Beware of anyone with boundary issues.

@harmonyvaneaton4101

3 ай бұрын

This. Verbally, physically, any kind of boundary issues. Especially within family groups.

@bulletanarchy6447

Ай бұрын

I have to lean the bins up against the fence because it broke in the last stormy season. I don't see how that make me a problem to society

It is so important for society to learn about what causes pedophilia.

@mrs.hancock4124

2 жыл бұрын

It’s so important for society to recognize the consequences for rampant failures within the legal system (including licensed evaluators) that pathologically denying the necessary support & justice for child victims to heal. The system has become a source of secondary abuse to said victims.

@Ben-jq5oo

2 жыл бұрын

I just watched a short piece called : The Agenda with Steve Paiken. Mysteries of the Mind: Inside the mind of the pedophile. I don’t know how to copy the link. If someone can tell me I would appreciate it. In the piece he describes the differences in brain responses of male pedophiles as compared to healthy men. He says approximately 1% of the male population is predominantly pedophile but that the majority of that 1% will not go on offend. He then talks about the need to find ways to encourage these men to seek therapy to help reduce their risk of first offending. It is a fascinating piece and I would urge everyone here to check it out. He doesn’t have the all the answers but he has started the conversation. Thanks

@hersheykissez4234

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. It mind boggles me.

@riseoverhere3054

2 жыл бұрын

It’s hardwired in the brain. So we need to get these people help before they damage children. America is a corrupt country.

@purplepeople3739

2 жыл бұрын

>>kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZpaZyJOblbyffpM.html

While it may not be what you want to talk about it is needed, thank you.

@purplepeople3739

2 жыл бұрын

>>kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZpaZyJOblbyffpM.html

One thing society needs to do is address females who victimize boys. Of the 3 times I was sexually assaulted as a kid, 2 times were by females and when reported nothing was done. The first time I was 7 she was about 13 was at a rec center and I was told she was just teasing me and playing. The next time was in a treatment facility when a way older female snuck in my room and did really bad things. The male staff teased me about how I should have liked it and the female staff thought nothing of it. If that were a male who did that they’d be charged with child r*pe and child molestation.

@jordanthomsen2556

Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry and I 100% agree that we as a society need to address women/females who are perpetrators of abuse and sexual offenses unfortunately as long as feminists are around it will never happen

@jamesbeemer7855

Жыл бұрын

Um , mat , um , I want you think carefully about what your saying , because women who have committed this offense were mothers and teachers , and it’s hard to tell if this was inorder to improve a situation or degrade it . Care givers get caught up in this too . Reserve judgement , untill you under stand fully what was going on . Ok ?

@jordanthomsen2556

Жыл бұрын

@@jamesbeemer7855 you sound like you are trying to protect abusive women

@bigtimejones831

Жыл бұрын

Sadly women get better treatment as sex offenders. There was a case I heard about recently with a woman who committed the most atrocious acts. She was looking at 15 years. Now it's 10 years. I doubt she'll do more then 2 if any time at all. She is currently on pretrial probation awaiting a court date. I'm guessing her lawyer will ask that she remain on probation and not have to go to prison. Yes there is a BIG inequality when it comes to sentencing female offenders. For instance a female offender on average gets less time then a man who commits the same crime. I think it's 65% less time or 65% of the the time men serve. Also female sex offenders IF they do go to prison are allowed to go to camps. Something that is denied to male sex offenders because of the public safety factor. Also in most cases female sex offenders aren't required to complete a sex offender treatment program. One thing that I would like to see changed in the coming years is for the government to stop showing favoritism towards females who commit these and other types of crimes.

@jamesbeemer7855

Жыл бұрын

Um , the nineteenth amendment is defiantly not being applied equally

Would be interesting to hear about female sex offenders

@dr.jeffkieliszewskiforensi3081

4 жыл бұрын

Yea, I have seen a few over the past 25 years, maybe a dozen. I have some thoughts I could put together. Maybe that could be another vlog soon. Thanks for the feedback Sonya!

@robhatesyoutube

3 жыл бұрын

I agree!

@warriorsupremequeenbx4real400

3 жыл бұрын

Do you do lectures....I have a program and have developed a education workshop regarding Sexual abuser....I would love to attend a lectures

@ihatecrackhead

Жыл бұрын

@@dr.jeffkieliszewskiforensi3081 how do you feel about rape by deception, 26 states have it now and federal government, most convictions are lying about their identity or a lying about medical procedures. in Tennessee a man was convicted for answer yes when a women said "is this cris" when he called her late a night and said undress and put on a blindfold. cris was her fiance he got 30 years in prison, the DOJ now says all sexual contact has to be free of force, coercion and deception or it's not consensual wouldn't this apply to minors impersonating adults, a federal court recently dismissed a statutory rope case for saying it violated a males 5th and 14th amendment rights for being charged with rope when he was also a victim of it.

@user-wk7cs6xn1n

3 ай бұрын

Wow!!!It is very important!!!

This is great content. Alot of people have such a visceral reaction to sexual offenses they they fail to understand the situation clearly enough to prevent future occurrences.

@magui8301

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!! Peaple tend not to believe it and even blame it on the victim. Because i gues it's easyer than wraping one's mind around the idea that someone we know can do something like that. I think we expect the offenders to have horns or something, but they are just people we know who seem normal

@AiiRv

2 жыл бұрын

@@magui8301 that’s not the experience I’ve had. People know it exists but they don’t want to learn about the offenders, they’d rather kill them.

@jamesbeemer7855

Жыл бұрын

You are so right sir . But understand that most acurences happen by accedent . A moment of not thinking . But this fella in the post above , that is very rare situation . When an adult gets tagged it’s a power struggle , between the victim and the perp . Very difficult to sort out . Because everyone is trying to cover their asses . Then the real sorting starts . And the victim gets evicerated because she or he may have to relive the whole experience . And that is the trauma part . So it’s a mess when the victim reports it to the police and anyone who will listen . Hey don’t forget the police who have to take these reports . A men .

My worst fear is that the father of my children would ever hurt my child (or any other child). I’ve been molested before and I remember how terrifying it is. No one can tell by looking at someone, whether or not they are a pedophile. But I want to learn anything I can to identify behaviors, warning signs, and signs to watch for. Thank you for this video.

