UTHANDO NESTHEMBU - Growing Up In The Most Famous POLYGAMY Will Break You | ABONGWE MSELEKU

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ENGINEER YOUR LIFE - EPISODE 93 - Abongwe Mseleku
Daughter of Ma Cele and famous polygamist Musa Mseleku joins us on Engineer Your Life and unpacks the dynamics of growing up in a polygamous family, the pain of your whole life being scrutinised on TV and finding her inner voice in a large existence.
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  • @EngineerYLShow
    @EngineerYLShow2 ай бұрын

    Exclusive conversation about the trials, the blessings and the ethics learnt as a young person raised in the most famous polygamous family. A lesson on humility and self-acceptance.

  • @nanazimkhize2149

    @nanazimkhize2149

    2 ай бұрын

    Lungelo!!! Wow! Your communication skills are second to none. Angfun' ukungasho . Keep up the good work.

  • @EngineerYLShow

    @EngineerYLShow

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you kindly MaMkhize❤

  • @nanazimkhize2149

    @nanazimkhize2149

    2 ай бұрын

    @@EngineerYLShow Kwathi cosololo bakithi, uma ungbiza nge-DNA code or should I say 'Utatakho code' or better yet ' Serial number'? 😊😊😄😄You are welcome, Lungelo. All the best in your current and future endeavours.

  • @nosimilomthethwa2812

    @nosimilomthethwa2812

    2 ай бұрын

    @@EngineerYLShow,,z

  • @nosimilomthethwa2812

    @nosimilomthethwa2812

    2 ай бұрын

    Z❤zzxx

  • @bontlemaake1771
    @bontlemaake17712 ай бұрын

    Abongwe is such an exceptional child. The articulation 👌🏽

  • @vfabach2874

    @vfabach2874

    2 ай бұрын

    I agree with you Bontle....she's absolutely AMAZING , GROUNDED and so so HUMBLE ❤️

  • @kutullomankoko9640

    @kutullomankoko9640

    2 ай бұрын

    P

  • @LizekaNtsebeza
    @LizekaNtsebeza9 күн бұрын

    U are the reason why I watch Ethan do nesithembu I luv u abongwe rhalel ba sibez freinds

  • @angiemakhubela
    @angiemakhubela2 ай бұрын

    Macele’s kids are very humble. Kuddos to the parents ❤

  • @nwabisapbodlo3246

    @nwabisapbodlo3246

    2 ай бұрын

    Right?! Even Lwandle Jnr is as respectful and calm

  • @thobekamrauli6895
    @thobekamrauli68952 ай бұрын

    Love Ndlunkulu s kids very humble, respectful she raised them well❤

  • @happysehume

    @happysehume

    2 ай бұрын

    One thing about u’MaCele!

  • @matshedisotsilo5231

    @matshedisotsilo5231

    2 ай бұрын

    Love them too, so humble shame👌👌

  • @siviwekula760

    @siviwekula760

    2 ай бұрын

    She's done a great job raising them👌

  • @lwaziehgumede6413

    @lwaziehgumede6413

    2 ай бұрын

    A job well done by MaCele this goes to show that she is not what she is portrayed to be on television. What we see on TV is ratings for the show.

  • @melanin_130
    @melanin_1302 ай бұрын

    The most calmest podcadt in SA❤❤❤❤ maturity and respect😊

  • @tozamamlomo665
    @tozamamlomo6652 ай бұрын

    This child is so so matured.I like the part where she says there are children who are orphans but they are extremely successful& some donot have fathers.I like it.Big up Abongwe

  • @Khanyisa92
    @Khanyisa922 ай бұрын

    I love the thoughtfulness, sensitivity and gentleness that was shown by Lungelo during this interview. I felt him literally respecting Abongwe’s boundaries, some of our podcasters could learn a thing a or two here❤

  • @nanazimkhize2149

    @nanazimkhize2149

    2 ай бұрын

    You couldn't have articulated it better! You are spot on. Well- said Khanyisa.

  • @EngineerYLShow

    @EngineerYLShow

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much. My heart appreciates this ❤️❤️❤️

  • @vfabach2874

    @vfabach2874

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@EngineerYLShowI subscribed immediately after this interview. I have been watching for a while without subscribering...I connected with you today. Thank you for your genuine care and sensitivity.

  • @thinamakovere9007

    @thinamakovere9007

    2 ай бұрын

    I have also subscribed because of this interview.

