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Purpose. What drives it, how does one discover it, and what’s it all for? Jay Shetty, purpose coach, former monk, and now best-selling author, is regarded as a world expert on such matters. In this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu, Jay Shetty answers these questions and many more as he takes us on a journey of discovering one’s own passion, strengths, and purpose. He shares his story of becoming a monk, the lessons he learned on dharma and zen, his equation for discovering purpose with passion, how to recognize and develop your true strengths, and how leaning into service leads to a life of peace and gratitude.
Check out Jay Shetty’s Book at: www.amazon.com/Think-Like-Mon...
SHOW NOTES:
Jay answers the question, “How close to encapsulating the notion of thinking like a monk can one get?” [1:04]
Jay defines the meaning of dharma and discusses his equation for discovering purpose with passion [2:24]
Passion through compassion; Jay discusses how pain can drive our passions [5:00]
Jay discusses job crafting and the notion, “It’s not part of my job, it’s how I see my job.” [7:59]
Seeking beauty; how to escape the “woe is me” mentality [10:25]
Jay shares how to recognize and develop your strengths; overcoming the ‘monkey mind’ [13:32]
Hard skills and soft skills; Jay discusses the difference and how to approach each one [18:15]
Peace and purpose; Jay discusses what it’s all for [19:28]
Connecting purpose and meaning to strength; Jay shares how monks tap into service [23:08]
The “Mother of Orphans;” Jay shares the inspiring story of Sindhutai Sapkal [25:50]
No longer a monk; Jay shares his story of seeking council and leaving the ashram [28:09]
Re-contextualizing reciprocity; Jay shares his story of service and giving to others [33:48]
Emptying oneself to seek zen; Jay shares the story of the ‘Overflowing Teacup’ [38:22]
Escaping the victim mentality; Jay discusses the pitfalls of not having a positive mindset [41:20]
Sight, scent, and sound; Jay defines the ‘3 S model’ and its importance [46:46]
Training your mind for presence; Building the ‘search for joy’ into your daily routine [54:35]
The power and practicality within Jay’s book, ‘Think Like a Monk’ [57:21]
QUOTES:
“It’s not part of my job, it’s how I see my job.” [8:18]
“The one way to know your strengths is to ask yourself, “What do you do that you feel the most confident doing?”” [15:55]
“There’s nothing gained out of feeling sorry for yourself.” [43:48]
FOLLOW JAY:
WEBSITE: jayshetty.me
BOOK: thinklikeamonkbook.com
FACEBOOK: / jayshettyiw
INSTAGRAM: / jayshetty
TWITTER: / jayshettyiw
Пікірлер: 651
“We suffer more often in imagination than in reality” ― Seneca
@mukeshkadkol4759
3 жыл бұрын
Very well said.
@jazznroll5
3 жыл бұрын
If the 113 people who liked your comment, actually understand your comment, they would not be watching this channel or similar youtube channels
@dextermorgan318
3 жыл бұрын
Imagination is Reality
@nothingg00
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@Aisha2178
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the call out we should all fact check everything lol or we could just watch your channel lol
"Life is about SELF and SERVICE." "We're born to help others, and if we can't help them, at least don't hurt them." Very powerful.
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
3 жыл бұрын
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@MrLakers287
3 жыл бұрын
This is not new information. Every spiritual teaching says this.
@OP-ig1fj
3 жыл бұрын
Random but what u reading now?
It’s funny you mentioned post-mortem care. To some it may seem weird or gross. As a nurse, it’s the last act of compassion, care and kindness I can give this person as they leave my care. 💕
This makes perfect sense ! Now in my early 50's I have found my passion and have started training to be a professional counsellor. I only found this through compassion, through extreme trauma that I had experienced.
@mirandaoliver-ul5yi
8 ай бұрын
Real life get in your head
“If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.” ― Marcus Aurelius
@brooklynn52dee38
3 жыл бұрын
@@brenomatheus1802 I personally could care less. I take his message and apply it, if it works that is all that matters...
