Mal's original concerns about Yoli falling in love with whomever she's with was just....painfully accurate. Yoli proved Mal right.

Yoli didn’t deserve Mal OR Xander. 😒

@ev1533

Жыл бұрын

Preach!

@elizabethdalton-jandreau5588

Жыл бұрын

Xander is just too precious for this world.

@calireel2067

Жыл бұрын

💯

Not Yoli defending a whole narcissistic abuser she cannot be serious. As a fellow victim, I couldn't be more proud of you, Tiff!

@qwandary

Жыл бұрын

Yoly really took a down turn.

@wolfie1027

Жыл бұрын

What happened there? I haven’t heard about this.

@Mystique-lu8ed

Жыл бұрын

Omg! You really fell for this bihs claim to be a victim. Jeez. How are people so gullible? Just look at Trump supporters. This bih claimed she was gaslit then turned around and gaslit Mildred...its obvious they were both combative and have tempers!! Both of them so to have this bih make a whole video about being a victim with references and examples..an hr long video of her blaming, and taking NO responsibility for anything!!! Now she has a following???? Whyyyyy???? Ok, I'm done and I'm outta here, I can't stomach this bih, she loves to hear herself talk.

I LOVE how authentic and funny Tiff is. Her personality comes out when she feels safe and heard.

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

yes it does! Thank you for noticing

I applaud you Tiff for speaking up about the abuse you have dealt with and I couldn’t believe that no one really called out Mildred for that either. It’s such a double standard. ANYONE can be a victim of DV and it’s time that everyone acknowledges that.

@m1r4828da

Жыл бұрын

It was ridiculous to me that it wasn’t even addressed in the most basic way. Someone on another video suggested they at least include resources/hotlines for DV, and I agree. Including something like that would at bare minimum acknowledge the reality of the situation.

I realized Mildred was TOXIC when Aussie walked out on her.. talking about tampons in the trashcan was trashy AF! Esp when Aussie made it clear that they’ve struggled with their gender identity. The tampon comment seemed to be very cold and calculated imho. 😒

@niax782

Жыл бұрын

I was over Mildred when she and Tiff were in the “don’t interrupt me” fight. The way Mildred tried to turn herself into the victim was WILD. Poor Aussie. Mildred’s tampon comments were uncalled for 😒

@khadijahjw

Жыл бұрын

Omg I didn’t even catch that convo 🙁

@melaniecosmetics

Жыл бұрын

I cannot STAND MILDRED. She switched with Aussie like a light switch. You can see Aussie like confused. She was SO aggressive. And THEN the do not interrupt me BS about being Latina that’s why she’s disrespectful and rude and don’t allow ppl to finish speaking or speak at all. Tiff got the crap end of the stick.

@Stephanie_Ella

Жыл бұрын

@@melaniecosmetics My company has an office in PR (Puerto Rico) and none of the Latinas in that office act like THIS.. most of them are playful and polite, actually. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@Stephanie_Ella

Жыл бұрын

@@niax782 I believe that the tampon comment was meant to trigger Aussie. Mildred knew that Aussie would eventually see this. It was a large trash bag with way more than just tampons.. come on! *I really hope Mildred doesn’t have any Trans friends, she’s too insensitive. 😒

Is it just me or was Vanessa very honest, almost to a fault? 🤔 I totally believe her that Rae guided her hand to her V and then she was treated like a damn villain..

@TheDawnofVanlife

Жыл бұрын

Vanessa might have been one of the most honest people in the end. Like I applaud her growth. Unlike Yoly who is still like ‘did that happen, oh yeah it did’ at the reunion.

@Stephanie_Ella

Жыл бұрын

@@TheDawnofVanlife Yoli is a compulsive liar imho. 😒

@melinamartinez3170

Жыл бұрын

@@TheDawnofVanlifehonestly I hate when people use the “I’m too honest” argument for their rudeness but I think Vanessa was being honest.