  • @keneilwemakakatlelo5397
    @keneilwemakakatlelo53972 ай бұрын

    Macele, you've done very well, your kids are down to earth, soft spoken.

  • @matshedisotsilo5231

    @matshedisotsilo5231

    2 ай бұрын

    Well done Mme

  • @Liz1418
    @Liz14182 ай бұрын

    I kmow im going to watch this interview 3x if not 5 that's how much I luv Abongwe no Lwandle. Bigup to MaCele for raising them well.

  • @PhiwayinkosiKhanyile
    @PhiwayinkosiKhanyile2 ай бұрын

    Lungelo I understand your channel is not big as it supposed to be, but 1 thing i can confirm as a viewer of many podcasts ukuthi your questioning style is ncaaaa👌👌❤

  • @EngineerYLShow

    @EngineerYLShow

    2 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @user-mz3zl8pr1f

    @user-mz3zl8pr1f

    4 күн бұрын

    Absolutely 💯

  • @sontomtolo473
    @sontomtolo4732 ай бұрын

    What a sweet young lady, ingane ezthobile. Mama must be so proud😊

  • @nokwazishezi7580
    @nokwazishezi75802 ай бұрын

    MaCele's kids are so respectful and very humble ❤️

  • @mariangambi883
    @mariangambi8832 ай бұрын

    U are famous world wide even here in the USA 🇺🇸

  • @zuzuh5755
    @zuzuh57552 ай бұрын

    MaCele raised her children very well. They are so kind and humble. Abongwe! when you look at her in the side, she look exactly like his father. That was so cool Abongwe❤.

  • @annienai

    @annienai

    2 ай бұрын

    True so kind

  • @sarahthulare4694

    @sarahthulare4694

    2 ай бұрын

    They are just humble beings ,, it has nothing to do with Macele My mom was a very humble person kodwa my sister on the other hand, you’d swear she was raised in a different way by different people Iyo

  • @dineonkatswang4791
    @dineonkatswang47912 ай бұрын

    Wow Abongwe very matured, respectful, humble and calm your very good

  • @gladysthusile6764
    @gladysthusile67642 ай бұрын

    Waze wamuhle abongwe Macele kodwa ngikuthwesa umqhele ngezi ngane zakho uzukhulisa kahle❤❤

  • @bongiwemakhaza1833
    @bongiwemakhaza18332 ай бұрын

    An introduction of who she is, her parents and family structure would have been great for context but great interview though.

  • @tebogokganakga4231

    @tebogokganakga4231

    2 ай бұрын

    Totally agree. They assumed that we all knew her.

  • @ConnieRamasike
    @ConnieRamasike2 ай бұрын

    Abongwe and Lwandle are really humble...must be a true reflection of their Mom ...kudos to you MaCele🎉

  • @asandakhathi
    @asandakhathi2 ай бұрын

    She's so well spoken my word

  • @leratomamabolo
    @leratomamabolo2 ай бұрын

    Abongwe is calm, beautiful and respectful. Love her❤️

  • @DaphneyLuthuli-nw4oc
    @DaphneyLuthuli-nw4oc2 ай бұрын

    Ma Cele "s kids are very very humble uyakwazi ukufundisa ingane inhlonipho I love Ma Cele"s family God continue bless them

  • @cynthiamavasa2785
    @cynthiamavasa27852 ай бұрын

    The dude doing an interview his so sweet hle 😊😊😊... Abongwe is an amazing soul hle

  • @mapulamaunatlala
    @mapulamaunatlala2 ай бұрын

    She is so authentic , herself ,respectful wow I applaud her parents. That is so rich very big deal thank you abongwe well done.

  • @joycebuthelezi3601
    @joycebuthelezi36012 ай бұрын

    Look exactly like Mpumelelo truly brother and sister❤

  • @tshepisomokoena4149
    @tshepisomokoena41492 ай бұрын

    Such a great interviewer I love how you made her feel at ease in terms of asking the question of her sexuality

  • @bongiwengowapi5412
    @bongiwengowapi54122 ай бұрын

    It's my first time to watch this,she seems intelligent and mature,I love this interview,it's like I am watching an adult,she is lovable and smart!

  • @gingertwala8474
    @gingertwala84742 ай бұрын

    There's an epic level of wholesomeness & grounding that Ma-Cele instills in the growth of her kids, grandkids included. These kids have beautiful spirits. Such stability is commendable💞👏👏.

