We Are wired to Be in Service of Others Because we are ALL ONE.What We do for others We Do For US! Fair Enough!

This resonates with me so much. When I left corporate, I was instantly happier....even though I wasn't making money I felt free and inspired...and grateful to be able to serve others

@garyfrancis6193

Жыл бұрын

You keft “ corporate “. This redlects your mindset. No one talks that way.

@sabtsmith

Жыл бұрын

@@garyfrancis6193 👍🏽

Singularity is oneness of humanity. What I do to you, I do to myself. That’s why we are happy in serving others.

I am watching this talk two years after Jay released his book Think Like a Monk. A lot of what he says in this video are in the book My favorite point being TWO THINGS TO FORGET: The good you've done for others, the bad others have done to you 2 Things to Remember; the bad you have done to others, the good others have done to you

@crazyanimeloveable

2 жыл бұрын

I had to re-read that part about remember and forget! Very insightful thabk youu 🙏

@WilliamJonesChess

2 жыл бұрын

@@crazyanimeloveable You are welcome!

@claralaclette4918

Жыл бұрын

You can't forget the bad that was done to you. You can't spend your life resentful or full of hatred, but you have to learn from that experience and always remember it so you are able to avoid repeating it in the future.

@08453300222

Жыл бұрын

There is no self. We don't all need the same thing? Try functioning without air & water. I can give you the Christian reason we have been created. To love and sacrifice.

@TheeHairWitch

Жыл бұрын

@@claralaclette4918 you just have more work to do & that’s ok. But it is possible to forget the bad others have done to you and still keep those lessons. You forgive, let it go and move forward. (Forgiveness doesn’t mean letting the person back in your life but not holding onto the anger you have for them.)

Avoiding relationships in order to dedicate your time and energy to yourself and your personal growth as a human being is so logical and I am really happy, he brought this up. That is exactly where I am at the moment. I do not want to engage in any form of romantic relationship, because at the moment that will just take time away from myself and the process, I am currently going through, to become the person I want to be. This makes me understand my own lack of interest in such things way better, so thank you for that Shetty!

@missyelena6840

5 жыл бұрын

I feel you so much ♥️ ♥️ ♥️ Conciously Relating Michelle x

@joshmusic9766

4 жыл бұрын

Right on! Dont let the world tell you what you need! Dont let the world tell you who to be.

@hawaiiankid358

4 жыл бұрын

Michelle Heegaard Thank you so much for sharing your thought on what Jay talked about relationship. I love your comment because you know the definition of relationship for yourself and what it takes. I think many people rush into relationship without knowing what they want from relationship. Investing time and energy in self-development is so great and actually contributes to who you're meant to be.

@SharifD-PaletteAnArtdsb

3 жыл бұрын

@michelle heegaard well said. That's true. It's takes so much energy.

@monikaigonzalez4050

3 жыл бұрын

It's so important to know one's self. Time takes time and there is an art to allowing it to happen as opposed to making it happen. I am in the process of spiritual growth alone. Being in love with a person is such a drug and it distorts reality. Being in love with life is limitless. There is a knowing. Something in me knows when I will be ready and the time is not now. This moment is so sweet, being alone and growing, expanding cleanly and listening to what messages are coming to me. If someone were in my realm, this expansion might not happen at this rate, ikd. But, when I meet this person, I will recognize him. This knowing, there is a faith and a strong feeling that when I am ready, I will know it when I see it and feel it. Self actualization comes to those who seek it.

Wow - Jay radiates so much joy and happiness when he talks.

Your heartbeat is with you from the moment of birth until you die. It changes when you're stressed, physically exhausted, happy, etc. It's not just your breathing.

@rcpenny10

Жыл бұрын

Don't thoughts and decisions come even before the physical reactions began? Think well and be better.