@brenomatheus1802
3 жыл бұрын
@@brooklynn52dee38 the thing that he most talk about is authenticity . I doubt that you don't care .
@brooklynn52dee38
3 жыл бұрын
@@brenomatheus1802 Ok!
@a.m.7286
3 жыл бұрын
Brooklynn52 Dee I love his messages too but some of the messages are not his (from other people, but falsely made out to be his.) So I guess I love his and other people’s messages lol.
@brooklynn52dee38
3 жыл бұрын
@@a.m.7286 Thanks for that! I had no idea. This is the first time I have ever listened to him. I guess I love his and other people's messages too then!! Lol!
That experiment with the hospital cleaners reminded me of my experience of being a Gym Janitor in multiple locations (w/ Front Desk). I was probably the happiest gym janitor there because I was literally in a healthy environment where people were coming to better themselves and I enjoyed the fact that I could support that. And I made the choice that if I was to do janitorial work it would be at a gym for that reason. Not my purpose or passion at all (I’m a 3-Headed Artist and Digital Advertiser), but it definitely made my work more enjoyable. It’s actually when I first listened to Tom in 2017 via podcast while cleaning!
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
3 жыл бұрын
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two of my favourite motivational people sitting together makes this day even more special. thank you! 🙏🏼🦋💕
@dalenciaross4902
3 жыл бұрын
Aren't they AMAZING. I love this one.
@NeonAngel00
3 жыл бұрын
I was going to say the same thing!! Love these guys!
@hellosaranya
3 жыл бұрын
Jay Shetty steals quotes from everyone
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
3 жыл бұрын
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@tgordeliy
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Wonderful people!
“You cannot save people, you can just love them.” - Anaïs Nin
I really love how Jay spoke about Tom at the end. The amazing content he & his team put out is absolutely life changing & inspirational & it's rare to hear them get any credit. So thanks Tom. Thanks IT crew. I love & appreciate you guys so much ♥
Gotta love when two of your favourite men are having a conversation
@lillythebrownie
3 жыл бұрын
exactly yeppp! 🙏🏼🦋💕
@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
3 жыл бұрын
@@Dakara8 😄
@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
3 жыл бұрын
@@lillythebrownie 💙
@anamikakaushik3920
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true.❤
@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
3 жыл бұрын
@@anamikakaushik3920 :)
I am so happy because you are back in the studio
@deebz7611
3 жыл бұрын
YASSSSS!!!!
@dominostimes2119
3 жыл бұрын
Im joinin 🧤
@bookswithraj
3 жыл бұрын
Me too man 😃🙌🏻
@CamWilliamsonOfficial44
3 жыл бұрын
Yes it’s truly fantastic
@johnayala2540
2 жыл бұрын
I can't help but be amazed by Jay Shetty's wisdom. He's like the father I never had. He will be passing a great legacy & he will be remembered for ages.
Oh my Goodness, this is one of the most powerful podcasts,EVER! I love you guys,!❤❤ Thank you, Tom & Jay ROCKON
'Cause the players gonna play, the haters gonna hate, Im just gonna shake it off' - Jay Shetty
@allblackeverything405
3 жыл бұрын
I heard that from Taylor Swift 👀
@barbarafairbanks4578
3 жыл бұрын
So....perhaps Jay heard it from Swift and liked it enough to repeat...So? Or maybe she heard it from him. Maybe both of them heard it or read it from someone else. And, so...?
@allblackeverything405
3 жыл бұрын
@Karan K lmao looks like he's a fan
I do that kinda work he speak of 8:00 at the hospital... And I feel honored and fulfilled to have things cleaned for the next patient. I love cleaning
I get why people say Jay Shetty regurgitates other peoples words and speaks them as his own. But I also understand that he has been studying the mind and words of others so deeply, its become ingrained in his speech. It would be impossible for someone like him to speak the words he does if he had to constantly cite another's teachings. Anywhoo, These two are great. They have in their own ways passed on so much knowledge that I naturally use daily!
