love of others. I think she is a perfectionist because she thinks if she’s perfect people will love her.
@Phrema
3 жыл бұрын
1w2 or 2w1
@uprisingsun9105
3 жыл бұрын
@@Phrema yeah, I think 1w2 is perfect for her ❤️
@briannairene185
3 жыл бұрын
As a 1w2 with a 2w3 mother, Monica is definitely a 1. 2’s would not tell other people what to do in the way Monica does. 2’s are not controlling about little things, because again their main thing is they want to be needed. 1’s want to be doing the “right” thing. Monica has a harsh inner critic that she verbalizes. Her criticism towards herself doesn’t have to do about others not liking her, but about herself not liking her, if that makes sense?
@briannairene185
3 жыл бұрын
Monica staying up all night so the neighbors would like her could definitely be with the motivation to do the “right” thing. Or it could be just that 2 wing. I find even my very “2 wing” actions are still motivated by doing the “most right” thing. The only difference is I tend to have less boundaries with my 2 wing
I have typed some other TV characters too! GILMORE GIRLS Enneagram Types: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dWemzqyGnLy4mso.html BRIDGERTON Characters: kzread.info/dash/bejne/oamFw8yKcredibA.html Enneagram Types of THE OFFICE characters: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dISWk6yhfK20nag.html AVATAR the Last Airbender Enneagram types: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iGylrcSkYcfLd5c.html
I am surprised that no one has said it but I am almost sure that Chandler is a 7. The 7 are also characterized by their fear of commitment, because they don't like to depend on others because they feel tied. He's a joke teller and avoids pain, all 7 find it difficult to understand the pain of others and one of his iconic phrases is "I'm not good at the advice can i interest you in a sarcastic comment?", Also he in a chapter says he find it hard to cry. Everything points to it being a 7. On the other hand Joey, in my opinion he is the most loyal, he was the one who supported Rachel the most, when Phoebe wanted meat he gave up his so that Phoebe could eat. He was not funny because he wanted to but because he was silly, and he always worried about the future or changes. Like when he turned 30, every time Chandler moved, etc.
I knew Chandler was going to be a six!! I also relate to him very much:)
as a type 7, i immediately guessed joey was type 7 as well bc ive always related to him on a spiritual level
@432HertzStreet
3 жыл бұрын
how long have you been working on your Self? i know a low 7 who's just unbearable to be around at the mo. im in a very zen state these days so it would explain why haha
I’m a type 1 and I can definitely see myself in Monica!
Yes Chandler is also my favorite character!
When Monica decorates her side of the tree 😍
I actually think Monica could also be a 2w1 because of her desire to be liked and she loves to host people/take care of them. To me it seems her motivation to be liked and desire to please people ( which she says herself multiple times) could still show as her wanting to be perfect because that’s what she thinks will gain the approval/love of others. Just my opinion, but I of course see how she types as a 1.
@Meg_intheclouds
2 жыл бұрын
She could be a social/sexual 1w2?
Can you do this with the cast of Mad Men?
I’m a 9w1. I took multiple tests, every time coming out at a 9 and read through every type and learning the wings.
Even before I knew about the Enneagram, my family would say "you are so Monica!" Yup, I'm a 1w2.
I'm a 5w4 (ISTP), but also a total hippie like Phoebe. That said, Phoebe is totally a 9. Through and through. 9 always comes up as my "second most-likely" enneagram.
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
Hehe love hearing that you are a hippie like Phoebe. She’s such a great character.
@lolavedette7566
4 жыл бұрын
Look into tritypes, you could also be a 9 as well as a 5w4
@NiamhCreates
4 жыл бұрын
@@lolavedette7566 Thanks! I will look into that. :-)
Ohhh myyy goodness!! I just binged this whole series and Monica is the best. (I am a one)
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
Hello Leighla! 👋 Thank you for commenting! "And remember, if I'm harsh with you it's only because you're doing it wrong."
