Transform Your Relationship I Matthew Hussey

Our relationships are EVERYTHING
Matthew Hussey is a world-class speaker, New York Times Bestselling author, a columnist for Cosmopolitan Magazine, and a relationship/dating EXPERT.
I was still BLOWN away by the insights I gained in this interview.
Relationships are the FOUNDATION for a happy and fulfilling life. Not just intimate ones, but the relationships we have with our family members, friends, and colleagues.
In this interview, whether you are single or in a relationship we answer ALL questions that pertain to navigating and bettering this part of your life.
We answered the burning questions everyone is dying to know:
- Is there really a ONE and ONLY for you.
- How to know if you should keep pursuing someone.
- How to date in a world where technology has given us so many options.
- Sleeping with someone on the first few dates.
- Do’s and Don'ts of breakups.
- How to get your partner to support you in following your dreams.
- One of the most unattractive things you can do while dating.
- The foundation needed for every relationship.
- How to know if someone is toxic for you.
- Why being vulnerable is a necessity on first dates.
- What you should really be looking for in a significant other.
- How to keep a relationship full of passion.
I’m going to be COMPLETELY honest with you, this was one of the MOST informational packed interviews I have EVER done. This conversation was riveting for me, and I know in just one hour you’ll be looking at your relationship with fresh eyes, or if you are single you’ll be walking away knowing exactly how to get started dating.
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  • @Mary-io7yi
    @Mary-io7yi4 жыл бұрын

    So good! "The right one is someone who is willing to build with you." You can have chemistry with a person but if they aren't committed and willing to build a life with you they aren't right.

  • @unregrettablelife9424

    @unregrettablelife9424

    4 жыл бұрын

    People have to think life as a company and when two get together, starting a partnership and wanting to start a company then you both would need to know what you are creating in this company (life company), whether services or products, otherwise the company wouldn't survive if two people want to create different company. Because of this most marriage ended in divorce, especially around 70% for first marriage (or first company ) - I mentioned this principle in my book.

  • @raesunshine2643

    @raesunshine2643

    2 жыл бұрын

    So true 🤗

  • @GourmandLaura

    @GourmandLaura

    Жыл бұрын

    I need to accept what you just wrote, despite trying to ignore the truth.

  • @fabianafonseca3270

    @fabianafonseca3270

    Жыл бұрын

    Qqq q

  • @Anna-bl8ey

    @Anna-bl8ey

    11 ай бұрын

    But remember, life gets hard. We don’t show up for ourselves this consistently let alone for the people in our lives. We’re all human. This is an unrealistic expectation to have of others. Try starting with yourself first

  • @Shareablevideos
    @Shareablevideos4 жыл бұрын

    1. Admiration 2. Connection (mutual admiration) 3. Commitment 4. Compatibility . All needed to make someone “The One”.

  • @Sarachouska

    @Sarachouska

    2 жыл бұрын

    And sometimes you can see compatibility but no commitment, so this isn't the right time... So, go look for someone ready !

  • @daniellajung9421

    @daniellajung9421

    2 жыл бұрын

    고마워

  • @CandaceHarmony

    @CandaceHarmony

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for posting this note. I came back to this video just for this! 🙏🏼

  • @flirtypairs5769

    @flirtypairs5769

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Hazel sounds really good. Sounds like an end result or goal in a relationship. When you have these expectations, an ambitious man sees you and he'll work toward it all but then after a month of marriage you'll fill for divorce because he met you're requirements/expectations but he wasn't the one for you. If it's work it's not working. All the things you've mentioned usually end up being the final result or accomplishment in a relationship. Building up to that is very essential, but they aren't subsets of the goal or items on a checklist at the unset.

  • @AmanBansil
    @AmanBansil4 жыл бұрын

    “No one cares that you’re really great once they get to know you“ this is not a relationship video, this is in MasterClass of life that needs to be replayed paused and digested in a serious manner. Amazing insight.

  • @EdMylettShow

    @EdMylettShow

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much! That truly means a lot. Just like you, these interviews sometimes just move me! What's 1 thing you learned about him, you previously didn't know?

  • @AmanBansil

    @AmanBansil

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@EdMylettShow about Matthew? Actually, I had never heard of him until this video. So, THANK YOU for the introduction. As for the subject matter, I've dug deep into this topic in my own life and have found the 'creation of space' to be a wonderful tool. Efforts like these (your video) are greatly appreciated because they help get my most important asset in line with my goals: my mindset.

  • @daradalmau9300

    @daradalmau9300

    4 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely in agreement!

  • @limitededition3712

    @limitededition3712

    4 жыл бұрын

    True, I listened to this over a couple of hours because I kept pausing and replaying some parts. Definitely a game changer 👌

  • @lenkakupkova625

    @lenkakupkova625

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@limitededition3712 same here

  • @takeoveracademy4079
    @takeoveracademy40794 жыл бұрын

    There is a man the entire world needs to know.

