So... his life is ruined, and she gets to move to another state for a fresh start where no one knows what she did. smh

@FrederikEngelmand

3 ай бұрын

well women dealing with their actions IS unheard of

@miceltusav88

2 ай бұрын

Par for the course

@jachyra4

Ай бұрын

Welcome to the Me Too movement.

@thesanctionedartist2524

Ай бұрын

No accountability

@OWnIshiiTrolling

Ай бұрын

It's a fake story. You can't just move to Japan on a whim, without a job there. OP didn't even try.

Father: My son is the kindest, sweetest person I know. Also father: I didn’t hesitate to ignore my son’s side of things and turned him in immediately, believing my stepdaughter without question.

@ktmmatt7243

3 ай бұрын

Guess he was trying to gain sympathy points, and failed.

@karinefonte516

3 ай бұрын

Wanna remember the worst part? He spent months in prison as a child (stepsister was 16) abuser. This type of accusation can get you "special treatment" from the inmates, though I'm not sure it happened to him. AND, despite the charges dropped, the record of s*x/child abuse will remain to every employer read and judge him for it. Going to Japan was a wise move, actually.

@N..P..

3 ай бұрын

I mean... turning it into police is the right thing to do rather you believe them or not. That being said, there needs to be repercussions for false accusations.

@mohamedemad2051

3 ай бұрын

@@N..P.. No it is not. if you can't for fact verify these serious allegations, because you can ruin innocent people's lives by giving them permenant records like this one, especially when these false allegations are turning more and more over the years to be way as loophole for psychos and sociopaths to destroy innocent peoples lives and get no consquences for their horrid behaviour just like the step daughter here

@pippiecarr9378

2 ай бұрын

Believe every woman.

The worst part is that the stepsister didn’t have to suffer any real consequences or repercussions for her lies. Whereas OP had is entire life ripped away from him.

@JColtF

4 ай бұрын

This False accusations like this should carry a mandatory 25 year minimum sentence with no parole or early release

@Jafar545

4 ай бұрын

​@@JColtF Terrible idea, especially in cases like this one where they are only proven false due to the accuser feeling remorseful, and coming clean.

@lindah3803

4 ай бұрын

​@@Jafar545Why is it a bad idea. Why shouldn't a person who makes a false claim of assault(regardless if it is SA or not) be punished. Various crimes have mandatory sentences. Why not false assault claims.

@classicrockkid345

4 ай бұрын

@@lindah3803 the punishment isn't the problem it's the severity. 25 years with no parole or early release is the exact same as someone who commits first degree murder. Yes, a false accusation is horrible, but treating them the same as a murderer is going way too far.

@Jafar545

4 ай бұрын

@@lindah3803 They should be. The severity is the problem here. In cases such as this one, where it is word against word, it may very well lead to an unjust conviction with the only way of preventing it being the accuser changing their mind. Something they are rather unlikely to do if it means for them to spend the rest of their life behind bars...

I'm still demanding that false SA allegations get punished severely. I personally want false allegations to get the same punishment as SA just so that people fricking stop doing it

@jackolantern147

3 ай бұрын

Defamation and false charges are serious.

@HansFlamme

3 ай бұрын

@@jackolantern147not really when it‘s about false SA by women

@catinabox3048

3 ай бұрын

I get what you’re saying, but the result of what you’re suggesting would be that they would never come clean due to the fear of said repercussions and the victims would never have another chance at life.

@lesleygreen273

2 ай бұрын

Agreed, anyone that makes this type of allegation falsely should get same prison sentence that the one they accused would have been sentenced to if found guilty. Step sister got pretty much no consequences. People need to know this will happen if they accuse falsely.

@01wonderful

2 ай бұрын

100%, if someone gets SA they should go to the hospital immediately. We live in a day and age where we have enough information to no longer say 'we didn't know'. Anyone saying that is just plain stupid or has something to hide.

Oh this one? Still pisses me off to this day.

@dizzybee8966

4 ай бұрын

To this freaking day....dad's the biggest douche!!!...breaks my heart

@VoiceOfTheEmperor

3 ай бұрын

His dad deserves every punishment in Hell he can get.

@AlekzanderTamayo-ln8bf

2 ай бұрын

​@@VoiceOfTheEmperorAgreed

@hemendraravi4787

Ай бұрын

@@VoiceOfTheEmperor yea but kinda sad tho , i think he was just too scared to fight for his son at that moment that he just decided to side with the step daughter , or the step daughter put up a very good act. none the less all of this was unfortunate and it looks like his dad unalived himself.

so in case anyone missed it. The dad off'd himself. The stepmom let op know. Glad op is happily married.

@HeoBaby24

5 ай бұрын

​@@Redesign24op said it himself

@stardustkevin7322

4 ай бұрын

​@HeoBaby24 huh the stuff after the dad balls his eyes out is new. I read this story a few years ago and in the comments of this one reddit page or yt video that told this story it was said the son well you know, not the dad. Well I'm glad the Son got a fresh start with people who do care/believe in him truly

@orenoishadoukuurass

4 ай бұрын

Where can I read mom updated op?

