FIRST UPDATE 6:42 FINAL UPDATE 10:18

@calculator4482

3 жыл бұрын

Glitch?

@lgixce884

3 жыл бұрын

@@calculator4482 huh 🤔

@calculator4482

3 жыл бұрын

@@lgixce884 I was watching a different video when this comment appeared pinned there so I was confused 🤦

@peteremmett1149

3 жыл бұрын

I have read many of these supposed stories. They never mention that when their wife/gf comes home they are not glowing with a self satisfied smile, which denotes definite extra sensory sex.

@jigglejigggleee8765

3 жыл бұрын

@@lgixce884 ]

“He made it clear to her on the phone that if she tries to come over, he’ll set his Dobermans on her” Absolute madlad

@Dan_Dropper

3 жыл бұрын

Friend: "Come on in! Don't worry, they don't bite." Me: _[Call my family to say that I love them]_

@Carlinisalive

3 жыл бұрын

Release...the hounds

@LHSpartan007

3 жыл бұрын

that was straight Savage

@sentientnutsack5197

3 жыл бұрын

😂 😂 😂

@dracoindustires3979

3 жыл бұрын

@Morgan Pierce Get the truth expose that man he makes the rest of look bad. Also hope you find peace.

She playing checkers While he’s playing death note.

@thefool7093

3 жыл бұрын

@Morgan Pierce did you just docs someone?

@deviousN

3 жыл бұрын

@@thefool7093 I think that is a virus link.

@howtogaintime739

3 жыл бұрын

BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD

@killertigergaming6762

3 жыл бұрын

@Morgan Pierce nice bot

@variouspeople6196

3 жыл бұрын

For anyone who actually fell for that what happened? Was it a virus? Also how did you make it back? Different device and account?

"It was a mistake" Missing an appointment is a mistake. Not taking your medication on time is a mistake. Forgetting to set your alarm to wake you up is a mistake. Seeing another man behind your husband's back for the better part of your 5 year long marriage is not a mistake, it's a calculated and active decision on your part.

@shawne7228

3 жыл бұрын

The o p is lucky that his wife wasn't making him raise somebody else's bastard children. He dodged a bullet

@Mytelefe

3 жыл бұрын

It was a mistake because she got caught. Try understanding what she was trying to say.

@benry007

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I agree. There are too many points where she could have come clean. I think if someone cheats once and then immediately confesses then there is some hope. A continued affair is not a mistake.

@bruh-cm9oh

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@seankiprono2664

3 жыл бұрын

@@benry007 Facts

Daaaaamn gayle is a damn savage get a lawyer like Gayle if you been cheated on

@chaosreaver3597

3 жыл бұрын

I have a lawyer friend who has two personalities, she fun and friendly most of the time, then she enters lawyer mode and becomes an unfeeling nightmare, which is as hilarious as it is terrifying. You see she 5ft 7in in heels so most people (guys, generally) don't think much of her, which is a mistake, she was a drama kid and liked playing bad guys in high school so she knows how to command an audience. Most lawyers who know about her will push for settlement rather than fight in court because they know she will crush them. It funny to me because she once got out of skipping her homework by pretending to be a hamster, and she's the woman I will give any price she asks to give me a clean divorce.

@l7986

3 жыл бұрын

@@chaosreaver3597 "she once got out of skipping her homework by pretending to be a hamster" You can't just throw something out like this and not tell us the story.

@chaosreaver3597

3 жыл бұрын

@@l7986 Oh, that, I guess it's a question to people who don't know. It pretty much how it sounds, she couldn't be bothered with some homework so she pretended to be a hamster, the whole squeaking with the hand paw thing and our teacher let her off because he thought she was having a mental breakdown (I'm not sure if she was or not) so he was 120% done that day because of how she was behaving and gave everyone an extra day for their homework, mostly so he wouldn't have to talk to her.

@thecookinestkid401

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, she'll make your case a breeze.😆😆😆😆

@l7986

3 жыл бұрын

@@chaosreaver3597 lol dam wish she had been in school with me.

The guy is psychologically hardwired to encounter this kind of situation.

@albertnorman4136

3 жыл бұрын

It's a You Go Guurl culture, so anything she feels is valid. Basically, women's lib is applied narcissism.