  • @jms6882
    @jms68824 жыл бұрын

    "The real voyage of Discovery consists, not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes." - Proust

  • @GingerVertican
    @GingerVertican4 жыл бұрын

    I met Matthew Hussey on my birthday, Nov 7th, 4 years ago in LA! He was so humble & kind and took the time to take a photo with me and ask me a question or two about myself. I had joined his website & my birthday wish was to go to his conference. I was from San Diego and it had been hard meeting someone who wanted a long term relationship. It’s like a vacation state of mind there, however!!!!!!!Update: I had just met the man who would become my husband a year later- I applied ALL Matthew’s advice and we just celebrated 3 years marriage! I have to revisit this advice frequently - so that our relationship can develop over the years and grow together. Thanks Matt! (& Ed for having hm!)

  • @BetterLoveMovement

    @BetterLoveMovement

    4 жыл бұрын

    What an amazing story and so full of HOPE! Thank you for sharing it!

  • @amirthar3460

    @amirthar3460

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ginger Vertican what is the advice tell me plz

  • @GingerVertican

    @GingerVertican

    4 жыл бұрын

    shiny girl You should follow his page or join his community there’s a tons of good stuff but I think the ones that especially made a difference in my life were about realizing your own value and doing things that you love instead of looking for someone else to give that to you it’s very attractive to be a person who likes yourself and then you can already be a whole person when you meet someone for a long-term relationship ♥️

  • @amirthar3460

    @amirthar3460

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@GingerVertican thank you so much for your replay 💗

  • @Elaine-ee1eh

    @Elaine-ee1eh

    4 жыл бұрын

    Congrats on your marriage. I too am in San Diego 🙄 and understand completely.

  • @danielvillanueva6639
    @danielvillanueva66394 жыл бұрын

    Most is lost in indecision, than in wrong decisions.

  • @EdMylettShow

    @EdMylettShow

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes! What's 1 question you would have asked him if you could have?

  • @bencook618

    @bencook618

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@EdMylettShow I would have maybe followed up with him in regard to starting a business being selfish. It would have been something in regard to, "what do you do if your spouse/significant other isn't thrilled about you being an entrepreneur? Should that stop us from plunging into the work, barring there isn't a ethical reason (obviously)? Thanks for such great contact Ed and Matthew.

  • @Amy-cs9qr

    @Amy-cs9qr

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ed Mylett Yes! How to deal with a partners toxic friend that you dislike?!

  • @scuttletheship656
    @scuttletheship6564 жыл бұрын

    I am 56 minutes into this amazing conversation between two insightful, KIND men...and I don't want it to end! God bless you both!😊

  • @EdMylettShow

    @EdMylettShow

    4 жыл бұрын

    Glad you found such enjoyment from the interview! What's 1 thing you would have asked him if you could?

  • @lubnan08

    @lubnan08

    4 жыл бұрын

    Agreed!!!!

  • @katarzynag4541

    @katarzynag4541

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @klw8771

    @klw8771

    9 ай бұрын

    Can men & women ever just have a non sexual long term friendship only ? Does it ever really work? I’ve always found 1 person is more invested than the other & usually more than just friends..

  • @houseworth123
    @houseworth1234 жыл бұрын

    See your partner with new eyes! Wow

  • @EdMylettShow

    @EdMylettShow

    4 жыл бұрын

    This was probably one of my favorite lines too! What's 1 thing you wished he went more in dept on?

  • @farmerfox99

    @farmerfox99

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is really challenging when ur 60 and ur wife is an invalid from ms and totally dependent on you. Experiencing loss on many levels .....

  • @s13283
    @s13283 Жыл бұрын

    Yes staying in a relationship just because you've invested money, time, your entire heart. It doesn't mean it was a waste it just means it's time to move on. Sometimes that's the hardest thing to accept, because people look at it as a failure. Well I choose to look at it as the closing of a chapter an opening of a new one

  • @Braveheart0803

    @Braveheart0803

    5 ай бұрын

    Same here! I don’t see my marriage as a failure because I have three beautiful and compassionate children. I see it as a learning experience as part of my journey for who I am now.

  • @princessogidi5715
    @princessogidi57154 жыл бұрын

    "Your level of humility allows you to take a step back and evaluate others around you" I absolutely agree, I'm appalled at the amazingness of this discussion!

  • @AustinMBecker
    @AustinMBecker4 жыл бұрын

    Key to Great Relationships (not just romantic ones) - Keep your phone away, actually listen to the other person, don't expect gifts, love them for who they are, strive to help them with their success, be open and honest, be grateful for them and show them you care.