@HeoBaby24

4 ай бұрын

@@stardustkevin7322 yah true but what pisses me off is that the dad did it. like i would understand if it was his son but what reason do you have for offing yourself?

@VoiceOfTheEmperor

4 ай бұрын

​@@HeoBaby24 Being unable to live with yourself is quite a powerful feeling.

I really hate the language from the father. "I, I, I, ME, ME, ME" man didn't give his son one single thought. just shipped him off to prison. all because for what his stepdaughter said. no evidence, no kit, nothing. this dad is stupid and delusional

@RandomTrinidadian

4 ай бұрын

*was. He was delusional. Offed himself when he finally realized saying "Sorry" over and over again would not work.

@animegamer501stthelastyeet8

Ай бұрын

​@@RandomTrinidadian good

@notproductiveproductions3504

Ай бұрын

It gets worse. A past version of this story left in the part where the dad was forcing and gaslighting a “confession” from the son

@Sirhcdraw100

Ай бұрын

He said he was super duper sorry though. That HAS to mean something... 🙃🤡

@oxtailsoup6493

29 күн бұрын

@@RandomTrinidadiantoo bad we couldn’t get a twofer and add the step sister into the mix. Hell I’d even settle for a hat-trick and add the step-mom into the mix.

He WAS outgoing, funny, intelligent snd the kindest person you knew.

Step-Daughter starts a brand new life in another state. She will likely make up a story how she was mistreated and be viewed as a victim at her new destination.

@noahsawyer7155

2 ай бұрын

And some random idiots will believe her sob story

@sguizzooo

Ай бұрын

​@@doctorquacks87 do you think anyone who sends innocent people to prison for petty reasons to cover their ass is capable of remorse?

@orctrihar

7 күн бұрын

We live in a patriarchy am I right ?

I wounder what the mother thinks her own child cost her a family a dead husband and a stepson that hates her.

@darthbiscuit

2 ай бұрын

Now she's got a bunch of money, a house, and her child's father is taking care of her. She's living on easy street

@EBaker-bz8gx

2 ай бұрын

@@darthbiscuit That's what you think. Insurance doesn't pay out for suicide. She has to deal with property taxes etc., so if she didn't work, oh well, she can start slinging hash now. Why think her daughter's father will take care of her knowing what his daughter did? Yikes.

@qx4n9e1xp

Ай бұрын

It's almost like women shouldn't be able to boat, hold power, or have any sort of legal weight behind their words (and tears) They're very good liars, & sympathy baiters.

@yopoxikeweapescai9066

Ай бұрын

prolly doesnt care and even pushed the dad into beliving her daughter

@AiginSongbird426

Ай бұрын

@@EBaker-bz8gx Insurance will pay out for suicide as long as it’s not within the first year or two of getting the policy, although it will take longer to pay out.

The sad thing is that Dad wanted to fix everything but is doing everything wrong.. His su****de is on step sis. I hope she knows that and lives with it forever.

@HeoBaby24

5 ай бұрын

​@@Autisticwandererthe son said he ended things. Kinda implied he killed himself

@WendelChavesNightingale

4 ай бұрын

Confirmed@@HeoBaby24

@WoopsieWooper

3 ай бұрын

​@@HeoBaby24they also say they heard from their dad. You can't really hear front he person who ended it in that sense. I interpreted it as his dad ended things with his step mom and step daughter/sister.

@HeoBaby24

3 ай бұрын

@@WoopsieWooper yeah it was before he committed suicide

@WoopsieWooper

3 ай бұрын

​@@HeoBaby24what's the time stamp of the dad committing suicide? I relistened to the entire end but from when he says the last time he heard from his dad he finished things (the part I referenced) until the end but he never mentioned his dad offing himself. That part I referenced is the only part that could be construed that way but then it would be weird to hear his dad offed himself... From his dad. I less this video just worded it strangely.

Describes how good of a person his son is. Believes a blatently malicious false accusation. Brilliant father.

@saureco

Ай бұрын

Failure. Likely liberal.

@Mik_Aerospace

Ай бұрын

@@saurecono need to bring politics into this

@orctrihar

7 күн бұрын

The concequence of feminism

@orctrihar

7 күн бұрын

​@@Mik_Aerospace Unfortunatly it’s literally what maked it that way

@Mik_Aerospace

7 күн бұрын

@@orctrihar I'd blame it more on human nature than simple left and right politics.

He should sue her

@VoiceOfTheEmperor

4 ай бұрын

Agreed.

@TiffWaffles

3 ай бұрын

He'd have to sue his stepmother or the father of his stepsister since she's sixteen and therefore can't be sued.

