Jocko is the internets dad

@edwinrivera6549

8 ай бұрын

He is Everybody’s Dad. (Will sasso)

@FPSMEGADETH117

8 ай бұрын

Lol nice

@WilcoxNotreallythere

8 ай бұрын

I'm learning

@traceeburris511

8 ай бұрын

Hahahaha.

@nantumbwelinda5446

8 ай бұрын

True ...much respect

When dealing with addiction, awareness plays one of the biggest roles towards your path to freedom. Many people want to 'quit' an addiction, but they are not yet aware as to WHY they actually want to quit. People don't quit doing something because they want to. They only quit once their mind is ready.

@biancaharman2518

7 ай бұрын

Yep! I totally agree and being aware of why we get addicted to something.

@the.bonsai.samurai

7 ай бұрын

That's well said! We are often also not aware of WHY we are addicted in the first place.

I can't even express how true this is...

@mewkatlol

8 ай бұрын

Type a yootoob cooment about it bud

@BG-nl3hy

8 ай бұрын

That's why he did

As someone diagnosed with autism I had to learn to not be my own type or friend. I can’t use my own sensitivities as a guideline for other people. If I have to constrain myself and my behaviour to my own sensory processing I won’t get anything in life. I’ll just stay too quiet. But that also requires me to “brain” myself trough social situations instead of being intuitive and that’s severely exhausting.

@carolynenochs9139

8 ай бұрын

If possible, can you explain what you mean by your “braining” yourself and that’s extremely exaggerating to effectively communicate to others?

@soliloquy9702

8 ай бұрын

Be authentically who you are and you will find people who love you for you. Growing up with racism, I was told that who I was born as is wrong and there is a right way to be. I was taught to be who others wanted, and to disregard who I am. I had to relearn who I was, and, in the process, learned that other people did not know who they were. Therefore, I was told who to be by people who did not even know themselves, because it made them feel better about themselves.

@TheRexTera

8 ай бұрын

@@carolynenochs9139 “Exaggerating” was a typo. I meant “exhausting” Autocorrect screwed me over without me noticing🤦‍♂️ it’s fixed… I think people who are neuro-typical and extroverted don’t need to “be in their head” that much because their natural impulses are attuned to people. For us autistic people we have to fight our natural impulses and act in social situations. It also requires me to be louder and more outgoing than I would like to be around myself. That’s what I meant to “not be my own type or friend”.

@Uhfffyeah

8 ай бұрын

I get what you mean and it took me a long time to understand but as long as you want to have an equal experiences between people, you'll fail because everybody has different expectations from friendships. You can't copy the intuition of other people, you have to figure out your own social intuition

@1jakedizzle

8 ай бұрын

100% agree. Social situations are exhausting so I try to avoid them.

A lack of self awareness can make others interact with you in the way that you want, but completely unaware that that conditioning is not allowing the truth of them to come forward. Like a father that tells his kids or wife that their feelings are invalid, but then is surprised when he finds they’re depressed and anxious due to suppression and lack of support. His lack of self awareness would tell him it’s their problem for not expressing themselves the way he easily can and is completely unaware that his reaction to their truth makes them not say anything, and is ruining their trust. Narcissists do this a lot.

Honestly being a little unaware is probably better for your mental health than being overly aware. You become inhibited and too inward looking.

@jeremybrimmer1990

8 ай бұрын

Jocko should check his water cause the videos have really changed the past few years lol and tho he doesn't talk politics he often comes across as left leaning in how he goes about using manipulation in his daily life

@dbearden3232

8 ай бұрын

@@jeremybrimmer1990 dude I've never gotten even a hint of left leaning politics from him... He has outright said a few interviews too that he's definitely on the right.

@jeremybrimmer1990

8 ай бұрын

@@dbearden3232 I said specifically the way he uses manipulation in his daily life. It's one thing to mess with a military team, it's another to do it to shoppers, commuters, and tax payers. I listened to jocko more after his Ted talk and thought he was very forward. There is also "Good" video by Akira the Don which resonates with me. Maybe I'm just getting old, when I see jocko taking advantage of people and grinning about it?

@lkae4

8 ай бұрын

Or just admit you're not a good person, repent and work hard to be an honest and better person.

@LookingAway359

8 ай бұрын

​@@jeremybrimmer1990How exactly is Jocko manipulating people?

It took an incredible amount of self confidence to self publish that thumbnail. Well done.