@Zizzy616

Жыл бұрын

Hi there, what clues have you sourced so far? I’m sadly feeling anxious because I’ve been abused and fear the same for my child. I’m confused whether to follow my own intuition or not to be paranoid and project my own fears. Thank you in advance!

@Bluesnakes333

Жыл бұрын

@@Zizzy616 Hello, I am weary of people who are over eager to be around the child. If they do things outside the normal, like buying many gifts (not for a special occasion), spending excess money/time, trying very hard to show the parent they are “trustworthy”. I use intuition too. Sometimes it just doesn’t feel right. I pay as much attention as possible. And never rule out the possibility someone could cause harm (male or female). It is so heartbreaking to even talk about this but I hope this helps. Prayers for you and your family ❤️and our healing ❤️‍🩹

@ulrikezachmann7596

Жыл бұрын

Didn’t someone tell you it was all about power? There is no special Pedophile disease. We have this problem because people are disempowered and live in a society that allows this and then calls it a disease.

@rosegarden2014

Жыл бұрын

Same here! Being molested makes you trust no one! Especially men since they have a higher percentage sadly.

@UnbearablePodcastGB

Жыл бұрын

@@rosegarden2014 Even though the prevailing opinion is that more men are pedophiles than women, child molester statistics suggest that isn’t necessarily true. In fact, women are more likely than men to commit a sex offense against a child under the age of 12, either as an accomplice or a perpetrator.

As a victim of sexual assault from my kung fu teacher when I was 18 and I had already trained in his classes since the age of 12 I never knew there was a criteria for teenager offenders. It was as if he literally waited until I was 18 to groom and sexually assaulted me and the more pain he could inflict on me the more he got off on it. I finally managed to go to police fifteen years later the police believed me, action has been taken against him and I’ve now written a book on it coming out this July. I think self defence and martial arts need to teach their students more about the psychology of what can happen under freeze response as I was only ever taught to reload to fight or flight so when I was assaulted over 6 months and continually froze I couldn’t understand what happened to me. Thank you for this video I never knew about the teenager offender so again this is filling in the gaps for me as a victim so thank you.

@HdHd-cg4nz

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry mate by how the fk do you get grapes at 18 ??? A girl fair enough by unless he had a knife to your throat your consenting to that at 18. No one is graping me at 18 years old as a young man unless I’m tied down or there’s a weapon involved.

@magui8301

2 жыл бұрын

OMG the exact same thing happend to me. He was a karate yeacher, i was a child though. It's really moveing lo read your story and know i am not alone. The fat that it was a self defence class adds a layer of complexity to the trauma. Thank you so much for shareing your experience

@magui8301

2 жыл бұрын

@@HdHd-cg4nz i am sorry but it looks like you really dont understand the psichology of a victim in this situations. I guess you probably meqn well but for the victim listening to this kindes of coments is very destructrive. The dealing with the guilt of not having been able yo defend oneself is a whole chapter in recuperation from trauma. But we sould put everything where it belongs because guilt is not for the victim to bare, it's just the offender's. It doesn't mater if you coud defend yourself or not. No one should be attacking you in the first place.

@HdHd-hp6qz

2 жыл бұрын

@Magdalena Vitar No I sorry but at 18 that’s not sexual assault if you haven’t been tied up or being physically forced that's your boyfriend not your abuser.

@jady_vanity4015

2 жыл бұрын

@@HdHd-hp6qz you’re ignorant and it’s very sad

This is great! Thanks for sharing. Would love to hear you talk about interviewing techniques / therapy techniques for complex forensic cases

@lawr3nc3mann84

3 жыл бұрын

And how to better these types of situations. Its a illness if you ask me.

@lonniectutt7129

Жыл бұрын

Those sex therapist. Brainwash. U wit lies. How can u tell wat a sexoffender. Do from a book. To people touching and grooming everyday.if a cop .r judge watch the grooming process. They addicted too. Tell the truth. I know some police.

Taxonomy is important because specificity is the key to understanding. The word "pedophile" should not be used unless it is accurate. It is not a general term, it is a specific term.

'Non violent' - THANKYOU, it's a word that I needed to hear. God bless.

Thank you for your time.

thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience

Why do some people don't believe others when when they try and warn others about possible sex offender?

@red_five3325

Жыл бұрын

One word: LIARS Famous examples include, but are not limited to: Scottsboro Boys Case, Carolyn Bryant Donham, Mayella Ewell (from *To Kill a Mockingbird*), Duke Lacrosse case, Christine Blasey-Ford, E. Jean Carroll

Thank you for this video.

WE MUST REMEMBER THAT FAMILY CANNOT BE TRUSTED ALONE WITH OUR CHILDREN. SAD 😭 BUT TRUE. STRANGER DANGER IS FALSE.

@jamesbeemer7855

Жыл бұрын

Um , why are you yelling ? Um yes a lot of sex offences happen between mother daughter and father and son or transversely . But the power struggle goes on . The teen wants freedom from parents , and well this subject NEEDSto be discussed between parents , until the family understands ( in the house hold ) . To bring it out for the for the world to hear about before a solution can be found is a serious mistake . I’m registered . And I needed counseling before I offended and I knew it . The thing is where does this conclude ? Because once you’ve told your story , the police will be called on you . But all you’re looking for is help . The corrections system doesn’t doesn’t work for this kind of offences . And because this subject is so emotionally charged , everything is trashed .

@evam.2101

Жыл бұрын

@@jamesbeemer7855 I'm not yelling. I'm texting in capital letters. If you're a predator, I have nothing to say further to you

@jamesbeemer7855

Жыл бұрын

@@evam.2101 I’m registered. But I DID NOT KILL ANYONE ! Just in case you didn’t know …

@evam.2101

Жыл бұрын

@@jamesbeemer7855 If it was a child you assaulted, you did kill their soul. It's the same thing to me. I see what it does for their whole life. 3 of my family members.

@jamesbeemer7855

Жыл бұрын

@@evam.2101 Oh you of little understanding .did you know a child can assault you ? But who is in the position of responsibility ? The adault !