@RacingByNight

2 ай бұрын

@@TiffWafflesThe son mentions it has been several years since the damage was done, so it’s right up his alley to sue his now-adult step sister but I doubt it’s going to happen because, by now, he’s a naturalized Japanese citizen. Edit: and probably has moved on with his new life there

1:38 Me when I heard the father say "he is the pride and joy of my life" then why the fuck you sent him to jail

@SupremeKingZA-RC

3 ай бұрын

"He was the pride and joy of my life" This guy is braindead

@sguizzooo

Ай бұрын

Cause stepdaughter and new wife were more shiny new and more important to him at the time

Heard this one before. Again innocent until proven guilty is very important for this exact reason. His life has been ruined over this. So unfortunate.

It crazy that the toxic waste of a human being step sister got away scot free after jailing and ruining her stepbrothers life and tearing a family apart

@braddorcas9363

Ай бұрын

"Believe all women" - The Me Too Movement.

@user-ei5op8nt3j

15 күн бұрын

@@braddorcas9363huh

Btw; OG post is 7 years old and the sons post was posted a couple of months ago

@adyashanayak7958

6 ай бұрын

Oh...that's why I thought that the timelines don't match. So I thought maybe the son's post is probably reply to some other story.

@SecretVoices25

6 ай бұрын

I don't think so son's response matches with dad's. The reason it feels disconnected is that dad deleted his account so dad's post is brief one not a full post

@darrylblanch8463

4 ай бұрын

The original story wasn't long but ended after the "T" comment. There was more details than here but not by much.

@smallpseudonym2844

4 ай бұрын

@@SecretVoices25 -- Son's response is also an obvious fake. I've posted why in my own response on this page.

@thirstyserpent1079

3 ай бұрын

@@smallpseudonym2844 If I recall the original account from the dad posted a small update that revealed that the son made a noose and used it. Then as a result he deleted his account due to the fathers utter stupidity >_>

I don't blame the son for feeling betrayed. He was betrayed repeatedly, and was left with nothing. The father can't fix this. He has to live with the consequences of his actions.

@ravenblackheart555

2 ай бұрын

Kinda hard for the dad to do so when he committed suicide

@EBaker-bz8gx

2 ай бұрын

@@ravenblackheart555 That's the consequence the dad chose.

@sguizzooo

Ай бұрын

​@@EBaker-bz8gxthat's not facing the consequences, that's quitting, he was a piece of shit and a coward til the end

@dzzenok4136

9 күн бұрын

@@ravenblackheart555 he did?

@kiryuandgodzillagirl

8 күн бұрын

I feel bad for him he didn’t deserve it and he did find a great woman and in laws. Ruka sounds like a great woman

The father said hes sorry but what if the stepsister never confessed? OP would be doomed to a far worse fate. How could he ever trust the father who never showed trust in him when his whole life was on the line.

@hemendraravi4787

Ай бұрын

the father probably thought about this too which may probably be why he unalived himself.

Why didn’t the father sued the stepdaughter for false allegations and defamation for ruining his son’s life. He was very quick in reporting him to the authorities.

@STAYATINYARMYSIN

Ай бұрын

She was 16 he’d essentially would be suing his wife and or her ex

@SnowyWolborg

Ай бұрын

Sue her for what? She was a teenager.

@orctrihar

7 күн бұрын

Because feminism

The son doesn't HAVE to forgive his father, he's not his prop.

This is the worst absolutely awful saddest thing I’ve ever heard. They will never have any clue the actual damage this did to this young man’s life. The sister literally got away with murder. She killed someone’s life.

@elithluxe7568

2 ай бұрын

She practically killed two people cause the dad committed suicide after

@OWnIshiiTrolling

Ай бұрын

Don't worry, it's fake. You can't just randomly move to Japan on a whim. They have immigration laws.

@sguizzooo

Ай бұрын

​@@OWnIshiiTrollingif he married into her family it could be believable, also this is allegedly from a few years ago before covid and some new laws

Cases like this are great examples why would who deliberately make false accusations of rape should face the same legal consequences their victim would have faced

I remember hearing this story. Reddit tore OP father apart. Glad to hear the sin is doing alright and actuslly laughed when i head the sperm donor ended it. I had zero sympathy for him back then and i still have zero sympathy for him now that he unalived himself.

@nehcrum

3 ай бұрын

Unfortunately, the "update" is likely a creative writing exercise, posted many years after the original post and in no way affiliated with it (the original account was deleted) and only after the post started to get read on TikTok and KZread.

@OWnIshiiTrolling

Ай бұрын

​@@nehcrumIt is absolutely fake. He says that he just randomly moved to Japan on a whim, completely ignoring that that is not how immigration works.

The son is just one of many victims of false rape allegations. He is lucky that he had someone there for him.

He needs to sue that stepsister

The logic of the stepdaughter is mind boggling. I don’t want to get caught having sex with my boyfriend so I’ll accuse my stepbrother of SA. What!? She had to have secretly hated him.

