Dave was brutal on this one😂 you can tell he’s been burned before

@jamesworley9888

Ай бұрын

First rule of living your worst possible life and having every moment of it be agonizing and painful ''nothing is your fault''. I promise if you've never been to hades just live by that philosophy and you WILL BE THERE. It's called Hakuna Matata, and it is ANYTHING BUT no worries for the rest of your days.

@williamcasa6406

Ай бұрын

@@jamesworley9888wtf u sayin bro

@jamesworley9888

Ай бұрын

​@@williamcasa6406 The words ''Hakuna matata'' in their original language translate to ''I don't give a (something I can't say on youtube''. People in America say it means no worries but have you ever wondered why that is???

@jamesworley9888

Ай бұрын

@@williamcasa6406 Unfortunately I can't say the real translation because youtube thinks it's everyone's mom with is completely MENTALLY ILL!!!!!!!!!!

@jamesworley9888

Ай бұрын

@@williamcasa6406 Unfortunately I can't say the real translation because youtube thinks it's everyone's mom with is completely MENTALLY ILL!!!!!!!!!!

"Trying to teach a pig to sing is a waste of time and annoys the pig". Expecting irresponsible people to suddenly act responsible.

NEVER rent to family.

@CarlaQuattlebaum

Ай бұрын

Right up there with "never lend money to family". Both things can leave you feeling like the caller.

@bradleymaravalli2851

Ай бұрын

Family or friends. Sorry, not happening. I'd rather destroy a relationship with a stranger than with someone I deeply love and care about.

Dave: i can help you with that Dude : yea!! Dave: it’s your fault 😂😂

@ethanpetersen810

Ай бұрын

“…yeah.”

This was a less than $10,000 lesson. Be grateful it was only that much.

This is gold to anyone starting down the path of owning rental property. Every bad lease will cost you 5k to 10k. Screening tenants was our weakness. Take this to heart and don’t let it be you.

@fionasmom6254

28 күн бұрын

I have never understood how people actually make money on rentals because I have heard one horror story after another about all the damage tenants do and how they get behind on rent. Even a good friend who was DILIGENT about checking references and credit history got burned. A relative recently had to evict a non-paying tenant and the tenant set the house on fire as revenge. She thought she should be living there for FREE, dammit!

This young man was victimized by his wife and her family. The whole family, not just the sisters. The wife should have been the one who held her sisters responsible from day one. The Christmas thing? You cannot afford to give anyone gifts until your house is repaired. Your house was severely damaged by renters. Did you inform the insurance company when you decided to make your primary residence into a rental property?

@blackworldtraveler3711

Ай бұрын

To me that is a red flag with his wife. He should have sold the home anyway and lived a few hundred miles away from all of them. Would definitely find out who he really married as well being away from her family.

@emilyh6293

Ай бұрын

Young , yes, and his naivety seems to continue A YEAR after the house emptied.

“They just is what dey is.” -Dave Ramsey @1:17

@ignaciosoy10

Ай бұрын

“You already know who they is” 😂

@JimmyMook

Ай бұрын

What a quote! So true

@candicescoby6633

Ай бұрын

Dave is on one today! I love it !

@laundrygoddess4

Ай бұрын

This traumatized my ears hearing this grammar

@LadyCaroline123

Ай бұрын

Goobers.😂

"Wild as buck" 😂 Dave is nice at replacing cuss words

@DoriZuza

Ай бұрын

And “my dad gum house” at 05:25 😄

@OhYeaMista

Ай бұрын

I had to rewind it. I was like did he just say what I think he did? Lol

@theamerican7131

Ай бұрын

LOL

@joefunk76

Ай бұрын

Getting into Ebonics as wail - “they is what they is.” 😂

@AlphaAchilles

Ай бұрын

Yeah..people act like replacing a word stops God from knowing what you mean.

Bro uncle Dave has completely lost all chill and patience lol I've never heard him rip into someone this hard.

The 2 sisters fault, too, everyone is responsible for their actions.

I love how Dave doesn't mince words or tip toe around feelings

@stephengamber7000

Ай бұрын

And didn't even give a "trigger warning" and ask about pronouns!

