Even china is jealous of how many red flags this women had

@dmr4450

Ай бұрын

😂good one.

@GauravMuralidharan

Ай бұрын

Stalin had to take a few steps back after seeing their behaviour

@markarca6360

Ай бұрын

​@@GauravMuralidharanEven Brehznev and Khrushiev too!

@Karen_thatbish

20 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

Were people really coming at him for being happy his lawyer was a woman or having her served at work? Ridiculous after the wife's behavior.

@aaronwishard7093

Ай бұрын

While I haven't seen the OG Reddit post. I'll be doing that after I leave a few comments for the algorithm. I really wouldn't doubt it. People on Reddit were simping for the ex, they wanted to be in OPs shoes so they could get the just an apron bit.

@league-of-shadows

Ай бұрын

I totally understand why he’d feel that way. A wife and mil should be two women in his corner but one stole from him and the others not only sanctions the abuse but abuses him too. Here comes this lawyer - who happens to be a woman - who is fighting on his behalf and he appreciates that after being treated the way he has by his wife and MIL. When you have two people ganging up it’s nice to have someone in your corner. In his case the two ladies who should be his champions aren’t but he has his lawyer to fight for him.

@drifter139

Ай бұрын

there's this notion that female lawyers should always be in a woman's corner and stick it to the man. in most cases, a female lawyer can be a shark for a man and can smell a woman's bs a mile away

@FullMoonOctober

Ай бұрын

I think it was more of a tonal issue. The way he just threw it in there where it didn't belong made it feel weird. At first reading it almost sounded like a "wow, women lawyers actually ARE good!" type of demeaning statement, but the rest of his posts don't sound like that, so I don't think it was his intention. It just stuck out badly enough to get people's focus. Maybe like @league-of-shadows said--it's that he's in a headspace where the women in his life were betraying him, and it was interesting to him that a new woman (the lawyer) was helping him fix it. He doesn't seem to have any other family present in his life as support, so if that's truly the only woman actively helping him, it's pretty sad.

@laquietagray9323

Ай бұрын

The people simping for the ex are probably snakes just like her.

Boy, the white knights were out in force against this guy. 😂

@DeeBraynt2010

Ай бұрын

They are the ones who fall in four categories: •The ones that treat their spouses the way the ex-wife does •The ones who act like the ex-MiL •People who enable/rug sweep that behavior •Spouses who allow themselves to be treated that way and are upset at seeing someone stand up for themselves

@hughg.rection1421

Ай бұрын

​@@DeeBraynt2010 Also, as OP mentioned, religious nuts who don't believe in divorce.

@l-l-l-l-l-l-l

Ай бұрын

@@DeeBraynt2010 wrong. They are single men living in their parent basement. The kind who would pay just to smell a women.

@m.c.9419

Ай бұрын

​@@DeeBraynt2010💯

you did NOT kill that woman, she did it to herself. the daughter helped do it to her. she never should have been left in that house to keep ordering people around in filth until she no longer could. the DAUGHTER failed her mother

@PalpatineHatesgood-wy7he

Ай бұрын

And on top of that she was not very good at taking care of her own health.

when toxic ppl threaten with silence, disowmment or ultimatums. 'psh, dont threaten me with a good time' should be the auto response.

Lesson of the day: If your girlfriend say that her ex-bf was 'toxic' and he was the problem, actually look into it because chances are she was the toxic one

@gothicbutterfly013

Ай бұрын

Eh. Not necessarily. Anyone can have an outlier.

@alitheakorogane

Ай бұрын

The fact that all her ex-boyfriends dumped her with the same reason the OP was experiencing with her told everyone that she and her mother are toxic.

@tabibble8412

28 күн бұрын

Very close. If ALL their exes are crazy or toxic then its a red flag. One isn't enough to establish a pattern

Wow that woman and her mother are living red flags

@jakedaniels951

Ай бұрын

Well, one of them is a living red flag, the other misses out on the living part.

@Lastandfinalunicorn

Ай бұрын

​@@jakedaniels951was fixing to say the same thing 😂

@Nikolai_The_Crazed

Ай бұрын

@@jakedaniels951Damn! Beat me to it.

Did that police officer let an unstable woman destroy a bathroom and leave the house?

@RequiemPoete

Ай бұрын

Strictly speaking, it was still legally her home, and was a civil manner.

