“Maintain a dignified reserve” Don’t get too thirsty.

@woden__

3 жыл бұрын

Dont simp

@treadlightlyorelse849

3 жыл бұрын

Hey that translation make sense

@josephinemarieclayton7254

3 жыл бұрын

@@treadlightlyorelse849 Lmfao

@alternateview8971

3 жыл бұрын

@Harden Thicke you can be nice, just not with the expectation of immediate infatuation or satisfaction.

@angelam5941

3 жыл бұрын

That's amazing lmao

"My dear, we have been engaged for five years now, so I wonder if we might start holding hands..."

@itsalwayshalloweenexceptwh5118

3 жыл бұрын

Quite the opposite, once you did all of the vetting on your potential partner you didn't waste time. Most high society girls and women would be married within 3 years of their debut into social society (going to events, dances/balls). That's where the term "debutante" comes from (not sure I spelled it right).

@theroadtocosplayandcomicco5840

3 жыл бұрын

Well I'm a shameless hussy ... with my boyfriend by week 3 we were already kissing .

@abbyb3582

3 жыл бұрын

My, how forward!

@sallylemon5835

3 жыл бұрын

Nobody engaged for five years. After 5 months the longest, they would be married off.

@whishiwhooshi5783

3 жыл бұрын

"Back off you harlot! Wait until we've been together for 10 years"

Can we, like, bring some of this back? Modern dating sucks.

@thunderbird1921

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely, some of it at least! How much better our society's virtues would be if we did.

@joemtari

3 жыл бұрын

I tip my hat to you

@oliviaingram2406

3 жыл бұрын

*tips hat*

@julianreyes2849

3 жыл бұрын

(Tips Hat)

@whisper6388

3 жыл бұрын

Dating in general is trasg

me at night: hmm, i’m bored youtube: dating in the victorian era?

@June-tb4vi

3 жыл бұрын

😂 and here we are

@iprobablyforgotsomething

3 жыл бұрын

Your userpic makes this comment even better, honestly. x'D

@milzzzw4416

3 жыл бұрын

me rn 😭

@Marybaklava

2 жыл бұрын

Same here 😂

Back when you went to the Pub and bragged about seeing ankles.

@RaniaHaid12

3 жыл бұрын

LOL 😂

@RaniaHaid12

3 жыл бұрын

All comments are boring comparing to yours 😂

@carolynw8614

3 жыл бұрын

@@RaniaHaid12 I agree!! 😂😂

@SWAGTACULAR314

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@eej1983able

3 жыл бұрын

Lolol

"Hooking up" in the Victorian era meant having tea with your boy/girlfriend whilst sitting on separate sofas in a parlor chaperoned by at least 2 adults . . .

@kohakuhime7887

3 жыл бұрын

My oh my how kinky

@soul61296

3 жыл бұрын

Better than being a fornicating degenerate.

@precious1918

3 жыл бұрын

@@soul61296 yup 👍🏽

@dayangmarikit6860

3 жыл бұрын

LOL, that was normal in the Philippines back then and seeing a ladies ankle is also frowned upon.

@cseguin

3 жыл бұрын

@@dayangmarikit6860 Thanks - you mentioned the words "ladies ankles" - now I've gotta go rub one out . . . them ankles get me every time.

Victorian Era: Don’t give false hope or make a declaration in a jesting manner Now: Fake proposal prank/I love you video prank/ Telling my friend I want to date (her/him) prank

@lepotato135

2 жыл бұрын

True lol. I forgot that kids probably still do that for fun these days. Man kids are so mean to each other.

@sharpaycutie2

2 жыл бұрын

The fake proposals are only funny to couples taht haven't been togwther for 5 plus years

@hannahsutherland5518

2 жыл бұрын

Smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

@RafaelHernandez-vx9ug

2 жыл бұрын

Tiktok logic

@Saskatchetooner

2 жыл бұрын

This is only for the trendy people that are I’ll bred

“No kissing. But feel free to exchange hair!” Thank god I still can exchange hair

@crissydee3487

2 жыл бұрын

Lol

Women were encouraged to refuse gifts. A smart man who knew this would send empty boxes.

@joesigl3022

3 жыл бұрын

She lost her cherry, but she still has the box it came in.

@Laura-Yu

3 жыл бұрын

Well in that aspect, I have no class since I’m a sucker for free shit... so I’d know he’s lying 😂

@blasianluvschocolate397

3 жыл бұрын

@@joesigl3022 😂

@maplecolor1

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@realamericannegro977

3 жыл бұрын

@@joesigl3022 😂😂

“Neither party should try and make the other jealous” Sound advice that still rings true.

@adaeptzulander2928

3 жыл бұрын

In modern terms, don't play games.

@GundamChief

3 жыл бұрын

The reactions of both sides is also true.

@laffin_out_loud

3 жыл бұрын

If you want make someone jealous... you buy flowers for yourself and place a name on it.

@laffin_out_loud

3 жыл бұрын

Or maybe not even a name.

@djterry1218

3 жыл бұрын

YES

Someone should start a dating app based on these principles. They’d be a billionaire. Not all people want to live and die in the fast lane.

@warriormaiden9829

3 жыл бұрын

I'd say sign me up, but I already found and married my gentleman. XD Don't give up hope guys/girls! There are people out there that still have standards, you just need to have the same high standards and keep looking. :)

@vaderladyl

3 жыл бұрын

There are dating coaches using these right now out there and on the internet.

@vaderladyl

3 жыл бұрын

@@warriormaiden9829 Exactly.

@sunetrasaha7467

2 жыл бұрын

Very true

@QuietlyCurious

Жыл бұрын

Go for it 🤑

In reality, 90% of these still hold true. The other 10% on on a sliding scale of contemporary acceptance. Respect, communication, truthfulness, and honorability are timeless. If you actually practice them, they make all relationships healthier. It is odder that this is brought up as being "weird".

@FurnitureFan

3 жыл бұрын

I think in reality the couple had to get her parents' consent to marry, and then they were expected to be together for life, so it makes sense that they had to be trained to be civil to each other. Even if it didn't work out well, they'd still have the habit of being polite to each other.

"No kissing, but feel free to exchange hair."😂😂😂😂

@dannma6019

3 жыл бұрын

Only heads hair or ...??

@nellom.8771

3 жыл бұрын

Don't serial killers take hair as trophies?lol

@colinp2238

3 жыл бұрын

And bodily fluids?

@dannma6019

3 жыл бұрын

@@colinp2238 no possible man, remember they didnt have refrigerator back in the day

@colinp2238

3 жыл бұрын

@@dannma6019 They had ice

“So what happened today?” “I saw a girl’s knees.” “Godspeed Sir!” “Indeed.”

@nebula541

3 жыл бұрын

exactly but he would say 'a lady fair' instead of 'a girl'

@theQueen.

3 жыл бұрын

@@nebula541 why a lady fair?