@droidmaker7932

3 жыл бұрын

@ʆίϯϯʆε ƒɾεδ ɓյσɾηα A leech, a manipulator, and a terrible mind. She only saw opportunities with Op in case her “real” boyfriend dumps her. I’m assuming working in law can you a ton of money, and saw a opportunity to be with a law student until he is able to get into a big position. Probably meaning Wendy is a gold digger, a type that hides her real nature and plays the long game I guess?

@TheHelper151

3 жыл бұрын

@Gabrielle Boilard The last part of your comment applies to your sex. None of them are decent.

@albertnorman4136

3 жыл бұрын

@Gabrielle Boilard, used to be that society shamed cheaters. Now, wahmen are supposed to be free to chase the tingles, while their meal ticket smiles and supports them.

@kdash2657

3 жыл бұрын

@Gabrielle Boilard That's the past. This is now and if you think western society doesn't go to hell qnd back to please the whim and justify the behaviors and actions of women to somehow be on the right side, then you're disingenous at best, a liar at worst. A cheater is a cheater and cheaters are scum, this doesn't change regardless of the time, but the justification and excuses for one sex or the other does.

The Anti-Simp

@DrownedInExile

3 жыл бұрын

OP is clearly a Vulcan.

@TheyCallHimTheTops

3 жыл бұрын

@@joeking6762 sounds like a good band name

@CambrianExplosion530M

3 жыл бұрын

@@joeking6762 even more powerful than the anti-life equation.

@fraughtmonster8

3 жыл бұрын

Chris Chavez some of these simps NEED the anti life equation to be honest

@fatalmedic2809

3 жыл бұрын

Believe the anti simp is called a "chad"

Badass Brother: “I’ll sick the Dobermans on ya” Badass S-I-L: “Yeah. I married him.” Badass Lawyer: “Was this a mistake?” YOOOO Get you a supporting cast like this to ride and die for you!

@bannerturtoise1219

3 жыл бұрын

They are the masters of one liners

@Blaze0647

3 жыл бұрын

bro the entire team is getting an standing ovation from this side.

@LovelyCinccino

2 жыл бұрын

Considering how other OPs had to deal with people telling them to forgive their cheating spouses..I say this OP won the jackpot here!

@ziqi92

2 жыл бұрын

Having a quick wit is a talent I wish I had.

@waynemcleod6767

2 жыл бұрын

The A team.

Imagine being Gayle's husband/significant other. Has to be absolutely terrifying to know that at any moment lawyer Gayle can come out and just absolutely wreck your shit.

@Roggor

3 жыл бұрын

Bet you anything she's single. How would ANY guy not ghost on the first date after finding out she's a divorce lawyer? It'd be like dating a diagnosed pyromaniac who's a firefighter. They know how to utterly destroy you because they know what would be looked for.

@georgebell9634

3 жыл бұрын

She's probably married to one

@Alexander-dt8sk

2 жыл бұрын

In my town the nastiest, meanest divorce lawyer attends our church. She has permanent resting bitch face. I've never seen her smile. Her husband is Mort Meek and I wouldn't doubt he is the primary parent to the kids. All that said, I'd hire this lawyer in a heartbeat if I needed representation in a divorce.

@lboiv001

2 жыл бұрын

If he is a good man, then there is no reason to be terrified of anything. Having said that, there is always the concern that she might one day want to screw him over 'just because'.

@genzhours9466

2 жыл бұрын

Plot twist: Gayle's partner is also a lawyer

That dude is an inspiration lol, imagine having no feelings at all towards your cheating ex. That’s probably one of the best outcomes you can hope for.

@insanity9329

2 жыл бұрын

It is like fight-or-flight. Some flee, some tremble in fear, some lose consciousness, but some fight like cornered animals.

@miggyhypocrypt9407

2 жыл бұрын

Something I aspire to be if im ever in a situation like this.... Great outcome of out a shitty situation

@waynemcleod6767

2 жыл бұрын

I'd be willing to bet that his attitude of indifference cut her in ways that angry heated reprisal never could.

@lewismiller870

2 жыл бұрын

@Diego Brando I'm afraid that he'll never be able to fall in love again. The amount of shock that is needed to do such things is just too great to be comprehensible. It can literally turn a human into a walking dead, with no emotions, no feelings, and no happiness whatsoever. I hope he can recover.