I love friends! It is interesting how everyone types people and why. I think Ross is a nine..he actually avoids so much stuff in his life and reminds me so much of my type 9 husband. I believe pheobe is a 4w5 the bohemian because she doesn't view the world they way most people does, she is poetic , very aloof, unapologetic about who she is,and dramatic about a lot of things..as a four myself I relate to her character. I believe Rachel is a 6w7 because she is always worried about everything falling apart, loyal to her friends, and doesn't want to miss out on anything. I think Chandler is a 5 because his knowledge and life is based on what he knows. He feels incapable with a lot of things you can't learn in a book, he is intelligent. I actually think Monica is a 2w1 because she is always...alays trying to help everyone to distract herself from what she is going through. Like when she helped chandler lose weight..always has everyone over and cooks. Though sometimes I view her as a type three because she always wants to be the best. Extremely competitive. Always wants to be successful. She also is very insecure about her looks. As a 4w3 I can also struggle with these things. I hope you don't think I am trying to be a know it all. Just debating and find the topic interesting.
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
I don't think you're trying to be a know it all! I actually see where you're coming from in all of your points. There's a lot of different ways you could analyze the enneagrams of these characters so it's fun and interesting to hear other people's insights and perspectives! I definitely think Phoebe is a 4 now!
@leaveit2amber330
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for understanding and I agree. Characters can be hard to type because they change so much or they are like you stated in the video exaggerated more than real life humans.
@nathanduarte_
4 жыл бұрын
As a 9 myself... Ross is not a 9 😂
@leaveit2amber330
4 жыл бұрын
@@nathanduarte_ There are different types of nines. My husband is a nine and he is a lot like Ross. You're allowed to believe what you believe and vice versa. Pheobe is way to head in the clouds dreamer as a nine. But , who know we could all be wrong.
@forestfairy8025
4 жыл бұрын
I am a 4w5 and everyone always says I’m a phoebe so I feel your description of her hardcore 🤎
Loved this analysis! I think it's pretty accurate. I will say Ross has a 4ish and 6ish streak about him, so I always had a hard time typing him but I can understand why you typed him as a 5. Rachel is hard to type too, but the 3 w 4 makes sense and she's probably also the sx subtype of 3 which is more moody and expressive and places an emphasis on being super attractive - at least more so than the other subtypes of 3.
You are really good at typing, my mind exploded! btw, can you analyze How I Met Your Mother characters? (sorry if my english isn't good enough)
I took the enneagram test and got a 6... Chandler... IS MY 2ND FAVORITE AND NOW I CAN ACTAULLY SEE WHERE ME AND HIS CHARACTER HAVE SIMILAR TRAITS AND STUFF
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
Disney Minnies YAY THIS MAKES ME SO HAPPY! Chandler is also my favorite 😉
why did i know that i would be joe.... IMMA HAVE TO FACE THE FACT THAT IM A FREE SPIRITED 5 YEAR OLD
ahah u forgot Chandler on "who's your favorite character?",, btw loved the video!
Love the enneagram and love friends. Thank you for your intelligent and humorous perspectives in all of your videos. You are so refreshing. 😍
I am so a Phoebe 😂 the moving out secerlty to avoid telling and hurting Monica's feeling is legit something I've done 🙈🙈
I can’t even figure out my own type and am not very knowledgeable about enneagram, but for fun my own guesses would be that Monica is 1 or maybe 1w2, Ross is 6w5 or 9, Rachel is maybe 3w4 or 6w7, Chandler is probably a 6, but I could also see him as 9 maybe, I feel like Pheobe might be 9w8 and lastly Joey is definitely a 7!
Love this!! Joey is my favorite!
Just found your channel and I love it! You just gained a new sub! I don't know if you've already done it but I would looove a How I Met Your Mother video
@AbbeyHowe
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Noah! I haven't done HIMYM yet but I will put it on the list!
@Noah-bp4gu
3 жыл бұрын
@@AbbeyHowe Amazing, can't wait to see it! I'm binging through your videos right now! :)
Enneagram + Friends = I dying of happiness
Dang. I had my thoughts and ideas about this and you changed my mind. There was so much I missed. Good job! Lol
omg I’m a 3w4 haahha I can relate to Rachel so much 😂💛
And was soooooo not sure of Monica easy for u:) big up
I loove this kind of videos!! Could you do one for pretty little liars??😻☺️
Abbey - I love your videos. You do such a great job making the Enneagram fun and easy to learn!