I recently discovered my biological father had installed cameras in my bathroom and saved videos from them on his phone. (Took legal action and he will not be allowed near me again) I'm curious what category he would fall into as I genuinely believe he is a total narcissist and beyond help.

@lisamarsh840

3 жыл бұрын

Wow. You’re so strong.

@taiyavisser5104

3 жыл бұрын

@@lisamarsh840 thank you it was the hardest thing I have ever been through but I knew I had to do it so hopefully people will know what he is and he wont able to do anything to anyone else🙏💪

@mariahconklin4150

2 жыл бұрын

That’s sad! Just because you’re pretty doesn’t give any man to treat you like shit. So not okay for your own father to do that to you

@mayanksaxena6273

2 жыл бұрын

I just want to ask did you not watch the video completely? Cause if you did, your dad would fall under the "third type"

@riseoverhere3054

2 жыл бұрын

I believe your dad is a voyeristic tier one so low level. It’s disgusting what he did and should have seeked help before acting on his urges. I’m sorry you had to go through that.

The damage done to children is too much for us not to be extremely cautious. How to keep children who molest other children in a public school is a huge problem. Usually the child who offends against other children, has been molested. To me it seems like an infectious disease that we need to quarantine. As a teacher I saw this when I did my student teaching. Nothing was done about the problem other than to move the child to a different classroom. He still used the bathrooms freely and all one could do was hope he understands why what he did was wrong and had self control. It is a very worrisome trend to house sexual offenders near children as is being practiced in Denver.

@user-rb1yf4he9q

2 жыл бұрын

You have an infectious disease. It’s called ignorance.

@ulrikezachmann7596

Жыл бұрын

Wake up it’s all about power. The sex bit is the humiliation. That is what rape is all about.

@jamesbeemer7855

Жыл бұрын

Well you caught this behavior in the beginning which is good . I don’t think you’ll have to worry . But like you said , molesters have been molested themselves so just keep an eye on him . If his tormentor is still doing it , it will show in the child’s behavior . Ok ?

Hello. I am currently working on a research project with my university and am in need of participants that are mental health therapists and probation officers who have experience working with child sex offenders. I am wondering if you plan on posting more videos on the topic? If so, the grant that is helping fund our research can pay for an advertisement one of your videos. I am wondering what the cost would be and what the best email is to reach you at?

are there self help programs like the court order one if so can you send me information I watch predator poachers and some are first time I would like to give them information about the help they can get state by state

Um , ya . I’ve been through the mill about it . Yes , it’s scary to think that some one would contemplate such behavior . And that’s my personal point . Some offenders didn’t think about it ! It’s the ones who did . We have to corner . Only then can we determine a course of action . But criminal psychology doesn’t go in that far . The policies tend to lump us all together as we’re all guilty . Never mind the contributing factors , which is where the psychology fails .

Im greatful for this video that has helped me understand about this topic!

I think you might want to add a 4th category. In this day and age, with the prevalence of porn and the hypersexualization of our society, there is a growing number of people, usually men, who are offending strictly through their phones/computers/internet connections. With the ease of 'sliding into DMs' men can easily get into trouble by losing control (due to addiction) and sending photos and videos to younger women. In Canada this is called Child Luring but it doesn't have anything to do with luring a child.

@jamesbeemer7855

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like you have something to contribute . Sound off .

Would love to see u do a video on Josh Duggar.. as it relates to CP& religion

there are those in the field who have determinitive knowledge through MRI brain scans about disconnected circuitry which lends itself to these offences.

I looked for your email, Dr. Kieliszewski, but I could not find it. Are you still allowing viewers to email you? I have a few questions I would like to ask regarding this topic if you are willing to answer them. Please message me if you see this post and would like to respond or let me know where I can find your email if that is okay. Thank you, sir.

Very good analysis. I noticed this video is from 3 years ago I wonder if there's any more research about child porn viewers. Also the amount of videos or images What does it say about the person?

What are personality characteristics of these different types of sex offenders? How can we recognize them? What kind of behavior do they show? This would be really interesting to know

@jareth7456

3 жыл бұрын

I have a background in behavioral psychology and what you need to look for is someone who does an excessive amount of maneuvering to get close to a potential victim, generally they have low ego strength and appear weak or even feminine they seem too soft but some of them get very good at hiding in plain sight so awareness is a good idea but your greatest weapon is your gut , people often make good barometers and mostly if you feel something is off or you don't get a good feeling about someone listen to that feeling and act on it .

@david-dj8or

3 жыл бұрын

In Australia, 1991, a sexual predator was active who had abducted young girls. The police and media called on the public to nominate a suspect and the experts gave a long list of characteristics and clues to help pick the offender. 27'000 men were named (including myself) Of these 73 were charged with an offence (not connected to the case) 73 in 27'000 works out to 1 man charged per 370 men named. So that suggests that following the guidelines of experts don't help much. A lot of people had been pointing the finger at Thomas Hamilton (Dunblane) and calling him a pedophile and pervert. I never read about a single child or parent to directly accuse him, which would seem more logical if he had done anything. But it seems the finger pointers had some baseless suspicion and acted on that. Hamilton had his life made miserable. He then went to the school and shot 16 children and the teacher dead. People should be careful not to falsely accuse someone cause there might be another Hamilton out there. And it might not be just bad luck to find a Hamilton but they might produce their own Hamilton.

@beaulieuonnp593

3 жыл бұрын

@@jareth7456 very interesting thank you.

@ricflairdrip5235

3 жыл бұрын

@@jareth7456 why do they appear feminine, is it a manipulation technic or just a part of who they are?

@kate4biglittlevoices

2 жыл бұрын

@@david-dj8or I’d be interested in hearing your thoughts on the masses accusations of don wells. Not to his 40 year old past but more recent months to allegedly his missing child

Step Father abuses step daughter. 17 years later he abuses step daughter’s daughter.. Stepfather went to therapy after first event. How do you know if therapy works or not in an offender?

What would Offenders with mental disorders or autism fall under? I've seen a lot of these guys online through tik tok and most of them never physically commit but do fall under the cp typology. Most children with Autism have an easier time making friends with children much younger than themselves because of their mental incapability. Does the same apply to Sex Offense?

idk if you're still active on this youtube but how many out of the first two offenders types you spoke about would be considered psychopaths? And what about the offenders who fit in the 1st and 2nd category of the 3 offender types?