  • @charlyandrus7598
    @charlyandrus75984 жыл бұрын

    I am 59 years old and i am going to Disneyworld for the first time ever in a few months. Thanks for sharing about it and the trash cans.

  • @slobodankaarambasic4961

    @slobodankaarambasic4961

    4 жыл бұрын

    You’re amazing, Charlie 😃😊

  • @MeditatewithAbhi
    @MeditatewithAbhi4 жыл бұрын

    I love the perspective of having fresh eyes instead of new landscapes

  • @sharidavenport3594
    @sharidavenport35942 жыл бұрын

    I'm recently widowed after 35 years in a great marriage where we loved ourselves and each other. I'm also a Relationship Coach and always learning. It is So Good to hear healthy men having this conversation. Thank you!!

  • @rochelle9243
    @rochelle92434 жыл бұрын

    38:00 Ed nailed this point! The secret to sustaining a long-term relationship is maintaining intimacy, but you need excellent chemistry from the beginning. During the life of the relationship this can ebb and flow but you can only build it if the spark is in the relationship in the first place.

  • @brandonboy09
    @brandonboy094 жыл бұрын

    1:02:10 The matrix/mutation visual is one of the most profound things I’ve ever heard... speaks to the soul.

  • @ianmaguire5451
    @ianmaguire54514 жыл бұрын

    I've just watched this and I know where I went went wrong in my last relationship and I'm going to concentrate on loving me and not allowing my insecurities to push the next female away... thanks for sharing this

  • @emdesignwave2721
    @emdesignwave27214 жыл бұрын

    I am so blown away! This went from dating, intimacy, and business to kindness, narcissism, break ups and wake up calls, to our personal matrix, heart healing and recovery thru self love. To name a few! Watch to the end - the take aways are so insightful and thought provoking! Thank you both!

  • @EdMylettShow

    @EdMylettShow

    4 жыл бұрын

    WOW ! .. you seriously just summed it all up perfectly! What was your favorite takeaway from the video?

  • @emdesignwave2721

    @emdesignwave2721

    4 жыл бұрын

    EdMylett. I would time stamp @35 min to 37.30. Matt says “Meet them where they are”. Floored! To me, those 5 words set the tone for respect, acceptance and help with avoiding the 3 Ps - (taking things) personal, projecting and potential. Then Matt talks about the dynamic of “closing down and recreating space”. And how that dance can inform and build relationship or signal red flags early on. Brilliant takeaways for the beginning stages (in business, too) so it gets my fave award!

  • @joshua852009
    @joshua8520094 жыл бұрын

    "answers are a reward for doing stuff"

  • @darlachesnet8176

    @darlachesnet8176

    4 жыл бұрын

    This was my top take away - except for all the links at the end - LOL!

  • @EdMylettShow

    @EdMylettShow

    4 жыл бұрын

    This was probably one of my favorite lines too! What's 1 thing you learned about him, you previously didn't know?

  • @darlachesnet8176

    @darlachesnet8176

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@EdMylettShow This was my first introduction to Matthew Hussey so everything was new to me. I was able to confirm that my ex-husband not "having my back" was an issue for me. I also resonated with kindness being a top quality I know I want in everyone I spend time with. And dating (again - at my age???) in this fast-paced social media laden time?! I'll definitely be following Matthew for tips. I almost didn't watch this, but you create excellent content and select superb guests to interview. Thank you, Ed Mylett! 🙏

  • @eg2783
    @eg27834 жыл бұрын

    I swear I didn’t want this conversation to end!!! I feel like I am wiser already 😂 Thank you so much gentlemen 💕💕💕

  • @EdMylettShow

    @EdMylettShow

    4 жыл бұрын

    Neither did I! You are so welcome! What's 1 thing you wished he went more in dept on?

  • @BrazilianGirl.
    @BrazilianGirl.4 жыл бұрын

    Who else took notes ?!? Amazing quotes ! Wow What a great interview ! Been following Mathew since his first "Elvis Duran"morning show appearance and he never ceased to "wow "me ! 👏 👏 👏

  • @johnf.gamboa6217
    @johnf.gamboa62174 жыл бұрын

    " What the heck has technology done to dating?". UUFFF, WHAT AN AMAZING QUESTION..

  • @JustanamebroDK
    @JustanamebroDK2 жыл бұрын

    Wow - the part about physical intimacy in relationships was spot on. Summed up a past relationship for me. When you constantly feel rejected, and you're desperately trying to warp someone into playing the part, you're just not compatible! Being in a relationship like that can make you lonelier than actually being alone ever would do.

  • @PracticalInspiration
    @PracticalInspiration4 жыл бұрын

    This was fantastic. I love the point that we hit issues when we assume we know someone based on past experiences, as the one certainty is that with time people grow and change.

