Story 1: UPDATE 4:13 UPDATE My (37M) GF's (34F) daughter (13f) f-lsely ac--sed me of s--ually as--ulting her. Now I'm proved innocent, my gf wants to reconcile but I'm not sure I want to? Story 2: 9:22 TIFU by helping ruin my son’s life Story 3: 14:23 My SIL(14f) ac--sing me(26m) of impregnating her.

@bernardhaller3754

3 жыл бұрын

the father of gf daughter should be found and thrown a beating

@torymann104

3 жыл бұрын

of i was the son walk away for ever wut a digusting choice

@andreibossahtamon3950

3 жыл бұрын

Dang the second story cuts deep

@leadingauctions8440

3 жыл бұрын

Any updates on the poor son?

@sforsalvation4974

3 жыл бұрын

@@andreibossahtamon3950 ikr

People that falsely accuse the innocent deserve hardcore prison time.

@Hynotama

3 жыл бұрын

Not sure that applies to a 13 year old. But why is the bio father left alone? There should be consequences for something so disgusting.

@Valk..

3 жыл бұрын

@@Hynotama if you were paying attention, the police is searching for the biological father. Little 13 y/o shithead most likely got away with no charge

@Bleg94

3 жыл бұрын

@@Hynotama a 13 year old should be punished by seeing "What could happen to a person if you wrongly accuse them." by being forced to talk with many people that were wrongly accused and ofc a world of therapy to get them to behave like a decent human being

@StopPlayingAtLife

3 жыл бұрын

@Daniel Michael FACTS!

@elliemarie1079

3 жыл бұрын

@@Hynotama lmao I’m 14 and even at 11 I knew how fucked that was lmao

That kid is going to maintain her mom single for a long time.

@tealluma6528

3 жыл бұрын

@robert noble EXCUSE ME

@mariem8705

3 жыл бұрын

@robert noble what the absolute f is wrong with you!

@rajakghosh9292

3 жыл бұрын

Dating a single mother is a massive redflag. The guy will never be her first priority. He will have no parental authority over the child. If the child misbehaves the mother will always take side with her offspring.

@tealluma6528

3 жыл бұрын

@@mariem8705 I mean it was a joke dude

@tealluma6528

3 жыл бұрын

@@rajakghosh9292 not always bad mothers exist well yeah not like that wouldnt be bad WORSE MOTHERS OKAY

I’ve never literally cried listening to any of these stories. But the story about the father putting his son in jail killed me. I felt so overwhelmed for that boy. And to refuse to post bond too. And then not even press charges on the person who made this all happen??? Like wtf is wrong with you!!!!????

@tylerbenton5593

Жыл бұрын

That one got me and the heard of the update

@Jedin8_1966

9 ай бұрын

Why did the police not go after her?

The dad from the second story enrages me. Immediately jumps to ruining his sons fucking life.

@dannydelacruz7303

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah a few lines of text make it sound pretty fast aye. It's not like he loved this girl so much he'd defend her

@fozzy1004

Жыл бұрын

@@dannydelacruz7303 Innocent till proven guilty does not exist for most people, especially men.

@joec4997

5 ай бұрын

Captain save a ho over someone else’s child and destroys his sons wife without even listening to a word he says? What a scum bag

Seriously, this false allegations that destroys a person's life has to be punishable by laws. The accussers just end up being shamed but the accused has their life turned upside down.

@Artur-fj5pn

3 жыл бұрын

Problem with that is when false allegations are punishable then there is less chance that accusser will come clean with often is crucial to prove person's inocence

@LOLtz1

3 жыл бұрын

@@Artur-fj5pn No that's bs. We have crimes against slander and falsifying evidence. So why should there not be laws against false accusations. Especially when we have the technology and skills to find r*pe evidence of cases from like 20 years ago.

@sws212

3 жыл бұрын

No, they're not just shamed, false allegations are a criminal offense and people have gone to prison for it. If the kid wasn't a kid, she would've had real punishment. OP could even probably pressed for charges against her father for telling her to lie.

@avenger007007

3 жыл бұрын

@@sws212 She should have juvenile detention for that.

@marubinmgd6838

3 жыл бұрын

I'm talking about the minors who accused someone, afaik minor's are exempt for heavy punishments as long as it's not a heavy crime. They should be at least be sentenced with the intent of giving them the realization of what they have done. Edit: The girl in the first story is a bit different because she was influenced to do it, but still she ended up doing it. This still falls on what I'm saying that they should be sentenced with the intent of giving them a lesson

If the daughter didn’t own up, his life would be pretty much over, even if he was later found to be innocent.

@xevira

3 жыл бұрын

Sad that I can't tell which story that is a comment on, wtf.... There are days I'm glad I'm an incel and damn hermit. I will never have to deal with this shit because I stay away from people in general.

@lawrencelopez9839

3 жыл бұрын

Even if he has been found innocent there are people who still gets harassed after fake accusations like that. The stigma can stay on someone for a long time.

@jefferyepstein9210

3 жыл бұрын

He would have been convicted and had rough time in prison

@DIYGUY_TY

3 жыл бұрын

@@jefferyepstein9210 was a c.o. at a max prison for 5 yrs. Rapist and child molesters have it rough if the real reason they're doing time gets out.

@peachesrambo4037

3 жыл бұрын

Once accused, always guilty. It will always be on his record. I am a retired correctional sgt, 25 years, that guy will always have that stigma.

The second story...... Makes me grateful for the father I have. He'd have withheld judgment until he found out the truth of the matter.

Story 2 - WOW!!! Imagine ruining your son's life like that. What an AWFUL parent! ! I'm so angry for that poor kid

That stepdaughter is absolutely disgusting and the dad should’ve did more research before ruining his sons life! She deserves jail for false allegations!

@memeking7273

3 жыл бұрын

Man don't we all wish people that accuse people of rape when they're innocent be punished. That would be a perfect world. We don't live there

@mariem8705

3 жыл бұрын

@@memeking7273 right! And don’t we wish people who did rape someone actually be put away for life instead of a few years! You live with that fu*king trauma for the rest of your life!

@akira963214785

3 жыл бұрын

Women literally own the courts... Its been proven that they can get away with lots of stuff and have (on average) half of the punishment/prison time when compared to men. Its honesty mind boggling that there's so many feminists around when women can do almost anything they want nowadays... The only places that need feminists are 3rd world countries and most of Asia.

@realamericannegro977

3 жыл бұрын

Yep his gf essentially sided with her ex over her current man

@realamericannegro977

3 жыл бұрын

@@akira963214785 Funny fact because there was feminists that flat out said that they are the descendants of the witches that escaped the witch trials.

Accused son: Good grief. You wrote your son off, didn't believe him at all, didn't give him a chance. You will be very lucky if he doesn't write you off completely & forever.

@ponglenis9273

3 жыл бұрын

Holy shit, I would move to somebody else tbh, maybe get my fatjer to pay rent for me

@speedbump9299

3 жыл бұрын

@@ponglenis9273 issue is he cannot be left alone with depression. His life was ruined this is the kind of thing that would make someone commit suicide. What gets me more is that his friends bailed on him. His son has no one. Sadly he moves out i think we know where that would lead shortly after.

@whatsgoodnwah3032

3 жыл бұрын

If I was in the son's position, I would make my father's life absolute hell no matter how sorry he is. You don't just horribly f### with someone's life like that and not expect anything to happen to you.

@speedbump9299

3 жыл бұрын

@@whatsgoodnwah3032 his father's life is hell now. Because it occurred to him what he did. He realized he destroyed his son. Legit destroyed the hole his son is in now is in fact 1 step above ending it. His son needs to be watched and needs help to the extreme. Hate to say this but if he has any other living family his son needs to be sent to them most likely so he has support that is not the father.

@LOLtz1

3 жыл бұрын

@@ponglenis9273 He wasn't in a position to move because he literally lost everything. And was kind force to move back.

the son in the second story is extremely mentally strong. even if he is severely depressed now, the fact he is still alive is huge. i sincerely wouldn't've been able to.

@robb617iejb56

3 жыл бұрын

He has to rebuild his life from the ground up. When he has a degree of confidence back, move far away. Burn the bridges, use the ash to fertilise the soil, grow a new life.

@Evulchair

3 жыл бұрын

I hope he never talks to his excuse of a family again and finds a new family.

