This is such a taboo subject for many woman where they believe that never wanting sex is "normal". Dead bedrooms are an epidemic and normalised to the point where men and women that want more in that area are labeled sex fiends. What we're taught growing up is so destructive. Big respect to you both for having this conversation. The world needs It.

So much I want to say but truly don’t have the words just yet. This is a pivotal moment, having seen this right when I have. I was just speaking with my husband about my feeling of this pull that my next step in healing from childhood traumas, is to figure how to reclaim my sexuality and whole being. So eager to keep learning. Thank you.

This is exactly what I needed to hear as a breastfeeding mama of a 3 month old 🥺❤️

It is time to be gentle with ourselves and cultivate more compassion for our history, our feelings and our wishes 🌬 This video helps awaken many females and everyone open minded. Thank you for this amazing production and your kindness. I can feel it through my screen and I am blessed to meet you virutally!

I’m always so excited for every new podcast! 😃 so educational! I listen to them when I’m cleaning/cooking/laundry etc.

Wow this is so great. It was a podcast I didn’t know I needed. I am going to surrender! Thank you so much Ellen and Kim. I feel transformed already. I’m going to apply this all thank you!

For a minute..I forgot that you had this KZread page 🙈 & I was listening to this on Spotify.. I was like ..hmm I would really like to watch expressions & a person talk about this.. and I felt so silly .. so I switched and now I'm on the youtube watching.. I feel a deeper connection I think. 😌 love this 100%

@theellenfisherpodcast

2 жыл бұрын

hahaha amazing!! I LOVE watching podcast episodes as well to see the facial expressions. so glad you are enjoying this episode!

OMG THE EPISODE WE HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR!!! cant wait to listen

Favorite episode so far! Thank you for hosting this conversation Ellen 🙏🏻

@theellenfisherpodcast

2 жыл бұрын

wow thank you! I truly loved this conversation too!

This is so good, ive been searching for this!

Wow! This episode was extremely informative, maybe even eye opening for different aspects…thank you!

Amazing as always. Thanks for this. Definitely subscribing to her newsletter. ❤️❤️❤️

With every episode I watch on this channel I feel like I am becoming a more well-rounded, intelligent, and feminine woman each and every time… thank you 💖

@theellenfisherpodcast

2 жыл бұрын

wowww! this is incredible. thank you for sharing this.

Really enjoyed this podcast subject! Thank you!

Love love love!!! Love speaking about the female vs male structures in society. So important! Five minutes into this and I’m loving it so much 🥰❤️

Such a great episode!!

Thank you Ellen, you made me discover Kim and this podcast it’s literally a gift 🙏🏻

Thanks for this amazing video!!!

I LOVE THIS! 💛 this popped up and I’m so glad it did. Didn’t know how much I needed this.

Favorite episode so far, thanks Ellen!

I loved hearing Kim's background and how she got interested in all this, what a great question!

❤️ can't wait to listen to this one xx

Suuuuuuuuuuuper powerful! Thank you very very much to break this wall of tabu around this topic, and thank you Kim Anami for your wisdom! Thanks Ellen for your courage!

I have been following kim for a while now. Love her!

I’m grateful for both of you ladies ! ❤️

This woman takes “34+35” by Ariana Grande literally lol

OMG Ellen I am soo excited to listen to this podcast!!! I'm sad I have to work first 😞

Love Kim's work! Thank you for having this conversation Ellen!

Amazing thank you 🙏🏻

Thank you Ellen for this wonderful video , right on time for as I just was about getting into jade eggs . But wow here is the door to a new life . Ellen Haven’t you used yoni eggs yourself before but I understand sometimes you get different information. Kim is such a wonderful women thank you for inviting her and just thank you Ellen for everything you do . You are amazing 🤩

I LOVED this podcast, Ellen. You both spoke so gracefully and wonderfully about a topic that SO MANY people have trouble discussing! It’s silly because it’s our BODIES, our HEALTH, and our HAPPINESS. Thanks for another amazing podcast!!