@nebula541

3 жыл бұрын

@@theQueen. idk just a supposedly romantic/poetic way but it's also stereotypical, y'know, like maiden fair or lady fair

@lsjt8924

3 жыл бұрын

Why would he say "godspeed"??

@GucciPucciMIH

3 жыл бұрын

@@lsjt8924 because he’s gonna date her

Victorian era: *made various guides on how to properly ask out, date, and treat someone in relationships* Modern era: Fuck chivalry, etiquette, and guides for long-lasting relationships, I just do whatever the hell I want as long as my genitals get satisfied. (Honestly, sometimes I do feel like we are just evolving backwards lol)

@planderlinde1969

2 жыл бұрын

We make fun of the 50s and times like these but there was one thing they understood then that we don't now in the west Human Nature

ladies literally all we need to do is keep emphasising that this behavior is really attractive. that will bring this back. we need this on a big scale, why tf are we just putting up with careless men who gave up on manners? now I understand this youtuber’s opinions on “traditional feminism”, why should we devalue ourselves and just put up with shitty treatment? we should always go for high quality men like this. I KNOW judging from how everyone is so positive about this, that you want this quality in men.

@Lizzy128comm1

3 жыл бұрын

PREACH

@deadshotruby6667

3 жыл бұрын

@@sofiasfae1846 Well... you're totally not being creepy whatsoever.

@oliveryt7168

3 жыл бұрын

I doubt you'll have much uccess with it. The world won't ever be like that. Society wants freedom over rules.

@deadshotruby6667

3 жыл бұрын

@@oliveryt7168 They're not really rules, they're really just manners and basic things people should know when looking for a relationship. Conduct yourself however you see fit, but there are ways to interact with people that'll make you seem respectful and well mannered, and this way of life was all that was.

@janiceconnolly8740

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe if people weren’t having sex on the first date and actually got to know each other, people wouldn’t feel so used and discarded. It seems there were more respectful ways to date in the Victorian era.

Many of these "dating etiquettes" seriously need to be revived.

@Laura56to

3 жыл бұрын

Not really

@IAmJustAPerson-

3 жыл бұрын

@@Laura56to if you're a girl, u would say no, no offense of course

@kendob9642

3 жыл бұрын

Not enough whites left, imagine thinking brown people have the self-control to adhere to these courtship rules LOL

@kendob9642

3 жыл бұрын

@@yodaoncrack325 does too

@kendob9642

3 жыл бұрын

@@yodaoncrack325 completely agree. You deny science when you claim that genetics don't affect behavior. It's disgusting and sad

A lot of this is genuinely sound advice. However, I'm sure most of them weren't really followed in real life.

@kamilaganihanova5071

3 жыл бұрын

This totally could be 21st century dating advice if reworded.

@p.art4705

3 жыл бұрын

@@kamilaganihanova5071 I completely agree. And it should be integrated...it sure does make a lot of sense than the advice people have been taking now.

@bluesmurff6163

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, and prostitute and bordellos were everywhere. Men might have been classy when looking for a while, but not all the time

@tigercap100

3 жыл бұрын

We'd be better to adjust the balance twd Victorian ways!

@Native079

3 жыл бұрын

I was about to say this!

Aww I married a perfect gentleman - and thank goodness for that, there is no one else I could have survived the lockdown with.

@sarahdoanpeace3623

2 жыл бұрын

That’s so sweet!

@chrissteinke5535

2 жыл бұрын

🥳🥳🥳

@Ami-jc2oo

Жыл бұрын

This is love ❤

My Great Grandma was 16 when she met my Great Grandpa and he was 26 🤢, he gave her a bracelet while pursing her and her father said “you shouldn’t accept gifts from men like that they’ll expect something in return”, she responded with “he knows I don’t have a job, what could I give him?” Her dad wasn’t happy with her response. 😂

@joku8519

Жыл бұрын

Why the puking emoji?

@kannakye9359

Жыл бұрын

@@joku8519Age gap

@joku8519

Жыл бұрын

@@kannakye9359 well I mean in my country the age of sexual consent is just exactly that,16. So as long as the other person is at least 16 I see no problem with 10 year age gap.Besides the comment implied that they ended up having children and forming a family(I mean obviously the person would not be writing this comment if they didn’t form a family) but still if all went well for them I think it’s little disgusting from the original commenter to refer with a puking emoji to his/her great grandparents,because without out them getting married and having children the original commenter wouldn’t exist so I think it’s kinda… disrespectful… even disturbing don’t you think?

@Lou-li5mv

Жыл бұрын

@@joku8519 bro dating a 16 year old when you're 26 is a whole different story than dating someone who's 46 when you're 56. a lot of development happens during teenage years and adolescence personality-wise. one is a grown adult, one is barely more than a kid. in my eyes, dating somebody so much younger is exploiting them for their naivité. so that age gap IS concerning , no matter what legislation says .

@joku8519

Жыл бұрын

@@Lou-li5mv tell me you’re from west without telling me you’re from west.

I like these etiquette rules. "Dont make a partner jealous, dont flirt around, dont toy with peoples feelings, dont be overly affectionate in public (to the point where u make others uncomfortable)..." Is it just me or does it seem like common sense has left humanity in our day and age? We tend to do the exact opposite as the victorian era encouraged people to do

@JewelBlueIbanez

3 жыл бұрын

It has

@emilymalden3310

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes the rules were too strict, but some should still apply today, but sadly morals and class has gone downhill. I was a young adult in the 90's and already feel ancient. Scary.

@sallylemon5835

3 жыл бұрын

Our common sense did not left us just like that. We were brainwashed by the Illuminati, began with losing religion to slowly corrupts the society to this low grade. What are their tools? TVs and celebrities.

@yunantheobserver6841

3 жыл бұрын

It's because today, we people are encouraged to spread our wings and be free. While I don't have problems with freedom and trying new things, most people seem to forget the memo that freedom to try new things does not mean freedom from consequences.

@marlonmunguia163

3 жыл бұрын

@@sallylemon5835 I would say that it was the free-masonic libertine spirit after the French Revolution that was revived in the 60s. The same people who hated the Church and sought to destroy morality.

There are a lot of great points in here: 1. If they treat you badly in courtship, walk away because they'll be a bad partner. 2. Don't make eachother jealous 3. Don't pick fights 4. Don't lead people on (be upfront with your intentions, don't accept "gifts" or advances from everyone, don't flirt with everyone). 5. Stand up for the person you want to be with, and give them your full attention and loyalty. If you take out the weird gendered stuff (men are responsible for everything and women are emotionally frail), this is great advice for healthy relationships.

@mandypandy111ify

3 жыл бұрын

I would agree! Though I think the advice of never accepting gifts was stupid and a bit extreme.