@silverbutterfly1739

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to wreck everyone's hopes and dreams for the kids but.... There was an update, that got deleted. the boy died by his own hands.

@danniemo4615

Жыл бұрын

@@silverbutterfly1739 Shit…

@gee26367

Жыл бұрын

@@silverbutterfly1739 even though it's deleted anywhere we can find the update like on a video or if someone reposted it

"Shed do it again in a heartbeat" Yeah no fuck that immediately over.

Believed stepdaughter: you claim to love him, called him your pride and joy, but believed her in a heartbeat and helped ruin his life. You are part of the reason he is on antidepressants, you are part of the reason his friends abandoned him, part of the reason why he was kicked from his IVY LEAGUE SCHOOL. You aren't the main reason, but no doubt you are a huge reason. You don't deserve his forgiveness, be prepared to never receive it. Be prepared to never go to his wedding, or meet his children if he has any.

@memeking7273

3 жыл бұрын

I just feel bad for the kid. I wish that step sister got punished

@coolguy845

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly hopefully the son can find a way to lawyer up maybe get a settlement from the school for expelled. or maybe bide his time pretend it's all better, tell parents he'd like to go somewhere out of state or far away for education. proceed to go through school finish up and cut ties off completely. even if he's innocent and somehow wins a lawsuit of sort always a black mark because people will always throw a stone without hearing out all sides. or simply just save up cash and bail when he can, honestly fuck "inheritance" doesn't mean anything. i think he should just leave a good distance away and reset himself back on track in life away from it all.

@MrEDK911

3 жыл бұрын

I have a son and there is no way I’d throw him under the bus like that. Poor kid had his life royally screwed for no reason. That girl should be jailed. Accusations like this destroy lives and make it that much harder for real cases to be heard.

@lugia187

3 жыл бұрын

The problem here is really simple: do you think your daughter could make that shit up? No? Then there is no way I'm believing my son. It's as easy as that because the other option is believing a person who might have sexually abused someone for years. Just because he is your son he doesn't get the "Well, maybe she liked it" treatment we give to victims. You are innocent until proven guilty, but when there is sexual abuse the line becomes much harder to see. When she ended up telling the truth the damage was already done. Would have I sayed it to the journals before I had proof? No. And this is the big problem here, because if he was innocent (and he is here) if the word is spread around there is no going back. She should have to be prosecuted for what she did, but many countries don't have this type of law. It's just a sad story

@johnnycarrotheid

3 жыл бұрын

@@coolguy845 He has no chance of a settlement from the school. Simple fact he was locked up, he wouldn't be in class, so his attendance rate would be woeful. If Dad had bailed him, he may have been able to attend, and saved his future

"He is the pride of my life. He is outgoing, funny, intelligent and the kindest person I know" Yet, you never believed him when he denied the allegation, left him to rot in jail when you could have bailed him, cost him his girlfriend, his friends his education and left a permanent black mark on his life all for something he never did. had the daughter not confessed you would have just left him there to die. Sorry, but relationship is over with your son, you have shown that you will throw him under a bus and ruin his life with out question. If he ever forgives you, you have a life time of making this up to him and i don't know what you need to do to ever make this up to him.

@SnowyWolborg

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. When it comes down to a desperate situation and things look bad, people will show you who they are.

@claytonmize6159

3 жыл бұрын

I doubt he ever will forgive the father. Imagine having as bright as a future as the son had, being in an Ivy League school (Which are insanely tough to get into, Not even all straight A students get into them, the time investment.) The potential jobs lined up, all dashed because of one false allegation. People keep saying that he needs to change his identity. It won't do anything. The courts keep records of the name changes in case something comes up and the they tend to be public record. His life is fucked. He will be lucky to even be able to work at a gas station because of one allegation.

@James-vk5ov

3 жыл бұрын

@@claytonmize6159 All he got to do is get the daughter to come back and go to courts with her and clear his record. Then he can change his name and go live somewhere else. Problem solved.

@claytonmize6159

3 жыл бұрын

@@James-vk5ov Except here in the US that isn't how that works unfortunately. Even if that were to happen people will have made up their minds before hand. This is seen with the friends that even after the father told them it wasn't true still didn't come back.

@proapocalypse1448

3 жыл бұрын

He should give his son all his money. And all future earnings. He lives only on what he needs to survive. No vacations ever again. No toys. No hanging out or talking with friends. Break up with his wife. Start taking anti depressants. Lock himself inside a room. He should literally destroy his own life. Then maybe he will know what he did to his sons life.

The second story hit me hard man...Imagine being the son of OP ... losing ur girlfriend ... sent to prison ... getting kicked from the college ..man it really hurts

@atheon596

2 жыл бұрын

I feel super bad for the poor son. He was put in prison, not jail, for several weeks and had to put up with other dangerous people in there. Who knows what happened to the son whilst in prison. And if the POS daughter didn't come clean, he would have been locked up for 20+ years.

@danacarter9147

2 жыл бұрын

@@atheon596 Same here. 2nd OP's stepdaughter made his son's life a living nightmare.😒

Story 2: "Everything i have has always been for you" ..... except your love and trust. That you gave to the lying stepdaughter.

I knew a girl that acaused a friend of mine of rape. Her boyfriend got her pregnant so to save face and get an abortion she accused some random guy of rape. Luckily she picked someone who had an extremely strict schedule and the strongest alibi. She kept trying to change the story to get a time he could have done it. Between school, jrotc, and work there was no way he could have any time to. Also the fact she said it happened in his car, but the dude didn't have one, his mom drove him everywhere. Then she said it was her car, but she parked way to close to the school, her car was seen on camera. After realizing she couldn't pin it on him she tried someone else, then the judge told her to stop.

@UncleEarl97

3 жыл бұрын

Judge should have referred her case to the prosecutor for prosecution to the maximum extent of the law! Let the newspapers spread those stories around just as much as all the sensational claims of asault!

@blueberrycupcake5144

3 жыл бұрын

What a loser

@paulgarduque5876

2 жыл бұрын

She should be arrested for fraud and your friend should sue her for slander.

@davidjones8942

2 жыл бұрын

@@paulgarduque5876 I've been in that situation before (accused of hit and run, not rape) and after spending over $10k to defend myself in court against absolutely absurd charges, it just didn't make any sense to waste another $8-10k on more legal fees to get a gudgement against the lying POS that I would most likely never actually a penny of... the cost was just not worth the satisfaction of winning a court battle that would not actually reimburse any of my expeanses.

@samiulhuda4001

Жыл бұрын

she should have gone to prison for 20 years. lying about rape is worse than rape

The father in that second story actually made me sick

@jasondyrkacz8270

3 жыл бұрын

I honestly hope he got falsely accused just for karma purposes.

@Superbatmanbro

3 жыл бұрын

@@jasondyrkacz8270 same and then he’ll see how the son feels

@OrangePony75

2 жыл бұрын

He was in a tough spot. What makes me sick is the fact that a (false) accusation is enough to send a man to jail, no due process needed! Happens in my country also, all due to 3rd wave feminism. We must stop this crap.

@thebrotherhood227

2 жыл бұрын

@@OrangePony75 hi fun fact your much more likely to be actually sexually assaulted than have a false rape claim made about you Don’t use my comment as an excuse to hide misogyny behind a false narrative x

@VitorHugoOliveiraSousa

2 жыл бұрын

@@OrangePony75 he could have bail his son, hell he should have hired a lawyer, so he could plead his case on the public "forum" defend his reputation, plead his case for friends, to his girlfriend, etc. He didn't need to blind believe him, but he shouldn't threated him guilty until prove innocent especially as he father. He was one of the only people obligated morally to give his soon the benefit of the doubt. There is where he lost his son. The stepmon should have supported her daugther and after the truth came out they disown the lier/criminal.

Looking back at all 3 of these stories, I noticed one common trend, all the accusations are being made by underaged girls, who appear to have compromised relationships with their parents, being coerced by other male figures. How do you even go about legal actions against these girls making these horrible choices?

Second story makes me physically sick. Some people don’t deserve to be parents and these two are absolutely some of them. 🤢🤢 how could you not even CONSIDER that your son might be innocent, and take even the slightest measures to protect him. God I can’t put enough words together to express how much I hate those parents

@steelheart538

Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately on other vids on the same story, the comments said that the guy may have ended his life.

