I honestly loved that Tiff and Sam helped eachother grow without a romantic component tbh. Would say it’s better that way instead of just being temporarily distracted by the new and shiny

@CreativeC13

11 ай бұрын

Reminded me of the French ultimatum! All the couples were like that!

After The Ultimatum: Queer Love I was having nightmares about Mildred because she mirrored some of my past abusive relationships and Tiff, you are so eloquent and open about your experience. You made me feel seen and you're such a wonderful person. You didn't have to use your energy to do this and to use your influence to make people like me feel less alone is nothing short of brave. And Out of the Pods thank you so much for giving them a platform. This is truly one of my favorite podcasts; you show that people can learn and grow and really highlight what is important. I'm so grateful for all of you.

I love when y’all chat at the beginning and give us updates!! Y’all should do a Q&A episode ❤❤

@tiff I can honestly say thank you. Thank you for giving someone who grew up w a “broken home” the benefit of the doubt. Thank you for thinking of her first because what she’s been through. That truly shows how empathetic and caring you are. But you should always take a step back and see how these actions are affecting you. You’re a beautiful soul. And I am sorry your soul was taken advantage of. You’re beautiful inside and out. I’m so sorry you were taken advantage of to a certain degree. I really respect you and love your energy. Keep being open minded and working on yourself ultimately Slay bby ❤️

Tiff is really insightful! Thanks for having them on!

@AllyMack23

11 ай бұрын

Tiff's pronouns are they/them :)

@Freee479

11 ай бұрын

@@AllyMack23they/them? What does that even Mean? Is tiff not a lesbian female? I’m so lost

@sydneyhadfield807

11 ай бұрын

@@Freee479Tiff is attracted to women but identifies as non-binary.

@AllyMack23

11 ай бұрын

@@Freee479 Oh, easy. Tiff would like for you to use they/them pronouns when referring to them. That is all. Oftentimes those that prefer they/them pronouns identify as non-binary (not male/female), but not always.

@Freee479

11 ай бұрын

@@AllyMack23 lol pls how does this make any sense? God created MALE and FEMALE. Humans created Non binary and to me that is like challenging God!!!! Tiff is a biological female and she should be addressed as such. I understand and respect people’s sexuality but pronouns? Nah

something i just thought about was the hypocrisy of Mildred and Tiff vs Jackelina and Marshall. Jackie was allowed to not come on the reunion because she felt unsafe. I think everyone should have to join the reunion and as far as we saw and know Marshall or anyone else on the cast never put her in danger. They allowed that to happen and took such good care of Jackie because she felt unsafe. allowed her to still tell her side on her time. but then allowed a domestic abuser to join, get so so so much time, verbally assault and harass her victim to the point where Tiff left and that was it. CRAZY. I agree with Tiff’s comment on masculinity and feminity. Jackie was protected cause Marshall is a man. Mildred was protected because Tiff is more masculine presenting. Why should masculinity and feminity matter when the feminine is a domestic abuser. that reunion was so so so fucked up.

Thank you for this! Great interview, I live Tiff so much ❤

Great podcast! I would like to have Tiff back and hear them do a summary with you guys about a LIB episode.

@AllyMack23

11 ай бұрын

Tiff's pronouns are they/them :)

@kristinasue5083

11 ай бұрын

@@AllyMack23 Thank you :) I have put the proper pronouns in my comment.

Oh I was so waiting for this. I love Tiff so much ❤

@outofthepods

11 ай бұрын

they’re the best!!! ❤

@Freee479

11 ай бұрын

@@outofthepodsthey? Who’s they?

@annarox393

8 ай бұрын

​@@Freee479Tiff uses they/them pronouns.

Loving the podcast and interviews!! 😍

Tiff deserves all the happiness and love 💛 thank you for sharing and for this interview 🙌🏽 ps, their CAT 😻😻😻😻

I met my husband when he was 25 and I was 33. We have 2 kids and have been married for 16 years now. I guess he didn’t seem like the right one on paper at first, but it turns out my mind was changed! Haha

I need a Deepti Tell All 💙

I need somebody to address “AR-capella.”