@FaithandPurpose828

Ай бұрын

agree. too many cowardly people are afraid to tell their ratchet family no, then cry victim when their family act out their true colors.

@janelleg597

Ай бұрын

​@@stephengamber7000🎉🎉

@LadyCaroline123

Ай бұрын

@@stephengamber7000 I often wonder how many of the easily triggered people stop watching before Dave gets round to the nice Dave.

Dave is HEATED today, lol

@JustinCase780

Ай бұрын

Savage! He had a great time waterskiing barefoot.

@TheAtemiles

Ай бұрын

He personally went thru this Way he's talking about it I can tell.

It IS their fault too. Christmas presents my ass……NO. Then go no or low contact.

@helenhilton2158

Ай бұрын

Yes, but not entirely. Go back to the parents that let them feel entitled and enabled them-and are STILL enabling them. That’s where the first fault lies. Secondly, the girls, and thirdly, the caller and his wife.

@mbank3832

Ай бұрын

nope. wild animals doing wild animal things. it is the dude that let wild animals into his rental. and now he goes oh noes when those animals torn and sh*t all over

@TonyCox1351

Ай бұрын

Its 100% their fault for trashing his house, but its 100% his fault for letting them trash his house. And flip no they arent getting any christmas presents!!!

@CarlaQuattlebaum

Ай бұрын

Maybe even better than no Christmas presents (as I said in an earlier comment), maybe a REALLY cheap dollar store gift -- and I mean a $1.25 gift, not the $7 ones Dollar Tree will one day have. That might send a message better than no gift.

@nataliazakula3400

Ай бұрын

@@CarlaQuattlebaum that takes too much effort, unless you don’t bother to wrap it

"They're still living rent free, they just moved from your house to your head." ...and Dave loses it. :)

It almost never works out well when you mix business / money and family. If anything, have higher standards than you would have for strangers, because if a stranger screws you over you never have to see him again, but you will keep seeing the family that screwed you at family functions.

@knowthyself8233

Ай бұрын

Never worked. Never.

The caller paid his stupid tax. Lesson learned.

For Christmas gifts give them a nice card with a lovely note saying- "This is a gift certificate for $X amount towards the $7K you owe me. Merry Christmas." Repeat for the rest of your life.

@kacyandlaura

Ай бұрын

😂

@jasonrodgers9063

Ай бұрын

@@rethinkcps2116 Nah. Too generous. What they NEED is to get a summons to small claims court!

@erinjones956

Ай бұрын

I like this answer! $5 each year.

@gigiwoodlawn2142

8 күн бұрын

@@jasonrodgers9063 Absolutely. Get it on record.

Wild wicked🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ‘When someone shows you who they are, believe them’ comes to mind. Got a bonus Dave Rant, today. Loved John’s rent-free quote

“We don’t know how to go To Christmas and not get them Gifts “ The stuff people fixate on in the middle of crisis is amazing sometimes

@lizh4933

Ай бұрын

"We didn't buy you a gift because we are putting the money towards what you owe us on rent and damage". What a simp this guy is.

@garykeith1048

Ай бұрын

This guy sounds like Homer Simpson. Doah!

@BunnySlippers82

Ай бұрын

That was her way of telling her husband that there will be no consequences for her sisters.

@TrigoNomentry

Ай бұрын

​@@lizh4933 i dont think that means hes a simp.

@lizh4933

Ай бұрын

@@TrigoNomentry yeah. He is. He needs to check his wife's purse and find his balls.

“They is who they is “ …I love it

Dave does monthly inspections on EVERY residential property he owns? I highly doubt that. I can’t imagine living in a rental property where the landlord shows up EVERY month to do an inspection. Also I am fairly certain that the law doesn’t allow you to evict someone immediately after being 3 days late paying the rent. But he does like to talk a big game.

@Gemmarose9012

Ай бұрын

He has property managers. And it takes months to evict someone, the process is horrible.

@joejohn.

Ай бұрын

Yeah, I'm in a tenant-friendly state, but routine inspection sounds crazy to me. I didn't see my landlord in person once in the 2 years that I rented a SFH from him, except at the start and the end. Great landlord too, didn't even try to raise the rent during that time.