@masterchief-yj7yw

2 жыл бұрын

I think all are psychopaths

@riseoverhere3054

2 жыл бұрын

@@masterchief-yj7yw Not all sex offenders are psychopaths only some. The rapists suffer from Antisocial personality disorder which is combination of sociopath and Psycopath in DSM 5 or ICD 10, the child molestors suffer from either pedophilia or antisocial personality disorder, people who watch CP suffer from pedophilia. The ones with Romeo’s and Juliet cases are normal people that didn’t know what the age of consent in their state was while having consensual s3x and the ones that took a leak in public were normal people but American government branded them as sex offenders in 13 states. The ones that streaked in public suffered from an attention seeking disorder called Histonic personality disorder and were immature.

I would like to suggest being very careful with file counts when dealing with pornography addicts. In the older internet days, when it was one file per link, downloaded very slowly over dial-up... a large file count can say something meaningful about a person's psychology. Today, with magnet links and the torrent network it only takes one click to start downloading hundreds or even thousands of files. And most torrent software also immediately creates a "file" as soon as a single kilobyte is downloaded, meaning that a person may have hundreds of "files" when hardly anything had actually been downloaded, and thus telling us nothing useful about the person.

I strongly think you should explain the characteristics of the type of offenders that you were explaining what's their mindset and what makes them go the extra mile to become a sex offender male or female and the signs of a sex offender that we should look through.I was watching Chris Hansen and I think he doesn't ask the hypothetical questions Like why do you want to have Sex with a minor,why are you attracted to minors,Were you a virgin in your younger years,were you picked on because of a popular girl in school you like & she told all her friends about and that's what started it.Can you please explain the mindset of the different types of sex offenders?

@lovet2775

3 жыл бұрын

Your topic makes a lot of sense, it would be good if he did explan that in his video.

@Sandland113

3 жыл бұрын

@@lovet2775 That's what we need to know why a man or a woman become sex offenders,what makes them take that leap of faith knowing that they can get some time behind bars?were they bullied in school and other things!

@wsxaris1686

2 жыл бұрын

A lot of offenders were victims of sexual abuse as well.

@magui8301

2 жыл бұрын

@@wsxaris1686 also most of sexual abuse victims are not sexual ofenders later in life. I' m just so tired of listening to this explanation

@wsxaris1686

2 жыл бұрын

@@magui8301 well it's the truth

Some of rapists abusers get a sense of power from it strength stealing someone .

Very good

Doc ! The man upstairs can see me. He watches me in the shower, & on the toilet. He can see me in every room, & I have 1 year of footage on KZread.

@60_PERCENTT

3 ай бұрын

It drove me crazy. I'm always uncomfortable dressed, & I wash in the pitch dark. Trauma. Everyone thinks I'm crazy.

@60_PERCENTT

3 ай бұрын

He can really see me. He will tap over my head, to let me know he's there watching.

@60_PERCENTT

3 ай бұрын

I spoke to the CSO management, & she said " Yes " I can see him following you, but has done nothing. He is definitely a Jomosexual Vex predator, because I am a man, & he can't wait for me, to take off my clothes. Would you like to see the videos ?

@60_PERCENTT

2 ай бұрын

@BCTMB kzread.infoZQkCFfC1Cjo?si=crx-tN8Wv3UWPKlu

Thank you for doing this important work

Hello and thanks for the video share...since there is so much attention on date rape using date rape drugs...but what about a serial , predatory, date rapist, using date rape drugs on only teenagers ( specific) from a mid life man.. from someone who is famous and very rich....why would something like this happen under circumstances in which the perpetrator has zero problem getting some if he even bothered without breaking the law?

Some good info

What about younger people that lie to hookup with an older person. Like, I've smashed teachers and lied about my age and now kids do that to me and other young adults. I mean who likes to card every person they hookup with?!

@jimmiefatel774

3 жыл бұрын

I was that young kid!

@jareth7456

3 жыл бұрын

Cut em in half and count the rings lol !!

Doctor, are some 'sex offenders' mentally ill, i.e., they do not know the difference between right and wrong and/or they have a break with reality. I work for a care taking agency that was hired to escort an 80 yr old offender on house arrest to the store, doctor appts, etc. He has been banned from virtually every store in town for some inappropriate act and 'the powers that be felt a chaperone would be beneficial. I have always wondered if he is aware of the right and wrong of his behavior. When were at his home i catch him literally watching television with magazines that have young women on the covers, lines them up on the couch next to him and has conversations with them as he's watching the TV. He'll explain to them what the show is about, he cavorts with these pictures as one would do with a human being cuddled up on the couch watching TV. There's no sense of self awareness even as I'm sitting watching him. Today we were/ he was banned from yet another store as i just took my eyes off him for a quick minute. I turn and caught him talking with a very young female employee. Moments later we were approached by store security and asked not to come back as apparently he had done 'something.' In the car i was furiously scolding him as i was humiliated being associated with his act in the store. Yet it seemed there was no sense of shame or self awareness on his part....as if nothing ever happened. I believe home arrest or even going back to prison is not the answer for him...i believe he needs to be in a locked down psychiatric facility. But then I'm just a lay person hired to escort him.

People are so ignorant. Most sex offenders aren’t pedophiles. It’s mostly teen sexting young adult sexting statutory 14-17 streaking skinny dipping public urination indecent exposure etc. a pedophile is someone attracted to prepubescent children under the age of 13……has nothing to do with teenagers or age difference…..it means they’re attracted to children not usually biologically able to reproduce

Wow...i watched the whole thing. Interesting.

Do you think you could possibly help answer the "why" a father would molest his biological daughter at the age of 11? Happened to me and he is getting out of prison soon. He was an amazing father before that so it makes me so confused but ultimately he isn't in my life of course. Thank you for your videos. My dream is to become a forensic psychologist.

@ky2226

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry you had to experience such a sick deed. 😢

@SeanJohn127

Жыл бұрын

Because his brain is wired that way from birth, sadly. People like that cannot help it, especially if they themselves were abused too. Pedophiles are wired different.