@hannahs6474

Жыл бұрын

I don't like Vanessa. IMO she was waaaaay too abrasive and sexual with people who weren't into it, but her biggest crime is just being loud, creepy and unlikable. And deeply conceited. And immature. And selfish. Let me stop. Bottom line is, she was accused of being there for fame by a person with a larger following, everything with Rae was consensual, and I think Yoly was quick to deflect and try to make Vanessa look bad once she was outed for lying at the reunion. Vanessa is unlikeable, but she's honest, and what you see is what you get. I'd prefer blatantly annoying to a snake any day. *edit* When I wrote my original comment I didn't know that Rae has come out and said she was blackout drunk that night. If that's the case, we all know the word for what Vanessa is, and whatever happened between them couldn't have been consensual.

@LeSexyfiish

Жыл бұрын

​@@hannahs6474 While I do think Vanessa was honest (the point of being quite rude at times), I'm not sure if we can call "Fingergate" (what even is that name lolol) consensual. Yes, Rae might have led Vanessa's hand over to her, but both Lexi and Rae have confirmed that Rae was entirely blackout drunk when it happened. The scene we saw the next morning was Vanessa telling Rae what happened because she couldn't remember. It looks like Rae doesn't fault Vanessa, but realistically you can't consent when you're that intoxicated.

the eyeliner comment was such a simple way to discredit Mildred/notice her lies. “I found eyeliner and I don’t even wear eyeliner” AS SHE’S SITTING THERE WEARING EYELINER IN THE REUNION.

As a former victim of DV, I applaud you for your bravery and willingness to discuss this.. it’s hard. 😞

The host was a ghost! Absolutely invisible and got a check! She was of NO HELP! 🤬 So sorry this happened to you Tiff. I wish you only the best life has to offer.

The Narcissist's Prayer: That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it.

@kylie6764

Жыл бұрын

Wow how true, I wish I had seen this sooner 😮

@sophiaec2607

Жыл бұрын

@@ivapetrovska9986 unsure where you got "they are not all demonic people, relax a little bit" from, when I didn't say anything that would infer those things.. :')

Birds of a feather.....not surprised Yoly and Mildred are friends, they are 2 toxic peas in a pod. Love you Tiff and your bravery!!!! Awesome podcast!!! ❤

I am a virgo rising and I can confirm, people with heavy virgo placements make those facial expressions unconsciously 🤣

@krisssantos23

Жыл бұрын

Tiff is also a virgo rising lol.

The instigating comment from Yoly was just crazy, the complete opposite of what had happened. It really makes me question Yoly's entire judgment and character, not only her behavior when it comes to her own personal romantic relationships

@nh7613

Жыл бұрын

33:41

Love the podcast, proud of you!!! But the black on black ain’t working. Black shirts, black background wall, the desk is dark, color friends, color! Pop out from your background 😂

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

haha thanks for the feedback! We are currently waiting for Kari to set up the permanent studio in her house once she settles in by moving: )

@TheDawnofVanlife

Жыл бұрын

@@FweebsPodcast Cool Cool, I just think maybe a different shirt color choice might have helped while you were stuck with the black wall, lol. Love you two’s energy. Excited to see what’s next.

I was excited for tiffs side but man am I excited for karis pov. All the love in the world goes out to you tiff, kari and anyone affected by the reunion events

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

yea it's interesting to get my friend's perspective, someone who knows me, but doesn't know the other cast members! And as you can see, she is very unfiltered and will say what she wants lol

@madisonforsythe343

Жыл бұрын

@@FweebsPodcast 💕💕

You guys should have Vanessa on the podcast talking about her experience on the show 👀 Even if it’s virtual. I know she came out as obnoxious in a few episodes, but I actually thought her jokes came off as fierce 🔥 and didn’t take her jokes too seriously, she seems like a fun person if you share the same sense of humor

Mildred’s line saying she couldn’t really push you because of how big you are reminds me of when my ex punched a person randomly at a bus stop and claimed it didn’t matter because they were and I quote a “skinny twink” that couldn’t actually hurt someone. He also told that story like I was supposed to find it funny and not horrifying.