@m.o.4240

Жыл бұрын

He might sometimes going numb is just a response to tune out your strong feelings

She refused to give up her phone,once that happened she knew it was all over.

Wendy: “Isn’t there a guy in your background that just gets inside your head and you can’t say no?” SIL: “Yes, I married him” I love this response by SIL

@m.o.4240

Жыл бұрын

Gigachad SIl

Also, SIL is legendary wife material. I wish her and his bro all the happiness.

@ChaosAngel667

2 жыл бұрын

The definition of power couple

I don't call them cheaters. I call them traitors. That's what they really are.

@unlimited971

3 жыл бұрын

traitor would admit they had any loyalty in the first place. no the woman he loved is dead and disapeared.

@m3redgt

2 жыл бұрын

actually a better term for them yes

@fitcher-armchair-sleuth

2 жыл бұрын

True .. It is easy to cheat and .. All those dating / cheating sites and apps. Unfaithful wives will introduce other wives to this. There is this - dolled up Selfie selfish sexy princess mentality that has been promoted by the msm and the internet. Once they get involved in this - it's pretty much over. Her husband / boyfriend will be out of her league. They'll be lusting the dick merry-go-round.

@rishiraut9360

2 жыл бұрын

Nah cheater is the correct term because cheating is heinous, the problem word is actually "mistake" its never a mistake its a poor fully conscious depraved decision

@alihaydaryalnz6118

2 жыл бұрын

It is already in the most correct word that defines them. ;)

Poor Todd, just trying to do his job. He is another victim here.

@stevenwilson5556

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, he got roadkilled. He still got paid at least. I hope he didn't take the case on contingency lol

@God-gi9iu

3 жыл бұрын

@@stevenwilson5556 e

@cflo1386

2 жыл бұрын

It was a no win situation for Todd.

@seancutler6712

2 жыл бұрын

@@cflo1386 Yeah every lawyer has to take the L sometimes, shit case shit client even if your a grandmaster chess player if you have no pieces your gonna lose.

@m3redgt

2 жыл бұрын

He probably knew from the start.. didn't care the least and just thought "easy money..not much..but easy"

Sister in Law with the ultimate Mic Drop answer.

I think he disassociated from the whole thing. It happened to me before when I found out my gf was cheating. Something inside me just snapped and throughout all her gaslighting I just stared at her, no tears. Nothing. Told her to leave and stone-walled any attempt at talking.

@lucyhart7682

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry you had to go through that, I hope you’re in a better place now. Cheaters are trash. :(

@pixel9256

3 жыл бұрын

Fr bro , you can just feel the love being drain away , hope u good now

@dexterbarnes5249

3 жыл бұрын

Same bro. You get icy af. I lost my ability to emotionally connect or trust anyone after the 2nd time I got cheated on.

@Crystalbomb321

3 жыл бұрын

That's the shock talking.

@beenrue5672

3 жыл бұрын

This is pathetic on both ends

Hats off to Gayle the Cobra, vicious and deadly, everyone in a position like this needs a Gayle and kudos to OP he handled the situation with dignity, and clean cutting like an expert surgeon

@GodKingChris

3 жыл бұрын

Reference to the movie family man?

@RabiaaHQ

2 жыл бұрын

Gayle was a Cobra Kai student under John Kreese. Strike first, strike HARD. NO MERCY

@ChaosAngel667

2 жыл бұрын

If Gayle is a cobra then his wife is a viper with that that 4 words letal byte.

Hell yeah! Not a spineless SIMP who justifies the action of his cheating partner! (Which I have heard a lot from other stories). Awesome!

"Wendy was a No" bars my guy, Gayle is a saint and protector of the innocent!

Flawless Victory. FATALITY!

@natedagreat7577

3 жыл бұрын

Idek the guy and I was so proud

@sujankaku6406

3 жыл бұрын

FLACTORY

@SilveryBlue1010

3 жыл бұрын

YAY!!

@SilveryBlue1010

3 жыл бұрын

FLEXTORY!!

@b989x3

3 жыл бұрын

Supreme victory, PERFECT

Most of these stories are depressing, but its nice to hear a story from, what I assume to be, a legendary badass.