@LostSoul_1031

5 ай бұрын

Gross

@Peace-tk3gr

4 ай бұрын

​@@SeanJohn127From birth? Rubbish.

This is excellent! Can you please talk about human trafficking cases for the purpose of sexual exploitation, which includes sexual assault and molestation of younger vulnerable men by an older man? What are the legal ramifications of such cases?

A lot is written about the damage done to children who were abused. But the damage done to the falsely accused can be just as devastating. In Australia, 1991, a sexual predator was active who had abducted young girls. The police and media called on the public to nominate a suspect. 27'000 men were named (including myself) Of these 73 were charged with an offence (not connected to the case) 73 in 27'000 works out to 1 man charged per 370 men named. Few people understand or care about the problems it will cause for the falsely accused. But it can backfire. People had been calling Thomas Hamilton a pedophile and pervert which made his life miserable. After that he went to the Dunblane school and shot 16 children and the teacher dead. People should be careful not to falsely accuse a man for there may be another Thomas Hamilton out there. And it may not be just by luck to find a Thomas Hamilton but a case of producing another Hamilton. If people wished to read my story about how false accusations impacted my life, google innuendo test blog.

@riseoverhere3054

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you sir I’m sorry what you faced.

Sex offenders are very frightening to me. Even though I never had children, I really like them, and I worry about them running into these types of individuals. I don't like those who attack adults. I went to school with someone who I found out raped a young boy and is doing a long stint in prison. I never would have pegged him for that. You just don't know sometimes. Even if they have been let out of prison and are living close to us, it still scares me.

@zanek532

2 жыл бұрын

Not all sex offenders are pedophiles.

@riseoverhere3054

2 жыл бұрын

Not all sex offenders are rapists or child molestors.

@goblingoblineous3533

2 жыл бұрын

30% of sex offenders should be on a misdemeanor redgistry.

@HdHd-hp6qz

2 жыл бұрын

@Rise Over here305 But being aroused by watching a 3 year old girl getting her vagina licked by an adult on a child porn video is just as bad as a molester or rapist.

@hunjuli5245

2 жыл бұрын

@@HdHd-hp6qz But it's rape '-'

Thanks for opening the topic. If you could explain what are the brain differences of sexualy motivated murderers versus sexual beings. In other words doctor, I want to know why death and torture can be sexualy linked in the brain functions.

@mistypotato7500

3 жыл бұрын

it is connected, because a link was once made early in life.

@Veruska75

Жыл бұрын

@@mistypotato7500 Probably in puberty.

I think a young person traumatized by a sexual offence might be one who will have a disturbed idea of sex

@deemiller4549

4 ай бұрын

Nope!!! No excuses

Im curious about two things. 1 is there a set behaviours to look for that pin down these afflictions ? What should i do if i think one of my friends is slipping down this slope? and 2. Id like to know more about why a people always say, a child never lies about this. Yet I personally know 1st hand, that kids do. Soo why are people so willing to believe that they wouldnt.

I don't know if coercions would be in the second or first category of offenses against adults because you can have both violent and non violent threats.

The S.O. also puts their family in a bad position in life. Kids can't be alone with their S.O. parent, their friends can't come over or sleep over, cops come to the home for surprise checks which all the neighbors can see

I'm researching sexual addiction and pornography. Here in the UK a third of all convicted sex offenders are now children. Somehow I think we need to discuss this more.

@riseoverhere3054

2 жыл бұрын

Didn’t know UK put kids on the registry. I thought it was an American thing.

@LostSoul_1031

5 ай бұрын

Jesus

What about incest?

Understanding how online dating is the norm, I'd like to hear your opinion about online dating men who have to send "dick" photos to as many women as possible or even only use a genital-type photo to on their profiles. I find that there is a clear link between the flashes and these types of men. If you know of research been done into this, please direct me to the link.

@mollymcmackins8311

2 жыл бұрын

Or people that engage in open public sex/sexual acts because they fetishise the idea of shocking someone that sees it or getting caught

I have so many questions about the grooming, especially with 4,5,6,7 yr olds. One of the other worst things a person can do, in my opinion, is to accuse someone without proof. Ive heard that you'll never catch a person actually molesting a child, you'll just catch them breaking the rules. I'm feeling sick inside.

@ronmillion

Жыл бұрын

What is it that you want to know? I been a Juvenile Probation Officer for 10 years. I specialize as a sex offender officer. I will tell you this, grooming comes from not only adults. Kids and teenagers will groom you child, it comes from relatives and close friends. Especially during sleep overs or family gatherings. Talk with your children and teach them about good touch and bad touch.

@user-dm4yj7tm3c

27 күн бұрын

I was molested for years first groomed at like 3-4 years old, and it just went on till I was 16ish. And bc of the grooming and molesting it made everyone believe that I was just a quiet child, and believe lies of the offenders from any root they could grab from if I lied about not doing my chores or something like a kid would normal kid, they would blow it out of proportion, so anytime I actually spoke up about the real abuse they could turn around to everyone who've they have manipulated to believe that I was just a "liar" and a "bad kid" and no one believed me for all those years, i have my own children now and i xan say no amount of therapy helps, and i can definitely feel the energy of evil when it comes around, I know what to look for in people and I know how to protect my kids and tell them to protect themselves, what's good and bad touch, as you've mentioned. I don't think I'll have a relationship again until my kids are grown bc having anyone in my home while my kids are here, I can't sleep, I don't leave them in rooms with relatives or boyfriends ever, all this abuse has made me completely hypo sexual and anti social. What I want to know is how come other people don't believe you when you speak up? Or want to protect a child who has said any sort of allegation along the lines of abuse, or when a predator is confronted bc I have he was a family member, why am I still to blame, and "crazy and a liar" Especially when I break it down to them piece by price and noticable behavior after behavior with the same family member they're still believing him over me, maybe I think they don't want to break up a family or disown a sibling, but isn't that a little more crazy then believing a predator over a victim. I've been back n forth with disowning my entire family because of this, but then I am left with maybe they just don't truly understand the signs and psychologically around it, and so I stay but never would I ever leave my children around any of them for that matter. If you understand my question, is it just that do they not understand or do they not want to understand or believe, what do you think?