@mkat8505

3 жыл бұрын

@@mandypandy111ify I can see how it might seem silly at first, but this was actually a major issue for me in my youth. My mother always encouraged me to accept gifts from boys from a very young age. The attitude was "that's just how it's done"; men buy ladies dinner and gifts. Not only is this unfair to men, but in accepting the gifts an expectation is created that something will be given in return, continuing the displays of affection until a formal relationship evolves. I was never able to be upfront with my feelings, so not accepting favors or gifts from people was a clear way of setting boundries. Lesson learned: Don't accept gifts if you do not intend to repay the kindness (that'd be rude), and don't encourage someone to believe they can buy your affection.

@djterry1218

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with this!

@Anna-B

3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree!

@TheAyanamiRei

3 жыл бұрын

​@@mkat8505 I think the general rule of don't accept any gifts you are not willing to give back is a good general rule. Yet I think there are times when it shouldn't apply. Like if someone offers to buy your meal due to a significant wage difference. As with all rules, context matters.

do i live in the victorian era? no do i have hours of overdue homework? yes do i need to know about dating in the past? no way do i have literally any reason to watch this video? no am i going to watch the entire thing? definitely

@kathrynballstaedt2562

2 жыл бұрын

Dude, literally exactly what just went through my head...its finals week and...I somehow think watching this is what I should be doing

@_xxjust_indigoxx5445

2 жыл бұрын

I can relate-

@brooklynsmythestudentmhs7975

Жыл бұрын

hotel? trivago

@kittyrabies

Жыл бұрын

Same except i live in the victorian era

@hamiltonjames8255

Жыл бұрын

am i going to watch it multiple times? oh, boy you bet

My husband was born and raised in West Virginia and until he ended up extremely sick and passing away, he held my hand and also kept me to the inside area of the road....we had 42 years together before he passed away... four kids, 16 grandkids and 6 great grandkids...we dated for four days before we got married he was my soulmate

@Jaylalalaa

2 жыл бұрын

Awww I'm sorry he passed away :(

@wandamontgomery6030

2 жыл бұрын

Aww I'm sorry for your loss

@chrisj8244

2 жыл бұрын

My condolences

@selaniesanchez29

Жыл бұрын

Aww 😢😭❤❤❤

@Ami-jc2oo

Жыл бұрын

Wait how did your marriage work? Give me advice. Please ma'am. (I'm a young woman)

"You'll _never_ guess what I saw today." "What?" _"Knees._ I saw a woman's _knees."_ _"No."_

@Its_Me_Ashi_

3 жыл бұрын

how vulgar ! tsk tsk

@oliviarouse2361

3 жыл бұрын

@Fred Forbes that’s because having sex before marriage is a very normal thing now but a lot of people still receive shitty sex Ed, and therefore when people do have sex before they’re married, they aren’t as educated on protection as they should be

@bonniehowell4259

3 жыл бұрын

"Gentleman, you would be distraught of the provocative act I recently witnessed: an ungodly woman engaged in exposing her bare ankles in a lustful manner outside of the direct vicinity of her approved chaperone during our approved outing". OP(s) : "Whatttttt?!?!?"

@Basedhistoryenjoyer

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao imagine if time travel existed and they saw hentai. They'll probably freak out.

@user-xs1pp9oi5z

3 жыл бұрын

@Fred Forbes maybe everyone doesn’t wanna follow the terrible old religious “rule”

I actually find some of these rules to be quite refreshing. The walking closest to the street, helping her in and out of the train, not being too forward, being honest about his intentions. Like.....yes, I'll take this.

@Hannah-zw9ow

3 жыл бұрын

@Caramel Cupcake unless you’re dating a sex doll you don’t have to worry about whether we’re real or not.

@reymichaelsungazornosa4040

3 жыл бұрын

@@Hannah-zw9ow why date a doll when you can make a date in your mind

@yungmoist6188

3 жыл бұрын

my boyfriends still always walk closest to the street for me

@L.M788

3 жыл бұрын

@@yungmoist6188 same, except our reasoning in my family is different. In my family or the culture where I'm from or however you want to say it, men walk on the outside of the streets because of back in the day there would be Drive-Bys. It's for the women's protection.

@_TSC_46

3 жыл бұрын

YO WHERE DO YOU LIVE I WANT A TRAIN HELL YEA

I absolutely love the...let your intentions be known immediately and don't give false hope. Dating would be so much easier😆

Tbh, I like their rules. I think there'd be more successful marriage if many of these rules are still being practiced now. Also, I can imagine how polite people are in that era. We need more of that today.

@kathleenking47

8 ай бұрын

Things may go on cycles We need more decorum.. Pre 1970s When I was a kid, I've always thought Making love was kissing It was in Hollywood movies until The late 60s

Also I love how there are ppl who genuinely think abuse was just ok and acceptable back then. One of the rules literally tells women to leave if the man is domineering and quick to anger.

@LareesieAlice

3 жыл бұрын

I caught this too. Having come from a marriage like this, this advice would have made a huge impact on my then sixteen-year-old self.

@hangukhiphop

3 жыл бұрын

Great point! But keep in mind, definitions of abuse change over time

@joobletmaster5000

3 жыл бұрын

It encouraged this *before* marriage, not after. It also essentially said that, if a man were to "act out," or to behave in any cruel manner, then it was the woman's fault for provoking him. Don't underestimate the cruelty of the culture these people were living in.

@lilygamingtheories1410

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah but it still happened a lot

@melissasaint3283

3 жыл бұрын

@you know I am right pp ...You think most 40 year old women fatalistically think they have to stay with an abusive spouse? Are you....twelve?

"Not every young woman is eager to fall in love with you" SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE NECKBEARDS IN THE BACK

@yashminjamal6517

3 жыл бұрын

@The Absolute Madman ikr

@sandsand9403

3 жыл бұрын

@Thornback Because they’re horny bastards who, after getting into a relationship with such a woman, will then constantly berate her about her flaws and stare at other women because she doesn’t have the ideal “photoshopped” face and body.

@azula9830

3 жыл бұрын

lmfao for real tho

@MrPek-fe9fp

3 жыл бұрын

@Princetealu what? Thats internet cultures cornerstone

@dudanunesbleff

3 жыл бұрын

The fantasy on the back of most men's mind, maybe? Nowadays, there is the spin-off fantasy that every women is always eager for sex, regardless of who the sex partner will be. Some women believe it, too.

I want there to be an ITV dating show where singles have to go live in a country cottage and abide by these rules lmao

@melfina2938

2 жыл бұрын

I would binge that

@tom-boii3156

2 жыл бұрын

@@melfina2938 same

@healerofthewaters6508

2 жыл бұрын

To live in a cottage ALONE TOGETHER? With no CHAPERONES of any kind?

@xtashax

2 жыл бұрын

@@healerofthewaters6508 Silly me, how could I have forgotten the chaperones?!

@zachrobinson8357

2 жыл бұрын

I might actually watch a dating show if this was the premise lmao

“To accept a gift would encourage ANOTHER.” I’m not seeing the drawback! 🤷🏻‍♀️

@turdferguson9923

2 жыл бұрын

A proper gentleman would do good to politely pass on you my lady.

Let's be real here - a significant portion of these rules need to come back.