@newp848

Жыл бұрын

Like amber heard in the recording saying hitting johnny Depp didn't matter bc she was only 115lbs

Y’all called it! Marshall and Mal are both Virgos!! Every Virgo I know is expressive 💖 we love it.

I had a soft spot for Tiff right from the start, then they dug themselves deeper into my heart with the unreasonably fierce way of loving their dog (I could relate to that vulnerable defense SO SO much), so seeing Tiff completely dissolve in trauma tears after/during the reunion, the helplessness, the tiredness and pain after years and years of being used to fight and being on eggshells just triggered a lot of my own emotionality and past pain. Sending out lots of love to Tiff (I hope you're still reading these) and wish you all the best for present and future. Would love to see an update on this channel every once and then!

I’m sure you’ve seen me on all the apps but again Tiff you are doing beautiful work. I have so much trauma but I can’t pay to talk w/you all. I’m disappointed but I get what you’re doing and wish I didn’t have so many bills!! Love all the work you’re doing for us fellow survivors!

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

Hey, message me on IG fweebspodcast and let's talk!

Came for the Ultimatum, staying for the great content!

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

ufff!!! I love it thank you so much for the support and views! We will definitely be talking about other things, not just ultimatum. So happy you you're here :)

Please keep uploading your podcast I’m loving it ❤

Tiff, I really appreciated your other video you made addressing everything surrounding Mildred's DV and all that that happened

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

thank you

I am so happy that this podcast is happening !

Hey guys I appreciate you chasing that bag. A few criticisms tho, have some notes with talking points to keep it organized and have some direction. Gottis exciment to share her thoughts led to her rambling and talking over tiff a little bit, be more mindful and ask eachother some questions! And finally sprinkle in a little editing to remove some awkward spots lol I watch so many podcasts and love supporting smaller channels especially in queers spaces but this one was a bit hard to watch for those reasons. Still looking forward to the next one tho! Keep grinding 💪

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

lol yes we tend to have ADD when we comes to this. we have definitely heard this before lol! We will try to keep it more structured in the future.

glad I found yalls podcast! this is the first ep I'm watching and I'm really enjoying it so far! And I'm really glad you're speaking out Tiff ❤️❤️❤️ all the love and support to you.

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

thank you! Yes check out all of our episodes ! we are also on spotify

You both hit every nail on the head.

Tiff, I commend you for speaking out on this issue and I’m so sorry you had to actually go through it. I’ve been educating myself on narcissism for years now since I was continually berated and shamed by my family. My mother is the narcissist in my life and it’s been a roller coaster trying to deal with her and her gaslighting. I’m also pretty sure that she used the same excuse about ethnicity when I called her out for being loud and disrespectful. I was told “We’re Italian.” I went no contact for months and recently got back in touch and it’s very scary to be honest because I feel like the cycle is just going to repeat again but I’m trying and it’s a whole other layer of complicated when it’s family. Anyway I enjoyed watching you on the show and I could tell you’re a good soul. I wish you all the best. ❤

I loved this video!! Subscribed❤

Wow I can't believe almost none of the couples who were under coercion of an unhealthy ultimatum didn't work!

@Nicole-bg2ly

Жыл бұрын

Do you really believe the ultimatum is real? I just presumed it was a fake ultimatum for TV and everyone involved knows that

Tiff let’s go out for a burrito and blunt!!! pretty please 😂

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

omg yes

How did I miss that screen after the reunion with updates! Wth?! Love hearing your perspective and insight

Wear clip-on mics or speak closer to the mic because the current mic is mostly picking up sound that's bouncing off the walls.

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

yes we are making improvements soon: :) thanks for the feedback

yessss ols more of these!! and bring your friend natasha too!

Love this channel! Watching the show, Tiff and her friend Natasha were people I wished I could be friends with in real life! I hope Natasha is a guest at some point!

Proud of you 👏🏽

I love this podcast 🌈💕 new sub 🥰

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

We appreciate it!