@unlimited971

3 жыл бұрын

nah it just conforte me in the idea to never get married

“He made it very clear to her if she comes he’ll set his Dobermens on her.” That brothers a real G

@joimumu

2 жыл бұрын

His brother wife was also awesome

Damn Gayle went hard (Wendy deserved it though so it's acceptable)

I need someone like this to legally represent me

@sodone466

3 жыл бұрын

Never marry, and you'll never need to.

@team3gaming749

3 жыл бұрын

@@sodone466 To be fair he never said he needed him to represent him in divorce court.

@sodone466

3 жыл бұрын

@@team3gaming749 That's fair, but still, never marry.

@Nickkun

3 жыл бұрын

@@sodone466 ur name says it all 😂 and yes thats a good advice g 🥲👌

@blacklight1104

2 жыл бұрын

Don't cohabitate either since that would also count as living together i.e. "marriage" in some countries/states.

"You can't just throw away 5 years!" bla..bla..bla.. Look who is talking.. LMAO 😂😂

Cheating on a spouse isn't just a mistake, it's a multitude of mistakes.

@blacksquid270

2 жыл бұрын

More accurately a series of deliberate choices which is now regretted.

@mr.halfright

10 ай бұрын

Anyone who uses the term "mistake" for cheating, especially continuous cheating, they're refusing to accept their fault for the situation. It is more than a choice it is a series of choices

"None of this is fair because this is all a mistake".......nope. Everytime you kissed Bob was a CHOISE, everytime you (presumably) slept with Bob while your stbexh was at work was a CHOICE. The fact that you brazenly kept pictures of you a bob together WITH pictures of you and stbexh was a very stupid CHOICE but a CHOICE none the less. You can call it a mistake till you're blue in the face but at the end of the day? Everything that happened was a result of your CHOICES.

@Undomaranel

3 жыл бұрын

The only possible mistake made was willfully putting herself in a position to cheat in the first place. But even then, it's all a choice.

@calculator4482

3 жыл бұрын

@Green Monster Can what a load of bull.

@ihatelols

3 жыл бұрын

@Green Monster Can That's the most bullshit thing i have read all week. Congratulations.

@ihatelols

3 жыл бұрын

@Green Monster Can I strongly disagree with your beliefs. I find it disgusting to share my body with random people, just shows lack of self respect. Also, loyalty is a must in a relationship for most people, which is obvious why. You sound almost exactly like my ex who tried justifying her cheating and fucking my mate in my apartment.

@SamAkira2002

3 жыл бұрын

@Green Monster Can So by your “logic”, Men should also be able to kiss, cuddle, and sleep with other women and the girlfriend or wife shouldn’t be upset by that because it’s not “intimate” or “shows signs of feelings” and they’re “just jealous and controlling” for being upset in the first place too, right?? I mean it’s basically the same thing you’re saying with the girlfriend or wife kissing, cuddling and sleeping with other men. See how stupid that sounds? That’s exactly how what you said sounds like.

Lesson of the story: get a friend like Gayle in your life.

@ArielGonzalez1

2 жыл бұрын

And have a family like his lol

I'm sure she'd complain that she only saw Bob because her husband was "working to much," that's the usual excuse, yes? Of course, my answer to that is Get A Dog! There are no excuses to cheat.

@JohnSmith-wx9wj

3 жыл бұрын

I can't wrap my head around being so lonely you gotta go screw others. I've been single last ten years, and I don't go desperately searching for a lay.

@snakevenom4954

3 жыл бұрын

@@JohnSmith-wx9wj It’s not the feeling of lonely. No matter what position I could be put in, I wouldn’t cheat. And then there are people who go out of their way to cheat. That’s just how some people are. No matter what they do, they will always cheat again

@georgiawessling7987

3 жыл бұрын

@@JohnSmith-wx9wj My husband has been buried for 14 years. I have never considered getting married again. I say that if God wants me to remarry, he will have to hit me in the head with a crowbar and say "That's the one." 14 years and I have heard nothing from God yet. I am old enough that marriage holds no compelling draw.

@waynemcleod6767

2 жыл бұрын

Cheaters are a reservoir of denial and minimizing with their excuses and gaslighting. "It was a mistake." "It meant nothing." "I don't love him (or her). "You're the only one I love." "It was just a fling." "I was bored." "You neglected me." "I don't know why I did it." and my personal favorite.... "You work too much." Not an exhaustive list by any means, but these are probably the most common ones.