@claralaclette4918

Жыл бұрын

@@rcpenny10 Thoughts and decisions are very important, no doubt. But I believe (and I could be wrong, I will research it) that heartbeats come before the brain is ready for thoughts, and I know for a fact that heartbeats come way before we start breathing. EDIT: I checked it out. Heartbeats can be heard through transvaginal ultrasound as early as the 4th week of pregnancy. The brain is developed enough for basic senses as early as 28 weeks into the pregnancy. I think it's pretty safe to say that heartbeats come much earlier than thoughts or breathing.

@florazablocki2020

Жыл бұрын

So true!, good thinking.

@florazablocki2020

Жыл бұрын

@@claralaclette4918 Good for you Clara, your gut feeling was ride on the button, have a great day.

@RevLStern

Жыл бұрын

@ Clara Laclette. True. Yet, the heart won't beat without oxygen which brings us back to breathing.

Such a lovely person. Jay is definitely beyond his years even when he was younger.

I love Jay Shetty.. imo, the reason we gain the greatest happiness in giving to others is because at a basic level none of us can survive without each other.. you can't receive anything if someone isn't giving and it's the most symbiotic relationship in Creation.. without giving we cease to exist... and our souls know this and are fed gratitude and happiness to exist. Blessings!

"when you can change or manage your breath, you can change or manage any situation in your life." your breath is the one thing that is with you from the moment you're born to the moment you die.

Way they behave , react and service they provide

"Giving up everything you have for the service of others sounds like the best thing I could possibly do" --Jay Shetty

@Laila.808

2 жыл бұрын

He didn’t have anything to give. He went there to used them, he was fired because the monks realized he was using them

@rcpenny10

Жыл бұрын

Now THAT makes sense.

The vocation of motherhood is the boots on the ground version of selflessness. These ideas are fascinating but derive from the single childless male POV.

MY NOTES FROM THIS PODCAST: 23:26 Philosopher Cooley's quote. 32:31 Learn how to breathe because when you learn how to navigate and manage your breath you can actually navigate any situation in your life. 34:03 Deal with your challenges at root level and not at symptomatic level. 37:18 Ask yourself ~ how can I use what I have to make a difference in the life of others. 1:15:52 Two things to remember. 1:16:12 Two things to forget.

@LisaCCurvello

Жыл бұрын

Thank you :)

@mattc825

Жыл бұрын

Awesome, thanks because for me the vid was TL;DR, lol

@LisaCCurvello

Жыл бұрын

@@mattc825 for some reason I thought he was going to teach us how to breathe correctly "to change our lives". I watched the video just for that.

@mattc825

Жыл бұрын

@@LisaCCurvello Same! Exactanente! ;)

@jondoe170

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

Jay Shetty is on the rise. Hearing much more from him out of nowhere over the past 60 days.

Profound "Plant Trees under whose shade you don't plan to sit" >>>> MY GOAL

Watching this instead of a Netflix series during lunch >> thanks to Jay's speech on Education First: "only watch entertainment if it's also educational"

@zomerdromer

6 жыл бұрын

I just have! Thanks for the reminder; I always forget to subscribe :) I'm really glad and thankfull I discovered your amazing videos :) Thanks for the "wisdom that matters"!

I’ve watched so many interviews of people by Jay Shetty. This is the first interview I’ve watched of him. It is one of the best conversations I’ve watched. Had absolutely no idea how wise, rich and BRILLIANT Jay is himself. Hearing him has been more insightful than so many people I’ve heard HIM interview. Wow.

I think we’re wired for generosity due to an evolutionary need be accepted within a community. Throughout human history, isolation meant death, death from the big cats, death from another tribe. Being accepted within a community meant life and still does. Therefore, generosity buys the individual credit among other members of the community. The credit equals trust. The community can then vouch for individual and say “he or she is resourceful, they’re trustworthy.” Therefore, they’re accepted and not isolated.

Listening to conversations with Jay Shetty is incredible.You could listen to them all day

Conciousness and Soul is No 1, Play to ur own element/strenght, And use this to serve others. HUMILITY and Breathing as a basic core Life Skill. Very Powerful!