Dunno about having sex days after birth 😬😳

Yassss!!! I was waiting for this Ellen! Have recently done Kim’s “Sexy mama” Salon! It was amazing!!! I’m also a subscriber to your membership Ellen! You two are absolutely incredible!!! Thank you for all you both do!!! Truly life changing content you two create! 💚

@theellenfisherpodcast

2 жыл бұрын

awe wow that's so awesome!! thanks for all your support over the years! and these sexy mama course looks incredible

Good job Ellen 👌🏽 still tripping over information about vagus nerve and connection with sex 😉

Where can you learn to use the jade eggs properly? Is the only option on Kim's website with a 1200$ course, or is there any more affordable way to to do it? Also the jade egg she sells it's just 1 piece but Ellen in your previous (1 year ago video) you had a whole set of eggs. How did you learn the weight lifting exercises? Thanks a lot!

Just listened. this was an amazing episode, and my partner is now listening as well 🙏 really off topic 😂 but I'd really love a video on how to deal with sleep problems in children, I really value your info and this is something I've struggled with for years as I still sleep with a nearly 7 year old and really need to get back into bed with my partner

@angieh3584

2 жыл бұрын

Yes id love this too. I'm in the exact same position but with a 4 and 7 year old that are literally like a wedge between us in bed every night.

@fillyourcup282

2 жыл бұрын

It's funny how people mainly talk about new born sleep habits affecting sex life, I think it's when they get a little older and can actually walk lol

Conscious monogamy is a very interesting topic. I assume that in a long-term relationship it is where we are able to grow when brave enough to look at the painful issues. But never stay in an abusive relationship. Get the power and strength to leave toxic people.

It's so interesting because there's a lot that makes me uncomfortable or that i disagree with in this, but despite that i come out of this podcast having learned a lot and creating a change of perspective about my own sexuality! It means a lot to me that i get to have a different perspective on monogamy/polyamory, or feel frustrated that this doesn't even mention queer relationships, all the while still internalizing how important trust, surrender and loving my partner's body is! And despite being polyamorous i LOVE that i can make the conscious choice to be committed to my partner(s) through all the transformations they go through. Anyway i'm repeating myself but it's nice to disagree without this gut feeling of invalidation or vitriol or whatever, because i used to watch Ellen a lot and i know all the love and care that she has and that if we were to disagree, i feel it'd be done lovingly.

@jeanwhite6884

2 жыл бұрын

I’m curious, if this were a podcast on only queer relationships, would you be bothered that they didn’t mention heterosexual relationships?

@theoolscamp115

2 жыл бұрын

@@jeanwhite6884 i think queer or hetero only spaces are fine (but then you should own up to it and lgbt spaces are open about what they are but not hetero-focused spaces) but when we're talking about sexual relationships in general and only speak in terms of feminine and masculine energy together, that's ignoring a lot of other experiences

@sarar5789

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, this is certainly an interesting conversation, yet completely excludes SO MANY people. Queer, lesbian, trans women, women who medically cannot “self lubricate,” men who medically cannot last for an hour, etc. I think there are also a lot of questions about the medical and scientific credibility of a lot of this information 🤷🏼‍♀️. But hey, it’s KZread.

@judithzoe204

2 жыл бұрын

Because it’s not a podcast for gay people… gay stuff is literally everywhere. Stop making everything about yourselves go watch a gay channel

Kim is the 🐐

Great work getting sex in the conversation! We all need more great sex in our lives!

This was an interesting conversation. The language used turned me off at times if I'm honest, but the concept of the jade egg was interesting. I remember a video you made a while back - that was the first time I had ever heard of it. Do you know of other people that you recommend that teach on this topic? I don't think I could invest in one of Kims courses because I disagree with a lot that she said and the language she used, but the overall concept was very interesting and I'd love to learn about it.

Please, add subtitles in portuguese. 🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷 I love Kim and Ellen ❤️

Great great 🙏What jade eggs do you recommend ?

my circumstances are difficult. I made this channel for to support my family💚💚💟💚💚

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Interesting topic and podcast episode. I don’t think I am your audience and I am most likely the minority but this episode was super heteronormative and pushed heteronormative sex as well. Thanks for sharing Ellen I’m sure there is a lot of straight women who found this very relatable.