Second story You threw your son to the wolves without any proof he’s going to hate you for the rest of your life And you’re still with the stepmother that’s also a slap in the face

@cecejamesable

3 жыл бұрын

I'd practically disown everyone on the spot and go off the grid. I don't know how he didn't kick the stepmom and stepsister out on their asses.

@Araneus21

3 жыл бұрын

@@cecejamesable he's having physical intercourse with the stepmom, he's not going to give that away a just for an uncertain chance that his son will regain an ounce of his trust in him

@cecejamesable

3 жыл бұрын

@@Araneus21 Either way, he fucked up.

@darthaino9979

3 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't be forgiving and honestly they shouldn't be surprised if he commits not alive.

@ianmoritzplatapino3684

3 жыл бұрын

The most infuriating thing is the "punishment " the daughter got. Wow 👏. If I were the son I would go on my way and never go back. Never forgive nor forget.

I hope the son never forgives his family or anyone in his old life. The dad literally ruined his life basically forever. Sure he can "recover" but he learned that he can do everything right, be innocent, and do good and still have everything ripped from him and everyone abandon him. He'll never know what true family is until he builds it himself.

@xevira

3 жыл бұрын

If that ever happens, which is doubtful. He will have a hard time trusting anyone ever again. If the people he should have been able to trust about anything shunned him, who could he trust after that? The answer is sadly no one. There won't be anyone in his life that he will trust that much ever again.

@bloodymary12100

3 жыл бұрын

@Rich Rancy That is what i would suggest doing,getting a complete name change (not just last name),new social security number,birth certificate,the whole nine yards.My hope for the son is that he is able to make it big someday (rich and powerful) and get some real payback on everybody who wronged him.

@LadyLeomon

3 жыл бұрын

XWings001 I hope he does, I really do. I hope he finds happiness somewhere with new friends and a good woman he can trust with the truth and build a family, preferably in another State. Come on what punishment did the girl really get other than “no inheritance and moving in with dad”? She gets to leave the scorched mess she made behind with no consequences and that makes me *furious!* 😡😡😡

@LadyLeomon

3 жыл бұрын

Noneya Business just makes me mad thinking about it, hope this young man gets a fresh start and better people I his life 😢😢😢

@anacaonabori1277

3 жыл бұрын

You are right- you tend to build walls around you when that happens. If family can do that imagine what your enemies can do?

I love how, in the reddit of the second story, the highest rated reply was someone denying the story ever happened because it went against her life views and narratives

@davidnash8208

2 жыл бұрын

There many women who fell for the 'women must be believed; mantra and cannot bear to have their belief in it questioned even with evidence.

@jffry890

2 жыл бұрын

Did you mean on the actual thread, not the video?

Moral of the story. Stay away from single moms.

A false accusation of rape is like a bad smell that never completely goes away

@VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer

3 жыл бұрын

False accusations are more like aids It follows you everywhere, sticks to you for life and can/will kill you (being killed in prison or by a street vigilante)

@caprt8977

3 жыл бұрын

The best solution is change your name and cut all contact.

@66DoodleGal

3 жыл бұрын

@@caprt8977 Sometimes even THAT isn't enough

@LinneAzalea

3 жыл бұрын

It’s not only rape. It’s any false accusation of a serious crime.. People get falsely accused of murder and whatnot. That smell will stick to them forever

@ps9501

3 жыл бұрын

@@LinneAzalea I would rather get false accused of murder than anything involving children and most likely you would as well. Even in prison murderers are in top of food chain while people who hurt children are bottom feeders.

Story 2: So is the jail time on the son’s record? In that case his life is royally ruined. Forget college just getting a job might be tough.

@VideoCesar07

3 жыл бұрын

That is the great thing about our lovely legal system. Even if you are found completely innocent YOU are responsible for expunging it from your record and the courts make it a long, drawn out process as if they hope you give up. The older I get the more grateful I am for being single. Those stories are the reason why so many advise against dating single mothers. The kids, the ex and the mom. Any one of them can ruin your life in the blink of an eye.

@VideoCesar07

3 жыл бұрын

I think I should clarify that you should not avoid all single mothers, but you should definitely get a clear picture of if the ex is involved and what the nature of their relationship is, how are the kids taking them being separated, etc. You just want to avoid getting dragged into a bad situation you could have easily avoided.

@garystewart2355

3 жыл бұрын

Even if he could go back to college that’s the last thing he needs if anyone found out they would protest him “cuz all men are guilty no false allegations “

@superdave8248

2 жыл бұрын

@@VideoCesar07 That is the thing about having money (which I'm willing to bet this family has plenty of). If the father hadn't already hired the most expensive law firm in the state to get his son's record expunged then he is truly the $%^& father of the year. As for the comment about single mothers. I think you were right the first time. No clarification needed. Many of the "red pill" youtubers say the same thing about them. And yes, they do reference situations where the stepdaughters could throw false accusations at the new husband for any number of reasons and know that the criminal justice system will do little to nothing towards the child for making the false claims. If you as a man want to get involved with a single mother, do it after the kids are grown and out of the house.

@cpob2013

2 жыл бұрын

Arrests dont really keep you from getting a job, only being sentenced to jail

10:54 How can women keep getting away with this stuff, just by telling ONE lie. She ruined his ENTIRE life, something in our society needs to be done about this. Any woman can claim she was violated by someone and they are instantly going to have repercussions, even if it is a lie. If I man says this about a woman however, nothing ever happens. I like how women are still trying to get equal rights, when everything is so one sided for them now. I guess this is just how the world is going to be, all I can do is chuckle at this worlds chaotic-ness.

As someone who falsely accused of abusing my sister as well I can tell you right now OP will never EVER get his son back and he doesn’t deserve to false accusations like that will DESTROY YOU both mentally and emotionally I have cut contact with my entire family they still try to contact me to this day and the accusation happened the moment I turned 18 I’m 27 now and had no contact with them so I can tell you right now he lost his son forever

@FreshRizzler

Жыл бұрын

From what I remember about this reddit post before it got deleted, the son didn't make out through all the meds

@krystalvixen3334

11 ай бұрын

@@FreshRizzler so the son passed away?

@FreshRizzler

11 ай бұрын

@krystalvixen3334 yeah I believe he took his own life. But this reddit thread got deleted

@cyrussnow6060

9 ай бұрын

The father took his own life. The sons living with his s/o in Japan

@wolves600

8 ай бұрын

@@cyrussnow6060 assuming that that update is true

This video is why “everyone has the right to a defense” and “innocent until proven guilty” is very important. Having exceptions to these rules can be devastating.

@memeking7273

3 жыл бұрын

"ha ur funny" -the women of this stories

@davidjones8942

2 жыл бұрын

@@memeking7273 unfortunately, you are more right than wrong!!!

@caspeeing9237

2 жыл бұрын

in the case of rape accusations I have to slightly disagree - too many people who are raped never get justice. So when the accusation comes up I would personally believe the victim until proven true or false. The other side of the father actions would be worse- if the son did rape her and the dad sheltered him and posted his bail that would look so bad. I think the father did what he thought was right with the information he had in my opinion.

@davidjones8942

2 жыл бұрын

@@caspeeing9237 I certainly hope you fon't don't on any juries.....

@jablue4329

2 жыл бұрын

@@caspeeing9237 Nope. There's a difference between being treated as the suspect and being treated as guilty. Trust but verify is the core of this, and if you can't verify it, there aren't grounds to punish it, simple as that. There are rape kits and evidence preservation in hospitals and support systems meant to give victims the means to acquire justice for a reason. That reason? Because the person being accused hasn't done it if you can't show it. And that's how it should be for anything with real, serious consequences for anyone.

That second OP needs to realize that if his son didn't need his financial support and help right now he'd never get involved with him again. Your relationship with your son is dead forever.

@joec4997

5 ай бұрын

Right? I would never forgive him. He sides with his scumbag stepdaughter over his own flesh and blood without even listening to him? What an asshole

That BS about being a mom and doing what you have to and youll do it again - No, false accusations should come with equal prison time.

@existenceisrelative

3 жыл бұрын

No, that part's real. You've gotta jump at the shadows, because any of them _can_ hold danger. But part of "what she's gotta do" should also be looking at the evidence, and holding her daughter accountable for attempting to take someone's life.