@drl5002

4 ай бұрын

Or she could have kept her full-time teaching job and done night classes for her masters and doctorate. That would have kept her occupied. It always seems being idle is a problem in these stories, which is one reason I'm against stay at home parents if there aren't small children in the home. It leaves too much time available for mischief.

I think the most important part of that was where she refused to hand over her phone at the settlement conference. This proves 100% that she continued cheating when she was married. To connect the dots. She wanted reconciliation that was her aim, she claimed she had never cheated during her marriage. She was offered a chance to prove her claim, this in her mind would of been a win for her Yet what did she do refuse vehemently. If she had not cheated during marriage then the phone would of contained no evidence of this It would be a win for her a chance to reconcile which she wanted. In short logically the only reason for her to refuse is if the phone contained further evidence of her cheating. Otherwise she would of been happy to let them examine it and get a chance at what she wanted. So it proves cheater cheat if they cheat on you once they will do so again. This bloke is lucky that he will never now the extent of how much she cheated and does not care.

@brado3mini195

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah but burner phones exist?🤷🏽‍♂️

@glennedwards1449

3 жыл бұрын

@@brado3mini195 Which proves that she could not even be bothered to get one. It is interesting that the OP seems to have no inkling that throughout the 5 years of their marriage she continued with her affair or affairs and it only came out when things were over. Many men would of considered reconciliation or at least an attempt at it believing her assertions that "She never cheated when they were married" Given that people replace their phones every 2 to 3 years or less she was continuing her cheating even to the present day.

@Patrick__M

3 жыл бұрын

In all honesty that would have likely been her only chance to get him to talk to her if they happened to find nothing on the phone.

@glennedwards1449

3 жыл бұрын

@@Patrick__M Exactly and since she structured her demands at the settlement conference to achieve this if she was not continuing to cheat then she should of been eager to do so. I have to say full marks to his lawyer for jumping on this. I do not know if he had any suspicions that she was cheating whilst she was married as he never mentions it and his motivation is the proof that she was cheating whilst engaged but it obviously never stopped. When something like this occurs it becomes hard to dispel the once a cheater always a cheater sayings but at the end I feel sorry for his lawyer. She is obviously a great divorce lawyer but what must her attitude to marriage be like and what must her mindset be like to go straight to the well if you cheated before marriage you cheated during marriage. Kind of hard to have any relationship dealing with disgusting people like this everyday. I hope he brought her some flowers.

@glennedwards1449

3 жыл бұрын

@Morgan Pierce Nice Free Advert given your grammar I am guessing either a low IQ or a foreign scammer. Either way why would you hire a PI who literally lives in a foreign country. Not that it matters I am guessing anyone who sent you money would never hear from you again well unless you ask for more money.

That lawyer op has, is awesome!!!!!! How she put his wife lying in her place. We need more post like that.

👏👏👏👏👏Gayle...aka shark lawyers and to OP, his brother, brother's Doberman and to SIL. Flawless execution of a divorce.

I listened to this again. It got me : She was wearing her engagement ring while she was cheating with the other guy? That's cold.

When I decided to divorce my first wife for her infidelity I got the same numb feeling. I referred to it mentally as her “burning the love right out of me”

@nicydarko552

11 ай бұрын

I call it "broken shock" where you are in shock because of intense trauma. I called it broken cause it happens when I get "broke" and its has a certain feeling to me

Emotional flashburn, happens to a lot of guys. It's like a mental bandage, there to protect the wound from further aggravation. It's good in that it will allow him to act without emotions clogging things up but the downside is it's unreliable, you never know when it's gonna slip off and then he's gonna emotionally meltdown. If he sticks to no-contact it'll probably hold up until something changes, like paperwork is signed or she gives up and just goes away, some emotional landscape has to shift essentially.

@redders6858

3 жыл бұрын

Happens to a lot of women also. Me included.

@Yoyo-rc5sv

3 жыл бұрын

Basically you temporarily become a robot

@Yoyo-rc5sv

3 жыл бұрын

@@redders6858 what an unnecessary comparison😂🤲🏾

@droidmaker7932

3 жыл бұрын

@@redders6858 story?