Ugh! I must make the most needy children! I can’t get them to sleep on there own until past a year old…. They’ve needed to be held by someone. Makes these situations hard because I feel like once I get my baby to sleep, it’s a race. I’m not mad about it, but I just never know when I’ll get this unicorn of a chance. We don’t live near a large support system so babysitters are not possible in this season. But hopefully soon

The problem comes when you do not know how to transform sexual energy into spiritual. Sexual energy is creativ and in ayurveda abstainug from sex gives Glow to the body

Ellen I would love to see a podcast on birth control.

@vanessasf2866

2 жыл бұрын

not necessarily the ethical talk

Somewhat true but here's a few things to learn: 1. You shouldn't have sex after giving birth (at least for postpartum period), everyone knows it can lead to infections, slows down the healing and is extremely painful (in all spiritual teachings you are not advised to have intercourse if there's bleeding, even during period for hygienic reasons) 2. Sexual energy is not the same as life force energy (in Tantra and Vedas etc there's a big difference between those two, one can be transformed into another but it's usually the other way round from what she's saying) 3. In many spiritual teachings the main practice is to Not to waste Life Force meaning abstinence from sex (being in perpetual honeymoon period exhausts it, so constant "simmering" is not a good thing) Look into work of Joe Dispenza (please interview him) - people during his workshops are experiencing ecstasy without sex... And through meditation heal themselves from all traumas and diseases. Bottom line: this sex coach has a few good tricks to improve sex life and it's great but please don't give it a spiritual meaning 😉😄

Sorry, that was the most woo-woo painful thing I've ever listened to, and I have no hang-ups about sex.. I listened to the Dr. B. podcast first and going from all that science to all that woo was whiplash.

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What if you had to have a full hysterectomy and need lube do to this . Oh yes an being almost 50. Lol

@sillysallyalli

2 жыл бұрын

I took Kim’s course with woman of all ages, it doesn’t matter your circumstance/age. Truly possible with Jade egg practice

I dont like the phrase...the Well F____ed woman. It's just raunchy and harsh. Why not say...a Well Loved Woman?? If sex is love and love is sex, it is making love. I know it isn't to everyone, it's just a physical sex connection. But to me it is a heart connection that brings two people together in LOVE. It is Love that shakes the ground, it is the heart connection that shakes the ground. Not a raunchy profane word. I would never explain beautiful sex to my teenage daughter by using that phrase, would anyone? Overall KIm has some good information and I'm sure she has helped many people. Sex is not the top of the relationship pile in my view. It is the FRUIT of the energy put out to have a good relationship all the time. Just as Kim said there can be blockages around the other relationship tension. Kim also possibly attaches different types of spiritual beliefs to sex that not everyone shares. Being reborn is not the way most would describe an incredible, memorable time with their partner. God is my guide in my life.

Jade eggs are terrible - the ovaries don’t like that stone. Many women react with cramping ovaries after inserting those stupid unnatural things. Just lift heavy weights while squeezing the pelvic floor.

@judithzoe204

2 жыл бұрын

Why would I trust some random KZread commenter stop talking like you’re an authority

🛑🛑🛑When you are married not someone else's sx object.. 🛑🛑🛑.

Ellen, I enjoy watching your videos but I think it’s disappointing that you are now adding sponsorships into your podcast- because you also do them in pretty much all of your regular videos and you have a paid membership to watch your videos…. Also you and Hannah were both just promoting Brooklinen as the best bedding ever and now it’s another brand of overpriced bedding that’s the best you’ve ever had… and your viewers should go jump and buy?!- it just feels like every video has become a sponsorship being read from a script to sell us things that we don’t need or can’t afford.

@abrown4125

2 жыл бұрын

Making videos for KZread is very exhausting and it takes so much work. Don't you think people should be paid for their work? this is not a hobby for her. While she does enjoy it, this is WORK for her. Her and her husband work really hard, and she's a working mom taking care of her family. The sponsorships allow her to have an income, especially when KZread censors her videos and she doesn't make money from KZread ads. From what I remember, she's only spoken about Brooklinen and Buffy (which she was only promoting their comforter which is what they're known for). Majority of instagramers and KZreadrs have sponsors to make a living. AND if you couldn't tell, she's not endorsing ANY company, she's only endorsing the ones that align with her beliefs and morals (natural, green, vegan, cruelty free, etc.) If you don't like it, then get off KZread. You're always going to see ads everywhere.

@judithzoe204

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah she should just work for free. Like bro what