@BlueDauntless

Ай бұрын

It probably depends on the law where his rentals are. And if it’s in the lease and they agreed to it, and there’s no law saying otherwise…. Pretty sure he can.

@megalodon1726

Ай бұрын

Maybe he meant when they're a day past the legally required grace period.

@fleurelise997

Ай бұрын

As long as you rent your property you don't have a choice. The way things are going right now with tenants having more rights than property owners means renters can end up with serious headaches.

Mental health is the new fancy word for lazy. They didnt care to clean.

We rented our first home to my BIL when we moved out of state. Worst experience ever. He trashed the house and had inappropriate stuff out in plain sight when our realtor would come by to show the house.

You walk through your tenants apartments once a month? I’d hate to rent from Dave… lol that’s just not reasonable.

#1 skill to successfully managing a rental property is being able to judge a tenant. This seems to be ignored despite all the social media content about rental properties out there.

@barnabusdoyle4930

Ай бұрын

Number one rule of owning a rental property is to use a property management company. That is the easiest and best way to make it all about business and not personal.

@kimberlymartin459

Ай бұрын

​@@barnabusdoyle4930 I have family always asking if I have anything available. I know with family and friends nothing personal...but they will havebto go through a property management with me. I'm that relative that will hand you a 3 day notice to pay or quit...

@megalodon1726

Ай бұрын

I doubt he would have let them move in if it were purely his own decision. He let his wife talk him into it.

It’s the same concept as lending people money. When you lend your in brother in law money to pay off his credit card, when he stops paying you back it’s not his fault, it’s yours for putting both of you in that situation.

Same thing happen to us. It is the worst. Renting to family is a disaster most of the time. Cost us around 40,000 in loss.

This is what’s known as “bought lessons” which we pay for with regrets & knowledge gained of how to proceed in the future. ✌️

This one right here hit me so hard. I let a friend come live with me for a short while and some bullshit happened. I knew better, I did it anyway and I suffered for it.

Dave, please don't evict the cat-- just the human tenants.

@jillhargrave-george4510

Ай бұрын

Agree 100%!

@annarichter6196

Ай бұрын

It isn’t the cats’ fault their owners won’t clean the litter box often enough, but that’s renters for you. The only way to deal with it is to prohibit cats, period.

@jjkatz

Ай бұрын

He can’t legally discriminate if people have service animals. They help vets with PTSD , people with poor vision, have seizures , diabetes, depression ect. He’s so materialistic he doesn’t care about people who need animals.

@paullansford2528

Ай бұрын

​@@jjkatz service animals vs regular pets is comparing apples to oranges. Finding a cat that isn't supposed to be there during an inspection will get you kicked out of my rental so fast your head will spin. I agree with dave on that. The service animal has to be known to be there from the start and you gotta pay a deposit in my rentals. I choose not to be strictly against service animals personally, but if you don't like a landlord with the no pet policy, you don't have to rent from that landlord. Any surprises during an inspection, including animals, will get you immediately evicted. Period.

@oldmoney1022

27 күн бұрын

@@paullansford2528 what if the cat/dog is a rescue they just found on the side of the road? would you still evict, or give them time to rehome, or perhaps even keep the animal?

Bring them to small claims. If they don't pay. You can always put a lien on their car, or have their wages garnished.

@stephengamber7000

Ай бұрын

That would make Christmas REAL awkward!

@Gemmarose9012

Ай бұрын

@@stephengamber7000We don’t need to spend Christmas with people who screw us over.

@AllynHin

Ай бұрын

It isn't worth the time and effort to file a claim. The SiLs are uncollectable. They don't have anything, not even a job.

@HoundDogCatia

Ай бұрын

I came here to say the same thing. Dave and John botched this one in my opinion. I don't disagree with them on the lessons learned, but this was a lot of victim blaming.

@HoundDogCatia

Ай бұрын

@@Gemmarose9012 100% agree. They should have pointed that out as well. I'm surprised John didn't.