There's a concept in social psychology called deindividuation. It refers to the loss of self awareness especially when you're part of a group that promotes conforming to their norms, and it can lead to people behaving in ways they never would consider individually, and often increased disregard for how they would be individually evaluated. When people identify themselves as part of a group or even as anonymous, you tend to lose your self-awareness and become more of a social robot than an individual with values.

Jocko needs to lead our country!

this is crucial. Finding out if your intent is good for everyone. Not as easy as it sounds; but possible.

To add to the conversation as well.. you don’t need to ask for credit from ANYONE EVER!! Just put your head down and to the RIGHT thing and have the RIGHT intent .. people are always looking and always talking .. even if you don’t notice .. THEY notice .. it will come out eventually. And it will be WELL worth the wait

@sinisterminister9920

8 ай бұрын

Can confirm

Love this vid. Jocko , thanks for being an amazing life coach

I really needed this one Jocko. Thanks brother.

Some people completely throw me off and I almost immediately lose my cool and self-awareness.

I really appreciate this advice. Examine yourself and be authentic. Team first👍🏻

I really liked this because I'm constantly questioning my level of self-awareness. It's a thinker for sure

I love that you're still putting out good messages and content. To add to the promotion part: doing good work with good intentions usually doesn't get you promoted. In corporate America, it's not a meritocracy, it's nepotism and power moves. Make people look good, and you'll be in their hushed conversations.

@theoxymoron8793

6 ай бұрын

I think that has to be taken into account as well.

Thank you Jocko 🖤⚡️🖤

"Be a good human" - Jocko This is stoic.

Dichotomy: Too much self awareness (introspection) when people act like jerks to us and we ask ourselves "Was I being a jerk to them? Did they misinterpret my actions? Did I offend them somehow? Did I do something wrong?"

@v_north

8 ай бұрын

Thats self analyzing, not awareness😉

@b_vtt8726

8 ай бұрын

I think it is the doubt regarding what’s right that is the problem. If you objectify your vision of yourself and others by using a standard (for example religion), you don’t automatically get doubt.

Demanding empathy erodes the essence of empathy itself

I think one of the few ways you can get credit, for some thing would be letting someone know about the life experiences and the things you learned from them. May not necessarily sound like bragging, Once they know all the hard work you had to put in to accomplish it. However, it should kind of apply to the situation at hand not just random topics spewed out. Being the person to help someone learn something faster than you had to,is the credit that you should be getting from it from yourself.

Roger that.

Sounds like sound live advice to me. Thanks uncle Jocko.

The first time just listening you guys. It’s so informative and the same time easy to understand even if English is my second language.

There is a balance to everything. Low self awareness leads to reckless behavior of all manners, but super high levels of self awareness can lead to overanalyzing every situation which is anxiety inducing and can be debilitating.

Make the intention clear. Solid.

Great advise for keeping yourself straight and confident. But being good all the time will get you stepped on, because that is easily seen too

Thanks dude

Waves were looking good at San Onofre/Trussels Jocko, south swell is picking up! 🌊 Hope to see you in the water someday. God bless gentlemen.

Isn't that the truth. Either offensive a man or woman , take Accountability for your actions.

I can think of at least one moment where boasting endowed greater credit. Alexander the Great and the little piece he dropped called the greatest speech in history.

Such a good topic.

Great clip. Learned a lot. Very wise. Thanks boys

Wow alright I smell your intent real strong. Very nice to cut the video off like that saying if you want to watch the rest then you have to pay $8 ... Thanks for the message

Listen to me Jocky, the BIGGEST PROBLEM IS lack of self esteem.

Yea, my intentions have not always been good. Like the other guy said, sometimes it feels like I always do, but a part of me does want credit sometimes.

Im sure that most people cannot feel or know my intentions. Sometimes I dont know my intentions because I cant be intentional about every little thing in my life. I wish people could read each other's minds - that would be awesome, but it is not possible. If someone thinks he knows someone's intentions , he runs into risk of misunderstanding people

Bro that thumbnail be making you look like jabba the hutt lmao. 😂

Pure gold

Its my brain, but after battling a deep addiction. Intention is where all of our problems come, especially when people deny their own selves

Well done here Sir

I thought this was a stand up routine for a second (because of the thumbnail) and got excited

It goes both ways guys. I have been diagnosed with hyper awareness and its fucking brutal. Extremely depressing living your life without any working copes. You know those little lies you tell yourself to help your self confidence? Yah, i dont do that. My inhibitions are so extraordinarily high that i dont do anything remotely fun or interesting. I weigh the risks and rewards in every single action i take in life. People hate hanging out with me because of this. They say im too logical and have the personality of a cardboard box. I wish i could have a little less self awareness tbh. I think it would help with my depression and anxiety. I wish my IQ was 20 points lower so i didnt have to live my life like this.