My heart just vibrates to a whole new level watching this interview! I did a two weeks Vipassana course last month, which contains no speaking or any communication for 2 weeks and 10-12hours of meditating a day, So much of what Jay was saying, I could resonate with it. I adore and admire Jay Shetty. Thank You Lewis for getting him on your Podcast! Lewis, you once said: "A man is someone who leaves this place better than the way he found it"…. This was an interview of 2 men full of greatness within them, who leave every person they reach on a daily base, better as they found them in the first place. Thank you!!

@SamanthaSweetAnne

Жыл бұрын

It is was said Jesus went to study meditation in India. There are lost books of the Bible that state this. Bus loads of people from Catholic and Christian Churches would visit Buddhist Temples to study meditation after they realized this in the 80s and 90s.

''We've been created to connect and serve''... That's genuine happiness. Hope I can one day experiment this kind of happiness.

@ibrahimhamada5751

3 жыл бұрын

Yes you are true and i admire for your comment and it really thrills me to see adorable women like you with such an amazing smile, i really would love to learn more about you but if you dont mind for to be friend request thank you 🌹❤️😊😍🇪🇬

@fernandasuazo6252

Жыл бұрын

@@ibrahimhamada57518L

Listening to this is mind blowing I'm 67 years old .checking the date it's 3yrs ago.and still seems so fresh.

@lewishowes

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for being here!

It's our responsibility to be ourself wonderful and make the world wonderful, thanks for Lewis and Jay.

I've watched almost ALL of your podcasts Lewis, and this was one of my favorites. The biggest 2 takeaway's for me; learn how to breathe properly, and generosity/giving is the biggest key to your happiness. GREAT VIDEO 🔥🔥🔥

@lisadixon624

6 жыл бұрын

Bradley Riley - Business, SMMA & More Thank you for sharing your takeaways! I always say I’m going to do that with my comment. It’s a great way to see what people out of the interview! Will do the same once I listen to the whole interview 😉

@chinacontreras6528

6 жыл бұрын

Same! Great episode!

@sisandamrali9080

5 жыл бұрын

TOTALLY AGREE!!!

@hawaiiankid358

4 жыл бұрын

Speaking of the law of attraction, actually being happy or excited attracts everything. Success comes after happiness. We tend to think the other way round about them.

The whole hour and a half listening to this felt very FULL. Every single thing he says and every single answer he gives to the questions are so truthful, heart-touching, real, and wise. I had to stop several times in the middle of watching it to take notes. Such a phenomenal human being. Thank you :)

Jewels of wisdom indeed! Thank you Jay, thank you Lewis! 🙏

when he said "Disconnect" I literally stopped everything, and when he supported that by saying "we need to serve"I was sold. from a Christian Perspective. Thank you for this, would love an indept video on this matter

The best interview I have experienced so far - I was captivated from beginning to end. Best takeaway: 3 Truths - 1) you are consciousness 2) play to your element/uniqueness 3) lead with service. THANK YOU!

@christineanderson7371

Жыл бұрын

Bravo Jose, you summarised this perfectly. Thank you 😊

I love this guy’s message, energy, openness.

Two amazing men!! Keep doing what you do! So much value to the world 🌎

I love their interaction and appreciation of each other as men. I am in a place in my life where I don’t feel as though I’m reaching my true potential and I am not motivated to go for my purpose/ goals in life, whilst in a relationship. I get enough people pushing me to “go for it!”, but the motivation is just not there when you’re distracted with another person and trying to fulfil their needs and desires, while sacrificing much of your own . I wish I was the type that could do it all, but I’ve accepted that I just can’t. I have always been the most giving, most driven and most productive when I’ve been single. This video has been very inspiring and calls me to keep going for my goals and focusing on purpose so I can be a blessing to others. I have to let go of the belief that I’m being selfish by doing so.

@lewishowes

Жыл бұрын

Appreciate you and your support🧡

@ginatkins9106

Жыл бұрын

Set Free the past!