I really love the genuine praise Jay gives to Tom for the effort he puts into every interview. It really shows but the fact that Jay takes the time to explicitly share this with us shows how much he appreciates the effort. I remember a quote from Tom that he made in his last interview with Jay, stating: "I love giving compliments when I think they are true, but more importantly, I want to compliment the things I want to reinforce in somebody." What is this gesture from Jay, if it's not reinforcing Tom effort!
Watching these in the first few minutes just made me feel so alive. Their energy & respect. Love, love, love.
" Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them at least don't hurt them" by Holiness the Dalai lama. 🙏🙏🙏
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
3 жыл бұрын
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Thank you for this!! I just got out of a deep conversation with a good friend about the struggle of ”finding my passion” and I searched for Jay Shetty for some reason... Picked this video randomly and BOOM explained everything so well and I was open to hear the message.. Thank you!
Where do I begin? You both are the true essence of love, of purpose and curiosities. Ty for showing us what you both are truly made of. Love love love 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I have been waiting for two years for you to write a book Jay. I am super excited to finally read it & Thank you Tom for going back to the studio & bring back Jay Shetty! keep kicking ass gentlemen.
On repeat for the next few days to let the wisdom sink in. Thank you Tom & Jay! Can not wait to get the book
I saw this video pop up in my feed and when I saw it was just recently uploaded I literally squealed! I’m so glad your back in the studio and OMG this episode was PERFECT! Definitely getting the book and watching this one multiple times! Love you both Tom and Jay! Thank you for your service!
Jay this was a phenomenal interview and without listening to the end of the interview I purchased the book. In addition a wonderful tribute to Tom by Jay at the end - absolutely amazing!!! In a time of severe depression, anxiety and identity crisis this was exactly what I needed - THANK YOU!!
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
3 жыл бұрын
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We are lucky that we have Tom as an interviewer. I have only been recently viewing your vids, but am always so happy to see in every case you have read the book/followed the person/have a deep understanding of the person and their beliefs, which both makes your questions insightful and directive, but also ensures we the viewer get a deeper and perhaps more accurate summation of the person/book/ideoogy that the vids is about. So thanks Tom for being you.
@danskdna8550
3 жыл бұрын
Lewis Howes is great too, same as Tom, great interviewer.
Something about these two in conversation, feels so natural.
Minute 15 makes so much sense!! Never thought about it and the effect that has in us growing up
After this amazing interview, I can say, with my hand on my heart, that I am exactly where I need to be. Loved this episode, back in the studio. Looking forward to more. Be well Tom and Impact Theory Team.
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
3 жыл бұрын
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I’ve missed this. Realized how much we need face to face interviews
So happy you’re back. Need to watch these, not the news. Such a big help this morning!
Thankyou so much Jay! You have addressed all the problems that we face as humans. The ups and downs.
Thank you for bringing him back on the show, the first episode with him changed my life
Mindset is pretty much ALL the really matter and meditation helps you soo much with it.
Really happy to have you back Tom Bilyeu, best wishes for the rest of the year, your content has transformed my life, especially your notion of "skills have utility".
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
3 жыл бұрын
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Two of my favourite self-help leaders and motivational speakers in the same spot. Can't wait to dive deep into his book and get inspired by his wisdom thoughts and meaningful preaches. I've been dealing with a lot of struggles lately so hopefully this book will open my mind to greater possibilities.
Yes, great to hear this. Just receive email alert the hard cover book has arrived... so excited. THANK YOU Impact Theory, Thank Mr Jay Shetty. Love, peace & service to you both! xo
Happy to know Jay Shetty has recognised Sindhu Taai Sapkal's Work. Her story is really an inspiration for many people who are pinned down by their relatives, friends and families. I am from Pune, India and Sindhu Taai Sapkal has her Orphanage in Pune. I have done service in that orphanage.
@prudenceperry6911
3 жыл бұрын
Can you tell me what the name of the book is?
@kayleenwingert9669
2 жыл бұрын
M G no occ yum For H box)8,)’o
@kayleenwingert9669
2 жыл бұрын
No
Attitude (+) Positive Mindset (=) lifelong SUCCESS. Let's DO THIS!!!!