@jeremybrimmer1990

8 ай бұрын

🤡

13:41 “I’m just talking about the non-murdering psychopaths.” -Jocko

My Sgt Major used to ask us 'are you switched on'. Or when we obviously were not the NCO's under him would all say 'switch on!'.

Poor Echo needs to become a better person😂 So do all of us buddy!!!

You know when the podcast is made for you when they call you out and use YOUR NAME specifically. Thankyou it’s the message I needed to hear.

@Jerrysis

8 ай бұрын

You welcome Fred

That thumbnail is the GOAT!

Here's what I *LOVE/RESPECT* most about this Distinction: When Uncle Jock mentioned what *other* people are thinking, imo/e, he already (ipso~Facto) covered Echo's (salient &, 'ah~huh... cough cough... *intent* rich point). Sometimes (or even, more often than not), intent doesn't matter; someone else's mood/state does. We recall a/the quote, from/allegedly attributed to-thank God, for Google, the Eloquent; Maya Angelou: "I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will *never* forget, how you made them *feel."* So, if I understand this correctly, it is my lack of Authentic Self Awareness (of Intent... i.e. *"My* Achievement" or *"Their/Everyone's* improved mood/state?" 🤔), which is the root of all the Chaos in my present life. 🤔 And my intent, is to be sure I *fully* understand this. Cuz right now? We lo key hela *FUBARD* out here. Thanks (in advance 🙏🏼💪🏼😎).

@jeremycunningham9005

8 ай бұрын

Just letting you know this was hard to read

@Heart.headed

8 ай бұрын

@Jeremy That, can happen. I'm proud of you for pushing through!

Great dialogue

Many if not most operate from a place of ego. When ego is in charge self awareness is impossible.

Exactly what I think when cops write tickets for tinted windows then go home in their limo tinted personal vehicles. #abolishqualifiedimmunity Abolish qualified immunity.

Sometimes you just come to terms with…. You can’t wash this shit off! Lol

Before you develop self awareness you need to develop courage patience and acceptance people choose to be self aware and to be not self aware it’s not necessarily you are not self aware but you are purposely ignoring signals for whatever reason

Alot of this woukd have applied in a tine ehen adults were running things and passing the torch. Nowadays i see leaders, management, etc who have no self awareness.

We have name dropper guy! 😂 Also only present in meetings when someone “higher up the food chain” is around. We see you name dropper guy!

I realized I clicked on this video simply because the title was self awareness and I wanted to make sure I wasn’t missing any blind spots in being self aware which means that I’m self aware

I know what intent I bring, I overtly present this image that I can’t be hurt and that most things don’t affect me. Ppl that see me sometimes speak as if “oh this guy doesn’t know pain or wtv” but in my personal life (my head) most days I do think about su, most days I don’t want to be here. But I’ll never show that, I’ll never allow myself to speak about that in real life. Been through crazy shit and I do my best to not speak about it because there’s no point, no one can fix it but me so why bother allowing someone in.

@LEGGY3

8 ай бұрын

Couldn't agree more. I've kept everything to myself until 2022, when I met my girlfriend and had read online that 'talking about your problems makes them easier'. My girlfriend is the absolute best person I have met in my entire life, yet expressing my struggles has done nothing but make them worse. Keeping my issues to myself is key for me.

Every hour my phone dings to remind me to breathe deeply and become conscious. Breaking autonomy 12 times a day. Try it.

My Intent is I don't want to let people control or say what I cant an can do if I know in Gods eyes I've been trying my hardest to work towards these opportunities.. Someone can come along and say you haven't don't anything your self discipline your pain your wants don't mean a thing.. Be scared stay scared listen to me or else.. I don't want that to control my life especially if I feel I'm not harming anyone or starting problems just trying to better myself and get to a place where I feel I've achieved true success and happiness through my efforts and simply having faith..

Jocko for President

Went to the ole HEB’s to buy some molk, however the shelf was “cleared”. GET SOME.