Thank you "Jay" for being "you," genuine and vulnerable. Thank you "Lewis" for having Jay share on your show.⚡👏😉

OH MY FUCKING GOD I LOVE IT WHEN THESE KIND OF PEOPLE OPEN UP ABOUT THEIR PROBLEMS. You know showing us that thheey too have relationship troubles you know like we AAALLLL have. I wish and need more people like that in a platform. Like..the are so strong and succesful. We just want to match ours with theirs, the similarity.

You are an amazing advocate for everything good about human kind, you connect straight to my heart & core. May you continue to be abundantly blessed. Thank you for persevering & sharing 👏

This guy is inspiring. I have gone to temples to meditate, to have peace, and have met few monks as well. I miss it so much! It’s very grounding and peaceful. I almost went to India for a month retreat but work got in the way..

@lewishowes

Жыл бұрын

Appreciate you and your support🧡

I’ve lived Jay Shetty for many years, from the first time I saw heard him speak.

Wow i admire Jay so much... Great human with an high level of capacity to make others learn more about himselves 🙏

There are many beautiful gems in this interview. One of my favorites is @1:15:45. There are two things to remember and two things to forget; always remember the bad you've done to others and remember the goods others have done for you...Remember the bad you've done others, you always feel grounded; you always feel humble...And remember the good others have done for you, you feel grateful. I shall treasure these gems. I don't believe that the monks broke up with Jay; I truly believe that they saw Jay as an effective and outstanding messenger of wisdom and they sent him back to spread the message to the world. Thank you, Jay & Lewis, for the inspiring and profound interview!!!

@nguyend408

6 жыл бұрын

I find this absolutely true!

@troycambo

5 жыл бұрын

He stole that part from buddhist teachings. Keep in mind this man comes from a nation of shysters and rapists. There's a reason women are not recommended to travel alone in india/ pakistan/ bengal/sri lanka and it's not because they're "enlightened". Hard to respect a culture where women cannot expose skin for fear of being raped. I visited this area and it is a true shithole. Contrast with equally poor or poorer south east asian nations where people are cleaner and more law abiding. It's a shame both races of people are classed as "asians" since these people with their pedophile grooming gangs have tarnished east asian people's good name and reputation for law abiding natures.

@lokeeb1486

5 жыл бұрын

U talk Like rapes only happen in India.. m quite sure that happens everywhere

@unrealoneill

5 жыл бұрын

Stop being a troll. No one is biting. Look to your own sins brother. You clearly have much to learn @@troycambo

"If you go to the root it takes longer, BUT Last Longer!!" Ooo that got me

..."why we lie, why people cheat and pretend to be something they are not". Nicely said Jay, you should feel relief now.

Another day of cold approach for me and work on my youtube channel! Wishing you all a good day! :) Some gym to start me off!

wow this was so amazing I was hoping the interview will never end

I like your simplicity, humble...👍🏻

HAHA! Just look at the look on Lewis Howes face after he was done with that righteous interview. I don't think I've ever seen a happier person. And for good reason. That was fantastic. The last 10 min was life changing. Great combination of asking excellent questions to bring out the wealth of knowledge that Jay Shetty has stored up for us to take advantage of. He's such a gem of a person. Of all the people I fallow, Jay sets the best example. Humility.

God Bless You , please don’t stop to give us the gift that you give us everyday 🙏🙏🙏

Lead with Service!!! I truely loved the interview!!! He is so inspiring!!! One of the best interview!!! Thankx so much Lewis😊

This was actually the first video I've properly checked out from Jay & taken in & was super useful to hear the persistence, pain & work it takes to achieve impact. Here's my personal takeaways & how I'm practicing them: * Meditation is about letting go, not gaining. This has really helped me re-frame things, and immediately cleared some mental blocks I'd built up. I think I'd slowly slipped into trying to "gain" peace, when you are 100% right - it's about letting go. During my practice today I really thought about guilt, anger, lust, greed, fear & letting go of any baggage I was carrying. Normally I follow the technique of Vipassana Meditation, so this was a new one that came intuitively based on that idea. * Loved what you said re: keeping your intention pure & refining it constantly. And how often that plant gets weeds around it, and then we think the weed is the plant. This made me think of which areas in my life & consciousness I've allowed weeds to cloud my waters. * On Content. Some really useful mindsets about - people need to be moved. Focus on adventure, inspiration, surprise. I'm thinking a lot right now about the balance of quantity vs quality in terms of video. I have lists of hundreds of videos I can make/have made but not put out, but this made me go deeper and consider how I can be much more strategic. * Breath is stays with you from birth to death. Nice reminder about this one - the first thing to change when your state changes in you is your breath. * Relationships slow your growth. That's why monks stay celibate. This was deep/refreshing to hear. * More broadly, just great to see what I can be & learn from someone from a similar background/interests etc. I'm inspired to go deepen my own impact with the work I do. Thanks for sharing!