Please make a video about female offenders and a video about grooming, these became trending topics lately and I think there are some misunderstandings, i.e. it is a crime if a young female teacher has sex with an 18 year old student because of the roles but outside a educational institution technically is legal and most likely she doesn’t have the mindset of a predator or groomer. Another case that has a lot of public interest is the marriage between British Sam and Aaron Taylor-Johnson who met in the filming of a movie she directed when she was 42 and he was turning 18, after the production they started dating, he already 18 proposed to her, a year later had a child and afterwards married. Thousands of people think she groomed him and abused him just because of the ages, without any proofs, even repeat the unproven accusation that she met him while he was a little child. They have been married for more than ten years. In my opinion fans are just shocked because he is good looking, famous, in a stable relationship with an older not conventionally attractive woman, openly showing her respect and love and is some unprecedented behavior in Hollywood. Would love to hear your thoughts.

@dr.jeffkieliszewskiforensi3081

5 ай бұрын

Female offenders: Unfortunately, there is not a lot of research on female offenders. I have seen a few over the years. It's hard to determine if those dynamics are similar or different from male offenders. We just do not have enough to create research samples. I should make a video about grooming. That's a good suggestion. Thanks!

@XOXO______

5 ай бұрын

Thank you!@@dr.jeffkieliszewskiforensi3081

thankyou for sharing,,..it was so good! I'm very nervous my husband hired a painter to work in our house,,, I looked him up and it seems he has a record of being a sexual predator He has a government phone and lives in a halfway house, I usually am not here or near the new house and when I am home I am with my doberman who never leaves my side at the stable.on the ranch.. but im just wondering how or who i can contact to find out more about this 55=60 yr old who seems quite nice,,, yet I've been deceived by many subs working here in Florida.. any help would be so appreciated thanku

@bella7687

3 жыл бұрын

If he is living in a halfway house he is most likely on parole. Just ask him.

@nobuddy6574

3 жыл бұрын

I would say categoric no to a sexual deviate working for me and my husband.

@HdHd-cg4nz

2 жыл бұрын

The best way to avoid this is to use large companies they do crb checks on employees so the chances of you coming across one using that method is slim

how would you categorize the sex offenders that were unsupervised children mimicking things they saw/heard in tv, poorly secured pornographic material, or adult conversations ect? lets go with 8-12 for reference. or an age group reference of yours that would be more cohesive to your research.

@bornofsource9419

3 жыл бұрын

@Megan Mocaby its very true. i believe that as you age things like this have less influence. and it also depends on your home situation when you are a child. people who cant imagine this sort of thing happening are either in denial. or have a good relationship with their children. its important to keep children supervised. they act out and repeat what they see and hear. you could even have the conversation with them. but they are kids. they may forget a day later. and you dont want your kids registering for life because they grew up in a home that never mentioned it was wrong and the child saw something in media that influenced them

@bornofsource9419

3 жыл бұрын

@Megan Mocaby i think this is exactly right. and the only solution to this influence is adulthood or talking to your kids. and i certainly dont mean the way the schools now intend to inform them. im talking about being honest. an saying. this is how the world is. if you do these things. i could lose you for years. and you may have your life ruined. in 20 years you may barely remember why. but registering and getting fired may be a normal part of your life. parents that try to protect their kids like this always seem overbearing. but there are like 70+ different actions that can make you an SO and if you are a child, it is you vs. the state. and if you live in a way that most children in this situation do, you will have a court appointed attorney that will push the charge through for the DA for a high rate. no evidence. just i caught this two children in the closet and they give the male a lifetime of punishment. and the female therapy. im not sure what happens to the parents though. my aunt was a DA so i know a good chunk about this stuff. but cant remember if it was common for the parents to get neglect. if i recall most of them had warrants or got caught with drugs when the house was raided. like months after the reported incident.

@bornofsource9419

3 жыл бұрын

@Megan Mocaby they are basically attempting to teach the opposite. to embrace things like this at a young age. its so backwards...

@jimmiefatel774

3 жыл бұрын

@Megan Mocaby do you believe society should go back to conservatism?

@jimmiefatel774

3 жыл бұрын

@Megan Mocaby yes the media does make up people's perceptions.

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Thank you for sharing this situations having in my family to my niece and I'm in shock and I need to know more information about this thanks for this video.

I caught someone peeking in my window, same goes for hiding cameras. Apparently, someone hid cameras in port-o-potties. There were women in my neighborhood who not only had video taken without consent of themselves in their home, video was being taken illegally (obviously) of their kids using the bathroom, bathing, and getting dressed. I had to out someone who kept sleeping with minor teenagers, which is still sex offending. Any of this makes you never want to allow anyone alone with your kids or in your home.

it appears his window is fake too

I just recently watched a youtube video where 2 women talk about being sexually abused by nuns. (the 2 women and their cases were not connected but in the same video) The relationship with the nuns was when the women were in their teens and early adult. All that was said to have happened was hugging, sometimes sharing a bed on a trip or staying at a house and a kiss that may have only been on the cheek. Anyway, many years after contact with the nuns, the women were having mental issues but neither connected it to their contact with the nuns. The women sought professional help. Sometimes,I think, stress, anxiety, trauma can develop for no reason at all. But the expert set out to find a cause and told the women that the contact with the nuns was actually sex and that was what was causing the problems. Both women thought that was crazy but after time they believed the expert and became sex abuse victims.

@david-dj8or

3 жыл бұрын

@@sb1663 If the contact with the nuns went past the hugging and kiss then the women would have mentioned it because they had an axe to grind. It seems the psychologist was a thought police and blamed the nuns for thinking about sex during the hugging. Just because a psychologist has a piece of paper saying they are an expert don't mean anything. In Australia, 1991, a sexual predator was active who had abducted a young girl (Karmein Chan) The police contacted a crime psychologist to list the characteristics of the offender and called on the public to use those clues to nominate a suspect. It was also pointed out that the offender may not fit that profile as they did not want the offender to slip the net. 27'000 men were named. Of these 73 were charged with an offence (not connected to the case) 73 in 27'000 works out to 1 man charged per 370 men named. So it seems the police wasted their money paying for a psychologist.