I rented to my niece and her family several months before Christmas. After the 1st month, she told me her husband left her and she didn't have the rent money. She promised to pay the back rent after she got her income tax refund. We sent our handyman out to repair a leaky pipe and he told us that her husband was there and they were cooking steaks. I confronted her and she said he had just come back and that they would have the money soon. Several months passed and she still didn't pay. I had to ask her to leave and after she moved I discovered that she hadn't paid the water and sewer bill. Since the water and sewer is provided by the town, I was responsible for paying that. She has totally ghosted me and I have not heard from her for years. I have never rented to relatives again!

I have a friend who rented his house to cousins. They turned the water on when they left. He had a time fixing it

Trying to change others stems from a desire for control. When our efforts to control fails, it can lead to frustration. Dave is correct in telling this man to forgive, learn, and move on with your life. It was his fault in the first place and holding on to bitterness then complaining about it will only hurt yourself. Be a big boy and take responsibility for your poor judgement.

At least caller admitted he messed up. Take action now

Sometimes you have to cut people off to protect yourself from being burned. Even if it hurts feelings. If you don’t look after your own, no one’s going to do it for you

This is why I'm not a landlord as I know I'd lose a fortune when you consider that I'm to much of a marshmallow when it comes to though love. I got a cousin who has a reputation for not paying rent, doing drugs, & using her kids as a way to pressure people (especially family) & the government into supporting her. I can't risk caving over another one of her sob stories. I'd end up with no rent $ & a trashed place that smells like pot. Maybe other people can make good money as a landlord but not me.

@cko8643

Ай бұрын

Fellow marshmallow here. Thank goodness we recognize it. Saves us a lot of aggravation!

I feel like Dave was a little harsh on him. Even if they blame themselves, that still doesn’t solve the family dynamic. And Dr Baloney: "You shouldn't even know where they live. Now you're keeping tabs on them." It's his sisters in law! Of course they are going to know that they live with his wife's parents. You really think that knowing that is keeping tabs on them? 🤦

His wife's sisters don't work and moved back into the parent's basement. Talk about ambitious/driven sisters, they have a bright future ahead of them.

Wild as buck 😂😂😂 I had to do a double take for that one

@alexpietsch7997

Ай бұрын

My wife yelled "What'd Dave say?" From the other room

I always laugh when my friend encourages me to get rental properties. He just had to evict a drug addict and he wonders why I want nothing to do with them.

Monthly inspections? Is that a common landlord practice that Dave has? I rarely see my landlord unless they're replacing something, but I'm a good tenant. They're certainly not walking through the house every month.

@david-wilkerson1967

Ай бұрын

Most landlords replace the furnace filter, at least twice a year, that is their walk-through. Essentially, that is what gets them into the house to make sure it’s not being destroyed.

@kristinewberg7656

Ай бұрын

I think our lease has a clause that allows the landlord into the house once every month or two, but no one has come by to check on anything at all even though we've been here for almost four months. I think if you're an active tenant who isn't throwing up cause for suspicion, most landlords/management companies don't actually take advantage of that clause in the contract.

@david-wilkerson1967

Ай бұрын

@@rethinkcps2116 depends where you live? a lot of section 8 landlords don’t really care about the property, so they never really do replace air filter, or inspect their properties

@BlueDauntless

Ай бұрын

I’m pretty sure we had clauses like that too. But our landlord used a management company, then another one, and another one. I don’t think he cared one bit. In fact, we got every penny of our deposit back because they had no record of what the house was like when we rented it.

They would never ever get another gift from me. And then I would sue them for damages.

This couple are very young too Dave. You made mistakes young too.They are learning and have learned a hard lesson.But to just say the sisters have no responsibility in this is not fair. The sisters are still accountable for their actions 100%!!! It's a bit of both. You I support 100% but I think you overmade your point with this young man that his family in law (sisters) should not be held accountable at all when they gave their word to take care of a place.

😂😂😂😂 Dave is like a KZread dad. That’s why we love ya. Hey y’all. Let’s all keep learning and growing together. 🙏🏾✝️

"Wild crazy women" -Dave 😂

I know what Dave meant with being a bad landlord which is what I was not doing inspections. Cost me a few thousand for that experience.

“They’re still living rent free they just went from your house to your head” I’m weak, he was cooking up that one as soon as she said they moved into the basement

This discussion has some real nuggets of wisdom.