@keshavbx

6 жыл бұрын

Much love brother

@gregfrasier5005

5 жыл бұрын

Lewis Howes W

@keshavbx

4 жыл бұрын

@@aprilh9033 Thank you Arial :)

My pleasure being your follower!

There are no words to explain how I'm feeling after watching this interview. Best of the Best. I thank God for people like Jay in our world. NAMASTE

OMG!!! I was thinking about two weeks @lewishowes why would you not have interviewed Jay. He is the most amazing guy, knowledgeable and so true to his heart. Hands down one of your best conversations. Loved you so much more, thank you, thank you, thank you!!!

So grateful Lewis for you having people like including Jay Shelly to help us feel enough, even with experiences that help us know we can be a way to be who we are & help us be the happy us possible thank you 💖

Love You Jay already but I have started liking Lewis too

Wonderful to see two great people who are changing the world. Blessed for the opportunity!!

Simply blown away by this interview; things continue to appear in my life as they are needed. This is one for the ages. Thank you Jay Shetty and Lewis Howes for the work you are doing.

Jay is brilliant but most importantly seems genuine and humble. Wonderful interview! Thank you!

Frist time That I meet two beautiful souls, powerful and inspiring. Thanks love Luisa. All The Way from Norway.

Jay you offer so many teachable moments thru the telling of your story! What you thought was the most humiliating moment of being excommunicated from your supposed life purpose of being monk only translated and transformed you into your greater purpose of serving humanity. Perceived failure can be your greatest momentum of reaching your highest purpose. Your story is beautiful , profound and so inspiring. You motivated and excited me that whatever I perceived as failure is actually my next step towards success in reaching my greatest goals. Thank you. 🌸

Oh, I am so blessed to have discovered you! Your style of communication truly resonates with me & gives me the clarity I need to pursue my path. Thank you.

Such a powerful interview. Thank you for blessing us with this knowledge.

Really appreciate the way how his story changes....I think everyone needs to watch this and spread endless Love and services of what we really should be doing..Thank you so much for the knowledge that you have share, and it is very helpful to everyone in this modern society.

JAY S.YOU ARE ONE OF THE WISEST MAN I EVER HAVE LISTENED TOO THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SENDING TEACHINGS AND ADVICE MY WAY ❤

the way jay talks and explains himself is a work of art.

I found this video today...my MOST FAVORITE EVER!

Every minute is great lesson, thank you Lewis and Jay. I would love to be in your presence. at the end I am back to normal breathing.

I’ve been a long time viewer and I gotta say this episode was the most impactful episode I’ve seen to date. Thanks so much Lewis for being an amazing host and human being. And Jay Shetty thank you for literally reshaping the fabric of my mind. Thank you both!

One of the most beautiful and captivating human i have come across,he is so genuine and selfless 😊

Thank you so much for this! I have shared it and will continue to share it!!!!!. I absolutely LOVE this!

Jay and Lewis thank you very much for this interview, this was so insightful! You guys are giving me a better sense of direction, to where I want to be heading in my life!

I just think Jay is amazing.So honest and you are definitely knocking it out of the park.Jay makes life brighter even in Covid.Tks Jay for being you.😁

I love his expressive gestures and mimics.

