My girlfriend told me she wanted to play Russian roulette. I tried to warn her not play it. Instead of listening to me, she loaded the revolver with 2 extra bullets and decided to get drunk. Subsequently, she blew half her face off. Now, I know it's not her fault. I'm not victim blaming. It's just that we need a SAFE way to play Russian roulette.
@curiouso0l0ocuriousКүн бұрын
If I was in the 1st OP's place and discovered that my sibling treated my dad as an atm for her wedding and choose mom's AP, I would defintely also not go to the wedding, never.
@MinisterManDan2 күн бұрын
The BF has something called “Cassandra’s Guilt.” Cassandra was a character in Greek mythology cursed to see the future but not be believed with her warnings. Every time the BF sees OP struggling he thinks of how he could have warned her differently in a way she would have heeded, blaming himself for how he worded it or what he did to make her not believe him. I agree with that one commenter that this relationship is over, hes just waiting until he feels she’s healthy enough mentally that she doesn’t need him to care for her. That’s another thing, once someone becomes someone you have to nurse, it can be hard to flip the switch back to this is a romantic partner.
@scottys14233 күн бұрын
There was another Reddit to YT story a fee years ago like this one where the husband finds out nonebof his 3 or 4 adult kids is his. In that one the wife refused to admit it. A few days later she self deleted.
@user-hk2fc4jv2g3 күн бұрын
I have seen similar tales to this one on Reddit. It would appear that, in American culture, the rape of a woman is not seen as the serious crime that is is, but as something she 'deserved'. Sickening. Cue the abuse, as none of you have the balls to respect women, or to reply politely.
@scottys14233 күн бұрын
Saw a news story about a guy in the UK. He was already divorced when his doc mentioned that his condition (which he already knew about) renders patients sterile. He didnt know that part. He had four adult children. Confronts ex wife and she admits affair but wont reveal who it was.
@taz5983 күн бұрын
Story1 NTA Honestly sounds like wife only wants to stay married so he will pay for HER transition......you can't change what are sexually attracted too.....he should divorce and move on.
@omgwtfbbqkitty3 күн бұрын
Best advice I can give to this poor soul is be the best parent you can be and pass on your "dads" legacy of good memories and fatherhood.
@kossettereaditte75525 күн бұрын
The second story, OP is just kinda pathetic
@nickbagwell485 күн бұрын
Well, i understand he don't want 2nd priority for his wife.
@Pugiron5 күн бұрын
stupid for getting their careers ruined before alimony
@Reighsin6 күн бұрын
Oofy doofy Betabuxx deluxe lol sub 5 redditor
@grandparedpill26956 күн бұрын
Story number one: son you are dealing with a textbook narcissistic abuser. She keeps pulling you back in, that's called hoovering. She keeps looking for sympathy from other people by destroying your reputation. That again is textbook. Your best bet, is to go NC or no contact unless it is strictly to deal with your sons. There's an application, that you can get and she can put on her phone and that is it that's the only way you should communicate from now on.
@sidhu1397 күн бұрын
I often get mad while listening to these stories. What's happening to people nowadays? Why are so many people turning into spineless doormats? The OP's fiancee in story 1 got drunk and bad mouthed his family not once but twice, and the guy still comes here and asks, "So, internet strangers, what should I do?"
@tioraytm7 күн бұрын
He now knows and accepts you don't respect his boundaries and never will for him. OP was happy to destroy her relationship with her BF and he knows it. OP's BF has done his duty in getting her back on her feet and now is done. Even without the SA, I do not think OP is the right girl for her BF. OP sounds like a modern woman that does not for a moment consider her BF's feelings or boundaries. Let him go, he deserves someone better.
@jamespaz3228 күн бұрын
This is why til death do us part should be law. You get to do this he should get to pull that clause out of y’all agreement. 🤷♂️
@briansharp43888 күн бұрын
St 1, she/he wants you to PAY for her transition. Do not b3e a sucker
@The0-2DemonKing9 күн бұрын
This reminds me of a story exactly like this but from the Guy's POV.