@MariaEduarda-ng1th

3 жыл бұрын

No, she was right, her daughter was a child and a parent must always put their child in priority How many children do you think are abused by family members and the parents ignore it, treat like it is a joke or lie? But aside from that, everything is bullshit

@RosalinaSucksDonkeyD24

3 жыл бұрын

A 13 year old was manipulated into telling a lie and you think the MOM deserves prison time!? The mom did the right thing having it investigated, if anyone should be in trouble the girls father should.

@MaggieTheCat01

3 жыл бұрын

Her shitstain of a father should take the lion’s share of the consequences.

@Ultimascale4

2 жыл бұрын

I would have kicked them out ASAP. The daughter Can't hit me with that statement. Play stupid games and win stupid prizes. They'll be held accountable

The second story made me so angry. Imagine having your life and mental health ruined by something you didn't do, and the person who should be your ultimate protector has turned against you. That parent might feel regret now, but if he loved and cared about his son as much as he says does, he wouldn't blindly trust some girl over his own son.

2nd story WTF? you dont deserve a Son you betrayed your own blood

@memeking7273

3 жыл бұрын

Tbh he shown who is his fav child

@aaz.4040

3 жыл бұрын

That Guy a total simp , simp King.

@arkm7792

3 жыл бұрын

@@aaz.4040 Exactly what I thought

@jasondyrkacz8270

3 жыл бұрын

That OP was a major asshole.

@memeking7273

3 жыл бұрын

@@jasondyrkacz8270 tbh I am just waiting for the karma to visit him

Do not take her back. Yes protecting her daughter is her priority, but protecting yourself is your priority.

@richardcasey7521

2 жыл бұрын

And this I why a guy should ever take in a single mom with a daughter.

Story Two: Has there been any update on the sorry excuse of a parent? I never traverse on reddit an I am wondering how this "parent" will make it up to his broken son.

@tylernelson3343

Жыл бұрын

I had heard that the son had committed suicide but the post was deleted

@Lil_Queen_or_Bre91

Жыл бұрын

Apparently the sister of the son came and made an update when she found the post on Reddit but it did get deleted and she explained that the son end up committing suicide

@cosmicspider9132

8 ай бұрын

​@@Lil_Queen_or_Bre91damn

Moral of these stories: Never outright believe an accusation without proof. Even if it's your own child making the accusation.

@coolmaddy90

3 жыл бұрын

And leave the single moms, single.

@Fx_Explains

2 жыл бұрын

@@coolmaddy90 no

@shroudex6719

2 жыл бұрын

@@Fx_Explains yes.

"But what if he really did it?" Those words, that little voice in the back of everyone's head, is going to follow him for life. It's the reason his friends are distancing themselves from him and why the college isn't allowing him back without reapplying. It's probably an excuse and there'll just reject any future applications. It'll be there with every job interview and every girlfriend. His ability to trust others is in the bin and now he's trapped with the one person he should have been able to trust. You can't sweep this under the rug. There isn't a rug big enough.

@blackjedi2008

3 жыл бұрын

Yea, dont know how the father can fix this.

@walle5667

3 жыл бұрын

@@blackjedi2008 He cannot. What I don't get is how you can just believe accusations without even investigating anything. Like you raised this kid, how are you willing to just believe the worst of him without any proof? Shouldn't you stick with your kid until you know he did it? He should have paid the bail, kept the two apart and waited for the investigation to progress. But just utterly giving up on him without any proof... this is so scary. Too much power in the hands if a dumb, vicious girl. I reckon they never thought of destroying her life after the truth came out. Did they report her to the police? Have her charged for slander and worse? Reckon not.

@lugia187

3 жыл бұрын

@@walle5667 because the percentage of false allegations is very very low, 2% in my State. Who would you believe? Just cause he is your blood doesn't mean he can't be a monster. If I decided to believe my son I would just be in denial, because in 98/100 cases he would really be the rapist

@HitPeace

3 жыл бұрын

I'm in the same boat

@bernardhaller3754

3 жыл бұрын

if i was the son i'd never talk to the father again and move away. and get a lawyer to take the collage to court for expulsion and mental anguish.

2nd story. YTA isn't harsh enough. You destroyed your son's life, eliminated his ability to have due process, and left him to rot in jail on false accusations. You betrayed his very foundation of trust in family, school, society, and government, all in one fell swoop. It's actually impressive in its own way.

@zibix4562

3 жыл бұрын

Yep. I suppose this is male privilege.

@anandasatria7734

3 жыл бұрын

@@zibix4562 Female previlege. See how the accusers gets away with minimal punishment?

@superdave8248

2 жыл бұрын

My take ... The son was in an Ivy League school. No small feat to begin with. This family has money. That is half the problem. The entire extended family would oppose the daughter facing criminal charges when she is just 13 years old. And depending on the state, a false police report dealing with a child can carry a felony charge. The girl, would end up in juvenile custody until she was 18. A pretty harsh punishment for a child who can't even process the ramifications of her actions. So what the hell do you do? One, lets cut the BS. The OP did this, but if anybody here doesn't think this was a direct result of his Stepmother giving the OP pure hell to punish his own child, you are insane. She did this and the father finally broke down and followed suit. You want to start making amends? Divorce the stepmother. Two, you say the stepdaughter is disinherited. BS. Mom is going to look out for her daughter. And mom is going to do behind the OPs back when doing it. And if you think she actually wrote her out of the will ... you are insane. Reason number two to divorce the stepmother. When it comes to her daughter's interests, they will never match the OPs. If anybody is written out of her will, it is the stepson. Not her daughter. Additionally, now that the bio-father has custody of the daughter, he can now ask for child support. Which he would be granted. And guess whose money would be paying for said child support? Yep, OP. Three, two people need to have a conversation with the son. One person he trusts to asks him the straight forward question of what he wants to do from here. The second is the OP, to tell his son that he has every reason to be angry but the anti-depressants aren't the way to go. Redirect that anger from depression to a more constructive outlet. That he won't be the first man to half to rebuild from scratch and he won't be the last. And then you tell him the stepmom and stepsister are out of the picture. Gone with the toxicity. You and him are in it together. You just need to know what he wants to do moving forward. And yes OP, you are going to financially support whatever it is he wants to do constructively with the rest of his life. That is how you start to fix things. Not the beta male/female shrink who doesn't have a clue what the son is going through. Not the crocodile tears from the step mom. Not the false assurances that the stepdaughter is out of the picture. You make amends by redirecting all your energies toward your son. And one other thing. It is time to move. Move somewhere that nobody knows you. Too many bad memories in that home. Sale it or burn it to the ground. Your choice. But burning it to the ground might be more therapeutic and would definitely send a strong message to your son that you are standing by your convictions to support him.

@HIOAZA1523

2 жыл бұрын

@@anandasatria7734 I think you missed the point of his remark

@anandasatria7734

2 жыл бұрын

@@HIOAZA1523 Yeah. It flew through my head. It clicked in my head just now

No wonder real victims of sexual assault have hard time being believed. These vile and contemptible females who falsely and maliciously make ruinous accusations should be held accountable at the highest level. The young ones, just think what they'll grow into. Scary.

The thing women don't realize is how easily an accusation like that can completely destroy a man's life. It's no game and the father should do time for putting her up to it.

@noahsawyer7155

10 ай бұрын

Not only did that accusation ruined his life, she caused him to commit suicide

Damn she literally ruined his life and got away with it, sickening

@memeking7273

3 жыл бұрын

Have u heard of Doublestandards? That thing that has basically become a free pass to ruin someone's life if u have a Vagina?

@Allantitan

3 жыл бұрын

@@Sphinx26 and that’s why I believe we need stricter laws about that bs where if someone falsely accuses another of that stuff than they get the same jail time that the accused would have gotten

@dufftheduff7335

3 жыл бұрын

Its called feminism

@cutekitty1212

3 жыл бұрын

This and baby trapping need to be illegal

@CryWolf-sm9iw

3 жыл бұрын

Remember tho we have to believe all women.

That poor young man, losing everything because of his step sister lies. I can't imagine how he must have felt knowing he was innocent and that his father believe those things about him. Poor thing. My heart breaks for him.❤️

@ianmoritzplatapino3684

3 жыл бұрын

He should divorce his wife.

@laucorn123

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah sadly he is never going to recover from this fully. Its shit like this that pisses me off to no end. It also reminds me of that one lady who said "Men and boys falsely accused of rape can use it as a learning experience to reflect on how they treat women."

@Valk..

3 жыл бұрын

@@laucorn123 bruh, hearing that makes me pray to a god I dont believe in, pray I never meet people like that, because I don't think I'd be able to hold myself back from bitchslapping them.