I’ve been enjoying this podcast. I’m glad you guys aren’t censoring yourselves and actually speaking your mind. Some suggestions though, maybe get a rug or something so there can be less of an echo. Also maybe change the seating to where you guys are sitting across from each other instead of side by side. Maybe across each other on a table or maybe separate couches or comfy chairs (without a table) across each other. I feel like this way would seem more natural so you wouldn’t have to keep turning or looking over your shoulder to watch each other speak. Another thing maybe move the mic closer to you faces or getting a higher mic stand or mic boom arm that clamps to your table so you can adjust and move it around. Because it sounds like the mic is picking up the sound/voice from AROUND the room instead of directly from your mouth. I can’t wait to see your channel grow and what it’ll become. You both seem hella chill. One last thing, bring your friend Natasha on maybe one day and let her give her opinion cause she was pretty blunt when you guys did the meet ups lol

@keishkeish8037

Жыл бұрын

Yes @ Natasha would be a great guest

I actully love this so muchhh like I feel as so this will be successful

Really enjoying the show so far…. Just a small request to maybe get better mics or something with the sound maybe it’s the echo idk but excited to keep watching 💜

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

yes we are doing that! Thank you so much!!!

Lmao not the how’s your healing

As a bisexual woman. I am so happy I found this channel ❤

Tiff, i totally get what you're saying, and i look forward to getting to know YOU through this podcast, without the context of your ex and the Netflix show. Also, Kari ... as someone who isnt latina, It must be hard hearing Mildred saying that about your community, but also - any logical human knows that people can have toxic traits, no matter their race or where they're from, so i dont think people came away from this looking down on Latinas - but looking down on that womans actions. Love the pod ❤

Mal and Marshall ARE both virgos🤣

Hey Tiff, I’m sorry you went thru that shit. I hope you healed well from it. I also hope Mildred grew as well from that regardless of her abus*ve actions. U seem like a kind human! Wishing you well 😊

Omg aren’t they both Virgos? I just did research and they are…Perfect. Perfect perfect perfect lol😘😘😘

I grew up with narcissistic parents and there’s different types it’s so bad I got PTSD

Off topic but it sound echoed in the room you’re in

@RunThemHands

Жыл бұрын

They need to talk into the mic

They are both Virgos! And yes it is a Virgo thing lol

I know it happens all the time, esp on podcasts, but I wonder if Tiff notices when Kari frequently interrupts, given convos with Mildred haha

Love Tiff

Marshall is a Virgo!!!! Lmao

I thought you guys said YolyFans 🤣🤣

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

lol plot twist

Brown card! Lol!!!😂

Yasssssss

It’s gotta be a Virgo thing. Cause I swear I make the same faces and I have the same temperament as Mal.

marshall is also a virgo lol

I know your angry now and probably have been for a while but I know that you loved her and she devastated you, they always surprise us even when we feel we know everything and are prepared-they find a way through to blindside you and it rips your soul open over and over again. And just talking about it retriggers you but you also have to talk about it to heal. Its literally the craziest shit ever

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

yes you're right about the anger. I understand it's temporary. I have already had my share of anger about the situation and became fine about it....except, it does re-open up some feelings when it is now split wide open in front of millions of people....it just hits different. I know I'll be okay in a few days and I know I'm already more at peace with it ever since I put out that closure my side of the story video and processed it for a few days.

Yeah Marshall and Mal were both Virgo’s

Marshall is a Virgo 😂

I wish Kari would stop talking over Tiff so much. I know she's just trying to agree or back something up but it's kinda annoying when both are talking at the same time. And I know I do that myself as someone with pressured speech but I try really hard to not do that on recordings.

@Alexx0050

Жыл бұрын

I agree. I also talk A LOT, maybe that’s why I was annoyed by it. 😅 It’s hard to see your own personality when it’s not you.