@Lollocide9 күн бұрын
Seeking out a non- binary therapist who started throwing out slurs? Time to call the licencing board over massively inappropriate and unprofessional behaviour!
@EdwardHaren10 күн бұрын
I gave her my word I'd never leave no matter what, she said don't let me leave.
@EdwardHaren10 күн бұрын
I am in this same state except she's removed me to forget and not report it in fear of loss of her job or judgement. I would like for her to report it.
@WhiteVastNinja10 күн бұрын
The fact those 2 pos showed up to the funeral like really...fucking really
@StoryTimeSM-nq2kc10 күн бұрын
Listening to these stories about families pressuring inheritors makes me want to update my own final wishes. I might include a clause to protect my beneficiaries, stating they cannot gift any part of their inheritance to certain individuals. Have you ever thought about how you would structure your final wishes to protect your loved ones from similar pressures or disputes?
@jeffrydunham168110 күн бұрын
Last story she sounds controlling but want to do whatever she wants so let her go cuz shes already left you so kick het out
@jeffrydunham168110 күн бұрын
Tell her sistet and her friends that your not into sharing your girlfriend
@jeffrydunham168110 күн бұрын
Deal breaker bud she wants security and to screw around. Shes already left you bud so now its time for you to end it since she wont
@seeero967611 күн бұрын
What a fucking simp, should have left her right then and there
@grandparedpill269511 күн бұрын
Your wedding is a celebration, it is to celebrate the joy and love you have between you and your new bride. Inviting those two would be just toxic. They would bring your celebration to a screeching halt. Tell him they can surrender your son for the day and they can stay home. And tell the rest of your family to go piss up a rope. Are you holding a grudge, most definitely! Is it justified, absolutely! Can you ever trust the scumbag again? Absolutely not. So how can you trust him at your wedding? The answer and short is you can't. Don't let him f*** your day up.
@charlesvanderhoog705611 күн бұрын
Actually, if a wife wants to come back after a divorce, you can change the relationship dynamics considerably and put forward your demands, wants and wishes without restraint. i think it is a good place to be in as a negotiator.
@AkshayAradhya11 күн бұрын
I will never understand why people test their relationship by putting themselves in scenarios that could potentially be bad. A lot of you like to say "Oh yeah I trust my partner" or "I am not insecure about that" and it has nothing to do with trust or being insecure, it has to do with what you are willing to risk. Imagine this, you have the strongest arms and hands in the world, but would you hold a baby over the edge of a balcony just because you trust your hands ? No, because no matter how much you trust your hands ut is simply not worth what you are risking.
@tonymontana170212 күн бұрын
In story 1, i guess the only thing husband didn't do is trying to put his wife back in her place when she started to blame him for bullshit reasons. It seems he was madly in love and couldn't even imagine that his wife's accusations would have been a sign of an affair. Can't blame him, though. When you give yourself fully to the person you love, sometimes you are blind to some shady shit they do. That's why it is important to stay cold-headed and prepare for the worse, when your partner seems to act cold, indifferent or hostile towards you.
@user-hk2fc4jv2g14 күн бұрын
He was not working 24/7, he could have come home earlier. He chose not to do so, because he did not want a partner, just a housemaid, servant, and personal, unpaid, sex worker. He thinks that mass-produced tat, like takeout food, candles, flowers, 'movie nights', silly, infantile, computer games, etc are enough. Such 'gestures' are mass-produced tat, requiring no thought, time, or effort, and are not personal to anyone. He should have tried LISTENING TO HER, and TAKING HER SERIOUSLY, pulling his weight with the housework, focusing on HER, not himself, sexually, RESPECTING her, treating her as his EQUAL. However, he is an American man. Therefore he will have cheated, and thinks that men have no responsibilities, and need make no effort. Not ONE of you has the balls to reply politely, or to take a WOMAN seriously.