It’s great to be able to learn from other people. There was a great exchange of information on real life experiences which were never thought at school. This podcast [ THE SCHOOL OF GREATNESS ] is real greatness. Thank you for this information. Keep inspiring!! ❤️

God's nature is generosity, Mercy=LOVE, selfless LOVE, self-emptying love and still love lives and multiplies.

@shayan447

3 жыл бұрын

Self-emptying love? what does that even mean? ?....You can't empty something that which spreads, runneth over and that which is infinite - that which we call love.

Jay Shetty is my mentor from now this, listening to his videos now and now this interview, makes me more confident that I am in good hands! Lewis you are a great motivation for all of us too. Keep up the good working. Cheers.

I needed these words. My happiest and most content has been when serving others, it is weird how I swing to serving myself to find happiness and it is never there.

I'm pretty sure I saw Jay in Oxford street, London, about a year ago, he handed me a book or leaflet and introduced himself as a Monk and asked me if I knew what a Monk was (which made me laugh a little). We spoke very briefly. I respect his wisdom and honesty in this video, I have definitely gained tools I can use in my own life. Well done Jay, Keep it up!!!!!!!

@Eventsandthings

5 жыл бұрын

!OH MY GOD, I GOT A REPLY FROM LEWIS HOWES! That made me smile. Lewis your work is really, really admirable. Looking forward to seeing more videos and learning more. Love from London. XXXXXXXXXXXXX

Totally blown away.. started watching this at 1:30 am whilst feeding my baby super sleepy just felt so awake again and finished the video and it felt like it was 15 mins.. new fan of Jay.. Lewis crushed it again

Recently saw this man. Jay Shetty, nice guy. And grateful to you again Lewis, its a great thing what you are doing.

THANKS for sharing so much TRUE and REAL KNOWLEDGE 😘

That was the BEST definition of greatness that I've ever heard! Looved it!

You are the definition of greatness !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Really appreciate that you leave him so much space to speak. Brilliant interview ✌🏻

The most beautiful lesson for a perfect life grateful & thank you...

Wow. You're the conscious of your soul not the body. That is the greatest line I have ever heard in my life. Thanks

This is amazing!!! Hearing the full story of his spiritual journey ❤️ wow

@lewishowes

3 жыл бұрын

🙏❤️

I want a friend like this. And I want a friend like you as well coach. Love y'all. Keep Shinin'

Amazing, Truly blessed being aware of such wisdom! Thank you.

still watching this video and getting inspired in 2024. this video is doing an amazing job.

I really enjoyed watching every second of this video. I may not have the experience of a monk but i believe i have a gift of insight that allows me to think about life and see it from a neutral point of view which helps me to understand and answer my everyday questions as i learn...I feel i can relate to everything Jay said even though I haven't been through what he went through to learn these things...It's a wonderful thing when you find out you are not the only one in this world with a mind, heart and soul like his and a different story to tell....Live to serve others...I love that

nice to get such an in-depth conversation. no bullshit, just knowledge. keep it up lewis, you inspire me to do better!

@laddavera6562

6 жыл бұрын

Wolkify I

The word spirit means breath. Spirit can be defined as one who knows how to breathe ✨️ ♥️ Selah 🎶

Thank you thank you , you don’t imagine how much you have been teaching everyday, I look forward everyday for your new video, and share to help more people ....🙏🙏🙏

One of the most inspiring interview for souring and yet grounded moments of humbled service oriented values.. This has pushed me up to another level👌🏿👌🏿Kudos🙏🏿 to @lewis and @jayshetty.. Love this kind of mentoring.. 😍🙏🏿Hugs from Malaysia🙌🏿

Jay Shetty .......Sir Thank you for sharing the knowledge .......

Whooooohoo! Jay Shetty's definiton of greatness is EVERYTHING! I really enjoyed this video and I aim self actualizatuon🌬

Beautiful is not describing the scope of this interview! So resonating and genuine n honest...❤️

THIS IS WHAT I NEEDED! Thank you!

Fascinating interview! Thank you, Lewis Howes and Jay Shetty

Pearls of wisdom 🙏 Such an insightful conversation between you guys. So much to learn for me. Thanks for this.