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
3 жыл бұрын
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this one had soooo much nuggets, but the part where we go to training the mind to be present while washing the dishes, is goldddddddd i love it, excellent work Tom and all his guests.
What's Jay said at last min about you Tom - was so great to hear ❤️. Amazing man, you are an inspiration 🙏
Best Moment for me 50:15 Start your day with a quote that u love, a picture u love, a piece of work that inspires you, first thing u see make it so close and connected to your purpose Jay top quotes: I am not my body, I am exactly where I need to be . Good Moments 04:40 Step 1: What are you curious about? Go take a course on that. Then you are closer to finding your passion(s) 28:15 The answer is service. Whatever you have going on, service is the answer. 37:00 circle of love/ circle of hate
@priyankachowdary
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the time out to write this. Appreciate the effort
@WilliamJonesChess
Жыл бұрын
@@priyankachowdary You are very welcome. 28:15 and 50:15 are really good points.
Tom, amazing interview. Jay summarized what you bring to us. Thanks a lot. You are making a huge difference!!!
What a blessing it is to have two amazing, talented and inspirational people like Tom and Jay. Thank you both for sharing your wisdom with the world!
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
3 жыл бұрын
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This is such a beautiful insightful conversation.! As acknowledged by Jay himself, this has happened because of your insightful interviewing skills Tom Bilueau! Thhank you so much!
46:45 is my epiphany 💜 💕 💓 💗 walked while listening, back on track. Love this guy!
What an amazing interview and episode. Absolutely love it. Learned so much that I can actually implement in my daily life!! Thank you
Simply love this two guys. Thank you for everything. Already read Jay's book. It was a beautiful journey which I will repeat everytime I need more guidance.
Thank you for answering your calling. May Creator keep you and Lisa in our light for a long, long time.
So true what Jay said about Tom in the end, I have seem some other interviewers that talked with jay about the book and the content doesn't even compare to the one you get from here! good job Tom, thanks for bringing us quality content
One of the best interviews! I love that he highlights accepting and healing your emotions. One of the most challenging tasks we have as humans is to understand why we are making the choices we are in our lives. Thank you Jay for this!
@learoth8721
3 жыл бұрын
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@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
3 жыл бұрын
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Blessings 🙌🙌 Tom blessings You deserve every ounce of success you're having due to hard relentless work you put into what you do
I love the dinamic you both share. The energy shines through! Thank you for making me aware of my monkey mindset :) Jay almost made me cry with his heartfelt words! You both deserve the praise!
Yaaassss so excited love to see a guest go back with new insight especially shetty just bought his book , I'd buy yours and Lisa 's too Bilyeu !!!
I’m so in love with this interview. Beautiful understanding of life! ❤️
Dharma as a natural induvidual purpose of one's life was one of the greatest lessons I learnt from this podcast❤
So happy to see the studio again. The zoom calls were not doing it for me... and like old time I have to pause the vid to go get the book you are speaking about. Jay Shetty is the man
Awww that’s so nice how Jay compliments Tom at the end 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 great interview! My next book I’m reading 😍
You are great!!! Amazing life lessons from Jay, amazing questions and statements from Tom!!! Thank you both, so much!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️♥️♥️
I thank you Jay and Tom from bottom of my heart for this conversation ❤️. Picked some valuable pieces of wisdom. Special thanks to you Tom for your amazing observation skills and attention to details about the work of your guest that enables you to ask such meaningful questions 😊.
Jay provide so much inspiration to become a better person.
Thank you Jay for your beautiful message and thoughts. I feel sorry for that poor girl. God bless her 🙏❤️❤️
Tom for real! Great call getting back in the studio. It worked so great a while back for a reason! Thanks for staying on that grind and not giving up man 🙏
@58:49 - I listened to the whole interview and this right here speaks volumes about Tom!
This is the best thing I have heard. I really needed it. Thank you, thank you❤️
Amazing interview and information! So many things were explained that helped me put more clarity to messages I often share. This was EVERYTHING!!! I feel blessed!I’m heading over to Audible NOW!!!!