You should totally do This is us (if you watch it, of course). I love watching the series and guessing what each character type is
im ready for how I met your mother and parks & rec characters types now!
Huge ! Thank you so much ! I love friends et I love enneagram ! So fantastic 🥳
Phoebe and Rachel's enneagrams that you thought are different than the majority I've seen, and I agree ONE HUNDRED PERCENT with them both
Please do more videos like this breaking down other movie characters
You’re literally my new favorite youtuber !
both Pheobe and I are aquarius, enfp and type 9 uhhh but I don't really relate to her except for getting distracted easily and being kind of weird
I was watching friends when I came across this video lol
I’m exactly like Joey 😂😂
You should do a Seinfeld enneagram character analysis.
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
Alan Novak my Seinfeld-obsessed boyfriend has expressed this desire as well
I would’ve though Monica would be an 8. I’ve been told I’m a total Monica and a very obvious 8 as well. All of the characteristics you describe were written in a packet I have printed with type 8 results.
@rhondabryanthistlethwaite5351
2 жыл бұрын
I think ones and eights are a lot a like. Their motives are different.
@carolineforrester9625
2 жыл бұрын
@@rhondabryanthistlethwaite5351 As an 8, I disagree. I think 8s are more like 3s than 1s.
@rhondabryanthistlethwaite5351
2 жыл бұрын
@@carolineforrester9625 wow! Not this one! LOL
Phebee does not run or hid or avoid conflict I think she wants peace in general as in world peace but I see her as a 4. She has her own idenitity and is the most unwavering about standing up for what she believes in Chandler on the other hand avoids conflict he litterally recants and leaves a room whenever he makes even slight mistakes you show the clip of oh we are over we had a fight. He was not committing to girls however Ross decided he liked Carol stuck to her like glue got stuck on Rachel even when he had sex within 24 hours of what he interpreted as a break he stayed both stuck on her and loyal to his mistake of we were on a break. He is loyal to palentalagy he cannot ever admit he is wrong about anything. I don't think he likes learning I think he is educated but we don't see him doing research. I see Rachel as a 3 but I don't see wing 4 more like w2 she is image focused especially at the beginning but she is ambitious. She is not good at working at first but she is ambitious in her plans to work. But she also can be nice to a fault. Monica serves out of a need for perfection and self gratification and self promotion but Rachel gives free coffee when she shouldn't and is trying to help wants to help wants to give back it's not her main thing but is so grateful.
@elenasantamariaiselfdevelo7405
4 жыл бұрын
Love your analysis! :D I think 4s are the hardest to get, because they are so rare and individual! And we sadly tend to crush them a lot in our society 😔
@andreinaespinosa1122
4 жыл бұрын
agree!
Could Chandler even BE more of a type 6?
Do parks and rec :)
These are all very well done! Can you do "Brooklyn Nine-Nine" characters?
Hi! Can you do the same for the Suits cast? Thanksssss!!!
I always thought i like chandler the most - now know why he is also 6, as I am 😁
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
Katie Hildner he’s my favorite character!
I was playing along and guessing each character before you said it, and I got them all right except for Ross. y first hunch was that Ross is either a 9 or a 2. As much as he is "specialized" in his field of expertise, he's also really accommodating and has a "softer" side that I recognize in 2 men. I could also see an argument being made for Phoebe being a 7.
I like it that you think Chandler is a 6, I used to think a 3 but yeah, definitely a 6!
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
Well 3 and 6 are connected on the enneagram so that makes sense!
Abbey this is it;)!!! I m leaving Africa.... 100 % I have already shared ur with phobia Ross Chandler very easy and Rachel was easy for me n thank you for joyee my favorite guy whom I considered as me 9with 8 big up from Ethiopia big up
Love this!:D friends is always fun ;)
Can you do the cast of Everybody loves Raymond?