Ahhhh, skeleton key collection guy! 😂 New update. Thank you ❤️

I think when people try to define evil, they picture heinous acts like murder, r@pe,, SA, etc. Posts like this show that evil can take oh so many more forms.

@r.i.pmydog7723

Ай бұрын

I still think murder and rape is worse and way more evil than

@azuredystopia3751

Ай бұрын

Omfg shut up.

@seebassteterismaster7879

Ай бұрын

@@r.i.pmydog7723 While true, the torment of one's psyche and/or shattering of said psyche by being in a toxic relationship (especially when said person seeks to isolate you from your family and friends) is a VERY bad evil. Not worse then getting rid of someone or the R-word (youtube is removing some of my comments, hence y I am being dodgy with my words). I would rate the M and R words as either a 9-10 out of 10 on how evil it could be, and the torment one's mind is a close 6-7. Maybe 8 if toxic relationship drives the innocent other to self-turn-off.

I'm glad the OP escaped that messed-up situation of a marriage.

Ugh, so much of my older sister and my mother right down to she was a bit klepto. My sister did finally get sick of her, offered my nephew up as a sacrifice and fled to a whole other continent but then rearranged reality so she could have fond memories of her precious mommy. I'm glad as hell I was the black sheep. I'm so glad op was able to extricate himself, I don't think op went too far serving her at work but I have been through things

@FullMoonOctober

Ай бұрын

I'm going to need more details about what "offering up my nephew as a sacrifice" entailed, please. Was that as a do-over baby? Or were there child support payments or other benefits that she gained from him?

@catsncrows

Ай бұрын

@@FullMoonOctober No, my mother wanted him so she just told my sister to hand him over. My sister being the dutiful daughter obeyed. She wasn't even a bad mother like into drugs or anything just very self centered. If that was the price for escape it was good enough for her. My mother was always getting in trouble and would plant herself in my sister's home to be taken care of and be a rage tornado😑

In the UK, you need both signatures to get one person off a joint account, so I ended up paying back over 100k in debt that my ex ran up. NEVER have a joint account! And I'm on benefits /assistance.

@MishaSims

18 күн бұрын

my ex husband tried so hard to get me into a joint account 😂 then had his girlfriend commit identity theft in another state, emptied my account of my savings of $300k+ and host of other shit she did in my name including welfare fraud, got a mortgage and cars in my name. she’s been sitting in a federal prison for the last 20 years. they even tried to lie to cps saying that she was me. what she failed to realize is that i’m a felon and have a criminal record and that’s what really screwed her in the end 😂😂😂😂

@jamaicangirl8933

17 күн бұрын

​​@@MishaSims😂😂😂😂that plot twist in the end

I’m glad you got your key collection back I’m sorry someone passed away but it wasn’t your fault

This guy absolutely does not need to justify his collection period it doesn't matter what she stole or what it was worth to anybody the point is She went into his house with a crowbar broke into a locked cabinet to kiss possessions and panda didn't even have the decency to go bad for it. A matter of fact she gloated and laughed and blamed it on him. Blows my mind that people would say he overreacted over some keys. It doesn't matter what the hell she stole she crossed the line and she did it maliciously and intentionally. His wife is supposed to be his partner and back him up it sounds like she had no intention of ever backing him up in any way shape or form

Mil would've gone missing if my shit was stolen and sold without my permission

@MishaSims

18 күн бұрын

facts! 👏🏿

It is insane to me that some people think this guy is a villain for cherishing a decade-long collection. That's just the tip of the absurdity, but it doesn't change the fact that it is disgusting that anyone would think OP the AH in this situation besides maybe going too far with the humiliating her in front of her coworkers, and even THAT is a stretch. She kinda deserves it. She could cry about trauma all she wants if that's the case, it doesn't excuse using it as a reason to be a complete monster. There is *no* reason not to break the cycle. Never.

I love the mover you pulled out your money from the joint account and she’s actually the one paying for her mothers mistakes.

This story is great, reminds me of some old movies but without a valuable real estate plot or mischievous mouse.

It’s not your fault your mother-in-law had a heart attack, by the way you describe the house you did the right thing. Don’t be so hard on yourself OP

What's even worse the oop is the 3rd victim in this fiasco.

Damn that heart attack and death is new 😳 I heard this one before but never that she had a heart attack and died! Grabby Gabby was a good name not gonna lie 🤣🤣🤣

I’m glad you did not let it go. 0P sounds like some of those kids were really old stealing is stealing does not matter if it’s a family member.