I had a good chuckle when Natalie said she’s always wanted to date a doctor and being in med school myself dating another med student, I think this is why a lot of doctors marry doctors 😂 It’s nice to have a break from medicine & be around someone who understands your pain lol

I really want you guys to do an episode on season 3. I am dying to know your opinion on certain people/couples.

🎶Sneeze on the phone and the mate got sicker🎶 lol

Ugh I missed you guys 😢💕

@outofthepods

11 ай бұрын

we missed you guys 🥹🤍

I looooove Tiff ❤😍

Honestly, I think it depends on if the guy has done actual self discovery or not. I had been engaged twice and a 21 year old strolled into my life (I was 28). I thought… no way, absolutely not. But his constant work on himself and GOING TO THERAPY we realized we were a perfect fit. Age does matter, but i think what self work you have done matters more.

I felt so bad for tiff during the reunion Mildred went in on her She loved playing the victim but she’s just as responsible as tiff but tiff owns up to her mistakes I pray they both heal so they can be better partners in the future

@AllyMack23

11 ай бұрын

Tiff's pronouns are they/them :)

@joanna0988

11 ай бұрын

I don't think Tiff is just as responsible since she's not the one getting physically violent.

@zannaambia7270

11 ай бұрын

@@AllyMack23 yes thank you

@zannaambia7270

11 ай бұрын

@@joanna0988 in a relationship both can be held responsible for their actions Remember we didn’t see or hear everything that happened in their relationship

@joanna0988

11 ай бұрын

@@zannaambia7270 I don't agree, unless they're both physically fighting (which Mildred didn't say to police or on the reunion) I would never blame someone for getting a heavy gate thrown at them. Sorry that is crossing the line and actually terrifying to me that a child with autism witnesses that level of anger.

My now husband is 3 years younger, and he was 25 when I was 28. He was mature and looked much older than me, and still does. No one could tell.

Cat feature had to be the best relief🫶🏾

I just binge watched the whole season and it was very interesting to watch, but I do think these formats are based on preying on people's vulnerabilities and traumas. I wish they would make the programs in a more ethical way.

l miss you tiff der l love tiff der ❤

cover LIB Brazil and Japan!

YASSSSSS

I never dated someone younger than me (32) and I am getting married to my fiance (26) in May 2024 and I couldn't be happier!

Get Vanessa on!!!! Would live to know her side!

I returned to 42:28 at least 10 or rather … 20 times … 😍

The question is Where are my scorpios at?

"Im attracted to broken people but hate when they act broken" like you shouldve stayed in your lane rather than get with someone you "pitied" 🙄

I wish you guys did this podcasts live in a studio or something because this FaceTime looking style is just not it

Tiffs pronouns are they/them for all yall misgendering them in the comments

@Freee479

11 ай бұрын

What does that even mean pls? They/them??? She’s a lesbian female is she not? What’s they/them?? Y’ll are turning this world into smt else smh.

@MB-gb2zp

11 ай бұрын

@@Freee479 it's a gender neutral prnoun that existed long before she/her or he/him were ever used as pronouns

@Freee479

11 ай бұрын

@@MB-gb2zp God created 2 genders. MALE and FEMALE! They was no such things like they them or any other confusing terms like the ones you’re mentioning and it is what it is

@thesearemyfaces

11 ай бұрын

​@free8957 if you're having difficulties figuring out how to use they/them as a pronoun for a person, just think, for example, of finding a cellphone in a room that someone has left. You'd say "oh, someone left THEIR cellphone!" if you don't know whose it is. Simple as that.

You boyfriend me tiff der

Not a fan of the profiling of Mel from Tiffany. Giving Karen vibes

@BagLadyy_

11 ай бұрын

I didnt get too much Karen vibes from it but just being transparent about the perspective Tiff had about Mal, may be rooted in other things but it definitely brings up a deeper conversation. At the end of the day we all naturally hold stereotypes within us to protect ourselves from the unknown, its how we act upon it that matters!