  • @EdMylettShow

    @EdMylettShow

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for the massive love and support! What's one thing that he said that got you inspired?

  • @misskayteee9862

    @misskayteee9862

    4 жыл бұрын

    EdMylett it all resonated with me, I was completely hooked and it’s amazing how so much of the advice can be utilised in both business and personal relationships. I would love to see more of Matthew speaking specifically about business advice, he is super inspiring!

  • @suzz6912

    @suzz6912

    Жыл бұрын

    😅k

  • @suzz6912

    @suzz6912

    Жыл бұрын

    😅😅

  • @suzz6912

    @suzz6912

    Жыл бұрын

    Lo

  • @nozimakudrow2517
    @nozimakudrow25172 жыл бұрын

    I’d to think that I have a very good relationship with my husband. After listening to these guys I learned so much more🥰 There’s always room for improvement. Open mindedness is the key🙌🏼

  • @hollykay4947
    @hollykay49474 жыл бұрын

    This is soo good so far!! “More is lost in indecision than wrong decision .” I’m sitting in indecision currently because I’m afraid of making the wrong decision.....

  • @slobodankaarambasic4961

    @slobodankaarambasic4961

    4 жыл бұрын

    Holly k Try to make one. That will give you courage. 🙂 One small step. ❤️

  • @lenkakupkova625

    @lenkakupkova625

    4 жыл бұрын

    Done yet? Same situation here

  • @kimparke6653
    @kimparke66534 жыл бұрын

    Time well spent watching this interview. Growth and communication. Miracles happen when people go inwards and ask brave questions.

  • @EdMylettShow

    @EdMylettShow

    4 жыл бұрын

    This was probably one of my favorite interviews yet !! What's 1 thing you wished he went more in dept on?

  • @garywilson2383

    @garywilson2383

    4 жыл бұрын

    Edmylett is a genius.what do you think?

  • @nicolekellidis7584

    @nicolekellidis7584

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bingo!❤

  • @lizogilvie8337
    @lizogilvie83374 жыл бұрын

    This resonated so deeply with me. After a recent divorce, I’m reflecting on what exactly happened and how to move forward. After feeling pretty much like a failure, I’ve thought about the question of how relationships ‘survive’ or keep going. I’m someone who thrives on change and personal development and my ex just couldn’t cope with that, he would criticise me saying that I was always looking for the ‘next goal’ and I totally get that to be present in the moment is important, but this has made me realise that maybe his comments came from a place of insecurity. Thank you x

  • @Daniel-wj5tl
    @Daniel-wj5tl Жыл бұрын

    3:38 instead of bringing passion to the thing we are doing, we look for the thing we are doing to bring us passion 4:26 people become the one based on what we build with them 5:17 you can connect with thousands of people, but the one who will build with you 5:33 4stages of relationship: admiration, connection (mutual admiration), commitment, compatibility (function well together) 8:33 more is lost in indecision than wrong decision. 8:59 parked car. We get rewards for doing shit. Then you ask the passenger. Get the car moving, get answers by doing. See what works. Experiment. 12:25 the journey of discovery lies not in seeking new landscapes but seeing with fresh eyes. Some people have innate ability to see their partner with new eyes. 14:45 the times we disconnect with people is when we assume we know them today like we did yesterday. 16:33 we have this desire for our partners to stay comfortable so they don’t change beyond our grasp but now there’s no sense of enigma about you. Our fears and insecurities have a need to keep them known instead of allowing them to grow, even if it makes uncomfortable, it lets our desires grow. 22:10 we value the things we invest in and give time to. 23:16 narrative building of putting in effort and courage 23:53 it’s so vital in a world of noise you’re more able to quickly build a connection 25:18 no one cares you’re great once they get to know you 25:49 being real, authentic, someone who can laugh at themselves, telling stories to at show you as a person, what your values are, being curious about someone and you are uniquely interested in them 27:32 rare and valuable. How you tell the story but you also have to do the things. Do you have the kind of life that feeds your passion and fulfills you 27:45 do you have a community so you don’t become over reliant on this one person who becomes your community. I’ve got my community over here, I don’t need you but I’m having fun hanging out with you. If they’re the sole person, that’s what scares people. 29:40 good reason to jump into bed, I have fun, I feel respected and this would be an enjoyable experience 30:01 I avoid any kind of role when someone should do something. First know yourself, self awareness is key in intimacy, there’s nothing sexy about someone who jumps straight to frustration anger and shame after intimacy 31:10 own what you do. 31:17 not only should you not violate your own moral and ethics beliefs, in order to accomodate for someone else, one of the most unattractive things you can do, it’s not acting in congruence with who you are. 33:40 I don’t need this with someone I barely know but it’s more fun if we know each other (sex) 35:05 persistent and not going over the board? Meet them where they are. 36:03 how attraction works better: he comes over, or finds a way for two of them to be close, and says whatever he wants to say, he then turns away and carries on his business here. Now he’s on her radar and she can turn to him and say something. In recreating space, he’s giving her an opportunity to close down space. Closing down space is good because that’s what it says I like you. We now have a dynamic where both of us are doing the walking. If we are the one that’s constantly closing the space, that’s where we have to pull back.