@laucorn123

3 жыл бұрын

@@Valk.. i cant say I blame you. Here's another example of false accusation being used for personal gain. Watch the woman's reaction when the truth comes out. kzread.info/dash/bejne/aJN3spqseaaTaLg.html

@annhans3535

3 жыл бұрын

@@laucorn123 her face looked so nasty. You know she is upset that she was called out on her lie. People like that never own up to their lies. They have to keep believing it because how else can they continue living.

The boy in second story lost everything. Friends he's had for years, a girl he likely was serious with, and his IVY LEAGUE COLLEGE EXPERIENCE.

That 2nd story is soooo aggravating, why did the step daughter not end up with charges? Like, she literally ruined that kid's life..stuff like this makes me so mad.

See how easily a man’s life is turned into hell with one accusation. All it takes is some female to say “he did it officer...he touched me” and the next thing you know everything is gone, your life, your business everything.

@xevira

3 жыл бұрын

And that's why I #NeverBelieveAnyWoman

@JCfireman

3 жыл бұрын

@@xevira I prefer evidence first then I'll decide weither I should believe them or not

@ChrisAndCats

3 жыл бұрын

It's also further reaching too. There's the devastation to the innocent party - some people have taken their lives when falsely accused - but also they take away resources and damage people's perception of genuine victims. As a woman, I think false accusations are despicable and should be heavily punished. They cause untold damage to the innocent party and also genuine victims.

@LinneAzalea

3 жыл бұрын

But what is the option? Obviously it’s terrible and vile, but there’s literally no way of stopping people from being terrible and vile. If so we wouldn’t have actual rapes of small children or people being brutally murdered. Obviously vile and terrible women exist too, even if the most serious crimes are often committed by men. But then what? We shouldn’t believe any woman? The justice system doesn’t just take everything women say at face value, they do a full investigation to collect evidence etc. But the justice system isn’t perfect, which is why we have falsely accused people on death row or that have already lost their lives through the capital punishment. Obviously the evidence and the investigation need to be correct and thorough. But remember that the ratio between falsely accused men and women/children/men that actually get raped is isn’t nearly as close as what many men would like to claim. It’s far more likely for a woman to get raped, than for a man to get falsely accused. The justice system isn’t perfect, and I don’t really think this flaw can be fixed. We would need some sci-fi level of equipment to look into people’s memories for it. Or start having cctv covering literally every centimeter of the earth. In the meantime - yeah it’s downright heinous to accuse anyone of anything they haven’t done. Maybe teaching young girls to not do those things unnecessarily would help a little, just as teaching young boys to never touch a woman without her consent also help a little. But the bigger issue still remains - some humans will always be terrible people.

@xevira

3 жыл бұрын

@@JCfireman That's my sentiment. The phrasing of the hashtag was to counter the BelieveAllWomen bullshit.

i hate stories like number two False accusers should suffer just as much as the accused they need to be put on a list lose their jobs and or kicked out of college just so they know what it's like

@walle5667

3 жыл бұрын

Even if you did all that they would never know. It is one thing to suffer punishment for your screw up, it is a whole other thing to be innocently punished.

@VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer

3 жыл бұрын

False accusers need to be punished ten fold to deter anyone else from falsely accusing someone

@adrianrocha49

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly, if the accused have to walk around with that stain on them, the accusers should always have to be labeled, "falsely accused my stepbrother of abusing me just so my mom wouldn't learn I was having sex."

Last story he should sue the sil for defamation of character. She needs to be held accountable for her actions. What he did was perfect get the fil for damages and harassment. But honestly that sil needs jail time for that accusation.

That TIFU: I would doubt the son kills himself over this. Worlds greatest dad there…

2nd story: I feel so sorry for the son. "I could not defend him for such an awful act." No, you shouldn't defend him IF HE IS GUILTY!!!! But he wasn't. You looked at the horrendousness of the crime and that completely obliterated your ability to consider that maybe she was lying. Because of that you've now completely obliterated any trust or confidence your son may have had in you. You're dead to him. I would say as soon as he can go it on his own be prepared to never hear from him again but sadly because of what you've done him being able to make it on his own is now severely impaired. This will always follow him. Accusations like this against men, even when proven false, don't just go away.

@UncleEarl97

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed 100%, the psychological scaring of the boy by his own father without solid proof! Dad will believe GF's daughter but not his own flesh and blood? Worst Dad of the year award! Dad destroyed everyone, GF and his own son. GF's daughter is pretty messed up to make a serious allegation like that in a sworn police statement. By the way dear readers, filing a false police report is a crime! But prosecutors usually just roll their eyes at them and ignore the damage done.

@SuperZez

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I hate it when people use the intensity of the accused crime as a metric for how messed up defending them is, rather than the strength of the evidence against them.

@jasondyrkacz8270

3 жыл бұрын

It would be poetic justice if the stepdaughter falsely accused him of raping her.

@joemomma2189

3 жыл бұрын

@@jasondyrkacz8270 I honestly hope that stepdaughter gets whats coming to her.

@ItsLukeyB

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. The dad just decided he was guilty and would’ve left him to rot behind bars if the step sister didn’t speak up. (She should 100% be in jail btw) He’s right, he failed as a father and his son will probably never be able to trust him again

If my dad did what the 2nd story did, i would want vengeance. not even posting bail so quick to sell out your own blood

@kvn5512

3 жыл бұрын

If my step sister did that to me she would probably be dead

@victormontes7007

3 жыл бұрын

Hey dad remember when she lied got me expelled and everyone turned their backs to me? She's going to Ivy school too so guess what you have to do now that its her turn. You have to go to that school and get her expelled and osterized by her friends then only then can the foundation of our relationship can be rebuilt.

@gaywerewolf1294

3 жыл бұрын

@@victormontes7007 that's actually... A nice juicy piece of revenge

@shirin9452

3 жыл бұрын

I was playing video games when I heard and I just yelled what when I heard it. I couldn’t believe it, this is disgusting wtf wtf I don’t condone sexual assault in any way but even I would not immediately believe that my son had done that and REPORT HIM TO THE AUTHORITIES I- And he refused to post bail !?

@Superbatmanbro

3 жыл бұрын

If my dad ever did this to me,forgiveness will be a long long long process and I would definitely hate one of my sister’s a lot and definitely leave the house

The Story about the step daughter accusing the son was so heartbreaking wtaf.

How is the second daughter not in prison, she basically ruined a mans life. He got expelled from an IVY LEAGUE college, what are the chances he gets accepted again? All his friends bailed on him as well.

I love how, in the last story, Op was called a coward for denying it. Like yes let me just accept my very serious allegations of child rape. Wtf

@JohnSmith-wx9wj

3 жыл бұрын

Popular sophism right now is that denial is evidence of guilt.

This is almost exactly what happened to a loved one of mine. The girl admitted it was false and that her dad put her up to it so he can get back with her mom. His lawyer told my loved one that she believes he’s guilty and might as well take a plea deal. He was scared cause he was facing 25 years for it so he took a plea deal. Spent 9 years in prison and has to register for the rest of his life. He has zero chances of getting custody of his son now and has a hard time finding employment.

@memeking7273

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. I really REALLY hope that family gets some Karma (or idk we stop believing false Rape accusations but that's easy said than done)

@dufftheduff7335

3 жыл бұрын

I got accused of "liking Kids" for just sitting in a park and reading a book. The police wouldnt even let me report the two feminist bitches of false accusations afterwards.

This poor guy deserves so much love and appreciation. Sounds like a stand up guy.

Oh my God... I put these videos on in the background whilst I'm doing menial tasks. None of the content has ever snapped me out of what I've been doing faster than the one about the falsely accused son. That poor lad.

2) “everything I have has always been for you” - until he started a new family & immediately choose to take the step sisters side while showing zero support at all for his own son. Disgusting.

"I could not defend him for such an awful act" If he actually did it! He kept on denying it continuously and you just straight up believed and aided your stephdaughter in damaging the life of your son. If your son never wants to see you again, it's all on you.

@SnowyWolborg

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. That one line heavily implies that OP never asked questions and just took the stepdaughter's word as truth. OP completely failed as a father because when his son needed him most, he showed who's side he was on.

@Vydio

3 жыл бұрын

@@SnowyWolborg That is why he should be doing everything he can to move out of that house, I wish I could have helped him. He was never going to be safe there.