@jaakkojuhani414

3 жыл бұрын

All of em*

@Nat-sj4nn

3 жыл бұрын

Are you demi? I am too... I think that's why I agree with you on some of the politeness these etiquette books were talking about and being slow in dating.

@FastForwardPlans

3 жыл бұрын

I've no interest in being a disposable tool. But yes a few do.

@Smooshes786

3 жыл бұрын

If the rules were not gender bound, some are nice ideas.

@rockstarofredondo

3 жыл бұрын

@@Smooshes786 The roIes are different so the responsibiIities are different as weII. PerfectIy sensibIe.

I didn’t expect to be surprised in a positive way... some of these things need to come back

@pleaseparkjimininmygarage-6212

3 жыл бұрын

i agree, i thought all the rules would be really extreme but some of these should be brought back

@odd-ysseusdoesstuff6347

3 жыл бұрын

@@pleaseparkjimininmygarage-6212 I second the motion!

@elisabethfancher7483

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah all except for the sexist ones

@elisabethfancher7483

3 жыл бұрын

Towards men or women

@__-fl3yt

3 жыл бұрын

I am a mexican in the 80 and 90 we still try to follow most this rules, they were a good sign if the person you were dating was a good prospect.

I was taught by my parents to give the inner side of the pavement to a more vulnerable person, like an elderly or a child (even if only passing by). I think that is a sensible idea and to this day when I see a parent with a child, I move towards the curb (unless it causes a manoeuvre hassle, of course) to minimize the risk of an accident.

@Ami-jc2oo

Жыл бұрын

What a nice gentleman/lady!!

@funfings842

7 ай бұрын

i like this!

"No kissing just exchange hair" wow lol

"If you really wanna get to know them, take a trip with them." That... is actually a very good advice.

@itsalwayshalloweenexceptwh5118

3 жыл бұрын

My mother said that if I wanted to find out a man had a bad temper, then go on vacation with him. There's nearly always something that goes wrong when on vacation, such as a train delay or traffic congestion, and this reveals how that person deals with those annoyances.

@XSemperIdem5

3 жыл бұрын

You also get to see how they treat staff at various businesses.

@thunderbird1921

2 жыл бұрын

My parents actually did that when dating back in the 70s (though they stayed in different rooms, of course). Evidently it went well, since I'm here!

There are many times in history I wish I could have visit/live in, but then I remember, no toilet🚫 🚽

@TwinsBigLikeTia

3 жыл бұрын

And worse... no toilet paper 😟 not to mention disease, filth and 1/10 chance of dying in childbirth 👍

@Laura-Yu

3 жыл бұрын

This, so much of this. And no internet.

@macaryl95

3 жыл бұрын

There were always toilets in alleyways, right next to the lepers.

@AmyBlack1206

3 жыл бұрын

Well there were toilets, they were just outhouses up and away from your house. Ugh. No inside hot shower either. I think I’ll pass. Lol

@thunderbird1921

3 жыл бұрын

Medieval castles sometimes had toilets, bizarre they took them out of houses in the centuries followed.

People these days are wild. I think these Victorian era etiquettes should come back to modern life. Nowadays it feels like manners only matter to women, men really don't care about women's feelings or follow basic manners. There is no proper flirting dating or anything, even a short single conversation with a straight male friend indicates signals for sex, even friends/colleagues ask for benefits lol. I sometimes wish I could go back to the times when you had to marry to have sex, ride a horse for miles just to have tea with the woman you love. Since it became way too easy to reach someone's bed, no one wants to marry until their thirties or at all. Today dating is a headache for religious or simply conservative women/men like me who want serious relationship which leads to marriage.

@sitcomchristian6886

3 жыл бұрын

Don't worry, just because the dating guide says it doesn't necessarily mean people were actually following the guides. Don't compromise on what/who you're looking for! Better to hold out than to settle. We can't go back in time, but you can keep your integrity.

@artfullyanjali

3 жыл бұрын

@@sitcomchristian6886 agree with you. Honestly look up Victorian hypocrisy. They had a ton of rules but men had easier time not following them than women who were constantly in their houses and couldn't leave it like their husbands to go see a prostitute yet maintain a noble image.

@mizzymsp

3 жыл бұрын

yes I’m kind of conservative too, I don’t know why. I would consider extra stuff only if I know I will marry the man. but even then I don’t have any hope at all that marriage will stay in place... I was discussing manners with my dad and he agreed with me, but he was raised pretty traditionally in boarding school.

@amariafrosty4696

3 жыл бұрын

I couldn’t agree more.

@laylascott6096

3 жыл бұрын

It goes both ways with manners. Women play games too. I did for years. Online dating has really, really turned dating into something very strange. Almost like a game. I expected to be horrified by this video as I consider myself a feminist but I really found a lot of this refreshing.

One of my previous boyfriends always used to gently maneuver me to the inside of the sidewalk and take the street-side sidewalk half. It always struck me as remarkably gentlemanly. Which makes sense because, while he was not the one for me, he was (and presumably still is) a remarkable man.

@Ami-jc2oo

Жыл бұрын

Your a respectable lady!

My father always walked on the “street side” of the sidewalk. He said to never be friends with anyone who doesn’t follow this rule. Also, adults walk on the street side when walking with children.

@staceykersting705

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, my sons do that to this very day.

@LuvCroissant

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, my father taught us this. And when I was with my brother he'd make sure I walked in the inner part of the sidewalk. I didn't understand it, but I did the same if I was walking with my little sister or a younger person just from the taught-habit. To protect them I suppose.

@Clara-uw2lb

3 жыл бұрын

Personally, I like to walk on the outer side but if a boy takes it, I will happily walk on the inside.

@-_leslielopez_-1619

3 жыл бұрын

My brother does this to me and honestly I think it's kinda sweet lol.

@isabelmartinez3811

3 жыл бұрын

Being a girl or guy is no reason for one to take the initiative to do this (in my book) but rather just out of courtesy for anyone you are accompanying out of curtesy/manners. I have done this with friends (older and younger), family (men and women alike), and acquaintances (formal and informal) 🤷

I suspect that this should really be titled "What Dating Was Like for the Upper Class in the Victorian Era" as the middle and lower classes probably had different behavioral expectations by nature of their standing in society. I'd love to see a video discussing the dating scene for the "normal" folk.

@dinakisa1049

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you. Also the sources used in this video were books to guide one on dating. It doesn't portray what truly happened

@missbraindamage

3 жыл бұрын

Me too!!

@mimislattery2264

3 жыл бұрын

People are people are people. Generally people were more normal then.....not like dtf generation. Ugghh!!!

@roxyd2066

3 жыл бұрын

Well... I' m not from the upper classe but noticed some of these rules are up. I noticed men usually walk next to the sideway and noticed way before this video thant all my boyfriends (+ dad) sleep on the Side of the best closes to the dor...