Wow, that sounds incredibly difficult. It must have been a rollercoaster of emotions dealing with your mother-in-law's actions and your wife's reactions. It sounds like you've taken decisive steps to protect yourself and your belongings. Make sure to take care of yourself during this challenging time.

I would never think 0P is a bad guy. His wife soon to be ex-wife and his mother-in-law are the bad people.

Dude puts on anime to tune her out! What a legend 🤣

'She let her house down'. Seriously??? Yes, that poor house... 🙄

@nicksuazo4377

Ай бұрын

The house, as well as OP were the victims in this. Not even OPs ex because she rolled with her mommy's BS! But I'm also curious about her dad and any extended family. I hope OP doesn't let his guard down because I feel like the ex will go scorched earth on him because now she has nothing left to lose

The wife’s attitude “it’s your fault since you had my mother arrested” reminds me of my ex: “It’s your fault I’m stalking you, vandalized your house, and slashed your tires because you had me arrested for punching you in the face and strangling you after you found out I was cheating and broke up with me.”

Man 3 years was a long con game. Despicable

A pawn shop generally give you 10% of the value of whatever you are selling.

For new listeners like myself there’s one more update that you can find on OPs account linked in the description but a TLDR is STBEXW got in contact with OPs mother who he’s NC with. They found his address and show up to his new place only for OP to lose his temper and scare them away (cops called too) OPs mom turned on STBEXW and now STBEXW moved to a different state hopefully giving up on harassing OP.

@zombiecat7799

6 күн бұрын

Thank you.

Oh, who is people against Opie? I am with him shut the hell up you aren’t in his shoes., his wife does not love him. She makes decisions without him. That’s not a marriage.

Would be helpful with these long single story posts if you put time stamps for the updates.

@TeemoTeemosson

Ай бұрын

That would require a minuscule amount of effort and that's too much for these ai voice using channels.

O P wife should be backing up her husband and telling her mother to back off

And people wonder why I refused to marry

@aleksandarvil5718

Ай бұрын

SAME HERE 😂😂

This is so wild! Can't believe your MIL did that! 🤯"

read a story about a guy who his wife cheated on him so he had a long convoluted scheme to divorce her in style and part of keep the ruse was, and I quote, "blowing her back out and leaving her looking like a deer carcas that just got hit by a truck" so definitely should've hit it with protection then quit it 😂

You are not responsible for her death.

Your awesome op. Honestly I wish and pray that all ops are like this instead of being so damn weak and a doormat.

My god, the redditors going after this dude. Jfc everyone. Too many people grew with a screen to protect them when running their c0

The World's Smallest Violins 👌🏻🎻👌🏻🎻👌🏻🎻👌🏻 for EX-wife -Wifey- STBXEW & late KAREN!MiL

I died laughing when OP said this. 37:02

@PalpatineHatesgood-wy7he

Ай бұрын

Referring to her violent outbursts as "going ape" got me😅

@nicksuazo4377

Ай бұрын

​@@PalpatineHatesgood-wy7heA pretty apt description with people like Grabby Gabby and ex Wifey

@aleksandarvil5718

Ай бұрын

*_“And Nothing of Value Was Lost !!!”_* ~ Jay Sherman, *_The Critic_*

She has heart issues cause of living in all the nasty stuff

29:42. Keyes or not keys, it's your property. She stole from you, so don't feel any regret.

So op has been putting up with abuse for so long, and when he retaliates some reddiiter screaming, he is the bad guy

I've been to this OP's profile. They are a magnet for trolls. One of the most recent one tried to claim him as the narcissist, and acted like he said his keys were worth a fortune. He shut her down shockingly well to the point she didn't reply back. What's more, I looked at that troll's profile, and not only is she a mom, she's a chronic shit-starter that gets downvoted to the moon. I actually feel kinda scared for this woman's kids. Who would want an internet troll for a mom? I certainly wouldn't.

Stop apologizing for your decisions.

I did hear this story before but this one have new update. Nice.

I mean, it is sad that events led to ger death, but what if the house burned down and she died that way? You can question your motices in reporting it, but the house was not safe

Count of Monte Cristo's got *nothing* on this guy.