@JohnSmith-wx9wj

3 жыл бұрын

Usually, when something crazy happens to me it takes a few months for me to process it and feel the feelings that come along.

Every single time I read STBX, my mind interprets that as, shitbox. 🤣😅😂😆 Freudian slip? I think not!

@debl3063

3 жыл бұрын

I can't unthink that now. LOL.

@SergioKoolhaas

3 жыл бұрын

Chef's kiss!😘👌

Gayle must have been in a psychic trance when she asked to see Wendy's phone; I'd have NEVER thought of that. Brilliant!

"Yes, I married him" needed a second to recover from this burn myself

Correcting myself: everybody here was the damm MVP. OP's absolute transcendent state of mind, the sister's response, the brother's "absolutely pissed off guy" attitude, and the perfect and unbeatable Gayle the viper. Wholesome

@ArielGonzalez1

2 жыл бұрын

A group of fcking units!! Everybody should get a support system like them

The opposite of love is not hatred, but it is indifference. This guy may have wasted five years on the cake eater but now, he is free to heal and improve himself, not to mention that clear victory he had over the cake eater. Never take a cheater back. They are never remorseful.

@breannakay9829

3 жыл бұрын

Not true

@Ivellios23

2 жыл бұрын

A study posted on YT by alexander grace shows that the more remorseful the women is at making a certain mistake, the more likely she'd make it again. kzread.info/dash/bejne/iIKe0cVqkbKte5c.html

@blacklight1104

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ivellios23 that's interesting. No wonder cheaters cheat again and again.

@FirebirdFreak87

2 жыл бұрын

They are only remorseful when they are caught.

Lol...SIL's response @ 9:00 was worthy of a mic drop. 😂

_”Isn’t there a guy in your background that just gets inside your head and you can’t say no?”_ _”Yes, I married him.”_ Roflol, that is so epic. I wish I could’ve seen the look on OP’s wife’s face when his sister-in-law said that.

@IKKclauKR

3 жыл бұрын

I knoooow! The SIL has all of my respect! That answer was pure perfection!

@RandomTrinidadian

3 жыл бұрын

SIL a savage

@abdullahbinjahed6900

3 жыл бұрын

where ? can you give me the timestamp ?

@Mia-dt3gl

3 жыл бұрын

@@abdullahbinjahed6900 It starts at 8:44.

@waynemcleod6767

2 жыл бұрын

Guaranteed that she was trying to get a member of the sisterhood to sympathize and side with her to normalize her shitty behavior. Glad the SIL shut her down with an epic response.

She's been cheating for the entire marriage According to a DM with the OP

@stevenwilson5556

3 жыл бұрын

You messaged the OP on Reddit?

@juan8312

3 жыл бұрын

@@stevenwilson5556 ye

12:00 - 13:10 Gayle demonstrated what a legal beat-down looks like. "Flawless victory!"

@BravoTwoDelta

3 жыл бұрын

Fatality 😂😂😂

@valmanway1844

2 жыл бұрын

KO "Perfect"

Wendy: *gets caught cheating* Also Wendy: How are you going to throw away 5 years of marriage! No honey. You threw away 5 years of marriage the minute you laid with another man who wasn't your husband. And did it repeatedly nonetheless.

@drl5002

Жыл бұрын

Yup, the relationship is already in the trash. He's just refusing to go dumpster diving to pull the broken disgusting thing out and try to salvage it.

She just needed an ATM to fund her school and life. You were nothing more than wallet while she went out to get dug out elsewhere

Revenge is a dish best served cold and OP is a master of it without even trying. And if I'm honest, he doesn't need to talk to her. That's for guys with unresolved feelings, his feelings seem pretty damn resolved to me.

This is a man who has his shit together. No drama bs, quick to ask for help and advice, quick to sort out his priorities and make a plan. He handled the situation so thoroughly and I’m so happy he’s doing better. Seeing a therapist just in case there’s any loose ends to tie up too. I have so much respect for this guy.

The Mass Effecf music in the background keeps me coming back... it remind me of better days subconsciously. Lol

Finally.. An actual man.

Cheating on someone who finished law school? Brave.