Backstory: I (23M at the time) was living in a small town where everybody knows everybody. My ex (21F) reported me for assault while I was still dating her. I'm an avid Pokémon GO player and in a small town, you need to be in groupchat of fellow small town players to complete raids together. News spread of her accusation and everybody scorned me, made threats and some local gang members even tried to follow me home on a few occasions. I couldn't go outside without someone trying to kick my ass, call me an offender or insult me and my only saving grace was the Pokémon GO group chat. They knew that I wouldn't do something like that and offered to keep me company outdoors but I eventually gave up on that because I didn't want to put them in danger. It's been 3 and a half years and the police investigation has turned up nothing but it's too late. I'm labeled as scum and nobody wants anything to do with me. I haven't left my house in years and have no friends or relatives I can move in with temporarily until I can find a job out of town and move close to work. I have groceries delivered to my house and work from home. It's enough to get by but without the opportunity to start from scratch in a new town, my life is basically over and I never even got to live it. I can't afford lawyer fees and my ex creates new phone numbers to make group chats where she bashes me with her friends so I can't even wait it out because it never stops. I don't know what I did to make her do this to me but it's clear that I won't be excused. TL;DR: Assault accusations are no joke. Please be careful of who you hang out with, women can ruin your life with one sentence.

@Alucardx25

2 жыл бұрын

Im sorry about your situation, but you definitely need a lawyer, how you describing it, its a threat on your life. And keep the messages shes and her friends are sending you, tell the laywer you want to go after them for Harassing and Defamation of Character. When it comes to your finances, there are jobs you could do online, because it's important to get your finances in order so you could get a lawyer

@yosiahw4305

2 жыл бұрын

@@Alucardx25 I do work from home, I can't afford a lawyer and I've kept every single message over the years. Maybe I need a 2nd job I guess.

Never date or marry someone with a child from a pre-existing relationship. Ever.

The second story, the sons life is over no amount of trying will ever get it back..

@echo1548

3 жыл бұрын

Facts like he lost his girlfriend, friends and OP thinks a simple I love you son is gonna fix that like nah that’s not how it works his life is ruined

@reishiki5699

3 жыл бұрын

@@echo1548 and he’s acting like getting the son back into college would help him. I feel so bad for the son. He’s never gonna be the same and honestly I wouldn’t be surprised if he killed himself over this. I really do hope he recovers tho.

@TheGumbyRules

3 жыл бұрын

@@reishiki5699 The son will be lucky to get into a community college at this point. The father, stepmother and stepsister wrecked him.

@theminuteman7611

3 жыл бұрын

At that point he needs to change his name and cut all contact from his family as soon as he gets some semblance of stability. Don't take any risks. I'd just be honest with the judge when doing it saying "accused of false accusation that can greatly affect my ability to work and provide for myself".

@evos469

3 жыл бұрын

Op is lucky his son doesn't turn on him. There's no way in hell his relationship with his son is going to anywhere back to normal. In the old Asian days when parents did this they made it right.

Although I agree that the mother was right in protecting her daughter. However, once it was determined to be false she should have apologized and severely punished her daughter and brought charges against her ex.

This is why men all over are saying, "Say no to single mothers". This is real.

That son should sue the hell out of his dad, step-sister, the police department, the college, and the step-mom. Defamation of character, emotional abuse, slander, false imprisonment, possibly a violation of his sixth amendment right to a speedy trial (held for two weeks), discrimination (college expelled him without due cause).

How can the father stay with his wife after what her daughter did? I'd always be looking at her like your daughter ruined my sons life? The son should sue everyone involved including his own father

@tarickpersaud6761

3 жыл бұрын

He love his new family more

@LadyLeomon

3 жыл бұрын

Tracy Willoughby I have an idea and it rhymes with Chex, hope she was worth it asshole 😒😒😒

@McCarthyism_by_Youtube

3 жыл бұрын

he's a beta simp with no spine. I know the wife saw this and she'll ghost him after taking his savings and 401K

@seaofroses8888

3 жыл бұрын

The wife did not force her daughter to do what she did. They are two separate individuals. We don't know how long they were married. It is possible he saw the girl as his own daughter.

@chuckysmaria6466

3 жыл бұрын

@@seaofroses8888 And what did she do AFTER it was found out that she made it all up? That's what make both parents and even justice system despicable. They were eager to make use the full force of the law on mere accusation because gr@p3, but barely anything on the false accuser.

In the Second Story. How much is a defamation claim worth when the slanderous claim cost you access to an Ivy League College? 50 or 60 million dollars in Lost potential earnings over a 20-year time frame? I would definitely sue my parents into poverty over that

@sahilsaini2000

2 жыл бұрын

He can sue the college to be honest, much more lucrative

I feel bad for the innocent Ivy League boy. He did every single thing right in his life according to the description and it was all taken away because of one accusation and it is completely irreparable. The father could have definitely done better by his son. I’ve personally been through similar events as him and no, I do not trust or forgive, only hate the people involved and my life wasn’t even ruined compared to this guy.

Does the father know what they do to suspected sex offenders in Jail / prison? He has not got a clue what he allowed to happen.

Beyond criminal charges for those spouting false allegations, every OP should look at civil litigation against the parent of the accusers. These people need to find a nice cold corner of hell and take up residency! As for the Step daughter case, son should look at suing dad and step mom as well as criminals against that evil witch. Lives get ruined over this shit and the fakers never get punished.

@nicholashodges201

3 жыл бұрын

Can't sue a minor. But I think you can sue whoever is fiscally responsible for them and the damages they cause. He should try suing the biodad. The only future that child deserves is on a stage in a seedy bar.

@TheGumbyRules

3 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, our western culture is dismissive of men's (and boys') suffering and injustices heaped on them. There's even some feminist who said something to the effect that men falsely accused can learn from the experience.

@chuckysmaria6466

3 жыл бұрын

Is it illegal to publish names of false accusers? We do it for gr@pist through 53x offenders list

False accusations should be sentenced 10 years of jail time and pay him what he financial lost during the trial.

@N1korasu

3 жыл бұрын

No they should get the max of whatever they accused falsely

The price of dating a single mother 😂

That is the price you pay for dating single Moms. Spread the word gentlemen!

I was similarly accused when I was 17. The girl confessed she made it all up during the investigation. The reason? My gaming collection was, and still is, extensive. She thought she could take it all were I arrested. Here 23 years later, the accusation is still on record even though no charges were ever filed. I found this out when one of my friends had a background check done on him. This also brought me up as one of his associations. It absolutely floored me. Thankfully, we had been friends throughout the entire ordeal so he was well aware of everything that transpired. I think even the guy conducting the background check was surprised that an uncharged accusation popped up. After I spoke to my mother about it, I found out that one of the investigators just "knew I was guilty" and really wanted me in jail. This messes with you forever. I have 3 daughters and my wife is pissed off as I have had a hard time changing diapers and bathing them. Even with my own family, I am always worried someone will pull that same trick.

@Sight-Beyond-Sight

2 жыл бұрын

@Phuck KZread Yeah, she was a kid (hence why she was after my gaming collection).

@dreamimgflowerd976

2 жыл бұрын

How can there be so much evil in humans? The girl who accused you is not a human she is a devil's spawn.

@ahaha_ahaha8351

2 жыл бұрын

@@dreamimgflowerd976 Scary isn't it, the complete lack of empathy in some of these things is disturbing psychopathic even

@birdybanks5819

2 жыл бұрын

Is the record still not expunged. This is defamation.

just searched the 2nd story and dam that was already 6 years ago, I wonder what happened to the son

@minatoarisato8798

3 жыл бұрын

Sadly I think the son either still has it extremely tough or he has killed himself. The father truly is a absolute piece of every living shit who deserves to know the consequences of his actions. The son he knew is gone as he fucking murdered him by doing all those thing at to him. Sorry for the long rant I am still shaking with anger I am just so mad.

@StopPlayingAtLife

3 жыл бұрын

what's the link? I was looking for it

@thomashumphrey1117

3 жыл бұрын

Wheres the link

@marubinmgd6838

3 жыл бұрын

@@thomashumphrey1117 just search u/*username of op* reddit in google and you'll get some results

I can't believe the sister cowardly ruined her own Brothers life just because she was afraid of her own consequences

"Why do I need experience only to get empathy" THANK YOU!...