  • @HugDealer
    @HugDealer4 жыл бұрын

    This interview is rare and valuable!! :) Thank you so much to both of you for this. So insightful. Words to live by!

  • @ondemandaquaworkouts
    @ondemandaquaworkouts3 жыл бұрын

    One of the best conversations I have heard in a while…. Actually a loooong time. Thank you!

  • @JelisaSmith
    @JelisaSmith4 жыл бұрын

    This conversation was truly amazing! I’ve just been introduced to Matthew and diving into his content is just what I need in this moment. Thank you both💛

  • @patrickorourke41
    @patrickorourke414 жыл бұрын

    Never seen Matthew speak before, and I am blown away at how much knowledge this guy could drop in less than 90 minutes. He completely changed my take on break ups and toxic people!

  • @INdikeness
    @INdikeness4 жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad I found your channel and I will keep learning through these conversations you are having with these amazing human beings who have committed to learn everything they can about their passion. I appreciate everything you do Ed, keep bringing these answers we have everyday questions for to light. I just started following you today and will continue thank you!

  • @cielkpia
    @cielkpia3 жыл бұрын

    I've watched this several times and each time I learn something new or I hone in on a different point. Mahalo for sharing! It's all so insightful.

  • @marshagonzales593
    @marshagonzales5934 жыл бұрын

    Ed: Thank you so much for having Matthew on he is brilliant! He just introduced me to you in a way lol. I've subscribed and am looking forward to what I can learn from you also! 😊 You both were awesome in this interview, loved it! Great questions!

  • @Bizsavvyartist
    @Bizsavvyartist4 жыл бұрын

    This was amazing and much needed as I go through the process of healing after a break-up.

  • @abbiewilson5045
    @abbiewilson50454 жыл бұрын

    OMG. This has been the best conversation I have ever hear. Thank you so much. I saved so I can watch again and again.

  • @MilkPudding
    @MilkPudding4 жыл бұрын

    This discussion has so much wisdom for life in general that I have to pause and watch it a few times.

  • @mariasoeters
    @mariasoeters4 жыл бұрын

    Jesus guys. Amazing interview. Honestly one of the best I've ever seen. I'm blown away

  • @kate19931029
    @kate199310294 жыл бұрын

    Can’t tell how much I love this talk. Matt you are amazing of giving out your knowledge about relationships and life. I’m so thankful I found you!

  • @iamfilipinas
    @iamfilipinas4 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been a fan of Matthew Hussey pre WFG! This is awesome! things discussed actually apply to the business 👍🏽

  • @thefashioninstituteofsouth3379
    @thefashioninstituteofsouth33794 жыл бұрын

    What an amazing interview. Ed, thank you so much for bringing Matthew in and ask the right questions. I saved, shared and downloaded this episode. Most people needs to listen to the amazing content you put here for free. Matthew thank you for your time and so many lessons. God bless you both!!

  • @parispurnhagen3604
    @parispurnhagen36043 жыл бұрын

    Matt’s mindset on toxicity is spot on. I agree on the kindness trait in a partner that is my top priority for me too. My kindness always seems to be taken advantage of in a relationship but I feel I also need to take responsibility of doing too much in the beginning because of who I am.

  • @AshleySalvatori
    @AshleySalvatori4 жыл бұрын

    Ed, I know I tell you this all the time but I truly appreciate you and all that you do! Thank you for bringing such an incredible person onto the show! I gained a lot from this episode. 🙌🏻

  • @Victoria-pz3ci

    @Victoria-pz3ci

    2 жыл бұрын

    Klkkkkkkkokokpkkko..d’l no mmmppmmo op pp

  • @karenjones178

    @karenjones178

    2 жыл бұрын

    Totally relate

  • @pracheed3919
    @pracheed39193 жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad I stumbled upon this nugget! I've always applied Matthew's advice to Life in General, not just relationships and I'm constantly amazed by how beautifully it fits into literally any area of life I try it on. This particular thrust and parry was stimulating to watch, especially during these isolated times. I had to pause, digest, take notes, and try to incorporate these concepts into my life in some very specific ways and it has been very productive. Thank you, Ed and Matthew, for the authentic work you both do!