Damn it must hurt, something similar happened to me (not to that extent though) when my brother lied to my mom about something I didn’t do and my mom didn’t even give me a chance to defend myself. Like if not you, then who is it that I’m supposed to rely on for to have my back at times like these? I was around 16 at that time but I’ve never been able to see my mom and brother in the same light again. Im 24 now and they’re always wondering why I never contact them much and they say they love me but everytime I can’t help but remember that moment of betrayal

step-daugter should have gone to prison for this

He was a happy out going person. Jail can change a person for the worse. It can take years to get over. And dad hasn't helped

Is there no law against false sexual assault charges

@mrgodspeed

2 ай бұрын

nope, but there should be

@miceltusav88

Ай бұрын

Technically yes. But it's called "filing a false report" a misdemeanor in the states

@marrero8100

Ай бұрын

​@@miceltusav88who gives a damn about technicalities?

@SnowyWolborg

Ай бұрын

Unfortunately, the law is very slow when it comes to adapting to modern times.

@orctrihar

7 күн бұрын

Not for man, the joy of feminism cause we obviously live in a patriarchy

Personally, I think the stepdaughter should have been arrested for false SA allegations.

Stepsister should honestly be in jail.

Man what a shitty father, glad that OP didn’t break down under pressure and actually made a life for himself instead of being a doormat forever to this family, i REALLY hope someone manages to get the father’s wife’s point of view, would love to see what she did to her daughter after her husband ended himself, also who did the father’s estate go to.

@uberbyte7467

Ай бұрын

This story is fake and bullshit, moved to Japan? What a load of crap, they don't allow you to suddenly move on a whim like that

@hemendraravi4787

Ай бұрын

@@uberbyte7467 yea even i think its a fake story , in the original post dad clearly said that his son was all alone in his room , he had no friends as they all left him , if he had atleast 1 close friend i think the dad would have definitely mentioned about this friend or atleast about him hanging out with this friend. + its just wayyy to good to be true why would this random japanese family take this guy to japan ? he says only rukia knows the truth but none of the others do ?.

I understand people wanna believe the victim.. But the fact they NEVER give the other party a chance to speak is what kills all attempts to "fix" things in the future... That's why you go to the professionals IMMEDIATELY. As the average person and family, I see, lacks proper objective thinking and reasoning to give benefit of the doubt and remove their emotions and familial ties from the situation to make a concrete decision and read between the blatant lies. So many lives destroyed from false allegations of SA or cheating that could've been staunched the moment it came out if more than one party involved was sane and reasonable

"Can't give you back the year you lost." The son lost a LOT more than one fucking year.

When the son said his father ended it, does it mean he killed himself?? This is sad.

@SecretVoices25

5 ай бұрын

Yeah, he ended himself 😞

@jitgamer-ki1fl

5 ай бұрын

pretty cowardly move of him though, he expects to be forgiven so fast after he messed up his sons life.

@jojogobbo8795

4 ай бұрын

Not sad, just pathetic

@lindah3803

4 ай бұрын

The only sad thing about this story is what the son went through.

@fatah496

3 ай бұрын

​@@SecretVoices25so not only he is a failure as father but he is a coward as well

I've seen this one with several contradictory updates and replies. Supposedly the son offed himself, dad offed himself, stepdaughter got charged, OP got divorced etc.

@smallpseudonym2844

4 ай бұрын

This one is definitely fake. Posted another response on this page as to why. Short version: the grammar and vocab are horrendous for a supposed Ivy League attendee, and there is at least one massively glaring inconsistency in the narrative.

@hemendraravi4787

Ай бұрын

​Could it be that his English degraded over time after living in Japan for 5 years? I doubt it, though. If he still used the internet, he would likely still be in touch with it. I'm not sure if this is possible for a native speaker.

@SinNombreYQueWea

Ай бұрын

@@hemendraravi4787 At most you'd get a certain accent, addopt speech mannerisms. 5 years is not enough to make you forget anything about your native language at all, and certainly not when you're typing words instead of speaking them.

I thought the son was the one that unalived himself not the father..could’ve sworn I saw an update a long time ago before the sons POV

So you reported the kindest person you know (your son) to the police without evidence or second thought? 🤔

Forget banning the stepdaughter from your home!! She needs to be sued for defamation for how much she instigated.

I don't like this, i know their a lot of hypocrites here, eho would do the same to their own kids, I've seen to many similar stories, their are liars in these comments, but i wish that you all are speaking truthfully, never betray your child

@brutustantheiii8477

18 күн бұрын

Not only would I not abandon my child, but if I effed up my son’s life THIS badly, I’d force myself to stay alive purposely so that every day that pain of being without him would be deservedly felt by means as a means of penance The father literally took the COWARDS way out. End of story

After all these years it is wonderful to get an update to this story!