@yettiluch114 күн бұрын
Nobody is going to take your comments serious because you sound crazy. "American man, he cheats, expects the world and gives nothing." The man was a doctor. Busy saving lives and his wife was sending nudes to strangers. And yet somehow you see no problem with her activity. You sicken me.
@jessedunn983515 күн бұрын
Story one no just her was supposed to see other guys openly and he playes good emotional tampon like she wanted. Shoulf have changed the passwords first. Also not breached the point to have a password to begin with. Pount out to the sister that no she was fully a hole enough to cheer on her cheating. Thats as far from it as can be.
@averagetimmy16 күн бұрын
I love these stories, i day dream a lot about getting into a rerelationship but these bring me back to reality
@Vipershadow116 күн бұрын
And I want a dad who wouldn’t betray me but seems like we both want things we’ll never have.
@asifhossain836316 күн бұрын
women moment 🥵
@Elijah-hz9ls19 күн бұрын
A little late but let me explain: It wasn't that she didn't like doing backdoor fun and all the other things, the problem is she didn't like doing those things with HIM. He wouldn't have had a problem if she did all those things before their time, the reason he lost respect is because she lied to him and played him. OBVIOUSLY she didn't see him like those other guys and didn't like him like that. The thing cheaters and liers don't understand is saying "We can do those things now!" just doesn't work. Look bro. I don't want to force you into doing some things in the bedroom, that doesn't sit right with my spirit. That's not the man I am. Again you're making me feel like I'm the crazy perv forcing you into taking it up the a and all that stuff and you're the innocent prudish angel, enough is enough. Thank you for finally showing me that I'm just not like these other guys and that's it. No man wants to feel like he's the weird one for liking certain things when in all reality she likes them just as much??... Just not with him tho. That's the issue here and to go on lying to someone for so long is crazy. I always say how important compatability is between a guy and a girl when it comes to the bedroom and it's actually true. Might just be the second most important thing all in all, no lie! Communication yeah bla bla bla we've heard it a million times yet it's kinda true. It won't work unless both of you at least like SIMILAR things in the bedroom, you can disagree but that's my opinion. These things are important and need to be talked about, that's like 50% of all relationships, so talk about it and be honest. If you hide something from somebody, force somebody into something or get forced, you have alterior motives and will NEVER be happy with that person. Just think about that and talk openly about your desires to your partner, trust me it's worth it. Once you find that girl or guy that's into the same "crazy" stuff you're into (trust me it's not as rare as you think, you'd be surprised, people don't just talk about stuff like this that openly, obviously)... The feeling you get from finding somebody you love AND that someone being someone that shares the same wants and needs when it comes to those things, it's the best feeling. Some advice I guess, just be honest bro, people are "weirder" than you might think, they haven't got much to judge since they're the same with different things. No reason not to have a talk about things with a person you call your gf/bf, WIFE or HUSBAND. If you haven't opened up for so long you MUST have alterior motives. Trust me, it's worth it.
@JosephEllis-ep7sg19 күн бұрын
This story sounds like 3 tons of bs crammed into a 1 ton bag. Either she lied about it being non-consensual to some degree or she deliberately put herself into a risky situation in order to assert her dominance in the relationship. Either way i dont think i could be with her anymore afterwards.
@KaosTheProducer19 күн бұрын
One of my ex’s was my friend after we broke up. I told her I didn’t like a guy who was a mutual friend dating her. She blocked me and went to a Halloween party with him. Found out about 2 years later that he got her drunk and raped her. I spent years being scared to speak up to her just to find out I was fucking correct.
@thecure398219 күн бұрын
“I’ll never love again” Lady Gaga have a heart people he’s dying.
@cercaz20 күн бұрын
She lied because she felt guilty. Don't ever believe women
@konkondwalge774921 күн бұрын
Story 3.. simp doormat of the year medal goes to you... wimpy fool
@ArabicLover10121 күн бұрын
It’s an open relationship, for the second story. Obviously if you want to do it, he agreed and would do it too….. Why did she get so mad that he’s with another 3 women. I personally don’t approve of these open relationship matters, but based on the situation, she couldn’t have gotten mad because she’s doing the same thing…
@Lollocide22 күн бұрын
"We have five kids together..." ... No, you really don't.