  • @vfabach2874

    @vfabach2874

    2 ай бұрын

    Amen🙏🏾

  • @palesamhlambi8478

    @palesamhlambi8478

    2 ай бұрын

    True ❤

  • @Mbalings

    @Mbalings

    2 ай бұрын

    I think MaCele is also humble and grounded but she has been through a lot. I feel i have misunderstood her as well. Otherwise, who are the kids taking after? ❤

  • @gingertwala8474

    @gingertwala8474

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@MbalingsTrue hey, sometimes we're victims of our own circumstances, it's in how we choose to not allow such to alter who we are, guess Ma-Cele chose sereneness hence her very grounded kiddies😉.

  • @user-xs4mv4zq5f
    @user-xs4mv4zq5f2 ай бұрын

    Unfortunately we don't choose the families we are born in they choose us❤

  • @NomathembaNgxola
    @NomathembaNgxola2 ай бұрын

    Love u baby...beautiful aura Respectful.Matured..Humble The list is endless...What a coothed Soul

  • @thabelanglawrencenthako2024
    @thabelanglawrencenthako20242 ай бұрын

    Wow! the maturity of this young lady is on another level 💯❤️ shout-out to the Mselekus

  • @neosjournal_
    @neosjournal_2 ай бұрын

    Abongwe is the coolest sibling

  • @mahlozinibasi9560
    @mahlozinibasi95602 ай бұрын

    She articulates herself so beautifully ❤

  • @NomsLoots
    @NomsLoots2 ай бұрын

    MaCele’s kids are so grounded my word. Such humility is inspiring. Humble yourself by the side of the Lord and He will lift you up 🥹

  • @teboJoh
    @teboJoh2 ай бұрын

    Abongwe is smart matured well mannered respectful open minded almost well rounded character. This podcast also Big ups Lu🎉

  • @lettyjanemahlangu1152
    @lettyjanemahlangu11522 ай бұрын

    MaCele, you are blessed to have polite humble kids, siyakubongisa. It's definitely the way you brought them up. Congratulations Ndlunkulu

  • @brendamlaba3587
    @brendamlaba35872 ай бұрын

    So humble and well spoken ingane zamaCele ziyahlonipha bandla. We love u Abongwe ❤️

  • @nonsikeleocleopatra377
    @nonsikeleocleopatra3772 ай бұрын

    Ndlovukazi Macele you have done exceptionally well when raising your. May they all follow in Abongwe & Lwandle Steps.

  • @user-ui5uf8dt1g
    @user-ui5uf8dt1g2 ай бұрын

    Macele your kid's are humble sisi good job on raising your kid's ❤❤

  • @bongiwesithole9376
    @bongiwesithole93762 ай бұрын

    I love you Abongwe you are a humble girl.Big up to my angel.💥💫💫

  • @tshepisolijane2452
    @tshepisolijane24522 ай бұрын

    Ma Cele is avery deep woman. Very wise aswell. Its no womder she has kids like ones she has. ❤

  • @mbandazayoyolisa5849
    @mbandazayoyolisa58492 ай бұрын

    Macele did a good job raising her kids

  • @user-wm1ro4cn6w
    @user-wm1ro4cn6w2 ай бұрын

    Such a wise young person ,I love how she takes time to respond ,bless her ❤️ 💗 💕 ♥️

  • @mondemdakane161
    @mondemdakane1612 ай бұрын

    Maceles kids are very respecting very humble, well done Macele

  • @phelosikhakhane
    @phelosikhakhane2 ай бұрын

    So articulate and beautiful.

  • @camagumagubeni9145
    @camagumagubeni91452 ай бұрын

    Wow! Abongwe mntanam... RESPECTFUL KID...

  • @phathiwephakathi1327
    @phathiwephakathi13272 ай бұрын

    All mamkhulu's kids are so humbled ❤❤

  • @palesamhlambi8478

    @palesamhlambi8478

    2 ай бұрын

    It must be God❤

  • @user-mn1lz4xx8f
    @user-mn1lz4xx8f2 ай бұрын

    Enjoyed this ☺️, she's very intellect.

  • @favour664
    @favour6642 ай бұрын

    This child is amazing, his disposition wow! May God use you to impact the world , ur mannerism is at another level

  • @Renei145
    @Renei1452 ай бұрын

    Love her spirit❤

  • @NonhleLanga-xb7zc
    @NonhleLanga-xb7zc2 ай бұрын

    Abongwe love her spirit 🌻💚

  • @pinky4636
    @pinky46362 ай бұрын

    Oh! Abongwe. What a beautiful humble soul. I just love you nana❤keep shinning 🙌🙌🙌 what a great interview.