What a failure of a father.

The part that confuses me is how the post of the parent's perspective is the outright admit that the person who got accused was one of the kindest people they knew or whatever. But I'm like if that's the case then why are you so quick to believe those allegations despite knowing full well that this would be completely out of character for them?!

@theawickward2255

2 ай бұрын

This was in hindsight after he realized what had happened.

@johnhill4937

2 ай бұрын

@@theawickward2255 oh i understand thank you

I want to know how the step mom is now? Did she get over it? Already married to another? Already forgiven her daughter after ruining lives? Is she still guilty? Is she miserable? Does she hate her daughter still? Or has she forgiven her now? Im just really curious.

Never betray the people who loves you.

I genuinely think this is the worst father in history your son was accused of a crime and you're not even going to try to defend him or get his side of the story you're just going to call the cops to get him arrested this dad deserves no sympathy he sucks

@Blurgamer17

4 ай бұрын

He's dead. Offed himself.

@Michael-zi3kk

4 ай бұрын

@@Blurgamer17 and he shouldn't have done that I know I'm going to get a lot of hate for saying this anybody who has children and a family who kills themselves based on their own actions is a coward instead of trying to make it up to his son for the rest of his life he just decided to kill himself I know it probably wasn't discussing the story but he must have hurt his new wife and all of his friends people should think about the consequences before they kill themselves and think about how many people love and care about them and how much they'll hurt them when they kill themselves

@Blurgamer17

4 ай бұрын

@Michael-zi3kk He shouldn't have done it, period. Self-harm isn't a good thing. However, I've witnessed and felt the effects of s*icide either among my family peers or friends enough to understand what goes on in their heads at the time before they do it. Typically, their minds think of it as the most "logical" choice, seeing no other way out besides that. Maybe, for the father, his logic was that his death would give his son a demented sense of peace. (Or more or less karmic revenge/satisfaction) He was wrong.

@Michael-zi3kk

4 ай бұрын

@@Blurgamer17 I completely agree with you it's always wrong and nobody should ever do it they should think about the people who still care about them and how many people are going to hurt by doing that and regardless of the reason they want to do it they shouldn't do it and they should get help immediately

@Blurgamer17

4 ай бұрын

@Michael-zi3kk biggest problem with the victims who successfully attempted is that they are often left alone at the wrong moment. My mother recently had to manage her team through a neighboring team members s*icide (worked in the same building but worked for a different agency [civilian contract vs defense force worker]), and one of her employees fully shut down during the day. She knew that this person, who wanted to go home, couldn't be left alone due to emotional reasons, so she called the workers' mother to take them home. This way, that person was monitored. This is the biggest issue. Being alone is deadly for a s*icidal person, as there's nobody who could save you from a potential attempt.

I played the game "Among Us" for about a year, and I realized how easy it can be for a person to be falsely accused, and how important it is to look beyond that initial claim. The other thing I will say is that the families don't seem to understand, this action is not like closing a door that can be easily opened back up. It is more like burning the house down and then expecting it to some how be magically rebuilt just by saying "I'm sorry". It doesn't work that way. Betrayal does serious (possibly catastrophic) damage that takes years (or decades, or entire lifetimes, possibly more than one) to heal. Make a sincere apology, do your best to atone for your mistake (knowing that you probably can't) and then GTF out of the way so the person can heal.

But I think it's funny to report the son and send him to prison but not to find the stepdaughter interesting Because she has committed several crimes, false accusations, deprivation of liberty with perpetrators everywhere and a few more but she is not immediately sent to jail, more interesting Father

The fact that he just believed her right off the bat just shows how much of an have a so-called father he was

This is probs the saddest story ive ever heard from reddit

This is what you get when you "believe all women."

Antidepressants won't help. His life is over now.

I remember this story, but thanks to KZread been as trash as always it got deleted. Glad to hear from the son and that he managed to leave for a better life. I agree the father sugar coated the story so he could look more sympathetic. What gets to me is that the step daughter got away with murder and the supposed to be inheritance that she might be removed doesn't mean anything. She can get back into the inheritance if the parents are weak enough and she tires them with the enough lies and tears. Also the court system today is just as trash as KZread and Google so you only need a judge that uses the orders in the inheritance as toilet paper to clean his behind and give everything to the step daughter. Honestly OP should try to stay in Japan if his new family has it good over there. Maybe get a good job or open a business. Heck maybe both ... Anyway good to listen to his side and hope that his new post gets a KZread video.

For those wondering if that’s the extent of the dad’s betrayal, it’s not. The full post chronicles times the dad was forcing his son to confess before finding out the stepsister lied

@harleyquinn5774

Ай бұрын

It adds to the explanation as to why the father eventually took his own life. The extent of how horribly he betrayed his own son is equal to his horror of realization of how terribly he screwed up, the even deeper remorse & shame he felt when Redditors backlashed on him, and how his son’s final thrashing broke him into pieces. The son may end up regretting his actions when he’s his father’s age.