@qwandary

Жыл бұрын

@@Alexx0050 I don't mind it sometimes but it comes across like Tiff is struggling for words and she just takes over sometimes. I know how annoying it is when someone tries to finish your sentence but isn't on the same track as you, so I just go 'hmm, yeah' instead and then step in during a break of speech personally. Like how I talk isn't for everyone, I've lost friends over it but I really try hard to manage it lol. I feel like in recordings you just have to be a bit different, you're not going to be able to get every point you want out and you need the recording to be accessible for listeners so you have to cut yourself off more if you're both talking, whereas in person I'm capable of talking and listening at the same time, which is why my family don't mind butting over each other to a degree. lol

@Alexx0050

Жыл бұрын

@@qwandary Yeah, I don’t mind it either, it was just a lot this time. I really enjoy their podcasts though. Somebody else also noticed the overtalking, commented, and Tiff and Kari said that they’re gonna pay attention next time. ☺️ And you’re also right about the recording, maybe that’s a bit different, I’ve never done a podcast before.

@qwandary

Жыл бұрын

@@Alexx0050 That's good, they're still new to it so it makes sense they're still learning how to pace things. Also with this subject (DV), Kari did say they were both getting triggered at one point, and I think that could have made it a bit harder for them. Maybe me being sensitive to the subject of abuse also made me a bit less tolerant of the overlapping voices too. It's just not a pleasant subject for anyone, and I like that they handle it with respect and love. I think Tiff could cuss people out a bit more but she's too nice lmao

This setup is wayyyyy better!!!! I like! Lol

I love this input from ya'll!!! -----Yoly and Mildred are trashhh!

Not tiff calling it the eastern *atlantic* current... In Australia lolll

Save your breath Mildred is grandiose and you cannot criticize her, she wont listen.

@daniellecowley7922

Жыл бұрын

she thinks she is an amazing representation

I love you Tiff I t❤hink you're amazing I am so glad you are no longer with her

around 55 was when I realized the reason I can never explain the sh** I've been through. I get so mad every chance I have to tell my side and I just forget important things to say every time I just always end up describing how I feel and sound stupid. Still appreciate y'all talking about this it helps and hurts at the same time.

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

yea. it's always good to talk about it. I'm sorry you went through that :(

Did you get the ring back? 💍

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

haha noooo. she had it. i don't know what she did with it

@bethanybarnett5104

Жыл бұрын

That sucks. 😟

Yoli is a liar and complete manipulator. She knows Mildred is messed up, cos she is not worlds apart herself.

How do I get in touch with someone to patch you up with one of the most beautiful, vibrant, fun humans in the world who has studied and researched DV in same sex (namely lesbian) relationships for years and years and years. She's right here in San Diego too. You guys would LOVE her.

@ZoeMelisa

Жыл бұрын

This would be an amazing guest and resource. +1!

Lifestyle choices. Is that the OnlyFans thing or something else?

You guys are great,but you background is to dark.

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

yea we definitely agree! WE are almost setting up a permenant studio in Kari's apartment soon :)

Tiff, please stop looking at your phone when your friend is talking girl!!!!!

@FweebsPodcast

Жыл бұрын

lol sorrrrrry ! I was trying to look up something that had to do with the conversation of what she was saying AHHAHA

@CelyrubiXO

Жыл бұрын

@@FweebsPodcast ahaha 🤍

Noooo who's this where's Natasha

@Mary-vi9ys

Жыл бұрын

Yessssss!🙏🏼 please more Natasha in our lives!

I'm sorry. I wouldn't automatically back up or defend a member of my racial group if they were an abuser.

Women, girls, and people AFAB are a whole 80% (down from 90% in 2012) more likely to have an undiagnosed mental, learning, or personality disorder than men and boys. Because of that, I won't hurl "narcissist," "mental," or "psychopath" at any of these cast members. However, Yoly, Vanessa, and Mildred have some serious soul-searching to do.

And no offense i understand trying to be positive but be for real ! abusers do not change and i hope to god mildred doesn’t have access to a new relationship because she will abuse again

You com houes silgo see you food 5pm you ok

Sorry I'm not a tiff fan. They have called it "a smear campaign" but that's exactly what she is doing!

@mariatangled

Жыл бұрын

Tiff was physically abused

@newp848

Жыл бұрын

Tiff is allowed to defend themselves after being abused.

@madeleinewitt9901

Жыл бұрын

Why are you here then lol