  • @mashadimokgata871
    @mashadimokgata8712 ай бұрын

    🎉🎉So beautiful Abongwe sis. I love you girl

  • @leratomashiloane4665
    @leratomashiloane46652 ай бұрын

    Please get comfortable chairs for your guests. Seeing the feet flying high in the air really looks painful.

  • @NormaMtshali

    @NormaMtshali

    2 ай бұрын

    When you short if u want your feet to touch the ground you seat in the middle of the chair instead of back back.Dangling your feet is more comfortable trust me

  • @sanelekula3647

    @sanelekula3647

    2 ай бұрын

    @@NormaMtshali no back support?😭

  • @luvflowakhuzwayo2004

    @luvflowakhuzwayo2004

    2 ай бұрын

    😂😂 kodwa nawe

  • @user-zq8sy8gs5x
    @user-zq8sy8gs5x2 ай бұрын

    Oww bethunani maCele abantwana bakho they are so humble

  • @sizagumbi5473
    @sizagumbi54732 ай бұрын

    I love Abongwe, she so humble and very brillian. I hope she didn't change. Ukhiswe kahle lomntwana. Siyabongel' abazali bakhe.

  • @mashudumikosi3272
    @mashudumikosi32722 ай бұрын

    Wow such level of maturity. Mseleku did very well 🎉

  • @NomathembaNgxola
    @NomathembaNgxola2 ай бұрын

    Big Ups MaCele...your kids are wellgrounded.

  • @PhumzilePatience-lx2qe
    @PhumzilePatience-lx2qe2 ай бұрын

    Luv her she's so humble ❤❤❤

  • @mpumelindoe951
    @mpumelindoe9512 ай бұрын

    Love love the energy. Well spoken, respectful and so grounded.

  • @siwemalele1884
    @siwemalele18842 ай бұрын

    What a well spoken somebody , humble and intelligent

  • @rethabilekhumalo6054
    @rethabilekhumalo60542 ай бұрын

    Wooo ngaze ngayithanda le ngane I've never notice ukuthi ngiyayithanda ,umuhle ngane futhi uthobekile, thank you Lungelo for this interview with Abongi ❤❤❤

  • @YolokaziChagi
    @YolokaziChagi2 ай бұрын

    I love her soo much ❤❤❤❤

  • @llt4726
    @llt47262 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤She is such a breath of fresh air...very intelligent.

  • @user-zv7yr5nf6u
    @user-zv7yr5nf6u2 ай бұрын

    This Podcast is very calming. All about love and positivity .😍

  • @MorolongWaMorakile
    @MorolongWaMorakile2 ай бұрын

    Abongwe is going far in life. God bless her. ❤

  • @user-yf8jx5dv7i
    @user-yf8jx5dv7i2 ай бұрын

    Beautiful and well mannered child.. Love her so much 😍❤️

  • @tnxumalo9813
    @tnxumalo98132 ай бұрын

    Such a wonderful young lady.so humble and respectful even when talking ..you can hear that she is well raised..thumbs up to her parents❤

  • @nombulelofakudze6513
    @nombulelofakudze65132 ай бұрын

    I loved it when she responded to the question of having a present father and said it solely depends on you, on your determination in your journey of life even though having a father could maybe make things easier for you. That was beautiful and true. I have never had a father figure in my whole life and have pushed through life to be where i am and i have done a good job even though the past few years it has been hitting me hard kuts where would i be if i had my father in my life It all depends on you ☺😍

  • @lindiswatyokela2951
    @lindiswatyokela295126 күн бұрын

    What a beautiful guest to have.. well articulated, respectful and very humble.. may she never change I enjoyed this.

  • @mfundisozuma5810
    @mfundisozuma58102 ай бұрын

    So well Spoken😻

  • @ayandal4744
    @ayandal47442 ай бұрын

    An interview full of laughter, just refreshing. Well done to the interviewer.

  • @mayumimolotv8523
    @mayumimolotv85232 ай бұрын

    MaCele's kids are so well mannered. I love how they carry themselves, they're a reflection of their mother.