@Pyriel223 күн бұрын
Thats the jew family court system for you! If this was done to me they would all end up underground.
@hankhicks110823 күн бұрын
Icky.
@xelldincht425123 күн бұрын
Story 2 is a pretty horrible situation. If there is one thing the kid deserves is knowing the truth before she starts thinking it's her fault
@SirMixatron1123 күн бұрын
This is why open marriage or relationship are doomed to fail. It brings nothing positive to the relationship and brings drama. Unless youre in a poly relationship it's never going to work. I want to try it since I'm single. I at least want one guy and one girl or girl and girl. I'm not to picky and I'm up for anything. Gotta try it at least once.
@edwardjohnson674424 күн бұрын
When you were a child, and you loved your daddy, did you think about the importance of being conceived from his ball juice?
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My girlfriend told me she wanted to play Russian roulette. I tried to warn her not play it. Instead of listening to me, she loaded the revolver with 2 extra bullets and decided to get drunk. Subsequently, she blew half her face off. Now, I know it's not her fault. I'm not victim blaming. It's just that we need a SAFE way to play Russian roulette.
If I was in the 1st OP's place and discovered that my sibling treated my dad as an atm for her wedding and choose mom's AP, I would defintely also not go to the wedding, never.
The BF has something called “Cassandra’s Guilt.” Cassandra was a character in Greek mythology cursed to see the future but not be believed with her warnings. Every time the BF sees OP struggling he thinks of how he could have warned her differently in a way she would have heeded, blaming himself for how he worded it or what he did to make her not believe him. I agree with that one commenter that this relationship is over, hes just waiting until he feels she’s healthy enough mentally that she doesn’t need him to care for her. That’s another thing, once someone becomes someone you have to nurse, it can be hard to flip the switch back to this is a romantic partner.
There was another Reddit to YT story a fee years ago like this one where the husband finds out nonebof his 3 or 4 adult kids is his. In that one the wife refused to admit it. A few days later she self deleted.
I have seen similar tales to this one on Reddit. It would appear that, in American culture, the rape of a woman is not seen as the serious crime that is is, but as something she 'deserved'. Sickening. Cue the abuse, as none of you have the balls to respect women, or to reply politely.
Saw a news story about a guy in the UK. He was already divorced when his doc mentioned that his condition (which he already knew about) renders patients sterile. He didnt know that part. He had four adult children. Confronts ex wife and she admits affair but wont reveal who it was.
Story1 NTA Honestly sounds like wife only wants to stay married so he will pay for HER transition......you can't change what are sexually attracted too.....he should divorce and move on.
Best advice I can give to this poor soul is be the best parent you can be and pass on your "dads" legacy of good memories and fatherhood.
The second story, OP is just kinda pathetic
Well, i understand he don't want 2nd priority for his wife.
stupid for getting their careers ruined before alimony
Oofy doofy Betabuxx deluxe lol sub 5 redditor
Story number one: son you are dealing with a textbook narcissistic abuser. She keeps pulling you back in, that's called hoovering. She keeps looking for sympathy from other people by destroying your reputation. That again is textbook. Your best bet, is to go NC or no contact unless it is strictly to deal with your sons. There's an application, that you can get and she can put on her phone and that is it that's the only way you should communicate from now on.
I often get mad while listening to these stories. What's happening to people nowadays? Why are so many people turning into spineless doormats? The OP's fiancee in story 1 got drunk and bad mouthed his family not once but twice, and the guy still comes here and asks, "So, internet strangers, what should I do?"
He now knows and accepts you don't respect his boundaries and never will for him. OP was happy to destroy her relationship with her BF and he knows it. OP's BF has done his duty in getting her back on her feet and now is done. Even without the SA, I do not think OP is the right girl for her BF. OP sounds like a modern woman that does not for a moment consider her BF's feelings or boundaries. Let him go, he deserves someone better.