"Hes the pride and joy of my life" me:doubt

This is another version of a different story. The first half is almost completely changed, while the second half is almost copied verbatim. The original post had the Sun be accused by his parents, but was taken in by the older sister. They found underwear in his room, which he categorically denied was used by him.

I wish the son all the best and I’m happy he found someone who stayed with him. I’m happy one person stayed with him and believed him

Imagine calling your son the pride of your family and you believe your step daughter over your son terrible father

This is such a tragic story truly

Is kinda sad, the father traumatized so much that he don't want children

You ruined his life. Deal with it.

@cameronmiyao2673

6 ай бұрын

Sounds like the dad commited suicide, assuming that's what he meant when he said his dad "ended it" :shrug:

@RandomTrinidadian

4 ай бұрын

He couldnt. He offed himself.

God this is so awful, what the hell was going through that man's mind when he sent his own son to jail. Your own son. You have to FIGHT, until someone proves your child a monster you have to FIGHT for them. Without proof that man should have protected his son and shunned his daughter and if it cost him that step family then so be it. This might be the most tragic reddit story ive read

I keep seeing on this comment thread that the stepdaughter didn't face any repercussions. There is one indirect consequence of her actions. She lost her father. Her actions and stupidity ultimately led her to not only throwing away her brother, but inevitably drove her father to suicide. Even if it was the fact that his apologies will never be enough and his son is gone, stepdaughter is the root, the source, of all this badness that drove him over the edge and into the pits of Hell.

@YourPal1

2 ай бұрын

She didn't lose her father. She lost her stepdad. She got sent to live with her actual father.

@TheThunder115

2 ай бұрын

@@YourPal1 Still, she's gonna have to live with the fact that her actions indirectly killed someone who loved her dearly.

@mrgodspeed

2 ай бұрын

​@@TheThunder115just because he cared for her doesn't mean she felt the same

@NorthTrainmeister

24 күн бұрын

Guess again. The lying little harlot ruined OP's life, drove her stepfather to delete himself, and wrecked a family. She is quite proud of herself, enjoying her best life, and having no lack of shits and giggles at everyone's expense. THIS is true female nature - THIS is the part that NEVER changes. Welcome to the wonders of half a century of feminazism.

>Pride and joy of his life >Proceeds to accept that he is the worst kind of person, from literally one baseless accusation Typical reddit parent.

If stepsister never confess he probably would be in jail… or do jailtime…. Not thanks father!!

I"m curious why the step-sister did all this? Did she really get so scared that her parents would find out she was having sex that she pointed the finger at her own step-brother? There is something there that was not mentioned, but I guess we can only speculate. In the end though it doesn't matter. She got off way too easy.

@YourPal1

2 ай бұрын

I'm guessing parents are the type that say you can't have sex until marriage or until 18. Unless the stepdaughter was under 16 when she made the accusation. Whatever it is, seems like she just didn't want to get in trouble of having sex so she gets her parents to have their attention elsewhere so she wouldn't get caught.

@ktmmatt7243

2 ай бұрын

@@YourPal1 And she ruined lives as a result. Just sad all around.

@blue3532

15 күн бұрын

Or probably her partner was adult. She was protecting her boyfriend.

tbh, the parents were put in a horrible situation - it's an impossible choice to make who to believe. commenters support the son because they have the knowledge it was a false accusation. but how could the parents know at the time, really? if they didn't believe the daughter and she was really being hurt, then they'd also be monsters for letting the abuser get away with it and making her provide proof would re-traumatize her. damned if you do, damned if you don't. i have no idea how would i handle one of my children accusing the other of sa. the only real monster was the stepsister who ruined her brother's life and destroyed every single relationship he had. how tf did it even make sense to accuse him? how did that accusation relate to her being intimate with her boyfriend? it wouldn't change anything if she was caught with her bf anyways...

@426mak

4 ай бұрын

I get your point, and I think we need a few more details, ie. did they ask stepdaughter any question like how long this has been going on or when the last 'attack' happened. Were there any witnesses. Things that they could use to verify the truth. If they did this and she gave plausible answers then their actions can be understood but if they did not then they have no one to blame but themselves.

@JyyceKrato

3 ай бұрын

hey, ok assume you have a son that you love and is accused of something serious what would you do A. ask him if its true B. Call the police on him and get him arrested and NOT EVEN BAIL him out, its sad that the dad in the post ended himself and fuck the step sis i hope this haunts her

@nguri139

2 ай бұрын

​@@JyyceKratohe is in a tight spot, even if his son said its not true, there was a chance he lied. we made judgment after knowing its FA, if stepsis was really SA and the father take his son's side, we would have blamed him so hard. Its a hard decision tbh.