@roxyd2066

3 жыл бұрын

+ good for women to be egal... Still feel like a... Let's say.... Love not exist. I' m an object for men' s pleasure. 😪

Literally half of this is what dating truly is supposed to be like

Years ago, in the 60s, Art Linkletter asked a young boy why a man always walks closest to the curb when walking with a lady. The little boy said, "so the man gets hit by the car first."

that moment when you realize the Victorian dating scene was probably much more sane than the 21st century dating scene.

@rihabsghaier7327

2 жыл бұрын

21st century progression is a scam, i'd say we are regressing as human beings

@hedgehogthesonic3181

2 жыл бұрын

@@rihabsghaier7327 For sure, specially in the USA, California.

@thunderbird1921

2 жыл бұрын

In the last 30 years, western society has regressed in almost every way except in technology, and sometimes even in that. Materialism, instant gratification, narcissism and insincerity have almost never been worse. The old eras had their flaws, but MY GRACIOUS do we need to bring back some of the good elements from them!

@thunderbird1921

2 жыл бұрын

@@rihabsghaier7327 Truer words never spoken. Even the 1980s had better manners, virtue and honor in culture compared to the vice-enabling, toxic madhouse that we let the 21st Century culture turn into.

@partypooper6057

Жыл бұрын

Same

The old definition of 'making love' actually makes more sense.

@oliveryt7168

3 жыл бұрын

Nowadays it's only s..

@adrianmalmstrom2771

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, it’s kinda sad

@notamemethememe589

3 жыл бұрын

Truly sad how some words have their meanings twisted, such as with "touch" or even "daddy." I can't bear to call my dad that, even though I've done it my whole life, in public. It makes me feel ashamed and embarrassed when I shouldn't be.

@Emma-zm1qn

3 жыл бұрын

@@notamemethememe589 honestly... especially endearing words children use like "daddy" should never have become sexual. It's seriously disgusting....

@Mannon777

3 жыл бұрын

@@Emma-zm1qn oh come on how it's disgusting

"Not every young woman is eager to fall in love with you." can apply to the women as well. No, I'm not hitting on you when I ask you "Are you okey?" I'm asking you because you just fell down from the second floor.

@kdubs83

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

“Protect from being hit by a runaway carriage” naw I’m not trying to die when I haven’t even seen your ankles

@sitcomchristian6886

3 жыл бұрын

I mean, you could definitely chance me getting hit by the carriage since you'll likely see my ankles then. However, I'll also be dead. So, there's that.

@MIA07

3 жыл бұрын

Lmaooo😭

@Kolibri71

3 жыл бұрын

You don't deserve her ankles if you're not ready to die for them.

@pofromteletubbies1243

3 жыл бұрын

@@Kolibri71 well said

@ambeg6743

2 жыл бұрын

@@Kolibri71 yes she is a prize, more of a trophy, object like thing, to be won by men. CLASSIC THOUGHT PROCESS, WELL DONE.

I was expecting these to all be horrifically sexist but was pleasantly surprised lol. Some of the advice was very reasonable.

@michaelsantos8377

3 жыл бұрын

Men aren't monsters lady.

@Darkstalker212

3 жыл бұрын

Lol That's back when chivalry was alive. Now it's about *equality* ..

@12enriq

3 жыл бұрын

@@Darkstalker212 And that's good.

@sologrey1288

3 жыл бұрын

@@12enriq till it doesn't benefit you.

@12enriq

3 жыл бұрын

@@sologrey1288 Why will not benefit everyone?

not gonna lie, most of these makes sense more than the dating behaviors nowadays.

Some of these etiquette rules should be brought back. For both genders

@thunderbird1921

3 жыл бұрын

For sure, as a guy I've seen WAY too many girls just use men to get what they want or at least make the relationship tilted one way. Of course, my fellow men ABSOLUTELY need to clean up their act in some ways as well (such as their attitude and ESPECIALLY their language, for graciousness sake!), but I long for days when more couples actually cared about each other MUTUALLY and were willing to at least try to be there for each other whenever possible. It's awful when guys are told to just shape up, shut up and not express pain (sometimes because the girl doesn't want to hear about it). Even many of the most powerful men in history (the good ones) showed emotion many times.

@warriormaiden9829

3 жыл бұрын

'Happy spouse, happy house'. Those are the words I live by. Seems to have worked, 'cause my hubby and I have been married for almost 7 now with no fights. We've had our disagreements, yes, but we have never fought. Takes effort from both sides to make a good relationship thrive. :)

Let’s bring (most) of these back!

2020: *me trying to find a date in 2020* Covid 19 appears Me: *maintaining a dignified reserve 😳*

@xxxacu

3 жыл бұрын

😭😭😭

@DeafLord18

3 жыл бұрын

Just finished my masters and got my company running and was going to make 2020 my year to date. Hahahaha....haha...instead I just spent three hours wiping groceries so my mom and sister are safe.

@AllisonWonderland101

3 жыл бұрын

I had a bf for the first time in years and it turned out like the rest of 2020: intense, emotional, and traumatic. Lol I’m better off alone

@AllisonWonderland101

3 жыл бұрын

quan Brooklyn kid thank you!

@romanovalicky

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

5:34 "A lifted hat. [purrrr]" I f*ing lost it. XD

@satanswife2546

3 жыл бұрын

Same damn it

@returnoftheromans6726

Жыл бұрын

Lol, me too. Was definitely NOT expecting that!

I wouldn’t mind most of these ‘rules’... I’m starting to believe that, perhaps, I may have enjoyed courtship more in times gone by...

@ambeg6743

2 жыл бұрын

What if u liked a man, but he does not approach you, and you were bound by these rules to not approach him. And why refuse gifts from someone you love? Sure some of these rules makes sense but an equal amount don't.

@Pau-hl1zg

2 жыл бұрын

@@ambeg6743 its not like most girls take the iniative in today's world anyway. Also, it says to refuse gifts from random people, not the man u love, as it may create an expectation of something in return

@trianglemoebius

Жыл бұрын

Depends. When you were 14, would you have appreciated 21+-year-old men trying to open relationships with you? Because that's generally what happened when the age was lowered to 14 in 1823. Oh and before that it was 16 (with parental consent) and 21 without it. This resulted in parents getting involved in their children's dating life and "introducing" them to suitable (far older) men they felt would make a good husband. Of course, most women didn't marry until they were 16 (working class) or 18 (middle/upper class), but rest assured the relationships would start young to make sure the woman was thoroughly under the man's control. Oh and also no laws against beating your wife (once you were married, of course). These books leave out a lot of rather nasty details at he time, such as the above.

All these rules basically gave the utmost respect to women and honestly its so heartwarming

@JT5555

3 жыл бұрын

Right? I mean,sure women were were still treated as "lesser" than men in a lot of ways...but in a lot of other ways,you'd hardly even notice with things like gentlemen rules and even at one point there was a law made that allowed woman to stab a man with a hat pin (keep in mind that these hat pins where HUGE) if they were acting "ungentlemanly" (read: being a flat out sexual predator). Sure women were seen as lesser,but in a lot of ways it was pretty comfortably so.