My intent is to have no intent so I can win with no intent needed 😆

Check.

Good.

They treat people as their so much better. And people like me have too care and bow down WTF? If a person can't get away from their view. Unless you don't like what your looking at . Then it's a win win.

Positive reinforcement is also a driver, especially from a loved one, so I’m not on board with the example of cleaning the house for loved ones. Especially when a couple is raising kids, it’s a show of respect and gratitude and when dissed for effort to contribute towards the cleanliness of a household, that’s not cool…

@melancholiusmonkey-mann5749

8 ай бұрын

I subscribe to the Underground Podcast. It is the only way I can actually demonstrate my support you both... For now. I can honestly say that I know where your heart is. I understand and support you.

@EricHalverson83

8 ай бұрын

Couldn't agree more. This comes from my heart.

Jocko is going to make me an army captain or something in west point like General Sherman.

what to do when others put you down and try to usurp your job over you...or look down you and are dismissive of your work....and helping the team....today this woman yelled out to a young guy who seems overly eager to compete with me, said to him dont mess this up! I am sensing animosity and competivieness...he is younger and handsome and seems to be using that as leverage for people to like him .....he is competing with me! His name is Wesley Gooddale and he seems really really intent on being the star of his own show.....and they look down on me as white trash, yet I have a college education....So it seems that there are caddy people who i work with and they are also from wealthy homes and act entitled ...I am looked down as white trash...I need prayer . I like my job and my intent is always to be supportive yet i am suspect ....

Vasana is actually the term in yogic culture for quality which directly translates to smell in Sanskrit

Good timing Jacko. We are talking promotions today 😏

Pretty sure I can care less about what they think if they are hating on me trying to better myself.. Cause those are the ppl that are out trying to threaten my well being.. I don't want to hang out with those ppl anyway..

Very good video

I farted right before Jocko said "intent has a smell," and then he started wincing. Damn, he's calling me out!

Wife with intent on your head. Way to get slapped 😂😂😂Lol

2:10 😂 died

The words Ignorant, cognitive dissonance, and ignorance come to mind.

I just found out I talk in reverse. I start a conversation at my final thought. No context. No lead up. Just the end. Then when I realize folks are confused, I explain, which makes things awkward.

Now I have to shower. Thanks a lot.😂😂😂

I'm struggling to find this specific episode in full. When I search episode 80, that episode number is the Mussolini one

That thumbnail lol

You wanna debate with me_ jacko Oh no no no no _ echo Had me laughing so hard

Innocent situation: People in my neighborhood teaching their children to shoot at peoples pets, leaving beheaded kittens on the front porch of grandparents house, and another long list of 30 other things I won't name, but then I am the bad guy for thinking someone poisoned my unattended beer at the neighborhood bar with no cameras after I get home and have 3 teeth and my stomach hurting all at the same time. After what point am I allowed to be suspicious of certain people? Lmao. Some people just don't give a damn no matter what happens to you, as long as it isn't happening to them. (To help you believe me, I live in a gated community filled with stuck up passive aggressive manipulative cowards) Like can you imagine, people disrespect you but you are the bad guy when you barely even respond with a RIGHTFUL "No."

Sadly the people this applies to most lie to themselves about their own intent.

What episode is this

I love the videos tho.. Although I do think I have friend and we haven't talked for a while so I think I have to stop acting like were still as good as friends..

Yup messed me up with this one had to take a lot of accountability love you jocko much needed 🙏🏾

"YOU WANNA DEBATE WITH ME?"

My daughter's dad has no self awareness whatsoever. Makes him a liar and a hypocrite 🙄🤦🏿‍♂️

@vv7299

8 ай бұрын

Did you mean to say "makes me a liar and a hypocrite"?

@nothanks1169

8 ай бұрын

Why, because they’re experiencing it that means they’re doing it? That’s strange.

Who can caption the expression on Jocko's face?

Self awareness v Self absorbed v Self obsessed would be good to compare

🔥

Resentful leads to anger, anger leads to hate. Hate, leads to suffering...

Love hearing jocko talk about GOD. 🙏🙏. TRUTH comes from somewhere .. that somewhere is the BIBLE. GET SOME 🫡🙏

Did you see I cleaned the living rooms that called borderline personality!

"If"

Good advice that people don't want to hear GOod Job.

Self awareness? I’m as under duress as duress gets.

i dont believe its so much violation its like more related caution , caring still for others