@AbbeyHowe
3 жыл бұрын
good idea Melissa!
This is AMAZING. 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Erica! 😊
Yay, I’m a Phoebe 😍
no no no!! I've spent a huge amount of my life rewatching this show because it brings me back home so much. Monica- really though she was a 3! I can see the one. good call! Ross- one, so particular about how things need to be. Doesn't understand why can't people just go BY THE BOOK of the history about the world! Rachel- Huge 6! ran out on her wedding TO A DOCTOR. A 3 would never! She is who her family taught her to be and came crawling to there childhood friend on the day she ran out on her wedding. She changes her mind ALL the time. Career driven because she's a hard worker, much like a 6! Chandler- 5w6! Cannot take stupidity but has his 6 wing to help him have the only other F.R.I.E.N.D.S he has. Doesn't know how to act in public or has any social skills and cannot keep a relationship because of this. Phoebe- TOTAL 4!! She is who she is regardless of who she is around. She tried being someone else when she met mikes parents and completely failed and to surprised to everyone she talked about growing up in the streets and was eventually herself because she cannot be otherwise. Joe- obviously correctly 7.
@andreinaespinosa1122
4 жыл бұрын
Also, on the scene you included when ross is arguing with Phoebe you see how much Phoebe actually likes to argue. Joe and ross (or chandler?) were talking on halloween day who's more bad ass Phoebe or Monica because Phoebe is not scare to take someone down for the right reasons. She argues with anyone and on the day she met Dave she literary stopped her show to shut them up. She a fight for the right cause hippie.
I’m a 9 W 6! This explains why I always saw myself in Phoebe & Chandler 😱😱
@brooke8443
4 жыл бұрын
Luz Rivera wings are the numbers on either side of your core number, so if you are a 9, you can either be a 9w1 or a 9w8
@luzrivera5663
4 жыл бұрын
Perhaps the site I took the test on was not correct then because those were my results! Thank you for making me aware
I disagree on Ross. He’s not a 5. He’s a feeling type. His character may be a paleontologist but he’s not a thinker. He ALWAYS acts on emotions. 100%.
I love that Phoebe is type 9. I'm type 9. I'm wing 1. I think she's wing 8.
@elenasantamariaiselfdevelo7405
4 жыл бұрын
Yes!:D but I can see a bit of 1 in her as well, she works on making the world a better place
I'll say it again. You are more than one enneagram type or one mbti type or your astrology sun sign!!!! There are tri-types in enneagram, cognitive transition into 4 distinct minds/sides of your personality in mbti and a whole birth chart for your astrology report for every planetary & house position etc. For example, stop arguing about whether Phoebe is a 4 or 9, she is actually both. She is a 9 in the gut centre, a 4 in the heart centre and a 7 in the head centre. I think the order is 794, she wants to explore but she wants to bring everyone together and likes to see herself as unique and exceptional almost to the point of pretentiousness. 9w8 Exemplified by her mediator, peace-loving, passive aggressive ways. We know she has an 8 wing because she has shared a lot of stories about her more violent responses in times of danger and will defend people and use physical methods when necessary, but she doesn't want to hurt things unnecessarily. Definitely 9 with 8. As a 4w5, and not as healthy about her feelings as you can see in her relationship with her sister who she does want a relationship with but also resents because they are so different. She does have a pretentious identity issue. Also with not wanting to shop for mass produced stuff or eat meat but then doing it in secret in order to protect this image of herself, she lives in her head too like a 5 and pursues deep knowledge in whatever weird stuff she's into(but this pursuit of knowledge won't last long because it's just her wing and she has many interests as a cerebral enneagram 7. You can rule out 3 because she is not as ambitious for the sake of being seen as competent like a 3. She cares more about fairness and self expression than competence as you can see in her music career. She won't actually try to be a better musician and excel like a 3 but gets upset when someone else who does the hard work gets paid and gets recognition. That's an unhealthy 4. 7w8 When she is competitive it's mostly to have fun and explore something new and different. Just like joey she is uncommitted, but it shows up in her career interests, through the course of the show she juggles so many odd jobs as well as joey juggles relationships, she has way more short lived relationships more than most of the others except Joey. This is also why her and joey are so close and attracted to each other but won't go there, plus they have different values but they get each other. Forgive my essay but not looking deeper into this is doing yourself a disservice. From a 749, ENTP,
@blackmamba6046
4 жыл бұрын
This is perfect 🙌🙌🙌! I'm 749 ENFP and I agree. From all the characters Phoebe was always the one I dentified most with.