This is why til death do us part should be law. You get to do this he should get to pull that clause out of y’all agreement. 🤷♂️
St 1, she/he wants you to PAY for her transition. Do not b3e a sucker
This reminds me of a story exactly like this but from the Guy's POV.
Seeking out a non- binary therapist who started throwing out slurs? Time to call the licencing board over massively inappropriate and unprofessional behaviour!
I gave her my word I'd never leave no matter what, she said don't let me leave.
I am in this same state except she's removed me to forget and not report it in fear of loss of her job or judgement. I would like for her to report it.
The fact those 2 pos showed up to the funeral like really...fucking really
Listening to these stories about families pressuring inheritors makes me want to update my own final wishes. I might include a clause to protect my beneficiaries, stating they cannot gift any part of their inheritance to certain individuals. Have you ever thought about how you would structure your final wishes to protect your loved ones from similar pressures or disputes?
Last story she sounds controlling but want to do whatever she wants so let her go cuz shes already left you so kick het out
Tell her sistet and her friends that your not into sharing your girlfriend
Deal breaker bud she wants security and to screw around. Shes already left you bud so now its time for you to end it since she wont
What a fucking simp, should have left her right then and there
Your wedding is a celebration, it is to celebrate the joy and love you have between you and your new bride. Inviting those two would be just toxic. They would bring your celebration to a screeching halt. Tell him they can surrender your son for the day and they can stay home. And tell the rest of your family to go piss up a rope. Are you holding a grudge, most definitely! Is it justified, absolutely! Can you ever trust the scumbag again? Absolutely not. So how can you trust him at your wedding? The answer and short is you can't. Don't let him f*** your day up.
Actually, if a wife wants to come back after a divorce, you can change the relationship dynamics considerably and put forward your demands, wants and wishes without restraint. i think it is a good place to be in as a negotiator.
I will never understand why people test their relationship by putting themselves in scenarios that could potentially be bad. A lot of you like to say "Oh yeah I trust my partner" or "I am not insecure about that" and it has nothing to do with trust or being insecure, it has to do with what you are willing to risk. Imagine this, you have the strongest arms and hands in the world, but would you hold a baby over the edge of a balcony just because you trust your hands ? No, because no matter how much you trust your hands ut is simply not worth what you are risking.
In story 1, i guess the only thing husband didn't do is trying to put his wife back in her place when she started to blame him for bullshit reasons. It seems he was madly in love and couldn't even imagine that his wife's accusations would have been a sign of an affair. Can't blame him, though. When you give yourself fully to the person you love, sometimes you are blind to some shady shit they do. That's why it is important to stay cold-headed and prepare for the worse, when your partner seems to act cold, indifferent or hostile towards you.
He was not working 24/7, he could have come home earlier. He chose not to do so, because he did not want a partner, just a housemaid, servant, and personal, unpaid, sex worker. He thinks that mass-produced tat, like takeout food, candles, flowers, 'movie nights', silly, infantile, computer games, etc are enough. Such 'gestures' are mass-produced tat, requiring no thought, time, or effort, and are not personal to anyone. He should have tried LISTENING TO HER, and TAKING HER SERIOUSLY, pulling his weight with the housework, focusing on HER, not himself, sexually, RESPECTING her, treating her as his EQUAL. However, he is an American man. Therefore he will have cheated, and thinks that men have no responsibilities, and need make no effort. Not ONE of you has the balls to reply politely, or to take a WOMAN seriously.
Nobody is going to take your comments serious because you sound crazy. "American man, he cheats, expects the world and gives nothing." The man was a doctor. Busy saving lives and his wife was sending nudes to strangers. And yet somehow you see no problem with her activity. You sicken me.