@jasondyrkacz8270

3 жыл бұрын

"There's a line between bravery and stupidity, General."

"Yes. I married him." Savage.

Forget pit viper, She went full blown Titanoboa!

The dumbest cheaters are the ones who cheat on a spouse whose a lawyer

Too bad OP can't sue her for fraud because that is what the relationship was-from the first date to present.

Asking for her phone was an all pro move!!!

I am really happy for this guy. Wendy doesnt know how to be faithful, she will always fail in this area. He will come out on top once the divorce is final

"Gayle" is MVP dang lol XD

Not just a man but a warrior. She went from wife to enemy in a flash. Focused without distraction to strike. A good exercise,both professionally and personally could be empty handed defense. As an adjunct,professionally and personally, Sun Tsu The Art of War

Separation or revenge really goes much more smoothly when you can set aside your emotions. Someone who's betrayed you loud and clear does not deserve your emotions. Now they are obstacles you need to overcome or neutralize. This guy did everything by the book. Cold, methodical, and decisive just how it should be.

That was a wonderful idea getting old pictures off of the hard drive but ouch that sucks finding out like that.

I'm glad OP managed to escape that bad situation, and that he's surrounded by friends and family-members who love and support him. OP deserves to be with someone who'll actually be loyal to him.

I love my wife. Not all the money in the world would be enough to pay me to give her up. But if she cheats on me she is gone and i would not give a dime to get her back.

"I felt nothing" Most Vulcans aspire all their lives to achieve this. But seriously, I hope OP takes up boxing or lifting or some other fitness. The anger will come out eventually, best to defuse it sooner. And getting in the best shape of his life is always good. Best of luck to OP, and the less said about his trash ex, the better. Gayle and SiL had the best clapbacks ever!

The inner warrior within me admires your cold ruthlessness.

Why do cheaters take pictures while cheating? I mean...seriously!

I know reddit discougages real names / info but I think Gayle could make ALOT of clients off of this with that complete owning of the divorce case for the guy

That hockey reference was just gold for everyone who understands it.

I've become so numb I can't feel you there Become so tired So much more aware I'm becoming this All I want to do Is be more like me And be less like you Exactly my opinion on the first story....

Lmao Wayne Gretzky VS a second string high school goalie with a slow glove hand

I wonder if cheaters ever feel remorse.

@theblackrosedaughter

3 жыл бұрын

They're only sad that they got caught and their security blanket/meal ticket got burned.

@larrynorton1894

3 жыл бұрын

Oh some cheaters do when their affair partner turns into not being so loving or supportive after the first few months to a year. They say shit what did I do. And the bridge they crossed over was burned down. Lol. Best revenge male or female is moving on and doing much better.

Thank you Redditt! And thank you Reddit commentator. Long story short I got cheated on divorced, left. 20 years later got married to s wonderful woman. I use to think something was wrong with me because when I first found out about my XW I went numb. I wasn't angry I was never sad, and thought I was just a cold calculating SOB. The way you felt then described how I felt then. The person I thought I knew, I didn't. That person was never real. I use to think I died inside. And would wonder if I really loved the woman I'm currently married too. I do love her and we work hard at our relationship. My mindset when I met her has been a work in progress everyday. I think this attitude has kept me grounded with everything I do. However this post cleared up any and all doubt about me going NC. One friend once said to me going no contact is silence. Silence is the is the preferred method of punishment for narcissists. I know I'm not. I explained to that friend that my Stbx killed my soul. Since I'm dead what would be the point of talking. Again thankyou. Good look to you all

@BernardBethea6339

2 жыл бұрын

Well your a better man than me you still have not learn your lesson can't wait for your story here next on the second wife it nit yours it's just your time to get it smdh

Best one yet😊

I didn't cheat after we got married.! Even if that was true it's a deal breaker. Also the prove it then and her clutching her phone and saying no. I loved the part her lawyer told her she just admitted she's still been cheating and probably recently as well.

'Hand over your phone and I'll have my IT guy copy all contents including contents of all logged in accounts.' Man, that was a killer move.

Best rule ever: If your partner cheats and you find out, break up and ghost him/her. Do not contact them! Been there done that.

lmao, there's always a Bob

This guy is going to get screwed in the divorce! Full time student and part-time worker. He’s going to be paying her for years. Edit: This guy is so lucky. Most men mope around and do the pick me dance. And they don’t have access to a top notch attorney. Glad he walked away intact.