@JJ-yu6og

3 жыл бұрын

Whyyyy are the girls kissing the nuns the cheek???

@david-dj8or

3 жыл бұрын

@@JJ-yu6og A kiss on the cheek is usually seen as a sign of friendship or affection. A lip kiss could be seen as a sexual gesture. The youtube video of that is titled Nuns sexually abused these women for years.

@angelineameloot1331

2 жыл бұрын

I don’t understand the reason to bring this up

@magui8301

2 жыл бұрын

OMG this discussion is gold. I am literaly now going to watch the documentary so that i can give you an informed opinion about this

What does tier 1 2 and 3 mean? For instance convicted of aggravated sexual assault with tier 3 in Virginia state

@kevinf3642

3 жыл бұрын

Tier 3 is someone who was convicted of rape or sexual battery. Though may differ from state to state, a person is usually charged with sexual battery when their act was consensual with a victim who they are in authority over. Examples: Jail guard/inmate; teacher/student; parent/minor; etc. Tier 2 are less serous crimes. Tier 1 is least serious. If you want to know more, you should be able to look up the tiers in your state book of criminal codes

where do men that want to have sex with babies fit? do they all have torture and murder as part of their psychopathy? Where do siblings that touch and denigrate fit? with psychological and physical abuse as well. I didn't know about the babies until recently and it should be punishable by death in my opinion. Learning about trauma, multiplicity and ACE scoring. I would be interested in your thought process or anyone elses.

@idonthaveaname42

Жыл бұрын

Seems like only a truly evil person could hurt a baby but we are all wicked i guess

Question... Step father molests/abuses step daughter. Is he capable of the same abuse with his biological sons???

Age of Consent Laws were enacted before the modern day psychological reasoning behind them existed. The global ages for sexual consent range from 9 years old to 21 years old suggesting an arbitrary nature to their enactment as opposed to a moral one. If an activity is consensual and with a (naturally) sexually aware person then this is a moral activity that can't be rehabilitated, the undesired behavior can only be curtailed through fear of incarceration. However, the idea of rehabilitating a person for natural biological human desires is ridiculous. It's along the same lines as curing gay people.

What type is it when it your psychologist when you're a child

@TikeWates

Ай бұрын

The type that makes you a liar

I have a question for him how can the state is in the state convinced the courts that hes a level 3 offender and is oriental little boys when he has never been convicted of a molesting a boy if I'm a lesbian a boy and his victim was a female under age of 6 explain that to me

Thank you for this! I found out that a family member had sexually abused two of his young daughters and then years later i found out he had abused another daughter when she was young and his stepsister when she was young and he was a teenager. It was difficult for me to understand how he could be married and attracted to women yet by his actions and 4 known victims he seems like he would be a preferential pedophile, non-exclusive, because all of his victims were about 3-6 at the time when he molested them, which included o.c. I don't think treatment would work on him because he seems to be a serial offender who definitely should never be around prepubescent girls again...

Hi Thank you for your video. I'm trying to get my head around my ex boyfriend's fetish for 4yr olds.... Update: 'Relationship Terminated' However, I managed to navigate my way around my sister's bi-pilar and the abuse I suffered with her, so why not try and understand this?! Trying to be as non-judgemental as I can... trying to learn.

Thank you Dr……Have you written a book on all the areas you just described……I appreciate your objective stance…..I am just trying to understand…..

Why are there so many comments from incels on this video? It appears the psychologist needs to add another subtype to this presentation.

Ok , sir , um I want you to look at sex offending for the offenders point of view . Ok? That’s not really possible unless you’ve been there . We (sex offenders) know that this behavior is an emotional subject , from the innocents point of view , and society at large . MOST sex offenders don’t mean any harm . But there are the ones who do mean to do harm . And to figure out which is which , you must be in their heads . That means living with them . I suggest going in undercover . For longer than just a few weeks . Then the real threat can be discovered . I suggest six months and your charge can be for a sex offence (fake) to get the trust of the deceivers . The one thing you can do is sit back , and observe until you’re called on in group , but be aware the other offenders are going to shoot holes in your story as they do to the others . You will discover a lot . Believe me .

I would like to know about sexuality and sex offending. What about asexual sex offenders? They don't have sexual attraction to anyone, but some still have sex. How does sex drive lead to offending, would a person with low libido become a serial sex offender? Where we are in london (and loads of other places round the world) there are lot of men exposing themselves to women joggers and runners in parks. Is this a power thing and to they actually think they they will never get caught? How much narcissism is there in men exposing themselves? Is there a risk factor, hey I am going to get away with it type thing going on? Women also expose themselves but perhaps do it in a different way and how do they do it, is it sexual power or a form of abuse? I don't hear of women stalking other men or women in parks doing this, but they may expose themselves if they are arguing with someone. I have heard of men exposing themselves and then later on raping and killing women? So exposing themselves could be a warning sign that they could go on across another boundary to rape etc I find it interesting how some sex offenders have a responsible and successful job only to lose everything just for a few minutes of a sexual kick.

I’ve always thought that sex offenders are just assholes cold callous sick people....please enlighten me, bc as of late all we see on the news are children being sex trafficked and abused and or killed by offenders and I’m getting really tired of how many offenders this world has living amongst us normal ppl. Our children shouldn’t have to go through any of this kind of hell. Educate the public educate the world so we can be more proactive in spotting these offenders amongst us and stop this vile sickness !!!

Thank you for the video it's very informative but I would like to know why a man would get in a relationship with a grown woman and then pray one children that don't have any kind of shape where they have a full grown woman with fully developed body parts what makes them even attracted to something that doesn't have any shape or any body parts yet???

I can't imagine having a sexual thought about a child, ever. That, or anything else even non-consensual with an adult, is not something I could ever comprehend thinking. As someone who was groomed as a teenager/child, looking back, I am horrified when I see anything that resembles this.

What about if they turn violent after you give consent not knowing it's gonna be really violent? Like...scared for your life violent? .

I'm not sure why people often conflate pedophiles with other kinds of rapists. Yes, both deserve treatment/prevention but the kind of motivations are different and it seems like they target people completely differently.

As a psychologist is it mandatory to believe that pedophiles can be rehabilitated or “ cured “ ?