I rather be courted not dated, wish our era could learn something from this.

@June-tb4vi

3 жыл бұрын

I would settle for a man to help me carry my grocery's in

@shannonbuckley3631

3 жыл бұрын

@@June-tb4vi 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@yusefkhan1752

3 жыл бұрын

“Never accept a gift”

@Littlevampiregirl100

2 жыл бұрын

remember some people dont want that, and there are no rules against it to do it the way you want, though it might require openly stating your wishes, or asking someone before a date if they would be up for it. i know it seems weird to try and 'dictate' how a date should be, but chances are the person is actually interested in doing it, too. its bad to impose a general rule on everybody like they did back then, not everybody fits into these rules or like how they work. today is fine, because everything is allowed as long as there is consent, and feelings and boundaries are considered. you can do it however you like it, if you find someone who agrees with it. someone could probably make a dating site or even role playing site out of it, if the need is large enough. maybe it already exists, i have not checked

I'm a history nerd and I fell in love with a guy who dresses like an Edwardian dandy. I probably should send this video to him. An update, it's been two years: I moved into a different city for university. I am an aspiring poet and he is as well. We're sending sonnets to each other now. :)

@tiffanielafleur6597

3 жыл бұрын

That's a little forward, don't you think? I mean, have you even exchanged hair yet??

@caylinvance3569

3 жыл бұрын

I’ve never seen such a beautiful love story ❤️

@littlet7653

3 жыл бұрын

@@tiffanielafleur6597 I just laughed SO much harder than u should have🤣🤣

@xoose

3 жыл бұрын

You'll make yourself look old fashioned if you do. This video is specifically for Victorian suitors, not Edwardian.

@sarahsays194

3 жыл бұрын

@@tiffanielafleur6597 🤣🤣🤣 That was good! Brava!

I really liked the no acceptance of presents as to not give bad ideas. Such a huge problem to do is men feeling “friend zoned” aka entitled to a woman’s body just because someone did a few niceties or offered kind friendship. I’ve even had a boyfriend in high school, that wanted or felt entitled to my virginity because he bought me lunch every Monday. I broke up with him. I do not accept things from people to this day for fear of having anything misconstrued. A gift means you expect nothing in return you do it because you want to. My body is not worth Japanese food no matter how good.

So nobody is gonna talk about 5:36 "A lifted hat, drrrrrrrr" LOL

Please do more of these dating videos for the other time periods as well. This one was very interesting and I'd love to see more like it!

@johnnalai7670

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@subpop74

3 жыл бұрын

Yes please

@antiantifa886

3 жыл бұрын

Yes like dating in communist China.

@johnnalai7670

3 жыл бұрын

@@antiantifa886 Ya, quite a fresh idea

@33dam00

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

My boyfriend always makes sure I walk on the inner side of the sidewalk. At first I thought it was odd but it showed me how much of a gentleman he is.

@dennisreyes6793

3 жыл бұрын

I'm a girl but my mom taught me this too for my siblings. She said parents or the oldest sibling must walk on the outer side of the pavement when they're walking with their children.

@Clara-uw2lb

3 жыл бұрын

My crush is like that. An army brat who's absent father managed to teach him simple yet highly attractive manners. His looks don't exactly help me to not blush either.

@annechristmas5796

3 жыл бұрын

@@Clara-uw2lb army men really do have manners ❤️ I started to see a guy who leaves for the army in a few months

@oliviarose6160

2 жыл бұрын

You are Lucky 🍀

At first, I was pleased at the advice being good for any era. As we continued, I was reminded of all the crazy rules my aging, very Matriarchal grandmother insisted we all follow and understood where she got those ideas from.

@evocativesounds1317

4 ай бұрын

your grandmother sounds like a queen. go her

3:40 in Mexico this is still almost universally observed. ANY man accompanying a woman, even if just friends and not dating at all, will literally go out of his way to protect a woman and put himself on the outside of the sidewalk. Even if that means having to move around if "outside" changes direction (crossing a street, changing direction). Also, most men still offer their arm for a woman to hold, again, with no romantic intent.

@hurst-cs2jh

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Zyanya, how are you doing?

@user-ch6vw9fn2k

7 ай бұрын

I love this:-)

My dad always asked me to walk on the inside of the pavement when with him, for the exact reasons stated. He realised it was a hangover from the olden days but I could still get splashed from a puddle from a car. What a gentleman!

@ivonribie

3 жыл бұрын

aww your dad's so sweet and gentleman!

@sallycostello8379

3 жыл бұрын

@Jordan Edward o. That's so sad. I'm sorry you never got to know the love of a good dad, but maybe in this case you were better off.

@sallycostello8379

3 жыл бұрын

@Jordan Edward don't be angry. Maybe you were better off if he was involved in a gang. Anger will only eat away at you. You've got your own life to lead and hopefully your own family to build. Don't make the mistakes he did, be a good parent if you're not already one. Learn from his mistakes. 💕

@otakumangastudios3617

3 жыл бұрын

@Jordan Edward I disagree. I think as long as you feel angry, it's okay to feel angry. Let yourself feel those feelings, don't bottle them up. Just whatever feelings you have, whether it's loneliness, hollowness, sadness, or whatever, let yourself feel it. Now, I don't want you to dwell on them, cuz it will be destructive. I just don't want you to hold back your thoughts and feelings, for the sake of "health". just do what you need to do ☺️ And maybe, if you can, try to reunite with him a little bit, but maybe just visiting him, or talking to him on the phone briefly. It's good to have a father connection, even if it's distant or vague.

@djterry1218

3 жыл бұрын

Aww that’s sweet!☺️

Watching this I realize my husband is a gentleman; he always makes sure I'm on the inside of the sidewalk when we're out on walks, he's very discreet so he doesn't kiss me when we're around a lot of people in public, he's never given me cause to be jealous (and vise versa because I very much appreciate and love him), and even when he was in high school- he didn't flirt with every girl he met. He's seen as old fashioned by all his friends and family, but it's why I love him. Dating doesn't have to be full of spiteful mind games and it's a great relief when it isn't! And the whole thing about overly flirting and how it lessens people- I've always agreed with that.

@kerriwilson7732

3 жыл бұрын

Sounds like you are well matched. I wish you both happiness. 🥂

@RawrLyss

3 жыл бұрын

I want that so badly 🥺

@warriormaiden9829

3 жыл бұрын

Same! My hubby has this adorable little 'grrr' that he does if I try and open my car door. Sometimes I'll start sneaking my fingers towards the door handle just to hear him do it. XD A lot of people have commented (quite negatively) on him opening the door for me, and both of us are in agreement. He doesn't do it because he thinks I can't open the door; he does it because he loves me. It's the little things that he does that many people deem 'old fashioned', even when we're alone, that he uses to show that he is paying attention to me and looking out for my well-being. And I try and do the same for him. And now, he's teaching our son to do the same at 5 yrs old. The kid looks so proud of himself whenever he gets the door open on his own (we have an older car with stiff handles). How could I take away that feeling of accomplishment and joy of doing something just like daddy, just because I'm capable of opening the door myself?