"they vote wrong, but I still love them"......................😄

This caller has no balls. Wife got his balls in a vice grip and the sister-in-laws crushed them

@JustinCase780

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂 In a box in her drawer.

@christianpadro894

Ай бұрын

Lmaoo

@sharondoan1447

Ай бұрын

Hoe crude and hateful of you to say such a thing to a young man who loves his wife and believed her assurances.

@Yogastrong908

Ай бұрын

The caller’s wife has no balls. It’s her sister, not his.

@nivekoldagyz1349

Ай бұрын

@@sharondoan1447 it's a lack of manhood. He should be the leader of his household. And needs to be firm. From the very start he knew.

Lesson number One! Never rent to family. Most of the time you will end up on the short end of the stick. Lesson number Two sadly, it’s often family who will hurt you the most.

Did that caller expect the call to go this way? No he did not.

Dave touched on something important there for a second, I also have relatives who vote for the wrong people but I acknowledge that not everyone can be well informed so I put that aside and continue our relationship

@aorg9793

Ай бұрын

I think you mean not as well indoctrinated by propaganda as yourself.

Yes, I agree there are people who will never change. Absolutely. That said, I believe everyone deserves to "hear it" at least once. If they haven't just told them how much aggravation this caused them, I think they should. With no expectations of change, but because these girls need to hear that they impacted someone's life for the worse, even if the plan is to move forward from it.

Wild as BUCK………oh ok, shocked me for a second there Dave 😂😂

Man I would not tolerate a landlord like Dave. Dude don’t be checking up on me like that, what am I your kid? Being a landlord doesn’t mean you can go in there and check every 1 or 2 months. You can beat it.

Delony always has some story/friends/situation that aligns exactly with what the caller is saying. This brother be BSing a lot lol

@DudeMuscle

Ай бұрын

Absolutely. I used to try to relate to situations but I realized I didn’t have to relate to someone’s problems to help them.

@candicescoby6633

Ай бұрын

Facts !

@nanmn9050

Ай бұрын

I'm skeptical as to how many friends, best friends, good buddies and people who would die for him there actually are. There are people who seem to have a hundred best friends and others who are a little more selective and only have a handful. He does always have a personal situation that equates to the caller, though. 🙅🏼‍♀️

@flashthecorgi2053

Ай бұрын

@@nanmn9050John said TWO of his closest friends at 7:49 . How is that so hard to believe? Dr. John is an AMAZING human so it makes sense that he would have such amazing friends that would lay down in traffic for him. Plus his buddies have made an appearance at his live events, on his show, etc and he’s talked about how they have saved his life at times. How one of his closest friends drove 3 hours to come see when he wasn’t well, flew to Nashville when he was spinning out. Dr. John has ZERO reason to lie in front of his boss or to BS any of the story to make it relatable. These are real men that he trusts with his life but as he says would never hire them!

When the facts hit

Yep never rent to family. My mom convinced me to rent to my baby sister. She trashed the house. Broke the closet doors in the basement and her cat pissed on my pool table. Never again.

$2k in back rent and $6-8k in damages. That,s a loss that shouldn’t destroy them. Look at it as a stupid tax.

He might of known about their character, but no. It’s the renters fault too. Yes we forgive, yes we don’t cut them out of our lives. But I hate when people tell others it’s not the fault of the person who is on the wrong. I get what he is saying but he shouldn’t say it’s not their fault at all

@theburnetts

Ай бұрын

I agree. I get what Dave is saying. But come on. The sisters just get a free pass because they are irresponsible and that’s just the way they are? So when someone robs you at gun point it’s your fault for walking on the street in that part of town?

@gyvas

Ай бұрын

@@theburnetts no they don't get a free pass; it's just that they're not the ones calling so Dave telling the dude what the girls should do is pointless. But there is a point in telling the dude what to do (or what did he do wrong).

@SnifferSock

Ай бұрын

Correct. It's his fault for renting to them, but it's THEIR fault for being garbage people and trashing the place and not paying.

Those parties must have been epic.

My rule #1 is no family and no employees rent from me. They can rent from my buddy and I'll lease to my buddy's family.