Wow !! two of your conversation..too good!! .. worth listening til the end😇 Thank you Jay and Tom 🥰🥰
My phone is filled with these two men’s podcasts audio to listen while traveling to work and while working. Now added this after watching whole video completely. Super excited to read the book 📚 though
Awesome interview and I 1000% agree with what Jay said about Tom at the end. You guys are both incredible and inspiring!! Keep up the awesome work! Loving the book so far too!
2 minutes in and I already know it's going to be great!
Thank you for the amazing video. I never realized how much our mindset guides our lifes that once I started implementing those shifts in mindset to every day life with mma is how im able to live my life more freely. Thank you for this guide!!!
Amazing interview with Jay Shetty, I love the way you explain and clarify every point in basic form. World will be a better place if we all learn to lead our life with service. Thank you Jay for putting out this message in a profound way.
@babyyoda5140
3 жыл бұрын
Well said!
He's right on, you are amazing Tom!!! I'm looking forward to this young georgous guy's book! Great interview 🙏
@link2440
3 жыл бұрын
Jay has copied EVERYTHING from others. He is literally just a plagiarist.
POWERFUL. I don't know if you will ever see this comment, but i have been watching IT for four years consistently and your interviews saved me from a dark place. Thank you for creating this platform Tom. God bless your work, and much love from Kenya! Hopefully one day you can visit and I will host the event.
Extraordinary interview!!! thank you so much for the reminder!
Absolutely great interview. Love the dynamic between you two.
Jay and Tom are so wise. I thoroughly enjoyed this profound interview
Thank you! This podcast convinced me to get the book!
Sweet, there is always more to gain on you life path, and reminders to heed. Thank you 🙂
Ah, especially the last half was really good! Thanks Tom! And Jay!
I love his advice! so powerful, thank you!
Best show, so many new people are discovered and it always keeps me thirsting for more knowledge
This is gold. Only 20 mins in and I already have so many gold nuggets
Great interview. Loved the ending bits. That was beautiful actually.
thank you jay for highlighting the work tom does as an interviewer to prepare for an interview. I’ve been watching IT for a while and I have noticed this in every interview, really shows a level of respect that other interviewers don’t always provide.
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
3 жыл бұрын
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I love the story about the person changing out the pictures for the occupant of the room it’s the difference between the bricklayer and the one who thinks they’re a building with the most beautiful cathedral and that’s the meaning of the purpose that they assign to the brick layer
Whew! Sooo many jewels dropped here.. thank you brothers. Gotta rewatch this one several times..
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
3 жыл бұрын
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It's really relaxing moments when your two mento /celebrity conversation
Well said Jay about Tom. Tom as always, great interview
Minute 59 , so true! Preparation and respect 👍🏼
Wow, what a great way to describe being in alignment! Not only does it explain the true essence of what he means, but it really make you think inwardly about how we individually perceive alignment.
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
3 жыл бұрын
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Thanks you Jay and Tom! Love the studio
Even if we have no money, we can still give. Kindness, empathy, compassion do not require money.
Above & beyond! Grateful 4 U ! Thank U!
I love it. Especially the part when Jay Shetty brings up how the there are hospital nurses and cleaners who hate their jobs and complain about it and there is also hospital nurses and cleaners who love the idea to be saving lives, 1 nurse said I am happy to be a healer, I get to heal people. This was so deep. Thank you for this Tom Bilyeu.
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
3 жыл бұрын
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This is so on point with the idea that what breaks your heart breaks gods heart
Such inspiring people! Thank you for sharing your wisdom. 🙏
I really love the way you both are talking and I consider u my inspiration
I really needed this. Thank You so much Tom and Jay for such a good self-improvement session. I'm really Gratefeul to have come to this channel. It's motivating and so engrossing at the same time.
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
3 жыл бұрын
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love this so much... it helped me clarify some issues in my life... bless you both!
Service is a part of your daily routine... Your gift is given to you to be in service to others. Thank you both for this interview! 🤍✊🏾
@dalenciaross4902
3 жыл бұрын
So powerful!! He's so wise. :)