  • @jamiezintgraff3413
    @jamiezintgraff34132 жыл бұрын

    Ahh...the hang over vs athlete break up recovery! So so good! Incredible interview! Thank you both for what you have shared.

  • @sylakras
    @sylakras4 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful interview! Thank you Ed for having Matthew to this conversation, which is bringing so much clearness about relationships to us. 🙏🏻❤

  • @LisaGemini
    @LisaGemini2 жыл бұрын

    Awesome interview! I got more in just 30 minutes than I usually do in other videos. This new brave world of dating is kinda scary at times. But Matthew makes it so much easier to understand. Thank you for all the affirmation I get from your work, Matthew! You’re a gem and your mum must be so proud of you!

  • @courtneyjones-laweka1716
    @courtneyjones-laweka17164 жыл бұрын

    Some good stuff. My favorite one of Matthew's stuff so far👍🏾He's validated a lot of my personal philosophies regarding making a person "YOUR ONE"; becoming "the one" as the relationship grows. It takes work and commitment.

  • @kirjamarietouborgjensen4597
    @kirjamarietouborgjensen45974 жыл бұрын

    This is, hands down, one of the best you tube interviews I have ever seen. So enlightening, and applicable. Expandet my mind and how I look at business and relationships. Thankyou!

  • @gabrielle4305
    @gabrielle43054 жыл бұрын

    Ed, I just LOVE when powerful men (and women) empower each other. Can’t say how much it warms my heart to see you complimenting Matthew through the interview.

  • @InspiritB
    @InspiritB2 жыл бұрын

    I had to stop and take notes! Authentic, real and priceless truth. Thank you! Much love! I appreciate both of you!

  • @yavidanvioleta
    @yavidanvioleta4 жыл бұрын

    I love this interview, thank you Ed and Mathew for providing all this value on a subject that is so important to many of us. Send you blessings!

  • @marissasantucci
    @marissasantucci4 жыл бұрын

    one of the greatest interviews, ive watched/listened multiple times. its just as good as the first time, every time.

  • @josephinefaulk1280
    @josephinefaulk12803 жыл бұрын

    One of the best interviews I’ve ever seen on relationship dynamics. You two are golden together, between Ed asking core life-changing questions and Matthew dishing out the relationship wisdom like some aged shaman, I was incredibly inspired and believe I might just be able to actually have a mutually loving, respectful, passionate and fun long-term relationship. 💕

  • @ramonafingersh4039
    @ramonafingersh40394 жыл бұрын

    This was absolutely amazing. I figured out what I am missing in my relationship. I appreciate the ti.e you both took in making this video. Ed you had great questions and Matthew your awesome as usual.

  • @tamekaallen7023
    @tamekaallen70234 жыл бұрын

    37 seconds in and I’m already in awe! Major jewels dropped!

  • @meganlodge4660
    @meganlodge46604 жыл бұрын

    Has to be one of the best (if not *the* best) video I have ever seen. I’ve been watching Matt religiously for a while now, and every piece of content is incredible, but the amount of wisdom in this interview was just outstanding. Ed, you’re so right in saying his humility makes him just the most awe-inspiring and amazing person, because the way he can use simple illustrations and analogies without needing to use big words or make himself look good is just perfection. Absolutely blew my mind watching this and I have a feeling it will be one of those videos where you learn more each time you re-watch it. Thank you so much for the time and effort you put into making this, you have no idea how grateful I am, and I’m sure everyone else watching is too. So much love ♥️♥️

  • @vivianneschmidt6276
    @vivianneschmidt62764 жыл бұрын

    This video was incredibly insightful into the dynamics of human relationships as a whole. Thank you for sharing your content!

  • @nohemid.611
    @nohemid.6114 жыл бұрын

    This is by far one of the most interesting videos I've ever seen , Matthew has an unbelievable way of explaining things I would normally find complicated in a simple way, that is a true ability of a great communicator! Amazing interview the notes I took are amazing! Thank you both so much for sharing all this knowledge

  • @conscienciacolectiva1415
    @conscienciacolectiva14152 жыл бұрын

    This is the most great conversation, interview and knowledge I hear never before of two guys! That give a hope, truly hope there exist a kind person, and could be the right one who is ready too. I am really grateful and happy to hear that from you.

  • @8213melody
    @8213melody Жыл бұрын

    I needed to hear this! What Matthew said at the end about how to handle a breakup. So good! Thank you

  • @georgianaavram139
    @georgianaavram1394 жыл бұрын

    This is an amazing interview! I love the talk about kindness and how it's not valued enough in a relationship.

  • @EdMylettShow

    @EdMylettShow

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for the massive love and support! What other topics you think I should go over next time?