@JyyceKrato

2 ай бұрын

@@nguri139 but you dont just abandon your own child you first ask them and then, by your logic anyone whos accused of rape should be thrown away but yeah it is

@nguri139

2 ай бұрын

@@JyyceKrato "your own child" can lie to you as much as your stepchild can. Anyone who's accused are not automatically thrown into jail, there's always an investigation and then court hearing but sometimes innocent men falls prey to the incompetent prosecutors/detectives who want quick promotion. Also, this whole story is soooo fake.

False accusations should land you the same punishment as if you did the crime yourself imo

I feel sorry for the father at this point. Everyone is capable of making absolutely terrible decisions that they believed to be correct at the time, only to find out later how badly they screwed up. He really did do everything he could think of to remedy the consequences of actions he heavily contributed to. On top of his father’s remorse and guilt, Reddit responders tore him a new one when he was looking for help, his son tore him a new one for the last time before leaving the country, his dad couldn’t take it anymore and so took his own life. Shame on the step-sister, the Reddit responders, and even his own son for going the extra mile to tear his father to pieces one last time when his father was genuinely desperate to make amends with his son.

@426mak

Ай бұрын

I am the one person who you should rely on for anything. I chose to ruined your life. Forgive me

@hemendraravi4787

Ай бұрын

bro i feel bad for the dad aswell , but to be honest i dont think this story is real , the sons side of the story does not make any sense it literally sound like a fantasy movie where you escape to another country and start fresh. the dad clearly mentions in the og post that his son lost all his friend and he was all alone locked up in his room , if the son still had a very close friend like rukia the dad would have atleast mentioned about this friend once in his original post. i think the truth of this story is much sadder , the father son is probably dead himself. some one wrote a fan fic story about the dads post. in real life the op would have probably forgiven his father at some point , they wont be close but his father did indeed care for him. the dad probably didnt know how to support his son against his step daughter so he sided with her or the step daughter probably put up a very good act to make it believable. its just a sad story and unfortunately we wont really know the true outcome of it.

I read some of the archived comments, OP admitted he was a horrible father and even confirmed before the step Daughter moved away, her mother slapped her, while yeah what he did was wrong, T should’ve gotten his dad’s side, i would not blame him for not forgiving him, I mean, who would? But in the end the father, while not being the best father, really wanted to make amends, and as a result offed himself because of grief, it was clear he truly regretted it and wanted to at least have closure T is not in the wrong, far from it, but I think he should’ve at least gave OP a chance to explain himself, because in the end, everyone in this stories lives got ruined (sides Ruku, W Ruku), the parents lost a son, the daughter lost a father, the son lost his family, but in the end gained a new one Please for the love of God, if you have this situation, talk to the person accused, hear their side, because you don’t know if those are false

Why didn't they throw the sister in jail

I've heard this story before, only the one i heard the son took his own life. Maybe the first post might be true, but any updates or "sons response" seem to all be made up by fanfic writers

@noahsawyer7155

2 ай бұрын

Yeah the son post is fake.

Simps make the worst dads

This is a horrible situation. The worst part is that if the father hadn't done anything, he would have been vilified for "not" believing the stepdaughter

Classic overcompensation. Whether or not the stepmother was in any way informative of his decision, there is a pressure on step parents to be partial to the step-child for fear of being seen as treating them as less. It could have been true that his son abused that girl, but there was no evidence and he didn't even try to prove his innocence. Pathetic man. Must've typed this lying down because he clearly doesn't have a spine.

"He is the pride and joy of my life" Doesnt listen to his sons pleadings. These AI stories are sure fun

To be honest I kind of feel bad for the dad he tried to do what was best for his kids and he didn’t know who to believe he even tried to help his son again but all of that was in vain. RIP dad🕊️❤️

Ngl tho a father begging on his knees would break me I would have to at least stay in contact maybe I’m wrong but him killing himself is fucked

@anonymous549

3 ай бұрын

If memory serves, the dad called his own son "T" in his story because he found his son "using" a noose. The dad was a spineless animal. Him putting himself down was just trash taking itself out. Which I assume to be quite a nice little occurrence. This is all assuming that the story is real, which seems unlikely. Especially considering that the "Ivy League" student crammed more spelling errors into his story than a Nigerian prince scam.

@criert135

Ай бұрын

No you just have empathy and compassion, which many people commenting here lack

@hemendraravi4787

Ай бұрын

@@criert135 not really , anyone would pretty much get together with a father like that , especially for your whole life if you did something to make your father proud of you , obviously humans make mistakes and naturally watching the person you loved beg for you would automatically make you sad no matter what, its not empathy , u may not be close with them again but the sheer sight alone would make u go back to them. This story is probably fake. it literally sounds like a fan fic.

Was the original deleted?