  • @jannety100
    @jannety1002 ай бұрын

    macel is a good woman, look at how her kids are, kind, compassionate and humble! she did a great job raising them.

  • @user-eh3kf7fz6k
    @user-eh3kf7fz6k2 ай бұрын

    Mme Macele more and more grace dear

  • @lwaziehgumede6413
    @lwaziehgumede64132 ай бұрын

    Well done MaCele on raising your children so well this show's your character as person and a mother.

  • 2 ай бұрын

    Lungelo, you’re the best ❤❤❤❤, a rare gem!!!! We love you, Abongwe!!!

  • @NcamisileMtolo
    @NcamisileMtolo2 ай бұрын

    Big up maCele you teach your children's very well congrats (ngyakubongela it mean even you come from a good familly well done again❤

  • @CingwaneElihle
    @CingwaneElihleАй бұрын

    She is sooo well spoken and matured man. God bless her❤🙌🏾

  • @user-bf3jh3kr1s
    @user-bf3jh3kr1s2 ай бұрын

    What a down to earth young adult 🎉🎉 ; proud of you Abongwe especially MaCele who raised you up

  • @_COCOgal
    @_COCOgal2 ай бұрын

    Abo is beautiful....her smile is out of this world ❤❤

  • @Marthashiningstar
    @Marthashiningstar2 ай бұрын

    Very humble kids must say

  • @melisamoyo7751
    @melisamoyo77512 ай бұрын

    She's so smart and humble

  • @SenzoMzinya-hj5cb
    @SenzoMzinya-hj5cb2 ай бұрын

    The articulation is on point, well done what a beautiful soul 👍

  • @nondumisocm
    @nondumisocm2 ай бұрын

    Love you Abongwe❤

  • @thembelihlembatha27
    @thembelihlembatha272 ай бұрын

    Wow...Lungelo you had the best of the best guest❤ Abongiwe is so privilaged but her humbleness is out of this world, ❤ May he grow up to be the best person in the world. So much humble ❤and love that about him....inhlonipho siyibona ngaye that shows ukuthi uMaCele's Teachings are good to her own kids ❤❤

  • @gugukhumalo9561
    @gugukhumalo95612 ай бұрын

    Well raised children MaCele.Thank You for that.

  • @portiajakoba9574
    @portiajakoba95742 ай бұрын

    Abongwe ❤, i love MaCele & her family, she is doing a good job

  • @learningnetwork6384
    @learningnetwork63842 ай бұрын

    What an interview, i enjoyed watching Malibongwe speak unprepared. Very interesting young lady, love her school of thoughts. Humble and gentle.

  • @sohbayeni6666
    @sohbayeni6666Ай бұрын

    This interview just made me respect Babu Mseleku and MaCele even more.... Woooooow naze namkhulisa kahle umtwana wenu...Ingane oyibuka ufise ukuthi neyami ingane ngathi ingakhula ibe nenhlonipho kanje... Love you Ayabongwe❤ and u will go very far in life because of the person you are❤❤

  • @Faith_Jehovamystrength
    @Faith_Jehovamystrength2 ай бұрын

    Muhle Abongiwe...ziyathandeka izingane zaMacele... ❤❤Zithobekile zifundisekile zzifuze umama wazo... ❤❤🎉🎉

  • @patiencenonoshabalala077
    @patiencenonoshabalala0772 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much Abongwe, you are such a lady ❤❤❤

  • @annienai
    @annienai2 ай бұрын

    She looks so much like her dad beautiful mind indeed

  • @UnathiVokozela-ft2gr
    @UnathiVokozela-ft2gr2 ай бұрын

    Very Respectful Abongwe.

  • @nozimbali_n
    @nozimbali_n2 ай бұрын

    she’s so well spoken and respectful🥹

  • @masekoaimonaheng844
    @masekoaimonaheng8442 ай бұрын

    Waooooo Abongile what a maturity and humility. Continue to be you and I respect you.

  • @SthabieMathebula
    @SthabieMathebula2 ай бұрын

    MaCele is such a mother her parenting is Excellent 🎉😊

  • @andisiwendlela2969
    @andisiwendlela29692 ай бұрын

    This child is a blessing to her parent's ❤

  • @tlhomphomalumbela2855
    @tlhomphomalumbela28552 ай бұрын

    Literally my favorite podcast!!!

  • @dorahmtsweni5579
    @dorahmtsweni55792 ай бұрын

    I love Macele kids , good hearts and humble very intelligent ❤