@PotatoNuggetConsumer

3 жыл бұрын

Ngl being respectful to the person you are dating shouldn't be seen as old fashion

@thunderbird1921

3 жыл бұрын

Great to hear. As a guy, here's another thing that I've noticed works over the years: DON'T start a relationship with flirting, EVEN IF you know the girl would enjoy it. One, it can look bad to others; Two, you want to be this person's friend, not just develop erotic feelings. Start with a simple friendship FIRST, if deeper feelings later develop, THEN do true romance stuff. You'll save yourself a lot of heartache and pain for both, OR know for sure they're genuine (would you love that person equally when they were 89 years old and full of wrinkles?). Of all the elderly couples I've had the wonderful privilege of seeing, I'd say 85% of the ones married 50 years or more began with this friendship, NOT with flirting. It's truly beautiful to see the love has not diminished after all those decades, and many call their spouse "their greatest friend".

Please, can't we just bring these etiquettes back...

Imagine living in an era where romance is alive. Now romance is a fucking instagram post (if even).

@massetozacarias5693

2 жыл бұрын

well at least we have feminism...

@Gothicc_senpai

2 жыл бұрын

@@massetozacarias5693 thats what killed romance...

@Anaconda315

Жыл бұрын

​@@Gothicc_senpai yes how dare women have rights?

@Gothicc_senpai

Жыл бұрын

@@Anaconda315 women like u should have none

Many things in Jane Austen books make more sense now. This should have been subtitled "why Fanny Price got mad about the necklace and why Mr. Collins was really a jackass"

@MsJubjubbird

3 жыл бұрын

that was Georgian. Which is even more old school.

@fannyyyyyyyy

3 жыл бұрын

Thats my name :3 which book

@midnitebottleable

3 жыл бұрын

Mr.Collins was really a jackass

@theroadtocosplayandcomicco5840

3 жыл бұрын

I found my Mr.Darcy when I was 18

@kristinaterry152

3 жыл бұрын

@@fannyyyyyyyy Mansfield park

I can just imagine myself cutting off a single curl, handing it to my crush and smile coyly as I board my carriage

@djterry1218

3 жыл бұрын

Aww😂💕

@stephanienorthup9243

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@imzipperoni

3 жыл бұрын

i love that

@MIA07

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao😂😂

@xtashax

3 жыл бұрын

Put it in a locket for him to wear around his neck until the day he dies, it's the equivalent of marking your territory 😭🤣

I love the side comments - so many fun ones during the video. For some reason, I also enjoyed the page-turning sound effects. Excellent video!

I think the part about calling on somebody's wife, was referring to needing to talk to them about something not dating them. It was like if you needed to go talk to somebody's wife about anything you needed to get permission from their husband first. This stopped a lot of affairs from going on!

In a few years there will be a video titled, “How Americans dated during the Covid Era”.

@yishi.4466

3 жыл бұрын

it would be online dating.. without meeting.. and if they do meet.. it would be big regret hours or it would be okay... you probably would break up during the online stage.

@yishi.4466

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@SM-qv2om

3 жыл бұрын

Trick question, you didn't

@JewelBlueIbanez

3 жыл бұрын

“She took off her mask and flashed him a smile while no one was looking.”

@someidiot420

3 жыл бұрын

it would be 0:03 seconds with the narrator saying *"they didnt!"*

“No party should make the other jealous” Valid advice, envy is a stupid waste of time for everybody involved and it only works in movies really, but that’s a movie, not your real life

I think I'd do fine in the Victorian era, as someone who doesn't talk too much.. And who has a hard time expressing emotions and feelings.. I think we should follow a book of etiquette

I love this channel. Most informative, with a bit of wit thrown in.

Whats lacking in 2020 is dignity. I'm going to start applying Victorian principles in my life.

@darkcoeficient

3 жыл бұрын

That is what I think about perceived social conflicts today. People do not think about the dignity of their fellow human or their own. Instead they force twisted moralities on them.

@hectorhernandez945

3 жыл бұрын

Me too👏

@Ivessssssss

3 жыл бұрын

Me three 👋

@user-hn9ct7jd5m

3 жыл бұрын

SERIOUSLY

@jdouce6074

3 жыл бұрын

Good deal

Giving locks of hair was a way of keeping a peice someone you love with you at all times. It is kind of romantic. Usually kept in a locket worn around the neck to keep them close your heart.

@kostantinosvlasakakis4106

3 жыл бұрын

oh dude, I love that. Wow I really wish that were common practice.

@HeyLady2319

3 жыл бұрын

I wish it were a thing still. Wonder why people stopped?

@blazefairchild465

3 жыл бұрын

I have a lock of my husbands hair ties with embroidery thread ,the curl is inside a picture frame of him from the 90s , he had a much longer hairstyle back then. Young & so handsome ❤️

@thelcie

3 жыл бұрын

@@HeyLady2319 because photography replaced the practice. Not everyone one could afford to have a miniature portrait done to give to a loved one, but you could give a little bit of your hair. :)

@HeyLady2319

3 жыл бұрын

@@thelcie that actually makes perfect sense. Thanks my dude

I've been watching this channel all night and I just know this episode is going to be good.

This is one of my favorite episodes of with weird history I have many but I love coming back to this one and I love sharing it with others. I truly feel a lot of these things still apply today. Only the world doesn't know it so we need an updated pamphlet that they hand out about the sixth grade taught with health and science.

THE LOYALTY AND RESPECT TO EACH OTHER, BACK THEN... 😭😭😭😭

When walking with my wife I always walk between her and the road. My grandmother told me that's how a man is to walk when with a woman.

@JoE-kx7dw

3 жыл бұрын

@Max Flynn Nope. Women now are either SJW or only care about their WAP.😆

@yhiontop

3 жыл бұрын

You don't act right because of your environment, you act right because it's right. It's about who you are not who the other person is.

@EL-um6om

3 жыл бұрын

My father never allowed my mother and I to walk on the wrong side of the road. He passed away a long time now, but I’ve never forgotten.

@JoE-kx7dw

3 жыл бұрын

@@EL-um6om sounds like he was a good man.

@melg6834

3 жыл бұрын

@@JoE-kx7dw NO. I'm a 90's girl ( born in mid 90's ). I already belong to a conservative society, although no one seems to follow such things in order to look "cool". I, on the other hand am very vintage at heart. Not only dating stuffs, I also like retro fashion and movies. I hate computers ( as a subject ) found it quite difficult ( coding 😅 ). Wish, I was born in that era. No scenario of weird SJW, pathetic fashion and java, python.

I so enjoy the humorous narration of this channel.