@SecretVoices25

6 ай бұрын

Probably, I couldn't find it 😔

@ianmoritzplatapino3684

6 ай бұрын

@@SecretVoices25this pos deleted it after being eaten alive by the comments in his original post

@SecretVoices25

6 ай бұрын

Yep

The happy ending

Why would you just automatically believe your stepdaughter over your son

@victormontes7007

3 ай бұрын

Metoo#

@FrederikEngelmand

3 ай бұрын

because waaaaahmen never bad. Naive men are just infuriating

I was falsely accused of racism but got a Asian girlfriend and I am a muscle bound Chad now

@EBaker-bz8gx

2 ай бұрын

Still a racist from your lame sentence.

Read the comments and I also remember this ending differently

When the accusations fly, suddenly it's _ALL_ about self-preservation for everyone in your orbit. And those with the strongest most immediate reactions "win" the virtue signaling contest.

Did the son say his father "ended it" some time (a few months) after he moved to Japan? Does he mean self-delete?

I always hear about how awful it is when people don't believe women yet nothing about how awful it is when people believe a lie.

I just read the beginning and stopped. False accusations by women is so common that it's a meme by now. Let the stepsister report it herself, why report for her with zero evidence? He deserves to lose his son's respect

Also the step daughter should not have had basically a fresh start

What does call him a 'T' mean?

@andressotil4671

Ай бұрын

Probably a nickname they had when he was little, like Tiger or something

Still sad about the father committing suicide. Generally people are always told to believe the accuser and he did the wrong thing due to people telling him to do the “right thing”

So I want to point out that even if the step daughter was a lying pos, then first op would still be a shitty parent because they would have missed abuse happening their child for years. Like if it’s going on for years you have to notice at some point, right?

Son's response post is a complete fabrication from someone capitalizing on the popularity of the first post. The author can say "well it's not" all they want. It's obviously not consistent with who the son was supposed to have been. He's supposed to be an ivy league attendee and has the grammar of a 14 year-old hick. eg. "Me and her got married" (She and I got married), confusing "asked" for "told" repeatedly. ie. "My dad told me where I was going" (My dad *asked* me where I was going), and bizarre word switches, like "ushered" when it should've been "uttered". Other details just don't make sense. "Rukas's family didn't want my dad anywhere near me". Uh, no. That doesn't make sense, because later you say that none of them (except Ruka) knew about the false accusations. Why would they have felt so strongly if they had no clue? It's an obvious creative writing exercise, and a pretty crassly cynical one at that. I'm normally the guy defending the possibility of a post being real. And I have no way of stating the part the father wrote is fake. But the sons supposed response definitely is.

@VRDejaVu

4 ай бұрын

They doesn't make sense

@smallpseudonym2844

4 ай бұрын

@@VRDejaVu Fixed.

@VRDejaVu

4 ай бұрын

@@smallpseudonym2844 hum? I was pointing out how your comment is fake because you can't write for S.

@smallpseudonym2844

4 ай бұрын

@@VRDejaVu Ohh, so you're just a troll who doesn't understand that I wasn't claiming some high level of education and then having my writing be inconsistent with that claim. And also a troll who can't differentiate between a single slip and a consistent set of errors forming a pattern. Congrats, I guess? Nevertheless, error fixed. That's what I get for assuming you were operating in good faith with your first response, though.

@VRDejaVu

4 ай бұрын

​@@smallpseudonym2844 Damn, looks like a touched a nerve. I'm sorry if you get called on your BS logic so often that it triggers you this much. Still, it is a you problem. Maybe learn to deal with your own emotions before coming to a public forum. Also, a single slip? Seriously? "But the sons supposed response" Son's "That doesn't make sense, because later" there is no place for a comma there "eg." e.g "ie." i.e, also it doesn't make sense where you used it The 1st sentence of you last comment is supposed to have a "?" at the end for it to be grammatically correct. Does this create enough of a "consistent set of errors forming a pattern." to you?

So she ruined his life and now can just change her address and move on

@dity9442

17 күн бұрын

Yeah, it totally bites she can do that. But it's going to come back on her in an epic way. It most likely won't be public.

The step mother and sister remain untouch I would said that i would only forgive the father/step mon if he unalive the step sister Then she would unalive and the father would be in jail making this the most fair ending

Why does everyone move to Japan in these stories?

Good on the Japanese gal who didn't give up on him. She seems like the hero in this story.

@sguizzooo

Ай бұрын

She and her family trusted and loved him more than his actual father

The son’s pov isn’t even attempting to come across as real. The way it reiterates information provided in the first story every five seconds comes across as desperate for validation. And not the “I’m innocent,” kind, but the “please believe me I need attention,” kind.

@hemendraravi4787

Ай бұрын

yea like dude flies off to japan wtf ? like probably some weeb interested in japan wrote this . its wayy good to be true , the dad clearly mentions that his son lost all of his friends and he literally stayed shut locked in his room in the OG post. he would have clearly mentioned about rukia if he still had a close friend.

Did dad take his own life? 7:08

@Southparkfan598

29 күн бұрын

Yeah, most then likely due to grief