2nd story: If my family did that to me, I'd disown them. Move to another state, legally change my name, and probably not brake if I saw them crossing the street.

@anthonylamonica8301

3 жыл бұрын

Hey, it's eight points... on your license!

@chillimack

3 жыл бұрын

Windscreen wipers on...

@jonathancross1736

3 жыл бұрын

And thats if you dont kill yourself first, jesus !!! I feel so bad That So much bad shit happened to him, if he ever manages to recover and get over this id consider that his will power is unbreakable and his heart likely made of pure titanium, and about as cold there after

@superdave8248

2 жыл бұрын

It took me about 5 seconds after listening to that story to know what I would need to do to fix this, and the father isn't man enough to come to the same immediate conclusions. There are a lot of words I want to use to describe the OP, being a "man" or a "father" isn't even in the top 100. He is no man. And he is no father.

@QixTheDS

2 жыл бұрын

@@anthonylamonica8301 worth it

It's not that any girl will ruin your life, it's that any girl CAN ruin your life.

@xevira

3 жыл бұрын

Yep.. #NeverBelieveAnyWoman ... You want to accuse someone of a crime? Prove it or Shut Up.

@VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer

3 жыл бұрын

And what's even worse, a child can ruin your life Pedophiles don't last long in prison

@cutekitty1212

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly it goes both ways. Imagine a women actually bring raped but not saying anything because of people like this. It's just fucking atrocious all around

@abrr2000

3 жыл бұрын

@@cutekitty1212 This is not about rape. But if it was, while women come forwards on the subject far more than men. Women are believed at face value, but a man who have been raped, face an uphill battle to even be recognized as a victim. And even then they are assumed to have wanted sex, because they are male. and in some countries, a man beinf forced to have sex with a woman against his will is not even legally considered a rape because of how rape is defined in law. No. This is about the fact that the system is so stacked in favour of women, that if a woman is caught on cammera beating up her husband. While he sits there and does nothing, she gets to play the victim, keep her job and be lorded as a hero. While the man gets fired as a wife beater scum bag, gets fired from his job, has his reputation and his entire life destroyed. Why? Because the woman abbused her position of "being believed" to lie about what he did to her. The most public example of this is the Jonny depp, amber heard situation. As the system stands. A man is not allowed to even deffend himself against crazy without being destroyed. While a woman is socially allowed to do whatever the hell she wants without consiquences. That is not a healthy or tennable social situation. Nore is it any form of equality between the sexes. Things ARE improving, because women are starting to face legal consiquences for these kind of actions. But the fact that women are so publically portrayed as the only victims that matter, while men don't matter at all, is slowing down the approach to true equality.

@Bleg94

3 жыл бұрын

@@abrr2000 and assuming he gets recognized as a victim, there is almost no help for male rape victims

False accusers must face jail time. They destroy lives. This should never, never go unpunished

False allegations need to be treated more harshly. Three just absolutely depressing, and sad things that happened to innocent people with no punishments.

Story 2: I can't help but feel that the entire time leading up to the stepdaughter telling the truth, the father was trying to prove to his new wife how he doesn't favor his own blood over his step-daughter and how he will protect all women at any cost. I bet that father gave himself a pat on the back the night he refused to post his son's bail. I can't imagine ever forgiving anyone in that family ever. If I was in that position, the moment I'm self-sufficient, I'm out of there and wouldn't be shy to share how disgusting everyone who played a role in this was.

"The daughter was manipulated" - so, if a young man was encouraged to sexually assault a woman, and he was "manipulated" into doing it, should we just "move on" and forget about it. "Why can't you just get over it" - shows a complete lack of seeing him as a human being who could have spent a decade in prison and put on a sex offender registry for the rest of his life.

@xyzsame4081

3 жыл бұрын

this is about manipulating into LYING not into assault ! - If a 13 year old boy is told by a parent to make up a lie - we could cut the boy (a young teenager) some slack. Also if the father instigates him to use physical violence. A father telling a son to molest or rape someone is a very unlikely example. A parent might however encourage a child to steal for them.

@StevenMRA

3 жыл бұрын

@@xyzsame4081 The example may not have been perfect, but the point was surely made.

@drpinky504

3 жыл бұрын

@@xyzsame4081 Either way a 13 year old knows better. One learns that lying is bad way before that age. A lie is assault on one's character

Worst nightmare ever! Skin crawls and goes cold when I think about this.

I won't even gonna lie, the 2nd story made me cry. Don't get me wrong, i'm a 26M, who doesn't cry often, but that just hits hard. My dad says exactly the same to everyone: "Rododeia is the pride and joy of my life". Just thinking about something like this happening to me, puts a knot into my neck and hang me in a tree.

The op father needs to look into helping his son change his name and move away. It won't fix things between them, but it's what the kid deserves. The step daughter definitely needs to be prosecuted.

@zibix4562

3 жыл бұрын

Yep pay for the expunge record, pay for a name change, pay to get him moved far away, help pay for his schooling, and ultimately leave him alone until the son can forgive the dad. Also needs to pay for his therapy.

The second story the young man felt betrayed and can not trust his own parents!! His whole life destroyed his reputation destroyed!!! All his childhood friends rejected him and the neighborhood knows as well as the town! That means he can not show his face in his neighborhood where he was raised and his home town his only choice is to move far away!!!! So the people at the college knows so his best bet is another college and if they dare mention the reason he got booted out that is slander I THINK check with lawyer!! If it can be slander then have him talk with the dean or perhaps best go to the college admissions office about keeping quite say they can say family emergency!!

@tarickpersaud6761

3 жыл бұрын

Thats sad

@lisahughes-sherring8891

3 жыл бұрын

Omg that story made me cry

@xyzsame4081

3 жыл бұрын

That story could be an incel phantasy (see how good man are accused and only with luck not ruined). Even if true: You are overly dramatic, his life is NOT ruined - it is a severe blow but the young man can recover. Father could do another round of telephone calls to his friends and the lumanaries in this town - if it is a small town or a certain neighbourhood. The good news is: he can recover, it is not like a bad diagnos or a dealy accident. Or the son getting addicted. Father should also talk to the pastor and influental people in their church, if they are active in one. The prudish stance on teenage sex would indicate that. Last but not least the father should have a video on youtube explaining the situation. (not good for the 16 year old but she brought this on herself and unlike the 13 year old of story 1 she should have understood what she was doing, and considered herself mature enough to have sex). With a watermark and a disclaimer that they will sue anyone and have youtube take down their channel if they take footage from it. (so not anti-women groups can abuse the material for their own purposes). Or the father and mother (of the 16 year old) could travel to the college and son tries to assemble the people that were his friends and aquaintances and the mother ! explains the situation That is important, because the father could be suspected to side with his son. The testimony of the mother is stronger. OP states that all his childhood friends at home knew, so then it was talk of the town or their social circles. If it had not happened, the son most likely would have moved to another region / state after graduating, likely into a city and no one knows of that story there. He would only return on the holidays and then his reputation in the town is of little importance. it is important that he clears his record at the college - in person, because he might meet these future graduates later in his career. His record (that he was a suspect and in jail) will not come up in job interviews since he was cleared. The father seems to be wealthy, or financially settled - so he can support the son with legal action to prompt the college to take him in again.(some hints about interviews on Fox, local TV, etc. if the college seems to be unwilling to make sure he will be admitted next season. And he and the stepmother can pay for counseling. Now and when he is back in college. If the story is true - and happened in 2020 - then there most be online learing courses in place so he could do something, if only to have it easier when he returns which may be emotionally draining in the beginning, when he tries to restore his standing with his peers. Son has lost one year, he knows jail from inside - he will need to find a reason for that delay in his resume (If it is noticeable, and he cannot speed up things, I would use a white lie and state it was a family event, parent needed help etc.). Who knows - the battle scars he received may add to his growth (like having an understanding / compassion regarding the prison system). I wonder to what degree the daughter was interviewed (by her mother) when the claim come up. And how prudish / hypocritical can a household be that a teenager had sex with bf, and _thinks_ the parents could learn about it (how ? that sounds lame, only if she would be pregnant, and OP stated nothing like that. If someone saw the young couple and would alert the parents - they would know it wasn't the stepbrother. all of that makes me think that is fiction. If not - how childisch / idiotic can a 16 year old girl be ? It does not reflect well on the mother, the stepfather too - and if they went to church on them, too. At best the 16 year old was so immature that she thought _this_ was a way to stay out of trouble. (aside from the ethical considerations, and what that would mean for the marriage for her mother, it is also plain stupid). Or she grasped what she was doing, and ruthlessly went ahead (but then it still was excessively stupid).