Every time I hear about victorian era dating, I'm always reminded of the scene in Gone With The Wind where Scarlett and another girl gossip about a girl going on an unchaperoned buggy ride with Rhett and it ruining her reputation afterwards.. . Can you imagine if those social standards still were relevant in today's society? We would ALL be doomed. Lol

@lotusstargirl5507

Жыл бұрын

Lmao, I remember that.... but I'm just glad that Rhett was equally pulled down the rabbit hole

People in victorian era - we have more dating rules than anyone. Indians - hold my buttermilk

@Jo_is_fine

3 жыл бұрын

@Mahima Bhat I was mentioning abt Indians of this era😅

@FarrahKeks

3 жыл бұрын

I don't really get it. Could you please explain it to me?

@Jo_is_fine

3 жыл бұрын

@@FarrahKeks the video says that during the Victorian era had so many restrictions while dating someone. Here in India, still marrying the person you love is considered as an act of defaming the family members. They never support us to talk with the opposite gender or don't even allow us to hangout with our friends because they bring in a logic that if a girl go outside she may find a guy and fall in love with him. These stereotypes are still prevailing among Indians and that's why I compared Indians and the people who lived in the Victorian era in terms of dating and falling in love. When compared to the Indian stereotypes, these rules are much more better. Atleast they could date someone.

@FarrahKeks

3 жыл бұрын

@@Jo_is_fine ok

@riyavaryani799

3 жыл бұрын

My brother cousin has a friend who is a girl and she says that his son will marry that girl because they are friends and I was Chaachi!! Friend aur girlfriend mein bahut bada antar hota hai... Translation Aunt!! There's a big difference between friend and girlfriend..

“Mary! I swear!.. One of those creeps.. saw.. my.. ANKLES TODAY!”

@cynthiagutierrez779

3 жыл бұрын

*Faint!*

@ghostprince9247

3 жыл бұрын

@@cynthiagutierrez779 *fainting / swooning intensifies*

@SilentGlaceon94

3 жыл бұрын

Well, the nerve of him!

@lonelyloner2655

3 жыл бұрын

Well that dear is not expectable.

@idlestrawr

3 жыл бұрын

Oh my...

Wheres the part where he saves you a seat for a public execution? Thats the most romantic part

@CyberVirtual

3 жыл бұрын

Damn girl you are dark! That is freaken hilarious though!

@anairconditionermother7537

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah too bad they’re always full

@ambeg6743

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly All these comments wanting these rules back, and none realise why these rules were placed in the first place. Sure many are basic human kindness but a lot of them are rooted in the idea that women are men' property, who men need to win over as a prize. Also it kind of does injustice to the women, where they can't be the first one to approach a man.

I was under the impression to "call upon" someone was not exclusively used as a romantic reference. It would stand to reason that, like today, you could "call upon" someone to take a particular action. With that interpretation, a gentleman 'calling upon' a married woman in her own home but only with the husband's permission (at 3:58) would not quite seem to out of place with decorum of the time.

I was expecting some misogynist shit show. However Im pleasantly surprised and think some of these rules should be still observed today.

@delancey3181

3 жыл бұрын

It’s cause history classes only show the bad side of history not the good. And cause your incompetent....

@ffsake1361

3 жыл бұрын

@@delancey3181 Probably answering my own question by simply asking the question. But Im genuinely curious how you think Im incompetent? And yes history that is taught is rather cherry picked.

@rubenaalexander5007

3 жыл бұрын

I mean ignoring how Chelsea just being mean at the end, yeah, in history we just tend to see the bad side. Sure women had weird expectations...like only being allowed to shop all day, not talk to men and honestly, upperclass women sound like they had boring lives, but they also had some perks, being upperclass and all.

@deadshotruby6667

3 жыл бұрын

@@ffsake1361 They probably meant that because you went into this with a negative lense, automatically thinking that if it was any part of history, it's most likely sexist to women.

@operaghosts

3 жыл бұрын

@@deadshotruby6667 honestly though, if we’re being real, most history is and will be. It’s a very fair assumption.

"God created women to meet the needs of men", i'm stealing that line! 👍

How interesting! Thank you for sharing this.

Role #1: no simping keep yourself together mate, c’mon.

@lmusima3275

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

So dating has always been complicated, no surprise.

@jesslabrunette

3 жыл бұрын

Not really...it’s easy

@AZrakoon

3 жыл бұрын

@@jesslabrunette it's not easy for guys. We could do everything right and we still get dumped.

@jesslabrunette

3 жыл бұрын

@@AZrakoon yeah true but same with girls. It just depends

@SlickNick98

3 жыл бұрын

@@AZrakoon just dont be a simp and u will be ok lol

@adamdavis4417

3 жыл бұрын

@@jesslabrunette no offense, but if that is your real picture you are gorgeous, and you probably don’t have a hard time meeting people. I’m not saying falling in love or maintaining a relationship is easy, but a pretty face and an outgoing personality definitely puts you ahead of the game. Some people struggle with personality or behavior disorders or are just quiet or shy in general. If it’s easy for you, I wish you all the best. That’s just not a reality for everyone.

Nice video. Interesting to hear about rules that are not just the typically stiff and restrictive rules one knows from period dramas. But since you include different books that are part of a 40+ years time period I think one should have organized the video more according to the passage of time and shown differences and developements in this time period.

If people followed this... I mean, we need to bring this back; all of it. Think of how much less drama there would be, for every body.

I was actually raised told that I couldn't date but could instead court. I actually don't regret being raised this way. Dating is more akin to just fooling around while courtship is more serious- you let the other person know from the getgo that you are looking for a spouse or a soulmate- not just a boyfriend/girlfriend- so you know pretty early on whether they are serious about the relationship or not.

M'lady. "tips fedora"

@stubdteauzgautugaux

3 жыл бұрын

NO 🤢🤮

@JonW77

3 жыл бұрын

Neckbeard has entered the chat...

@WhiteBloggerBlackSpecs

3 жыл бұрын

I got stage IV cancer from the comment

@holeefuksumtingwong5788

3 жыл бұрын

Are you sure it’s not “Me so horny!”

@blasianluvschocolate397

3 жыл бұрын

@@holeefuksumtingwong5788 or me love you long time 😂😂😂

I love when youtubers use classical ballet music in the background

Hey, they had it rough back then. My great grandmother and great grandfather were both working in the mines already as teenagers. They had rough lives so we can live better.

Would you ever consider reading your titled segment transition screens for blind viewers? Also, for normal viewers that like to listen to Weird History while multi-tasking.

@TG-pn3ul

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!! I listen to these while driving and find it frustrating I don’t know the titles.

@Laura-Yu

3 жыл бұрын

This, please please!

@Ilovevintage77

3 жыл бұрын

Bind people are normal as those who see. You mean “sighted”. And That’s a really Great idea!!

@TG-pn3ul

3 жыл бұрын

@Bigfoot I’m blind to my phone screen when driving yes. Read the last line of his original post about multi tasking. I listen to videos WHILST I drive. No I am not vision impaired.

@queenb1119

3 жыл бұрын

@Mara Oliver WOW! Do you also have a problem with wheel chair ramps?