@FancyRPGCanada

Ай бұрын

Only exception to the rule for me is if a family member (or in our case our daughter's godfather, so practically family) rent a room and are part of the household, and then they still need a proper rental agreement

I feel so sorry for this man because you can obviously tell he's a good person but, unfortunately, nice people get taken advantage of when they don't have strong boundaries, so I understand Dave's stance here even though it's hard to hear it. It's an expensive and sad lesson to learn, but some people just suck. And like Dave said, there is no justice. We're the only ones who can protect ourselves.

I hear what Dave is saying but I would find it hard to get passed. Once you show your true colors to me, I'd prefer to limit my interactions with you!

Woah! An inspection every month or two? That's excessive!

Relative or not, why can’t he sue them? Even if he Still doesn’t receive any $$, it seems a default/destruction judgement would show on their records/credit report! It could at least prevent it from happening to some other landlord . . .

I mean, I rented homes and rooms as a teenager and early 20-something and was always a super polite tenant. I still use those landlords as references. You have to interview these people and get a sense of who they are. Don't just rent to anyone. I understand people can lie, but even older people can be irresponsible and trash property. It's more person-to-person thing than age.

So Dave doesn’t allow cats either! It is a lease breaker for me, too. No cats in my units ever again.

He called them “wicked” 😂🤣

Okay, the guy and his wife can admit it's their fault, but there would STILL be no Christmas gifts for the two who cost them so much money. If the rest of the family doesn't like it, maybe they should be asked to chip in for the damage the sisters did. If the other family members balk at that, they need to shut up about this couple not giving them Christmas presents. The two sisters no doubt don't have the decency to even be ashamed of what they did to the place and what it cost the couple who let them rent the home. It'd be tempting to not even invite them to the holiday gatherings for a year or two.

Okay, now I think Dave's partly right to blame the owner for letting the sisters rent the place, but to say it's not the sisters' fault? Looks like another case of family members taking advantage of another family member's generosity. Dang, you'd think the sisters would at least do right by their sister, the wife/co-owner of the property. Sickening how family treats family sometimes.

Hi sis n sis. You trashed our house, so you're not getting gifts. In fact, we're spending money on repairs and such, so everyone's getting cards "cept the kids. Merry Christmas y'all!!!! 😂🎉

I did the exact same thing and had the same results. A year of never getting payment on time to my sister in laws. We had them leave and said never again rent to family.

This was a good one. They is what they is...I like how Dave put it.

My favorite part was when he said: They just is who they is 😂

I’m very happy I live in Spain. Here landlords do not have the right to walk into our homes and do inspections. The fact that they would allow it is mind blowing to me…

I have a feeling his wife wouldn’t have been supportive on kicking her family out the first, second or even third time they were late. Just don’t do business with family

Dave is right as always. Truth hurts.

I lost my job had to go away to find work let out house ended up losing everything. Dont rent out

They are sisters, she already knew they were like that.

This was an epic one😂😂😂😂!

John: Has your sister not called her sisters? Dave: "the ones that would never do this" 😄😄😄💀 Dave is on fire! That's why I say the show is not the same without Dave.

My Christmas gift to them would be wishing them a Merry Christmas and not talking about them with the family. Much more charity than they deserve and the sisters should be eternally grateful to them.

Moral of the story is.. never do anything for family that involves money they’re ingrates

Had to rewind and make sure Dave said "buck". 😊

@CarlaQuattlebaum

Ай бұрын

Even with my less than stellar hearing I heard that right the first time.

Correction: this is his wife’s fault.

My brother wanted to rent my house cause I got married and moved and i said NO and didn’t feel bad about it.

😅family and business don't mix

This is his wife’s family. His wife pushed for this. This is his wife’s mess to fix PERIOD

Don’t be a fool! 😂❤😂

Love Ramsey

Very wise advice about you taking responsibility when you know who people are

I own 2 properties and would never rent family whatsoever!! I have property management teams and everyone is screened extremely good.

Good content

Accept family and friends for what they “ARE!” It will save you so much stress! ❤

i always said,,i wouldnt rent anything to my daughter!!!

Never mix family and business!!!