@treyjohnston3714

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah what’s the link?

@liliumkuronatasa3690

3 жыл бұрын

@@xyzsame4081 the second story happened 6 years ago.....the son is probably dead by now Prisoners don't really like rapist..nor molesters... Even if the son is alive, he will probably be a completely different person now..

Never date a single mother. Especially if she has a daughter. One word from her and your life could be potentially destroyed.

@muffinator1239

2 жыл бұрын

I disagree. It all comes down to how the kid was raised. If you see red flags early on, then leave.

Rape is a SERIOUS crime, literally among the most heinous thing a human being can commit to another. Falsely accusing someone of that should give the person an equivalent sentence. Every time someone falsely accuses someone else of rape, the real victims are the ones who will suffer later (along with the falsely accused).

This- this is equality? This is years of progress that women were tortured and died for? This...is an absolute fucking embaressment.

@Bitume5

3 жыл бұрын

As a woman I can say I hate women who lie about r*pe. What kind of fucking piece of shit do you have to be to do that. This is so disrespectful to women of past and present who fight for equality rn

@jecvjecv4890

3 жыл бұрын

@@Bitume5 yeah yeah, sure thing...

@ricaivory6571

3 жыл бұрын

@BMT so every woman has to agree with rape charges even if they false lol that makes no sense at all.

@LinneAzalea

3 жыл бұрын

This has absolutely nothing to do with equality though? This has to do with absolutely messed up teenagers. How did you even manage to draw the conclusion that it had anything to do with equality?

@joemomma2189

3 жыл бұрын

@@LinneAzalea I admittedly wrote this in anger- but my point that such a situation was allowed to present itself. The whole fact that they called him in when this happen was bad enough, but the mother not only trying to 'pick up where they left off' and trying to apologize/not for her daughter's actions- It boiled my blood. Women have for MANY years been suffering because of things like that happening, and now that it is finally being addressed and handled, there comes THESE people who are making the false accusations and ruining peoples lives. A school teacher (Who I will not reveal for privacy reasons) took away a girls phone and she spread lies about him s*xually assaulting her, the teacher was eventually fired, and committed suicide. This disrespects years worth of progress and now that attention is finally being drawn to a very real issue, this shit is happening- I mean what the fuck? The fact that the daughter (to my understanding of the post) faced no criminal charges irritates me further- yeah, she was manipulated, lets say that, but she knew what rape was and what it meant- There was only ever going to be one end result, She TRIED to ruin this guys life, and should be in juvie because of it. Maybe I am reading into a situation that isn't present, but my point is that she made a conscience decision to destroy her mother's relationship (which honestly, I imagine those two hating each other later down the line now) but faced no repercussion for it.

It shudders me, to remember there was a time that I believe that a woman could never LIE about a rape allegation!

@JohnnyDominion

3 жыл бұрын

You live and you learn. That is the important thing.

@rodatamx

3 жыл бұрын

My Brother is a police officer, worked some time in a police department for crimes against Woman 80% of the complains are false, made by mad girlfriends/wifes, most recant then Scary, scary as hell

@shells500tutubo

3 жыл бұрын

@@rodatamx Your brother have his information wrong, and I hope he doesn't work sex crimes. More likely women can't win 80% of the time, but that is not the same as not having been assaulted 80% of the time. Thinking like your brother's is why many women never report being assaulted.

@rodatamx

3 жыл бұрын

@@shells500tutubo Not an opinion, a fact, besides in my country you cant recant a sexual crime complaint, but still most of them are false Most of the officers are woman, and they hate the false accusers, they end up taking time from the real victims

@silverfox1492

3 жыл бұрын

I used to think the same until high school when a girl at my school had a whole rant about if you don't like how sex with an individual went or if they'd drag down your reputation to just lie and say they r**** you, I was horrified and refused to ever associate with that girl again much to the anger of a couple people in my social group

Such a relief hearing that he broke up with her

It absolutely baffles me how people can accuse people of SA, with literally no proof, just their word, and be believed in a heartbeat. The didn’t even question the kid in the second story. They just believed her. This is why REAL SA victims aren’t believed and have to spend lots of time dealing with depression and gathering proof before they can do anything.

No matter anyone's age past 8-10yrs if they make false claims like that they should be punished by the law.

@ToxicSunrise132

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah thirteen is old enough to know that that was wrong. Now I don't think she should be in jail - she's still just a kid - but mandatory counseling and a note somewhere that she's got a history of making false accusations would go a long way. Now the sixteen year old? She needs to be in jail.

@theswedishdude1

3 жыл бұрын

yea she's 13, that is easily old enough to know what she accusing him off and how serious those accusations were. she needs to suffer consequences for her actions.

@HodajuciParadoks

3 жыл бұрын

I was 8 and knew back then what is right and that was wrong. The first time I was in situation when girls in my class(1st grade) told me to hit some boy because he was a boy, I said "No, he did not hit me, why would I hit him" Sure the girls did not like me because of that, but I did not change my mind. I know that example is not sinester like this story, but I am saying if a parent do his or hers job, child should know this stuff even before school, even before 5years old child should learn this. Do not do harm, unless it is self difference, before you do something put yourself in their shoes,how would you feel. If you would not like to experience that, do not do to others. That is very simple. Empathy.

@hbsupreme1499

3 жыл бұрын

You guys are being too hard on children clearly kids can easily be manipulated that kid needs therapy and the person who forced her to lie needs to be punished by the law people always so easily to punish kids. That kid is brainwashed and needs to be fixed to help her not do it again. It's not as if she's 18 year old legal adult

@MichaelDavis-bj2bs

3 жыл бұрын

@@hbsupreme1499 This makes me think of Dave Chappelle's How Old Is 15? bit. She's 13, there are kids charged with murder that are younger.

That *TIFU.* There is nothing to be done. It was bad in the beginning, and he left him in jail. Incredible. Hope the son is alright, man. I'm dizzy just thinking about that kind of this.

@memeking7273

3 жыл бұрын

Tbh I imagine he is only living w OP until he gets enough money to leave and never coming back. (Also someone beat that step sis up please. I don't want to recommend murder rn)

@gamer242mooo

3 жыл бұрын

@@memeking7273 given the cash the dad is throwing around watch him try to buy his sons way back into college but that kid going to hate it because it feels fake

@arkm7792

3 жыл бұрын

@@gamer242mooo it is fake

@murdock94

3 жыл бұрын

@@memeking7273 if he is smart, he has already left.

@susan7775

3 жыл бұрын

He didn’t even have them talk with an arbitrator before siccing the police on him. I hope the son got the help he needed

Anyone making or assisting in these kind of false allegations must answer and be punished severely for them . The accusations can lead to disastrous outcomes and must not be brushed aside

Story 2: If you really think that him missing out on his year of school is the big issue here, then you're even more of a damn fool then I thought you were. You believed the words of your step daughter over your own son. Put him in jail on a bogus charge without even looking into it and refused to bail him out. I can only imagine the pain that he must have went through, having months worth of sleepless nights, terrified that if word of his false charge got out, the other inmates would torture and likely kill him. Wondering why his father hasn't stepped in to save him. IF he should go back to that school, his time there would be hellish. Likely getting jumped on the regular, girls wouldn't want him anywhere near them, teachers making his classes way harder, or impossible to pass, random passerbys calling him a pedo, or maybe even telling him to kill himself; it would be a nightmare. And you let the one who started all this go. Showing him that you don't feel bad about her breaking the law and ruining his life. You can't protect him from what he supposedly did, but you can with her? I really hope that he gets the help he needs and then some. IF he gets back on his feet, he'll likely need to move to another town to have any hope of a fufilling life, and I highly doubt he'll ever want to see you again. And no one would blame him.

Story 2: I hope his son move out and go far far away from his dad to start fresh where no ones know him..

@zibix4562

3 жыл бұрын

I wish the son would get everything he can from dad, including getting that off his record, and then leave 100%, including getting a name change and growing a beard/shaving the beard. Go far away where no one knows you and have nothing/little to do with women.

The second story made me get teary eyed and feel really bad for the son

Honestly. That second story about the kid. I feel so bad for him. I hope he gets the help he needs before its too late.