@ChadDidNothingWrong

3 жыл бұрын

Only in some places

@jasondyrkacz8270

3 жыл бұрын

Having that top notch attorney in your corner in a divorce doesn't hurt you.

The “Yes, I married him” line was pure gold.

Me: Hears story Also me: Is it possible to learn this power.

@Zminator1986

3 жыл бұрын

Not from a Jedi.

I'm not a hockey fan, but I loved that Wayne Gretzky analogy

Gave "Thot-slayer" a whole new meaning

"I began to think in very cold, analytical terms." You mean, you began to think the way she did all along.

The reason you don't feel anything, is because you are a "high functioning" sociopath. I was told I was a high functioning sociopath because during my divorce I felt absolutely nothing after 17 yrs. of marriage.As soon as she told me she wanted a divorce I just thought in my mind, if she thought long enough to go for a divorce she must really not want me. Click, I was done. Later found out she did really not want a divorce she just thought I would ask her how I should change for her. Her mother's advice was she could always marry me again if I took too long to change. Like a regular man, I don't know the rules to fricken mind games so I just walked away after the divorce. Makes for a very happy man!!!

@TheHelper151

3 жыл бұрын

No. Men have a switch inside them (when hit) stops emotions all together. That switch can only be flipped when a certain amount/kind of trauma hits him.

Gayle is a Boss!!!

Alpha move

Gayle is the kind of lawyer we all need in our lives!!

Imagine having the reputation of a “pit viper” or something similar at a law firm. That’s badass.

Yup she never loved him he was just a meal ticket. This is their way, if your not making enough money your not a good enough provider, if you work a lot of hours to provide then she isn't getting enough attention. Either way they will be looking for someone else. Relationships with most women are a lose lose.

@luiznazario4628

3 жыл бұрын

True facts

@browniepoint22

3 жыл бұрын

Big facts

Luckily you had a support system to help you out during this crisis.

This of OP feeling nothing is something I have experienced before. I guess it's when you feel an emotion to such an extreme/is too strong that it just empties you.

Dang this guy knows how to write. He told his story so fluidly.

This was an excellent story, Sir well-played

I love this, it warms my heart brutal without mercy!

The brother is the real mvp here. My dogs are hungry, try me. Love it! Nothing in this world as fierce as a brother running defense.

The same happened to me regarding the laptop. A few months into us dating her ex contacted me saying she cheated on me with him and sent screenshots of their messages, she convinced me he had fabricated those screenshots, three years into the relationship and we own a house together and have two dogs, I was using her old laptop to edit some videos as I don’t have my own that isn’t a work one, I save a video then see a folder with all of the imessage conversations between her and her ex and it confirms 3 years down the line that she had in fact cheated and kept it secret this whole time. She went hysterical and smashed up the laptop then tried to kill herself which convinced me to stay with her for fear of her actually succeeding in committing suicide if I did leave her. Two years passed after that and then in August 2020 she abruptly left me for her brother’s friend, a gay man up until then, who she is now engaged to and getting married to in 2021. She essentially stole 5 years of my life from me, and the only reason I was with her for the last two were to stop her from killing herself. Some people are just so selfish….

Guys don't marry, even women admit there is no benefit for a guy to do so,

@JohnSmith-wx9wj

3 жыл бұрын

What if she makes more money, doe?

@smartchip

3 жыл бұрын

@@JohnSmith-wx9wj then your smv is against you, she shall at some point realise it and likely execute project hypergamy,

@JohnSmith-wx9wj

3 жыл бұрын

@@smartchip Then you get alimony.

@smartchip

3 жыл бұрын

@@JohnSmith-wx9wj hell shall freeze first,,

@jasondyrkacz8270

3 жыл бұрын

@@JohnSmith-wx9wj Hypergamy is like Order 66 for women.

She clutches her phone. Lul.

@stevenwilson5556

3 жыл бұрын

Myyyy preeesssscccciouuuuusssssss………

@neoncrossGRIMEAGLE

3 жыл бұрын

CHECKMATE!

i love when the brain just turn off the response to fight or run, sometimes, and start to thinking analytically.