Story one no just her was supposed to see other guys openly and he playes good emotional tampon like she wanted. Shoulf have changed the passwords first. Also not breached the point to have a password to begin with. Pount out to the sister that no she was fully a hole enough to cheer on her cheating. Thats as far from it as can be.
I love these stories, i day dream a lot about getting into a rerelationship but these bring me back to reality
And I want a dad who wouldn’t betray me but seems like we both want things we’ll never have.
women moment 🥵
A little late but let me explain: It wasn't that she didn't like doing backdoor fun and all the other things, the problem is she didn't like doing those things with HIM. He wouldn't have had a problem if she did all those things before their time, the reason he lost respect is because she lied to him and played him. OBVIOUSLY she didn't see him like those other guys and didn't like him like that. The thing cheaters and liers don't understand is saying "We can do those things now!" just doesn't work. Look bro. I don't want to force you into doing some things in the bedroom, that doesn't sit right with my spirit. That's not the man I am. Again you're making me feel like I'm the crazy perv forcing you into taking it up the a and all that stuff and you're the innocent prudish angel, enough is enough. Thank you for finally showing me that I'm just not like these other guys and that's it. No man wants to feel like he's the weird one for liking certain things when in all reality she likes them just as much??... Just not with him tho. That's the issue here and to go on lying to someone for so long is crazy. I always say how important compatability is between a guy and a girl when it comes to the bedroom and it's actually true. Might just be the second most important thing all in all, no lie! Communication yeah bla bla bla we've heard it a million times yet it's kinda true. It won't work unless both of you at least like SIMILAR things in the bedroom, you can disagree but that's my opinion. These things are important and need to be talked about, that's like 50% of all relationships, so talk about it and be honest. If you hide something from somebody, force somebody into something or get forced, you have alterior motives and will NEVER be happy with that person. Just think about that and talk openly about your desires to your partner, trust me it's worth it. Once you find that girl or guy that's into the same "crazy" stuff you're into (trust me it's not as rare as you think, you'd be surprised, people don't just talk about stuff like this that openly, obviously)... The feeling you get from finding somebody you love AND that someone being someone that shares the same wants and needs when it comes to those things, it's the best feeling. Some advice I guess, just be honest bro, people are "weirder" than you might think, they haven't got much to judge since they're the same with different things. No reason not to have a talk about things with a person you call your gf/bf, WIFE or HUSBAND. If you haven't opened up for so long you MUST have alterior motives. Trust me, it's worth it.
This story sounds like 3 tons of bs crammed into a 1 ton bag. Either she lied about it being non-consensual to some degree or she deliberately put herself into a risky situation in order to assert her dominance in the relationship. Either way i dont think i could be with her anymore afterwards.
One of my ex’s was my friend after we broke up. I told her I didn’t like a guy who was a mutual friend dating her. She blocked me and went to a Halloween party with him. Found out about 2 years later that he got her drunk and raped her. I spent years being scared to speak up to her just to find out I was fucking correct.
“I’ll never love again” Lady Gaga have a heart people he’s dying.
She lied because she felt guilty. Don't ever believe women
Story 3.. simp doormat of the year medal goes to you... wimpy fool
It’s an open relationship, for the second story. Obviously if you want to do it, he agreed and would do it too….. Why did she get so mad that he’s with another 3 women. I personally don’t approve of these open relationship matters, but based on the situation, she couldn’t have gotten mad because she’s doing the same thing…
"We have five kids together..." ... No, you really don't.
Thats the jew family court system for you! If this was done to me they would all end up underground.
Icky.
Story 2 is a pretty horrible situation. If there is one thing the kid deserves is knowing the truth before she starts thinking it's her fault
This is why open marriage or relationship are doomed to fail. It brings nothing positive to the relationship and brings drama. Unless youre in a poly relationship it's never going to work. I want to try it since I'm single. I at least want one guy and one girl or girl and girl. I'm not to picky and I'm up for anything. Gotta try it at least once.
When you were a child, and you loved your daddy, did you think about the importance of being conceived from his ball juice?
Enjoy box wine and cat land.