  • @najatrihane2569

    @najatrihane2569

    4 жыл бұрын

    EdMylett hi Ed I think it’s gonna be great to dug deeper in the subject of relationship. I would love to see a trio of you. Mathiew and esthel perel. It would be a dream if it happens.🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 amazing show, good luck. 🍀

  • @AiriniMustapa
    @AiriniMustapa4 жыл бұрын

    this is SOOOO good!! thank you thank you for this discussion and the scenarios which show an array of complexities in a relationship, likewise a married one.

  • @hayleyforsyth8505
    @hayleyforsyth85053 жыл бұрын

    Matthew found his calling we are blessed to have his messages. Let’s continue to absorb the wise words passed down through generations too. Keep shining why you are on this 🌍 thank you chap x

  • @JoiceNababanOfficial
    @JoiceNababanOfficial2 жыл бұрын

    I just can't believe this. I watch this twice in a row. I mean straight after it finished at the same day. Amazing insights!

  • @juliemurray8476
    @juliemurray84764 жыл бұрын

    This is freaking GOLDEN!!! So many applications throughout every area of life! THANK YOU!!

  • @celestekriel7126
    @celestekriel71264 жыл бұрын

    Love love love this!! Especially where Matthew talked about the partner and the family! I can relate, so true! Love You Guys!!! Thank You for being in this world!!!💙💙💙

  • @LaSorciereFeuillue
    @LaSorciereFeuillue2 жыл бұрын

    So helpful especially the winning:kindness aspect... a feature of my relationship with parents that I need to heal.

  • @charlyandrus7598
    @charlyandrus75984 жыл бұрын

    Both of my favorite guys....so different in every way but very efffective because of the openness and experience. Yep kindness is so important. Thank you both. Hugs Matthew.

  • @tuesdayskittens
    @tuesdayskittens4 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant right to the end!!! Thank you both, amazing!!

  • @suikatime
    @suikatime2 жыл бұрын

    I am 50 min into this interview and it suddenly hits me. This is the first time in my entire life that I have seen two men talking about relationships. I'm letting it sink in and it's hydrating my soul.

  • @janesturgeon4404
    @janesturgeon44044 жыл бұрын

    Two bright souls creating something truly magical. So much information and wisdom packed into this video, I'll watch it again and again. Thank you, Ed and Matthew. What a gift it is to watch this.

  • @sue4958
    @sue49583 жыл бұрын

    I just came across this. Mathew I follow you and love what you are doing and how you do so in such a respectful way. Ed, I did not know who you were, but listening to your engagement with Mathew, your warmth, humility, strength and openness was a breath of fresh air. Loved the interview, thank you both

  • @leyanigarabito4381
    @leyanigarabito43812 жыл бұрын

    Wow just listened to this. Just recently started following both Ed and Matthew and I must say you guys are geniuses when it comes to life coaching and relationship coaching. Matthew mentioned so many critical points in a relationship that we often oversee or just break it off because we don’t know how to deal with certain situations. I was mesmerized the whole time listening to you both, such an amazing interview. I didn’t want it to end. Thank you Ed for brining Matthew to your channel. Both are AMAZING. God bless you.

  • @titithetoad
    @titithetoad2 жыл бұрын

    Kindness ... absutely spot on. After 30 years of a relationship that i did not recognise was deeply toxic, i was able to finally see there was no kindness. I brought thar into raising my children .. ots the same for any relationship ... if its not kind to you its not for you, its toxic for you. X

  • @TheOlgaKay
    @TheOlgaKay Жыл бұрын

    I absolutely loved the break up/matrix example and how passionate Matt got talking about it. I totally share his passion. Ed - you are so involved with your guests, love it!

  • @nikkibesemer6490
    @nikkibesemer64904 жыл бұрын

    This is so amazing! Wow I'm listening to this over and over! Love it

  • @elenadarling4697
    @elenadarling46973 жыл бұрын

    Ed just listened and held his space and Mathew completely channeled everything that’s amazing and transformative. Can’t tell you how much this helped me post break up.

  • @lorahudgins5213
    @lorahudgins52132 жыл бұрын

    Matthew is amazing. I really needed to hear this message. His description of a person "losing their identify and death of a soul" really hit the mark for me today.

  • @maryannefarrugia4589
    @maryannefarrugia45894 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely beautiful message. So honoured and feel truly blessed to hear this conversation. Thank you for being so real! So very refreshing! 🙏

  • @jessicasanchez4633
    @jessicasanchez46334 жыл бұрын

    I did now and entire interview was verrrry informational something so basic we all miss within ourselves as well as others when in a relationship sometimes such as self growth and everyone consistently changes. The trash can analogy to our significant others. Thank you for letting me know their was a full video!!!