@dr.jeffkieliszewskiforensi3081

4 жыл бұрын

No, a psychologist does not have to believe pedophiles can be rehabilitated or cured. In fact, in my opinion (and if you look at the research) the prognosis for treatment of a diagnosed pedophile is not great. With certain types, prognosis is quite poor and they continue to pose a risk. So, with the high risk types, maybe locking them up longer and having more intensive supervision in the community is the answer. Thanks for your question!

@minarose3193

4 жыл бұрын

Dr. Jeff Kieliszewski, Forensic Psychologist I have strong opinions about them I feel they need to be given the death penalty and can’t be helped. A man who rapes a dog or a baby is never to be trusted. No matter what treatment is given. I guess I would need to keep my opinions to my self if I was ever to get into this profession

@jakaja1950

4 жыл бұрын

@@minarose3193 Quite obviously, you should never get into this profession. That would make about as much sense as an atheist seeking to be a church pastor. Beyond that, there is of course the question of just why you have your "strong opinions". Do they have any connection to actual data about the world as it is, or are your opinions just what you believe is true?

@RoseGold1224

3 жыл бұрын

J Jacobs you sound bothered. It’s not of your business if she wants to get into this profession troll.

@Mi_Fa_Volare

3 жыл бұрын

@@Khaha1997 I agree with most what you said. That topic is joke. With the measures they take. With the attitude people bring about it I can't take it seriously. It's just a media thing. For the politics who wants to boost his image or wants to attract votes. For government to exploit emotions by instrumentalizing the combination of children and sex to trigger irrational thinking of the mass to bring them to their favor/agenda etc. The sheep who express their strong and draconic opinions for their crave for recognition. Emotions is an old propaganda trick. No measure by the legislative is useful. They probably aren't even really in favor of the victims. What law is doing is just support the true predators more than help against them.

I wish you would have expounded on what you mean by risk factors between a pedophile and a non-petophile can be quite different. I mean we are watching your video to pick your brain.

Oh , consent ! Now what he’s talking about is the handy capped victim . And the victim who is made handicapped . Doesn’t mean just children . Some adults are just as incapable of giving consent . So where to go from here ? Um , I’m thinking about this . See because the victim can change their mind in the middle of the act . And they most likely won’t tell you until you’ve left your deposit . I mean , you can do everything right , and they can tell a different story .

What about people who got a sex offense for peeing outside, slapping someones ass over clothing, a high school relationship or explicit text messages, or having anal sex? There’s over 40 minor infractions against adults that can put someone on the sex offender register for 25 years to life.

@HdHd-cg4nz

2 жыл бұрын

Having anal sex is not a criminal as long as it’s consensual.

@idonthaveaname42

Жыл бұрын

​@@HdHd-cg4nz technically sodomy is illegal

I eventually reported him and blocked him too

Its incredible that you can tell who is a sex offender in the comment section. Like you guys are not blending in well. Its very obvious that youve done it

Let everyone know that it's a dead issue it already got handled and the speaker is muted

3:36

Can you spend some time on the group of internet photos of minors when innocent people are hacked with these sites. Yet are convicted although innocent, yes these children are victimized, but its not intended. How can these types be removed from the registry.

It's great he's getting help. But lets be honest, non of us would trust people like that. Just don't trust your children with anyone.

@kiyawanders

2 ай бұрын

Not even your own family. Bc thats who us more likely to harm a kid. Stranger danger is a lie

thank you a lot for sharing! If you have the time to, could you please create a video of your experience and perspectives of sex offenders lives after becoming a sex offender -Also about their ability to legally be parents and have their own children Mostly on my mind is can sex offenders in category 2 (in this video) the teenager and adult one. Not violent but not of age of consent.. the parents turned him in. If it was a one time offense and he was young. Could he have a family and get permission to be a father daily for his son on the way.. 14 years after the crime. Would he be deemed low risk by the court. He has no other trouble he has been in

@kevinf3642

3 жыл бұрын

Have you talked to an attorney? I can't imagine any court having the jurisdiction in this type of case to prevent such a man from being a father to future children. His nonviolent crime happened 14 years in his past. He evidently was found guilty for his crime and finished his sentence. As long as he is not on probation, there shouldn't be a problem.

Not all you hear is true about child molesters. One time is enough in prison. After release, after therapy, my daughter asked me if I would babysit her two 10 and 11 year Olds because she mad to go to a office meeting. I thought what do I do with two active children? So since I regretted what I did years ago, I, like most S.O.'s started going to church in prison, but not just go, but took it seriously. So, I told the grandkids, let's learn the 10 Commandments. Within less than a half hour, they were reciting them front ward and back ward, and learned why they were put on 2 tablets and not one. Later, they went home a was teaching their friends something that probably no one reading this who claim and good Christians can't even do.

... why didn't you include coercion

Does offender liking boys and girls make him bisexual or just that it's a child so doesn't matter to the offender just that it's a vulnerable victim?

This guy named Paul James was on my page on KZread was talking inappropriate to me

I'll offer an alternative theory as to why people have highly organized "collections". It's because that type of person whether They collect Adult materials or child based materials, Stimulated by multitudeOf fetishes. Such as Underwear fetish, Or else specific race. Or acts involving multiple partners of one gender or another. They organize these materials so that they can quickly access their current interest When they return to view it later. I figure this because many websites organize their materials in this way.

I have a man stalking my life who will not leave me alone. He has been consistently told to stop and that there is absolutely no interest. Items of my clothing have gone missing from my home. Clear signs of someone intruding into my home, breaking and entering have been prevalent. A baby picture of mine is now missing. Would you say that these are signs of a sex offender or someone who is possibly criminally insane and capable of anything. He has a criminal record and he is also schizoaffective.

@ky2226

Жыл бұрын

Please be safe. I’m so sorry you’re experiencing that. Is there anything you can do? Put up cameras? Etc

@ky2226

Жыл бұрын

@@notyourfetish Definitely understand. I hope it does too. You should never have to live like that because someone is mentally unstable. Take care. ♥️

@ky2226

Жыл бұрын

@@notyourfetish Oh wow he sounds like a lot to handle. I hope he gets the help that he needs. And I hope you remain safe.

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