@lolavedette7566
4 жыл бұрын
@@blackmamba6046 haha I think I am also ENFP actually but I couldn't decide before because I do love a good debate, for a while then I'm over it. I'm just a turbulent ENFP instead of an assertive one... surprise!
I’m my favorite character Chandler ❤️
before i watch this - monica 1, ross 5 or unhealthy 2, rachel 3, chandler 9, phoebe 4, joey 7
I love this kind of videos. Please do this with another series. I really think Rachael is a 4w3 but I agree with the other characters.
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Myriam! I am working on the Enneagram Types of the cast of The Office. Are there any other TV shows or movies you would like to see?
True that..
I loved this! But I can seen Joey and Phoebe being switched. I could see Phoebe as a 7 and Joey as a 9 but I definitely see your point. Keep it up!! :)
What's the meaning of 3w4?
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
Hi Harsh! 👋 I explain wings in my beginners' guide to the enneagram video here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/f5iXlLKGcdnWodo.html
Can you also do parks and recreation?
My favourite character has always been Rachel, maybe because I'm 4w3
Yup. I’m type 1. I’m Monica and it annoys EVERYONE at home. Then again everyone at home annoys me. They’re such slobs!
U should do the Big Bang theory 😍
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
Katie Hildner oh good idea!
I think Monica is a type 8 not a type 1. But the two can be difficult to extinguish.
you nailed it
NOT MOM, CAT!!!
Agree with the list except Ross, I think he's a quintessential 6.
I’m pretty sure phoebe’s an 8w9 though.
Agree with all of them except Chandler. Chandler is such a low 3 (which does appear like a 6) but motivations are different. He doesn’t feel worthy of love and the way he begged Janis to stay with him in series 3 was EXACTLY like my low type 3 ex did with me.
I'm a 9 and I had never notice that Phoebe was a 9 as well, but it totally makes sense. Now I wonder what type Mike is. I feel like he could be a 4, what do you think?
@andreinaespinosa1122
4 жыл бұрын
Mike is a nine, Phoebe is a four. Mike goes with he flow and very smart man.
@purplemind93
3 жыл бұрын
Interesting. I’d say mike is a 9 too. Remember when Monica sang karaoke and her top was see through? Neither phoebe nor mike did something about it xD I love how later chandler went all bananas over it and then Monica was like ScrEW IT. They love me!!!
Ross clearly has a 4 wing, how this is missed is beyond me haha, hes so emotional is his body language and always putting his hand to his chest in emotional heights :')
@riri2575
3 жыл бұрын
And he keeps getting married. Definitely a 4 wing.
@432HertzStreet
3 жыл бұрын
@@riri2575 hes clearly with a wing four if you've ever met a 5 😂
649
Excellent thank you
@AbbeyHowe
3 жыл бұрын
You are very welcome Liz!
I agree! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Why is the title in latin or italian?, I mean, it's readible but I just wonder why
I thought you would do Jennifer Aniston!! No worries though. Like
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
Jennifer Aniston plays Rachel! ♥️
@rds03c
4 жыл бұрын
I also thought the video was about the cast (Jennifer Aniston, Courtney Cox....) and not the show's characters.
@elenasantamariaiselfdevelo7405
4 жыл бұрын
Jozabad Sanchez I am pretty sure Jennifer Aniston is a 2 with 3 wing. She loves to help but also hustles like crazy!
When ur a type so ur none of the main characters
@AbbeyHowe
4 жыл бұрын
I will be doing more TV shows so hopefully your type shows up! ♥️
I think Rachel is a 2