  • @tesslouise-givetesslove9948
    @tesslouise-givetesslove99484 жыл бұрын

    Love MH, been following him for 5 years and have grown so much with his advice. Great interview. Just a thought. In the description could you put the times next to each question on the list? I plan on coming back to rewatch a few parts and that would help me and others find the advice we are seeking. Thx

  • @dft120
    @dft1204 жыл бұрын

    I found the best one for me many years ago. I look forward to watching this one to see how to improve our already awesome relationship. I'm guessing this can also help improve a relationship with God. Thank you for all your great content though I rarely comment. (This is my first)

  • @victoriaholden7774
    @victoriaholden77744 жыл бұрын

    Love this and really absolute truth and so much to take away from this interview. Thank you so much guys!

  • @jenidillon
    @jenidillon2 жыл бұрын

    Well I’ll definitely be listening to that more than once! Holy crap. Where has this video been my whole life?! 🙏🏼

  • @mcsandrad
    @mcsandrad2 жыл бұрын

    💙 Matthew, you are a beautiful person, both on the outside and inside. I loved to hear that kindness is THE thing for you. Also, I was deeply moved by the description of how you and your family are affectionate - I related to it and to the kind of relationship my kids and I have. I also love your positive energy. Thank you.

  • @pippapowling2306
    @pippapowling2306 Жыл бұрын

    This is phenomenal and so well-worth watching, which I will do several times and absorb even more. Thank you both.🙏🏻

  • @sylakras
    @sylakras4 жыл бұрын

    I just listened to first 30 min and omg I love it! I'm telling friends, especially women of course, to handle it exactly like that. 👍🏻❤

  • @RodasiCampbell
    @RodasiCampbell3 жыл бұрын

    Ok I’m at the end and in tears at the integrity, love, grounded, simple, honesty, and invitation I am feeling pulled deeper into myself and pulled forward by. Bless you men. 🙏🏾⚡️🖤

  • @Gigi-mf5td
    @Gigi-mf5td2 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been married 20yrs this coming March & we’re in a good place but this did so much for me ☝🏾 gave me so much ideas n goals for our deepening our relationship

  • @monicamickschl1893
    @monicamickschl18934 жыл бұрын

    That was an amazing interview. I’m going to go check his link. I’ve known for a while that I needed to cut ties with my ex who wants to stay friends and this has given me the confidence!!!! 🙏💙

  • @garywilson2383

    @garywilson2383

    4 жыл бұрын

    Edmylett is a genius. What do you think?

  • @Baybayolay
    @Baybayolay4 жыл бұрын

    How does this only have 3k likes? Thank you, Ed. One of the best.

  • @IndigoWisdom1
    @IndigoWisdom14 жыл бұрын

    Loved this. It made me think, feel, process and imagine anew. Thank you!

  • @CoriMiller
    @CoriMiller4 жыл бұрын

    One of the best interviews I've listened to. I've been following Mathew for quite awhile and love his style but equally Loved the questions you asked. Such a great combo you two are. Thank you for all your content, always learning something!

  • @sirennem.6890

    @sirennem.6890

    2 жыл бұрын

    many of us are attached to our partners, not in love. The book Attached explains that

  • @TheRealAgaBrady
    @TheRealAgaBrady4 жыл бұрын

    Oh my God! I used to listen to Matthew Hussey every day for few minutes after my couple of years long break from relationships. He is incredibly good and played a huuuge part in me getting with my boyfriend. At this point 2,5 years together. Thanks Matthew! :-)

  • @EdMylettShow

    @EdMylettShow

    4 жыл бұрын

    You are VERY welcome. So happy I was able to share this interview with you. What other topics you think I should have asked him?

  • @danetteshepard897

    @danetteshepard897

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@EdMylettShow I want to know about how to navigate long distance.

  • @JustLIkerapunzel

    @JustLIkerapunzel

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@danetteshepard897 Just don't 🤣 Tried it 3 times. Wouldn't recommend lololol But since that won't stop you - same as with any relationship. Priorotizing your partner. Investing and giving space for them to close the gap again. If it isn't like this and one stops closing the distance - walk away!

  • @danetteshepard897

    @danetteshepard897

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@JustLIkerapunzel I didn't ask you a question. Blessed be.

  • @jorgecarlos4120
    @jorgecarlos41203 жыл бұрын

    Ed, I watch interviews and listen to podcasts all over the place. But even when watching the same guests in different podcasts, I keep coming back to interviews on your channel. Something about your excitement, your humbleness and eagerness to learn brings out the best of the people you interview. Keep it up my man!

  • @sharonwong3788
    @sharonwong37884 жыл бұрын

    What an amazing interview. It all resonated with me! I will definitely listen to this one over and over again!! Thanks so much you both, Ed and Matthew!! ❤️❤️