I would have been very petty at the silent treatment. Op is better than me. "Oh no. You're not going talk to me? Please, don't. I'll miss the sound of your voice as you make excuses for your thieving, disgusting mother." 🙄😂 This story is a grim reminder women can be as toxic and out of touch with reality as toxic Mama's boys. Stories like this just cement in my mind I'll never share a bank account with anyone. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. I don't care what it is. I have no respect for people who mess with another person's collection of items but also brag about it. It took op ten years to build this collection and I'm really happy op got everything back from the pawn shop. Op should be glad mother in law underestimated the value of those keys. People are reading too much into op's surprise his female attorney was good at her job. I think he was just shocked because most people tend to be bias towards the pov of the wife and always assume the worst of the husband. The proof is in the nasty way people were choosing to attack op over liberating himself from a nasty relationship. Op shouldn't take any blame for what happened to ex mother in law. Sooner or later, someone would have found out and told the authorities her house was an uninhabitable biohazardous environment. It's the daughters fault for letting her mom live in filth knowing she had a weak heart.

Love it. Such a long story. So much juice

The ol bait n switch

This woman is a CLASSIC narcissist!

I agree that MIL should have been charged with theft, but OP should have gone to the pawn shop and retrieved his collection.

S1: NTA enough said

There’s another update!! It was posted four hours ago

Hell I advise any man facing a contentious divorce hire a lady. They know all the games and will kick you in the butt and save you from yourself. So many men just want to get it over with quickly so they can stay on the ex wife’s good side for co parenting but get screwed by a ruthless wife every time. Give her everything and she tells lies to receive full custody.

Me: *hears mil* My brain: if milf means you know what then mil must mean mom I love (I know it means mother in law)

What a story Jesus

Hope this guy is doing well.

@the83rdtrombonist60

Ай бұрын

Same. He went through the wringer with these people.

I just like that he say he watches anime want what is his favorite

@user-cw3xb9ez1r

17 күн бұрын

Say your favorite anime mines black clover

the dictionary definition of red flag

People being mad at him for moving on is insane 31:28

The is just crazy😂

29:37 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😝😂

Oh no! Anyways

She expired 💀 36:58

The pauses this AI voice takes are way too long. It's all stop and go. The flow of the story is grating.

@VR00100

Ай бұрын

You mean punctuation.... It's compulsory Either way I watch on 2x, and I recommend you to do the same

That was very evil of you to report her house

@SCOOBYGD

Ай бұрын

Petty... yes. Evil.. no

@seebassteterismaster7879

Ай бұрын

While many say two-wrongs dont make a right or an eye for an eye makes the world blind, such actions are needed to teach humility and the consequences of actions. Technically what he did was more of a right then a wrong! The house was a potential fire-hazard. If he didnt make that call, then the MIL would have caused more grief and eventually death/injury to several nearby neighbors.

Yta. It's just keys , family comes first always

Guy literally caused someones death

@forward2000

Ай бұрын

not taking care of her home and health and expecting too much from others caused her death

@MaximeB-hc4oz

26 күн бұрын

Bro warned the authorities of a high risk of fire that could have wiped out the whole neighborhood and caused casualties in the process. If anything, the call saved lives.

I know that the wife is a piece of work , but I don’t like OP either . Both are unsufferable . And I won’t even talk about the MIL ..she raised the awful wife so .....

Ngl you went to far, yes seating is wrong but to kill someone bc of it is way to far. I get the lady was crazy but that doesn’t mean she’s deserved to die she needed series help.

@brianaschmidt910

Ай бұрын

Op didn't kill her, her expectations did that. She has a weak heart and still choose to attack her daughter. At least now the ex is free from the witch

STBXW (Estybexwha) is my new favorite word.

She cheated

"You're a better man than I Gunga-din." "CULPAE POENAE PAR ESTO." "LET THE PUNISHMENT FIT THE CRIME" "VENI. VIDI. VICI." "I CAME. I SAW. I CONQUERED." "WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. SOMETIMES YOU GET WHAT'S COMING AROUND.... AND SOMETIMES YOU ARE WHAT'S COMING AROUND." "HEAVEN HAS NO RAGE LIKE LOVE TO HATRED TURNED, NOR HELL A FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED." "THE MIND IS IT'S OWN PLACE AND IN ITSELF CAN MAKE A HEAV’N OF HELL, A HELL OF HEAV’N." "IT WAS THE WONT OF THE IMMORTAL GODS SOMETIMES TO GRANT PROSPERITY AND LONG IMPUNITY TO MEN WHOSE CRIMES THEY WERE MINDED TO PUNISH IN ORDER THAT A COMPLETE REVERSE OF FORTUNE MIGHT MAKE THEM SUFFER MORE BITTERLY."